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RE:Stage 4 Bowel Endo & Hysterectomy: Trading inflammatory fatigue for surgical menopause?
... happened I had to change diet to be able to eat... have removed sime of my inflammation with increased anti Histamines. I spent yrs on...
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Jun 21, 2026 |
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[Story] At 50 years old, I finally reclaimed the body I lost at 24. Here is how I overcame severe lower back issues, grief, and my own training mistakes.
When I was 24, I thought I was on top of the world. I was lean, shredded, and felt invincible. But shortly after being in peak, physical shape, severe lower back pain completely derailed my life. The pain was so intense that I had to stop working out altogether. Over the next few years, I watched all my hard-earned muscle vanish. By the time I turned 28, I looked like a skinny guy with a belly that protruded so far out that I wouldn't argue with you if you said I looked pregnant. I was embarrassed to take my shirt off, let alone go to the pool or to the beach. Every single time I tried to pick up some weights to get back into shape, my lower back would flare up and shut me down. It was truly discouraging. Life threw its heaviest blow when I was 36. My mother passed away while she was away on vacation, and the grief completely shattered me. I turned to food for comfort, using it to cope with the pain of losing her. My weight ballooned, eventually peaking at 204 pounds at age 42. I panicked. I desperately wanted my body back, so I forced myself to lose 44 pounds, dropping down to 160. But I did it completely wrong. I fell into the trap of strict juicing (with a juice machine, not roids) and a low-protein plant-based diet. While the scale went down, I aggressively burned off my remaining muscle mass instead of fat. I wrecked my metabolism, still looked soft, and spent the next several years lifting weights with absolutely zero visual results. The missing puzzle piece finally arrived when I was 46. My back had gone out again and the chiropractor urged me to get an MRI because I was walking like an old man. The MRI report was a massive wake-up call (p. 1). It revealed multi-level spinal issues from L2 down to S1 (pp. 1-2): L2 to S1: Grade-1 retrolisthesis (backward slippage of vertebrae) (pp. 1-2). L2-3 & L3-4: Diffuse disc bulges compressing the thecal sac, plus facet joint effusion (pp. 1-2). L3-4: A left foraminal disc herniation with an annular fissure and active inflammation (pp. 1-2). L4-5 & L5-S1: Broad-based posterocentral disc herniations compressing the thecal sac (pp. 1-2). Edit: In my original post, I misremembered and put L1-L6 damage. All this weight loss progress and healthy eating and my memory still sucks! smh. By February of this year, my weight had crept back up to 198 pounds. I was done making excuses. I decided to launch one final, intelligent, and calculated push to do things the right way. No crash dieting, no extreme juicing, just a dedication to lifting smart and prioritizing protein to save my muscle. I completely eliminated spinal-compressing movements like traditional military presses, heavy standing shrugs, deadlifts, and squats. Today, I am 50 years old. I stepped on the scale this morning at 164 pounds, down from my 198-pound winter baseline. My navel is down to 30.5 inches, my neck sits at a solid 15 inches, and the US Navy formula clocks me at a lean 10-11% body fat. The crazy thing is, looking at the mirror today, I am actually carrying more dense, athletic muscle mass in my chest, shoulders, and arms now than I did when I was a shredded 24-year-old. I’m sharing this because I know how hopeless it feels to stare at old photos of your "glory days" while dealing with injuries and age. If you are dealing with chronic pain, grief, or metabolic setbacks, please don't give up. You don't need a perfect spine to build a phenomenal physique—you just need patience, protein, and the willingness to work around your limitations. I landed on a high protein, low carb meal plan paired with 2 full body workouts per week. If I can do this at 50, you can do it too. Since I've gotten quite a few questions about what exercises I do, I decided to include this: The Smart Training Strategy: Time Under Tension (TUT) To build a phenomenal physique with a damaged spine, you have to stop lifting heavy and start lifting smart. I apply the Time Under Tension (TUT) principle to almost every movement. It completely removes the ego, maximizes muscle growth, and drops your injury risk to virtually zero. Here is the exact formula: The Weight: Drop down to roughly 60% of your max weight. The Tempo: Focus on ultra-slow, highly controlled reps, emphasizing a very slow eccentric (lowering) phase. The Target: Force every single set to last between 40 to 60 seconds. The Rest: Take 60 to 90 seconds between standard sets. For heavy full-body movements, rest up to 3 to 4 minutes—or whatever it takes to fully catch your breath before moving on. The faster you recover, the less time you'll need to rest between sets. I rest between 1:40-2 minutes between the sled push and carries now but I needed 3-4 minutes initially. The 2-Day Full-Body Routine I run this massive full-body circuit exactly twice a week. Because of the extreme intensity of the TUT method, it had initially taken my body a solid 3 to 4 days just to get over the deep muscular soreness. This layout entirely eliminates high-risk, spine-compressing movements like barbell squats, traditional military presses, heavy standing shrugs, and standard deadlifts. Upper Body Pressing (Chest & Shoulders) Flat Bench Press Variations: Dumbbell flat press and cable presses (Swapped out traditional barbell bench to fix recent shoulder pain). Incline Press Variations: Dumbbell incline press and incline cable flyes. Shoulder Builders: Lateral raises and dumbbell shoulder shrugs. Upper Body Pulling (Back & Rear Delts) Vertical Pulls: Lat pulldowns, close-grip underhand pulldowns, and bodyweight pull-ups (there's no shame in performing assisted pull-ups either and for TUT, I prefer this to full bodyweight pull-ups). Crucial form check: Keep your scapula completely retracted throughout the pull-up to keep the focus on the lats and protect the joints. Imagine forcing your elbows in your back pockets. Horizontal Pulls: Inverted bodyweight rows (A recent addition using TUT that works incredibly well). Rear Delts: Cable face-pulls. Functional Core & Conditioning Loaded Carries: Farmer's carries and sled pushes. Anti-Lateral Core Work: Suitcase carries (Holding a heavy weight on only one side to force the core to stabilize the spine without twisting). Bodyweight Finishers Negative Close-Grip Pushups: Keep your elbows tucked strictly inside, and lean your weight forward on the way down. This specific angle hits the front deltoids beautifully while torching the triceps. I actually do this right before the farmer's carries and sled pushes. Dips: Performed strictly under the TUT protocol—slow, controlled lowering to keep tension entirely on the chest and triceps. (I actually don't perform these at the gym anymore. The grip was too wide and not good for my shoulders. I learned that the optimal distance between the bars for dips is from your elbow to the tip of your finger. Anymore than that and you could damage your shoulders) Abdominals: Hanging leg raises. Crucial modifier: These must be performed on an apparatus that provides solid back support (like a captain's chair) to stabilize the lumbar spine and prevent dangerous swinging or spinal flexion. Implementation Tips Total Time: Expect this entire circuit to take about 1 hour and 30 minutes to 1 hour and 45 minutes. Listen to Your Body: If a movement starts causing joint pain (like barbells did to my shoulders), switch to dumbbells or cables immediately. Proper angles are everything. The Ultimate Truth: Nutrition is King At the end of the day, it all comes down to nutrition. If you are not eating right, you will get shredded, but you just won't be able to see it because it is buried underneath the excess weight you need to shed. IMHO, the breakdown for total physical transformation looks like this: 75% Nutrition 15% Training 10% Rest and Recovery All three components are extremely important and work together, but I a have to give it up for nutrition. It won't matter how hard you are training (you can even easily overtrain), if you aren't eating right, you won't see results. I know this from firsthand experience. If you are working out 5 days a week, you are not really giving your body enough time to rest and recover. On rest and recovery days, I take 10 minutes walks after meals to curb insulin spikes. I do yard work (mowing, trimming, edging). I treat my yard so it looks green all year. I do my own pest control. I do light exercise at home. Bird dog, dead bug, hollow body hold, standing pallof press, bulgarian lunges, goblet squat, wall squats, planks and variations of it. Dips, deadhangs (daily), facepulls. submitted by /u/Complex-Extent-3967 to r/GetMotivated [link] [comments]
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Complex-Extent-3967 |
Jul 6, 2026 |
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My wife cleared her eczema using an anti-inflammatory diet
Wrote this as a comment - but thought I'd share it as a post as well. My wife has completely cleared her eczema by changing her diet - she's now symptom free (as long as she doesn't eat gluten). No guarantee that it'd work for any of you, of course - just thought I'd share. She's had it primarily on her hands since childhood (to the degree that it'd start to bleed). Around 8 years ago, she started to develop asthma, at which point she had enough and went online to try whatever she could find. Long story short - the thing that worked for her was an anti-inflammatory diet. The root cause is allegedly a "leaky gut," which allows larger molecules (like food antigens, bacterial fragments, etc.) to cross into the bloodstream - causing an immune response. So the idea is: heal the gut -> calm or fix the immune response. After her symptoms reduced, which took about six months, she started to reintroduce "normal" foods again. Since it seems to be personal what's causing the gut inflammation, one just has to try and see. When she was healing, for example, she couldn't eat rice - but afterwards it's been fine. Turns out it's gluten in her case. It's surprising how fast her body reacts when she accidentally eats it (actually, suggesting it's not only a leaking gut that's behind it now that I think about it - not sure the speed fits with gut absorption...). Anyway, an example: we ate sushi once (which is rare for us) and she had a reaction within minutes - she had eaten the soy sauce without thinking about it. Anyway - thought I'd share. Feel free to DM if anyone wants more information (I'm pretty sure I still have the lists of what to eat and not to eat, for example, if anyone's interested in trying). Edit: for those who are interested, her diagnosis is/was atopic dermatitis. submitted by /u/thetoblin to r/eczema [link] [comments]
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thetoblin |
Jul 3, 2026 |
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Looking for basic education on GLP-1s after avoiding them due to being anti-diet
I’m so glad I’ve found this group, and I’ve already learned a bit scrolling through the posts. Long story short, I’ve been committed to being anti-diet and intuitive eating for several years (after a lifetime of toxic weight loss culture). I’ve been pretty content with my body composition (which has stayed steady), happily focused on improving my fitness, but I am on the “obese” side of things. I figured that as long as my blood pressure and other numbers looked good, I didn’t want to mess with GLP-1s because I didn’t want to even dip a toe back into the weight loss world. But… my blood pressure is creeping up. And I keep hearing that these meds can help with focus and inflammation, and I would really love to improve both of those issues? I’m a runner, and my knees would probably like a little bit of an easier load. How do I even begin to research the various medication options without digging through all the diet culture muck? I’m not asking anyone here to educate me! Just please, if you have some good educational resources, help me know where to go? I prefer reading actual text, but I’m open to podcasts. submitted by /u/dani_-_142 to r/antidietglp1 [link] [comments]
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dani_-_142 |
Jun 19, 2026 |
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Stanford CFS Clinic Experience
I had my first visit today with Dr. Bonilla, the head of the ME/CFS/PASC clinic at Stanford. It went well—he was very kind and spent an entire hour with me. He emphasized pacing as a strategy to minimize damage to the body from reactive oxygen species produced when the mitochondria are overwhelmed by activity they can’t support. Any time I notice a spike in my symptoms, that means stop what I’m doing and rest—nothing new here, but it was worth mentioning. He said diet is an important tool we can use to lower systemic inflammation: low sugar, low carb, Mediterranean style diet. I’ve been on LDN 4.5mg. He said they’re not seeing a ton of benefit from that low of a dose, so he wants me to go up to 10mg and then 15mg and we’ll keep increasing up to 50mg until progress plateaus. Once that happens, we’ll add on low dose Abilify. The goal of both of these meds is to decrease inflammation. I told him both of those meds are bandaids and don’t fix the root cause, which he seems to believe is a combination of: Autoimmune response to COVID, which for me triggered intrinsic factor autoantibodies (pernicious anemia) and folate receptor autoantibodies. He also ordered a few more panels to check on autoimmune activity: Anti-Thyroid Antibodies, Anti-Neutrophil Cytoplasmic Antibodies, ANA, HEp-2, IgG IFA, Anti-Ro Antibody, CRP, Rheumatoid Factor, Anti-Phospholipid Antibody Panel. I can report back on if any of these are positive and how they’ll be treated if so. He did confirm I need to continue my b12 shots, since I’m positive for IFa. This will be lifelong. He also noted that b12 is anti-inflammatory, and that likely explains why it’s broadly helpful to CFS patients. He also said he hadn’t ever considered testing patients with high serum b12 for IFa, but he will now since that’s what happened with me. Lingering COVID virus in the body. He said they’re doing autopsy studies and finding the COVID virus in almost every organ in the body of LC patients. He thinks maybe much longer courses of antivirals may be helpful, but they’re still studying this and so it’s not a current treatment option, but it may be one day. I asked him if he considers Long COVID to be ME/CFS. He said yes, LC (with fatigue) is just ME/CFS triggered by COVID. I asked if he knew what viruses can cause CFS, and he listed a whole host of them including Zika, the flu, dengue, etc etc etc. Makes you wonder if lingering viral infections are the root cause for many people and if they’ll eventually develop more effective antivirals. Feel free to ask any questions you may have about the appointment or treatment plan! I just wanted to share in case it’s helpful to anyone. submitted by /u/daphneyhatz to r/cfs [link] [comments]
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daphneyhatz |
Jun 16, 2026 |
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Anti inflammatory vegan diet to treat depression and best way to add turmeric in
Hi Has anyone found that following an anti inflammatory vegan diet has helped their depression? Have you noticed that adding in turmeric to your diet has helped with your mood/energy? I’ve been vegan for 19yrs, and have had depressive episodes regularly for 31 years :( My new therapist recommended I read ‘The Inflamed Mind’ which looks in to the connection between inflammation and depression, and it’s really really interesting, so I thought I would look in to what the best anti inflammatory vegan foods are. There are LOADS which is excellent. So I just thought I’d put it out there to see if anyone has any experience with this..and also ask what the best way to add turmeric is, in to your diet, as I’ve heard it’s got a pretty strong taste. I thought maybe I could juice a small amount with some oranges and see how much of the taste I can tolerate. Thanks 😊 submitted by /u/Critical-Owl-5893 to r/vegan [link] [comments]
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Critical-Owl-5893 |
May 29, 2026 |
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How to actually become more attractive, according to science
Studied attraction research obsessively for 6 months. Read dozens of peer-reviewed studies, analyzed data from evolutionary psychology, interviewed behavioral scientists. Here's what actually works, based on legitimate science rather than opinions. Most attraction advice is misguided. It's either vague platitudes ("be confident") or superficial tips ("wear red"). The scientific reality exists in an evidence-based middle ground that many people avoid because it challenges both cultural narratives and requires consistent effort. Start with the biological foundations Your physical health signals reproductive fitness more than most want to acknowledge. Not because appearance is everything, but because it's an honest signal of your overall wellbeing that can't be faked. Sleep quality matters enormously. Multiple studies from the University of Stockholm (2017) demonstrated that even one night of poor sleep makes you appear less attractive, less healthy, and less approachable to others. This isn't subjective - the research used standardized rating systems and controlled photography. Dr. Matthew Walker's "Why We Sleep" summarizes the overwhelming evidence linking sleep quality to physical appearance, cognitive function, and mood regulation. Reduce chronic inflammation. Research from Dr. Claire Noakes at Cambridge (2021) found that inflammatory markers directly impact skin appearance, body odor, and energy levels - all critical components of attraction. Anti-inflammatory diets improve facial symmetry measurements within weeks. The Journal of Experimental Biology published a landmark study showing how inflammation affects pheromone production and perception across species. Fix your nonverbal communication Most people have no idea how much information they're constantly broadcasting through body language. Research from UCLA found that up to 93% of communication is nonverbal, yet we focus almost exclusively on what we say. Maintain open posture. Multiple studies in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology confirmed that expansive postures increase both perceived attractiveness and actual hormone levels associated with confidence. Simply occupying more space by keeping shoulders back and avoiding crossed arms significantly increases attraction ratings from observers. Eye contact creates measurable changes in brain chemistry. Neuroscience research from Baylor College of Medicine (2019) using fMRI scans showed that mutual gaze activates dopamine pathways identical to those stimulated during romantic attraction. The effect is so powerful that extended eye contact between strangers can create artificial feelings of intimacy and connection. Dr. Amy Cuddy's controversial but replicated research demonstrates how "power posing" for just two minutes alters testosterone and cortisol levels, affecting how others perceive your social status and attractiveness. While some methodology has been questioned, subsequent studies support the core finding that posture affects both self-perception and others' perception. Develop genuine competence The competence hypothesis in evolutionary psychology has substantial empirical support. Studies from multiple research institutions confirm that demonstrated skill in almost any domain increases perceived attractiveness, particularly for long-term mating strategies. Master something challenging. Research from Northwestern University (2018) found that perceived competence in a skill-based activity increased attractiveness ratings by 42% compared to control conditions. This effect was particularly strong when the skill required dedication and practice rather than innate talent. The "audience effect" is scientifically documented - performing a skill while being observed increases attractiveness ratings significantly more than simply claiming competence. The Journal of Experimental Psychology published findings that observing someone in a flow state of skilled performance triggers mirror neuron activity associated with attraction. According to anthropologist Helen Fisher's research with fMRI brain scanning, observing displayed competence activates the same brain regions as physical attraction. Her studies at Rutgers University demonstrated that watching someone excel at their passion creates a neural signature nearly identical to experiencing romantic interest. Master conversation through science Conversation quality has been quantified in multiple studies. The predictors of engaging conversation are not subjective - they've been measured through linguistic analysis and brain activity monitoring. Ask follow-up questions. Harvard research published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology found that asking follow-up questions increases likeability by 31%. The effect isn't from flattery but from demonstrated interest and attention. Brain scans show increased activity in reward centers when someone shows genuine curiosity about us. The ratio of talking to listening has been studied extensively. Research from MIT's Media Lab found the optimal ratio for perceived charisma and attractiveness is approximately 40:60 (talking: listening), with periodic bursts of enthusiasm. This creates a perception of engagement without dominance. Professor John Gottman's decades of relationship research identified "bids for connection" as critical interaction points. Responding to these subtle cues (which occur approximately 20 times per hour in conversation) determines relationship success with 87% predictive accuracy. His longitudinal studies demonstrate that recognizing and engaging with these moments significantly increases attraction. Build evidence-based confidence Confidence research contradicts popular advice. "Fake it till you make it" has been scientifically debunked. Authentic confidence comes from accumulated evidence of capability and resilience. Exposure therapy is empirically validated. Systematic desensitization to social situations through graduated exposure has a 92% efficacy rate according to meta-analyses. Each successful social interaction creates neural evidence of capability, building genuine rather than performative confidence. The "growth mindset" concept from Stanford psychologist Carol Dweck has been validated across multiple studies. People who view capabilities as developable rather than fixed show measurably different brain activity when facing challenges. This directly impacts resilience in social situations and attraction dynamics. Accept the unmodifiable variables Height, facial symmetry, and certain structural features cannot be significantly altered. Acknowledging this is not defeatist but scientifically accurate. However, research from the University of Texas demonstrates that these factors account for far less variance in attraction than commonly believed. A landmark 20-year longitudinal study from Michigan State University found that while initial attraction may be influenced by unmodifiable physical traits, relationship satisfaction and long-term attraction correlate much more strongly with modifiable behaviors and characteristics. The uncomfortable scientific truth is that attraction operates on multiple levels evolutionary, biochemical, psychological, and cultural. Understanding these mechanisms doesn't make the process less magical it makes your efforts more effective and less prone to misconception. Most people know portions of this research but avoid the comprehensive picture because it requires consistent, evidence-based effort rather than quick fixes or comfortable narratives about attraction being entirely subjective submitted by /u/Deborah_berry1 to r/motivation [link] [comments]
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Deborah_berry1 |
May 7, 2026 |
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6 mo update - Chronic Inflammation and High Insulin / Anti inflammatory diet
Hi! 6 month update on anti inflammatory diet. This post is most relevant for those with inflammatory PCOS. A few months ago, I told you about the anti-inflammatory diet my dermatologist had put me on. Why? My inflammatory markers were so high, and my skin/PCOS symptoms were just horrible. My diagnoses: PCOS, psoriasis, rosacea, stage 1 HS (note, ALL inflammatory conditions) My last labs labs: high c-reactive protein, fasting insulin, free insulin, free testosterone; prediabetic a1c; low SHBG and vitamin d. (High AMH, did not write about this last time) My labs now: high c-reactive protein, high free insulin, improved but still high testosterone, NORMAL a1c, still low SHBG BUT nearly doubled since last draw and is very nearly normal, normal vitamin d, my formerly very high AMH has dropped into the high end of normal. I have been SO IMPERFECT at following this diet. With a lot of travel, the holidays a few months ago, and staying off the wagon because I was already off of it, I really haven't been great. I've been a solid "C-", if I had to grade myself. Even so, there is a good amount of progress in my labs. Anyways. After 6 months of having several weeks be imperfect and others be better but still not great, here's the deal: --My sugar cravings are down, even though my insulin is still high. I am not ravenous for sugar every night. (This is my moving-forward priority to get down.) --While my cycles are very long (~60 days), three of the last four have been without provera to induce. Before this, I hadn't had a natural period in FIVE years. I know that I did ovulate last cycle. --My rosacea has improved. No psoriatic itchy skin. --My face is a different shape now. It was really round and puffy, mostly around the cheeks/chin, and now it's more of an oval. --I HAVE NOT calorie counted, and I am down on the scale just a tad more (~2lb). However, I've had comments that I look like I've lost more than that (re: face shape, overall reduced abdomen) To recap what the diet should be: no sugar, no dairy, no red meat, lots of fish, limited white meat. High omega 3, limiting omega 6. Whole foods and minimally processed foods only. Limited to olive, avocado, and limited coconut oil. Derm also put me on Vitamin D, B12 supplements. I do plan to try to lose some weight going forward, as I'd like to be back at my pre-covid weight. Also, TTC goals cont. I'll update next time something interesting happens... This is my encouragement to you to try this diet if you're in a similar boat. If nothing else, you ate well for a couple of weeks and are out nothing but the grocery budget you'd have spent anyways. submitted by /u/inland-bay to r/PCOS [link] [comments]
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inland-bay |
May 4, 2026 |
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How to actually become more attractive, according to science
Studied attraction research obsessively for 6 months. Read dozens of peer-reviewed studies, analyzed data from evolutionary psychology, interviewed behavioral scientists. Here's what actually works, based on legitimate science rather than opinions. Most attraction advice is misguided. It's either vague platitudes ("be confident") or superficial tips ("wear red"). The scientific reality exists in an evidence-based middle ground that many people avoid because it challenges both cultural narratives and requires consistent effort. Start with the biological foundations Your physical health signals reproductive fitness more than most want to acknowledge. Not because appearance is everything, but because it's an honest signal of your overall wellbeing that can't be faked. Sleep quality matters enormously. Multiple studies from the University of Stockholm (2017) demonstrated that even one night of poor sleep makes you appear less attractive, less healthy, and less approachable to others. This isn't subjective - the research used standardized rating systems and controlled photography. Dr. Matthew Walker's "Why We Sleep" summarizes the overwhelming evidence linking sleep quality to physical appearance, cognitive function, and mood regulation. Reduce chronic inflammation. Research from Dr. Claire Noakes at Cambridge (2021) found that inflammatory markers directly impact skin appearance, body odor, and energy levels - all critical components of attraction. Anti-inflammatory diets improve facial symmetry measurements within weeks. The Journal of Experimental Biology published a landmark study showing how inflammation affects pheromone production and perception across species. Fix your nonverbal communication Most people have no idea how much information they're constantly broadcasting through body language. Research from UCLA found that up to 93% of communication is nonverbal, yet we focus almost exclusively on what we say. Maintain open posture. Multiple studies in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology confirmed that expansive postures increase both perceived attractiveness and actual hormone levels associated with confidence. Simply occupying more space by keeping shoulders back and avoiding crossed arms significantly increases attraction ratings from observers. Eye contact creates measurable changes in brain chemistry. Neuroscience research from Baylor College of Medicine (2019) using fMRI scans showed that mutual gaze activates dopamine pathways identical to those stimulated during romantic attraction. The effect is so powerful that extended eye contact between strangers can create artificial feelings of intimacy and connection. Dr. Amy Cuddy's controversial but replicated research demonstrates how "power posing" for just two minutes alters testosterone and cortisol levels, affecting how others perceive your social status and attractiveness. While some methodology has been questioned, subsequent studies support the core finding that posture affects both self-perception and others' perception. Develop genuine competence The competence hypothesis in evolutionary psychology has substantial empirical support. Studies from multiple research institutions confirm that demonstrated skill in almost any domain increases perceived attractiveness, particularly for long-term mating strategies. Master something challenging. Research from Northwestern University (2018) found that perceived competence in a skill-based activity increased attractiveness ratings by 42% compared to control conditions. This effect was particularly strong when the skill required dedication and practice rather than innate talent. The "audience effect" is scientifically documented - performing a skill while being observed increases attractiveness ratings significantly more than simply claiming competence. The Journal of Experimental Psychology published findings that observing someone in a flow state of skilled performance triggers mirror neuron activity associated with attraction. According to anthropologist Helen Fisher's research with fMRI brain scanning, observing displayed competence activates the same brain regions as physical attraction. Her studies at Rutgers University demonstrated that watching someone excel at their passion creates a neural signature nearly identical to experiencing romantic interest. Master conversation through science Conversation quality has been quantified in multiple studies. The predictors of engaging conversation are not subjective - they've been measured through linguistic analysis and brain activity monitoring. Ask follow-up questions. Harvard research published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology found that asking follow-up questions increases likeability by 31%. The effect isn't from flattery but from demonstrated interest and attention. Brain scans show increased activity in reward centers when someone shows genuine curiosity about us. The ratio of talking to listening has been studied extensively. Research from MIT's Media Lab found the optimal ratio for perceived charisma and attractiveness is approximately 40:60 (talking: listening), with periodic bursts of enthusiasm. This creates a perception of engagement without dominance. Professor John Gottman's decades of relationship research identified "bids for connection" as critical interaction points. Responding to these subtle cues (which occur approximately 20 times per hour in conversation) determines relationship success with 87% predictive accuracy. His longitudinal studies demonstrate that recognizing and engaging with these moments significantly increases attraction. Build evidence-based confidence Confidence research contradicts popular advice. "Fake it till you make it" has been scientifically debunked. Authentic confidence comes from accumulated evidence of capability and resilience. Exposure therapy is empirically validated. Systematic desensitization to social situations through graduated exposure has a 92% efficacy rate according to meta-analyses. Each successful social interaction creates neural evidence of capability, building genuine rather than performative confidence. The "growth mindset" concept from Stanford psychologist Carol Dweck has been validated across multiple studies. People who view capabilities as developable rather than fixed show measurably different brain activity when facing challenges. This directly impacts resilience in social situations and attraction dynamics. Accept the unmodifiable variables Height, facial symmetry, and certain structural features cannot be significantly altered. Acknowledging this is not defeatist but scientifically accurate. However, research from the University of Texas demonstrates that these factors account for far less variance in attraction than commonly believed. A landmark 20-year longitudinal study from Michigan State University found that while initial attraction may be influenced by unmodifiable physical traits, relationship satisfaction and long-term attraction correlate much more strongly with modifiable behaviors and characteristics. The uncomfortable scientific truth is that attraction operates on multiple levels evolutionary, biochemical, psychological, and cultural. Understanding these mechanisms doesn't make the process less magical it makes your efforts more effective and less prone to misconception. Most people know portions of this research but avoid the comprehensive picture because it requires consistent, evidence-based effort rather than quick fixes or comfortable narratives about attraction being entirely subjective. submitted by /u/Deborah_berry1 to r/Habits [link] [comments]
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Deborah_berry1 |
Apr 30, 2026 |
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My positive experience trying an anti-inflammatory diet/reducing added sugar
Hello! There have been so many posts on here asking if dietary changes help, and I wanted to put in my perspective/experience. I’ve been in an awful flare for over 3 months straight now and unable to get out of it. My back and glutes hurt even at complete rest, my muscles are uncoordinated and twitchy, and I have barely been able to sleep. My muscles fatigue extremely quickly— as in, I have to take rest breaks while washing my hair. I’ve never experienced anything like it and it has been taking a big toll on my mental health. Due to the flare (and honestly even in the months leading up to the flare) my diet wasn’t great— I was opting for the easiest things I could make and food that would bring me pleasure when I felt so miserable. A couple of weeks ago I decided enough was enough and that I needed to get back to a healthy diet. I didn’t do anything fancy— lots of veggies and fruits, leafy greens, legumes/nuts/seeds, omega-3 heavy foods etc. But the biggest thing I did was greatly reduce my added sugar intake. I started trying to hit the AHA guidelines of fewer than 25 grams of added sugar per day, which let me tell you, may sound like a lot but TRUST ME it’s so easy to sail past that number if you’re not paying attention (bread has sugar, cereal has sugar, pasta sauce has sugar, peanut butter, etc.) And what happened was a BIG reduction in “background” pain (the pain you feel even when lying in bed) and faster muscle recovery from actual use of my muscles. And I mean I noticed this pretty quickly. Now, do I think I reduced systemic inflammation significantly in 2 weeks? No. But apparently cutting the sugar reduces autonomic nervous system load, and reducing insulin spikes helps control muscle excitability. And obviously, eating lots of protein, fiber, healthy fats, vitamins and minerals is not hurting at all. To be clear, I’m definitely not fully recovered from this flare. My muscles still start to fatigue incredibly quickly, but they’re also recovering much better. But this is the first glimmer of hope I’ve felt in 14 weeks and it’s such a relief. I hope that over time I continue to improve and that the diet helps my general symptoms, if only just a bit. Some grain-of-salt info: I’ve only eaten this way and felt the improvement for about 2 weeks— it’s definitely possible the background pain could come back, ESPECIALLY if I overdo it. submitted by /u/waking_dream96 to r/Hypermobility [link] [comments]
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waking_dream96 |
Apr 21, 2026 |
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Update: 2 years and 203 lbs lost
Hi everyone! I’ve posted multiple times throughout my journey and just want to give an update. I lost 203 lbs on Zepbound/tirzepatide and an anti-inflammatory diet, from 320 to 117. I didn’t follow a particular anti-inflammatory diet plan. I just looked up what can cause inflammation and removed them one at a time to see how I felt. I’m also low oxalate. I have lipedema in my thighs, arms, and stomach. My thighs went from 30” to 19” but you can see my measurement comparison in the pic I attached that’s from Aug 2024 and April 2026. My journey started in May 2024 but I started measuring in Aug when I found the MeThreeSixty app. For those with lipedema, my inflammation is greatly reduced. I mostly swell in my left calf from vein issues and I’ve finally decided to have that looked at. I didn’t realize my left leg had been swelling until the last few months because the right is now more defined and I can now tell a difference in them. The left isn’t and gets bigger at the end of the day. I do have varicose veins. I do still have bulky thighs because I haven’t had any surgeries and can’t afford to any time soon. I do have loose skin but it’s not as loose as I expected it would be. I am hypermobile so maybe that plays a part in my skin retracting like it has. I’m working on gaining muscle that will hopefully make my legs and arms look better. I’m a work in progress but could never have imagined I’d come this far. For all of you who cheered me on the last 2 years, I can’t thank you enough. It’s been great having people experiencing the same thing to chat with and relate to. submitted by /u/AccomplishedEmu7751 to r/Zepbound [link] [comments]
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r/Zepbound |
AccomplishedEmu7751 |
Apr 19, 2026 |
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Chronic inflammation is a major cause of aging. Anti-inflammatory interventions lead to radical life extension.
There’s a silent force working against your body every day. It’s not dramatic like an injury or a fever. It’s slow, quiet, and hidden deep inside your tissues. This is chronic inflammation, and it’s one of the biggest reasons we age, get sick, and feel tired before our time. Unlike the helpful kind of inflammation that helps you heal, this one sticks around, harming your cells day after day. But here’s the good news: you can fight back, and doing so could extend your life in powerful ways. Scientists now call this slow-burning damage “inflammaging.” Over time, it wears down your body like rust eats away at metal. It speeds up wrinkles, brain fog, aches, and fatigue. It damages your DNA, shortens your telomeres (the protective ends of your chromosomes), and slowly turns healthy cells into sick ones. Left unchecked, it’s a major trigger for diseases like Alzheimer’s, heart disease, diabetes, and even cancer. But it doesn't have to be your future. You don’t have to be perfect to reduce chronic inflammation. You just need to make consistent changes. One of the most powerful tools is an anti-inflammatory diet. That means filling your plate with colorful, healing foods: fatty fish like sardines, berries, leafy greens, cruciferous vegetables, avocados, extra virgin olive oil, and spices like turmeric and ginger. At the same time, cut back on things that fan the flames, like sugar, processed foods, white bread, and refined oils. Movement is medicine. Regular exercise is one of the best ways to turn down inflammation. You don’t need to run marathons, just walking 30–45 minutes a day, doing strength training a few times a week, or dancing in your living room all count. It lowers stress hormones, balances blood sugar, and boosts your immune system. Speaking of stress. Chronic stress is inflammatory, too. It raises your cortisol, which triggers more damage to your cells. But there are simple ways to calm your system: deep breathing, meditation, journaling, or even just going for a walk in nature. Laughing, connecting with friends, and doing something creative also switch your body into repair mode. Sleep is when you heal. If you’re not getting enough rest, inflammation builds up fast. Aim for 7–9 hours of solid sleep. Keep your bedroom cool and dark, stick to a routine, and avoid screens an hour before bed. One good night’s sleep can lower your inflammation levels the very next day. Your gut is ground zero for inflammation. A healthy gut means a calmer, more balanced body. Eat plenty of fiber, add in fermented foods like yogurt, sauerkraut, and kimchi, and avoid overusing antibiotics. A quality probiotic can help too, along with gut-healing nutrients like collagen, L-glutamine, and zinc carnosine. If you need extra support, some anti-inflammatory supplements can help: omega-3 fish oil, curcumin (with black pepper), vitamin D, magnesium, quercetin, and resveratrol are great options. But always talk to a healthcare provider before starting anything new. And finally, never underestimate the power of human connection. Loneliness increases inflammation. Spend time with people who lift you up. Call a friend, join a group, or volunteer. Love, laughter, and purpose aren’t just emotional. They’re biological tools for healing and longevity. The truth is, you have the power to slow aging from the inside out. Chronic inflammation doesn’t have to control your future. By making small, smart choices each day, you can turn down the fire, protect your cells, and open the door to radical life extension. — Dr. Georgios Ioannou, Anti-Aging Scientist submitted by /u/GarifalliaPapa to r/immortalists [link] [comments]
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GarifalliaPapa |
Mar 17, 2026 |
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I've been doing anti-inflammatory diet for 3 weeks..
I've lost 9lbs so far! I went sugar free and began eliminating gluten for an autoimmune issue. The problem is that for 3 days that diet has gone down the toilet. I tried keeping within as best I could but I've attended back to back celebrations and no access to anything truly anti inflammatory. One day was pasta, another was sweets and today was a a birthday for someone near and dear and we went to town at our local Mexican spot- rice, beans, chips, enchiladas 🙈 I am committed to resuming tomorrow but how bad did I just set myself back? I'm assuming my body will have some kind of reaction, probably bloating, but I really am sort of panicking over here. submitted by /u/Otherwise_Cloud2807 to r/loseit [link] [comments]
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r/loseit |
Otherwise_Cloud2807 |
Feb 21, 2026 |
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What diet helped you most with chronic pain and inflammation?
I tried carnivore for a few days but I have history of an ED and it was too difficult. Probably cause I don’t have an unlimited budget to get the best meat. It was mostly eggs and ground beef. Animal based seems more attainable. submitted by /u/Mysterious_Loan2555 to r/Biohackers [link] [comments]
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Mysterious_Loan2555 |
Jan 22, 2026 |
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After biologics stopped working, an anti inflammatory diet changed everything
I’m 28 and have psoriatic arthritis. For a while, the biologic treatments worked really well — I honestly felt like I had my life back. But over the past year or two, things started to go downhill. The meds stopped working, and I was getting hit with extreme flares that were completely debilitating. It’s been tough trying to stay positive and function day to day while dealing with that level of pain and stiffness. So recently, in kind of a last-ditch effort to ease my symptoms, I decided to switch to a completely anti-inflammatory diet. I thought it would be way more extreme than it actually is — it’s mostly just cutting out seed oils, refined sugars, white carbs, and alcohol (especially beer, which was a big one for me). After about three to four weeks, the results have been incredible. I still have some joint pain across my lower and upper spine, hips, and left knee, but it’s so much more manageable now, and the inflammation feels like it’s gone completely. It might seem like a big lifestyle change, but honestly, it’s so worth it. I put it off for way too long — if you’re struggling like I was, it’s definitely something to consider. I also recommend therapy and speaking out, lightens the load. submitted by /u/dandunne to r/PsoriaticArthritis [link] [comments]
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r/PsoriaticArthritis |
dandunne |
Nov 12, 2025 |
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The IBD Anti-Inflammatory Diet from UMass Center for Applied Nutrition is saving me
To whomever originally shared this link on another post, I thank you. This diet WORKS. I've been stuck in a bad flare for 6 weeks, but it's been steadily getting better ever since I started this diet about a week ago. There are three phases and I'm currently in a mix of Phase 1 and 2, exploring what I can handle from the 2nd phase. It's worth trying, y'all! It has a lot to do with gut biome and good bacteria and creating that good environment for your insides that reduces inflammation. https://www.umassmed.edu/nutrition/ibd/ibdaid/ submitted by /u/Classic26 to r/UlcerativeColitis [link] [comments]
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Classic26 |
May 14, 2025 |
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Inflammation in the brain may trigger depression. Review of 31 randomized trials found anti-inflammatories, including diet changes and omega 3 fatty acids, were more effective than placebo in reducing depressive scores for older adults with depression, with similar improvements to antidepressants.
submitted by /u/mvea to r/psychology [link] [comments]
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r/psychology |
mvea |
Apr 12, 2025 |
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Inflammation in the brain may trigger depression. Review of 31 randomized trials found anti-inflammatories, including diet changes and omega 3 fatty acids, were more effective than placebo in reducing depressive scores for older adults with depression, with similar improvements to antidepressants.
submitted by /u/mvea to r/science [link] [comments]
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r/science |
mvea |
Apr 12, 2025 |
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Chronic inflammation is a major cause of aging. Anti-inflammatory interventions lead to radical life extension.
There’s a silent force working against your body every day. It’s not dramatic like an injury or a fever. It’s slow, quiet, and hidden deep inside your tissues. This is chronic inflammation, and it’s one of the biggest reasons we age, get sick, and feel tired before our time. Unlike the helpful kind of inflammation that helps you heal, this one sticks around, harming your cells day after day. But here’s the good news—you can fight back, and doing so could extend your life in powerful ways. Scientists now call this slow-burning damage “inflammaging.” Over time, it wears down your body like rust eats away at metal. It speeds up wrinkles, brain fog, aches, and fatigue. It damages your DNA, shortens your telomeres (the protective ends of your chromosomes), and slowly turns healthy cells into sick ones. Left unchecked, it’s a major trigger for diseases like Alzheimer’s, heart disease, diabetes, and even cancer. But it doesn't have to be your future. You don’t have to be perfect to reduce chronic inflammation—you just need to make consistent changes. One of the most powerful tools is an anti-inflammatory diet. That means filling your plate with colorful, healing foods: fatty fish like salmon, berries, leafy greens, avocados, olive oil, and spices like turmeric and ginger. At the same time, cut back on things that fan the flames, like sugar, processed foods, white bread, and refined oils. Movement is medicine. Regular exercise is one of the best ways to turn down inflammation. You don’t need to run marathons—just walking 30–45 minutes a day, doing strength training a few times a week, or dancing in your living room all count. It lowers stress hormones, balances blood sugar, and boosts your immune system. Speaking of stress—chronic stress is inflammatory, too. It raises your cortisol, which triggers more damage to your cells. But there are simple ways to calm your system: deep breathing, meditation, journaling, or even just going for a walk in nature. Laughing, connecting with friends, and doing something creative also switch your body into repair mode. Sleep is when you heal. If you’re not getting enough rest, inflammation builds up fast. Aim for 7–9 hours of solid sleep. Keep your bedroom cool and dark, stick to a routine, and avoid screens an hour before bed. One good night’s sleep can lower your inflammation levels the very next day. Your gut is ground zero for inflammation. A healthy gut means a calmer, more balanced body. Eat plenty of fiber, add in fermented foods like yogurt, sauerkraut, and kimchi, and avoid overusing antibiotics. A quality probiotic can help too, along with gut-healing nutrients like collagen, L-glutamine, and zinc carnosine. If you need extra support, some anti-inflammatory supplements can help: omega-3 fish oil, curcumin (with black pepper), vitamin D, magnesium, quercetin, and resveratrol are great options. But always talk to a healthcare provider before starting anything new. And finally, never underestimate the power of human connection. Loneliness increases inflammation. Spend time with people who lift you up. Call a friend, join a group, or volunteer. Love, laughter, and purpose aren’t just emotional—they’re biological tools for healing and longevity. The truth is, you have the power to slow aging from the inside out. Chronic inflammation doesn’t have to control your future. By making small, smart choices each day, you can turn down the fire, protect your cells, and open the door to radical life extension. submitted by /u/GarifalliaPapa to r/immortalists [link] [comments]
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r/immortalists |
GarifalliaPapa |
Apr 9, 2025 |
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Anti Inflammation Diet
Had anybody tried an anti inflammatory diet and if so did it work? Honestly I'm kinda holistic and scared of new meds so I'm trying to make birth control a last resort. submitted by /u/sleepingugly5 to r/endometriosis [link] [comments]
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r/endometriosis |
sleepingugly5 |
Mar 26, 2025 |
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Is there any actual evidence about anti-inflammation diets?
CW for discussion of fad dieting. Hi everyone! I recently went to my doctor for a routine visit and discussed some concerns I’ve had for a long time with her (I have chronic fatigue, muscle/join pain, basically just kind of always feel like I have the flu) and she ordered some tests. For context, she’s been a very good doctor to me and listens to me experience really well. She had several recommendations for my pain and discomfort and then mentioned I could try an anti-inflammatory diet and see if it helped any. As part of the diet, she mentioned cutting back on glucose, gluten and something else I can’t remember now, if I could find affordable options that I enjoyed. I am interested in seeing if there’s any evidence about certain diets and inflammation, and am hoping to keep it centered around what I can add or enjoyable substitutes rather than restricting myself for no reason. I’ve had doctors try to get me on fad diets and I don’t want to fall into that, regardless of how much I do trust my current PCP. Anyone have resources, recommendations, thoughts? submitted by /u/footnotegremlin to r/MaintenancePhase [link] [comments]
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r/MaintenancePhase |
footnotegremlin |
Aug 23, 2024 |
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LPT: How I cured my crippling anxiety in 4 months
My anxiety went on for years without me realizing what it actually was. And after a few years of treating my body very poorly with bad diet, minor alcoholism and drugs - my world came crashing down (literally: I got a bad case of derealization). Basically my whole family is on SSRI's and anti-anxiety meds, but I refused to take any meds before I had tried to give it my ALL on fixing it naturally. And it worked. Fixing my anxiety became my full-time job, and I’m completely cured. I used to not be able to get out of the house, now I’m able to travel all over the world.I’m not saying this will work for everyone, but a lot of us don’t respond well to medication and therapy - and this worked for me. Here’s the step-by-step BREAK THE GLASS emergency toolkit habit stack I used: 1. Accepting my anxiety. Read Hope and Help for Your Nerves, by Dr Claire Weekes 2. Exposure therapy: Expose yourself to your worst fear, REGULARLY. For me this meant taking a crowded bus every single day, and then one day flying alone (TERRIFYING! But a major key in my journey) 3. Doing cold therapy and breath work: A lot of you have heard of Wim Hof. In my experience, it works. I feel super zen after a cold shower and some breath work exercises. 4. Exercising (almost) every single day. A lot of anxiety is excess adrenaline. Burn it off by getting your heart rate up. 5. Diet: Stop eating food that makes you feel like shit. Look up nutritional strategies for easing anxiety. 6. Organize your thoughts. Have a system for storing all your thoughts and to-do’s. Look up «Zen to Done» by Leo Babauta. 7. Journaling. Write a stream of consciousness of your negative thoughts every night before going to bed. Doing this makes it feel like the paper takes the burden off your shoulders. 8. Skipping on coffee (for a while). I stopped drinking coffee for 6 months and replaced it with tea. Coffee can create a lot of inflammation and adrenaline in your body, which is great for being productive (but not for your anxiety and sleep). 9. Sleep well. Get sunlight in your eyes as soon as you wake up (or light therapy), calm down 1-2 hours before bed and go to bed in a dark, chill room without any screens. If you struggle with sleep anxiety (like I did), read «The Sleep Book» by Dr Guy Meadows. That’s it! A lot of people have unintentionally self-inflicted anxiety caused by a poor lifestyle, and this is what turned my life around from saying «when I die, I will finally be able to rest» to my gf and now LOVING every single day and being super grateful for everything. Trust me, don’t kick it unless you’ve tried it for at least 4 months! submitted by /u/Gunhoo to r/LifeProTips [link] [comments]
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Gunhoo |
Oct 11, 2023 |
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This chart shows different types of poo and what it indicates.
submitted by /u/Lemon_La_Croix to r/coolguides [link] [comments]
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r/coolguides |
Lemon_La_Croix |
Dec 1, 2020 |