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It is going to be our anniversary and she is a very fit and tech girl. Saw some smart rings for sale in Costco and decided to give one to her. She saw me looking at her jewelry box with a tape measure and asked me what I was doing and told her that I wanted to know her ring size and didn’t think much about it. She told I’m 6-7 like nothing and that was it. This was a week ago and apparently she told my in laws about it. That I’m going to propose. So apparently now everybody thinks I’m going to propose. At this point I have no idea how to fix the situation besides actually giving her a ring. She is a very cool girl and would understand the situation if explained. However probably will make things a bit awkward at least TL;DR. I asked my girlfriend her ring size to give her a smart ring and now everybody things I’m going to propose UPDATE: Thank you all for your advice on this. Just followed your comments and 'grew a pair' and told her the truth. I told her that my in laws (yes I call them 'suegros' ) that they called me excited about the proposal news. Explaind everything and not gonna lie I saw her dissapointnment very well deep in her. She said everything is fine, made a few jokes about the ring being a GPS so I could track her and that I still could propose her with the smart ring. I told her that I want to marry her as we have previously discussed but not at this time and obviously not with what is honestly a very boring and somewhat ugly ring. UPDATE 2: SHE SAID YES; I will try to be brief and I'm probably missing a lot of context. We celebrate our annyversary the second Thrusday of March. We had been dating for like 4 years. Mostly as friends. After about 2 years of just going out together somebody asked about how low we had been dating and we were like. Are we dating? I iknow it sounds extremly absurd, but we were like 'best buddies' that like to go out. We meet in dance classes and here usually dance days are Thursdays is where the dance scene is more strong. So when we asked we were like I think we are actually dating and decided that instead of saying March 14 we would celebrate second Thursday of March. This is a girl I really like and well as just discovered I really love. We talked a lot yesterday and had a very good conversation about it, I told her my insecurities about job stability and well a few other things. We discussed more things that we had never talked about like kids, where we would like to live and other things. And I found out how much I really match her and how much I'm friends with her. Foudn how funny it was the situation in general. And as everbody poined the size of the oura isn't the same as the rings, we went to costco to exchange it and buy some mimosas. And here is the funny part, I returned it and happy that they didn't point out to the obvious and big note that says about testing the ring size before buying (love you costco) we were walking around and they were selling jewerly and engagement rings. She jokingly pointed when you propose you need to get one like that, not that or that other one, something cute and simple like that one. I asked a rep to show it and it was very pretty. Asked her to try it and she said that it is very very bad luck to test engagement rings (is that a Mexican thing I have never hear about? ) so took it and proposed right there with the ring she liked. You can imagine how weird it felt at the beggining, she tough I was joking then relized I was serious then I felt like she was about to say no because she had a uncanny expression. Finally she said yes we got a small congrats from the costco rep that wasn't sure if that was a practical joke. She made a few interesting points about how convenient to ask to marry her before actually buying the ring, so in case she said no I wouldn't have spent a lot of money in a ring. That the ring is too big and we need to take it to make it smaller and that I should know better that you need to be sure your 'girl' has heir nails done before proposing. All of that joking obviously and trying to diffuse the situation. I just want to take you all for your advice and to the guys that took their time to send me a PM. I will upload a photo once the ring is ready and nails done. I know I'm missing a lot of details but well it has been a bit chaotic. As some body poined this really felt like a absurd friends sitcom episode. submitted by /u/imzeigen to r/tifu [link] [comments]

DO NOT COMMENT ON LINKED POSTS. I am NOT OP. Original post by u/ThrowAway_chosen in r/TrueOffMyChest with updates posted on their profile. My dad is furious that my mom slept with other people in an open marriage he wanted. - March 20, 2022. My parents got married when they were super young. My dad knocked up my mom, and their parents married them off. My grandfather was able to set up some business for my dad in a big city, and they moved here soon after my birth. My mom grew up in a conservative southern town where she was taught to be a submissive wife. And even after moving to the big city, she didn't spend much time socializing. She had no friends and never went out. My dad was only there to provide for us. He was always away on business, and he wasn't there as a husband for my mom or as a father to me. My dad made a lot of money, so we never lacked anything. Growing up, I became my mom's best friend. We would talk about everything. I pushed her to make friends and to find hobbies. After years of pushing, she started going to a nearby park and made her first friend, a gym trainer. Encouraged by her friend and me, she decided to join the gym. She met a few more people there and started having some semblance of a social life, but she still continued to tell me everything. I think my dad's new secretary gave him the idea, but he asked my mom for an "open marriage" almost a year ago. He told her he wasn't happy in their marriage and that she wasn't providing him with everything he wanted. My mom, who is a "christian wife", was mortified and told me about the proposal in tears. I suggested she get a divorce, but she said she didn't believe in it and she wouldn't be the one to end their marriage. As my dad pushed, I knew exactly where this would end up if my mom agreed. Her friend and I convinced her. My mom was hesitant at first, but she agreed with the condition that they would be completely transparent with each other. My dad was a middle aged (41) man with a belly and my mom (39) was an athletic woman who worked out regularly. I'm a 22 yo woman btw. I don't know how my dad was so blind or what he thought would happen. I helped create online dating profiles for my mom almost six months ago. After getting an insane number of matches, choosing from them and chatting with them for months, my mom started hooking up with a few people. Getting all this attention has provided a massive boost to her confidence and she seems better. My dad hooked up with his secretary almost immediately. He's had very little luck with other ladies. With their transparency thing, my mom tells him about all her hook ups. A few weeks ago, my dad screamed at my mom for some minor thing. Usually, my mom would've apologised but with her new confidence, she didn't back down. It's been constant fights the last few weeks. My dad keeps starting fights by making snide remarks about my mom's clothing or appearance. He almost even called my mom a whore but stopped himself. I think "open marriage" finally sunk in. My mom told me he tried to have a conversation about stopping their "open marriage" but she immediately shot it down. I think they'll split up. My dad was never there for either of us but the thought of my parents splitting up still feels weird. I don't feel bad for my dad but I wish he put effort into his family. I'm happy for my mom though. Update #1 - April 20, 2022. A few days after my previous post, my dad left our home and had a divorce served to mom in a week. My grandparents didn't know about any of this, but my dad told them when he served the divorce. He also implied to them that my mom was cheating on him. Both sets of grandparents came to our home and started berating my mom. I kept screenshots of all my parents' communications, and my mom showed them to them and it got way worse after that. Grandparents started fighting each other blaming each other's children for causing all this. A few days after this, my mom's old "church friends" came to our home. Back when my mom used to go to church, they used to look down on her for being from a small town. My mom has always been a very caring and non-judgemental person, so she disagreed with their bigotry and they began excluding her from their activities. After she met her gym friends, my mom stopped going to church entirely. These "church friends" started calling my mom a slut and she kicked them out. My mom is on a cut right now, so she has very defined abs and arms. So along with all the normal stuff getting thrown at her, my grandparents accused her of having a "man body" and she also had a lot of random transphobia thrown at her. Her trainer friend has been a great support through all this. She contacted the attorney she used for her divorce and my mom is spending a lot of time at her house. Turns out, the business my dad is running is owned by mom. It was set up by my mom's dad in her name, so it belongs to her. I did not know this until now and assumed that my dad owned it. The whole situation is a huge mess right now. Dad is living in some hotel and my grandparents left yesterday after a week of fighting and trying to force my parents back together. I know there's a lot more divorce drama to come but I hope it calms down for now. Update #2 - May 13, 2022. A lot of shit has happened since my last update. Firstly, I wanted to thank all the well-wishers on my previous posts. Writing these posts has helped me process the stuff that's happening, so I'm making another one. My mom's attorney, the one recommended by my mom's gym friend Lisa, has been a great help. She walked my mom through what's going to happen and reassured her. She started looking through the company stuff in preparation for the divorce proceedings and we found a lot of shocking stuff. I don't know why I was surprised by this, but my dad was having affairs for a long time. He used company resources to book flights and resorts at holiday destinations. There were receipts for many trips with multiple women, spanning the last 10 years. Because he was always absent from our lives, my mom didn't suspect anything. It didn't seem like he made any effort to hide these. He also used the company email to talk to his secretary about the affair stuff. Turns out, they were fucking months before my dad asked my mom for an open relationship. This is what we gathered from their emails - after months of their affair, the secretary didn't want to remain a mistress. So, she started pestering my dad to get a divorce. But they wanted my mom to initiate it so that he could get a massive chunk of the company. The secretary came up with the idea of asking my mom for the open relationship. They hoped that my mom would be horrified and ask for a divorce. They were caught off guard when my mom agreed. My dad got jealous when my mom started having sex. After initiating the divorce, he deleted all his emails and told his secretary to do it too. Unfortunately for him, they were still stored the company email server. I haven't seen my dad in over a month. All of his communication has been through his attorney. He apparently wants half the company. My mom's attorneys are still looking for more evidence, but they told us that they don't expect him to get much with the evidence they have. Lisa has been supporting my mom through the whole ordeal. She also got a divorce because her husband cheated on her, so she's been helping my mom a lot. NEW UPDATE - March 10, 2026. Hey guys. I was clearing out some saved passwords on my laptop today and stumbled back onto this throwaway account. Re-reading my old posts from 2022 was a wild trip. It honestly feels like a lifetime ago. I know it's been four years, but since the dust has completely settled and there were also a lot of messages asking for an update, I figured I'd finally post a real update for anyone who remembers this mess. The divorce dragged on for a bit because my dad fought tooth and nail for half the business. But like we found out back then, my grandpa set the whole thing up in my mom's name. Once his lawyers realized that going to trial meant a judge would see exactly how much company money he blew on his 10-years of affairs and the other criminal headaches that might come with it, he folded. He took a sizeable "make him go away" payout to sign the papers and was officially booted from the company. My mom kept everything. She didn't want the stress of running it day-to-day, so she made herself Chairman. She hired a real CEO and management team to do the heavy lifting, so now she just oversees the big picture and collects the profits. With all her free time, she actually went into business with her trainer friend, Lisa. They opened a boutique gym together a couple of years ago. Lisa runs the fitness side, and my mom handles the business end. She’s 43 now, still absolutely shredded, and living her best life. She's also casually dating a guy who is also divorced. They've been seeing each other for a few months, taking trips, and just having fun with zero pressure. She is so completely different from the quiet, submissive woman she was when I was growing up. As for my dad... well, he married the secretary. Turns out when you aren't using your wife's company to fund luxury vacations, life is a lot less glamorous. They live a pretty downsized, average life now. I'm 26 now and I'm very low-contact with him. We get lunch maybe twice a year, and it's always stiff and awkward. He still tries to make bitter, passive-aggressive digs about my mom, but I just ignore it or change the subject. Looking back, my dad's genius plan to ask for an open marriage so he could run off with his secretary and steal my mom's company was the best thing that ever happened to us. It totally backfired on him, and it gave my mom the push she needed to realize she didn't need him. Thanks to everyone who rooted for her four years ago! Reminder - I am not the original poster. DO NOT COMMENT ON LINKED POSTS. submitted by /u/KarpGrinder to r/BORUpdates [link] [comments]

Hi, I really don’t know what else to do right now, I’ve reached to to so many different animals support groups but I’m not getting answers I’m hoping I might be able to find some cat owners who have been through what i’m going through to offer their insights. Sorry for bad grammar and spelling this post is long. I adopted a shelter cat 2 years ago from a shelter, she was pulled from the euthanasia list at a kill shelter from a foster pledge that I agreed to care for her while that foster worked things out and make space for her. The shelter told us she was showing some “slight fear based aggression” and would likely thrive outside of a shelter environment. I agreed because obviously a loud shelter would be stressful for any living thing. They informed me the cats had manx syndrome and was fully incontient (doesn’t tolerate diapers and is very much a “imma gonna pee/poop right here where i’m standing cat) I did my research and set up a place in my bathroom with pee pads, normal litter i’ve used with my other cat, warm spaces, cat trees, scratch posts and all the other fixings and brought the cat home to await for her foster. I kept her separate from my cat. Well the foster ghosted me shortly after I took the cat to vet and I have not been able to find another willing to take her in two years, so I accidentally adopted a cat for the rest of my life when I really just meant to get her off of a euthanasia list lol. Within the first month I spent over 5k on vet care and tests (insurance covers nothing since it’s a preexisting condition) She had some teeth pulled but other than was a healthy cat. Her urinating wherever she was concerned me since it wasn’t typical cat behavior, but all her tests came back clean and she is a typical cat apart for the taillessness. After about a month I realized there wasn’t any medical answer to explain why she peed/pooed like that (sorry to hear gross) but it was incredibly frustrating because she was still too aggressive for me to get within a few feet of, much less groom so I worried for her. The vet prescribed prozac and gabapentin. Y’all the gabapentin turned her into a monster! I went in to feed her one day (about 5 weeks since I brought her home I believe) and she latched onto my leg and starting marking her paws around it, she ended up with her claws around my neck and I had to hop in the shower to get her to let go. I went to the ER and got 12 stitches and had to go on an antibiotic I was as sick as a dog for weeks after this as well and tbh our relationship never recovered. I really think this was the beginning of the end. I did more research and reached out to a vet behaviorist and we took her off the gab because it can lead to worsening aggression in some cats. Over the years I tried different meds but none worked. I obviously did not try to start introductions with my resident cat because duh. I followed my behaviorist’s advice, I read outside the door for hours, put on videos for her, tried to get my scent (and my resident cats scent) on the blankets in the bathroom. None of it worked, whenever she smelled my cats scent he’d hiss so loud i’d hear it through the door (I also had a camera set up in there) Whenever I came in to feed her she attack me like the first instance where i went to the ER. I have to fully suit up with a helmet and shin guards to feed her and even with all that she would still latch on my arms/legs and crawl up my body. We switched anti-anxiety meds and I took her back to my vet, well this was the first of many vets in my area who told me they could no longer treat my cat while she’s awake because of safety concerns and she’d need to be sedated. So for the next appointment we fully sedated her and she was finally groomed and got claw capped, again nothing was wrong so I went to a neurological specialist who cost me nearly 10k in appointments and tests over a year and I still did not get any answers. At this point I had to move forward with introducing the cats because the new cat was coming up on a year in the bathroom and me and the behaviorist agreed it might benefit her to have free roam. (catio too) Well it didn’t work and she went crazy. She ripped painting off the wall and chewed up the carpet broke into the cabinet and ate human food…this was within the 20mintue period it took me to let her out, she how she did and to wrangle her up. Still the behaviorist said to keep letting her out. Well one day my resident cat managed to escape the space I put him to separate him from the new cat and she attacked him. I was literally watching the new cat walk into another room and heard a terrible scream and rushed in. The fight was very bad and my old cat had to go to the emergency vet and get surgery..boom another 3K gone. I rehomed him to my parents for his safety and began looking at rescues and fosters to take my new cat to because it was clear to me nothing was improving. I’ve called 45 shelters in illinois and none will take her because of her aggression. I know a lot of people (including a behavioralist I’ve seen) don’t believe cats can have behavioral issues and that’s it’s just them responding to their environment but I don’t know what i’m doing wrong. I’ve had 4 cats and dealt with some issues but nothing like this. I’ve posted her on my local facebook groups and reached out to some known fosters and nobody can take her because everybody involved in the cat world always has a pet cat…that she can’t live with. She can’t be a barn cat either because she’s disabled and barn cats are kept in groups and she’s too dangerous. I have no clue what else to do, she is spayed, is fed regularly on a schedule, has plenty of toys trees and things to scratch. I try to play with her everyday (everyday ends with her trying to get under my helmet and get to my neck which is genuinely scary because she’s not claw capped all the time (nails grows and it’s hard to find vets and groomers willing to take her, so right now I drive 50 mintues for her regular vet (he is the only one i’ve found who doesn’t need to sedate her and she acts like a asylum patient when she wakes up…, an hour for the neurologist and nearly 2 hours with traffic. for the behavioral appointments) (that I used to go to every two weeks so you can imagine the time lost to this, doesn’t help that i’m in buttfuck nowhere Illinois) She’s was on prozac for 6 months, burisphone for another 6, sertaline and fluoxetine for anxiety and none did anything I honestly don’t think she has anxiety I think she is just aggressive…. Besides the cursed gabapentin she’s done trazodone and that didn’t do a whole lot but make her terrified and she hid in a corner and hissed for hours. I hate my life now, I can’t have friends or family over. Literally nobody visits me and I can’t leave town because there’s no one to watch my cat. I had to give up my cat of 12 years who I do actually love back to my parents (they raised him it’s fine but I miss seeing him everyday) I can’t have any decorations because she tears them off the wall and my entire house even though it’s covered with pee pads smells like absolute shit 24/7. I have feilways and pheromones but it doesn’t change the behavior. I have to spend hours cleaning everyday just for it to be ruined the next. It looks and smells like I live in a zoo I let the cat free roam when i’m home and either go hide in my bedroom if I need to do things or have to fully cover all exposed skin with gloves sweater layers of pants, boots, etc if I want to interact. It’s been two years and I’ve never even pet my cat, hell I haven’t been within 3 feet of her unless it’s because she’s lunging on me or attacking me. Obviously no fosters are interested (also i’m not blaming people at all if I knew this cat had more than “slight fear based aggression” I probably would not have agreed to take her on either) and I don’t know what to do, she’s 3 and I know this is horrible to admit but the thoughts of spending the rest of my 20s and then 30s focused on nothing but this cat is devastating. Literally everything in my life has become second to this cat. I understand it’s a commitment I made. But when it’s been years since i’ve traveled, seen old friends been to concerts or gone out it gets very depressing and lonely. What else can I do? I’ve seen 2 behaviorist and their advice is getting redundant, the cats doesn’t have any neurological or medical issues (minus manx) and the vets have no idea what to do and just try different sedation…none works. Unless she’s sleeping she’s angry with me. I just hate this and don’t know what to do. Sometimes I’ll think about my future and cry because I know i’ll still be dealing with this cat during what’s supposed to be the best years of my life…but nowhere will take her but a kill shelter and that’s a death sentence for a cat like her. Has anyone dealt with aggressive and destructive behavior like this? What was the cause? How did you manage? I know nothing of her life before me. submitted by /u/Creepy-Dealer7518 to r/CATHELP [link] [comments]

I am not The OOP, OOP is u/waitwhatohno Me [28 F] with my SO [28 M]; he cheated on me with my step sister [27 f], and she's pregnant with his kid. TRIGGER WARNING: Infidelity, mentions drunk driving, alcoholism, death of a parent, ableism, gaslighting Original Post July 18, 2015 He (Adam) says he was drunk (we've been together for 10 years and finally got engaged and planning on getting married in a year and starting a family in a few years), and she (Betty) took advantage of him...the first time. Adam doesn't have an excuse for the handful of other times they slept together over a three month period. I knew she was pregnant; I've already been roped by my mom into co-hosting the baby shower with my other step sister (Claire, 30). I don't know if it's shock or what, but I'm so fucking glad I haven't given Claire my share for the expensive jogging stroller we're getting Betty, or my half of the baby shower cost. Betty told everyone the father is an ex-boyfriend who doesn't want anything to do with her or the kid. She makes a ton of money, she'd be fine as a single mother and my mom would help a ton since she's retired and bored and wants a Dugger families worth of grandchildren. Adam confessed everything because his dad walked out on him and his mom when he was a toddler, so he wants to be a father to his child, but still be with me because he loves me and made a mistake. I told him to get the fuck out of my apartment (thank fuck we don't live together right now. We've lived together previously, but his mom wasn't doing well so he moved in with her. His mom is fine now, so apparently he used his new found free time to fuck my step sister. Although a bunch of his crap is at my apartment because he was supposed to be moving in in like a month and was bringing crap over slowly,) and called my mom and told her who the real father of Betty's baby is, just because she's my mother and she'll listen to me cry. ........... She fucking knew already reddit!! Apparently, in a fit of sadness over missing her deceased mother (who died when she was like 2), Betty told my mother. They all (mom, Claire, and my step-father) have fucking have known for months. Months. Meanwhile, I'm over here killing myself trying to find the perfect floral arrangement for the tables for Betty's baby shower, because I'm trying to be all sisterly and shit, and being the bigger person because sure as hell, Betty wouldn't put half as much effort into my babyshower if I were having one and she was hosting or cohosting it. Or half as much money, even though she makes a shit load more then me. My own mother couldn't fucking tell me that my fucking fiance fathered my fucking step-sister's fucking baby. No, in fact, she fucking guilt tripped me into being a co-host for the babyshower as soon as she found out Betty was pregnant. I think before she found out Adam was the father. I think. Mom, apparently...well, the general gist is, she want's us all to get along and be a family, and it doesn't matter about the past, it just matters about the new life in the family. That she knows I'm upset and hurt, but I need to work on my relationships with Adam (since we've been together 10 years and I wouldn't want to throw that away over a mistake) and Betty (since we're sisters and have been since we were kids) and figure out how to be the bigger person and put my feelings aside for the sake of the kid and our family. I've always been the bigger person with Betty, from the very moment we were first introduced at the tender ages of 10 and 9, and she refused to give me my favorite stuffed animal back. And, even then, mom felt bad for her and let her get away with being a brat, and she got to take Mrs. Snuffles home while I had to suck it up and be the bigger person. She probably still has poor Mrs. Snuffles in some box in my mom and step fathers attic, a trophy for her first of many victories over me. I hung up on my mother. And here I am posting on reddit. I don't want to be Betty's kids step mother. I don't think I can forgive Adam; he knows what Betty's like, and how our relationship is. Hell, I don't even know if I can forgive my mom, and she's like, my mom. She was a great mother, one of my best friend's. The only wrong things about her was her nasty habit of pitying Betty and letting her get away with murder, and her crappy knitting that she always gives as gifts. I just...I don't know how she can justify this betrayal in anyway. It wasn't me that screwed up ten years of a relationship, or mine and Betty's supposed sisterly bond, it was them. Maybe I should talk to her and ask if someone's slipped crazy pills in her food the last few months, or maybe she's getting early dementia or something? Fuck I don't know. I keep looking at the text message from Claire she sent me way too fucking early this morning asking when I was giving her my share of the $800 jogging stroller we're getting Betty and my share of the babyshower costs that's going to be worth a crappy craigslist car. Edit: Is it wrong to reply telling her to go fuck herself? Because I did. We put all the crap on her credit cards, and she's in school and working a crappy retail job and I feel bad for leaving her the huge ass debt over $3000, but I keep telling myself she can return the stroller, cancel stuff, sell the stuff that can't be returned, and probably my step dad and mom will help her with the rest. Another Edit: I mass texted our friends telling them that Adam was a cheating bastard who was Betty's baby-daddy. We've been together so long that all of our friends are friends with us both. The only people I'm friends with who aren't friends with him too are basically just acquaintances I don't feel comfortable talking about this with. Then I turned my phone off. I swear to god, if any of them knew, or take his side....What if all of them knew? God. Tomorrow my mom's out of the house at her weekly volunteering gig, and I'm going to go over to their house. I have a key, but chances are if my step dad is home he'll let me in and go back to watching tv. Great man. My step-sister's got a woman who tried to mother them without replacing their mother, and over compensating like hell, I got a I got a dude that will occasionally nod at me, and sometimes give me a deal on rent when the family plays monopoly. I've got stuff in the attic that I was keeping their until I had a house of my own, plus I want to find Mrs. Snuffles. Oh, and I'm going to raid my mom's jewelry box. Which sounds bad, I know; but I'll only take the stuff my grandmother left me, I promise! I was letting my mom borrow it because I felt bad my grandma willed it all to me and skipped her (mom's an only child), and figured I'd just get it back when my mom died in forty years. Which I will freely admit is fucking stupid of me, because I could just see Betty whining that she didn't have any grandmother's to leave her jewelry and that it isn't fair. And probably my grandma knew what she was doing leaving it to me instead. I wish she was alive, she'd tear my mom a new one. Hopefully everything will be there and she won't be wearing anything. I don't know what I'm going to do yet, but I want it just in case. I don't think she'd like, give any of it to Betty or Claire or anything, but I also didn't think she'd fucking betray me like this, soooo. It's my jewelry. She's borrowing it indefinitely, I just kinda figured I'd let her keep it until she died because it was her mom's, but it's mine. I can't trust her not to give any of it to Claire or Betty, and I don't want to have to talk to her if I decide to never speak to her again, so I'm getting it tomorrow. We both know it's mine, it's not stealing to decide not to loan it to her anymore. It means a lot to me, so I'm for sure getting it. Thank you for all your comments and advice so far, I'm going to go to bed and see what tomorrow brings me. Hopefully all my jewelry, Mrs. Snuffles, and messages from every one of my friends saying they're never speaking to Adam again because he's a bastard, they won't forgive me if I take him back, and none of them had any idea. Edited again I'm a really bad person. I texted Betty. "I hope your baby is born with down syndrome, which will be an interesting combination with the fetal alcohol syndrome it's got a 90% chance of having since you drink more then your mother ever dreamed of drinking." And then I followed that up with a text calling her a cunt. And then another one that just said whore. Her mom died in a car crash she caused by drinking and driving. And Betty is the type of person who has expressed more then once that people with disabilities like down syndrome should just be killed because they don't have any use and are a drain on society. I feel kinda bad...partly because it's shitty things to say to anyone, and I'm a better person then that, and partially because reading that back I don't really think that's much of an insult or anything, really. But what do I know, I've never been pregnant, maybe it'll make her cry. (And thanks to her, I'm probably not going to be pregnant any time soon! ) I turned my phone off again and to keep it off I tossed it on top of the top of the kitchen cupboards that I can't reach without a chair, and I'm for sure going to bed now. What the fuck do I do? tl;dr: Fiance fucked my step-sister, she's pregnant, my mother knew and wants us all to be a big happy family because she's got grandbaby fever and always takes Betty's side. Fucking Betty wrecked our shared car as teenagers and I still had to pay half the replacement cost because it "wasn't fair" for just Betty to replace it. I'm well on my way to getting drunk enough to go rescue Mrs. Snuffles from her attic prison if fucking Betty hasn't thrown her away. Update Aug 17, 2015 (1 month later) Last month I posted https://np.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/3dpnlb/me_28_mf_with_my_so_28_m_he_cheated_on_me_with_my/ TLDR is that my Fiance confessed that he was the father of my step-sister's baby. My mom, other step-sister, and step-father all knew. Mom had guilt tripped me into co-hosting the baby shower (before she found out), and my share for it and the present would have been roughly $1500. I kept my relationship with Betty cool as soon as I turned 18 and moved out to go to college. We don't really have that sisterly bond, it's more like "cousins you see at family reunions" bond. We tolerate each other. She knows I think she's a spoiled brat, and I know she thinks I'm a bitch because I won't take shit from anyone and will call her or anyone out on their shit. Mom's the only person I cave to and allow myself to be guilted into crap and walked all over for; I am not a wall flower, or welcome mat, or anything. So yeah. A lot of you said to cut them all off, and if I read my post that'd be my advice too. Like I said, I don't take shit: I completely stopped being friend's with my BFF since I was 8 when I was 22 because she was staying with me for a month and kept smoking in my apartment even when I asked not to, then got bitchy when I bluntly told her she was being a jerk, (and in general I just didn't like the person she was growing into.) So, first: The day after my post I went to my mom's house. No one was home, and I used my key. I grabbed my jewelry, and the boxes of random crap I had sitting in the attic. I looked for Mrs. Snuffles, but I couldn't find her. I searched all of the Betty boxes, and the Claire boxes to just to be sure. I'm pretty sure their dog at the time destroyed her. I doubt Betty would have kept her all these years. I may or may not have cut up all of Betty's photos I found. Whoops, was that a photo of your mom? Well, I'm sure Claire has photos of her plus you have my mom now sooo you'll be fine. (No, I'm not proud of that, but, well, they're sitting in the attic anyway, and much like Adam, I had a lapse of judgment. I lapsed so hard I grabbed the kitchen scissors on my way to the attic.) I will admit, a month later, I feel pretty crappy I did that. But the day after I was still really raw, and pissed and yeah. When I got home, I finally checked my phone. There was a shit ton of messages from Mom, Claire and Betty that I deleted without really reading -even an hour afterwards I couldn't have told you what they said, but I bet in general I could guess. The messages I got from my friends were really disappointing. Like I said, they were all mutual friends that have never known Adam and I separate from a couple, and most of the replies were "we care about you both." Only a couple said he was a bastard or anything. One person, in fact, knew. Adam had told his BFF like a week before he told me, and his BFF strongly encouraged him to tell me. A lot of you weren't very kind about speaking about my mother. Understandably; but she's not a narcissist, or a bad person really. She's too kind, and when she married my step-father she felt really bad for my step-sisters, and took it to extremes. Like I said, she was my best friend and I had even been toying with the idea of making her my matron of honor if we decided to have a wedding verses just going to Vegas, which we were seriously considering. I met my mother for lunch at restaurant. She was upset with me for taking my jewelry without telling her, saying I should have left a note because she just about had a heart attack when she got home and my stuff was gone. I told her she should have told me as soon as Betty left that Adam was the father of her baby. She said she hadn't want to get involved, or in the middle, and by telling me when either Adam or Betty should have would have meant she was involved; plus she was in shock that Betty had told her that, and wasn't really thinking about me. I told her that happened most of the time when Betty was involved ever since we were first introduced. She tried to convince me to take Adam back; that I shouldn't waste our ten years together. I told her that Adam was the one who choose to throw away ten years. She did tell me that she hadn't known when she'd momed me into co-hosting that Adam was the father, and that she and my step-father would cover my share of the gift/shower. I told her that I was her daughter, she gave birth to me, and I was not going to ever be able to forgive Betty, so if Mom wanted to keep being my mother, she needed to pick me for once. She said she couldn't do that, that she had been Betty's only mother figure, and she wholly considered Betty her daughter; and she really didn't want to get involved still. That if she had given birth to all three of us, her decision would still be the same. I told her that I was very sorry to hear that, and I wished her well; I'd call her every now and then, but I was not going to see her much or attend family gatherings; nor would any children of mine know my step-family. She said she was sorry to hear I was deciding that, and that she hoped I'd forgive and forget eventually and not tear the family apart. I told her I was disappointed in her, but not particularly surprised, and Betty was the one who fucked my fiancé, and tore the family apart. Then I said goodbye, popped down my share of the bill, and left. I'll call her in a couple of months, but for now I've got her and my step-family on their on ringtones so I know to not answer them. If she insists on talking about Betty, Adam, or their baby on our phone calls, I won't speak to her until she learns to not do it. Yes, she very kindly admonished me for what I texted Betty, but I shrugged and told her that she's getting involved by telling me I shouldn't have sent that. Yes, I realize I shouldn't have sent Betty what I did, but I was pissed and I'd finished off a bottle of wine. And frankly, she is a cunt. As for Adam, he showed up about a few days after he told me with pizza, ice-cream, and flowers. I had his stuff sitting by the door, and was more then willing to have him get it and go, but he convinced me to talk to him. He confessed that while I loss my virginity to him, he had loss his to Betty a few weeks before. It felt like he'd punched me in the face. I told him if I had known that I would have dumped his ass then, and spent the remaining nine and a half years not being held back because he didn't want to leave our city, or go on trips out of the country, or get a freaking cat (he's super allergic) or paint my nails (he's weird about nail polish, I haven't painted mine since we started dating seriously.) He was apologetic, but said he loved me and wanted to work on things. I told him I wasn't going to be Betty's baby's stepmother, that I wanted to live a 100% Betty free life and that if I were to take him back, he would have no contact with the woman he cheated on me with, which obviously wouldn't be possible if he's the kids dad. He said that Betty told him there was a chance he wasn't the father after he told me (because, like I said, she's a cunt). I told him there still was a chance he was, though, and I wasn't going to risk it; plus that didn't change the fact that he'd betrayed me when we were first together, and last year, and that was two times too many. He asked if we could still be friends, with, I'm 90% sure, the intent to win me back. I told him I'd think about it. No chance in hell of that happening. I talked to my dad; he lives across the country, and we're on great terms even though we only saw each other during the summer when I was growing up. I really like my step-mother, but our relationship had always been a bit shadowed because, well, I was a dick and firmly pushed her away to not hurt my mom's feelings. Which I'm pretty sure is some sort of weird irony. Dad offered to pay to get me out of the rest of my lease, and let me live in one of his rental houses for free if I want to move to his city. I'm going to do it. I've got a buttload of savings to last me a while until I find a job. I never wanted to stay in our home city forever, and I think being 2000 miles away from my mom, and the rest of them will really help. I'm going to work on my relationship with my step-mother too. First thing I'm going to do when I see her is apologize. I quit my job, and have spent the last few weeks relaxing, packing, planning, speaking to a therapist, looking at cats up for adoption in my dad's city, and reaching out to the handful of friends I have there from when I'd visit dad in the summer; hopefully someone will click and I'll have at least one good friend there. I bought myself way too much nail polish, got a manicure, and a lot of money on a pair of boots I've wanted since forever but held off on getting because, you know, I couldn't splurge like that because I was going to get married. So everything's going to be okay, I think. 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