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But my daughter's robot floor mop/vacuum is my arch enemy.

the vacuum will only be used on hard floors, no carpet on my lower floor. i had 2 high end robot vacuums like 5 years ago from ecovacs and they were just shit tbh, so id like to avoid that brand. excellent navigation is a must. i have 2 cats. i also live in australia if that helps submitted by /u/fayewave to r/RobotVacuums [link] [comments]

I feel like I’ve been in an endless loop of cleaning gadgets and I still can’t get it right. So, I finally looked into these all-in-one robot vacuums that mop and come with an auto-empty station. The marketing seems pretty impressive, but I’m not sold yet. I have to admit, I’m skeptical. I don’t mind paying for quality, but these things come with a hefty price tag, and I need to know if they’re worth it. The idea sounds fantastic. One robot that vacuums, mops, and empties itself? It sounds like I should be living in a futuristic house, right? But I have so many doubts. First, does the mopping feature actually clean? I have tiles and hardwood floors, and while I’d love to stop dragging a mop around, I’m not sure a robot can do as good a job as me. Also, the auto-empty station sounds convenient, but how often does it actually work without jamming, and does it really take care of the mess without needing constant attention? I can’t help but wonder, is it just an overcomplicated way to clean, or can it really save me time and effort in the long run? If anyone here has used one of these robots, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Does it give you a truly clean home without leaving streaks or missing spots? Or am I just buying into another overpriced gadget that doesn’t quite deliver on the promises? I’m trying to figure out if I should commit to this purchase or go for something simpler and cheaper that I can handle manually. Let me know what you think—if it’s helped you keep the house clean, I’d love to hear how it’s worked out. submitted by /u/shreshth_001 to r/BuyItForLife [link] [comments]

Came across this one on my local buy nothing app. The way my eyes continued to bug further out of my head reading this list… some of these asks are reasonable, but others are wild. submitted by /u/SrirachaMacNCheez to r/ChoosingBeggars [link] [comments]

First, yes I know BIFL tech/electronics is an oxymoron. I want to follow the BIFL ethos with this purchase decision What I need: The machine to do as much (99.9%) of the floor cleaning as possible, so I can focus on cleaning above ground. With minimal maintenance as possible, whether it be in the form of my time (fiddling with the machine, emptying filters, traps, etc.) or money (proprietary wipes, bags, filters, etc.) Even though it's electronics and cutting edge tech, I still want reasonable reliability and durability My environment: One bedroom condo/apartment Mostly wood laminate flooring, a few carpets and rugs; tiles in the bathroom Just myself (male), no pets Initial cash outlay: money no object for the right equipment (unless it's high four figures or god forbid five figures LOL) Thoughts and recommendations? Thank you Should I look at integrated systems (vacuum + mop, jack of all trades) or separate machines? submitted by /u/tim_l_f to r/BuyItForLife [link] [comments]

Chek the full link 😊 https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1E2TCrx554/ submitted by /u/Easy-Bag-8722 to r/RobotVacuums [link] [comments]

Hi all, We’re currently looking to upgrade our robot vacuum and would really appreciate input from people with real-world experience in similar conditions. We’re a family with two small kids (3 years and 6 months), so our floors are never clear — there are always toys, random objects, crumbs, food spills, etc. On top of that, we have a golden retriever that sheds a lot, so hair management is a big issue. Our current robot (an older Roborock S6MaxV model) just isn’t cutting it anymore: - It struggles with suction (especially sand/dirt brought in from outside) - Hair gets tangled constantly in the brush, requiring manual cleaning after almost every run - The mopping function is basically useless, so we never use it - It doesn’t handle clutter well and gets stuck or avoids too much So for the next one, our priorities are: - Excellent obstacle avoidance (must handle toys and clutter without constant babysitting) - Very good performance with pet hair (minimal tangling / maintenance) - Actually useful mopping (able to deal with food spills, dirt, etc.) - Low maintenance overall (self-cleaning dock, minimal manual work) We’ve narrowed it down to: - New flagship models from Dreame Technology (X40 / X50 / X60 series) - The newer Roborock SAROS models (like Saros 10R) We also have two door thresholds (~3.5 cm and ~4.5 cm), but that’s a “nice to have” — not a dealbreaker. 👉 Questions: - How well do these actually handle real-life clutter (toys, cables, random stuff)? - How bad is hair tangling in practice (especially with long dog hair)? - Is the mopping function genuinely useful, or still more of a gimmick? - How much manual maintenance do you realistically end up doing? - Any regrets or things you wish you knew before buying? Would love to hear from people with similar setups (kids + pets + messy floors). Thanks a lot! submitted by /u/Jesper89 to r/RobotVacuums [link] [comments]

update: thanks everyone for the input, spent a good amount of time going through all the suggestions and did my own research on top of it. ended up going with the mid range option, premium was just out of budget. so far so good, cat hair is actually under control for once. both mid and range found in this post robot vacuum and mop recs. assuming both are greate just depends of your budget. cheers. Tired of vacuuming every other day, got two cats and the hair is everywhere tbh. Been looking at Roborock, Roomba and some Dreame models but there's like a hundred options and i have no idea where to start. Some people say the cheap ones break after 6 months, others say you don't need to spend $1000+ to get something decent – super confused. Anyone have one "Best Robot Vacuum Recommendation" they're actually happy with after a year or so? submitted by /u/jon_barack to r/recsmatter [link] [comments]

I'm looking for a robot vacuum that works well on both carpet and hardwood/tile. There are tons out there it seems like and I'm kind of lost on where to start. I can afford to spend around $1000 on one since I'd look at it as more of an investment in saving time over the course of a few years. Any recommendations? I'm all ears. submitted by /u/DrDisCracked to r/homeautomation [link] [comments]

I’m so mad I didn’t get one sooner. It’s like it was made for ADHD I swear. Like many of you, I have a lot of difficulty with task initiation- especially with mundane things. With a toddler and a shedding pet we just have to vacuum constantly and I hate it. It’s not like it’s hard, but I know I don’t have to explain to any of you how it feels to have to do something boring that you hate. This thing is awesome. It maps out your house, you can track it from your phone. I’m like so into it being able to do a good job so I’ll pick up stuff and arrange things so it can work great. It doesn’t get stuck on anything, it’s fun to watch. Totally just turned vacuuming into an interesting game to me. I look around at clutter and want to organize so my vacuum robot buddy can do a good job. But even if there are obstacles, this thing will just go around it. So I don’t HAVE to make things perfect. Anywho, it’s changed my life lol. It does so much better than I thought it would. Edit to add— get the kind with the self emptying canister. Mine just goes right to the docking station and empties itself as it goes and the big canister is right next to my trash can. Also it has a mop feature too!! Lots of people are asking. This is what I have but I’m sure there are better ones. I am super happy with this one though! https://a.co/d/07h2Odqh submitted by /u/BongSlurper to r/adhdwomen [link] [comments]

I’m looking to buy a robot vacuum in India and mopping performance is really important to me. From what I’ve seen, a lot of robovacs vacuum well but the mopping is often just a light wipe. Ideally looking for something that: • Mops effectively (not just dragging a damp cloth) • Handles daily dust well • Good navigation / mapping • Easy maintenance and service availability in India Budget is flexible if the performance justifies it. submitted by /u/No_Jello04 to r/BuyItForLifeIndia [link] [comments]

I’m looking for recommendations with a robot vacuum and mop. Struggling to figure out the best brand, that does a great job, with a fabulous costumer service if anything goes wrong. I’ve tried searching online but see so many conflicting comments and issues. I’d love to buy a shark brand, but can’t seem to find them. I am looking for something that will also self empty. I have a spinal injury that keeps getting worse (currently doing yet another long haul in hospital), I need to make life easier on myself. I figure it’s going to be a fairly big purchase for myself and want something that is going to do a fabulous job - when at home I walk around in bare feet so I can feel where I’m walking better, but dirty feet drive me insane. submitted by /u/KTreddit22 to r/australia [link] [comments]

I've been wanting a robot vacuum and mop for a while. I've been doing a ton of research and am starting to feel overwhelmed with picking one because every review says something different. I have a goldendoodle and a lot of sun light in my house so I can always see his paw prints and it makes me feel like my house is always dirty but mopping every day is exhausting. Here is what I'm looking for robot vacuum and mop good on LVP flooring great mopping feature that actually cleans the floor, not just makes it wet something to run a few times a week to keep my floors looking and feeling clean between the deep-cleans I do myself $300-$400 but willing to spend a little more if it's really worth it I've been looking at the Roborock Qrevo Pro Robot Vacuum and Mop with FlexiArm Design Edge Mopping from Macy's and the Roborock Q10 PF+ Cordless Vacuum and Mop 6.5" Cleaning Path from Target, but am totally open to other options. TIA! submitted by /u/Fun-Cauliflower-2355 to r/RobotVacuums [link] [comments]

I bought a self-emptying, self-cleaning robot vacuum and mop, and it’s genuinely been the single most impactful purchase I’ve made for my mental health as an adult. The constant background stress of dirty floors just disappeared. It changed how my home feels day-to-day. Ask me anything. submitted by /u/working_onmyhome to r/AMA [link] [comments]

Hi all, I'm currently researching the robovac. There are way too many models and I'm totally lost on which one to go for. I have a busy house with 3 kids and I need to vacuum every 2 days or so to keep it clean (not that i always get to do this!). I just want something that actually cleans, real mopping, lasts long, not bump a lot. I guess I want to know are robot vacuums actually good? And also is a cheaper one mean an inferior one? I don't want to spend thousands on one because it has a brand name on it. Plus: If so, what's the best robot vacuum you've ever bought? Need some real-world suggestions. Thanks everyone! submitted by /u/throwmyheartaway23 to r/BuyItForLife [link] [comments]

Key highlights: “While it’s not perfect, Matic is the robot vacuum I would buy if my house weren’t overrun with them.” “Then I met Matic. It’s a complete rethink of the household robot. From design and navigation to cleaning performance and mobility, it’s been built from the ground up to address the problems of today’s robot vacuums. And it succeeds.” “Matic is not the most powerful robot vacuum I’ve tested, but by successfully solving the major problems of today’s robots, it sets itself apart.” “Matic just works. It doesn’t have fancy features like an extending roller mop or appendages, but it does what it’s designed to do – keep your home clean – exceptionally well.” “It rarely got stuck, able to respond to obstacles on the fly.” “It’s shockingly quiet, at just 55dB. I can let the Matic run while I’m working or watching TV in the same room.” “My favorite feature is that if it encounters an issue it can’t resolve on its own … it will return to its dock after 15 minutes of no intervention from you. This means it never dies mid-clean because of an issue, unlike every other bot I’ve ever tested.” “Its standout feature, however, is that it’s the first robot I’ve tested where all processing happens on the device, and it can operate entirely offline. … you can control it with the app over Bluetooth.” “Rectangular, not round, all its sensors and components are accessible from the top… All of this makes it feel more like a cute companion than a floor-cleaning machine (a pack of stickers and googly eyes included in the box accentuate this effect).” “Setting up Matic was delightful – not something I’ve ever said about a robot vac before…” “In side-by-side tests, Matic outperformed the Roborock Saros 10 R in getting up dried oatmeal on hardwood… mainly because … it moves back and forth in a circular pattern to make sure it gets it all.” “Those wheels … allow it to cross large transitions and chunky rugs easily…” “During my six months with Matic, my house has never been cleaner – because it consistently cleaned my floors with minimal input from me.” “The company has also been proactive with software improvements … introduced several new features during my testing …” “There are more powerful, cheaper, and faster robot vacuums, but Matic is the best solution for most people willing to spend over $1,000 … It requires far less maintenance, makes far less noise, and is far less likely to get stuck, making it a much more pleasant experience in your home.” And, yes, I am a co-founder at Matic. Our team has built something special, so I am sharing... submitted by /u/Matic_Mehul to r/RobotVacuums [link] [comments]

Its actually terrible at cleaning - as if we "found it on a derelict ship, hosed it down, and gave it a mop" 😂. (Too bad she isn't a RD fan 😅) submitted by /u/E-Ehsan to r/RedDwarf [link] [comments]

Last night, DJI released their sweeping robot, which uses a double rotating mop. there are such Track mop and Rotating Mop on the market. Which kind of mop you think would be better? submitted by /u/robertwushaojie to r/RobotVacuums [link] [comments]

As the title says, I hate mopping. I like having clean floors, but I just keep putting it off because it's such a hassle. It takes too much effort! Like tons of dunking, wringing and dragging the mop around to actually get the floor clean, which only lasts for what, two days before it's all dirty again?! I mean, if we've got machines for laundry and dishes, so why not just get a robot vacuum to handle the floor too?? I've been thinking about getting one lately, but I'm not sure if it's actually worth it. Are they just fancy toys or do they really work? Would love to hear your experiences, worth it or nah?? submitted by /u/leniwiejar to r/CleaningTips [link] [comments]

I want a robot vacuum. I have a busy house with 3 kids and I need to vacuum every 2 days or so to keep it clean (not that i always get to do this!). Lugging out my old vacuum that plugs into the wall is annoying and noisy. I have seen some robot vacuums also mop which sounds good too. I guess I want to know are they actually good? And also is a cheaper one mean an inferior one? I don't want to spend thousands on one because it has a brand name on it. Thanks everyone! submitted by /u/AndItGoesLikeThisx to r/IsItBullshit [link] [comments]

The typical robot vacuum with a base ranges from $250 - $400+. The more expensive the model, the more "features" it contains. The more features it contains....the more items that need maintenance. The more maintenance...the more time and labor spent to fix the errors. Furthermore, there are models that only work on a singular floor and do not have the capacity for multi-floor mapping. For those with a singular level it's fine. For those with an upstairs and downstairs? Awful. Talking about that, unless you buy additional bases you are now carrying all of the base+ vac throughout your floor levels. Hooray! Oh, the run time? From an hour to two hours based on the size of your floor. Might as well ran the vac yourself w/a stick vac or regular upright in a 1/4th of that time. All in the meanwhile you MUST have an already clean home else it will obviously be hindered by its performance. When using a regular vac it's normal to move things around to get to areas. Robot vacs can't be expected to do so, so that receipt that somehow fell off a counter is now its receipt....which clogged its airflow. You're waking up to gang sign errors on your phone. Oh, the noise? LOUD. For those reading this and going "my Wyze that I got for $80....." OK, you enjoy always having to empty it yourself as it's base-less? "Well you have to just run it multiple times a week...." is the same energy as admitting that you truly are willing this thing to work for you vs how you could a few times a week run a cordless stick vac in a matter of minutes and be done with it. I'll admit that if your'e the type who sees a robot vac as just a "helper" and you do the heavy lifting of mopping/vacuuming then yes, it's a great helper. Not though for HUNDREDS of dollars. And let's not get started with how we're basically uploading images and mapping of our homes to unknown servers as we're not all buying name brand ones.... Waste of time. Waste of money. Its use case is truly for the clean freak who is heavily organized, arranged their furniture perfectly, and does not have any kids or pets to interfere AND is not at home when it runs so they don't hear a damn auto shop for 90 mins. submitted by /u/blacksoxing to r/unpopularopinion [link] [comments]

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I AM NOT THE OP. The original posts were made byu/Pristine-Librarian31 in r/TrueOffMyChest and on her personal sub. I don't think this needs any trigger warnings/ mood spoilers, except maybe "verbal and financial abuse" - which is pretty much par for the course in reddit posts. If I missed something, please let me know and I'll edit it in. And remember again, folks, NO BRIGADING! Requested trigger warnings: Grooming and verbal/ physical abuse; mention of murder and sexual assault Original Post (Jan 03, 2023) Obviously it goes without saying it wasnt just the bag of chips but hot cheetos were my breaking point. I couldn't take it anymore. I had already had the terms of separation drawn up 6 months ago when during a heated argument he said "We don't have kids, you should be thankful its only me you cleanup after". I kept hearing it in my head. Thankful .. for cleaning up behind a grown man 10 years older than me? He apologized the next day in detail and told me why what he said was wrong and that he doesn't believe it, but maybe its just out of my character but I don't think the things you say in those moments are just hurtful words. Little bit of truth in them. And then I found his reddit account a few days ago. I accidentally saw the username when he showed me a screenshot. I tried (lmao not really) not to memorize it, and it took me two days to get the courage to look. Inbetween the comments on NSFW subreddits was complaints about me, and posts about me too. One post he'd be ripped to shreds and told he was a piece of crap. Reading those comments made me realize I was nothing but a fucking idiot to think love can fix things. I was 20 when I met him and he was 35. I thought people were being dramatic or annoying about our age gap- because my single father who raised me didn't have an issue! But then I realized he was just the same type of fucking creep. It was almost like my father pre-groomed me to accept certain behavior to make it easier for the other men in my life. Im getting off topic but. I came home early today after a rough day at work and finding out my direct reporting manager had been k-worded by her husband. Then walked in the door to see my lazy, filthy one. I told him what happened to her. I started to cry. He didnt console me. He said "We dont know what made him do that, lets wish both of them luck and move on with our day". Wish.. her luck? The fucking dead lady? I tried to convince myself he just didnt pay attention. That soothed me for about an hour. Until I was in the middle of making dinner and he complained that it was already 6:45pm. I told him he shouldn't be that hungry yet, he just ate half a bag of chips and left them on the table. So instead of a) helping me finish dinner b) apologizing and waiting silently and patiently c) finishing the bag of chips or d) just laughing it off, he threw the bag of chips at me. 7 years together, 4 married. And he's never done anything that down right rude, because low self esteem aside thats something that wont fly with me either way. The chips landed all over the floor I had just mopped and swept. Whatever glare I gave him, it was enough to make him grab the broom in 30 seconds. It wasn't enough to make him at least check that it was all swept up and vacuum after. So when I finished dinner and brought our plates to the dinner table, thinking "wow.. I really spoil him. The entire time we've dated, I've always made his plates and brought them right to him. No one has ever done that for me." and I stepped on a chip. It didn't hurt or anything, but I screamed. Not sure why. I just couldn't take it anymore. So, I ran to the home office and came back out with the papers and pen. Put them in front of his dinner plate and walked out while he was yelling my name. I'm killing a burger and fries in my car right now and realizing I have to start all over. My life is done. My love for him is too. I hope I don't cave. I hope I don't let him convince me. I hope if I start to change my mind I come back and read this post so that I understand this is not a heated decision this is something I need to do if I ever want anything like a real fucking life. ​ From the Comments: Redditor: Not to mention if he knows he can treat you however he wants what's to stop him from doing exactly what you bosses husband did to her? (Link) OP: This is all I could really think about. If dinner is late one day, will he hurt me? He's never actually hit me but sometimes he makes that weird jump motion and balls up his fists during arguments. I just couldnt believe he had zero empathy for a woman who was hurt by someone she trusted and shared her life with. I saw her on Monday and never would've thought this could happen. ​ In reply to a heartfelt comment of a woman who went through a similar experience: I'm genuinely so happy to hear things got better for you. It feels almost like (hopefully) future me writing to current me. Especially regarding bodies. I didnt include it, but the reason the burger and fries was so rewarding is that he always persuaded me not to eat it because I'd get fat and he wouldn't love me anymore. So even if I asked for a burger, he would order a grilled chicken sandwich or something. Thank you sincerely for your words. Seeing these & other comments from women who went through the same is helping me so much right now. ​ Redditor: So proud of you for this!!! Leave and never look back. Moments like this are Phoenix moments. Yes, this part is over but a new life and journey has begun. (Link) ​ Update (Jan 04, 2023) (Note from OP: She posted more or less the same update here, too, but the one on her personal sub was the extended version, so I used that.) Okay yeah I wasn't expecting this sort of reaction.. I didnt even log back on reddit and see all of the replies, I was scrolling on tiktok and saw my own post on my fyp which is really weird the algorithm is alogrithiming a bit scary. I really do appreciate the support and kind messages.. dont appreciate the weird men using this as a time to hit on me and send me selfies when I'm obviously in a weak moment. Guess I'm a loser magnet or something. Crazy part is this courage started growing when I saw someone's "wife strike" on tiktok soon after downloading the app during lockdown. Then read the comments and found some sort of solidarity and finally realized I wasn't the problem. I really was just posing it so I could leave for good this time. I'm sorry that my post isnt very concise or thorough, but this isn't the first time I've left him. It's the 4th but its the one for good. I'm done. I've been saving money since I left the first time 2 years ago. I'm not trapped with him anymore. When I left the 2nd time, I knew being a house wife would never give me leverage in our relationship so I got a job. Back then it was just to even the playing field and show him I can earn my keep. Now its literally my saving grace. Half our relationship was built on lies (he told me he was 8 years older at first, then 10, then the truth of it being 15 came out) that I've always tried to get over. Because people "deserve forgiveness" according to my dad, the only person I ever went to besides reddit about advice. I just want know what peace is like in my own home. I went straight from living with my dad to living with my boyfriend/current husband. I can comfortably take blame for how my marriage is. How my life is. My dad may have conditioned and started a lot of it, but I'm old enough to have put my foot down a long time ago. My husband and my father being the only two men I've ever had ANY type of relationship at 27 is my own fault. Sure, I was taught growing up that when men are around don't make eye contact and keep my head down. And I did it always because good girls listen is what I was taught and all I ever knew. How did the wave of feminism keep missing me? How did I allow my father to push away every close female relationship I had? How did I allow both of them to alienate me from the world? Two years ago a woman my age (I think) asked for a tampon in the bathroom and I gave her one and we had a 5 minute conversation of "girl talk" that I gushed over. I played it over and over for months until I realized it was absolutely insane. All she did was ask me what my favorite coffee order was and said I was pretty and she loved my handmade earrings. I had an extra pair in my car and gave them to her and she hugged me. That was it. But I held on to those 5 minutes because it was the last time I had a interaction with a human being that didn't leave me feeling empty. I should've left for good when he told me that getting a masters degree is for men. I should've left when I picked up wood working and simple robotics as hobbies and he told me that I might be transgender, and that he can't be attracted to a woman that wants to be a man. I'm not trans or transphobic, I just like the smell of freshly sawed wood and making new things. I should've left when I got accepted into the best university in the state and he told me that women would be happier if they stopped trying to compete with men. I should've left when my dad died and told me I wasn't "upset enough" about the man who would choke me over burning food and dinner not being good at 11 years old. Our relationship got considerably worse after the wedding when I told him everything my dad had done. I should've left when I got groped at a concert and he bought the guy a drink later. I should've left when his friends said things about my body and he just joined in, and later told me I "shouldnt complain and enjoy the attention while it lasts". I should've left when I told him I wasn't sure if I wanted kids, and he told me I wasn't a real woman if I didn't want them. I should've left when he admitted to having his fellow officers follow me and show up to my job to make sure I was actually where I said I was. I should've left when he gave me the silent treatment for a month when I told him it was controlling and would only communicate via sticky notes. I should've left when I caught him sending nudes to a 19 year old. I definitely should've left him when the same girl replied to his nude photos with telling him how much of a loser he is and saying she felt bad for his wife. Besides being predatory, that one was quite frankly just embarrassing. I guess the reason I stayed so long is that he makes it seem like he's trying. After I caught him sexting, he immediately signed up for sex addict therapy. When he said things that were hateful towards women, I would then see videos in his youtube watch history about unlearning sexism. Watched all the way through. I would think, hey, at least thats way more than my dad ever did. Hey, at least he doesn't hit me. Hey, at least he brings me flowers and takes me on dates often. Men are just like that, I was told. Men have to be respected, I was told. Your husband deserves full trust, I thought. To this day, I'm not sure if he did these to please me temporarily or because he meant it and at least half tried. I made the mistake of not leaving at least a hundred times. I will never make that mistake again. He texted and called nonstop after I left. I went back to our home, his house to get necessities with headphones on and he came out of nowhere and snatched them off my head and destroyed them. Airpod max's I just bought. I just kept packing and ignored everything he said until I realized my passport was gone. He wont admit it but he 100% has it. I know it. He wouldn't sign the papers. We argued a bit and I finally just said it. I don't love you anymore. I can't love someone like you. I'm a grown woman now, and I don't want to be with you anymore. He countered with you can't survive without me. I'm the only man who's ever loved you. You don't have anything without me. I'm the bread winner. This is my house. You have no money, no family, no friends. He's only right about the last two. I told him that we dont have a prenup, and if we divorce with him fighting me on it I'll get half of everything. But if he signs the papers I gave him, it agrees to leave him the house and all furniture, 3 of 4 cars, and 80% of the money in our savings and investments. I can walk away and start over. I want to walk away and start over. He on the other hand, probably needs a retirement plan that isn't young women. Its more than he deserves but I don't want to look at anything I have and be reminded of him. When he realized the yelling and threats wouldn't work, he tried tears. And I almost caved. Then I remembered he was fucking 42 years old on his knees crying about a 27 year old that just wanted to be treated with love, dignity, and respect. I gave him close to a decade of my life. Of nothing but loyalty and love. When he lashed out in anger, I responded with love. I'm all out of love. I picked a random airbnb over state lines so he has little pull here and my job is allowing me to work remotely for now. I can already see a life thats actually worth living coming to me. I have a lot of legal stuff to figure out that will be a headache, but its still a smaller headache than loving him was. I don't think I'll go back. I only use this account for wood working and photos of cows so yeah. Sorry if I am not super responsive, it was a lot of replies, and I'm trying to go through them. Really thank you though to the kind words. I've cried and felt more supported today than I have my entire life. ​ OP hasn't posted or commented any further - I hope she's safe and made sure her ex can't find her (I'm a bit paranoid for her, actually - an abusive armed law enforcement ex, whose wife is finally leaving him, sounds like the beginning of a true crime story). Hopefully, she'll give us updates occasionally, so we can follow her as she starts her new life. She deserves friends and fun and freedom, and I hope she finds all of it! submitted by /u/Corfiz74 to r/BestofRedditorUpdates [link] [comments]