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Swing
What is Swing?

Swing refers to a social and sexual practice where couples engage in sexual activities with other couples or individuals, often in a consensual and open manner. It has gained popularity in recent years as a form of alternative lifestyle and relationship exploration.

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MOM: -3.57%
How much search volume does it get?
Google searches
90.5K/mo
Amazon searches
62.5K/mo
TikTok views
1.9B
TikTok videos
132.8K
Who is interested in this?
Gender
Female
75%
Male
15%
Unspecified
10%
Age
18-24
51%
25-34
23%
35-44
13%
45-49
4%
50-54
3%
55-64
4%
65+
2%

Is Swing trending?

Swing declining with a month-over-month change of -0.06% over the past 5 years, though it still receives approximately 90,500 monthly searches.


Why is Swing trending?

1
Increased Acceptance of Alternative Lifestyles
As societal norms evolve, there is a growing acceptance of non-traditional relationship structures, including swinging. This shift allows individuals to explore their sexuality without fear of judgment.
2
Desire for Enhanced Intimacy
Many couples find that swinging can enhance their intimacy and communication. Engaging with others can lead to deeper connections and a better understanding of each other's desires.
3
Exploration of Sexual Fantasies
Swinging provides an opportunity for individuals and couples to explore their sexual fantasies in a safe and consensual environment, allowing for personal growth and satisfaction.
4
Community and Social Connections
The swinging community often fosters a sense of belonging and camaraderie among its members. Many find friendships and support within this community, enhancing their overall experience.
5
Access to Resources and Education
With the rise of online platforms and social media, individuals interested in swinging have access to a wealth of resources, including forums, blogs, and events that educate and connect like-minded people.

Where is this trending?

Images
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Related queries
Demographics
Gender
Female
75%
Male
15%
Unspecified
10%
Age
18-24
30%
25-34
30%
35-44
21%
45-49
6%
50-54
5%
55-64
6%
65+
4%
1.9B video views
132.8K published videos
Demographics
Age
18-24
74%
25-34
16%
35+
10%
Top countries
Norway
17%
Iceland
10%
Ireland
9%
Sweden
9%
United States
9%
Audience interests
Fishing, Hunting & Camping Other Transportation Sports News Traditional Sports Non-Video Games
Related hashtags
#golfer #carseat #golfswing #babystroller

What are people saying?

45 threads
AI Insights Mixed sentiment
Discussions around the term 'swing' cover various contexts, including sports strategies, political voter behaviors, and personal anecdotes related to past decisions. Participants express opinions on the usage of 'swing' in different scenarios, from gaming to trading.
Sports Strategies
Users discuss the concept of 'swing' in sports, particularly in relation to gameplay and tactics, highlighting its implications on performance.
Political Voter Dynamics
The term is used to describe the behavior of swing voters in political contexts, reflecting shifts in voting patterns and electoral strategies.
Personal Reflections
Participants share personal stories and regrets about past decisions, particularly in relation to items they sold or traded.
Trading and Market Movements
Discussions include references to 'swing trading' in financial markets, indicating strategies for buying and selling assets.
Cultural References
The term 'swing' is also mentioned in cultural contexts, such as wine discussions, where it refers to trends and changes in preferences.
Common questions
  • What are the best strategies for swing trading?
  • How do swing voters influence elections?
  • Can you share experiences related to swing in sports?
  • What are the implications of a swing in market trends?
  • How does swing relate to personal decision-making?
Pain points
  • Frustration with misunderstood gameplay strategies in sports.
  • Concerns over the unpredictability of swing voters.
  • Regrets about past financial decisions.
  • Challenges in interpreting market swings.
  • Dissatisfaction with current cultural trends in wine.
imdb2.freeforums.net
RE:Word Association Game
porch - swing
Catman · Mar 26, 2026
247sports.com
RE:@Dallas Baptist
DBU will use a guy who pitched twice last weekend to start on Friday…. Let’s swing it
Whatsup123out · Mar 26, 2026
lihkg.com
RE:佛州政情大地震! 川普大本營竟遭翻盤 民主黨取得指標性勝利
今次唔同 MAGA唔妥以色列 用埋油價搞到swing voter
オダクラブcaddy · Mar 26, 2026
www.bigsoccer.com
RE:Colombia vs Croatia (March 26)
vix commentators saying we're not taking the game seriously bc we swing the ball side to side and do nothing with it. They obviously dont watch our games lol this is what lorenzo wants.
Deez · Mar 26, 2026
www.pistonheads.com
RE:"Regrets, I've had a few...
Selling my Z1, 16 years ago for £5000. So stupid. Braced frame. Alloy swing arm. Lester alloys. 1075cc, welded crank, gas flowed head, smooth bores, etc etc. decided to give up bikes, which I did for a few years. Now got GSX1400. XJR1300 and T100 triumph.
Stevemr · Mar 26, 2026
www.practicalmachinist.com
RE:How far would YOU push this roughing cut?
If you guys had only seen some roughing cuts from really heavy duty machines back in the day. Some of the old timers I knew would be laughing their asses off reading about these "roughing" cuts on modern machines. I used to routinely run about that depth of cut and nearly triple your feed rate on 52Rc 410 stainless overlay. And that was only a 24" swing lathe.
eKretz · Mar 26, 2026
r/SipsTea
Ballet skills swinging into action
submitted by /u/Empty_Mind_On to r/SipsTea [link] [comments]
Empty_Mind_On · Mar 24, 2026
r/Pennsylvania
Fetterman hit with brutal 108-point polling swing: ‘He is below the lowest of the low’
Various snippets: Sen. John Fetterman’s political future is not looking bright if he decides to stay in the Democratic Party. “And to put a comparison to it, you always hear about how Chuck Schumer is disliked by the Democratic base nationwide,” Enten added. “Chuck Schumer has a net popularity rating of about -2 points. He is net 38 points more popular than John Fetterman with Pennsylvania Democrats. I was also looking at Kyrsten Sinema, who of course ended up leaving the Democratic Party in Arizona. She was considerably more popular just before she shifted over than John Fetterman is at -40 points.” Enten then pointed out the poll reflects a 108-point swing while highlighting previous Democratic Senators who lost re-election bids. “(Fetterman) is below the lowest of the low, the ones who actually got beat in a primary,” he said. “There is no historical analog to this. That is how unpopular John Fetterman is with Pennsylvania Democrats. There is basically no doubt in my mind that if Fetterman decides to run for re-election as a Democrat he will face a primary challenge, and it will be a very competitive one.” Enten then touched on Fetterman ‘s claim this week that the Democratic Party runs on “Trump Derangement Syndrome.” “That is the last thing that Democrats want to hear,” Enten said. submitted by /u/Silent-Resort-3076 to r/Pennsylvania [link] [comments]
Silent-Resort-3076 · Mar 21, 2026
r/politics
Fetterman hit with brutal 108-point polling swing: ‘He is below the lowest of the low’
submitted by /u/Silent-Resort-3076 to r/politics [link] [comments]
Silent-Resort-3076 · Mar 21, 2026
r/nonmonogamy
I swinged too much
Throw away Account as my partner knows my main one. I am 32years old, female, have been swinging with my partner (37 years) every now and then. We are together for 2 years. last year he went crazy about it. It was clearly too much for me. When I wanted to have a weekend without it he still was talking about it, showing pictures. As he is working every second weekend we were doing it 2x months. During the week we barely saw each other, weekend too or we were swinging. We started in the beginning with FMF/FFM but he wanted to stop that, we switched to sex clubs and also apps . Anyway we still did MMF and couples as he was organizing it… he wanted me to find a unicorn but I was so fed up from all the other activity. I really don’t know why I agreed to it because I needed break but I couldn’t communicate it in the right way. I have a history of SA but worked it through. However, especially during some of the events I dissociated and I couldn’t say no to some things. He was upset too as I wasn’t following some rules we agreed (like equal play, no deep throat, no too long sex session with the other guy, checking in by eye contact) I talked to him that it is hard to assert myself, that I dissociate and I need a break. I literally was paralyzed. He only understood when I was laying like a dead fish once… also when i got upset that he was just passive and didnt really check jn on me too. We are on the break from swinging for 2 months. However, I don’t feel anything when we two have sex. By now at least I can enjoy myself alone a bit. However he started to talk about swinging last weekend. I wonder what happened and what I can do? And how I can communicate with him so he finally understands? submitted by /u/Altruistic_Most3492 to r/nonmonogamy [link] [comments]
Altruistic_Most3492 · Mar 13, 2026
r/PoliticalHumor
Trump seems more worried about his golf swing than the war he started.
submitted by /u/Significant-Sir-4343 to r/PoliticalHumor [link] [comments]
Significant-Sir-4343 · Mar 9, 2026
r/PublicFreakout
I think he wants bro to swing
submitted by /u/bigbusta to r/PublicFreakout [link] [comments]
bigbusta · Feb 15, 2026
All threads (45)
Thread Source Author Date
RE:Word Association Game
porch - swing
imdb2.freeforums.net Catman Mar 26, 2026
RE:@Dallas Baptist
DBU will use a guy who pitched twice last weekend to start on Friday…. Let’s swing it
247sports.com Whatsup123out Mar 26, 2026
RE:佛州政情大地震! 川普大本營竟遭翻盤 民主黨取得指標性勝利
今次唔同 MAGA唔妥以色列 用埋油價搞到swing voter
lihkg.com オダクラブcaddy Mar 26, 2026
RE:Colombia vs Croatia (March 26)
vix commentators saying we're not taking the game seriously bc we swing the ball side to side and do nothing with it. They obviously dont watch our games lol this is what lorenzo wants.
www.bigsoccer.com Deez Mar 26, 2026
RE:"Regrets, I've had a few...
Selling my Z1, 16 years ago for £5000. So stupid. Braced frame. Alloy swing arm. Lester alloys. 1075cc, welded crank, gas flowed head, smooth bores, etc etc. decided to give up bikes, which I did for a few years. Now got GSX1400. XJR1300 and T100 triumph.
www.pistonheads.com Stevemr Mar 26, 2026
RE:How far would YOU push this roughing cut?
If you guys had only seen some roughing cuts from really heavy duty machines back in the day. Some of the old timers I knew would be laughing their asses off reading about these "roughing" cuts on modern machines. I used to routinely run about that depth of cut and nearly triple your feed rate on 52Rc 410 stainless overlay. And that was only a 24" swing lathe.
www.practicalmachinist.com eKretz Mar 26, 2026
14 Nights in Turkey / Greece for 2 Under £240pp - 3 Options - April & May Dates - inc. Return Flights + Transfers + 23kg Luggage
... after a busy day relaxing. Swing by the pool for a...
www.hotukdeals.com Rmcstar Mar 26, 2026
RE:Tomorrow will be the ultimate ..
... one share. This will definitely swing back up sooner than you...
finance.yahoo.com Joseph Mar 26, 2026
RE:Portal News
BVandal said... (original post) I was hearing 500k offers for Rasmussen. Just too big of number for us to compete against. I bet he ends up at Gonzaga. He spent time in Utah his senior year of HS. Those schools will all take a swing at him. Utah and Utah State are certainly in play.
247sports.com RussetReaper Mar 26, 2026
Re: Mainland Chinese students are being taught about Bitcoin
... just can day trade or swing trade? If it's true then...
bitcointalk.org ZAINmalik75 Mar 26, 2026
RE:2025 Premiership(s) List Making and Trading
... club doing something statistical to swing the needle an inch Remember... would have had a free swing at Chad and Kane Despite...
www.bigfooty.com GreyCrow Mar 26, 2026
RE:ORIOLES Opening Day 2026
DCMic said... (original post) Cowser You know you can't challenge a swing and a miss, right?
247sports.com skindeep Mar 26, 2026
RE:CBS Sports Josh Edwards Mock Draft (DREAM DRAFT)
..., have D. Jones be your swing tackle, draft the best available...
247sports.com milesjack32 Mar 26, 2026
RE:The future of California Cabernet Sauvignon...not positive I like the direction
Robert.A.Jr: Haha, you’ve had your 25-year run of blowsy wines, now it’s time again for us AFWE!!! It’s great to see the pendulum swinging back… The pendulum has to swing back, otherwise people won’t be able to tell Snoop Dogg Cali Red from Harlan.
www.wineberserkers.com Anton_D Mar 26, 2026
RE:Fate/mirrored moon (Fate/stay night AU)
... out, grasping the edge. I swing into the floor below. Time ...
forums.spacebattles.com Herrscher of Flamescion Mar 26, 2026
RE:Work Trip to San Diego - Options for Evening Activities
FlipFlop said: This is fun because it’s also right there at the end of the gaslamp area which is my recommendation. You can have pre game dinner, game, post game drinks. All around a great spot with lots of options that everyone will enjoy Making mental notes to contact you when we take our boys out for the West Coast stadium swing in a few years
www.thehackersparadise.com LeftyGolferWI Mar 26, 2026
RE:[ti]GameDay[/ti]UCONN v UNC S16 - 3/27/26 5:00 PM - TV: ESPN
... and a big gurd or swing player with court awareness. She...
uconnterritory.freeforums.net magic Mar 26, 2026
RE:Sweet sixteen tickets
Certainly the late purchasers will swing to Houston pretty heavily.
247sports.com tomvaughan Mar 26, 2026
RE:唔訓既你 依家做緊咩野?
鍾意咗一個人 今日發現佢swing the other way
lihkg.com 火車好撚迫 Mar 26, 2026
RE:Oklahoma Softball at LSU Tigers: Friday-Saturday-Sunday: Boomer!
... season during the first weekend swing on the west coast. I...
247sports.com OUBeliever56 Mar 26, 2026
RE:Molten Salt Cannon [FEH FI, ft. Nihilo]
... its head in one downward swing. There was a subtle shimmer... creation and driven into the swing, tearing apart the air with... going swimmingly, so we can swing by to kill two wyverns ...
forums.spacebattles.com Arkos Mar 26, 2026
RE:Canadian political thread
... a few that voted Liberal swing back to the Conservatives too...
arstechnica.com goates Mar 26, 2026
RE:Round 3: Essendon vs North Melbourne, Docklands, Saturday 28/03/26, 7:35 PM
... respond rather than a big swing of the axe make a...
www.bigfooty.com Bjchan13 Mar 26, 2026
Ballet skills swinging into action
submitted by /u/Empty_Mind_On to r/SipsTea [link] [comments]
reddit.com Empty_Mind_On Mar 24, 2026
Fetterman hit with brutal 108-point polling swing: ‘He is below the lowest of the low’
Various snippets: Sen. John Fetterman’s political future is not looking bright if he decides to stay in the Democratic Party. “And to put a comparison to it, you always hear about how Chuck Schumer is disliked by the Democratic base nationwide,” Enten added. “Chuck Schumer has a net popularity rating of about -2 points. He is net 38 points more popular than John Fetterman with Pennsylvania Democrats. I was also looking at Kyrsten Sinema, who of course ended up leaving the Democratic Party in Arizona. She was considerably more popular just before she shifted over than John Fetterman is at -40 points.” Enten then pointed out the poll reflects a 108-point swing while highlighting previous Democratic Senators who lost re-election bids. “(Fetterman) is below the lowest of the low, the ones who actually got beat in a primary,” he said. “There is no historical analog to this. That is how unpopular John Fetterman is with Pennsylvania Democrats. There is basically no doubt in my mind that if Fetterman decides to run for re-election as a Democrat he will face a primary challenge, and it will be a very competitive one.” Enten then touched on Fetterman ‘s claim this week that the Democratic Party runs on “Trump Derangement Syndrome.” “That is the last thing that Democrats want to hear,” Enten said. submitted by /u/Silent-Resort-3076 to r/Pennsylvania [link] [comments]
reddit.com Silent-Resort-3076 Mar 21, 2026
Fetterman hit with brutal 108-point polling swing: ‘He is below the lowest of the low’
submitted by /u/Silent-Resort-3076 to r/politics [link] [comments]
reddit.com Silent-Resort-3076 Mar 21, 2026
I swinged too much
Throw away Account as my partner knows my main one. I am 32years old, female, have been swinging with my partner (37 years) every now and then. We are together for 2 years. last year he went crazy about it. It was clearly too much for me. When I wanted to have a weekend without it he still was talking about it, showing pictures. As he is working every second weekend we were doing it 2x months. During the week we barely saw each other, weekend too or we were swinging. We started in the beginning with FMF/FFM but he wanted to stop that, we switched to sex clubs and also apps . Anyway we still did MMF and couples as he was organizing it… he wanted me to find a unicorn but I was so fed up from all the other activity. I really don’t know why I agreed to it because I needed break but I couldn’t communicate it in the right way. I have a history of SA but worked it through. However, especially during some of the events I dissociated and I couldn’t say no to some things. He was upset too as I wasn’t following some rules we agreed (like equal play, no deep throat, no too long sex session with the other guy, checking in by eye contact) I talked to him that it is hard to assert myself, that I dissociate and I need a break. I literally was paralyzed. He only understood when I was laying like a dead fish once… also when i got upset that he was just passive and didnt really check jn on me too. We are on the break from swinging for 2 months. However, I don’t feel anything when we two have sex. By now at least I can enjoy myself alone a bit. However he started to talk about swinging last weekend. I wonder what happened and what I can do? And how I can communicate with him so he finally understands? submitted by /u/Altruistic_Most3492 to r/nonmonogamy [link] [comments]
reddit.com Altruistic_Most3492 Mar 13, 2026
Trump seems more worried about his golf swing than the war he started.
submitted by /u/Significant-Sir-4343 to r/PoliticalHumor [link] [comments]
reddit.com Significant-Sir-4343 Mar 9, 2026
I think he wants bro to swing
submitted by /u/bigbusta to r/PublicFreakout [link] [comments]
reddit.com bigbusta Feb 15, 2026
I think he wants bro to swing
submitted by /u/Automatic-Fact8065 to r/fightporn [link] [comments]
reddit.com Automatic-Fact8065 Feb 15, 2026
"This patient has really bad mood swings for no reason"
97 year old man, wife died 3 months ago, and had a fall while walking his dog. Hip is broken. Family requested him on ibuprofen only because "addiction runs in the family" (HE has never been addicted and is, again, 97). Doctor complied. He was on gabapentin and Tegretol. Doctor took him off the tegretol and put him on Keppra. Gabapentin was increased for nerve pain, but then dropped from 800 mg 3x daily to 600 3x daily. Family said it made him too sleepy so they lowered it to 300 mg 3 times a day. He couldn't sleep at night with 6 mg of melatonin so they gave him 15 mg of Remeron RIGHT off the bat. Had another fall in the hospital, knee is shattered now. His daughter lowered all the bed side rails and turned off his bed alarm because she was scared of him moving too much and it going off and scaring her. Still on ibuprofen and also tylenol. Multiple CT scans with contrast. Two surgeries now. Multiple rectal laxatives because of constipation. Rectal Tylenol for some reason??? Foley + no brief policy hospital. Patient reports he wished he died because he hates life. Now on Lexapro with a sitter. All personal belongings removed from room, constantly watched by a 19 year old CNA, and cannot have visitors now because of hospital policy. TV in room is broken. Family can't find glasses so wearing a pair from Walmart. No physical aggression, just cursing at and refusing care. Staff reports he goes from fine to snapping at sitter, crying, and bouts of silliness. It's just such a mystery of why he is like this. submitted by /u/Resident-Sympathy-82 to r/nursing [link] [comments]
reddit.com Resident-Sympathy-82 Feb 7, 2026
WCGW swinging a mic on a small stage
submitted by /u/JamieUKSubs to r/Whatcouldgowrong [link] [comments]
reddit.com JamieUKSubs Jan 31, 2026
The biggest liquidity swing in human history!
submitted by /u/vishesh_07_028 to r/StockMarket [link] [comments]
reddit.com vishesh_07_028 Jan 30, 2026
Swinging Wieners
submitted by /u/icyhotonmynuts to r/LoveTrash [link] [comments]
reddit.com icyhotonmynuts Jan 20, 2026
Democrats finally come out swinging.
submitted by /u/NickCostanza to r/ProgressiveHQ [link] [comments]
reddit.com NickCostanza Jan 14, 2026
One swings for the fences and the other bunts
submitted by /u/JennyBeckman to r/BlackPeopleTwitter [link] [comments]
reddit.com JennyBeckman Jan 14, 2026
Trump rigged the election, there is NO WAY he won all the swing states.
It's just not legit and the spineless Dems chose not to confront these goblins about it, Kamala Harris hinted at it by saying she wouldnt run again due to the U.S. political system being "broken". She's implying shady shit went down but didnt have the foresight or the ballz to challenge it. Same thing with Gore. Feckless, cowardly democrats who won't take democracy up as a serious issue. submitted by /u/RevyRitz to r/complaints [link] [comments]
reddit.com RevyRitz Dec 12, 2025
Swinging a hammer
submitted by /u/ElderberryDeep8746 to r/instant_regret [link] [comments]
reddit.com ElderberryDeep8746 Oct 28, 2025
The homeowner saw on the security camera that a bear was playing on the outdoor swing every day, but couldn't get on. So he had a bigger swing built, and this was the result.
submitted by /u/Soloflow786 to r/BeAmazed [link] [comments]
reddit.com Soloflow786 Oct 15, 2025
Disturbing video shows lawmaker stuffing ballots in swing state that Trump only won by 80,000 votes
submitted by /u/dailymail to r/NoFilterNews [link] [comments]
reddit.com dailymail Aug 17, 2025
My (F25) husband (M30) convinced me to swing. I think it broke us.
Me & my husband have been together for 5 years. He has two friends from college who are a couple, Mike (M30) & Tina (F28). They've all been close since we met, and I immediately liked them both, and they really took to me as well. I really feel like they are my friends too A while back they told me that they were in an open relationship and enjoyed swinging. This was after we all had a few drinks & I talked about how my husband was my first relationship & my first sexual partner. They knew that already, but this time the talk got a bit more into specifics. They weren't pressuring me into anything & I didn't feel like they were trying to get me into anything (you all know the meme). I didn't think this thing was for me, and honestly I still don't. But they've been together many years and if that works for them - all power to them. Well ever since they told me, my husband got kinda weird. Mike & Tina didn't really bring the subject up anymore, but my husband kinda just wouldn't let it go. At first he kept asking me if I thought Mike was good-looking, or if I thought he was nice. And he kept enthusing about Tina - how Tina was so hot, and Tina was such a good wife, and such a good friend, and so kind. I know he had a thing for Tina way back, but tgought that was over since she was with Mike. Then he started talking about how hot it made him thinking about me with another man, or another woman, and the talk would always get him really excited and we'd have sex. I thought it was kinda off, but he seemed happy & excited so I let it be. Then his birthday rolled around and I asked him what he wanted, and he tells me he wants to reach out to Mike & Tina to see if they're into swinging. At first I wasn't really into it, but he kept asking, and begging. He told me he was bored with our sex life and it needed "spicing up". This really hurt my feelings because there's a lot of stuff I wasn't really into but let him do because I thought it made him happy. Whenever I asked him to do something he'd shoot it down or say it made him uncomfortable. Anyway he kept insisting and eventually I agreed. This got him really excited & he told me not to worry about it, and he'd talk it out with Mike & Tina and he'd take care of everything and I was the best wife in the world, which made me really happy, because it's been a while since he was this excited about me. So the day comes, and we meet up at their house and Mike & Tina are being really sweet. And they keep checking comfort levels and... this is the problem. See - the way we did it was that first Tina & me did some stuff as the men watched and... it was nice. I felt very sexy, and very cared for, and Tina seemed really happy too. Then Mike took me to the bedroom while my husband & Tina stayed in the living room. And it was lovely. Mike was so attentive and so excited and again I felt really beautiful and really desirable. We stayed there for apparently a really long time, and I think I looked maybe too happy when we returned to the living room? And when we returned it was kinda weird, because Tina & my husband were just kinda sitting there on their phones & my husband looked kinda upset. And he said something like "oh finally" and said it was time to go home and I barely got a chance to say goodbye. Ever since, my husband's been a bit weird - he doesn't talk about it anymore and when I try to tell him about my time with Mike or ask about Tina he just shuts down. We haven't really talked to them since. But also the sex drive is gone. The few times we did have sex since I realized he doesn't really... do it for me anymore. And it seems like he doesn't even wanna try anymore. I met Tina a few days ago and an we talked. I told her everything because I felt really alone in this and really wanted to talk to someone. I asked her about what happened with my husband and she told me he just finished really quickly and wasn't really into satisfying her before or afterwards. She wasn't really botheres and told me men were like that sometimes with her but she said he got distant & defensive & she didn't really wanted to talk to him anymore, but she thought I was lovely & Mike thought so too, which made me feel really good about myself. Then she said she kinda got it though, since I was really into it & he just came along. This got a literal "excuse me WTF" out of me. Then we talked some more and turns out my husband had been setting this up for weeks - way before I agreed. And he kept telling them he was doing this for me, and I was really into it and kept insisting I brought it up and was really into it, which is a total lie. Then we talk more & the more we talked the more I realize just how unsatisfied I am in my relationship, both emotionally & sexually. I don't think polyamory, swinging, open relationships etc. Is for me. But I think being married to my husband isn't really for me either. I don't wanna sound spoiled or entitled, but at the very least I think I deserve to be with a man who won't lie to me, and who will make me feel loved & satisfied, or at least, I dunno, make the effort? I haven't talked to him about this yet, but I just think I really needed to put it into words before going ahead with this. So... thank you for reading and wish me luck. submitted by /u/NarrowCobbler2424 to r/TrueOffMyChest [link] [comments]
reddit.com NarrowCobbler2424 Nov 1, 2024
Swinging ruined my marriage
About 2 years ago, my husband and I got into a weird situation. Drugs were involved and some friends suggested a “swap”. I didn’t really want to, but went through with it after the other 3 assured me it would be fine. It was fine. I looked at it as a one time “woah, that was a crazy thing we did”. My husband spent months asking me to sleep with other women. I would feel guilty for not giving him this, but ultimately I know that I am not confident enough to be OK with this. He went so far as to make us a swingers account and chat with a couple. That was very hurtful for me. I told him time after time that I was not OK with that and that if that’s what he needed to do, he would be doing that without me and outside of our marriage. He “snapped out” of this behavior about a year ago and has apologized profusely, saying he doesn’t want other women. Until tonight, he got drunk and asked me if I would be OK with “renting him out” for a few hours. In my mind, this is irreversible damage and I can’t believe he would do this again. I have said this is a hard no and a boundary I will not let up on many times. How do I even proceed? tl;dr I have into the pressure to “swing” once and now my husband is not respecting my boundaries. submitted by /u/Live-Ruin178 to r/Marriage [link] [comments]
reddit.com Live-Ruin178 Jan 28, 2024
Do not ever swing
Husband of 7 years introduced me to a swinging couple one year ago. I tried with him to swap with them but put a stop to it as I did not like it. I see this couple every day at drop off and pick up at my daughter’s school as their daughter goes to the same classroom as our daughter. He has knocked up and aborted with the wife twice!!! When this was all discovered he left for two weeks and stayed at the AP and her husband’s house!!!! We have since tried to reconcile but to no avail. Tonight I caught him on the tracker going to this woman’s house. Tomorrow I am calling a lawyer and am going to try to have him served. Meanwhile I’ve been told to try to divorce him quietly but he saw messages of my plans to divorce and leave him. What do I do? Please help. submitted by /u/Character_Way4389 to r/Infidelity [link] [comments]
reddit.com Character_Way4389 Nov 6, 2023
Country swing party
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reddit.com DJ_THIR13EN Nov 20, 2020
The most majestic rope swing
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reddit.com patsltx Feb 20, 2020