Ultrasound Pictures

... 13 week appointment and the ultrasound was great, which made things ... to MFM at 16 weeks, ultrasound was again perfect. I decided ... some of my ultrasounds and pictures. We then were able to ...

... appointment my OB did an ultrasound and saw I had almost... this until I looked at pictures later that he was still...

... then went back for the ultrasound. My husband came with me ... working! They printed us some pictures. After the US, a nurse ...

... friend… I don’t usually share ultrasound pictures. Maybe when I did a...

... to guess haha! In the ultrasound we said we didn’t want ... area… I have a few pictures of baby’s face and one ...

... showed me much more graphic pictures of babies in the womb... and babies aborted. Since real pictures aren't allowed, this is a... fetus 3D printed from an ultrasound. Last edited: Yesterday at 5...

Original post is here for anyone who doesn't know what's going on: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1tzpww7/i_30f_am_pregnant_with_my_fiancé_32m_he_wants_to/ So I spoke to my fiancé yesterday about our situation. It didn't go well. I started off the conversation by asking him if he really wanted this baby, or if he acted excited just in case he was worried I wanted it. Someone suggested this could be what happened, but unfortunately, he told me he really does want this child with me. So I ripped the plaster off and told him I don't want this baby. I told him that I was going to do what we had planned and get an abortion. I wanted him by my side, but if he really has changed his mind, then I need to know. He looked shocked and honestly a bit angry. He asked me how I couldn't be excited about this and how I could want to get rid of our baby. I told him because I never wanted children, I STILL don't want children, and getting pregnant hasn't changed that. He claimed I was still overwhelmed and not thinking straight, and this annoyed me. It's not like I'm suddenly incapable of making rational decisions? I told him I've had the entire day to calm down and think about what I want to say clearly. If he wants a child, then I won't stop him. It hurts because it means the end of our relationship, but he won't be having that child with me. We fundamentally aren't compatible any more. I think he started panicking when he realised I was serious. He started talking faster, trying to convince me to keep the baby, that we'd make good parents, that we'd figure it out, that he'd work harder. He didn't want to listen to the fact that I didn't want to go through with the pregnancy. That I wanted to remain childfree, that our future together was without children in the picture. And to be honest, his insistence was really unnerving. We started arguing because he just wouldn't agree to us separating or me getting an abortion. He never got physical, but his insistence that I COULDN'T get rid of the baby was upsetting me. I didn't think he did anything to my birth control when I made my first post as he's never been that kind of person, but I started having doubts. I asked him how long he had changed his mind about wanting kids and he wouldn't tell me. I asked if it was before or after I told him I was pregnant. He said he didn't know. The relationship was 100% over at this point, so I asked if he had anything else he wanted to tell me. He looked sort of confused, and I elaborated on our birth control methods. Had they been messed with. I can't really explain the expression I saw on his face. It was like fear and anger balled into one. He told me I was nuts and said he couldn't talk to me "when I was like this" and left the house. After that I got all my documents, essentials, electronics and some clothes together. I also left before he got back and went to a friend's place. We're close but not best friend close, so I was expecting her to decline when I asked to crash at hers for a bit. She agreed and after getting in, I told her everything that happened. She's said I can stay with her for as long as I need and she'll be by my side for the abortion. My ex-fiancé called me when he realised I wasn't home. I answered and he demanded to know where I am. I said "with a friend" and refused to give him any details. I explained that I'm getting an abortion, that I don't need his permission or blessing or whatever, and that I would not stand in his way of wanting a family. But he'll need to have it with someone else. We're probably over and neither of us should have to compromise on this. The call was heart-breaking. We both ended up crying. Eventually, he said I can come get my stuff when he's at work, but that I'll regret getting rid of our child. I just said, "okay" and eventually hung up. He's sent me the odd text today asking how I am. Then asking if I'd wait until we could get an ultrasound. I shot that down immediately and he hasn't sent much else. I'm planning on getting the rest of my things tomorrow when he's at work. It's not the outcome I wanted. I really hoped he just...freaked out and didn't want to upset me. But his plans for his life have changed. It's pretty much confirmed we're not together any more. I'll be getting an abortion soon and then I'll try to figure out how to piece my life without my ex in it. I'm sad and mourning the loss of my best friend and partner, but this is preferable to the future he tried to convince me to give in to. Thank you all for your messages and comments. TLDR: Fiancé became ex-fiancé after he confirmed he wanted to keep the baby and tried to pressure me to keep it, too. EDIT: I've posted another update in the comments as the subreddit only allows one update post. submitted by /u/ThrowRA_fallopian_tu to r/relationship_advice [link] [comments]

Another quick edit: (I’m very much pro-choice but) I do not want to terminate. I’m just overwhelmed but I’m sure in a few weeks I’ll feel more excited about it all. Edit to answer some questions: my IUD failed. I know birth control isn’t 100% secure but I tracked my cycle religiously, stayed abstinent during my ovulation window, and must have had a one off ovulation on day 29 🫠 Money wise, we can make it work somehow and would not live in poverty (neither would our children suffer ok. This is a privileged matter of going on 1 vacation a year instead of 2 kinda financial “worry”) and just have to sit down and re-do our finances. We have savings, a supportive family and my husband can pick up more shifts easily but it’s just simply not what we planned for so naturally I’m panicking. And thank you for all the kind words. I’m overwhelmed still looking at the ultrasound pictures every 20 minutes or so. ———————- My twins just turned 2. We had norovirus, kindly gifted to us by daycare and the virus just never quite left me. Started craving ice cubes, still throwing up so I went to the doctors to get my iron levels checked who then asked “any chance of pregnancy?” My dumb ass loudly said “haha no way!” Yes way. Two lines popped up dark and proud immediately in front of this doctor. Started hyperventilating in the parking lot of McDonald’s after that appointment but kind of collected myself again until today. Today we went for our first ultrasound. Two. It’s two again. I threw up when I saw the second one on the screen. We don’t have the space. We don’t really have the money either. Strawberry yoghurt, banana muffin and some skin care as I will need it. submitted by /u/Warm-Okra-2061 to r/GirlDinnerDiaries [link] [comments]

Step-parents often get a bad rap in fiction - Cinderella being a prime example. I love it when you get a step-parent who’s actually a good parent and trying their best. ⁠Brenda - Juno Juno states at the beginning of the film that her biological mother has basically abandoned her. However, she does have Bren, the woman that her father remarried, and throughout the film you see that she can probably win “Mother of the Year.” She calls Juno “honey” and “my kid” throughout the film. She is non-judgemental when she learns that Juno is pregnant at 16 and worries about her health and wellbeing rather than taking any moral stances. She really loses her shit at a ultrasound technician when she makes a judgy comment about teen pregnancy. And she does little things like sew elastic waistbands into her pants as her bump grows. But she’s also not afraid to be firm with her, like warning her about spending time alone with a married man. For all intents and purposes, Bren is more a mother to Juno than her actual mother. Philip - Shaun of the Dead This one is more complicated. Throughout the film, you see that Shaun has a very tense relationship with Philip, his step-father. He repeatedly insists that Philip isn’t his dad, and seems to relish the idea of killing him when he finds out he’s been bitten. The picture that he portrays of Philip is that he’s quite a stuffy and strict person, and tells stories of how Philip would get cross with him as a child. And of course, when Philip shows up at Shaun’s work, you can see that he’s very blunt and very stern with him. However, when you really read between the lines of their relationship and look at how Shaun is as an adult, you realise that none of Philip’s treatment of Shaun was in any way out of the ordinary and wasn’t actually abusive. He’s clearly happily married to Barbara. A lot of his and Shaun’s problems seem to stem from the fact that Philip can see how uncaring and oblivious Shaun is, and presumably sees how hurt Barbara can be by his behaviour, and isn’t afraid to call him out on his shit. One of the saddest moments of the film occurs when the group are driving to the Winchester, Philip bleeding from a bite in his neck. He can feel himself slipping away, and before he dies, he tells Shaun that he was hard on him because he didn’t want him to give up after losing his father, that he always loved him and that he always knew that Shaun had potential and just needed motivation. This really hits Shaun because it makes him realise that he had Philip all wrong, and that he’d been trying his best to be a dad to him the whole time. He and Philip could’ve had years as a loving father and son, or maybe they could’ve had this conversation later in life, when Shaun finally matured. But it was all cut short, and Shaun only realised what Philip was to him when it was too late. submitted by /u/RedWestern to r/TopCharacterTropes [link] [comments]

Hello. Long post incoming. This is an update to this post https://www.reddit.com/r/catquestions/s/CghiflPtvm couldn’t tell you what happened to my old account if mods want to verify i’m the owner of this cat id be happy to do so. I have pictures and vet statements i cant attach as you can only add one video per post it seems. I wanted to use the one people might be familiar with prelude: if you don’t want to read this long ass post then don’t! I don’t blame you, I probably wouldn’t either lol , but please do not comment unless you read the whole thing because I swear I answer most questions about my cat’s behavior and our situation . I’ll be happy to answer anything I haven’t in the comments. I’m willing to try anything within reason. Im not sure if anyone will remember but a few months ago I posted about my cat (same video above i can’t seem to attach more than one video so i’ll use the one that might be familiar to some people) disclaimer: I’m really just troubleshooting here this doesn’t replace me trying to work it out with my vet. I’ve seen 2 neurological specialists and 3 normal vets. I talked to two behavioralists and they were very useless and very overpriced so I’m not considering seeing another one. (the advice was deadass to sing to my cat and see if that help and he told me to throw a blanket over my cat and forcibly hug him to create “a bond” and the other one told me my cat sensed I was annoyed by him and was meowing to say sorry and told me to meow back…when I told her I already tried that she literally said “Well I don’t know how to help someone who hates their cat” so yay!!! (for the record I don’t hate him I was just explaining his habits as neutrally as I could) That was $2,500. I can’t find more options for less than $500 per appointment l and there aren’t any credentials for being an animal behaviorist so i’m just wary of it now. It’s way cheaper to go to an actual veterinary professional. What i’ve tried: I’ve had my cat on prozac, sertaline and more recently gabapentin. I’ve tried CBD treats on occasion and I have a feilway. I live in the city so he can’t go outside. He has never been outside ever. He is fixed and has cat trees, scratching posts and I try to play with him daily with lasers, springs, feathers and cat wands but he’s just not interested in playing with any toys i have tried. He likes to scratch and lay by the window but he’ll bolt in you get within a few feet of him. He is aloof and doesn’t like to be touched, he doesn’t like puzzle treats and isn’t the brightest. I’ve held him one when I brought him home and once when I bathed him lol I don’t think i’ve ever been able to pet him but sometimes he’ll sit next to me. Main post: The issue is as follows. A year and a half ago I got him from a shelter and he has an issue with constant crying since day 1. He screams constantly and doesn’t stop even if he’s laying down and seemingly comfortable, he does it when he uses his scratch posts and only stops while he’s eating or drinking and can’t use his mouth. He stops when he sleeps but I swear he only sleeps when i’m out of the apartment. Longest break i’ve had since living with him was about 30 minutes before he started up again. At first I thought he was stressed because of the shelter and then stressed because of a new home but the issue has never gone away. He’s 3 years old (he was just bathed in this video his fur is normally in good condition. He has been bathed once in his life and it’s not relevant to the crying. He needed a bath I don’t bathe him regularly, the bath is completely irrelevant to this issue) I’ve gotten bloodwork done, x-rays, fecal tests, infectious disease testing, radiographs (might not be what they’re called but I mean radiology imagining) ultrasounds, CT scans, an MRI, a dental checkup, urinalysis, 2 different metabolic tests, and a gastrointestinal check to rule out any medical issues. He doesn’t have any, and my vets have let me know that there really aren’t any more tests to run. Considering he has no symptoms other than being vocal they have said it’s just a quirk or anxiety. So we put him on sertaline to see if it would help, then prozac when it didn’t, and then gabapentin. All failed and the gabapentin made him aggressive…like genuinely vicious, he would lunge at me whenever I walked in my apartment so we took him off it after the symptoms started. He didn’t any aggression issues before. He isn’t medicated anymore and his behavior is better but still worse than before the gab. Hes still having troubles with aggression and putting him on gabapentin was definitely a big mistake. We waited 6 months for each of the anti-anxiety meds before switching. My vets don’t believe he has anxiety anymore because he shows no symptoms (minus the yelling) and anti-anxiety medications haven’t changed his behavior. HE IS ALSO NOT DEAF OR BLIND. He responds to sound constantly and passed 3 separate BARE tests. His teeth have also been checked. I free feed him because he doesn’t overeat and is on the skinnier side so he can eat whatever, I’ve tried different food but right now he gets wet food for dinner and breakfast and dry kibble left out throughout the day he’ll munch on. He gets royal canin. He eats at 8am and then at 8pm and his dry food is left out thought he usually just has a couple bites. He likes fish but he doesn’t like any cat treats including churu’s and temptations. He only stops crying when there is food in his mouth and he’s not very food motivated. He lives with me in my apartment but I am moving next week, and he has plenty of toys scratch posts, trees and enrichment. I try to play with him for an hour a day but he is not a very playful cat and he usually just walks away from me when I try to play, he doesn’t play by himself either. If I approach him he runs off, he doesn’t like people and doesn’t care to be pet. He used to sometimes sit with me before the gabapentin but now he is hissy with me and gets angry if i’m the same room as him. He’s bitten and scratched me kinda whenever he’s seen me since then so I try to avoid him. I did not try to avoid him before. But before this he was always crying too. It stops when I leave the house- I know this because I set up a camera with audio and he will stop crying when he knows I’m gone. I’ve had friends watch him (only overnight never for more than 12 hours because i’m not evil) and he cries then too. He is also too aggressive with strangers after the gabapentin sideffects so I can’t leave him anymore since I don’t want anyone getting hurt. If I follow him he hides and continues to cry, he has gotten aggressive before when I follow him (this happened even before the side effects) so I just leave him be. He’s a very independent and aloof cat. his background: He was the single kitten of a stray mom cat, they were not bonded and were separated when my cat was like 10 weeks old, the mom cat was adopted out and my cat stayed in the shelter untill I adopted him when he was 2. This is typical. I was not told about the crying issue and was immediately blocked on social media and on imessage after adopting my cat and the shelter has not helped. They’ve since closed down and don’t take animals anymore. My cat has never been outside, I tried to take him out in a stroller and he got a little viscous so I don’t think i’ll be doing that again. I have no idea where mom cat is and I can’t reunite them to see if it would help. “hE nEeDs a FrIeNd!!!!”—6 months ago I got him a cat friend. I received a lot of comments and dms telling me having a single cat was neglect and it would solve the issue and I let emotions go to my head and made a dumb choice. I adopted a cat from my local (different than the one i got OG cat at) shelter and kept them separated in different rooms and didn’t let them interact for a week then I started scent swapping their blankets and beds , and 14 days after adopting the new cat I swapped their places by putting them in eachtohers rooms (my OG cat still got to free roam I just kept my new cat in my study room (2 bedroom apartment) This is whenOG cat started hissing so I started back at square one. (all of this was before the gabapentin and his aggression issues) I started again and I kept them fully separated for another week then began swapping their scents again- OG cat started hissing at new cats scent which he didn’t do before so I started again and kept them apart for 2 weeks- they’ve been living together for a month at this point. I tried again and this time was able to let them see each other without issue so I let them meet face to face but my OG cat attacked the new cat so I started over and know I can’t get past the scent swapping without both of them hissing and growling. I kept them fully separated-but the my new cat would constantly pee himself because my OG cat cries scare him. I gave him to a friend and the new cat is doing great now. Please no comments on me being a cat abuser for rehoming him, he has a great life now and my apartment wasn’t a good environment for him. He has a better life now than he did with me. Where am at now: I don’t know what else to do, the crying is so bad I hallucinate hearing it when i’m not home and I can’t sleep at my apartment anymore either. Yay! I don’t really have a life anymore and Im probably leaving college after this semester because of how this all has effected my mental health I spent all my savings (literally 20k but it was a lot to me(my fault I know i feel stupid about it already). I also have to leave my apartment after this month because the crying got so bad my neighbors complained .This has all apparently built up over a year and a half and the landlord isn’t going to rent to me anymore (which is fair,) but I was never once told the neighbors complained about the cat so this was kinda a shock (but that’s kinda on me for not realizing.) So i’m sure the new place is going to completely stress my cat out and make everything worse. I know some people have very vocal cats but it’s nothing like that. It is constant endless screaming and I am desperate for help. I have tried a thunder shirt as well and that hasn’t helped. I am so desperate to get rid of this cat. I don’t blame him because he’s literally a cat, but I would do anything to get rid of him and ensure he’s in a good home. I have called all the no kill shelters in my city (yes, every single one) and all are either full or just not willing to take my cat. It is harder now that he has become aggressive. I gave him to a foster once last year and told her if she couldn’t handle it to bring my cat back to me and my cat was back in apartment less than 24 hours later. No other foster have been able to take him. I’ve had a few meet and greets (I have them stay for a full hour so they get how bad the screaming is and each of them have refused-i totally get it) These are experienced fosters through organizations not just randos on the street. They all say they will 100% be able to take my cat and then they meet him and change their minds. He is nearly impossible to adopt, he is now considered aggressive and screams 24/7 as loud as he does in this video and only stops with food in his mouth when he literally can’t yell. I have been actively trying to rehome him for nearly a year and nothing has worked out. Everyday I try to find him a new home and post about him. But my only option would be to take him to a kill shelter and I know he will never be adopted and will be put down- so it’s up to me to find him a new home. So I will probably have to keep him untill he dies because nobody else would ever want him (I’m not trying to be cruel, again it’s not my cats fault but it is the reality and I won’t lie to potential adopters because then they’ll just return him or surrender him) I don’t know what to make this better and am open to any suggestion from people who’ve read the entirety of this post.(thank you for reading I know it’s so long) i’ve reached out to farmers to see if he could potentially be a barn cat but him not getting along with other cats kinda rules that out, I got advice to reach out to the dodo and jackson galaxy and did but they haven’t gotten back to me and I don’t expect them to. It’s at the point where i’m considering just having him euthanized before i move because I think it would be kinder than surrendering him but since he’s medically healthy I don’t think i’d be able to live myself which is why i’ve had him this long. If anybody is deaf and wants him hmu. submitted by /u/Downtown_Cry7204 to r/CATHELP [link] [comments]

I've been to our vet at LEAST ten times about this issue and I'm completely at a loss. We got our kitten in July and since coming to our home, he has been sneezing and snotting NON STOP. Our house is covered in boogers and I don't know what to do. After testing him for viruses, it's evident he's allergic to something - we just don't know what. I've gone through 5 different litters, invested in a high-quality air filter and air purifier, tried different foods (currently on Royal Canin's wet Kitten food). Is there anything we may be overlooking? EDIT: for further context, we don’t use candles or anything scented in our home. Use mild detergents and avoid perfume. The poor guy’s eyes itch so I give him mini face massages which he LOVES. He’s been on multiple antibiotics and they don’t do anything. EDIT #2: thank you for all the responses! I really didn't expect this. To answer some common questions/suggestions: 1. He's a ten month old neutered devon rex. 2. Ekko and his sister have an Instagram account with more pictures of the gremlins: keepingupwiththedevons 3. He has been taking Viralys for the last three months or so - no changes 4. He's been on Doxycyline x3, Clavaseptin, given Tobradex eye drops and a shot of diphenhydramine - none of which have helped. Doxycyline worked while he was on it but as soon as we stopped, symptoms returned. 5. We've been going to our current vet because he is MUCH cheaper than those in our area. Treatments that cost $1,200 in Toronto cost about $500 about an hour drive away. After reading everyone's comments, I will definitely be taking him to a cat specialist next. 6. I suspected nasal polyps months ago but our vet does not perform this and he needed an ultrasound done for his heart murmur first. Now that the ultrasound's been done and the murmur isn't serious, we'll schedule an appointment to check him for polyps at another clinic. 7. He started showing symptoms the moment we brought him home so unfortunately he isn't insured. I'm trying to work through a process of elimination for the most to least expensive treatments but will absolutely work through the list to the end if we don't find a solution. 8. He pees himself in his sleep - something another commenter brought up from my post history. Didn't think these two were related but who knows! May not be a coincidence. 9. We have a humidifier and air purifier at home. We've also recently change the air filters but have seen no change in his symptoms. EDIT #3: After reading everyone's comments, we took him to the vet for a chest x-ray. He has mild asthma and may have a secondary viral infection as a result. He can't take steroids due to his heart condition so he now has a puffer and has been prescribed doxycicline to knock out any potential bacteria in his lungs. The vet thinks everything should clear up in about a month. If it doesn't, we're going to see if the inhaler + prescribed allergy meds help. submitted by /u/gholdist to r/cats [link] [comments]

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