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RE:Hitman World of Assassination - 3.270 - June 2026 Patch Notes
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RE:Shadows in the Sand
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Jun 5, 2026 |
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RE:Between Broken Worlds [An Isekai LitRPG Sci-Fi]
... gave me a stern, stern eye; his infrasonic bellow froze me... to have his holy meat, under his own terms—not mine... sure there weren't any remaining patches of Martian soup and exotic... I'd poisoned indirectly; how many patches of ground now needed extra...
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Jun 4, 2026 |
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RE:Between Broken Worlds [An Isekai LitRPG Sci-Fi]
... gave me a stern, stern eye; his infrasonic bellow froze me... to have his holy meat, under his own terms—not mine... sure there weren't any remaining patches of Martian soup and exotic... I'd poisoned indirectly; how many patches of ground now needed extra...
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RE:The Carrion Horde
... the others sweat and struggle under the heat. It takes a... knee so he can be eye level with me. "A blister... up, her hair falls in patches, monstrous teeth emerge from her ... claw my way out from under it, but no matter my ... if all my being is under his command. My brain realizes ...
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RE:Holtzman's Legacy (Dune/Battletech SI)
... suite. The gravity you feel under your feet is generated by..., I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where... be smoothed out with software patches and calibration adjustments. He began...
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Jun 4, 2026 |
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RE:Heroes of Two Societies, Part II (A Boku No Hero Academia Fanfic)
... some fun today…" Pino mutters under his breath. And then came... those anti-air defenses…" Gyukudo says under his breath. <<You tell me... Pino joins him, keeping an eye out for more or less... reaches for the comms and patches through to AWACS Eagle Eyes... Typhoons. With no other weapons under the enemy wings, they watch...
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Jun 3, 2026 |
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RE:Grey Market [Marvel SI]
... Enterprises SV campus should be under construction about now. I had.... The glass was finger-smudged at eye level and someone had scratched .... His leather jacket had two patches on the front, one with... tattoos. His vest had similar patches to the blond's. "Take a.... The suited man said something under his breath in Italian. I... first, the ironwork groaning slightly under his weight. The suited man...
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RE:Through the Paces
.... Plus, I would've been filed under my legal name." Jill stood... had when first encountered — with patches missing from its trenchcoat, exposing... wasted no time in crouching under, almost smacking his head off... to separate them. Eugene ducked under with his gun in hand... woman hesitated. She rolled back under to the other side. "Hey... and Jill had used. Carlos' eye caught something, and he started...
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RE:Nerfer's snippets
... blue coat with a dozen patches on the corner of the... cylinder with a giant fan under the floor to simulate air ...; but another, third, large ethereal eye that looked to be made ...? ___ Nerzie 'Ner' Bright Erlin's Eye - Dragos Yard I woke ... what was available on the Eye, but not without its own ... since waking up on the Eye, but it still boggled the ... bit too big to fit under the screen in my visor ...
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Jun 3, 2026 |
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RE:The EDTF Series
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Jun 2, 2026 |
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RE:A Cog in the Machine: Blue Archive Arius Quest
... and the word written "Kaiser" under it. So this is it... a military uniform with Kaiser patches on it. She wielded a... eyepatch that covered her right eye, and seemed to be the...
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Jun 1, 2026 |
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RE:So the Heavens Blaze Forth (RWBY Multi-SI)
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Jun 1, 2026 |
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RE:Calamity Reigns (Jujutsu Kaisen X Naruto)
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Jun 1, 2026 |
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RE:A Dungeon That Kills [ Dungeon Core | Villain Protagonist | LitRPG ]
..., so he could hide here, under its wide, overreaching branches. Not... in places, shrinking into brittle patches that no longer held any... underlings were indeed capturing pyromancers under Khalid's orders, then Ekon would... things hidden from the public eye. As Viktor was turning that...
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Jun 1, 2026 |
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RE:A Dungeon That Kills [ Dungeon Core | Villain Protagonist | LitRPG ]
..., so he could hide here, under its wide, overreaching branches. Not... in places, shrinking into brittle patches that no longer held any... underlings were indeed capturing pyromancers under Khalid's orders, then Ekon would... things hidden from the public eye. As Viktor was turning that...
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Jun 1, 2026 |
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RE:Is it Wrong for a Sword to Remain Sheathed Against Injustice?
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May 31, 2026 |
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RE:Glory In Her Name.
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May 31, 2026 |
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RE:Gryphon El'Jonson & Friends :) (WH30K/40K)
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May 31, 2026 |
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RE:Eldritch x Overlord (Overlord/Multicross elements)
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May 31, 2026 |
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RE:A Salaryman’s Infernal New World Campaign [Youjo Senki x Overlord]
... in patches. His posture is composed. Carefully composed. Yet, a discerning eye can...such a degree of resilience. Under normal circumstances, such exposure would ... body resists immediately. Muscles tremble under strain, joints stiff and uncooperative, ...?" Magnus frowns slightly. "I was under the impression those lands were ... through the thoroughfare, wheels groaning under weight. The town, despite its ...
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May 31, 2026 |
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Season 2 Combat Tuning Preview
Source: https://www.bungie.net/7/en/News/Article/season_2_combat_tuning_preview Today, we wanted to give you a clearer look at the kind of work taking shape for Season 2’s combat sandbox. Learn more about Season 2, including Night Marsh, the new Runner shell Sentinel, and the Cradle here. Season 2 gives us a chance to keep building on the parts of Marathon that players are already connecting with, while also making the overall combat experience clearer, more expressive, and more rewarding to learn over time. 2026_Marathon_Launch_Press_Kit_Compressed_018.jpg The new season gives us a chance to take a holistic look at everything in the game beyond isolated changes It’s about how fights come together as a whole. How your weapons feel in their intended role. How your build changes the decisions you make. How new tools can help you survive when things get hectic. And how your Runner shell's kit can embody more identity from one encounter to the next. We’re focusing on weapons, mods, buildcrafting, equipment, survival, Runner shells, implants, and the sandbox as a whole in Season 2. Across all of these areas, the goal is the same: We want your choices to feel more intentional, we want to make engaging with our deep systems easier, and we want more parts of your loadout to feel like they truly matter once you're Tau Ceti-side. Let’s get into it. Weapons and Sandbox Let’s start with the loud part. For the launch of Season 2, we are focusing on making weapons easier to use and reinforcing their intended roles. We want weapons to be clearer in their purpose and more distinct from one another when you're both using them and fighting against them. That work includes broader updates to ammo economy, time to kill, and range identities so that close-range tools stay dangerous up close, mid-range options better hold their ground, and weapon roles are easier to understand from one fight to the next. 2026_UESC_Press_Kit_Tick_Cordon_Area_V1_1920x1080.jpg Season 2 also brings a couple of new weapons into that conversation: Some longtime, keen-eyed Marathon fans may have noticed one of our new weapons might be a little familiar. Coming in Season 2, the KKV-9SD is pistol frame SMG with an integrated suppressor and is a perfect companion for fighting the terrors on Night Marsh. This means it takes pistol optic and pistol magazine mods, as well as chips. It is the fastest fire rate we've ever shipped on a weapon and excels at close range combat, specifically mowing down eager shotgun rushers. Its Prestige mod, Flechette Drum, adds sustainability by healing you when breaking a hostile's shield. 2026_Marathon_S2_Launch_Press_Kit_COMPRESSED_012.jpg Our second weapon for Season 2 is the D54 Battle Pistol which is a fully automatic, 3-round burst handgun. The Battle Pistol is designed to flex between Pistol and Magnum archetypes and to have advantage in 1v1 duels. It is an excellent companion when used with other hard-hitting archetypes—don't waste time reloading your sniper or shotgun, swap to the D54 Battle Pistol and you're good to go. Its Prestige mod, the Daredevil Stock, takes advantage of the new folding stock mod archetype: while folded, enemy defeats builds up to 2 stacks, and when unfolded, the D54 Battle Pistol's fire is converted into a super burst of 9 rounds, which can be fired as many times as you have stacks. More on the new folding stock below. 2026_Marathon_S2_Launch_Press_Kit_COMPRESSED_011.jpg The broader hope here is simple. We want weapon choices to feel more deliberate, and we want you to be able to feel what makes a weapon special in a way that breaks down friction and lets you dive into the fight you most want to take. So while we won’t go through every weapon change here (look out for the full patch notes on release), let’s start with the monster in the room: Misriah 2442. While it’s easy to say the Misriah rose up in the wake of the WSTR changes, the truth is it was always a strong and popular option, and it ended up on our radar long before its continued dominance. The biggest change we’re making here isn’t to the Misriah itself; rather, we are removing the rate of fire bonuses from Slick Mag magazine mods altogether. While it was an interesting experiment since the Misriah is the only weapon to take those mods, it isn’t sustainable. The idea was Misriah’s main weakness was its slow rate of fire, allowing players to counter Misriah by correctly spacing and attacking in between shots. Slick Mag presented an opportunity to shore up that weakness, but it’s clear it was pushing the weapon and its Prestige mod too far out of band. So to that end, we’ve made the following suite of changes: Misriah 2442 Increased pellet spread in hip fire by 10%. Increased pellet spread while aiming down sights by 5%. Increased base rate of fire from 58RPM to 72RPM. This is to compensate for the removal of increased fire rate stats previously granted by Slick Mag magazine mod family. Rebased magazine stat so now every mag will result in at least +1 round in the magazine. Base magazine size remains at 4 and max magazine size remains 10. Reduced base damage falloff start from 11 meters to 10 meters. Increased max damage falloff start from 15 meters to 16 meters. 2026_Marathon_Cryo_Unlock_Press_Kit_COMPRESSED_05.jpg Full-Auto Selector Prestige Mod This mod had static gameplay and buildcrafting experiences, so to improve these we've made the following changes: Rate of fire increase granted from Full-Auto Selector reduced from 150RPM to 90RPM. Added +50 ADS Speed and +50 ADS Accuracy. While firing from the hip, Misriah will fire full auto, have an additional 10% pellet spread increase, and massively increased Stability. While aiming down sights, Misriah has massively increased range and much tighter pellet spread but does not fire full auto. We believe these changes allow for more interesting spatial plays with the Prestige Mod, utilizing the different firing modes based on proximity to enemies while also tying in more buildcrafting potential—you can focus on increasing the potency of either the hip fire mode or the ADS mode. Let’s talk about the other end of the spectrum. While the Misriah is a popular weapon, the Overrun and the CE Tactical Sidearm were less popular options. First up on the Overrun, we wanted to keep it simple to start because this weapon is only a couple of value changes away from running over the other rifles. But we agree it still needs a little bit of juice. So for Season 2’s launch we made the following changes: Overrun Reduced horizontal and vertical recoil for base weapon, resulting in more control at lower rarity tiers: Horizontal recoil reduced by ~50%. Vertical recoil reduced by ~12%. The high-level Superior Overrun is still performing pretty admirably against other rifles, so our focus was to make running a lower-tier Overrun in a budget build or in a Sponsored Kit less painful. Go ahead, enjoy those CyAc Sponsored Kits. For the CE Tactical Sidearm, this weapon was always tuned in a way that if you built into it, and were hitting headshots you’d find plenty of success—but it’s clear we weren’t hitting that mark. Even at fully buildcrafted, the CE Tactical Sidearm is just not attractive enough to secure a warm seat in your Vault. In Season 2 you can expect the following changes: CE Tactical Sidearm Increased the speed at which the weapon's recoil settles when firing by 15%. Reduced ADS accuracy error multiplier by ~50%. Rebased aim assist and magnetism min and max falloff distances: Aim Assist Minimum distance increased from 11 meters to 14 meters at base range stat and from 14 meters to 22 meters at maximum range stat. Maximum distance increased from 22 meters to 25 meters at base range stat and from 21 meters to 29 meters at maximum range stat. Magnetism Minimum distance increased from 15 meters to 18 meters at base range stat and from 18.6 meters to 29.6 meters at maximum range stat. Maximum distance increased from 25 meters to 26.2 meters at base range stat and from 24.8 meters to 39 meters at maximum range stat. Rebased aim assist cone size stats: Increased aim assist cone size at base aim assist stat by 33%. Increased aim assist cone size at max aim assist stat by 16%. Rebased hip fire and ADS projectile accuracy stats to compensate. In general, this means an increase in projectile error all up to account for the increased aim assist cone size. Reduced crouch accuracy bonus at max crouch accuracy stat by 117%. Reduced moving accuracy bonus at minimum moving accuracy stat by 22%. Increased moving accuracy bonus at maximum moving accuracy stat by 50%. There’s a handful of more weapon-specific tunings happening at the launch of Season 2, but these are some of the big headliners. Expect more changes in the full patches on June 2! Mods and Buildcrafting A lot of combat starts before the first shot. Careful preparation and buildcrafting are key to survival on Tau Ceti IV. Season 2 was a chance to reflect on a lot of the mod stories for weapons and think about how we can make choices more meaningful and how mods can do more than just push stats up or down. For Season 2, we're investing heavily in a few key areas for mods. First, we're adding two new families of mods and eight new families of chips. We also took heavy balance passes on every magazine and every optic mod. There's a lot to dive into; far more than we could detail in this article, so look for the full scope of every change coming to mods in the full patch notes. 2026_Marathon_Launch_Press_Kit_Compressed_013.jpg Let's talk about the two new mod families. First up we have Folding Stocks: Folding stocks are a new mod family that will first be present on the new KKV and D54 Battle Pistol weapons. They are similar to Shield Mods for the LMGs in that they provide a unique gameplay altering action. When equipped, folding stocks are initially collapsed, and in this mode, they provide boosts to stats like hip fire accuracy and movement speed with that weapon. You can then press your alternate weapon action input to unfold the stock, trading the hip fire focused bonuses for boosts to ADS accuracy and range. We really love how these mods provide options for different playstyles on a single weapon and the ability to change strategies on the fly during combat. Second, we're adding an entirely new archetype of optics mods, the Darksight Scopes. Naturally, with the debut of Night Marsh, we want to make sure you have all the tools necessary for precision execution in a dark and dangerous place. Every archetype of weapon will receive their own Darksight Scope, and they come in two different rarities: Deluxe and Superior. All Darksight scopes will operate similarly. They all are a full screen vignette when aiming down sights—similar to how sniper optics already work—but for every weapon. Secondly, while ADS, you can press the toggle optic input to activate the night vision effect and light up the world around them. The night vision effect is wider and covers more distance with the Superior version. Our goal is for their unique gameplay to be helpful not only on Night Marsh, but across the rest of the game as well. Weapon chips are the backbone of weapon buildcrafting. They are the software upgrades that make your weapon do things that seem almost impossible. And on the topic of chips, we do have to do a bit of housekeeping to do. With Season 2, we are looking to rotate out a couple of chip families that were not meeting the bar for quality and performance—on both ends of the spectrum: Stack Overflow Rotated all rarities out of the loot pool for Season 2. Optimal Prime Rotated all rarities out of the loot pool for Season 2. Stack Overflow was overperforming on certain weapons and in other cases was performing wildly below the bar. So we’re taking this one back to the lab for now. Optimal Prime, while potentially interesting from a buildcrafting standpoint, just did not find the niche we were hoping for, so that too will take a seat on the bench. But fear not, eight new chip families are rotating in for their time in the sun. We won’t spoil everything here but here’s a couple of highlights: Alarmist (all rarities) After aiming down sights for a brief duration, projectile impacts create a terrifying scan drone alert. We heard you liked Ornithologist but we agree it’s weird to hear birds on Cryo. Maybe this will help? Scrapyard (all rarities) Defeating hostiles with this weapon has a chance to spawn depleted health items or standard materials. Brain Freeze (Superior rarity only) Precision downs or kills with this weapon create a small explosion that spreads Frost to nearby hostiles. But already existing chips also had some changes too. Again, there’s too many to go through here but here’s a couple of previews: Bounty Hunter Increased the amount of credits rewarded per UESC kill: Standard: 10 credits increased to 25 credits. Enhanced: 15 credits increased to 50 credits. Deluxe: 20 credits increased to 75 credits. Superior: 25 credits increased to 100 credits. Fixed an issue where Bounty Hunter wasn't awarding credits upon killing UESC scan drones. Cloudborn Redesigned perk benefits entirely: While in smoke, this weapon passively has increased stability, accuracy, handling, and movement speed. Previously the benefit was overflowing the magazine on reloading while in smoke. 2026_Marathon_Launch_Press_Kit_Compressed_017.jpg Lastly for mods, we wanted to touch on optics and magazine mods. Every optic and magazine mod in the game had a full stat balance pass. These changes were largely to sand down some outliers while also trying to make more interesting choices for all the weapons that use any given family of optic or magazine. But there are a couple of big, important changes to note: Starting in Season 2, there will be no thermal optic option for snipers only. Even as we brought in their range, snipers with thermals were just overperforming. We don’t view this as a permanent benching, but we are taking the time to cook on some longer gestating changes for how thermals work all up and until that time, we decided it was better to pull this ripcord now. Starting in Season 2, one Superior magazine mod in every family will come with the new Vector Rounds perk on it by default. Vector Rounds is a new perk designed as an information tool that can help you mark space, track enemy movement, and create visibility in dark corners. After aiming down sights for a short duration, the next projectile impact will create a revealing pulse, similar to the Darksight effect. Enemies caught in this detonation will be highlighted for a brief duration. We’re extremely eager to see how buildcrafting is shaken up in Season 2. For the complete breakdown, the full patch notes will have you covered. Equipment and Survival Weapons aren't the only tools at your disposal to survive out there during a run. Equipment plays a vital role in the combat sandbox and is often what players use to turn the tide of a fight. ... though perhaps some equipment items were a little too strong in Season 1. Before we get into the three new pieces of equipment you can expect to unleash next season, we want to take the opportunity to outline a few changes coming to equipment at the start of Season 2. Grenade ready animations extended by 0.2 seconds The ready animation plays when a grenade is pulled out and primed. The throw (after the button has been released) is unchanged. We feel this change preserves the responsiveness and joy of throwing a grenade, but has a measurable effect on how many grenades can be thrown in rapid succession. The extra time also allowed us to polish the ready animations and make them a little more expressive. 2026_Marathon_Cryo_Unlock_Press_Kit_COMPRESSED_03.jpg Frag Grenade Reduced max damage by 15% (135 → 115). Heat Grenade Reduced damage by 50% (40 → 20). Signal Jammer Visual and detection jamming will temporarily flicker off when a player performs actions, uses abilities, shoots their weapon, or takes damage. No longer blocks detection by Early Warning System (Prestige Recon Core). No longer blocks detection by Vital Intel (Stryder M1T Prestige Optic Mod). Signal Jammers in Season 1 felt like a default requirement for any engagement because they offered a flat, guaranteed advantage whether you were repositioning for an ambush or sprinting directly into combat. We hope this change will make Signal Jammers reward tactical movement and stealth while being less effective during a firefight. With that housekeeping out of the way, let’s talk about the new stuff. First up, we have the Frost Mine. The Frost Mine is a placeable piece of equipment, similar to a Claymore. It detonates when an enemy is nearby and instead of a high damage conical blast like the Claymore, it explodes in a spherical blast dealing moderate damage but also spreading the Frost debuff to any enemy caught in it. Stay warm out there. Second, we have the Vector Grenade. This grenade’s primary purpose is not damage, but rather information. When a Vector Grenade detonates, it creates a field of revealing pulses that linger in the world for a short time, highlighting spaces in a large area and any enemies inside its radius. This grenade is an essential companion in Night Marsh and in other hard-to-see places. Lastly, we’re adding Signal Flares in three colors. Signal flares come in red, green, and blue varieties, and they each have a different lens flare shape. These don’t focus on damage but linger in the world providing some amount of light. We view these as communication tools for non-verbal Runners. Maybe in the heat of a fight, green flares are thrown and a new alliance is formed? Maybe you come across a blue flare that marks a piece of loot on the ground left by a benevolent Runner? The choice is in yours hands. Runners and Implants Your biosynthetic shell is the foundation that defines your playstyle. In Season 2, we’re taking the first step of expanding our roster to give you more ways to explore and experience our perilous, alien world. 2026_Marathon_S2_Launch_Press_Kit_COMPRESSED_006.jpg Meet Sentinel. This shell is a defensive specialist, made for carving out pockets of space within the battlefield and securing them with clever traps... and lethal force. Sentinel’s kit is built around area control and adaptability under pressure. It brings a few fresh new tools to the battlefield: Defender System (Prime Ability): Deploy a defensive platform that harmlessly neutralizes incoming explosives. You and your allies also gain increased weapon stability and reload speed when standing near the device. And as always, bear in mind that it’s got a limited number of projectiles to fire! Be sure to keep a steady eye out. Snare Mine (Tactical Ability): Toss a proximity-triggered mine which detonates into several Immobilizing submunitions when enemies get too close. Prey Tracker (Trait Ability): Activate motion tracking systems in your HUD that allow you to see moving enemies on radar within a conical zone in front of you. Castle Doctrine (Passive): You ready and reload SMGs, Pistols, and Shotguns more quickly based on the number of nearby hostiles. When you take splash damage, your Hardware, Firewall, and Self-Repair Speed are increased for a short time. Use your Prey Tracker to gather real-time information about enemy positions as they move, allowing you to set up the perfect ambush or hunt down a fleeing Assassin. Use your Snare Mines to stop a shotgun-rushing Destroyer in their tracks, or toss one under a UESC dropship for some immediate crowd control. When things get ugly, bunker down by deploying a Defender System to neutralize an incoming Rocket Drone missile barrage and whip out your KKV or Misriah to give a warm welcome to any unwanted visitors. We’re also adding a full suite of 10 Sentinel-specific Runner cores across the various rarity tiers. Here’s a small taste: Reversal (Enhanced): Defeating an Immobilized target heals you over time. Great for adding some sustain to your loadout if you’re low on medical consumables and don’t have a Triage in your crew. Wellness Beacon (Deluxe): While standing near your Defender System, you and your allies use medical items more quickly. Useful for more support-focused playstyles where you want to keep your allies in the fight longer. Eminent Domain (Prestige): Runner grenades neutralized by your Defender System fall to the floor and become lootable. The ultimate tool for countering throwable spam–literally throw your opponent’s grenades back at them. We can’t wait to see how Sentinel shakes up the meta and what kinds of devious (or hilarious) plays you get up to. Implants Now let’s talk about implants. Initially, our plan was to give cores and implants unique identities by focusing cores on powerful Runner-specific perks and implants on interesting packages of stat buffs. Our early playtesting led us to add random perks to implants in addition to the stats to help create more variety in the buildcrafting game. These proved very effective at expanding the depth of different playstyles available and quickly became the primary element driving choice around implants. However, our implementation in Season 1 led to a number of problems. The system is challenging to use because the item names reflect the stat package and not what an implant’s perk is, information about what that perk does is buried in the tooltip, and you can’t look at an item in a container or on the floor and intuitively understand what exactly it does. In Season 2, we’re taking significant steps to address these issues by reworking how implants are structured. Implants will be primarily focused on perks, with Runner stats being a secondary element. Every implant now grants a single fixed perk, which is reflected directly in the item name, and has a fixed stat package. As an example, you’ll be able to loot a Tox Injectors head implant which will give bonuses to your Firewall, Heat Capacity and Fall Resistance, or a Triage Cloaking Device torso implant which grants Revive Speed, Tactical Recovery, and Hardware. With this rework, you’ll be able to collect all the same perks you could in Season 1 (even the unique perks from Prestige-tier implants, if you’re lucky!) plus eight brand-new ones we’ve added in Season 2, such as Going Dark which makes you invisible while using healing consumables. Certain implants will only drop at higher rarities, which you’ll need to delve into more challenging zones to find... or you can just acquire them from your fellow Runners. One last note is that this is not the final form of implants. At-a-glance readability of the implant icons themselves the next thing on our radar, and we’re cooking up some more changes here that we’re excited to roll out in the future. Finally, we wanted to touch briefly on the rest of our changes for Runner shells. Our focus this season has largely been on bugfixing and quality-of-life updates, such as improvements to the mantle system to make climbing up rough terrain more consistent, making movement smoother and reducing instances of desync, and addressing deathbox spawning to prevent them from ending up in inaccessible areas. One notable tuning change is that we’re reducing how much the Prime and Tactical Recovery stats accelerate the cooldowns of runner abilities at 100 stat, to make sure that we’re preserving opportunities for counterplay in high-level engagements. Be on the lookout for our full patch notes page for the complete details on the changes and additional developer notes. Out With A Bang That’s a quick rundown of what’s to come with Season 2, so you can be better prepared dive right in on June 2nd. Reminder that there’s an Open Play Week from June 2 to June 9, where the full game will be available on Steam, PlayStation 5, and Xbox Series X|S. Some of it is about refining the sandbox. Some of it is about adding new gear and new options. Some of it is about making the dark more playable while keeping its danger alive and well. And, some of it is about making sure that when you open your loadout, the choices in front of you feel thoughtful, useful, and worth exploring. Our hope is that these changes make combat feel sharper, build choices feel more expressive, and every run feels like it gives you a little more room to learn, adapt, and find a style that clicks for you. As these changes get into your hands, your feedback is going to matter a lot. We’ll be paying close attention to the places you already talk to us—especially our official Discord, Steam discussions, Reddit, and our MarathonDevTeam social channels on Twitter and Bluesky. We want to hear what is landing, what might feel off, what surprises you, and what is not doing the job it should. Happy hunting. submitted by /u/DTG_Bot to r/Marathon [link] [comments]
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Dev Insights - Return of the Director
Source: https://www.bungie.net/7/en/News/Article/dev_insights_return_of_the_director Welcome to our first Dev Insights article, prepping for the release of Monument of Triumph on June 9. We have quite a bit to get through over the next few weeks. Today's article focuses on the return of the Director and Destiny 2 activities. Here's a quick list of what we'll be covering: The Director: Layout, additions, and updated Destination loot Distortions: Adding some spice to select Patrol modes The Portal: Breaking down barriers and overhauling the experience Gambit Ops: Bringing our old friend into the fold Heavy Metal: Vehicular mayhem Sparrow Racing League: Returning tracks, new loot, and some twists along the track Tomorrow we're planning to have our second Dev Insights article focused on the weapons sandbox alongside a Friday TWID, so stay tuned! The Return of the Director With the release of Monument of Triumph, we're putting the Director back at the center of your gameplay. It's your guide to the Destiny universe and the place to plan your adventures. It creates that feeling of wonder we all love. You see the Sol system before you, ready to be explored. To bring the Director up to date, we've added Kepler and the Lawless Frontier to this space as well. MOT_Director_1920x1080.jpg Destination and Patrol Updates Destinations have always been a foundational part of Destiny, whether you touch down briefly for a Public Event, roam areas for patrols and secrets, or find various factions moving against each other. Our first steps as Guardians were in the Cosmodrome and beyond that we've spent over a decade patrolling the wilds of our Sol system to protect the Last City. With the return of the Director, we felt now was a better time than ever to thrust players back into these frontiers. We've revitalized each pre-Edge of Fate destination's loot with new perks, tiered weapons for non-craftable pools, and set bonuses that reflect their themes and stories. For our destinations featuring crafted weapons, as outlined in the Monument of Triumph article, they will be receiving additional perks per column to make them feel up to modern sandbox Power standards. We're also introducing a new event... one with some added difficulty that appears during Distortions that only occur on certain Destinations. You'll primarily be able to earn this loot through Public Events. Base completion will grant Tier 3 rewards and Heroic Tier 4, with each drop having a chance to upgrade all the way to Tier 5. During a Distortion, these rewards will be upgraded by one tier to match the added challenge. Unique destination activities like Blind Well, Altars of Sorrow, or Terminal Overload will also distribute tiered rewards (full details in the patch notes). Additionally, we've updated what we call the “World Loot Pool” earned through Legendary Engrams that drop from general gameplay to now feature a collection of tiered loot with gear spanning multiple years of Destiny 2. You may find a few old favorites inspired by Splicer tech or our old friend Saint-14 within this engram. With that said, let's look at loot from a few destinations. Below is a taste of what's to come: we want to excite but not spoil your appetite. (P.S. Don't write while hungry.) Cosmodrome Where it all began… many Guardians can recall their first moments awaking in Old Russia and they weren't alone. Rasputin, the Warmind, called the Cosmodrome his home and proved himself to be a mighty ally of humanity. The returning weapons that drop from the Cosmodrome come from Rasputin's storied arsenal, along with a new origin trait. NEW Origin Trait – Eyes Up This weapon gains reload speed, range, and increased damage against combatants for a short time when combat begins. Final blows extend and enhance this bonus. Seraphic Arsenal seventh_seraph.jpg Our sample weapon from the Cosmodrome is a reprise of the Seventh Seraph CQC-12, updated with new perks and keeping its Rasputin's Arsenal origin trait. Slideshot Discord Quickdraw Threat Detector Disruption Break Heal Clip Dual Loader Snapshot Sights Closing Time Trench Barrel One-Two Punch Chain Reaction Incandescent Surrounded Seventh Seraph CQC-12 felt like the right showcase for Cosmodrome because it's both a core Rasputin weapon and a flexible close-range workhorse. With its updated perk pool, we wanted it to support everything from classic melee-heavy builds to pure add-clear shotgunning without losing that “Warmind toolbox” identity. Nessus With good robots (Failsafe and friends), bad robots (the Vex), and a lot of early Guardian memories, Nessus deserved a loot pool that reflects its status as a classic destination. So, the Sandbox Team reached through time to pull together a collection of weapons reflecting Guardians' many expeditions on the unstable centaur. We hope you agree that our selection plays as well as they look. NEW Origin Trait – Fail-Deadly Dealing damage grants a stacking bonus to magazine size, target acquisition, and range until your next final blow with this weapon. Echoing Reprisal pluperfect.jpg Our sample from Nessus is Pluperfect, reprised with a new perk pool built to play into its deliberate, hard-hitting identity while opening up new Kinetic-focused options. Outlaw Rangefinder Dynamic Sway Reduction Rewind Rounds Stopping Power Enlightened Action Demolitionist Rampage All Star Kinetic Tremors Adhesive Ordinance Closing Time Aggregate Charge Adrenaline Junkie We see Pluperfect as the backbone weapon of the Nessus set: reliable, deliberate, and built to carry momentum from one target to the next. Its refreshed perk pool gives players room to chase a range of playstyles while still preserving the feel that made the weapon memorable. Europa Europa was a defining destination in Destiny's history, marking a turning point where allies and enemies alike began to wield Stasis and deepen their understanding of the Darkness. Its frozen frontier is inseparable from Braytech whose ambition and technology remain etched into every corner of the moon. For this refresh, the team wanted the returning weapons to feel at home on Europa, reflecting both its harsh environment and its legacy as a defining frontier. NEW Origin Trait – Winterized Gear After being out of combat for a moderate duration, this weapon gains stability, reload speed, and handling. These benefits decay over time after reentering combat. Rewards, Rebooted high_albedo.jpg Our sample from Europa is High Albedo, and no, your eyes do not deceive you. High Albedo has been updated to be the first Kinetic Micro-Missile Sidearm! Auto-Loading Holster Bewildering Burst Impulse Amplifier Enlightened Action Shoot to Loot Stopping Power Blast Distributor Kinetic Tremors Ancillary Ordnance One for All All-Star Frenzy Desperate Measures Surrounded High Albedo matches Europa's identity by pairing precision tech with a harsher, more experimental edge. We wanted its updated perks to support players who use it proactively, whether that means building into utility, crowd pressure, or general-purpose combat. Distorted Destinations Patrolling the System Over the past few years, Destiny 2 has focused more attention on structured campaigns, exciting playlists, and challenging cooperative activities. This has led to Patrol mode feeling left behind; without strong rewards or a clear reason to return, many players have had little incentive to explore the wilds of Sol. To remind Guardians of the allure of wandering these worlds, we're introducing a new feature on seven destinations: Distortions. Distortions Every hour, a different destination becomes the focus of Distortions. The sky tears open, reality distorts, and corruption spreads. While distorted, the planet's enemies are empowered and more fearsome. Distortions_Cosmo_Ship.jpg Distortions_Luna.jpg Distortions are our new enhancement to Patrol mode. They're a celebration of all the things that are already there, plus a small injection of new things to do and new rewards to discover. Our main goal with this feature was to support what we call the “public loop”, the connected areas that players patrol where they can encounter other Guardians and work together on shared goals. We've leaned into all the fun little things that are already there, then added a little twist. Spotlights_05_1920x1080.jpg Distortions_Throneworld_Combatant.jpg Every enemy will become distorted too, making them tougher, more aggressive, and a little more dangerous. Distortions won't massively change the low-stress nature of Patrol but you may occasionally find an encounter that tests the skills of even veteran Guardians. You'll also discover some familiar challenges in new places and some strange signals leading to hidden rewards. Speaking of rewards, we're making Distortions uniquely rewarding by providing a new weapon set players can earn in these new events and, to balance the increased challenge of Distorted enemies, you'll see higher gear tiers awarded from playing public events. Europa_tooltip_director.jpg Excited to check out Distortions? Look for the telltale red glow and keep an eye on the timer telling you when a new planet will be targeted. Overhauling the Portal Since the release of The Edge of Fate, we've heard your feedback on the Portal loud and clear. Portal, the tab, is gone. However, we didn't want to remove quick access to Destiny playlists and content. While players can navigate the Director for numerous activities, we still wanted a “portal” of sorts to quickly find the content you want to play when you want it. We've refactored scoring, difficulty, and customization quite a bit to further address feedback around the system - more on that in a later section. Portal activities, bonus engrams, bonus focuses, and the Seasonal Hub are still accessible. The portal ops categories are built into the director itself. In the Director screenshot above you'll see a row of familiar icons at the bottom of the screen. They are the doorway to Portal-like sub-screens, allowing you to still access and configure the activities you'd like to play. You may have noticed in our Director preview that there are a few returning icons in that row at the bottom. Yes, Gambit will now have a Portal category updated with scoring, and raids and dungeons will have an easy access point on the front of the Director. Dungeon Ops will be retired, and this space will simply be a space to quickly find and play full raid and dungeon content. CGAE_portal_fireteam_ops.png We also wanted to bring back more of Destiny's legacy and the following will be available in Monument of Triumph: New Fireteam Ops Heist Battlegrounds: Mars The Disgraced The Lightblade The Scarlet Keep The Corrupted The Lake of Shadows New Pinnacle Ops Operation: Seraph's Shield Zero Hour New Arena Ops Override (On a 4-week map rotation) Difficulty and Reward Updates Portal Ops activities are getting a difficulty overhaul in Monument of Triumph. The overarching theme is less math, more playing Destiny. Right now, difficulty, rewards, and progression are too intertwined. Plus, a bunch of variables are tossed on top (Power, armor, and the rewards pass score bonuses) that required far too much planning and thought before players could just dive in and play. During development, we've simplified it, playtested a bunch, and simplified it even more to address player feedback. So, when we say we've made the system simpler, what do we mean? Now when you select a difficulty you will always hit a default reward rank which will result in a default reward tier without adding any modifiers. The table below helps illustrate what reward tier to expect from each difficulty and reward rank. Difficulty Reward Rank Reward Tier Normal C Tier 1 Advanced B Tier 2 Expert A Tier 3 Master A+ Tier 4 Grandmaster S Tier 5 Ultimate S+ Tier 5 Note: For Crucible modes, Grade A and higher will yield Tier 5 loot drops. But what is the role of modifiers now? In this simplified world, mods exist to allow higher scores to be reached without stepping up the difficulty level, to offset the cost of any selected boons, and to provide an additional, completely optional challenge. If you want to earn Tier 4 gear but don't want to face Champions, play at Expert and add some mods. Don't want to deal with the tougher, more aggressive combatants at Grandmaster but still want to earn an S-grade rank? Play at Master with a few mods of your choice and you'll get those Tier 5 rewards. Every difficulty can have enough mods applied to bump you up one reward rank and reward tier. Additionally, while reward tier will now cap at Grandmaster with Tier 5 and S rank, it didn't feel right to remove Ultimate difficulty from the game. So, we're leaving Ultimate in for Guardians who enjoy playing at the highest challenge level possible: the S+ rank will exist purely for bragging rights! CGAE_mods.png “So how will matchmaking work then?” We're also updating how matchmaking and customization work around Portal activities. We want the system to stay approachable while also providing variety. In matchmade versions of Portal activities: Activities will include fewer modifiers than what players have previously encountered. Will grant rewards and rank for the selected difficulty. Revive token counts are also getting updated across Fireteam, Pinnacle, and Arena Ops. We've heard your feedback about how revive tokens feel in Arena Ops, and as a result we're removing them on all difficulties. This should make joining activities in progress and navigating the chaos of six-player content a smoother experience. For Fireteam Ops and Pinnacle Ops, Grandmaster difficulty will now start with seven revive tokens, while Ultimate will start with five. Our goal here was to create a little more breathing room in the revive token economy while still preserving the level of challenge players expect from these difficulty tiers. Adding Variety to Loot As we were making updates to how loot is earned throughout the Portal, we also took this opportunity to expand loot variety. The following Portal Ops activities will feature exclusive weapon reward pools and an armor collection with a unique set bonus: Crucible Ops (General) Crucible Ops (Competitive) - Additional Exclusive Pool Trials of Osiris Iron Banner Gambit Sparrow Racing League (SRL) Solo Ops and Fireteam Ops will each have a unique weapons rewards pool and share a new Armor Collection with a set bonus. Arena Ops and Pinnacle Ops will also each have a unique weapon pool and share a new Armor Collection, with an additional pool for Onslaught (more details on that below). Additionally, Arena Ops weapons will have Holofoil variants – we hope you enjoy discovering them as a little surprise! Onslaught, Contest of Elders, and The Coil We're also making big changes to Onslaught and “Crawls”, our name for activities with escalating difficulty during gameplay. After reading feedback and looking at the data, we weren't happy with the amount of play these activities were getting. We're taking some big swings to make all these activities more enjoyable and rewarding for your time. Onslaught We've increased the scrap you earn from sources by over 40%, allowing you to max defenses at each location. We've removed revive tokens from this mode entirely. We've reintroduced the difficulty curve. Now, the first ten waves will be easier than the difficulty you selected, with the next ten waves increasing in difficulty and the final ten waves increasing in difficulty to match the difficulty selected. For example, Grandmaster Onslaught's first ten waves will feel somewhat like Expert difficulty, the second ten waves will feel closer to Master difficulty and the final ten waves will feel on par with Grandmaster difficulty that you've come to expect. We've reintroduced the full Brave Arsenal from Into the Light, with tiers, into the Onslaught reward pool that drop at the end of every 10 waves in additionto the Pinnacle Ops reward pool drops. Contest of Elders We've reduced the number of paths in a single run from four to three. We've reintroduced the difficulty curve. Now, the first path will be easier than the difficulty you selected with the next path increasing in difficulty and the final path further increasing in difficulty to match the difficulty selected. For example, Grandmaster Contest of Elders' first path will feel somewhat like Expert difficulty, the second path will feel closer to Master difficulty, and the final path will feel on par with the Grandmaster difficulty that you've come to expect. We've added World Pool rewards into the Contest of Elders reward pool that drop at the end of every pathway in additionto pinnacle ops reward pool drops. The Coil We've reintroduced the difficulty curve. Now, the first path will be easier than the difficulty you selected, with the next path increasing in difficulty and the final path increasing in difficulty to match the difficulty selected. For example, Grandmaster Coil's first path will feel somewhat like Advanced difficulty, the second path will feel closer to Expert difficulty, the third path will feel closer to Master difficulty, and the final path will feel on par with Grandmaster difficulty that you've come to expect. We've added World Pool rewards into The Coil reward pool that drop at the end of every pathway in additionto the pinnacle ops reward pool drops. Elevating Gambit For some time now, players have felt our core activity rotation has been lacking a very special PvEvP activity that was introduced in Forsaken. We agree. In Monument of Triumph, Gambit gets a clearer home in the Director through the Gambit Ops. Our focus is on better placement, stronger reward support, and a more legible reward structure, while keeping the core activity familiar for players who already know how Gambit works. Integration into the Portal means Gambit Ops will have its own tiered reward pool with a new armor set, armor set bonus, and reprised weapons, as well as Bonus Drops and Bonus Focus. Tiered rewards are driven by activity scoring, and for Gambit, score is driven by team progress through Gambit's major phases: banking motes, summoning the Primeval, and defeating the Primeval - with additional bonus score coming from Gambit Rank. Rewards are rooted in team effort rather than individual stat chasing, and a team that reaches the Primeval phase will earn S grade and Tier 5 gear, so getting to the final phase of the match is materially rewarded. Let's be honest: few things in Destiny feel better than banking a pile of motes or saving the game with a last-minute Invasion. To keep the playlist healthy, Gambit needs strength in its rewards, and that meant looking at the playlist's identity from multiple angles: a reworked Origin trait to match Gambit's unique rhythm, the return of many iconic Gambit weapons, and refreshed perk pools that give players real reasons to dive back in. Our resident Gambit lovers on the Sandbox Team took a deep pass on the weapons you've been asking for and made sure to give them some fun rolls. Here are two quick examples. REWORKED Origin Trait – Gun and Run Defeating targets builds stacks of Gun and Run for a short duration. Sprinting for a short time consumes a stack to partially reload this weapons' magazine from reserves; on Bows, this briefly improves draw speed. Return to the Dark Age spare_rations.jpg Our sample from Gambit is Spare Rations, now updated to be a Stasis Lightweight Hand Cannon. Slideshot Rapid Hit Snapshot Moving Target Firefly Keep Away Crystalline Corpsebloom Kill Clip Opening Shot Eye of the Storm Swashbuckler Desperate Measures One for All Explosive Payload We wanted Spare Rations to remain a sharp, responsive dueling weapon while broadening what players could chase on it. Its new pool offers a healthy spread of PvP and PvE options, from classic Hand Cannon consistency pieces to payoff perks that give it real flexibility outside of straight duels. 21_delirium.jpg We're also bringing back 21% Delirium, now with a full random roll perk pool, while keeping its original static roll as a possible outcome. Overflow Reconstruction [REDACTED] Trickle Charge Fourth Time's the Charm Feeding Frenzy Eddy Current Killing Tally One for All [REDACTED] Rolling Storm [REDACTED] Frenzy Jolting Feedback The goal here was to turn 21% Delirium into a deeper chase weapon without losing the version players remember. Its refreshed pool opens up new ways to build around sustained fire, reload loops, and damage ramp, while still leaving room for the classic roll that defined it the first time around. Crucible Playlist Rotations In Monument of Triumph, Crucible playlist offerings are moving to a more predictable cadence, and all PvP offerings are receiving loot refreshes to offer new weapons, armor sets, and cosmetics. First, let's start with our main PvP events: Iron Banner and Trials of Osiris: Iron Banner now returns every four weeks. Control remains a constant offering and is replaced by Iron Banner Control during Iron Banner weeks, with one additional Iron Banner mode available each time Iron Banner is live. Trials of Osiris will continue to run every weekend* from Friday through Tuesday *Trials will not be available during Iron Banner weeks to help keep Guardians focused. Trials is also undergoing changes to featured map and weapon rotations. Instead of a single curated featured map each weekend, the mode can now vary from week to week. Some weeks may feature a singular map, while others can feature up to three. Check back each Friday to see which arenas you'll be challenged on. Featured weapons are also moving away from a single weekly focus and now drop from a featured weapon pool instead. We will have more details on the map and weapon pools in an upcoming TWID. As for our broader PvP offering, featured 6v6 modes continue to rotate weekly, while featured small-team modes rotate daily until Trials takes over for the weekend. Rumble also remains permanently available. This update also expands the small-team lineup, with Heavy Metal added into the 3v3 rotation alongside the new 4v4 Arena Collision - a new modifier mode built around more deliberate weapons-first combat. Private Match access has also been moved under Crucible Ops / Portal, where players can also find Heavy Metal, and more new Crucible modifiers like Arena. We'll have more information on Crucible rewards, Crucible modifiers, and more next week when we talk more about sandbox tuning. Until then, let's turn our focus to some vehicular mayhem. Heavier and More Metallic Heavy Metal is back on a permanent rotation in the Crucible Ops with some fun updates! If you've played Heavy Metal before, you know the fantasy: climb into a massive vehicle, roll onto the battlefield, and turn the other team into scrap. This time, there's a new option joining the lineup with the Cabal Behemoth, alongside the Drake and Brig. We've also added a new vehicle selection screen so players can choose which vehicle they want to bring into a match before it begins. That means Heavy Metal is no longer just one fixed matchup and gives players more freedom in how they want to play. Heavy_Metal_UI_02_1920x1080.jpg To keep matches feeling faster and punchier, we've lowered the score needed to win from 50 to 40. It's a small change, but one aimed at making the mode feel snappier without losing the vehicle combat chaos that makes Heavy Metal what it is. Heavy Metal is also getting a brand-new map: Nightfall Station. If that name sounds familiar, it should: the space is adapted from the wreckage of this vessel from the Renegades campaign, now reworked into a Heavy Metal battlefield built for vehicle combat. Heavy_Metal_Map_1920x1080.jpg Heavy_Metal_Map_02_1920x1080.jpg Overall, these updates are focused on giving players more variety from match to match, tightening up the pacing, and making sure each vehicle feels like a viable choice when they drop into the mode. We're excited for players to jump back in, try out the new lineup, and see which vehicle fits them best the next time Heavy Metal rolls around. The Return of Sparrow Racing League The long awaited and frequently requested Sparrow Racing League (SRL) is returning to Destiny 2! This isn't just SRL coming back as you remember it, though. We've brought the mode forward with a set of updates aimed at making races feel faster, livelier, and a bit more chaotic from lap to lap. SRL_Header_1920x1080.jpg Ghost returns as your SRL announcer along with Shaxx. There's nothing more motivating than Shaxx screaming at you to push for first place after your opponent just took you on the inside of a turn on Mercury. Skimmers are joining the fun, allowing you to choose between a Sparrow or a Skimmer before hopping into a three-lap race against five other players. Players won't have access to rail grinds or manual jumping as a Skimmer or be able to use destabilizers for rolls or flips as a Sparrow - in fact, we've done a ton of work under the hood to make sure that using either vehicle in SRL feels equally advantageous to players. Speaking of under the hood, we've also updated SRL to support those photo-finish moments at the end of a race. Close finishes can now properly assess ties, which means when two racers hit the line at nearly the same time, the results screen can better reflect that outcome. We know the mantra “if you're not first, you're last” but our goal with SRL is to bring the chaos and friendly competition to the forefront and so tying means you both get equally great rewards. A couple of new mechanics have been added to SRL. Rocket Boost rewards racers who nail their timing of hitting the gas just before the race begins, giving them an early burst out of the gate. Trick Boosts are just what they sound like: land a trick successfully and you'll get a boost. On PC, Sparrow and Skimmer tricks can also be remapped the same way emotes can and we've updated the UI to support that. All four of the original SRL maps are returning, and we've got a brand-new map called Quantum Circuit located in the realm of the Nine! Avoid the Taken and enemies of the past while racing on this wild and intense ribbon road. Additionally, speed boost pads have been added to specific shortcut paths on all maps to offset any gates missed; a change that we think will make taking riskier or tougher shortcuts more rewarding and viable. Finally, we've done some tuning on gate sizes, vehicle speeds, and rubberbanding to keep the pack together while still rewarding strong racing lines, smart shortcuts, and well-timed boosts. We're excited for players to get their hands on all of these updates and hear the brand-new SRL music tracks when Sparrow Racing League goes live next month. SRL Rewards Alongside SRL's return as an activity, you'll also be able to earn weapons and armor rewards. If you've gotta go fast then these will feel right at home in your arsenal. The perks found on these weapons have speed and movement in mind, such as Eager Edge, Desperado, or Perpetual Motion. While we want to keep the weapons and their perk pools under wraps, we will share an early look at the origin trait and armor set bonuses: Featherweight (Origin): Final blows with weapons that have the Featherweight Origin Trait grant increased movement speed while equipped. Revving Up (2-piece): Fast movement builds up a charge that gradually increases your health regeneration speed. Once you are Fully Revved, sprinting grants Speed Booster. Dielectric Drift (4-piece): Sliding while Speed Booster is active jolts combatants in front of you. And for players looking for a little more style with their speed, SRL will also bring plenty of earnable rewards worth chasing. This includes brand-new SRL racing Sparrows and a Skimmer as well as SRL armor ornaments, returning racing Sparrows, and SRL shaders from Destiny 1 plus returning Sparrow Horns from Destiny 1 that also work with Skimmers (and can be previewed in menus), new and returning SRL emblems, and more. SRL_Vehicles_01_1920x1080.jpg SRL_Weapons_1920x1080.jpg Whether you're racing for the win, completing SRL triumphs, or just showing up for the chaos, there will be plenty of ways to earn gear and accessories that let you look the part. Join us tomorrow as we turn our focus to the weapons sandbox, raid and dungeon updates, Tower vendor attunement, and more in our second Dev Insights article and TWID. submitted by /u/DTG_Bot to r/DestinyTheGame [link] [comments]
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Welcome to Season 2
Source: https://www.bungie.net/7/en/News/Article/welcome_season_2 Today, we released a new Dev Insights video shining a light on the new content coming in Season 2. There's a new zone filled with new dangers and secrets, a brand-new defensive shell, a ton of new gear, and much more. Check out the video for the first look at what’s coming in Season 2: Embed Link Season 2 begins on June 2 and kicks off with an Open Play* Week from June 2 to June 9. During the Open Play Week, the full game will be available to play on Steam, PlayStation 5, and Xbox Series X|S, and any progress you make will carry over into Season 2. This will be a great time to invite your friends to crew up as everyone will be starting out on a clean slate. When Season 1 ends, all the assets in your Vault and personalized Armory access will be wiped, and your shells will be reset to factory standards to put everyone at the same starting line. It’s important we give players a chance to explore the new season together and not have to worry about going up against fully kitted out crews right out of the gate. Resets only include things related to gameplay progression; you’ll keep your achievements, non-seasonal Codex prgression, and cosmetics. For a full breakdown on how Marathon's seasonal reset works, please head here. Darkness Descends on Tau Ceti IV Runners have had a profitable season on Tau Ceti IV, but their constant raiding has attracted the wrong kind of attention. Now the UESC is stepping up its efforts to keep Tau Ceti IV on lockdown and protect the secrets they’d rather keep hidden. As the UESC escalate their defenses, all of this activity on Tau Ceti IV is causing something else to awaken. The Anomaly is changing... and after the sun goes down, things get much, much stranger. Embed Link New Zone: Dire Marsh (Night) Dire Marsh (Night) introduces a new kind of challenge to Marathon: How do you survive when you lose one of your senses? When darkness falls on Dire Marsh, the things you thought you knew warp in the night. The Anomaly blocks your path, long sight lines are obscured in the dark, and you’ll want to be careful where you shine your flashlight—you never know what’s lurking in the shadows. This new zone introduces new mechanics, new combatants, and locations to explore on Dire Marsh. It’s built to be slower-paced than Day Marsh and plays more like a survival horror experience, with slightly fewer players and extra environmental challenges with navigating the darkness and threats within. 2026_Marathon_S2_Launch_Press_Kit_COMPRESSED_013.jpg Mastering the zone will require you to make use of the new equipment designed for surviving—and hunting—in the dark: Flashlights, a new tool all Runners have access to on Night Marsh. Vector rounds, a new type of mag which create pools of light where your bullets land, illuminating enemy Runners and combatants. Vector grenades which highlight the environment and ping nearby enemies. Darksight scopes, which highlight the environment around you after you ADS for a brief period; these are focused on traversal versus highlighting enemies. Signal Flares which light up the environment and come in multiple colors. 2026_Marathon_S2_Launch_Press_Kit_COMPRESSED_002.jpg Complex Control The UESC have secured their resources on Night Marsh with advanced encryption. Kill UESC to gather their encryption certificates, or Certs for short, and hack into Network Towers across Night Marsh to gain access to their stockpiles of weapons, healing supplies, and other loot. The UESC has also locked down the exfils on Night Marsh, and you’ll need to collect Certs to activate exfils on the map. You may have noticed staircases on Marsh that led to closed-off doors. Anomalous energy is flowing from Complex. What are the UESC hiding up there? Gather enough UESC Certs to open the doors and hunt down what enemies, mysteries, and powerful loot that awaits in the upper rooms of Complex Control. Dire Marsh and Night Marsh Availability One of our takeaways from Season 1 is that we want to be more judicious with how we handle the amount of queues in Marathon. Between adding Night Marsh, Duos queue on a daily rotating map, and continued experimental modes, we’re conscious of the impact it could have on queue health and matchmaking. To that, Dire Marsh and Night Marsh will both be available at all times for at least the first week of the season. After that, the maps will rotate availability with one another every 90 minutes. You’ll be able to complete most of the existing Dire Marsh contracts on either zone, with a couple of exceptions. We’re also introducing some new Night Marsh exclusive contracts—MIDA and Traxus are both interested in learning more about what the UESC are hiding in the dark—which you’ll need to complete on Night Marsh. If you unlocked and completed a run on Dire Marsh last season, you’ll have access to both Dire Marsh and Night Marsh when Season 2 begins (same rules apply for Outpost). Otherwise both Marshes unlock at Runner Level 3. 2026_Marathon_S2_Launch_Press_Kit_COMPRESSED_003.jpg New Runner Shell: Sentinel Season 2 introduces Sentinel, a new shell built for controlling space and defending areas. If you want to protect your team from a rocket drone barrage during a clutch final exfil or turn the tides on an aggressive team rushing you down, this is your Runner. Sentinel's Prime ability Defender System deploys an automated laser platform which identifies and destroys incoming enemy grenades and missiles, as well as boosting weapon handling for all nearby crewmates. Keep an eye on how many charges it has left to destroy projectiles–it can’t block those rocket drone barrages forever. 2026_Marathon_S2_Launch_Press_Kit_COMPRESSED_008.jpg Snare Mine, Sentinel's tactical ability, is a thrown proximity-triggered mine that will detonate into several Immobilizing submunitions. Bait enemies into your traps and lock them in place to finish them before they can escape. Sentinel's passive trait Castle Doctrine grants increased resistances after taking splash damage, and faster weapon handling for close-range weapons when surrounded by enemies. Prey Tracker, their trait ability, will activate a short range, motion-tracking system that allows them to see nearby moving targets on radar. Use this to gather a bit of extra intel on who or what’s moving around you, and set up your defenses accordingly. 2026_Marathon_S2_Launch_Press_Kit_COMPRESSED_015.jpg Sandbox Updates and New Gear Each new season of Marathon is an opportunity for us to take a holistic look at what’s working, what needs improvements, and where we can add new tools to the sandbox. With everyone’s Vaults empty, it’s a time we can take bigger and more swings across weapons, gear, and equipment. These changes can create space for new metas to form and keeps Marathon feeling fresh as you progress throughout the season. Here are some of the highlights for what’s coming in Season 2. Weapons, Mods, and Chips Season 2 brings two new weapons to the sandbox. KKV-9SD First is the KKV, a new pistol-frame SMG with an integrated suppressor whose name may sound familiar to Marathon veterans. Its rate of fire is extremely fast, coming in at 1200 rounds per minute. Effective if you want to take down UESC units without other shells noticing you or if you are looking to mow down a Runner in a split second. It also a good counter to all the shotgun rushing we saw in Season 1, giving you new tools to combat this strategy. The KKV also comes with a new built-in folding stock mod. Keep it closed for benefits when firing from the hip, or use your weapon action to unfold the stock and trade those benefits for ADS benefits. This mod can also be used by the new Battle Pistol. 2026_Marathon_S2_Launch_Press_Kit_COMPRESSED_012.jpg D54 Battle Pistol A fantastic weapon for close encounters and 1v1 duels, the D54 comes with a red dot sight and fires full-auto three-round bursts. It’s a high-handling, medium rate-of-fire sidearm—think hybrid between the BR33 Volley Rifle and the BRRT SMG. A perfect companion for sniper rifles and other long-range weapons. Both of these new weapons also synergize well with Sentinel, who receives benefits to close-range weapons when surrounded by enemies. 2026_Marathon_S2_Launch_Press_Kit_COMPRESSED_011.jpg Rarities and Chips Season 2 also brings some changes to the rarity of weapons and new options in the Armory, with the goal of shaking up when and how you run into weapons throughout the season. This should give you a chance to try out other weapons more often and keep it from feeling like you have to use the same loadouts season over season. In addition to the new weapons and folding stock mod, we’re also adding eight new chips with Season 2. This includes: Brain Freeze Chip: Precision downs and kills with this weapon create a small explosion that spreads Frost to nearby hostiles. Alarmist Chip: After aiming down sights for a brief duration, projectile impacts create a terrifying proximity drone alert. Scrapyard Chip: Defeating hostiles with this weapon has a chance to spawn depleted heal items or standard materials. We’ll share more details on the weapons, mods, and other balance changes before Season 2. Implants During Season 1 it was hard to tell what each implant did at a glance. They were named based on their stats, with a random perk attached, but what ended up mattering most to players were the perks, so the names ended up being confusing. In Season 2, implants are now defined by their perk first and have fixed stats, with the name of each implant reflecting its perk. When you check your Vault or are quickly looting, it should be easier to tell them apart and choose which ones fit your builds. All your favorite implants are still there, split between head, torso, and legs, and they still give a stat benefit that scales with each rarity tier, from gray all the way up to gold. With this update, some implants will now only exist at higher rarity tiers, as we want to balance the power of high-utility perks like Logic Bomb or Triage Cloaking Device with how easy they are to access. New System: The Cradle One of our goals with seasonal updates is to improve and update the way you progress throughout the season so your climbs feel different each time. To that, in Season 2 we’re introducing a new system called the Cradle, which is where you’ll go to improve your Runner shell across the course of the season. Cradle_LVL30_MAX_DEX_NoTooltip_R2_052226_EN.jpg With the Cradle, you’ll empower the WEAVEworms that create your biocybernetic bodies to increase your Runner shell stats across six categories and unlock powerful perks. The primary way you’ll progress your stats is by using the Matter Converter, which turns weapons, equipment, and other items into experience for your Cradle. The better the item, the more experience you’ll receive. Level up your Cradle to earn Energy, which you can then allocate to any of the six stat categories. Hitting certain breakpoints will unlock additional perks for your Runner shells. Convert-Matter_LVL50_Selection_EN.jpg You can reallocate your Energy to different stats at any time, with no penalties or limitations. Feel free to experiment freely and adjust your stats based on your builds, playstyles, and goals. Your Cradle progression is shared across all Runner shells, and it resets at the start of a new season. With the Cradle, you’ll have easier access to the stats you want to focus on whenever you want (no more needing to level up a faction to gain access to stats), you can change your focus any time, and everything will be on one page to make things easier to manage. Cradle_LVL50_MAX_STR_Tooltip_R2_052226_EN.jpg Faction Progression and Contracts With all of the Runner shell upgrades in the faction progression trees being moved to the Cradle, we’ve been able to expand the Armory options, which should give you even more reliable access to weapons and items as the season progresses. You can expect to see some new additions to the faction trees too. For example, each faction now has a unique family of implants (head, torso, and leg) which fits the playstyle of that faction. NuCaloric offers implants that help with healing and durability, while MIDA has ones more proficient in mobility or disruption. We’ve also made some adjustments to schemas, which can now unlock specific Barter offers in the Armory. Faction Progression Improvements In Season 2, we’re increasing the rate you make faction progress across the board. You’ll feel this through a combination of under-the-hood tweaks, adjustments to the requirements to level up each faction, and increased options and rates at which you earn reputation. One of our goals with these changes is to make it so most players who regularly play can max out their faction upgrades and reach VIP rank during the season. This goes for players who love to crew up, as well as the lone wolves who prefer to run solo. Here are a couple of changes you’ll notice when it comes to faction progression: Updated the requirements to level up each faction, reducing the time necessary to reach VIP in most cases. This includes a pass on the amount of materials required to unlock faction upgrades, so hopefully this time you’re not craving Biolens Seeds and Alien Alloys as much. Standard Contracts will grant significantly increased faction reputation, so they should help much more with progression. Added new ways to earn reputation, including adding reputation gain to Enhanced (green) valuables and a small amount of reputation for defeating UESC. Unlocking everything a faction has to offer will still require time and successful exfils with valuables and materials, but it should feel more like a staircase where you take one step after another, not like a wall you must climb. 2026_Marathon_S2_Launch_Press_Kit_COMPRESSED_009.jpg Contracts Contracts remain a great way to earn the favor of factions, and we’ve been working on some improvements for Season 2. Our goal is to shave off the rough edges, chill down a bit on the heavy traversal and the “in a single run” requirements, and reformulate Priority Contracts so they don’t feel like a blocker to your progress. Priority Contracts will be more focused on granting loot rewards rather than being hard requirements for reputation. Priority Contracts are also no longer gated behind faction reputation levels. We’ve also refreshed Standard and Liaison contracts to shave off some of those rough edges. Reminder that if you’ve completed the Liaison contracts and unlocked a faction in Season 1, they’ll be unlocked for you in Season 2. Cryo Archive contracts are also getting an update. Having every contract require opening a vault made it difficult to make any progress on a run without taking in a key and risking it all. In Season 2, we reworked these to set more achievable goals that can be progressed over multiple runs and to help teach Cryo softshells the mechanics of the ship, with the seventh contract still requiring you to take down the Compiler. Overall, we want the experience of completing contracts to be more organic and enjoyable. We’re also working on some changes to streamline contracts to make them less linear in how they roll out to you over time, which we’ll share more about in the future. Experimental Queues and Duos Queue Last season, we introduced experimental queues—including Duos Queue and Sponsored Queue—as a way to test the waters with different ways to play Marathon. We’ve loved seeing the participation and hearing your feedback in Season 1, and we’re going to continue that in Season 2, including explorations with more PVE content. More details to come! We’re also adding Duos Queue in Season 2 with a rotating daily queue for Perimeter, Dire Marsh, Night Marsh, and Outpost. The rotation is part of us being more judicious with how we handle our matchmaking divisions in Marathon, and we’ll continue to evaluate your feedback on Duos (and all of the new content) as the season progresses. 2026_Marathon_S2_Launch_Press_Kit_COMPRESSED_010.jpg Ranked Updates Ranked will return in Season 2 on June 14, with all new rewards across the board. We’re also making some high-level changes to help simplify Ranked and improve matchmaking times. This includes combining the Low and High Stakes modes into a single queue with a 5,000 Loadout value minimum. Players must also now bring a Holotoag that matches their current rank. We’ve also made some other additions so progression is a bit faster and to ease a bit of gear fear: Progression has been adjusted and should feel faster across all ranks. Win/loss point progression will be influenced by the average rank of the players in that match compared to the player. If you play against people above your rank and lose, your loss won't be as big. If you win against them, though, the earnings will be higher. There is a new daily Ranked Sponsored Kit that contains a loadout appropriate for your rank—the higher your rank, the better the gear. Players can earn Arachne reputation by exfiling with a Tag Chip. We’ll be making more improvements to Ranked as Season 2 progresses, including a new system that will make it harder for ill-intended players to coordinate and team up across runs. Cryo Archive Returns June 11 Cryo Archive will continue on rotation during Season 2, with the first chance to play on June 11, right after Ranked. Reminder that any of the Cryo Archive Subroutines you unlocked during Season 1 will carry over to Season 2. Quality of Life Updates In addition to all of these changes, we also have a bunch of QoL updates coming in Season 2, with more to come as the season progresses. Increased Vault space: a fully upgraded Vault can now hold up to 512 grid spaces of items. Added the ability to batch select items in your Vault. Added a loot filter where if you select a slot you’re missing on your loadout, it’ll filter only the loot you can equip in that slot. Simplified and streamlined the lobby UI, so that you can get into a run faster and more intuitively. This includes combining the Loadout and Vault menus. Players can access select UI screens during matchmaking, including factions, the Codex, settings, and more. Added new PC and console cursor speed settings. Added new privacy settings with name obfuscation and a matchmaking timer offset. Additional game security features to speed up detection of cheats and reduce their effectiveness. Implemented a round of CPU performance improvements, as well as adding support for frame generation on PC. Performance optimization is an ongoing priority for us, and we anticipate further improvements in future updates. Improvements to our network technology to reduce the rate of disconnections, particularly for players outside the United States. Marathon’s Open Play Week Begins June 2 At the start of Season 2, we’re opening the gates to Marathon so everyone can experience Season 2 and the many changes made throughout Season 1. Grab your friends and crew up as everyone kicks off the season on a clean slate*. Marathon’s Open Play Week takes place from June 2 to June 9 and includes the full game on Steam, PlayStation 5, and Xbox Series X|S. Any progress you make during the Open Play Week will carry over to Season 2. Marathon will be on sale around the start of Season 2 for Steam, PlayStation 5, and Xbox Series X|S. As a reminder, for those who already own Marathon, Season 2 gameplay content will be available for no additional cost. We’ll be back with more information including patch notes before Season 2 goes live on June 2. Good luck in your final days of Season 1, and we’ll see you for Season 2 next week. *Gameplay requires internet access and paid-for subscription on console (sold separately) 2026_Marathon_S2_Launch_Press_Kit_COMPRESSED_001.jpg submitted by /u/DTG_Bot to r/Marathon [link] [comments]
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Why the Snowbreak Censorship Should Not Worry Other Games
First, a quick tl;dr All content for games from Snowbreak's area must be screened with regulators ahead of time. Snowbreak showed regulators one thing, then gave players a DIY file mod so that they saw another. Snowbreak devs revealed that they knew the decensor existed and asked streamers to use it. Regulators butchered the game because it was circumventing the system. --- I'm sure you've all heard the news. Depending on how you feel about it, I'm either happy for you or sorry it happened. Just like when Snowbreak first shut down, some people are claiming that similar incidents will soon befall other games. I am here to assure you that is not going to happen. Snowbreak's demise is because the developers chose to play a very dangerous game. No one else is foolish enough to risk it. 1. Content Regulation in China Whenever a gacha game creates a patch, they must first submit the content for review. This isn't always an exhaustive review, but the sampled materials must be representative. The exact rules on what passes are intentionally vague with the idea being that if you draw a line, everyone will run up to it right away. If the line is blurry, games will self-regulate while worrying about crossing the line. Review is also context dependent. Characters in swimsuits can show more skin; male nipples are fine while female nipples are not. A bit of risque material is less likely to be flagged than if everything is risque. Once the material is approved, it cannot be changed without another review. If you release material that differs from what you submitted for review, you instantly lose your game license and your game is pulled from all distribution. To get it back again, you must pass review with the same people that took it away. And they hate you now. You do not, under any circumstances, modify content after the review unless you're a complete idiot. Snowbreak did not suffer this fate. While they did shut their servers down, government records show that their game license was never pulled. This was due to a rather slick plan on their part. 2. Snowbreak's Devs Slick Plan After several censorship incidents where their content passed review but was later censored after a closer look (which suggests they did not provide representative samples AND/OR the regulators were pissed), Snowbreak's devs began sending censored outfits for review. They weren't so foolish as to then ship uncensored outfits directly. Instead, they took a page from old-school gachas and 'discreetly' spread a method to easily uncensor the game among their playerbase. An official Snowbreak employee giving the decensor to a content creator after a censorship wave This is why Snowbreak's censored outfits are incredibly half-assed. The devs did not care to make them palatable because they did not expect anyone to actually see them except for the regulators. This wasn't a good bet, but more on that later. The end result is that they were technically compliant with the law and, since players had to technically modify the game to see the uncensored outfits, they had a thin legal defense if the decensor were ever exposed. 3. The Decensor is Obviously Exposed Since the censored outfits are extremely ugly, Snowbreak employees routinely told sponsored streamers how to decensor the game and even instructed them on how to do it. Example from Stix The game's producer and the marketing director (two people) also routinely posted decensored content on their social media. The game's trailers usually slipped in a few seconds where players could pause to get an uncensored screenshot as well. This was a very open secret. The trick was blasted all over the place by design because the devs knew that no one was interested in playing the game in a censored state--or at least not enough people to keep it afloat. However, because the regulators do not actually play games, they did not notice. Or perhaps Seasun's parent company, Kingsoft, was able to get them some leniency. While the direct studio (LHM) that made the game is small, it is part of Seasun which brags about being the oldest video game company in China and publishes JX3 online--a 20 year old MMO with strong Chinese cultural influence that is still going strong and makes up most of their revenue. Kingsoft is chaired by Lei Jun, one of the richest men in China and one with a sterling reputation as an all-around do-gooder. As long as Snowbreak remained a niche game and didn't cause a national controversy, it was likely better to overlook a little overeager gooning than to smear the reputation of Lei Jun, Kingsoft, or Seasun. 4. Snowbreak Causes a National Controversy The developers and a vocal minority of fans of the game have been obnoxious from the start. Suffice to say that they have made enemies all over the gacha space in China and without. Not all attacks against them are warranted, but what matters is that there are legitimately legions of folks who would love to see them humbled. This is in no small part because they brag about their gooner content and accuse other companies of just being cowards and refusing to give players what they want. The devs declared their work an 18+ game (they didn't get a designation from the government; they just self-declared) and advertised that it was 18+. The players laughed at all the major players for not daring to show as much ass as Seasun. The marketing director posts cringe after a censorship hit Both the developers and the players were, to be nice, insufferable in this regard. They demanded that Snowbreak be seen as THE gooner game. The only game willing to give men what they really wanted--balloon boobs as far as the eye could see. Then they collaborated with the National Post Office. If you have two brain cells to rub together, consider donating one to these developers because they somehow did not see what the inevitable outcome of this would be. Now, other spicy games have collaborated with the National Post Office without incident. This is because they made the collab content completely sterile. From the Love and Producer collab, often mistaken as Love and Deepspace by Snowbros Snowbreak went a different route. They had the good sense to censor their censored outfits even more so that nothing explicit was showing, but these were still bridal-esque outfits with characters in sensual poses. At the very least, it could be seen as a promotion of polygamy (the game's MC had just married his 8th wife). Snowbreak's Collab Offerings The material itself would not have been an issue alone, but combined with the game's fiercely defended reputation as an 18+ adult game for horny men and the army of people eager to strike back at it that vastly outnumbered the players and the fact that it was a collaboration with a government entity, it blew up on social media. This resulted in a news channel showing footage of a random streamer playing the game...with the decensor enabled. The Blurring Makes it Worse TBH Now, even if the shown footage matched what was sent for review, the game still would have received a knock on the head from the Iron Fist of censorship. If the regulators approve something and then the public gets upset about it, the regulators do not take your side. They censor you even harder for embarrassing them. However, since the footage did not match what was sent for review, an inquiry began immediately. Soon, a visual novel style blowjob scene in the main story of that patch suspiciously stopped working. A day later, the game announced indeterminate maintenance and went radio silent. The developers social media accounts and the official Bilibili channel, which all contained decensored content sprinkled in, went private and never returned (except for some pre-launch videos on Bilibili). If only the devs could have known... 5.) The Devs Should Have Known Before releasing Snowbreak, Seasun made a couple of games in the Girl Cafe Gun series. They ripped those characters off for Snowbreak to a hilarious degree though they, thankfully, boosted most of them above the age of consent this time. Like Snowbreak, GCG was forced to shut down for rectification and included a decensor method when it reopened. However, it never really caught on and the game was eventually abandoned with most of the staff being moved to work on Snowbreak instead. The game stopped receiving updates and eventually EoS'd around the month where Snowbreak was initially supposed to launch based on files datamined in the first client--November 2023. Found in Client on Actual Launch of 7/20 Seasun actually has a long history of games where they promise to release the spiciest content and skirt the regulators in some fashion. Players are drawn in by the honeypot and when Seasun inevitably gets caught and is forced to censor the game, they simply move on to the next project. Snowbreak is by far their most ambitious game and one where there was some initial push to do something more sustainable, but they quickly reset to their default shenanigans. This is why, I suspect, the regulators took them back behind the barn and made them shoot their own game in the knees repeatedly. It wasn't about protecting the children or societal contagion--it was about punishing a company that can't seem to stop pulling this same trick. Not only did they have to censor nearly everything in the game, they had to censor things that were already censored and even things they were forced to censor already in the past. After this, they were forced to disable their decensor mechanism. Players who spent absurd amounts of money to support the one developer they thought had their best interest in mind suddenly had to play the version of the game that actually passed review. Since Seasun spent the years after their gooner turn dialing up the goon without much in the way of core gameplay improvements, this wasn't a particularly attractive idea. Once again, Seasun got players money and then cried that they couldn't possibly do anything about the government forcing them to take away the goods they promised to deliver. It's working a little better than usual. While most people have walked away, many are buying the narrative that Seasun really loves them and is doing the best they can. Nevermind that they couldn't be bothered to even add texture to the censored outfits despite over two months of downtime. Only the costume that is currently on sale got a censored version that isn't just untextured plastic. 6. What Does This Mean for Other Games In a word: Nothing. Snowbreak was hit with extreme censorship due to a series of foolish decisions by the developer. They were uniquely vulnerable due to their decensor regulation circumvention and only got slammed because the decensor was discovered by regulators. Basically no other modern gacha is using a decensor for precisely this reason--it's impossible to keep one under wraps in the social media age and especially when people constantly stream your game. It's just a matter of time until the blowback comes and it will always be more trouble than it's worth as the regulators can force you to censor more than other games if they hate you. And they will hate you. Some players have pointed out the practice of mass reporting games. However, games are only vulnerable to that if they do something dumb like circumvent regulation. Otherwise, all of the content in the game has been seen by and approved by the very people you're reporting the game to. They're going to ignore the report unless it somehow becomes too embarrassing not to. Other gacha games with competent PR teams and that didn't build their brand on controversy and picking fights know how to avoid these sorts of situations for precisely this reason. 7. What Does This Mean for Snowbreak Contrary to fan's hopes, they're probably not going to release another decensor trick. They are being watched like a hawk and that's never, ever going to stop being the case. The regulators they embarrassed are likely itching to kick them in the balls again ASAP and may have only approved the current version to show everyone that they made an example of these guys. At the same time, they're unlikely to ignore the current PAK mod to decensor the game. Doing so could be used as evidence that they are, once again, circumventing regulation. Also, that PAK mod works because they have always created models with a switch to change between the version they show regulators and the version they show players. If they keep doing that, the Iron Fist will return to knock out all their teeth. Players will have to just mod in entire models like with the costumes made before the switch that are not decensored with the base PAK mod. As we see with the new character, they did finally hire someone who can make costumes that can pass regulation and don't look like complete trash, but it's too little, too late. They essentially have to give up making money on all content except that one skin if they just try to tough it out. However, this is the most likely outcome because it is the only one that doesn't involve another trip behind the barn. The most recent patch launched with no PV, no character preview and not even character cards on the rerun banner notices. The devs knew what was coming and chose not to say anything to players. Since the patch went live, there has been no official communication. They aren't even talking to their Discord mods despite all the trouble they went through to install CN users to police the Global Discord some time ago. The usually chatty Producer and Marketing Director both remain silent with all posts hidden. The devs know the gig is up and they know that at the end of the day, they still have all the money while the players can only cope until the inevitable EoS. submitted by /u/ShirtlessCommie to r/gachagaming [link] [comments]
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I was paid to be a fake customer at a dying mall. Something strange is happening in there.
So my life pretty much derailed back in spring 2022. This is when the downward spiral, so to speak, really began for me. Trust me, this is necessary context for the rest of this. I was at buffalo wild wings, watching some UFC fights with some friends and decided to cook up a harmless little parlay before the main card. I’d never gambled on anything before and only had this vague understanding of how it worked. But I had just passed some exams and was about five or six drinks deep and the world just seemed so open and rife with possibilities, so I thought why the hell not. I ended up turning $15 into over $200 that night. But based on the way I was acting, you would’ve thought I’d won $200 mil. The high was just that good. More visceral than I would’ve thought. I never reached that high ever again. Even after hitting ludicrous bets that paid out fifty to sixty times more, nothing really came close to replicating it. Which was really the crux of my issues. My dumb ass just kept trying to chase it. As much as I’m sure you’d all love to hear it, I’m not gonna go into a detailed timeline of my misery. Just know that it was bad. Probably worse than you’re imagining right now. Bridges burned, legal trouble, having to avoid calls from very persistent debt collectors. The works. The only reason I’ve been able to somewhat keep my head above water for so long was due to my job. It was one of those positions that paid you a lot to sit around in an office and update a spreadsheet every now and then. Maybe an hour of real work a day. I was lucky to land it, even luckier to be able to hang onto it for as long as I did. So when the consultants were hired and the “fat” started being trimmed, I really had no right to be as shocked as I was when I saw that notification from my manager waiting for me on teams. I did end up with a pretty decent severance. And can you guess what I did with it? Well, I actually tripled it the following week. Betting on motherfucking golf of all things. Of course I should’ve stopped right there and updated my LinkedIn, polished off my suit, registered for some networking events. But no, that wasn’t going to work for me. In my head, no work meant more time to learn how to become a more proficient gambler. Every night was spent diving into statistics, deep analytics, line movements, even sports psychology of all things. What’s it called when you think you know a lot, but you really don’t know shit? The Freddy Krueger effect? Something like that? Things were going alright for a while. Not great but I was winning just enough that I was able to stomach it all. But then one night I was completely coked out and decided to place a very large and stupid bet on a certain boxing match. It flopped hard. Then in my desperation to recoup something, I cooked up another longshot parlay on some fights the following weekend. And I’m sure you can guess what happened. When I was laid off four months ago, I had a total of $45k in liquid savings and only $35k in debts. Across all my accounts now, I’m down to $27.50. As for the debts, I don’t even know. I don’t want to look. My cards are all maxed, my credit is shot, I can’t talk to my family anymore, my friends are no longer my friends and every day there are people who look like they enjoy breaking fingers standing outside of my apartment building. Sometimes they manage to make it in and knock furiously at my door, and I just have to pretend like I’m not there. By the time I finally came to my senses and began job searching again, I’d already dug a cavern for myself that was going to take some Herculean effort to scale out of. I did manage to get some interviews but never made it to any second rounds. Maybe I was coming off as too strung out, I don’t know. Side tangent—don’t you fucking it hate when they ask about gaps in your employment? It’s like fuck off, man. Anyways, I haven’t gotten an interview in a while and things don’t seem to be looking up there. A few days ago, the collectors actually tried physically breaking down my door. Got real close as well until one of my neighbors—this old military type came out and threatened to shoot their kneecaps off if they didn’t skedaddle. I got lucky there. I can’t bank on getting lucky again. Which leads me to last night. I was drunk off some bottom shelf vodka and decided to try a more shameful and unorthodox method of procuring funds. That method being using AI generated sob stories to e-beg on reddit. Yeah, look, I was desperate, wasn’t thinking straight. I know. Of course, I wasn’t sure how much I’d be able to get out of it. Certainly not enough to put even a tiny dent in the total debt, but maybe just enough to get the collectors off my back. For a while. And what more could I lose from trying? I still had the wherewithal to at least edit out most of the ChatGPT speak in the posts before copying and pasting them to as many relevant subreddits as possible. Predictably, I got called out almost immediately, getting blocked from one community after another. But just when I was ready to give it up, somebody shot me a message. I’ll paste it below. Hey there, my name is Scott. I saw your post in ___. That really sucks man. Really, it does. I’ve been there and I think I can help. Now I can’t just give you money straight up because I don’t have much myself, but I can offer you a quick and reasonably trouble-free way to get some. Nothing weird or illegal or sexual, so don’t worry about that. I have a friend who’s head of a property group that owns a mall. You said you live in ___ right? The mall’s located in ___ so it shouldn’t be too far of a drive. In any case, you’ll be compensated for fuel. So here’s the crux of the proposal. You see, the mall’s not doing too well. These days I think most malls aren’t, but the location for this one is just so awful that it’s doing worse than the rest of them. But for whatever reason, this guy isn’t quite ready to let go of it. It’s not that he even really cares about it being profitable. He just doesn’t want it to get shut down and repurposed for something else. For whatever reason. You know how weird rich people can be. Have you ever heard about mystery shoppers? It’s not as eerie as it sounds. They’re just people who are hired to walk around malls and shopping centers, pretending to be customers. That’s basically what he’s recruiting for. To make it look like the place still has some juice left in it so that he can delay the inevitable for as long as he can. Again for what, I don’t know. You’ll be given a certain window of time in which you’re meant to walk around, doing your best to pretend like you actually have a reason for being there. Which would involve some shopping, looking around, having a meal in the food court. Etc. Once you enter the building, you’ll go up to the Starbucks on the second floor. Go up to the barista and tell her that you’re part of the “program” and she’ll give you $100 cash. You can then go ahead and spend that $100 on whatever you’d like over the course of the time you’re in there. Make sure you spend all of it. Don’t try and keep it. They’ll know. Once your time is up, you can simply leave. But don’t try and leave early. Once again, they’ll know. In order to receive compensation, you’ll need to be in there for your entire allotted duration. You can stay longer if you’d like. But not a second less. I mean that literally. Not even a second. Compensation is as follows: $250 for each hour spent there, to be e-transferred immediately upon your departure. If my friend likes your performance, there will be opportunity for you to come back. Let me know if this sounds like something you’d be interested in and then I’ll send over some more details. Cheers. Okay, so clearly a joke, right? I’m being trolled. But then I tried to think about what the punchline possibly could’ve been and couldn’t up with anything. So I pivoted to the idea that maybe it was a scam. Or something even more nefarious than that. The setup tracked well enough. Lure people out to somewhere remote under the pretense that they’re about to make some good money. But not such good money that it seems like a glaring trap. $250 an hour for walking around a mall is just skirting that edge. In my opinion. But what the fuck are they planning to do once I get there? Mug me? They know I’m broke as shit and don’t have anything, so that can’t be it. So what else do I have that’s valuable? My organs? Maybe they’ll kidnap me and torture me to death on the dark web? I think the reason I’m typing this all out is because I’m hoping when I read it back, something’ll click. That I’ll be able to come to my senses and realize just how bad an idea it is. Because right now, against all logic, I’m genuinely considering it. Because those fuckers are pounding on my door again. ***** This time, they knocked for like twenty minutes straight. It got intense enough that I really thought they were going give another go at breaking it down. But they didn’t. Lucky me. I’ve thought about spending less time here, so that if they ever do storm in, I won’t have to make a break for the fire exit. But I don’t know where I’d go. Maybe the library or the gym. Though if it ever comes to a point where I’m having to do all that, it’s basically already over for me. That’s no way to live. Trying to weigh everything now. Do I have anything to lose besides my life? Could things get worse than they are right now? One of the people I owe money to is this guy named Renzo. I met Renzo at a bar while I was watching Canelo vs Crawford card. What was that, like nine months ago? Jesus. So anyways I met this guy there and I was blitzed out of my head and told him very confidently to bet the house on Crawford. He seemed to like the cut of my jib so he went ahead and did so. Not quite the house, but a pretty fat stack. I made him some good money that night. Made some good money myself. Then we just drank and drank until things got hazy and the only other thing I really remember before waking up in his apartment the next morning (not what you think) was my face being pressed down into cold concrete. My clothes were still on, phone and wallet still in my pockets and I was just slumped over on a couch with one side of my face stinging so bad it felt like something was pulsating beneath it. Looking at myself using the camera on my phone, I could see that half of my face was red and swollen, scratches overlapping each other like a bloody lattice. Then Renzo comes into the living room saying he couldn’t believe what I did last night and how much of a dog I was. I didn’t know what he was referring to and I still don’t. I never asked. So that’s how I met the guy. I’d later find out that he traffics a lot of cocaine over the border and does a lot of it himself. And that there’s a small jar sitting next to his television containing several shriveled, dried-up human ears that he claims used to belong to the members of some outlaw gang in the old west. I’m sure a reasonable person would’ve considered these things very carefully and concluded that they might be better off keeping their distance. But not me. In fact, I did the worst thing anybody could’ve possibly done. I ended up borrowing some money from him. Only around $3k. Maybe not a lot to some of you, but when you’re dealing with this guy, it’s still $3k too much. To be fair though, he was the one that had first offered it up, told me to throw it on whatever I thought might get me some coin. And if I won, we could share the profits. I guess he was under the impression that I was some sort of master sports bettor and that I knew what the fuck I was doing. I should’ve asked him what would happen if I lost before I’d accepted it. And I did lose it. All of it. Couldn’t pay him back even a cent. I didn’t hide it from him, just told him the facts straight and clear. To which he’d smiled, told me it was alright. That I had a week to pay him back. That week turned into a month. Then two months. Then I just started flat out avoiding him. Wasn’t picking up his calls, being very careful to scan my surroundings for any sign of him whenever I was out. Eventually I guess he snapped and sent his goons after me and now here we are. The reason I bring Renzo up is because he’s the most pressing issue in my life right now. The guy’s clearly not going away and if I don’t placate him soon, something very bad is going to happen and I’m not going to be able to run from it. I just gave him a call, apologized for ducking him and then asked him plainly how much money I’d need to give him at this point to square everything up, for him to call off his goons and leave me be. He told me $10k. And if I didn’t give it to him by Tuesday next week, he’d come up to my apartment himself and blast the door off its hinges. And that I could try leaving the city or getting the police involved but that it wouldn’t matter because eventually he would get me. And once he did, he’d skin me alive before tossing me into a vat of boiling oil. I told him okay, to meet me at a bar next Tuesday at noon and that I’d have the money. Then I hung up. Now I’m really panicking. I mean, I doubt the guy has access to a vat of boiling oil large enough to toss a body into, but I kind of believe him about the skinning alive part. $10k divided by $250 is 40 hours. I have about 170 hours before I have to meet him. I just messaged Scott back, telling him I was very much interested in the mall thing. Let’s see what he says. ***** It didn’t take long for Scott to get back to me. He said he was glad to hear it, then asked when I could start. I told him immediately. Then I asked him how many hours he could get me before Tuesday. He told me he could maybe swing thirty-five. I told him I really needed forty and was there any way we could make that happen. He said no, thirty-five was a hard limit, but that he could probably vouch for me and get my rate up to $265 an hour. Then I tried pushing for $285, claiming that’d be the minimum I’d need in order to stave off eviction. Basically trying to guilt him into it. It was a long back and forth, but eventually we were able to come to a mutual agreement. He then sent me an address and told me to be there from exactly two to nine tomorrow. I told him I appreciated it and sent him the details he’d asked for. Which was just my name, age, phone #, email. And that’s it. No address, work history, social security number, literally anything else. They didn’t even ask for a picture of my ID. Which was convenient, but also sketchy as fuck. I mean, I could’ve been a literal bot and how would he know? So many red flags that you could supply a parade with them. But it’s not like I really have the luxury of backing out at this point. Maybe I could try leaving town. But I don’t think I’d get too far. I don’t think it’d end well. I told him I’d be there. A few hours later, he sent me another message, via email this time. Hey __ it’s Scott. Please remember this before you go. It’s really important that you do your best to act like a real customer. From the moment you step inside to the moment you leave. If anybody comes up to you and asks you what you’re doing, tell them you’re shopping or going to see a movie or grabbing lunch or just killing some time. Have a response ready and deliver it clearly and confidently. Absolutely no acting like a deer in headlights. Just be calm. Be natural. Don’t think about it too much. And while you’re in there, don’t ask any questions of your own. You see or hear something weird, just ignore it. But if you ever feel like you’re in genuine danger, don’t hesitate to leave. You’ll be paid in full for the day. Should any incidents transpire, please let me know. Tell me exactly what happened and I’ll relay it to my friend. He likes to keep tabs on that sort of stuff. Also, one more thing I should’ve mentioned at the start. Try to keep what you see in there to yourself. Try not to talk about it too much. But if you do, because I know you probably will, just make sure to leave out the specifics. I know it sounds contradictory, but my friend would rather keep everything contained here. Good luck man. Rooting for you. So yeah. Not sure what to make of that, but I’m trying not to think about it. I thought about sending Scott another message, asking what kind of “danger” I could possibly expect. But fuck it. Don’t bite the hand that feeds you or something. It’s late now and I’m watching Breaking Bad for the fourth time, and I have about eight hours before I need to be at the mall. I really should get some sleep, make sure I’m mentally sharp for tomorrow. But my heart’s beating pretty fast and I get the sense that rest won’t come easy right now. I looked up the address, and it does seem to be a real, active place with real reviews. Nothing glaringly “off” about it other than the location. It’s about a twenty-five minute drive from my apartment and it’s pretty out of the way, not very accessible. I think I have just enough left in my account to fill up my tank with just enough gas to get me there and back. Then that’s it. So if this does turn out to be some stupid joke, then I’m really screwed tight. I’m done for. But I’ll be screwed tight if I show up or not. And even if it is a trap and I show up and immediately get shot in the head or get kidnapped and tortured, well, at least that means I won’t have to deal with a lot of annoying shit in the future. Framing it that way, it really is a win-win-win and I’m starting to feel better about it all. ***** I’m sitting in my car right now and I’m feeling oddly mellow, more than I have in a long time. Could be a defense mechanism, my psyche trying to brace me for the unknown. Could also be the vodka Red Bull concoction I’ve just finished chugging. Whatever it is, I’ll take it. The parking lot here is larger than I’d expected and about a fifth of the way full. Which is surprising to me, given the location. It might be a stretch to call it the middle of nowhere but just based on a cursory glance, you could make a case for it. No other buildings around. No other sign of life at all. Just a desolate stretch of highway on one side and a dense forest on the other. It’s about ten minutes out of the city, smack dab between some grey industrial area and a long stretch of farmland. I cannot fathom what the target demographic was here. It’s about ten before two. A lot of thoughts running through my head but I’m doing a good job of stamping most of them out. In another five minutes, I’ll head in. ***** It’s just after eight now and I’m sitting in the food court, sipping on the remnants of a milkshake. Not so mellow anymore. It’s been strange here. Real fucking bizarre. I’m still trying to process it. When I’d first entered (which I made sure to do at exactly two), I’d followed Scott’s instructions and immediately headed up to the second floor. Looking around the place, it seemed typical enough. There was the usual fare: H&M, Foot locker, Bath & body works, Sephora, candy shops, stores selling cute but useless toys and knickknacks. Not quite bustling with activity anywhere, but also not empty enough for it to feel eerie. Though it feels really weird knowing that everybody you pass by is likely there for the same fucked up reason you are. So I’ve been trying to avoid making any eye contact. I spent a lot of time searching around for the Starbucks and eventually found it tucked away in some corner, all the way at the end of a long string of dead and vacant storefronts. Almost like they’d made some concerted effort to hide it. Or maybe it was just a coincidence? Don’t want to get too conspiratorial yet. I walked inside and the only person in there other than the barista was this dude sitting at a table with a half-eaten sandwich in front of him. He didn’t look up or really register my presence at all. Just kept staring blankly ahead at… something? I didn’t know what. Couldn’t figure it out. Maybe the painting of abstract shapes on the wall? I went up to the barista, who had short blonde hair and looked to be in her twenties. I offered up a smile, which wasn’t reciprocated. Not that I really cared. What did catch me off guard was the look on her face. Like I was the scourge of the Earth or something. Like I’d just murdered ten puppies in front of her and then laughed about it. I was so puzzled by this that my train of thought completely derailed for a second and I forgot what I was supposed to say. After stumbling through several half-baked sentences, it finally came back to me and I spat it out. “I’m uh, part of the program.” She sighed and actually rolled her eyes before asking me what I wanted to order. I just stared at her, no clue what to say, probably looking bewildered. I told her again that I was part of the program. She shook her head, sighed again. “You’re supposed to buy something first,” she told me, keeping her voice really low while staring daggers at me. “They didn’t tell you?” I shook my head and told her no, they didn’t. “You’re supposed to buy something and hand me some cash and then I give you the change. Get it?” I remember starting to get light-headed here, thinking was this real? Was I dreaming? “So order something and then give me some cash” she went on. “Doesn’t matter how much. Just give me something.” I told her I’d have a black coffee and began digging through my wallet, surprised and relieved to find a crumpled $1 bill in there. I took it out, handed it to her. She snatched it quickly out of my hand and dumped it in the register then gave me back a small stack of crisp $10 bills. I counted them quickly. Ten total. I turned around, getting ready to leave but then she called me back, asking did I forget about something? I stopped, turned around and she went about making the coffee, her movements slow, almost labored. I noticed that she was walking with a limp. It took her a few minutes to finish up and then she held out the cup, giving me one last glare as I grabbed it from her. I’d never been more glad to be leaving a Starbucks. Like I said, really bizarre stuff. But as I’d come to find out, this was only the tip of the iceberg. I took a sip of the coffee, and it tasted burnt to hell, just completely God awful. So I tossed it, made my way over to one of those mall directory things. Still had a lot of time to kill, so I began perusing the options. Eventually, I settled on heading over to the Chili’s, having a margarita or two or three. Yes, I have problems. I went back down to the first floor, keeping my vision squared ahead, trying not to draw any attention to myself. At one point, I walked past a woman that looked to be in her early sixties/late seventies and I had to wonder, was she here for the money as well? Or did she just happen upon this place on her own volition? I almost wanted to ask her directly but thought better of it. Arriving at the Chili’s, I headed straight for the bar and was surprised to find most of the seats there occupied. Most lively place I’d seen in the mall by far. Though there wasn’t a soul at any of the tables. It was a mixed group. Men, women, some old, some young. All seeming pretty drunk and glaring at me malevolently, as if I were intruding on something sacred. Well, I thought. This was just the way it was going to be. I tried not to take it personally. I took a seat at the end of the bar, trying and failing to catch the bartender’s attention. It was a youngish guy, maybe early thirties. Big beard and pencil thin arms covered in tattoos. I think it took about five full minutes before he finally, reluctantly, looked my way. He started to walk towards me, moving real slow, as if trying to draw out the steps. “Yeah?” is all he said to me, his tone oozing with cold contempt. I told him that I’d have a margarita. Along with a Budweiser. For a while he continued to stare at me, his expression implying that I’d crossed some sort of line by asking to be served alcohol at a bar at a fucking Chili’s. Then he took a deep breath through his nose and turned away, walked over to the liquor shelf. I watched him as he dumped some tequila into a glass, threw a lime wedge in it, topped it off with a messy splash of sprite, spilling most of it onto the counter. Then he walked back over, set it down roughly in front of me, walked away again. He didn’t bother with the Budweiser, and I didn’t bother pressing him for it. More trouble than it was worth, I reckoned. I sat there and sipped my drink slowly, watching CNN on the television but not really paying attention to it. It was hard to focus on anything at all when you could just feel that every single pair of eyes in the room was stuck onto you like glue. That you were the center of attention for reasons that were probably not so good. I finished the drink and felt like I needed one more to get a tolerable buzz going. Tried to get the bartender’s attention again but this time, he just straight up ignored me. Just kept facing ahead while leaning against the back shelf, taking swigs out of a Smirnoff bottle before putting it back. Lightly swaying on his feet. The guy was plastered. At a point, it starts to become a blow to your ego. And this was about that point. I began shouting at him. Something like “c’mon man, can a guy not get a fucking drink?” Maybe, probably, with a bit of an edge in my voice. But he still wouldn’t look at me. I looked down at the rest of the bar and suddenly nobody else was looking at me either. It’s like the entire room had suddenly and collectively agreed to pretend like I no longer existed. “What the fuck is wrong with you people?” I shouted. “Nothing against you buddy,” somebody, I couldn’t see who, shouted back. “There’s just too many people in here right now.” I asked out loud what the hell that was supposed to mean. “It’s five o clock on a Tuesday,” the bartender spoke up, his tone implying that he was explaining something painfully obvious. “Think about it, yeah? How busy can a *Chili’*s get? On a Tuesday? At five o clock? Just think about it. If we don’t sell this, then nobody gets paid. So quit your whining and come back when it’s emptier.” Any further questions of mine fell on deaf ears. I was invisible again. I slapped one of the $10’s onto the counter and stood up, left the place. For the next few hours, I sort of just wandered around, my head in a bit of a daze. Still not fully convinced this wasn’t a dream. I went over to the food court, ate some KFC. The guy working the counter there didn’t say a word to me, communicating via nothing but head nods. Then when I bit into the chicken, I realized that some of it was still raw. I just ate around it. After that, I went over to the Under Armor store, spent some time looking over some knock-off jackets (the labels read Undre Armore?) that nevertheless seemed comparable in quality to the real thing. I picked one of them up, along with a t-shirt. Surprisingly, the lady who worked there was actually pretty nice, actually put some effort into being an employee (or maybe she was a real employee?) After that, I was down to just $20 and went over to the movie theater, which was completely empty save for a woman who was asleep behind the box office and some guy sweeping the floors. The screen that was supposed to be displaying what was playing was glitched, completely bugging out. So I went up to the guy, asked him what was on. He just shrugged, said that it could be anything. Then I asked how I was supposed to buy a ticket and he said all I needed to do was go up to the box office and put a $10 on the counter then I could go into any of the theaters. But to try and not wake Lindsey up since she gets real cranky when that happens and he doesn’t want to deal with it. I parted ways with another bill then went into the closest theater, catching about two thirds of that last Avatar movie, the one with the fire in it. There was only one other person in the theater, sitting near the front. They were there when I’d walked in and they didn’t move after the film had finished. I left the theater and went into a washroom. Took a piss, splashed my face with cold water while looking at myself in the mirror, taking deep breaths. Now the anxiety was starting to break through. The fear as well. After I’d finished drying myself, the stall closest to the wall opened up. I looked over, seeing the door hanging ajar but with nobody emerging from behind it. Through the gap at the bottom, I could see a pair of dirty white sneakers. I guess whoever they belonged to was just standing there. Which was a really freaky thing to think about and I left the washroom shortly after, looking over my shoulder to make sure nobody tried following me out. And nobody did. There were a few more odd “occurrences” after this. I walked past an electronics store and this short, older dude came out from behind the counter with this big smile on his face and tried gesturing for me to come inside. “Cell phone, cell phone,” he kept saying. “Fix cell phone.” I told him my cell phone didn’t need fixing and his expression dropped like a stone in a lake. I watched him as he walked back into the store and rolled down the security gates and disappeared behind them. Then the lights went off inside. There was also this lady walking around with a metal tray, claiming to be offering samples of “cinnamon rolls”. The cinnamon rolls in question being dollops of thick, grey, bubbling sludge. Safe to say, I passed on it. At some point, I had what I believe was a panic attack. Never had one before, but I think this was it. Tightness in the chest, an overwhelming sense of dread. I found a bench somewhere and took a seat. Pulled up some breathing exercises on YouTube and tried to replicate them. To my surprise, they worked pretty well. I went back to the food court, spent my last $10 on a large peanut butter milkshake from Baskin Robbins with a bunch of chocolate bullshit blended into it. And that’s where I am now. Just sitting here, waiting for nine to hit so I can get the fuck out of whatever the fuck this place is. But I’m feeling better now, I think. Maybe it’s just the dopamine from all the sugar but I’m feeling alright. Enough that I think I’ll be able to get through this. Oh, shit, there’s a guy walking towards me now. He just sat down beside me. ***** The good news is, I’m back in my apartment now, mostly unscathed. The not so good news is that as much I need the money, I’m not sure if I can go back to that place. So about the guy in the food court. He was young, maybe early twenties. Tall and skinny, brown hair cut into a short fade. Looked like a bog-standard college kid. He sat next to me, started making small talk, asking how my day had been, was the milkshake good, etc. I tried ignoring him at first, but he seemed nice and normal and coherent enough that I started to feel bad about it. So we got to talking a bit. He told me his name was Daniel and that he used to be a copywriter but got laid off around 6 months ago and hasn’t been able to find anything since. So what’s what he was doing here. “What about you?” he’d then asked. “Why are you here?” Right at that moment, I felt comfortable enough to tell him the truth. I told him about the gambling, the debts, the collectors. It felt nice and cathartic airing out my dirty laundry to a complete stranger so I just kept on going. I didn’t stop talking until my eyes drifted down and landed on the shoes he was wearing—these really worn, scuffed white sneakers. Okay, I thought. Could be a coincidence. And even if it was same guy from the bathroom, then so what? But then I remembered Scott’s message, specifically his “instructions” about what was I supposed to do if somebody tried talking to me and the realization washed over me like a cold wave. I suddenly stood up, told him I had to get going. He started protesting, telling me that I should stick around because he had something he wanted to show me. I told him I was tired and I really needed to go home. He started grinning, showing off blocky, chiclet teeth. Really stretching his lips as wide as they could go and then a bit wider than that. Looking really uncanny. He asked me again what I was doing here. Shopping, I told him. Just shopping. He pointed out that I didn’t have any bags, so what could I have been shopping for? I started scanning the floor around me before remembering that I’d left the Under Armor bag in the washroom. He started laughing in this jovial manner, though there was something clearly ominous beneath it. “You’re not here to shop, are you?” he asked. “Then what? Why are you here?” I snuck a glance at my phone and saw eight fifty. I repeated that I really had to leave and then I turned around, started heading for the exit. To my dismay, I could hear his steps keeping pace behind me. Once I got to the doors, I checked the time again. Eight fifty-five. I turned and “Daniel” or whoever the fuck he was, was still there, standing about a half dozen feet away. “Don’t you have to go home?” he questioned, holding onto that grin. “Door’s right there. Why don’t you leave?” By now, I was checking my phone every few seconds, no longer making an attempt to hide it. He laughed again, said that if I wasn’t going home, I may as well come and see what he wants to show me. Now the panic had returned, and I really had to force myself to stay put for just a few more minutes. Minutes that seemed to be stretching into infinity. But I told myself that I was ready to sprint the second he tried making a move. I started wondering who I was more scared of. Renzo or this fucker right in front of me. It came up inconclusive. As the seconds ticked down, he continued goading me to come with him, each request insinuating more of a threat than the last. The grin slowly fading, twisting into something more outwardly malicious. The moment that the clock hit nine, I tried to bolt. Though I didn’t get far. The bastard grabbed onto my collar, started dragging me back. I tried yanking myself away, but the fucking freak had this inexplicable iron grip. It was nothing but luck that I’d been wearing one of my old, cheap shirts, the fabric of which was already starting to tear. I jerked myself forward a few more times until it shredded off my back. Once free, I lunged ahead and pushed the door open, vaulting myself outside and tripping over my own feet, elbows planting hard onto the concrete. A searing pain jolted up my arms, and I think I heard something crack. But I wasn’t too worried about it in the moment, more concerned about making sure Daniel wasn’t about to drag me back inside. I scrambled to my feet and spun around to face the doors, bracing myself for, well, I don’t know what. Maybe for him to be charging towards me like a bull. Which he wasn’t. He remained inside, his face now pressed up against the glass, features pancaked into this odd, grotesque visage. Staring at me with wide, bulging eyes, relentlessly dragging his tongue across the glass in a circular pattern. Like he’d suddenly forgotten how to act like a human or maybe he just didn’t care anymore, no longer felt the need to keep up the front. I just stood there and stared back, convinced that the second I tried to move, he would do the same. I’m not sure how long this little stalemate of ours went on for, but I remember my heart racing the entire time, beating faster and faster, approaching a point where I thought it might just explode. But eventually, he did leave. Detached his face from the glass and spun around and just walked off. I doubled over, puked up some bile and took several deep breaths before walking over to my car, cold and shirtless, watching the sun dip into the horizon. I wasn’t expecting to find that my tires had all been slashed. All four of them. My stomach dropped. Then it dropped even further once I looked around and saw that my car was now literally the only one in the entire lot. I tried calling for an Uber but the network out there was so shit that the app wouldn’t load. I could’ve gone back into the mall and used the Wi-Fi. But fuck that. I just leaned on the hood of my car, mulling over my options. Feeling a bit numb. My apartment was about eighteen miles away. Theoretically walkable. But the bigger problem was, I really didn’t know the way. here was a good chance that if I tried walking, I’d end up in the next town over. Especially in the dark. Which was something I thankfully didn’t have to risk. A few minutes later, the front door swung open and out came a woman, maybe in her thirties, dressed in jeans and a windbreaker. She didn’t seem all too dangerous, but my expectations were up in the air at that point so I backed away regardless. She walked halfway across the lot before stopping, looking over at me. It seemed like she was about to say something but then hesitated, looking away for a second before looking back. Then she called out, asking if I needed a ride. I told her I’d love one, but could she first prove to me that she wasn’t with the maniac that I’d just escaped from. She said she wasn’t with him, but that she didn’t know how she was supposed to prove that to me. And that she wasn’t going to wait around. So, if I wanted a ride, I should make that decision soon. I shivered. It was starting to get cold out. She never questioned why I was shirtless. I then asked her where her car was. She told me to follow her, but not before flashing the Glock attached to her hip. She said she didn’t think I was a threat but that she absolutely would not hesitate to shoot if I tried anything. I assured her that I wasn’t going to try anything. She’d parked about a half mile away from the mall, on a dirt patch in the forest, well hidden from the road. I asked her why she’d parked all the way out there and not in the lot. She told me the first time she’d left her car in the lot after 8 PM, her tires had gotten slashed. I then asked her how long she’s been “working” at the mall. She said she didn’t really want to talk about it. That she’d prefer it if we just sat in silence for the duration of the trip. So we did. Once we were back in the city, she dropped me off at a train station. I didn’t have any cash for a ticket, but it was pretty close to my apartment—only about a ten-minute walk away. I thanked her and hopped out. Before she took off, I asked her what her name was. She just shook her head, said it’d be pointless for me to know. When I got home, I drained the rest of the vodka in my fridge and passed out on my couch. When I woke up this morning, I checked my phone and saw a notification from my bank. I’d been e-transferred $3,000. I also had another email from Scott. Hey man, I heard you might’ve a rough first day, so I sent you a bit extra on top of the promised amount. Your hours are the same for today. 2 to 9 PM. And also man, just remember what I said before. You’re a customer in there. So act like it. It’s about half past ten AM right now and I’m just lying on the couch, sipping some Clamato juice. Not really wanting to move. Especially not to go back to that place. I spent some time trying to calculate how far $3,000 could get me if I skipped town and concluded probably not very far. Then I tried conjuring up some other ways I might be able to cover the last $7,000 before asking myself who I was kidding. I really don’t want to go back there. But I know I’ll probably have to. submitted by /u/Mr_Outlaw_ to r/nosleep [link] [comments]
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I have no doubt she actually went to a school event with under eye patches and her tits out.
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A Closer Look at Some Widely Discussed Misconceptions
The art is by Madie_h21, feel free to show them some love. EDIT: For those who are interested in seeing me address some of the claims about the Golden Order being a creation of Radagon. You'll find a new post here. I want to be clear that I’m not some authoritative figure on the lore or Japanese, or a 'messiah' here to enlighten everyone, or someone who’s somehow above others and able to see what they can’t. I was honestly worried about coming across as arrogant when making this post, or sounding elitist instead of actually reaching people who are interested in understanding more. A lot of what I’ve written here also wouldn’t have been possible without the help of others; people who put together great JP vs EN resources, and friends in the Elden Ring Discord lore channel who helped clear up my doubts, answered my questions, and refined my understanding. This is meant to be helpful and definitely not preachy, and I hope it comes across that way. This isn’t meant to argue over genuinely ambiguous parts of the lore. For example, Messmer and Melina’s parentage is still open to interpretation. I personally lean toward Radagon being their father, mainly because of the shared butterfly symbolism with his other children and the red hair, but I’m aware that others interpret them as offshoots of Marika, similar to how Miquella and Saint Trina are understood. Since nothing explicitly confirms Radagon as their father beyond contextual clues, it’s not definitive, and that kind of topic isn’t what this post is about. What I want to focus on instead are the misconceptions that keep circulating despite fairly clear in-game evidence, often caused by ambiguous or inaccurate English translations or details that get misread over time. This is more about clarifying points that are strongly supported and relatively unambiguous, rather than debating open-ended theories. "Empyreans are chosen by the Two Fingers thereby anyone the Two Fingers chose can be an Empyrean". So people misunderstand, to no fault of their own, this dialogue from Ranni: Let us speak of the past, a while. I was once an Empyrean. Of the demigods, only I, Miquella, and Malenia could claim that title. Each of us was chosen by our own Two Fingers*, as a candidate to succeed Queen Marika, to become the new god of the coming age. Which is when I received Blaidd. In the form of a vassal tailored for an Empyrean.* In the original Japanese text, she says: デミゴッドの中で、ミケラとマレニア、そして私だけが それぞれの二本指に見出され、女王マリカを継ぐ、次代の神の候補となったのだ EDIT Begins: This part was edited following feedback from u/asupernovaexplodes. The phrase is 「それぞれの二本指に見出され」, with 見出され being the passive form of 見出す, meaning "to discover," "to find," or "to recognize." Grammatically, this goes into 「候補となった」, "became candidates," which gives us the structure: "only we three were recognized by the Two Fingers and thus became candidates." Two things are worth being careful about. First, what the selection grammatically applies to in this sentence is 候補, becoming candidates to succeed Marika, not Empyrean status itself. Ranni's 「神人だった」 is a plain past-tense statement of what she was, with no construction like 神人にされた ("was made into an Empyrean") or 神人に選ばれた ("was chosen as an Empyrean"). Second, 見出す is semantically a selective verb. It presupposes something already existing to be recognized or discovered but because Japanese relative-clause constructions don't strictly encode whether the state predates the verb, it is not ironclad proof on its own, but it's consistent with recognition of existing Empyreans rather than conferral of the status as we see with Gowry's line. Edit Ends The translation of Gowry's dialogue is a bit more accurate in this regard and is quite specific that one is born as an Empyrean, not chosen. 生まれながらに朱い腐敗を宿した、神人として 神人とは、通常のデミゴッドとは異なる存在 …神となり、新しい律を掲げるべく、尊く生まれ落ちているのです 「生まれながらに」 means “from birth” / “innately,” and it directly modifies 「神人として」 (“as an Empyrean”). So the sentence is explicitly: “she was, from birth, an Empyrean who harbored the scarlet rot.” Then 「神人とは、通常のデミゴッドとは異なる存在」 is a definitional statement: “An Empyrean is an existence different from ordinary demigods.” It's pretty much telling you right there it's a different category, not a status conferred by selection. 「尊く生まれ落ちている」 is rather direct about this. 生まれ落ちる is “to be born into the world,” and paired with 尊く it means “to be born as something precious/noble (with purpose).” This part「神となり、新しい律を掲げるべく」 expresses purpose: “for the sake of becoming a god and establishing a new Order.” So the structure is: Empyreans are born as special beings whose destined role is to become gods in the next age. To wrap this up, I know there's also the Black Flame Ritual's text about the Gloam-Eyed Queen. Black Flame Ritual Superior black flame incantation of the Godskin Apostles. Summons a circle of black flame pillars around the caster. Charging increases the size of the circle. The Gloam-Eyed Queen led the apostles. It is said that she was an Empyrean chosen by the Fingers. 黒炎の儀式 神肌の使徒たちの、黒炎の祈祷のひとつ その高位とされるもの 自身の周囲、円状に黒炎の柱を燃え上がらせる タメ使用により、その円が大きくなる 使徒たちを率いた、宵眼の女王 彼女は、指に選ばれた神人であったという EDIT Begins: This part was edited following feedback from u/asupernovaexplodes. The phrase is 「指に選ばれた神人であった」. We have 指に which is the agent marker attached to 「指」 (Fingers), and 選ばれた is the passive past of 選ぶ (to choose). 「指に選ばれた」 functions as a relative clause modifying 「神人」, which gives us "[chosen-by-the-Fingers] Empyrean." However based on grammar alone, 「XにYれたZ」 constructions do not encode any sort of chronology, so sentences like 「選ばれた大統領」 are genuinely ambiguous between "a president who was selected" and "someone who was selected as president." So this sentence in isolation doesn't grammatically foreclose the reading "was selected and thereby became an Empyrean." Edits Ends ADD Begins: This part was added thanks to feedback from u/surrealfeline who reminded me of Malenia's Remembrance. 腐敗の女神の追憶 黄金樹に刻まれた 腐敗の女神、マレニアの追憶 指読みにより、主の力を得ることができる また、使用により莫大なルーンを得ることもできる ミケラとマレニアは、唯一人の神の子供である 故に二人は神人であるが、その生は脆弱であり 一方は永遠に幼く、一方は腐敗を宿した Official English translation: Remembrance of the Rot Goddess Remembrance of Malenia, Goddess of Rot, hewn into the Erdtree. The power of its namesake can be unlocked by the Finger Reader. Alternatively, it can be used to gain a great bounty of runes. Miquella and Malenia are both the children of a single god. As such they are both Empyreans, but suffered afflictions from birth. One was cursed with eternal childhood, and the other harbored rot within. To be clear, the translation here is pretty much spot on. There is no inaccuracy. It could be used on its own as proof alongside Gowry's dialogue but we might as well be thorough. The Japanese is here for reference. The relevant sentence is 「ミケラとマレニアは、唯一人の神の子供である 故に二人は神人であるが、その生は脆弱であり」. 「唯一人の神の子供である」 means "are the children of a single god." Then 「故に」 means "therefore" or "as a consequence." 「二人は神人である」 is "the two of them are Empyreans." So the structure is: "They are the children of a single god; therefore the two of them are Empyreans." You can conclude the same in English. ADD Ends. TLDR: “Empyrean” is an innate classification at birth, while the Two Fingers recognizes/identifies them as candidates. Which makes sense because the Two Fingers are the ones who give Empyreans their Shadows, Blaidd to Ranni, Maliketh to Marika. "Vyke and Lansseax are lovers". This isn’t meant to discourage anyone from shipping two two characters, feel free to sail whatever ship you like into the high seas. There’s just a difference between enjoying a pairing and claiming it’s canon relationship. And if I’ve earned any trust in how I handle evidence so far, I hope you’ll extend that here as well and keep reading. So the text that 'implies' a relationship is the description of Vyke's Dragonbolt. Vyke's Dragonbolt Incantation of Vyke, knight of the Roundtable Hold. Summons red lightning to bolster both the caster's body and their armament held in the right hand. Enchants armament with lightning-affinity attacks and increases maximum equipment load. However, lightning damage negation will be reduced. Of all the knights, Vyke the Dragonspear was the one Lansseax loved the most. In Japanese, it is: ヴァイクの竜雷 円卓の騎士、ヴァイクの祈祷 赤き雷を呼び、右手の武器と身体に纏う 武器に、雷属性の攻撃力が付与され 装備重量の上限が上昇する ただし、雷カット率は低下してしまう 竜槍の二つ名でも呼ばれたヴァイクは ランサクスが、最も愛した騎士であった We also have Dragonbolt Blessing. Dragonbolt Blessing Superior incantation of the capital's ancient dragon cult. Summons lightning to bolster the caster's body. Attacks become easier to deflect and resistance to all ailments is increased. However, lightning damage negation will be reduced. Only those loved by dragons can survive the ordeal of cladding their bodies in lightning. And its Japanese text: 竜雷の加護 王都古竜信仰の祈祷のひとつ その高位とされるもの 雷を呼び、術者の身体に纏う 全身が、攻撃を弾きやすくなり 全ての状態異常耐性も高まる ただし、雷カット率は低下してしまう 竜に愛される者だけが 雷を、その身に纏うことができる You probably already see where I'm going with this. The key wording is the same in both texts.「愛した」and「愛される」 from 愛する, which is a broad verb meaning “to love,” “to cherish,” “to favor,” “to hold dear.” It is not inherently romantic and is very commonly used for non-romantic affection, reverence, or even divine favor. Here it’s tied to 「騎士」 and framed like a title or distinction for Vyke. It's important because it uses that 'distinction' in the same non-romantic context in the Dragonbolt Blessing description. 竜に愛される者だけが “Only those loved by dragons” same verb 愛される (passive of 愛する). It isn’t romantic; it means being favored/blessed/recognized by dragons, especially since it’s about eligibility to wield dragon lightning. So in this context “愛する” describes a relationship of favor, recognition, or special regard from dragons toward humans. A more precise translation of the Vyke's Dragonbolt description would be something like: “Vyke, known as the Dragonspear, was the knight most beloved by Lansseax.” OR “Vyke, known as the Dragonspear, was the knight most favored by Lansseax.” TLDR: Vyke is the same as other adherents of the Ancient Dragon Cult within the Golden Order. They are knights who are favored by Ancient Dragons to wield dragon lightning. "Melina is the Gloam-Eyed Queen" Now, this one is admittedly a bit controversial, but it still needs to be addressed. This claim finds its origin on the Frenzied Flame ending when Melina opens her formerly closed eye. An interesting thing to note is that the claw does make one think a lot of the gravebirds, deathbirds, and other ancient rites of death which we've come to learn about in the DLC. As for whether Melina has found or acquired a fragment or power of the Gloam-Eyed Queen, or whether this is simply her manifesting some form of Death-derived power akin to the GEQ’s Blackflame or Destined Death flames, I honestly don’t know, and that’s outside the scope of this. My only aim here is to disprove the claim that Melina is the same individual as the Gloam-Eyed Queen. This one is going to be relatively simple. You can rest assured there's no Japanese in this part at least. "The Erdtree...is close. Only a little further till the foot of the Erdtree, and the accord is fulfilled. It takes me back. I was born at the foot of the Erdtree. Where mother gave me my purpose. Though now, everything is lost to me. I...have to ascertain for myself. The reason for which I live, burned and bodiless." Melina tells us that she was born at the foot of the Erdtree. Mending Rune of the Death-Prince Rune gestated by Fia, the Deathbed Companion. Used to restore the fractured Elden Ring when brandished by the Elden Lord. Formed of the two hallowbrand half-wheels combined, it will embed the principle of life within Death into Order. The Golden Order was created by confining Destined Death. Thus, this new Order will be one of Death restored. Heavens forbid... That is not the domain of mere men. The burning of the Erdtree is the first cardinal sin. And you say you seek the power of the Rune of Death, too? The Rune of Death goes by two names; the other is Destined Death. The forbidden shadow, plucked from the Golden Order upon its creation… Unleashing the rune now would be unthinkable... The Fingers would never permit it. Nor would the Greater Will... But here we are... The Fingers, dormant, severing our link to the Greater Will. The realm, and all life, in ruins. Impossible events transpire, beyond the ken of the Fingers. Who is to say that the cardinal sin must be cardinal forever? Go on. Finish the job. Take the course you deem most worthy. That piece of dialogue comes from Enia, the Finger Reader. She states quite clearly that, and this is further supported by the description of the Mending Rune of the Death-Prince, the Golden Order was established when the Rune of Death was sealed. Marika is able to seal the Rune of Death after acquiring it from the Gloam-Eyed Queen when Maliketh defeated her. She is a contemporary rival of Marika. Black Flame Ritual Superior black flame incantation of the Godskin Apostles. Summons a circle of black flame pillars around the caster. Charging increases the size of the circle. The Gloam-Eyed Queen led the apostles. It is said that she was an Empyrean chosen by the Fingers. Scouring Black Flame A black flame incantation of the Godskin Apostles. Sweeps a wide area before the caster with black flame. Charging enhances range. The black flame could once slay gods. But when Maliketh sealed Destined Death, the true power of the black flame was lost. Godskin Apostle Hood Hood made by sewing together patches of smooth skin. Worn by the Godskin Apostles. The apostles, once said to serve Destined Death, are wielders of the god-slaying black flame. But after their defeat by Maliketh, the Black Blade, the source of their power was sealed away. The descriptions of Smithing Stone [7] and Smithing Stone [8] indicate when the Erdtree was “born,” placing it during, or sometime before, the Golden Order’s war against the Fire Giants. The key point is that it situates the Erdtree’s emergence around that period. Marika declared war on the Fire Giants because their Fell God’s flame posed a direct threat to the Erdtree. Thought to have been used to hone the weapons of the champions of the War against the Giants at the birth of the Erdtree. This is corroborated by the Sword Monument at the Mountaintops of the Giants. The War against the Giants Champions battle, trolls betray Fire vanquished, the era of the Erdtree begins EDIT Begins: I remembered this quote of Marika which firmly puts the Age of the Erdtree post-War Against the Giants. In Marika's own words. Hark, brave warriors. Hark, my lord Godfrey. We commend your deeds. Guidance hath delivered ye through each ordeal, to the place ye stand. Put the Giants to the sword, and confine the flame atop the mount. Let a new epoch begin. An epoch glistening with life. Brandish the Elden Ring, for the Age of the Erdtree! EDIT Ends. So the sequence of events is as follows: Marika has Maliketh defeat the Gloam-Eyed Queen and the Godskin Apostles → Marika obtains the Rune of Death → she seals the Rune of Death within Maliketh’s blade to establish an eternal Order, the Golden Order → the Erdtree comes into being (or reaches its formative rise) → Marika declares war on the Fire Giants to protect the growing Erdtree → (after an indeterminate amount of time) Melina is born at the foot of the Erdtree. Thus, Melina cannot be the Gloam-Eyed Queen TLDR: The Gloam-Eyed Queen was a contemporary rival Empyrean to Queen Marika. Marika was only able to establish her Order after defeating her, an event that also precedes the rise of the Erdtree. Melina, however, is born after all of these events at the foot of the Erdtree, meaning she cannot be the Gloam-Eyed Queen. "Marika betrayed Maliketh by helping Ranni steal a fragment of the Rune of Death". This is a misunderstanding of Maliketh’s Remembrance and is often used to support the theory that Marika conspired with Ranni in the murder of Godwyn. I don’t personally subscribe to that theory, but that’s a separate discussion altogether. For now, I’ll just focus on this specific point. Remembrance of the Black Blade Remembrance of Maliketh, the Black Blade, hewn into the Erdtree. The power of its namesake can be unlocked by the Finger Reader. Alternatively, it can be used to gain a great bounty of runes. Maliketh was a shadowbound beast given to his Empyrean. Marika's sole need of her shadow was a vessel to lock away Destined Death. Even then, she betrayed him. The Japanese text is this: 黒き剣の追憶 黄金樹に刻まれた 黒き剣のマリケスの追憶 指読みにより、主の力を得ることができる また、使用により莫大なルーンを得ることもできる マリケスは、神人に与えられる影従の獣であった マリカは影従に、運命の死の封印たるを望み 後にそれを裏切ったのだ The betrayal that Maliketh refers to is clarified, several times, both in his dying words which change after you complete his questline as Gurranq and his dialogue when you give him the Deathroots. Marika...why... wouldst thou...gull me? Why...shatter... Still, I am not sated... Not nearly sated... Rrarrgh! Marika... Is this...what it is...to sin? Will things...never be the same...again? Tarnished...my thanks...for thy long...labour. But I have done...all I can...in this land... Henceforth, mine appetite shall be my sole companion. Farewell. Forgive me, Marika... The Golden Order...cannot be restored. In the original Japanese text, it is: …マリカよ、なぜ… 我を、欺いた… なぜ、壊した… だが、まだ渇く…、ひどく渇く… グオオオオオオッ!マリカよ!これが罪か!もう、二度とは戻らぬか!…褪せ人、長い働き、感謝する だがもう、この地でできることは、何もな 我は、渇きと共に生きよう さらばだ …すまぬ、マリカよ 黄金律は、もう、戻らぬ… So the line that says 「マリカは影従に、運命の死の封印たるを望み 後にそれを裏切ったのだ」 aka "Marika wished for her shadow-follower to be the seal of Destined Death, and later betrayed それ." The pronoun それ is impersonal and most naturally refers back to the wish/role just described, not to Maliketh as a person (which would take 彼 or a repetition of 影従). So the betrayal is Marika's repudiation of the sealing role she herself assigned, and the specific act that constitutes that repudiation is identified by Maliketh's own dying words: 「なぜ、壊した…」aka "why did you shatter." The betrayal is the shattering of the Elden Ring. By breaking the Ring, Marika unmade the Golden Order into which Maliketh's duty as seal was bound, rejecting the very arrangement she had established. Iji tells us a bit more about Blaidd. I presume you've spoken with Blaidd? Very well. There is something you should know. The Two Fingers gave Blaidd to Lady Ranni, as a faithful follower. Her very shadow, incapable of treachery. But if Lady Ranni, as an Empyrean, resists being an instrument of the Two Fingers, the shadow will go mad, transforming from a follower into a horrid curse. But such is his destiny. In such matters, Blaidd's own thoughts hold no weight. It pains me so, but he must be neutralised. For Lady Ranni's sake. In the Japanese text: …まさか、ブライヴが… あの封牢を一体どうやって脱け出して… いや、そんなことよりも… …呪いとなり狂ってなお、ラニ様のために尽くすとは 軍師イジーともあろうものが、見誤っていたということか… …私ももうすぐ、そちらへ行く そこで詫びさせてくれ、ブライヴよ… Maliketh's final words confirm this is the same mechanism that afflicts Blaidd. Iji describes it plainly. 「ラニ様が神人として、二本指の傀儡たるを拒んだとき、影は狂い、ラニ様にとって恐ろしい呪いとなる」 That is when the Empyrean rejects being the Two Fingers, the shadow goes mad and becomes a curse. Maliketh's hunger and his descent into Beast Clergyman Gurranq are that same phenomenon: a shadow whose loyalty to his Empyrean collides with his loyalty to the Order the instant she shatters the Ring. His anguish in the text, 「マリカよ、なぜ我を、欺いた… なぜ、壊した…」, is aimed at that moment, not at any sort of conspiracy. TLDR: The betrayal that is mentioned in Maliketh's remembrance refers to Marika shattering the Elden Ring. Maliketh as her shadow turns baleful as his loyalties split between Marika and the Golden Order/Two Fingers. "Radagon is a Fire Giant OR Radagon is descended from Fire Giants OR Radagon is another person altogether that merged with Marika". This one I know has a lot of contention on this subreddit with many supporters. I’ve tried to be thorough so far, and I hope it’s clear I’m not just talking out of my ass. So bear with the process and keep reading. There's this full interview with Miyazaki that can be found in the officially released Book of Knowledge Volume 2. In answer to a particular question about Ranni, Miyazaki says: Ranni the Witch’s dual face is one of her most striking features. Was this aspect of her design simply meant to convey that she occupies a body which is not her own, or is there a deeper symbolic meaning behind the left eye of her spirit form overlapping the right eye of the doll she inhabits? There are several meanings behind Ranni’s dual faces. As you pointed out, she intentionally killed her original body, transferring her soul to a doll, which itself signifies a warped state of existence. Similar to how Queen Marika and Radagon are one being, it touches on the nature of Empyreans and the multiple different aspects they can possess. When asked about Ranni's dual face, he does not treat it as unique to her but places it in a general class of 'Empyrean phenomena', so he is grouping her soul-transfer into the doll alongside Marika and Radagon's shared existence as instances of "the nature of Empyreans and the multiple different aspects they can possess." The word "aspects" is load-bearing here as an aspect is a facet of a single being, not a distinct being that would later fuse with another. This is further reinforced by the two other Empyreans in the setting. Malenia, whose offshoots are Millicent and her sisters who are literal splinters of her being that grew into independent personas. Miquella, whose discarded innocence and love is Saint Trina, a separate-seeming figure who is nonetheless him. The Empyrean pattern is not two people becoming one as observed in every other case; it is one being producing or inhabiting multiple aspects. Marika and Radagon are that same pattern. I am not done yet. I will address every part of this misconception. Let's talk about something Melina shares with us, Marika's words to Radagon: In Marika's own words. O Radagon, leal hound of the Golden Order. Thou'rt yet to become me. Thou'rt yet to become a god. Let us be shattered, both. Mine other self. In Japanese: …マリカの言霊を、そのまま伝える おお、ラダゴン、黄金律の犬よ お前はまだ、私ではない。まだ、神ではない さあ、共に砕けようぞ!我が半身よ! The line most often cited to argue Radagon is "becoming" Marika through some merger is 「お前はまだ、私ではない。まだ、神ではない」, which is translated to "Thou'rt yet to become me. Thou'rt yet to become a god." However, the vocative that closes the passage settles the relationship: 「我が半身よ」, "my other half." 半身 is not a word used for a separate ally or spouse or servant; it literally means "half-body," and in this kind of metaphysical register it denotes one of two halves of a single whole. Marika is not addressing a distinct person she hopes will one day fuse with her. She is addressing the half of herself that has not yet but seeks to attain her divine status. The "yet" in "yet to become me" is temporal, not relational. It is the same half reaching toward full convergence with the other half. You do not call someone 「我が半身」 unless they are, ontologically, part of you already. This becomes clearer in the Radagon Icon talisman's description. Radagon Icon A legendary talisman depicting the Elden Lord Radagon. Shortens the casting time of sorceries and incantations. As the husband of Rennala of Caria, the red-haired Radagon studied sorcery, and as the husband of Queen Marika, he studied incantations. Thus did the hero aspire to be complete. In Japanese: ラダゴンの肖像 エルデの王、ラダゴンを象ったタリスマン 「伝説のタリスマン」のひとつ 魔術と祈祷の使用速度を速める 赤髪のラダゴンは カーリアのレナラの夫として魔術を修め 女王マリカの夫として祈祷を修めたという 英雄は、完全たるを目指したのだ The line at the end there 「英雄は、完全たるを目指したのだ」 translates to "the hero aspired to be complete". This would only makes sense if Radagon was, by his nature, incomplete. A whole independent individual does not need to "aspire to completeness" by studying both sorcery and incantation across two marriages (this is to achieve a greater status and attain godhood); a whole person is already whole. The talisman frames Radagon's entire ambition from his time with Rennala to Marika, sorcery to incantation, as a project of self-completion, which is coherent only if he is an aspect that senses its own partiality. If you would recall, Millicent is the same as she instinctively seeks Malenia. Now, I'm tracing the path Malenia took, after unleashing the power of the scarlet rot, during her battle with General Radahn, in the Caelid Wilds. I should like to meet her, this vanished woman. I think she's in the north. In the lands that lie beyond the Erdtree. Indeed, I believe that is where Malenia will be found. The Haligtree is hidden somewhere in these Northern lands. She eventually comes to realize why she seeks Malenia for seemingly no reason. Again we meet. I can only surmise our purposes are aligned. In which case, allow me to explain myself. I am of Malenia's blood. But in what capacity I know not. I could be sister, daughter, or an offshoot... Whatever the case though, I am certain of a kinship between us. There is something I must return to Malenia. The will that was once her own. The dignity, the sense of self, that allowed her to resist the call of the scarlet rot. The pride she abandoned, to meet Radahn's measure. This dovetails exactly with Marika would call him 我が半身: he is a half that knows he is a half and is reaching for the wholeness he already metaphysically shares with Marika. Let's talk about Corhyn's line which is directly read from Goldmask, this is after completing their questline. To think, that Radagon was Marika herself. Or at least, such is all I can interpret from the rhythm and calculus of his finger. How would such a thing even have been possible, I wonder. Sadly, I cannot comprehend it, myself. Do you have a fuller understanding of the matter? In Japanese: …ラダゴンとは、マリカである 先生の指は、その数理と旋律は、そのようにしか解釈できません …けれど、そんなことがあり得るでしょうか? 悲しいかな、私にはよく理解できぬのです あるいは、貴方には理解できているのでしょうか? The important sentence here is 「ラダゴンとは、マリカである」. The copula である with the topic-defining とは is a statement of identity. It does not imply association or fusion. It is the strongest possible Japanese construction for "X is Y" in a definitional sense akin to "Radagon is by definition Marika" than to "Radagon and Marika are linked." Goldmask, whose entire function in the story is to be the one character who actually understands the mathematics of the Golden Order, arrives at this conclusion through 「数理と旋律」, "mathematics and melody," i.e., formal analysis. The narrative's designated mathematical authority offers the conclusion, stated in the strongest identity-construction Japanese can provide, and Corhyn's confusion ("how could such a thing be possible?") is not to signal doubt about this conclusion, it is to show that this truth is counterintuitive to a mortal observer. Perhaps that is the reason why an Empyrean's multi-aspect nature must be revealed through formal deduction rather than appearance. Let's go back a bit and talk about how we reveal this connection through the Law of Regression incantation. Law of Regression Incantation of the Golden Order fundamentalists. One of the key fundamentals. Heals all negative statuses, dispels special effects, and reveals mimicry in all its forms. The fundamentalists describe the Golden Order through the powers of regression and causality. Regression is the pull of meaning; that all things yearn eternally to converge. In Japanese: 回帰性原理 黄金律原理主義の祈祷 その根本をなすひとつ あらゆる状態異常と、特殊な効果を消し去り あらゆる擬態の正体を暴く 原理主義は、黄金律を二つの力で説明する それ即ち回帰と因果であり、回帰とは 万物が不易に収斂しようとする、意味の引力である When we cast Law of Regression at Marika's statue in Leyndell, it causes it to transform into Radagon's. The incantation's described function is 「あらゆる擬態の正体を暴く」aka "to expose the true form of all mimicry." We are pretty much told that what you are looking at in either statue is a 擬態, a mimicked or surface appearance, and that regression reveals the single underlying truth behind both. The mechanism is described as 「万物が不易に収斂しようとする、意味の引力」 that is "the gravitational pull of meaning, by which all things converge toward their unchanging essence." Regression doesn't merge two things into one; it pulls back the surface to show the one thing they always were, a "return to origin". We are revealing a shared underlying identity that was obscured by the two aspects' distinct appearances. About Radagon being a Fire Giant or related to them, which a lot of people misinterpret from the Giant's Red Braid weapon description. Giant's Red Braid Hefty whip woven from the flame-red hair of a Fire Giant. Every giant is red of hair, and Radagon was said to have despised his own red locks. Perhaps that was a curse of their kind. In Japanese: 巨人の赤髪 火の巨人の、燃えるような赤髪を 編み込み束ねた太鞭 巨人たちは、皆一様に赤髪であり ラダゴンは、自らの赤髪に絶望したという それは巨人の呪いだったろうか The reading that this text "proves" Radagon is a Fire Giant or related to one requires treating "every giant is red of hair" as a biconditional i.e., "only giants are red-haired" which the text does not say and which is falsified elsewhere in the game. The Leonine Misbegotten are conspicuously red-haired and are not giants or related to giants; they are beings associated with the Crucible, the primordial aspect of the Erdtree that the Golden Order came to shun. Red hair in Elden Ring is a marker of Crucible-adjacency (same as horns though less severe) and of things the Golden Order wants hidden, which is a much broader category than "fire giant." The final line 「それは巨人の呪いだったろうか」 is explicitly speculative or interrogative. It reads "was that perhaps a curse of their kind?". So it is not assertive. It proposes that Radagon's red hair might have been some kind of curse and gestures at the Giants as a comparison. I would not treat this line as a declarative identification of Radagon as a Fire Giant or a relation to one, as it is the opposite of what the Japanese grammar permits. The Remembrance of the Fire Giant boss pretty much closes this line of inquiry decisively too. Remembrance of the Fire Giant Remembrance of Fire Giant, hewn into the Erdtree. The power of its namesake can be unlocked by the Finger Reader. Alternatively, it can be used to gain a great bounty of runes. The Fire Giant is a survivor of the War against the Giants. Upon realizing the flames of their forge would never die, Queen Marika marked him with a curse. "O trifling giant, mayest thou tend thy flame for eternity." In Japanese: 火の巨人の追憶 黄金樹に刻まれた 火の巨人の追憶 指読みにより、主の力を得ることができる また、使用により莫大なルーンを得ることもできる 火の巨人は、巨人戦争の生き残りである 釜の火が不滅であると知った時 女王マリカは、刻印の呪いを施したのだ 小さき巨人よ。永遠の火守りとして生きるがよい EDIT Begins: This part was edited following feedback from u/HiroKifa. The Fire Giant boss is described as 「巨人戦争の生き残り」is a survivor of the War against the Giants. Japanese doesn't grammaticalize singular versus plural here, so this phrase by itself doesn't settle whether he's the last fire giant or one of several survivors; it only establishes that he survived the war. The Remembrance also doesn't claim the curse was unique to him. It only says Marika cursed him upon realizing the forge-flame was immortal. So this text on its own doesn't foreclose the idea of other fire giants existing. What it does do is ground the fire giants as a people whom Marika waged war against and cursed. Previously, here due to a faulty translation, I read it as the Fire Giant being the sole survivor when it doesn't necessarily say that. EDIT Ends. It is unambiguous that the giants were exterminated by Marika's order and that the one remaining is cursed to tend the flame eternally. Why would Marika fuse with a member of her enemies or a descendant of one? What is the logic behind that? There's none. Radagon's red hair therefore cannot be evidence of Fire Giant origin in any straightforward sense; the text inviting that reading is speculative, and the hard narrative frame forecloses it. TLDR: Radagon was never a separate person who merged with Marika which is to say he is an aspect of her, same being, different face. Miyazaki himself groups Marika/Radagon with Ranni's doll-self as an example of Empyreans possessing "multiple different aspects," which is the same pattern seen in Malenia's Millicent-offshoots and Miquella's Saint Trina. Marika calls Radagon 我が半身 ("my other half"), the Radagon Icon says he "aspired to be complete" (only meaningful if he's partial by nature), Goldmask concludes 「ラダゴンとは、マリカである」 using the strongest identity-construction in Japanese, and the Law of Regression, which exposes 擬態 (mimicry), and then pulls Marika's statue into Radagon's, revealing one underlying truth beneath two surfaces. The fire-giant theory fails too: the line about his red hair is explicitly speculative (〜だったろうか), red hair isn't exclusive to giants (Leonine Misbegotten), and the Fire Giant Remembrance states the boss is the sole surviving fire giant. submitted by /u/TerranImperium to r/EldenRingLoreTalk [link] [comments]
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Dot & key under eye patch is really hydrating and good
hey guys have any of you tried these i patches I did and I think it's really good like very hydrating, cooling also has hyaluronic acid and niacinamide submitted by /u/Tall-Ambassador-7597 to r/MAKEUPINDIA [link] [comments]
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AITAH for getting a tattoo knowing it will upset my mum
I am NOT OOP, OOP is u/silver_springs27 Originally posted to r/AITAH AITAH for getting a tattoo knowing it will upset my mum Editor’s note: added paragraph breaks for ease of readability Trigger Warnings: mental health issues, manipulation Original Post: March 18, 2026 Hi Reddit, would love some outside opinions on this. I am 19F and currently looking to get my first tattoo. I’ve always known I’d want to get tattoos and have spent some time since coming of legal age to plan out the styles that I like and what specific designs I would want. My first tattoo is going to be a small piece on my upper inner arm of my two cats; I’ve had them since childhood and they’ve gotten me through some really tough mental health periods growing up and struggling through school, as they’re getting older I want a way to keep them with me forever and this seems like the perfect first tattoo for me (am literally typing this out with the two of them curled up next to me lol). I’ve been in contact with an artist who is sketching a design for me and I’m so fucking excited!!! The problem? My mum, who is pretty much my best friend in the entire world, HATES tattoos. Her and I pretty much agree on everything except this. When I got my eyebrow pierced a few years back, she didn’t speak to me for a week but has gradually come to accept it. I’ve been upfront with her about wanting tattoos since the beginning (because we basically tell each other everything) and she knows that she can’t stop me from getting them done, but she’s not going to support it or be happy about it. I actually held off getting something done after I turned 18 to wait until she was in a good place with her work and personal stuff (not that she was in a bad place or anything, but I just wanted to make sure I wouldn’t be adding anything to her plate). Because I’ve been in contact with the artist, I told her today that the tattoo would be coming soon. She can barely look at me now. She says she can’t imagine something more ridiculous and irresponsible, that I’m going to be so ashamed, that I haven’t thought this through etc. etc. I know a lot of her opinions are a generational thing, but I also think it’s really unfair of her to say it’s stupid and I’m not thinking about it, when it’s not like I’m getting it just for the sake of it, it has a meaning that is important to me. She’s said that when I get it done, she won’t speak to me for a while and probably won’t be able to look at me. I know that this will break my heart because she is my absolute rock and I struggle going a day without talking to her if either of us are working or travelling, let alone if she does it out of anger and for multiple days. So AITAH for knowingly doing something that will cause a rift in our relationship? I feel kind of stuck, I know I want to do this for myself, but knowing that I am actively harming my relationship with pretty much my favourite person is eating me up inside. Is there any way I can make this process easier or hurt less? Have any of you been through a similar experience? Any advice would be really appreciated ☺️ AITAH has no consensus bot, OOP was NTA Relevant / Top Comments Commenter 1: NTA. It’s your body, and she’s choosing distance to control you. That’s the real issue. OOP: Yeah I know, both my parents do it as their main form of retaliation. Otherwise they’re both amazing with dealing with conflict, but I hate when they do this because it’s so hard to get through to them and reach a solution. How do I get through it? I’ve told her it’s hurtful before and doesn’t get us anywhere, but she says she’s entitled to react in the way that she wants. I know I’m still going to get the tattoo because you’re right, it’s MY body, but I just wish I could minimise the family fallout 😫. Commenter 2: NTA. You're an adult, nobody can tell you what you can and can't put on it (as long as it isn't a swastika or anything like that). Commenter 3: NTA, your mother needs to realise you aren't a child anymore. Seems very childish of your mother to not speak to you because of a tattoo Update #1: March 19, 2026 (next day) Hi everyone, if you haven’t read my original post you can do so here. Thank you so much to everyone who offered kind words and shared their own experiences, it’s really made me feel better about the whole situation. I’ve gone ahead and booked my tattoo appointment for next week, I have a friend coming with me to support and I’m honestly so so excited to see what the artist has come up with to capture my boys (the cats lol) I told my mum when I got home from uni, very upfront I basically said “I know this is going to upset you, but I figured you should know that my tattoo appointment is booked for next week at date/time. I won’t tell you anymore information if you don’t want it, but I am going ahead with it as it’s my choice and something I’ve thought about and really want”. She didn’t say anything the whole time and when I was done just picked up her phone, so I took that as my queue to leave. However, when I told my dad, who I thought was more chill about the matter; he sighed and shook his head, asking where I was getting it and how big it was going to be, all while huffing and rolling his eyes. He then asked me where I was getting the money from, I told him the truth, I’ve been keeping a small seperate fund for the tattoo that I’ve slowly been adding to. He then called me a liar for the times that I’ve said “I have no money” (which like, for small frivolous purchases IS true, I work minimum wage and have a lot of weekly expenses) and said something about “this is how it starts, is this really who you want to be?” whatever the fuck that means. I think he thinks that when I get a tattoo I’m going to become a horrible person?? I don’t even know. I know that the fallout AFTER the tattoo is going to be worse, so I’m going to take the time leading up to it to mentally prepare myself, make sure I’m surrounded by friends and loved ones who aren’t fussed about this stuff (which is mostly my cousins, I’m very close with my older aunt and grandma but they hate tattoos so I don’t think they’ll be on my side either). It’s going to suck, especially because I am truly super close with my parents, despite what this post may suggest. The three of us spend a lot of time together (not bc I have no friends lmao, I do I promise) and I’m going to find their distance very hurtful. But I’m happy that I’m doing this for me and excited to start this new chapter!! I’ll try to update as to what happens after the tattoo if I can, but thank you so much to everyone who commented their kind words and encouraged me to pursue things that make me happy, I wish you all much love!! Editor's note: OOP did not leave any comments here in Update #1 Top Comments Commenter 1: Your parents are being really immature about this. Are you in the US? You said in your previous post it was generational, but based on your age I am assuming your parents are millennials. Unless you are in a culture where tattoos are taboo, I call BS on that. Doctors, lawyers, and businesspeople now have tattoos. They are just being judgmental about something that is honestly none of their business. It sounds like you have given this a lot of thought and picked something that is meaningful to you. Just tell your parents that you aren’t going to discuss it further and to talk to you when they have worked through their issues. I hope you love your tattoo! Commenter 2: I am happy for you. Honestly your parents sound like low contact material. You gonna rock your new Tat. :D Update #2 March 24, 2026 (five days later from Update #1) Update 2: AITAH for getting a tattoo knowing it will upset my mum Hi again, wanted to post a further update for this story, which you can read the original post here and the initial update here. To answer some questions commented on my first update, no I am not Jewish or any form of religion/culture that has specific problems with tattoos so that’s not where the concern comes from. I don’t live in the US, I’m Australian; when I said that I think it’s a generational thing, my parents grew up in somewhat upper class areas in the 70s and 80s (they had me when they were older) where the only people who had tattoos were people who had been to prison or people from the military (or so they say, I reckon they were probably more common then that though). I mentioned in my update I was worried about telling my grandma and older auntie who I thought had the same views. I went out for lunch with them yesterday and before I left home, my dad told me that my mum had said to him to tell me (apologies for the longwinded sentence) to under NO circumstances mention it to my grandma, something like that she’s 89 and doesn’t need that kind of “stress”. But honestly, my grandma is one of my biggest supporters, she was totally fine when I came out to her as a lesbian a few years back and I chat to her pretty much weekly about stupid teenage gossip which she’s super cool with - we have a very special relationship, and I think my mum forgot to take that into account and just was thinking about the fact that she’s a nearly 90 year old lady from a conservative background. Well, I told my grandma and auntie yesterday and they were super chill about it, they said that while it’s not their thing they understand it’s important to me and were happy I was doing something that made me happy. They asked to see the designs, my auntie (whose an amazing artist) even offered to draw my next tattoos, and they both encouraged me to go to them if things are tough with my parents (they’re amazing and I love them!!) So the moment of truth… today I got my first ever tattoo! I am so in love with it, my artist was incredible and made the process fun and enjoyable. I made sure to give my parents space both today and in the days leading up to today, not mentioning the tattoo or appointment so as to not rub it in their faces. When I got home a couple hours ago, we just chatted like normal for a while until my mum said “Well…how did it go?”. I started to say that the session went great and the artist was lovely and she cut me off saying “Are you going to show us or what?”. So I just lifted up my sleeve and showed them. They were quiet for a couple seconds, leaning in to look at it, my dad just said “It’s bigger than I thought” and Mum went “mmm…much bigger” with like a grimace, whatever. My Dad asked me if it hurt and how long it took, so I guess that was nice, and then I just took myself off to bed, hugging and kissing them both goodnight like everything was normal. I’m just going to give them space with it and act like normal because it IS normal. This is nothing insane or horrible and I can see now that my anxieties around their reactions made me make it into something that seemed way bigger. It’s my body and my decision to make and I’m so happy that I’ve made it. You can take a peek at my tattoo here just because this subreddit doesn’t allow images, but I’m more than happy to show it off 🤭. Thank you so so much to everyone who commented to help me put my big girl pants on and brave the consequences to my own actions. You all really helped me put it into perspective and understand that my parents are entitled to their opinions, but they don’t have to dictate what I do or don’t do. And everyone who shared their own stories, thank you very much. Sending you all lots of good vibes, thanks for all your kindness 😊. Editor's note: OOP also linked the same picture of her cats tattoo onto her profile Picture of cats tattoo description of cats tattoo A close-up of a tattoo featuring two cats sitting side by side, drawn in a soft, realistic style with fine linework and light shading. The left cat seems to be fluffy with a light-colored coat and darker patches on its face, ears, and legs. It has a gentle, slightly rounded expression. The right cat has a darker face and ears with a lighter body, resembling a Siamese or color-point pattern. The expression is a bit more defined, with darker shading around the eyes and muzzle. Both cats are sitting upright with their tails curled around their bodies, facing forward as if they are posing together. Shading is subtle and gives them a soft, almost pencil-drawn look. Editor's note: OOP did not leave any comments in this final update DO NOT COMMENT IN LINKED POSTS OR MESSAGE OOPs – BoRU Rule #7 THIS IS A REPOST SUB - I AM NOT OOP submitted by /u/Choice_Evidence1983 to r/BestofRedditorUpdates [link] [comments]
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The “under eye patches” should have their own flair at this point because… 🙄
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AITAH for "allowing" my stepdaughter to wear stinky pajamas to school?
I am NOT OOP, OOP is u/Severe-Drive-9515 Originally posted to r/AITAH AITAH for "allowing" my stepdaughter to wear stinky pajamas to school? Trigger Warnings: possible mental health struggles, neglect, hygiene issues Original Post: January 14, 2026 I (31f) married my husband (37m) in December then moved in with him and his daughter (15f). The mom (41f) is in the picture but my stepdaughter lives us full-time. On the 1st day of school after Christmas break for my stepdaughter, I was to drive her to school. When she was "ready," she was in pajamas that smelled like gym clothes. She had pimple patches all over her face. Her hair was messy and greasy. But I didn't say anything. She's 15 and in 10th grade, I figured she's old enough to dress herself. Plus if her mom and dad don't have a problem with it, why should I. My mom (53f) came to visit. My mom looked like her eyes would fall out of her head when she saw how my stepdaughter looked when she came home from school. My mom asked how on earth I'm allowing my stepdaughter to go to school like that. I told my mom nobody asked for my input, and it wasn't my decision. She called me, my husband, and my stepdaughter's mom bad parents for allowing her to look like that at school. I asked my mom to leave my house. Am I the asshole ? EDIT This edit is for the wonderful people who are concerned about my stepdaughter. I agree I'm the AH. I now understand this is not normal. I will do my best to get her professional help. AITAH has no consensus bot, OOP received mixed reactions of NTAs, YTAs, and ESHs. Relevant Comments Commenter 1: You're attracted to a man who is clearly a negligent father? OOP: I'm asking this in good faith. Is this really negligence? Commenter 2: You think this is normal? Were you ever a teenager? OOP (downvoted): I meant for teens nowadays. Not all of them. Not even most of them. But I significant amount of them. OOP on the possibility of her mother being correct for bringing this to her attention and get her stepdaughter help OOP: I'm going to do what I get to make sure she gets professional help. Commenter 3: Thank you for taking this seriously. It sounds like your mom may be of support to you with this since she initially brought this to your attention. OOP: I guess I had gotten a wrapped view of average teens from how adults talk about teens on TikTok. Like how they might wear pajamas to school. How they're more relaxed about appearance. So when I saw how my stepdaughter is, I thought, perfectly normal. I was so stupid. Commenter 4: So this child lives with you full time, you let her go out like that, and you don't see that this might be a sign of some mental health challenges? That sounds like someone that's depressed. >Plus if her mom and dad don't have a problem with it, why should I. That's not how logic works. All I'm getting from this sentence is there are three shitty adults in the picture. YTA. Time to act like a parent. OOP (downvoted): Maybe I'm really out of touch. I was under the impression that a lot of teens look like this nowadays. Commenter 5: The whole grunge look was so 1990s. It's not currently a thing, as I understand it. However, it IS a symptom of mental depression - avoiding self care. There should be talks with your husband (and he can discuss it with the ex if he deems it important). Looking for a therapist might be a natural next step. The PJs - I do see people out and about in them, so that's not as much of an issue, but it depends on where you are if it's the norm or not. OOP: I don't want it to seem like I'm making excuses for myself. If I suck as a parent, I suck as a parent and I'll fix that. The thing is, she seems so happy. She's sociable and she goes out. Commenter 6: Hard to respond without knowing more of the family dynamics. You only moved in a month ago, but did you already know the stepdaughter from before? Do you have clarity about when you're supposed to take on a parental role (I'm guessing not)? It sounds as if you were trying not to be the wicked stepmother, and I think that was probably the right choice. She might have been doing this to test you. OOP: I already knew her. My role isn't to replace her mom. Has the stepdaughter's school reach out with any concerns? OOP: Nothing as far as I know. Commenter 7: Need more info. Does this happen every day? Is she depressed? Has this been talked about? What’s the background here? OOP: Most school days. But she dresses up on the weekends. Update: January 15, 2026 (next day) Update: AITAH for "allowing" my stepdaughter to wear stinky pajamas to school? I (31f) am thankful to all who are concerned about my stepdaughter (15f). Last night, I talked to my stepdaughter and my husband (37m) individually. I gently asked my stepdaughter about how she looks and smells when she goes to school, especially the sweaty body odor, the pajamas, the pimple patches, and the messy greasy hair. Given that I wash all the clothes, I know for a fact her clothes look clean and smell good when she gets them. The 1st thing is she was surprised she smells when she's going to school. She literally goes to school in pajamas she's sleeps in. Not the same pajamas more than one night but she manages to sweat enough to smell them up in her sleep. She seemed bothered by the fact she smells but not as bothered I would be if someone told me that. The 2nd thing, for everything else, she said neither her friends nor her boyfriend judges her for looking like that. She said other girls look similar. She said she's comfortable, and not interested in pleasing judgmental people. I ask her if she knows she can come to me, her dad, or her mom if she has any mental health problems. My stepdaughter said she knows and she's good. She thanked me for worrying about her. My husband said she was a tomboy until middle school. That she dressed very girly during middle school and the 1st few months of high school. He said she had told me a while back that she was surprised how non-judgmental her fellow high school students was about clothes. I ask him to promise me to get her checked out by a mental health professional. As a precaution. He promised me. This morning, on the phone, I apologized to my mom (53f) and we plan to meet physically on Friday. I am little relieved about my stepdaughter's answers and attitude to all this but still concerned and will still keep an eye on her regarding this matter. I'm going to try to be a better stepmom. That's where we're at now. Relevant Comments Commenter 1: NTAH to me. This reads like a thoughtful course correction, where concern turned into listening and respect instead of control, which matters far more at her age. OOP: I still think I'm the AH. Something could have, and can still be, seriously wrong. Because I watched too much TikTok, I just assumed that her presentation was normal teen girl stuff. I need to be more active as a stepparent. Commenter 2: The comments on your original post were way harsh and I think you’re being hard on yourself. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself to be a good stepmom, you’re doing fine! And your update shows you weren’t the a-hole, your stepdaughter kind of validated what you already thought which was that her appearance wasn’t anything out of the ordinary for other girls her age. If you notice she smells again, since she was surprised and a bit bothered by it I would mention that she may want to start changing her clothes in the morning. Seeing a mental health professional because of her lack of hygiene is a bit much because it sounds like she’s just a girl who doesn’t put much effort into her appearance, but it can’t hurt for her to check in with a therapist to discuss how she’s doing with the two household dynamic. OOP: Those comments are harsh, but I understood where they were coming from. DO NOT COMMENT IN LINKED POSTS OR MESSAGE OOPs – BoRU Rule #7 THIS IS A REPOST SUB - I AM NOT OOP submitted by /u/Choice_Evidence1983 to r/BestofRedditorUpdates [link] [comments]
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I am NOT OOP. OOP is u/ThrowRANoRespectWife Originally posted to r/AITAH Previous BoRUs: #1, #2. #3. #4 [New Updates]: AITAH for asking my wife to choose our family over hers? NEW UPDATE MARKED WITH ---- Trigger Warnings: emotional abuse and manipulation, job loss, mentions of abuse, body injury, seizures, mentions infidelity, mentions financial abuse, toxic work environment Mood Spoilers: sad, crazy Editor’s Notes: due to the lengths of prior posts altogether, they have exceeded the character limit. TL;DRs for each of OOP’s older posts. This is in order to fit all posts in the latest BoRU here. For the full text bodies of older posts and relevant comments, see the previous BoRUs linked above RECAP / TL;DRs I messed up and it feels like my wife will never move past it. Should I keep letting her punish me or is it time to say enough is enough?: August 8, 2025 OOP, 35M, shares the breakdown of his marriage after losing his job due to the workplace conflict. His wife, who warned him the job would end badly, became the sole provider while pregnant, and their relationship deteriorated. After being asked to leave, he entered therapy, found new work, including three jobs, and was allowed to return home, though he now sleeps in the basement and has no emotional or physical connection with his wife. Despite his efforts to regain trust, she continues to criticize and dismiss him, often siding with her mother over him. A recent argument regarding their son’s minor post-surgery fever made him realize how little respect she has for him, leading him to question whether he’s truly making amends or being punished in a marriage that may already be beyond saving. Anxiety that turns to panic: August 10, 2025 (two days later) OOP stayed home while his family went out of town for the weekend and is now spiraling with anxiety before they get back. He is obsessing over whether he did enough around the house, making multiple lists to justify it, but nothing helps. When he stopped distracting himself with Reddit, his anxiety turns into panic, and he is aware that doomscrolling isn’t a healthy coping mechanism. He is stuck in his head, feeling guilty and unable to calm down. UPDATE: I messed up and it feels like my wife will never move past it. Should I keep letting her punish me or is it time to say enough is enough?: August 12, 2025 (two days later from the previous post, four days from the OG post) OOP updated and clarifies he’s been working hard since moving back home, holding down three jobs, managing childcare, cooking, and helping with household chores, and feels he’s doing his share, despite criticism. When his family returned from a weekend trip, OOP tried to talk with his wife about cutting back on work and starting marriage counseling. She dismissed the counseling idea and accused him of wanting to avoid responsibility when he suggested working less, explaining that she plans to reduce her hours and relies on his income. She mentioned his basement sleeping arrangement is partly due to his late-night work schedule but didn’t elaborate on other reasons. OOP brought up counseling again, and his wife reluctantly agreed to a Zoom “intro” session with a female counselor, though she avoids intimacy and is uninterested in date nights, saying they “aren’t there right now.” OOP feels lost on how to express concerns without sounding defensive and admits he has no one else to talk to. Editor's note: after the update, OOP made a post onto a different sub regarding a question about how long do the couples try before calling it quits. That sub does not allow their posts to be cross-posted so I will not include the post here in the BoRU. I didn't realize how much my family doesn't care until I came to Reddit: August 15, 2025 (three days later from the update post) OOP explains on how sharing his marital struggles on Reddit has made him realize just how isolated he is in real life. He said redditors have been supportive and offered advice. Their marriage remains strained, and OOP feels emotionally abandoned by his parents, his father distant and cold, his mother more invested in maintaining access to her grandkids and her relationship with OOP’s wife than supporting him. OOP describes the lifelong pattern of being blamed or dismissed by family, childhood bullying to adult failures, and now sees how little emotional values he holds to them than what he provides. He feels invisible, resigned to being ignored as his wife and parents carry on without him, concluding that it’s easier to hide away in the basement. AITAH for snapping at my mom and hurting her feelings after she referred to my wife as a "single parent"?: August 19, 2025 (four days later) OOP recalls a tense family outing to the zoo resulting with him snapping at his mother after she referred to his wife as a “single parent.” OOP, who was struggling through a rocky marriage after losing his job and being temporarily kicked out, recently moved back home but still lives in the basement and feels unwelcome in his family. At the outing, he felt excluded and dismissed by both sets of parents, culminating in his mother’s comment implying that his wife was essentially raising their kids alone. Hurt and humiliated, OOP lost his composure, grabbed his son, and walked off, sarcastically remarking that he should get “some practice as a single parent.” His mother left in tears, and both his wife and in-laws told him he overreacted. OOP is questioning whether his emotional response was justified or if he was the one in the wrong for letting his frustration boil over. UPDATE #2: I messed up and it feels like my wife will never move past it. Should I keep letting her punish me or is it time to say enough is enough?: August 22, 2025 (three days later) OOP reviews on the first marriage counseling session with his wife, “Carrie,” following a prior incident when he snapped at his mother. Carrie apologized for his mother’s hurtful “single parent” comment, saying she never viewed him that way and still trusted his commitment as a father, the kind words she’s offered in a long time. Counseling revealed deeper issues: Carrie admitted she doesn’t know if she loves or respects OOP anymore, as her feelings are buried under resentment. She revealed her resentment stems not only from OOP losing his job, also from years of her family’s disapproval, including her mother’s and sister’s belief that OOP wasn’t right for her and suspicions during her pregnancy that he was cheating with his longtime female friend, “Ellie.” Though Carrie later realized he hadn’t cheated and defended him to her family, OOP’s job loss “proved them right” in her eyes, reigniting that bitterness. The session ended with small progress: OOP was allowed to move from the basement to the guest room, and Carrie agreed to let him think about her request to reduce her work hours for weekly “girls’ nights.” AITAH for asking my wife to choose our family over hers?: August 29, 2025 (one week later) OOP mentioned after the tense marriage counseling session where the therapist encouraged him and his wife to spend more time together, new conflicts arose over holiday weekend plans. Every year, Carrie’s family gathers at her parents’ lake camp, but given the strained relationship between OOP and his in-laws, especially after learning they’ve disapproved of him, he thought it would be better for his wife and kids to stay home so they could reconnect privately. Carrie began packing for the lake trip without including him, saying she wanted to “spend the weekend with [her] family.” OOP tried to use calm “I feel” statements, suggesting that her going without him contradicted their counselor’s advice. Carrie took that as an ultimatum, accused him of being controlling, and locked herself in their bedroom. OOP feels conflicted, unsure if he was genuinely trying to prioritize their family or if, as Carrie says, he was being an AH by guilt-tripping her for wanting time with her relatives. AITAH has no consensus bot, OOP was NTA Update #1: September 5, 2025 (one week later) After a tense argument about Carrie choosing between spending holiday weekend with her family or with OOP and their kids, she unexpectedly apologized and offered a compromise, spending one night at her family’s camp before returning to spend the rest of the weekend together. The time they spent as a family went well and almost normal, but tensions resurfaced when Carrie brought up wanting regular “girls’ nights” with her mother and sister, both of whom dislike him. She justified it by saying her sister’s husband had left after she cheated during one of those nights, and she wanted to support her sister through the breakup. Though OOP tried to stay calm, he felt uneasy that his wife arranged her schedule for the outings and both she and their therapist saw it as healthy progress. Carrie heads out for her first girls’ night, OOP admits he’s trying to convince himself he’s fine with it, he feels anxious and uncertain. Why do only the negatives linger?: September 8, 2025 (three days later) OOP vents about feeling emotionally exhausted and conflicted while waiting for an emergency therapy session. He explains that despite receiving supportive comments on Reddit, the only ones that stick with him are negative ones, those accusing him of being the real problem, a bad husband, or an abuser. Criticism eats away at him, leaving him doubting himself and feeling unworthy of love or compassion. He admits he almost posted in an abuse support subreddit after realizing how poorly he’s been treated, but a heated exchange with another Redditor sent him spiraling again, making him question everything. Now, OOP feels ashamed, needy, and frustrated with himself for caring so much about strangers’ opinions and wonders why it’s so hard to silence the self-blame and thinks he deserves better. Update #2: September 11, 2025 (three days later) OP shares in an emotional update, that his young son fell down the stairs and broke his arm, with doctors also checking for possible head trauma. He recounts the terrifying moment, how he was carrying his daughter and couldn’t reach his son in time, and now feels crushed with guilt despite no one, including his wife or in-laws, blaming him. His wife rushed back from a work event to be with them at the hospital, and for once, both sides of the family managed to come together peacefully in support of their injured child. OOP writes from the children’s hospital lounge, emotionally drained, trying to make sense of what happened while battling intense self-blame. He later adds his son has been released, is in good spirits, and is proudly showing off his cast, bringing a small bit of relief after harrowing few days. Update #3: September 23, 2025 (12 days later) OP shares Child Protective Services was called on him for alleged neglect after his son’s fall, but the hospital wasn’t the one who reported it, meaning a family member likely did. He and Carrie are being cautious about confronting anyone until they confirm who made the report. OOP has spoken with a lawyer and is in intensive therapy, where he’s confronting longstanding issues with self-worth, honesty, and his need to defend himself. Editor's note: OOP made a separate post onto a different subreddit after Update #3 regarding his son's fall accident incident. That subreddit does not allow their posts to be cross posted so I will not add OOP's post here Explaining it to a partner: October 2, 2025 OOP had a breakthrough in therapy, finally recognizing his parents, especially his mother, as emotionally immature. After years of minimizing their behavior and convincing himself that it “wasn’t that bad,” he began to understand how their emotional neglect shaped him. When he tried to explain this realization to Carrie, the conversation fell apart; he couldn’t express it clearly, felt like his examples sounded weak, and ended up feeling foolish. Update #4: October 8, 2025 (six days later) OOP reveals the CPS report accusing him of neglecting his son was made by his own mother, not his in-laws, as he and his wife had suspected. After confronting his parents, his mother admitted to filing the report, claiming she believed he had hurt his son and citing a long-held (and false) belief that he had cheated on his wife years ago. OOP discovered his MIL once told his mother about the supposed affair but never clarified it wasn’t true, allowing misunderstandings to fester for years. The revelation left OP devastated, estranged from his parents, and distant from Carrie as he struggles to process the betrayal. Continuing individual and marriage counseling, he made progress in recognizing his parents’ emotional immaturity, and even quit one of his three jobs, his first major independent decision in a long time.  , Parents think I'm incompetent: October 14, 2025 (six days later from Update #4) OOP describes his strained relationship with his parents and a realization through therapy that his parents have viewed him as fundamentally incompetent and incapable of managing life without guidance. Whenever OOP doesn’t follow his parents’ (or spouse’s) advice, the parents assume failure is inevitable, and some past experiences, like job issues, changing colleges and majors, and a recent medical emergency involving OOP’s son, it seem to reinforce that belief. OOP struggles to determine whether he is incompetent, experiencing a self-fulfilling prophecy fueled by his parents’ attitudes, or have internalized years of being treated this way. A little light in the dark; October 16, 2025 (two days later) OOP reflects on a quiet, emotionally heavy night sitting with his daughter as she tries to sleep, using the moment to process recent stress. He describes his surreal experience of the past posts circulating on social medias and Reddit recap subs, and mixed emotions of seeing strangers debate his actions while his life has moved on to bigger issues. Despite ongoing marital counseling, strained boundaries with his parents, and internal conflict about defending his wife, OOP shares rare moments of relief: his wife, Carrie, arranged for OP’s best friend, Ellie, to visit, giving them much-needed support. Editor’s note: In the next two posts, OOP was just venting about his childhood memories, life experiences growing up, and his parents Missing reasons: October 24, 2025 (eight days later) When does it stop feeling like whining?: October 29, 2025 (five days later) Update: AITAH for asking my wife to choose between her family and ours: November 6, 2025 OOP gives a long-overdue update describing ongoing stress from his son's unexplained seizures, progress, and setbacks in therapy, and escalating marital conflict. After a warning from his BIL, OOP discovered his wife secretly gave some significant shared money to her cheating sister, causing a major blowup in marriage counseling. Carrie, later apologized for her words, she did not fully take responsibility, and counseling keeps circling back to infidelity, trust, and money. Carrie pressured OP to reconcile with her mother despite her role in spreading false cheating accusations that contributed to CPS involvement, framing it as “for the kids.” OOP admits he has not gone no contact with his parents out of fear of isolation. With support from his best friend Ellie and his therapist, OOP is beginning to recognize long-standing patterns of neglect or abuse in both his family and marriage, and confronting why he instinctively trusts critical, self-serving voices (his mother and wife) over one person consistently on his side. ----NEW UPDATES---- What kind of support is reasonable to expect from your spouse?: November 14, 2025 (eight days later) I’ve posted here before about going through a rough patch in my marriage. I’m still going through that, but I’m trying to work through a question I have about what led up to that rough patch that I’ve received some conflicting advice on. My best friend and therapist have one view, my wife and MIL have the complete opposite take and I don’t really trust myself enough to figure out where I stand. Here it is: what kind of support is it reasonable to expect from your spouse? Should you expect them to always have your back and take your side, at least publicly, even when you might be wrong? I don't mean if you're seriously wrong about something or do something objectively horrible. Like, if you break the law or intentionally hurt someone, then I'd think it makes sense for them to not support you. But what if it's something that isn't a matter of legality or morality? Context for the question: A few years ago, I took a job that my wife didn't think I was a good fit for and she strenuously argued against me taking it. I had no problem with her weighing in on the decision as it was one that would impact our entire family (me, her, and toddler son, at the time.) But the job had significant pros - more money, room for professional growth, and the hiring committee offered me the job because they thought my proposed ideas for what I would change/do in the role made a lot of sense and showed a passion for the position. I took the job over my wife’s objections for those reasons. The job involved working as part of a four person team, with each of us handling our own specific areas but collaborating on initiatives for the entire department. One of my three colleagues who was (obviously) more tenured but not my boss in any way, disagreed with my plans. I wanted to try a series of outreach techniques including social media posts, creating content that clients could take with them, and going out into the community and other departments to personally pitch our services. She had tried some of those things unsuccessfully in the past and believed my ideas would not work and put up roadblocks to using them for our collaborative projects. Which was entirely her right and I understood her reasons even if I didn’t agree with them. But after almost a full year of all of my efforts/suggestions getting shot down or minimized I got frustrated (to put it mildly) and became petty and passive aggressive in my comments, stopped contributing in meetings, and rocked a very 'pissed off look' around the office most of the time. Eventually, she complained to our mutual boss about the environment I was creating and when the choice had to be made between me and her, she won out; I was asked to resign. That's on me. No question. I handled it completely 100% wrong. No ifs, ands, or buts. My marriage-related question comes from that first year, when I wasn't being an ass (yet) and was trying to implement the ideas that had gotten me hired in the first place and was routinely told that my ideas wouldn't work, I didn't understand the job, and I should just stick to the things that they'd always done even though those things weren’t exactly working (or I wouldn’t have been hired.) I would come home day after day and vent, complain, or just talk through my ideas out loud, trying to find a new or different approach that might be met with less resistance. And every time, my wife essentially parroted the company line and told me that I needed to go along so I could get along. She fell back on a few points over and over again: * My coworkers had more experience within the department and more overall institutional knowledge (I remember that phrase specifically) and so, I should follow their lead because they knew better than I did. * Even if the ways that they’d been doing things weren’t working as well as they should, they were working well enough as the department was still functioning and no one had been fired and why did I think it would be better to rock that particular boat. * I’d taken the job in part because of the opportunities for advancement, but if I caused disruptions or kept pushing my ideas even after my colleague resisted them (and even if those ideas were right) I would be seen as the problem and never get promoted. I’m not saying my wife was wrong about any of it and even if she was, that still wouldn’t excuse the ways in which I handled the situation or make the eventual outcome any less awful, especially when I lost my job while she was pregnant with our daughter and forced her to become the sole bread winner for a short time until I found a retail job while I looked for better full-time employment. During a recent marriage counseling session, our therapist asked us a question that led to me bringing up that first year at the job. I mentioned that I didn’t feel like she’d ever really supported me during that time. I said that all I’d wanted was for her to say that the situation sucked, that she knew I had good ideas and that it had to be frustrating for me to go unheard. That I just needed to feel like she was on my side even if she didn’t completely agree with me. My wife didn’t like that and vehemently disagreed with the idea that she’d never supported me. She said support wasn’t something that required blind faith, it didn’t mean she always had to take my side, and that everything she said was because she wanted me to succeed and thought following her advice would give me the best chance to do that. Her argument was that if I saw her about to make a massive mistake, she’d expect me to support her by calling it out before she made it, not just being there to comfort her after it had all gone wrong and that expecting her to just blindly back me wasn’t reasonable. My MIL agrees with her. My personal therapist wants me to think about what impact my wife’s style of support might have had on how I handled things after that first year. And my best friend says that none of it was support and it was all an effort at control. They’ve all got built-in biases and I’m struggling with who to listen to. What is reasonable? What kind of support is it fair to expect from a spouse? tl;dr wife didn't offer up unconditional support while I was dealing with frustrations at work and I don’t know if expecting her to is me being unreasonable or not. Update: AITAH for asking my wife to choose between her family and ours: December 11, 2025 (nearly one month later) A lot has happened. I tried staying offline a little for the holidays and to work on processing on my own, but ‘on my own’ has gotten to be a bit too isolating so here I am. Not sure where to start. Last time I updated, I wrote about Carrie’s plan to invite Ellie and then use that to guilt me into meeting with her mom to bury the hatchet and how poorly received that plan was by me. As it turns out, my opinion on the plan didn’t really matter as the meeting happened anyway when my MIL showed up unannounced at our house and Carrie sat us both down to talk it out. If you’re thinking that ‘talk it out’ was code for my MIL giving me every bullshit justification in the book for why she did what she did and then moving right on into why she’s never liked me and why she’s spent years actively trying to ruin my marriage without giving me a chance to say a word, then you’d be right. To her credit, she didn’t deny anything she’d said or try to spin it as taken out of context or anything like that. What she did do was try to justify every bit of it by saying that it was, sort of "inadvertently" my fault because it was my behavior that triggered her responses because everything about me, the way I acted, talked, carried myself, it all reminded her of Carrie’s father. That man (and I use the term loosely) was an abusive functional alcoholic who controlled my MIL through financial abuse, physical intimidation, gaslighting, and projecting the ‘perfect image’. The world outside of their immediate family loved him. He was always cracking jokes and entertaining at gatherings and he was an unabashed people pleaser, like if it was an Olympic sport, he’d have held every world record and all the gold medals. Anyone other than his wife and his kids would (and did) describe him as a giving and generous man, always ready and willing to sacrifice for his friends and family. In their eyes, he was a great guy. He wasn’t. Not even a little. All of those jokes covered up for undiagnosed (until it was way too late) social anxiety, depression, and PTSD and all the drinking was his way to bury his rampant fears that no one actually thought he was funny or cool or worth anything. He was giving and generous but no one ever saw that his generosity came at the expense of his wife’s bank account or that he only gave in ways that he thought would force people like him or, at the very least, need him. And he would sacrifice for friends and family but whenever someone wasn’t grateful enough or didn’t love him enough for it, whenever he didn’t get the reaction he’d desire or expected, he’d turn to my MIL, Carrie, and her sister to pick up the slack, to be grateful, accepting, and love him more even when what he’d sacrificed cost them more than it did him. They could never satisfy those needs, no matter how much they tried and that got funneled into anger and abuse but no one else ever saw it; he was an entirely different man behind closed doors when he didn’t have an audience to perform for. Carrie told me about him about six months into our relationship and I’ve always suspected she thought I’d bolt when she did, that I wouldn’t want to be involved with someone who had such an f’d up family history since mine was so normal and peaceful in comparison. Hindsight’s a bitch sometimes, I guess. My MIL saw him in me right from the start and she admitted that nothing I did or didn’t do since ever changed her mind or could have (I didn’t even know there was anything to change) and every time Carrie defended me over the years, all my MIL heard was her own voice, defending her own husband to herself even as he hurt her and her kids. And then I lost my job and the financial burden all fell on Carrie and my MIL saw history repeating itself and she pushed Carrie into kicking me out for her own ‘safety’. And even when I moved back in, my MIL was in my wife’s ear, whispering of the danger and how it would be better for everyone if at least I stayed in the basement, at a safe distance. Somehow, even though she saw me as some younger version of the man who had abused her for years, my MIL never once suspected I had anything to do with my son’s fall or his seizures and I know that because she made a point of saying it like twenty times, so yay for that, right? She only expected me to be an abusive spouse, not an abusive parent. Carrie and my MIL thought me hearing all of this would help to give context (which it did, I guess) and that context was all that was needed for it to all be OK and for us to smooth things over and create a place to start rebuilding, especially since even if what my MIL did was awful, it still wasn’t as bad as my own mom calling CPS on me and emotionally abusing me for years, which Carrie made a point of pointing out. They thought I’d just understand and forgive, even if they didn’t really ever apologize or even act as if there was anything she’d done or said that would require forgiveness. They thought it was so obviously all going to be OK that, at the end of our little sit down (it was like two hours of her mom talking) Carrie informed me that her mom was going to stay for a week or so, since we needed some daycare help now that the kids weren’t going to my mom’s and that we were going to spend Thanksgiving at her family’s house. Apparently, confession is good for the soul and for the social calendar because her mom personally invited me, tagging the invite with a reminder that it would be good for my son to see us all together and happy. I’m sure there’s some of you reading this who think this is clearly more evidence of what an asshole I am because my MIL would absolutely recognize an abuser when she saw one and some others wishing that I’d stood up, told them both to fuck off and walked out to start a new life without any of their bullshit, but if you’ve been here all along, you already know that didn’t happen. I did what I do and just basically shut down on the spot and they took my silence as acceptance. Half an hour later, they were off to take the kids to the park and I went to work where I spent twenty minutes crying in my car in the parking lot wondering how awful I had to be for my MIL to decide on sight that I was a carbon copy of her abusive ex-husband. My MIL did stay (she took the basement, so another win for me) and every night she was there, I sat on my bed in the guestroom and tried to write an update but I kept deleting it because I didn’t want to actually put it out into the universe just how epically pathetic I was. I didn’t post about it, but I did bring it up with my therapist, even if I was terrified that she’d be disappointed in me for still taking Carrie and my MIL’s opinions of me as gospel, even after we’d talked about why I shouldn’t. We spent two sessions digging into that mess, including why I automatically expected even her to judge me and why I was afraid of it and in the end, she helped me work through all my instinctive reactions until we got to how I really felt after the meeting with my MIL. I was pissed. It was bullshit that I was being judged based on the actions of another man, that I was found guilty of things I hadn’t even had the chance to not do yet, and I was legit enraged at the idea that it didn’t matter what I did or didn’t do, my MIL, SIL, and even Carrie were never going to see me any other way or see that they were wrong. My therapist and I got into why those things bothered me so much (spoiler: it’s got a lot to do with my parents) but we’re still working on that. The most practical thing we did was figure out a way to say all (or any) of that to Carrie and we had a plan, we had language and word choices and therapy-speak ways of putting it so I could share it in marriage counseling without making it into an attack and hope that my wife would actually hear me. I’ve learned quite a bit the last few months about trauma and responses to it and the biology of fight/flight and all the ways in which it can fuck up your ability to stay calm and in the moment, all of which probably explains why every planned and prepared word flew right out the window in MC and instead, I blurted out that ambusing me with her mother and having her stay in the house and thinking that I would be OK with being compared to an abusive asshole like her father, as if that gave her mother free reign to try and ruin my life and not asking me about any of it just fucking hurt. I said: “It makes me feel pathetic. You make me feel pathetic and worthless and unsafe in my own life.” That didn’t go over well. Despite my plan, Carrie did feel attacked and she basically exploded at me. She said that how I feel isn’t on her, that none of it is because of her, that she and her mother had only made choices in response to my choices, like getting myself fired. If I felt unsafe then maybe I should think about how unsafe she felt when I lost my job or when I let my BIL convince me to start poking around in our finances like she was some kind of criminal. She said that if I still felt worthless or pathetic after spending so long in individual therapy, then clearly I needed to find a new counselor and not one who “enabled me” and that she never should have reached out to Ellie as she was clearly biased and wanted me to feel like that and fed me a load of “self-pitying bullshit.” And then she stormed out of the session without another word. When she came back fifteen minutes later, our therapist laid it out for her. This wasn’t the first time Carrie had gotten angry in a session or the first time she’d laid into me with textbook DARVO style attacks (a term I learned on Reddit so I felt like Captain America ‘I understood that reference’) and that was not at all conducive to any sort of productive therapy. More importantly, it wasn’t the sort of behavior that any decent therapist could condone or allow to happen in front of her and so our therapist basically threatened to fire Carrie as a patient if she continued to try and use our sessions as an avenue for abuse. I’m not sure if that’s actually a thing therapists can do but I know that Carrie thought it was because I could see the change happen in real time. She apologized (to the therapist) for her outburst and promised it wouldn’t happen again. Since the holidays were coming, we were already going to be taking a brief break from counseling until after the first of the year, but our therapist gave us homework that we had to complete if we had any thought of continuing to work with her. I had to work with my own counselor on strengthening my strategies for being able to speak my mind in sessions, so I wouldn’t blurt shit out like I had. And Carrie had to decide: does she still actually love me and want to find a way for our marriage and family to really work or is she just hanging on for reasons other than love. And that’s where we left it. We did go to Thanksgiving and it was awkward and painful and thank God my FIL loves football so I spent most of the day in front of the television. And Carrie and I haven’t spoken all that much since then. I have no idea what she’s thinking. But I’ve had a couple more therapy sessions on my own and I’ve been working on being able to get past that freaked out panic in my head that jumbles all my thoughts and makes me blurt instead of speak. And not to bury the biggest deal but… I made a decision in my last therapy session, one I knew I would have trouble sticking to on my own so I texted Ellie about it and then, to make it real and give myself less of a chance to backtrack on it, I wrote Carrie a letter and left it on the table for her to read one day when I went to work. I’m better on paper than out loud, anyway. What I decided was this: if Carrie says she wants our marriage to work when we go back to counseling but nothing changes, if she says the words but the actions stay the status quo, then I’ll initiate a separation. I’m not asking/demanding for her to suddenly be intimate with me again (I made sure that was clear in the letter) but I’m not going to live like a guest in my own house or be expected to just accept whatever she decides about everything. Either we work as a pair and actually try, or we won’t be living together anymore. I don’t know if she believes that I will actually follow through on it (I don’t even know if I do), but it’s out there now and somehow that makes me feel more like I can really stick to it. I guess we’ll see. tl;dr: Carrie and MIL ambushed me and spent two hours justifying MIL’s bullshit. I reminded her of Carrie’s abusive dad and she can’t see me any other way. MC went way off the rails and Carrier lashed out so bad that the therapist threatened to cut her off. We have to make decisions before our next session and I finally brought up the idea of separation. DO NOT COMMENT IN LINKED POSTS OR MESSAGE OOPs – BoRU Rule #7 THIS IS A REPOST SUB - I AM NOT OOP submitted by /u/Choice_Evidence1983 to r/BestofRedditorUpdates [link] [comments]
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Under eye patches recommendations.
I don’t usually have under-eye pigmentation, but on some days my under eyes look darker or slightly hollow, and even concealer doesn’t sit well. I typically wear only a powder foundation as my base since I have oily skin. I’m looking for a good under-eye patch or DIY pack that gives an instant brightening effect. I’m not concerned about long-term results—just something that helps on days when my skin isn’t at its best. submitted by /u/Familiar_Pizza_7070 to r/IndianSkincareAddicts [link] [comments]
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🛠️ Into the Unjust: 4.1.0
https://preview.redd.it/scrvxe2zutwf1.png?width=4000&format=png&auto=webp&s=3b0a169fa4a48c2968816f02ad4b71b02624b928 Patch Notes videos return with Niklas and Lennart talking about 4.1.0! https://youtu.be/OBW4NumlYHo?si=4PMFp99FteghCJP2 🛠️ Into the Unjust: 4.1.0 ⚙️ 🌍 Overview Freedom's greetings, Helldivers! This update focuses on what matters most right now: making HELLDIVERS 2 feel better to play. We’ve overhauled how we approach patching to better target the pain points you’ve shared with us. That means more focus on stability, balance, and the issues that affect your experience the most. Over 200 bugs have been fixed, along with key balance updates and quality-of-life improvements. (For a deeper look, check out Lennart and Niklas’ video breakdown.) While new features are coming, this patch marks a big step forward: both in the game itself and in how we work to improve it. More refinements are already underway. ⚖️ Balancing General changes Primaries, Sidearms, Throwables, and Stratagems Improvements have been made to increase the overall effectiveness of primary weapons, sidearms, throwables, and stratagems Light vs. Medium Penetration Weapons Light and medium penetration weapons now offer more distinct advantages. Light penetration weapons generally deal a higher percentage of their total damage against durable enemies, differentiating them more clearly from medium penetration options SMGs and Pistols SMGs and pistols have been adjusted to emphasize their role as close-quarters weapons. Close-range damage has been increased, and damage falloff has been increased to reinforce their short-range combat identity Melee Weapons and Throwables Melee weapons and throwables have been improved to make each feel more impactful and unique in their function Resupply Rack The resupply rack is not climbable anymore Primary weapons SG-8P Punisher Plasma Damage projectile decreased from 100 to 0 Damage explosion increased from 150 to 225 SG-8S Slugger Damage increased from 280 to 330 Durable damage increased from 75 to 90 AR-23 Liberator Damage increased from 80 to 90 Durable damage increased from 15 to 22 AR-23A Liberator Carbine Damage increased from 80 to 90 Durable damage increased from 15 to 22 AR-23P Liberator Penetrator Damage increased from 60 to 65 AR-23C Liberator Concussive Damage increased from 65 to 75 Durable damage increased from 30 to 35 AR-61 Tenderizer Durable damage increased from 22 to 30 AR-32 Pacifier Damage increased from 50 to 55 Stun value per projectile increased from 1.5 to 2 SMG-37 Defender Damage increased from 80 to 100 Durable damage increased from 8 to 18 Drag increased from 0.6 to 1.2 MP-98 Knight Damage increased from 70 to 90 Durable damage increased from 7 to 18 Drag increased from 0.6 to 1.2 SMG-32 Reprimand Damage increased from 125 to 135 Drag increased from 0.6 to 1.2 SMG-72 Pummeler Damage increased from 70 to 85 Durable damage increased from 7 to 18 Stun value per projectile increased from 1.5 to 2 Drag increased from 0.6 to 1.2 LAS-16 Sickle Damage increased from 55 to 60 Durable damage increased from 5 to 6 MA5C Assault Rifle Damage increased from 80 to 90 M7S SMG Damage increased from 70 to 80 Durable damage increased from 7 to 16 Drag increased from from 0.6 to 1.2 StA-11 SMG Damage increased from 70 to 90 Durable damage increased from 7 to 18 Drag increased from 0.6 to 1.2 PLAS-39 Accelerator Rifle Extra spare magazines increased from 8 to 12 Ergonomics increased from 40 to 60 PLAS-1 Scorcher Plasma projectiles will now pass through foliage without losing velocity Sidearm weapons CQC-2 Saber Damage increased from 110 to 125 Durable damage increased from 55 to 65 CQC-5 Combat Hatchet Damage increased from 110 to 160 Durable damage increased from 55 to 80 Attack speed has been slightly reduced CQC-42 Machete Damage increased from 170 to 200 Durable damage increased from 80 to 100 P-2 Peacemaker Damage increased from 85 to 95 Durable damage increased from 25 to 30 Drag increased from 0.6 to 1.2 P-19 Redeemer Damage increased from 60 to 70 Durable damage increased from 5 to 12 Drag increased from 0.6 to 1.2 P-113 Verdict Damage increased from 125 to 135 Drag increased from 0.6 to 1.2 M6C/SOCOM Damage increased from 100 to 110 Drag increased from 0.6 to 1.2 P-92 Warrant Drag decreased from 0.3 to 0 Gravity multiplier decreased from 1 to 0.3 Throwables TED-63 Dynamite Damage increased from 700 to 1000 Armor penetration increased from Medium to Heavy Demolition strength increased from 30 to 40 Stagger increased from 30 to 40 Uses decreased from 4 to 3 G-7 Pineapple Shrapnel from main explosion increased from 7 to 18 Demolition strength on the main explosion increased from 20 to 30 Inner radius on shrapnel explosion increased from 1 to 2.5m Damage on shrapnel explosion increased from 70 to 100 Removed lifetime on the shrapnel Shrapnel from the shrapnel explosion decreased from 6 to 0 G-50 Seeker Higher priority for flying enemies Highest target priority for marked target Damage increased from 400 to 500 G-6 Frag Uses increased from 5 to 6 G-3 Smoke Uses increased from 4 to 5 Throwing knives Damage increased from 250 to 300 Durable damage increased from 100 to 150 Stratagems PLAS-45 Epoch Duration until explosion increased from 3 to 3.25 sec Delayed muzzle charge VFX by 0.5 seconds so it now appears when the projectile is overcharged, improving visibility of the charge state Damage on standard projectiles explosion increased from 400 to 500 Demolition strength on overcharged projectile increased from 10 to 30 M-105 Stalwart Damage increased from 80 to 90 Durable damage increased from 15 to 22 FLAM-40 Flamethrower Canister capacity increased from 130 to 150 Starting canisters increased from 2 to 3 Max spare canisters increased from 4 to 5 APW-1 Anti-Materiel Rifle Durable damage increased from 180 to 225 Starting magazines increased from 4 to 5 Max spare magazines increased from 6 to 8 AC- 8 Autocannon Damage increased from 260 to 325 GL-52 De-Escalator Damage increased from 55 to 100 Durable damage increased from 55 to 70 MS-11 Solo Silo Health increased from 800 to 1500 Enemies will not attack it Increased demolition strength needed to destroy it Orbital Railcannon Strike Cooldown decreased from 210 to 180 sec EXO-45 Patriot Exosuit Missile Armor penetration in worse angles increased from 6-6-4-0 to 6-6-5-0 Rotary gun ammo capacity increased from 1000 to 1350 💥 Enemies The goal is to make light and medium armor-piercing weapons equally effective against certain common enemies by adjusting their durable damage and durable resistance values Illuminates Fleshmob Targeting the faces deals extra damage to its main health, effectively creating weak spots Main health decreased from 6000 to 5000 Most health zones are slightly more durable Slightly less vulnerable to fire to balance health decrease Elevated Overseer Main health decreased from 600 to 450 Head health increased from 150 to 200 Head zone armor decreased from 3 to 2 Torso health decreased from 600 to 450 Arms health decreased from 300 to 250 Slight increase on how easy it is to set on fire Leviathan Now equipped with beam-based weaponry Leviathans will not show up in missions outside of cities Terminids Rupture Strain enemies Updated textures for all Rupture Strain enemies for better readability Rupture Warrior Movement speed when underground has been decreased Needs to surface more often when moving underground Its burrow attack is slightly slower and leaves more space to be dodged Smaller damage boxes when attacking from below Front legs armor decreased from 3 to 2 Will prefer to emerge before attacking turrets instead of destroying them from below ground Rupture Spewer Retuned the timing of how fast it starts to act from when it unburrows Bile Spewer Variations Increased size of its mouth weak spot Brood Commanders Slightly harder to set on fire Warriors Slightly harder to set on fire Slight durable increase in head and body Dragon roach Spawn rate decreased 50% lower on difficulty 5,6 40% lower on difficulty 7,8,9 33% lower on difficulty 10 Destruction of the wings results in instant termination of the Dragon Wings now have their own health pool of 4000 Increased how much damage wings take from explosion Bile spewers Slightly harder to set on fire Larger body parts are slightly more durable Hive Lord Improved performance during Hive Lord encounters. Automatons Base Alarming Automaton troopers in bases will require better visual confirmation before calling in reinforcements, instead of calling them in immediately Devastators Slightly harder to be put on fire Large body parts are slightly more durable Command Bunker Turret Removed ragdolling from its projectiles explosion Factory Strider Slightly less vulnerable to fire War Strider Shoots 2 fewer grenades per salvo Shoots grenades less often Removed ragdolling from its projectiles explosions Added weak spots aim for the eyes and the vents on the back Scout Striders Armored top shield is more durable 🔧 Fixes Stratagems Fixed an issue where Helldivers were unable to call down stratagems in the objective area of the "Nuke Nursery" cave mission Fixed an issue with the B-100 Portable Hellbomb stratagem sometimes falling on Cave roofs in the "Destroy Spore Lung" mission Fixed an issue with the drill objective stratagem sometimes landing in unintended places such as on top of caves, in Nuke Nursery Hive World missions Players can now stay aiming down sights when activating the LIFT-860 Hover Pack Crashes Fixed a rare crash occurring when fighting Illuminates Fixed a crash when hotjoining and readying up before other hotjoiners Fixed a crash occurring when a player would re-join multiple times Fixed a rare crash caused by Eagle-1 Fixed a rare bug where the Eagle-1 would never be removed from the game session and eventually cause crashes Fixed rare crash bug that could happen when spawning in groups of enemies Fixed crash affecting Helldivers trying to lean out from a vehicle Fixed a crash that could happen when scrolling through the weapon customization menu Fixed a crash that could happen during game shutdown Weapons Fixed armor penetration values in the Stats Menu for CQC-5 Combat Hatchet, CQC-30 Stun Baton,CQC-19 Stun Lance, CQC-2 Saber, CQC-1 One True Flag and the G-7 Pineapple grenade; the armor penetration value displayed as Medium instead of Light Improved initial bullet alignment while strafing and riding in vehicles Moved the first person camera further away from the MS-11 Solo Silo's Target Designator scope Fixed the weapon reload animations desyncing when wielding armor passives that give increased reload speed The FAF-14 Spear can now lock onto Automaton AA turrets Fixed projectiles hitting direct center of sights when extremely close to objects Haptics feedback is now present throughout the firing of the FLAM-40 Flamethrower stratagem Miscellaneous Fixed a bug where Hive Lord body parts would not spawn properly Fixed an instance where the Helldiver couldn't re-join their previous host, if said host left a joined game in progress from the loadout Fixed a bug where the LIFT-182 Warp Pack would sometimes get stuck suspended in the air or crash Fixed Adreno-Defibrillator armor passive animation bug Fixed disconnection issues when joining a solo player with 3 cross-platform players Fixed mesh clipping for the arms on some animations Reduced the chance of the Extraction Shuttle clipping through terrain Fixed a flickering bug on the avatar when the Helldiver gets affected by mud or snow Fixed a bug hole covered by terrain in one of the CR10 Mega Nests Rupture Warriors can no longer destroy deployable turrets while still underground Fixed an issue where the front door of the GATER could become inaccessible Fixed a rare issue where the player could be disconnected when they are a part of a mixed platform, 3 person lobby that joins a solo player under poor network conditions Fixed an issue with Illuminate dropships not taking correct damage during the “Repel Invasion Fleet” missions The currency symbol for Saudi riyal is now displayed correctly in the in game shop The Oil Rigs reverse audio will no longer continuously play if the player attempts to reverse during oil extraction Fixed Helldivers going through the floor in the tutorial mission, when diving near the barbed wires Fixed a rare soft-lock in tutorial Helldiver is now killed when driving into drill holes during Nuke Nursery missions Fixed an issue where Helldivers could enter a vehicle even though the seat got claimed by someone else first Fixed controller vibrations behaving incorrectly when connecting or disconnecting controllers on PC Fixed miscellaneous threading issues in the audio system Fixed minor texture clipping issues on the floor between hellpod launchers on the ship Fixed an issue where voice chat could sometimes change volume unexpectedly - particularly when entering caves Optimizations Optimized status effects Optimized physics by only enabling powered ragdolls when needed Optimized physics body handling for damage calculations Optimized Automaton units and NPC eyes, by changing them from particle effects to shaders Optimized AI behaviors by analyzing and stripping out redundant code Reduced stuttering during drop-in sequence for missions on Hive Worlds Improved audio IO performance Snow distribution and overall look has been reworked Improved performance by tweaking LOD settings for characters Optimized asset distribution for several planets types Optimized scattered assets such as grass on various planet types Optimized asset distribution in Hiveworlds and Terminid caves Optimized asset setup and geometry for assets used in Hiveworlds and Terminid caves Optimized status effect physics and particle systems while maintaining visual feedback and fidelity Optimized various Automaton explosion VFX Optimized Acid Rain effects during Acid Storms Optimized Dragonroach fire attack VFX Made various optimizations to the fire system, including particle and light optimization. Improved performance by optimizing the rendering of several shaders 🧠KNOWN ISSUES https://arrowhead.zendesk.com/hc/en-us/articles/15916898652700--HELLDIVERS-2-Known-Issues submitted by /u/Waelder to r/Helldivers [link] [comments]
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I thought my wife’s cat hated me for four years. Now he’s obsessed with me. I have questions
I am not The OOP, OOP is u/BattleScarredBear I thought my wife’s cat hated me for four years. Now he’s obsessed with me. I have questions. Originally posted to r/CatAdvice Thanks to u/soayherder for suggesting this BoRU TRIGGER WARNING: death of beloved family pets Original Post July 17, 2025 CW: Pet loss (mentions of the peaceful passing of two beloved senior pets) So, bit of backstory: In 2020, I moved in with my then-girlfriend (now wife). Along with our shared life came a shared menagerie. I brought my dog, Gemma. She brought two cats: Indy and Pekoe. I had high hopes that the animals would become some quirky Pixar-style blended family. I was a fool. Gemma was the sweetest, scruffiest, quietest old mutt you’ve ever met. The kind of dog who looked like she'd seen things but mostly just wanted a gentle chest rub and a soft place to nap. She loved cats, in a way that felt like she wished they were her pets. I've seen her gently lay down next to cats, with this hopeful look on her face. She never barked. She didn’t snuggle, exactly, but she’d lie nearby, always quietly hoping the cats might someday love her back. She was the canine equivalent of a kid on the first day of school holding out a juice box like, “Friends?” Indy, one of the cats, was a calico tabby with the emotional range of a bomb about to go off. Chaos incarnate. She hated the move, hated Gemma, hated everything really, except for my wife and, somehow, eventually, me. For the first year I lived there, she refused to come down to the first floor. Eventually, she came around to me, but she never stopped treating Gemma like an unholy menace. Even once she started hanging out downstairs, she’d travel across furniture and windowsills like a tiny fluffy assassin avoiding pressure plates, just to avoid setting paw where Gemma might have breathed. Poor Gemma had to give up on her dream of having a cat buddy real fast after getting swatted (undeservedly) two too many times. And then there was Pekoe. Pekoe is a large orange tabby with the emotional resilience of a wet loaf of bread. Anxious, clingy, and - this is important - he had absolutely no time for me. He was a sad fat boy who lived only for my wife. He didn’t like me. He tolerated Gemma. He hated cuddles unless they came from his chosen human. If my wife closed her office door, he’d cry like the Romeo understudy in a high school drama class. He’d side-eye me like I was the guy she told him not to worry about. We had an understanding. I existed, and he pretended I didn’t. So that was our house for years. Gemma trying to just exist peacefully with the dying hope the cats might one day accept her. Indy radiating murder vibes or snuggling my head with begrudging affection. Pekoe ignoring me with great enthusiasm. It was an uneasy truce, but it held. Two years ago, Gemma passed, peacefully, at 16. We were gutted. A few months later, Indy, who had slowly warmed up to me over time, decided I was her Person. She got clingy. She’d caterwaul when I left. Sleep on my chest, my head, my back. Wherever she could drape her angry little body. Full gremlin energy, but affectionate. Recently, Indy’s health declined. She had a worsening heart murmur, and about a month ago, we made the difficult decision to let her go gently. She was 17. We were devastated all over again. And then, immediately after Indy’s passing, like within a few days, something shifted. Pekoe changed. Suddenly, the cat who had ignored me for four years became obsessed with me. He sleeps with me at night now. Rolls over for belly rubs like I’m some kind of feline massage therapist. He insists on being in my office all day. If I go back to bed, he climbs in and snuggles up like I’m the last patch of sunlight in the universe. He wants me to feed him now. And he'll ignore my wife, his actual person, to come bop my chair and demand attention. Then he purrs like a dying lawnmower and looks at me with the kind of absolute adoration usually reserved for cult leaders and those who open cans. We didn’t change our routine. We didn’t rearrange the house. My wife is still very much present and fully available for cuddles. But Pekoe is acting like I’m his long-lost soulmate and he’s making up for lost time. Which leaves both of us, me and my wife, completely baffled. I have several theories: Indy bullied him into keeping his distance, and now that she's gone, he's free to pursue this forbidden human romance. He’s grieving, and somehow senses I'm grieving too. But it feels less like “let’s heal together” and more like “rub my belly, grief monkey.” This is a long con. He’s softening me up for something. I don’t know what. He’s terrible at being a cat, so probably not murder. But definitely something. The shift has been instant and total. I feel like I’m living with a completely different animal. Nothing else has changed. My wife is still here. She is supposed to be his person. Now apparently I am? Has anyone else had a cat pull this kind of emotional U-turn? I feel like I’m living with a completely different animal now. I mean, I’m not complaining - he’s a great cuddler and he’s terrible at being a cat, and that’s sort of charming in its own right - but I feel like I missed something here. Is this normal? Is this grief? Is he just now realizing I give excellent belly rubs? A glitch in the Cat Matrix? Or have I been a mark all along? TLDR: My wife’s cat spent four years ignoring me like I was a piece of furniture that owed him money. Then our other cat passed away, and now he’s obsessed with me. I have theories, and concerns. RELEVANT COMMENTS NeeliSilverleaf He misses Indy and Indy loved you. He's reaching out. OOP I desperately want to believe this, and you may very well be right. But I’ve been so suspicious of his motivations that it’s hard to trust this sudden wave of relentless adorableness. It feels like it could be nefarious. Or, at the very least, deeply selfish. Which, in all honesty, I respect. You get those belly rubs, Peeks. If this turns out to be a fully coordinated emotional assault, I will be in awe of the long game. I do want to reinforce that it never really seemed like the cats got along, which is why I have a hard time believing he’s grieving in any classic sense. Indy barely tolerated him any more than she tolerated Gemma. I once caught them sleeping on the same bed within inches of each other, and it was such a rare event it became a household breaking news. We discussed it all afternoon, like a panel of cable news pundits trying to fill airtime during an election cycle. To be fair, though, maybe Pekoe would have preferred a more peaceful, interloving household. I imagine he misses Indy in the way that the Stockholm hostages miss Jan-Erik Olsson. ~ Evinshir He's grieving and wants to make sure you are okay. Cats are odd like this. It's probably the new normal now. I don't Indy was bullying him. It's more likely that he us missing Indy and you remind him of her. OOP I can promise you, she most definitely was bullying. She bullied all of us. That was her love language. It was also her method of establishing her monarchy. She didn’t gently coax me into cuddles. She would caterwaul and screech until I followed her to the chair or bed she had chosen for our “shared” comfort. She would occasionally go out of her way to surprise-swat Gemma, just to remind her who ruled the realm. And if she realized Pekoe was even in staring distance, she would flip the entire fuck out. Indy was absolutely a bully. But she was our bully. In all seriousness though, I do hope this is the new normal. Pekoe is very squishy, and I like giving him belly rubs. If he pulls this rug out from under me, I will be absolutely destroyed. Update Aug 23, 2025 (5 weeks later) It has been over a month since I posted about this situation, and I can tell you: I am slowly going mad. Many of you responded to that post, alluding to some version of the theory that Indy, our cat who recently passed, had claimed me as hers, and that she had kept the other cat, Pekoe (I thought I should share some pictures of him this time), from me. I have now come to believe this may be true, but not in the way you all thought. I think she was protecting me from him. One might even say she did it for his own good. Editors Note: the 4 pictures OOP provided were of Pekoe stretched on the bed and 1 in the garden He does not stop meowing. Am I exaggerating? Of course I am. He is not capable of uttering a constant, repeating, irritating meow every second, on the second, for all eighty-six thousand, four hundred seconds of the day. He is asleep approximately 16–18 hours of the day. He also spends 10–30 seconds per meal inhaling the variety of damp, brown, pâté-like meat pastes we drop onto his ornate, flower-shaped ceramic cat dish, ,multiple times a day.* Meow. He is capable of keeping up that unrelenting pace of meowing for several consecutive minutes, sometimes as many as fifteen of them (my personal best in resisting his un-siren-like call), bundled together into an episode of mind-eroding sonic torture. It is not loud. No, it is worse than loud. It is like a psychic lance to the skull. As though someone is tapping on the blackboard of my mind with chalk-dusted fingers, little scratches of nerve-wrenching shocks to my cerebellum. Over and over and over again. Meow. Meow. I have ascertained some of the meanings of his belligerence. The purposes of these verbal assaults are many. Here are just a few of the reasons he has decided to employ this persuasion technique: He would like his breakfast approximately three hours early (5 a.m.). He would like a second serving of breakfast. He thinks he can convince whichever one of us didn’t serve him breakfast that he hasn’t had breakfast yet. He would like some of my breakfast. He would like lunch now. Yes, he has recently decided he would like lunch. He is thirsty. He, of course, has a massive cycling water bowl, but it seems he must announce when he is heading off for a drink. He would like an afternoon snack. He would like my afternoon snack. He is wondering if he can have some of our dinner. He would like his own dinner. He would like my wife to stop singing. He would like to be pet. He would like to be drawn into a cuddle and pet. He would like to be drawn into a cuddle and pet at 1 a.m. He would like to be drawn into a cuddle and pet at 3 a.m. He would like to have a post-breakfast cuddle. He would like to have a post-dinner cuddle. He would like to be elevated onto the bed. He would like to be de-elevated from the bed. Here are two things he does not utilize this skill for: Warning us he is about to vomit a hairball (or his dinner) onto the bed. Letting us know he has failed to reach the litter boxes, and has instead opted to poop on the stairs. Meow. Meow. Meow. And finally, to explain the elevation points, and the yet-unmentioned and most egregious use of this newfound misuse of his vocal powers, I must explain that my desk, where I work most days, is in a cubby in our bedroom. Directly behind me is our marital bed, which, in his ascension and self-crowning as King of this Domain, he has claimed as his royal throne. Yes, there are stairs installed at the end of the bed. Yes, he is perfectly capable of using them. But no, he does not lower himself to such indignities when his human-powered elevation device is present. To be clear: I am that human-powered elevation device. Not my wife. Not any other nearby human. Just me. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. And this leads us to the newest, and most heart-melting, yet infuriating, implementation of his royal declarations: begging for my attention. Not just my attention, but a very specific form of attention that he bypasses my wife for entirely. She cannot perform this task, apparently. Only I can. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. This is entirely our fault. He was terrible at being a cat in the first place. He had no motivation to chase mice, strings, or even little laser lights. He never showed any interest in getting to high places like most other cats. In fact, the only time I’ve seen him try to ascend further than the couch was to get to the back of the couch, where my wife had left her bowl of ice cream unattended. He has always been spoiled, and we spoil him further, because there is no going back. He is nearly 17. This is who he is. A hedonistic loaf of fur. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Even as I write this, he is pawing at the back of my chair, demanding that I perform my duty. That duty? Belly rubs. It’s not just any old belly rubs. He likes when I grasp him firmly, but gently, press my head against him, and flop him down onto his side. A gesture that began out of pure frustration (after being interrupted for the seventh time in an hour, I pressed him to the bed and gave him a fury-fueled belly rub as recriminations for his bad behaviour) only to have him start purring. Loudly. The same way he used to purr for my wife when she would relent and let him cuddle her in the wee hours. A purr I once interpreted as a petulant, performative, dramatic cat version of: “See, fat man? She loves me more.” Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Now, weeks later, I must repeat this ritual several times a day. I am not allowed on the bed with him. I must remain seated in my chair, leaning over him so he can paw at my shirt or attempt to clean my face. He either wants to be fully on his back, clinging to my arm with his front paws, or slightly on his side, kneading the air like a baker of invisible biscuits. Is it cute? Of course. Is it annoying and inconvenient? Almost exclusively. When I am in meetings. Meow. When I am deep in a programming binge. Meow. When I am desperately trying to maintain focus on a passage of prose. Meow. When I am trying to watch course material for work. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. It is slowly eroding away at my tether. I can feel each utterance pierce into the meaty noodles of my gray matter, like an infestation of furry caterpillars crawling amongst my neurons. And yet, how can I be angry with him? How can I be annoyed, his aged-purr muscles sputtering as I stroke his belly, sounding like an ancient lawn tractor lurching back to life, the engine struggling to turn over even with the choke fully pulled out. The kind of noise you hear before some gristled old man in a plaid shirt with a yellowed moustache says “you can’t just cold start ’em, gotta warm ’em up first.” Sometimes I try to re-establish my grasp of reality by engaging these mewlings in conversation: “Meow.” “Sorry, I didn’t catch that.” “Meow.” “No, it’s not time for dinner yet, buddy.” “Meow.” “You wouldn’t talk to your mother like that.” “Meow.” “It’s not okay to use that kind of language in this house.” “Meow.” “Seriously, where did you learn that word? It wasn’t from me.” Is it working? I don’t know. My wife and mother-in-law find these exchanges hilarious. They don’t realize this is my last-ditch effort to keep my sanity. I don’t think it’s working. I am losing it. He never stops until he gets what he wants. Any sense of autonomy I had as an adult has rotted away. I no longer feel in control of my day, let alone the idea of having any say in my destiny. I have no choice here. I must comply. I can only choose to endure or comply. There is no relief from it. I have no mouth but I must meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Is this why we often jest about cats owning us? It doesn’t feel so funny any more. It feels horrifyingly, viscerally, unerringly true. I once believed I was terrorized by the other cat, her machinations and demands feeling pointed, but now, I wonder: have I been inherited, passed like a crown, from one master to the next? Is this orange monster my Joffrey? I can feel myself coming unglued at times, and the conversations take a darker turn. I’ll turn to my wife and say: “Listen, I’m not 100% on the translation, but I’m pretty sure he’s saying he’s tired of it here, and he’d like to be taken to the shelter to find a more extravagant home, something more suited to his proclivities.” Or: “I’m pretty sure he just said it’s time to cut the apron strings. He’s ready to get out there, get a job, and find a place of his own. I think we should support him in gaining his independence.” Or: “Pekoe tells me he’s interested in taking up lake swimming.” She finds these less funny, especially since I’ve repeated them enough that she now warns of severe consequences if I even think such a thing. Do I think such a thing? Only in jest, I assure you. I may be going mad, but I am not a monster. I would never hurt this cat, or any other creature. I am gentle with them, and I love them more than people. Even this cat. This cat, who tests the limits of the love between us. I do love him. I do. I swear. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. I am just baffled. Annoyed, certainly, but mostly baffled. Why does he like this ritual so much? Is this play for him or some elaborate humiliation ritual for me that I do not yet fully comprehend? If I stop and turn back to my work, he will wait a few minutes, then cry for me again, and when I return he has stood up again. So being knocked over is part of it. But why? Why is he so particular? What does it mean? What is this? Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. Meow. I am resigned to my fate. I will act as his personal elevator, and I will serve him his rubs of the belly. I do, and will find mental fortitude and emotional sustenance as he enjoys my attention. I will let my heart melt as he grasps my arm. Or when he paws my shirt. Or when he makes his air biscuits. But …why are the air biscuits he makes so slow… and… so delicious? More Cat Tax!!! Picture of Pekoe stretched on the bed THIS IS A REPOST SUB - I AM NOT THE OOP DO NOT CONTACT THE OOP's OR COMMENT ON LINKED POSTS, REMEMBER - RULE 7 submitted by /u/Direct-Caterpillar77 to r/BestofRedditorUpdates [link] [comments]
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GGG, what happened to the "no cooldowns" philosophy?
In the sorc/monk gameplay deep-dive at Exilecon, there was a lot discussed about how cooldowns are a poor solution to the skill variety problem, and it was said that impactful skills in PoE2 would very rarely have cooldowns. Unleash (a staff skill at the time) was cited as a big exception because it mostly provided utility. I really agree with this philosophy and I was very excited to see it implemented. However, it seems like every patch we stray further away from it. In 0.2, Flameblast, an iconic "primary skill", got a 15 second cooldown tacked on it. This time, we're not only getting a new skill with a hefty cooldown (Forge Hammer with 8 seconds) but we're getting cooldowns on Lightning Conduit (6 seconds) and on another iconic skill (Eye of Winter with 15 seconds). I just want to raise the flag early that I don't think this is the right direction to go. I understand the need to limit powerful skills and to have finishers, but you should use the framework you've created instead of adding cooldowns. For example, make Flameblast/EoW/Conduit consume ignited/chilled/shocked ground under you, or require an infusion of the right element. Or add ways to bypass the cooldown such as spending charges. Make the skills conditional in other ways (you even walked back this design misstep with Hammer of the Gods, which started as a CD skill and is not anymore). Every skill that's exciting to cast should be usable as a primary skill. If the strength of the skill means you need to jump through hoops to use it as a primary, then provide us with the hoops. We are happy to do it for Flicker Strike, no reason why we can't for flameblast/EoW/LC. submitted by /u/Steel_Neuron to r/PathOfExile2 [link] [comments]
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Under eye patches that works like magic
I’ve recently started getting puffiness and slight dark circles under my eyes. Can you recommend the best eye patches that you’ve personally tried? submitted by /u/gazalaakhtarr to r/koreanskincare [link] [comments]
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Mole People: Botanical Garden
Mole People: Botanical Garden I wasn’t planning on pressing on. When an indirect source who spoke with MAPSA messaged me that morning, it felt like closure: “No drugs involved. Just someone seeking shelter. Police confirmed through local witnesses that the person was LGBTQ. Clothes and personal items found in the kanal—but no paraphernalia, no crime scene.” It should’ve been enough. Then came a Reddit comment: “Saw the same person from the kanal earlier today near Pio Del Pilar, wearing different clothes.” “Why is she roaming free if there was an investigation?” The questions lingered in my head. The kanal wasn’t just a hole in the street anymore—it was a crack in the story, and I couldn’t stop thinking about what was hiding beneath. I tried to let it go. Fed the pets. Cleaned up. Tried to talk myself out of it: “What else is there to capture?” “Maybe I should leave the rest to the ‘real’ journalists.” But that comment—about people living in the creek by Makati Med—kept buzzing in my mind like static. Its a part of the story that I haven’t covered. And its one that the police denied the connection to. So I grabbed my camera, my notebook, and headed back out. Not expecting to see anything really. Or even get a bigger scoop. I wasnt planning to post again. I just wanted to know. Scratch the itch. ——A Different Kind of Shelter——— I wandered the streets of Legazpi, Rufino, Amorsolo. My photographer’s eye caught the usual moments: Delivery guys in the back of refrigerated vans horsing around. Old folks waiting in the heat. People drenched in sunlight. Any photographer would have jumped at the opportunity of capturing those frames, heck I would too. But despite my eye’s desire to steal frames, my mind’s focus was the story. Closure. The kanal on Adelantado was now patched up, but the whispers were louder. From the online debates, news coverage, friends, family and from myself. As I neared the creek, I noticed something that stopped me in my tracks: on one side stood Makati Medical Center, a place where lives are saved; on the other, the National Home Mortgage Finance Corporation, an agency tied to homes, safety, and stability. Yet here, adjacent to them, was a place where people had neither—a sliver of city that had quietly turned into someone’s shelter, someone’s refuge. It was an irony that wasn’t lost on me—and it made the whole scene feel even heavier. I started snapping away—shots of the street, the creek, the pipes, the alleys. Just trying to take it all in. As I got closer—maybe one pedestrian lane away—I spotted two jolly jeeps parked next to the creek. A small pocket of normalcy in a scene that felt anything but. I kept to the side, not talking to anyone, not making eye contact. Just a guy with a busted camera, pretending to blend in and taking photos. The fear lingered—what if something happened? What if I got too close? What if I become a victim? I kept moving. Getting different angles, walking along the sidewalk, cautious not to draw too much attention. A wide shot of the creek flanked by two culverts. I kept shooting. And as I had just turned off the camera to reposition for a different angle. In the corner of my eye, out of one of the pipes. A foot. Sandals. I quickly turned on the camera, hoping to capture the moment but it’s gone. The foot wasn’t there. I moved to another spot that lets me see into the pipe. I waited there. Taking shots periodically. Hoping to capture at least a glimpse of life. 45 minutes I waited. Empty frame after empty frame. Camera pressed against the concrete as I sat there. Then a hand. Grasps the edge of the culvert and out comes a person. Cautiously scanning his surroundings. Click. We lock eyes. Click. He begins to climb out of the pipe, grabbing onto the exposed roots of the tree on the ledge. Click. This was already big. I could have gone home, packed up my camera, and told myself, “That’s enough for today.” And for a moment, I did. As soon as he climbed out of the canal, I turned around and walked—fast. Heart racing. Eyes darting. The thoughts in my head, louder than the sound of my own steps: Drug addicts. Snatchers. Muggers. Don’t become a victim. Don’t become a victim. But as I put more distance between us, a different voice started creeping in. That whisper in my head, the one that’s been with me since I first picked up a camera: “Manipulate the light. Show the world what you see.” And here I was—running away. I stopped. I turned around. Thank God I did. Because there he was. Standing next to a bicycle, under the sharp afternoon sun. The man from the pipe. His name was Jerwin. ———The Botanical Garden——— I walked toward him, smiling—trying to ease the tension, make this a conversation, not a confrontation. He asked what I was doing. He asked if I was with the police. Apparently, they had been there earlier that morning—9:00AM to 10:30AM—staking out the area. I told him no, I wasn’t with the cops. I told him the truth: I was the one who took the photo. The one of the girl crawling out of the kanal. (And yes—it was a girl, no matter what the other news agencies who type out reports from behind their desks say.) I braced for a shift in energy, afraid the mention of that photo might make him wary. Because it was that photo—the one that went viral—that triggered the police to cover up the canal on Adelantado. It was that photo that sent officers swarming this creek, watching for an hour and a half while Jerwin and his family huddled inside the culvert—hiding, hoping not to be displaced again. But instead of hostility, Jerwin smiled. “Salamat po.” He exhaled like he’d been holding his breath for days. And just like that, the mood shifted. The air felt lighter—despite the heat beating down on us. I was a little confused why he thanked me but I was still coming out of my anxiety. Then Rommel emerged, climbing out of the culvert and joining the conversation. Jerwin told me he’s been living like this for three years. He used to be a delivery guy for a corporation, staying in his boss’s compound—until his boss passed, and the safety net vanished. Rommel’s been here longer—about a decade. His story is one you hear too often: His home—an informal settlement on the edge of the city—was demolished by the government to make way for a new project. And just like that, they ended up here. They were the victims of circumstance. ———The Answers.——— I asked them about the culverts, the drains, the pipes—where exactly they live. Because that’s what everyone’s been asking, right? Who are these people? Where do they stay? Rommel and Jerwin explained: Yes—they live in the “Botanical Garden”, their name for the creek beside Makati Med. Around 15 of them call it home. They told me the two culverts flanking the mouth of the creek. Shallow. They don’t really lead anywhere—just a few small holes where the sewage trickles out. But the creek itself? It stretches all the way to Don Bosco. Rommel cracked a joke, saying past that, it’s almost inhabitable. There’s another group that lives down the Don Bosco side. Different people. Different rules. Us folks, Rommel says, spend our days cleaning—clearing the creek and canals so the water flows better. Some help out the nearby jolly jeeps, hauling trash, doing odd jobs for a few coins and meals. Rommel claims that: “Us here in the Botanical Garden—we’re not connected to the Don Bosco side.” He rattled off the names of his community members here in the Botanical Garden: Rommel. Jerwin. Jerome. Bekbek. BB. Aki. Jane. Lester. Arnold. Buko. Namnam. They couldn’t name the last few—four new faces, still figuring things out, still trying to find a place in the small, fragile community. Jerwin and Jane? “Mag-asawa,” they said with a grin. Jerome and BB? Also a couple BB—the woman in the photo—was confirmed by Jerwin. I asked him straight up: “Is she really a woman?” Because when I spoke to my indirect source, she told me the police said it was a man dressed as a woman. Jerwin just shook his head and explained: The person the cops might have been talking about is Bekbek—a gay man, always in short shorts, hairline so high it practically touched the sky, with a long ponytail and a grin that never seems to leave his face. Bekbek has been seen crawling in and out of the same hole (there’s even a photo from December posted by another social media user). But the woman who came out of the kanal last Monday? That was BB. Jerwin was clear: We don’t live in the canals, he explained—we hide in them. From the sun. From the police. Sometimes to stash what little we have. Sometimes to keep each other safe. It’s a temporary escape, a place where they sort through what little they have: Scraps from dumpsters, hand-me-downs, alms from strangers. They’re not oblivious to the stigma. According to Jerwin, the police constantly harass them—not for any crime, but because of the way they look, the way they smell. (Though to be honest? They didn’t smell bad. Not that it should matter.) Jerwin also admitted—some people in their situation do use those spots to stash things they shouldn’t. Stolen items, maybe. They learned about the nooks and crannies from the so-called “Anay gang.” (That’s a whole other thread I’ll have to follow up on.) But back to BB: That day, May 26, she was just resting, trying to escape the heat when the sound of traffic woke her. It was around 5PM, time for the group to come together and eat. She didn’t want to miss it—whatever scraps they’d managed to gather for the day. So she crawled out of the kanal—just like that. No master plan. No escape plot. Just a woman trying to get back to her community, her belongings, her life—in the creek they call home. And the lighter in her hand in the photo (and Rommel’s at the time of this conversation)? They use to light cigarettes, to see in the kanals and culverts. ———So Where Does That Leave Us?——— It had been about an hour—just sitting there, swapping stories, laughing at dumb jokes (including a few about masturbation, of course). Eventually, I asked them: “Have you guys eaten yet?” They shook their heads. Rommel grinned, a little sheepish, and said: “Altanghap.” Almusal. Tanghalian. Hapunan. One meal for the whole day, usually at 5PM—or whenever they could all regroup at the Botanical Garden. I nodded, quietly, then told them: “Sagot ko na tanghalian.” Lunch was on me. We walked over to a nearby jolly jeep, and they started placing their orders—Adobo and rice for themselves. (They teased that they hate sinigang—so I, of course, ordered it, joking that I had the better taste. Sinigang for life.) I asked if the rest of the group was around. They said yes. So I told them: “Order for them too.” They were reluctant—grateful but shy. Still, they ordered nine more meals for the rest of the Botanical Garden community. Final tally: 11 Adobos. 11 cups of rice. 12 bottles of water. (Rommel was especially thirsty.) Before we left, I asked the jolly jeep folks if what Jerwin and Rommel had told me was true: That they sometimes helped out, did odd jobs, and scavenged for the stalls. They chuckled—at first pretending not to know them—but eventually confirmed the story. And maybe it’s a reminder: Just because someone’s living in the margins doesn’t mean they aren’t trying to live. They got their food. I got mine. It was getting close to 1:00PM—I had a meeting at 1—so I said my goodbyes and started to leave. As I walked toward Makati Med, I glanced back and saw them—calling out to their friends, family, their community—pulling them out from the shadows of the culvert. I recognized BB among them. And for the first time, as I locked eyes with her, I wasn’t overwhelmed by fear, or confusion, or dread. Just a quiet understanding. That often they don’t mean to hurt anyone—not me, not you, not the strangers on the street. Because in the end, they’re not the predators. Not Mole People. Just People and they’re the victims, too. This isn’t a story about drugs. It’s not a story about crime. It’s not a story about poverty porn. It’s a story about people—a community. It’s about the cracks we cover up with concrete, the faces we ignore when they crawl out of the kanal. submitted by /u/RoughMasterpiecei to r/makati [link] [comments]
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What are your favorite under eye patches for lines, wrinkles and puffiness ?
Overnight or daytime patches 😘 submitted by /u/Sweet-Poet-5292 to r/SkincareAddictionLux [link] [comments]
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[New Update] I (27f) made a stupid joke to my husband (30m) and he stormed off. How do I fix this? (aka the Lotion Man saga)
I am not the OP. That is u/biscuitsandbutters. Originally posted on r/relationship_advice. This is a new update to a previous BORU post, which can be found here Please don't comment on the original posts, as that is against the rules. Trigger warning: infidelity Mood spoiler: enraging but hopeful for OP Original post posted on November 20, 2022 I (27f) made a stupid joke to my husband (30m) and he stormed off. How do I fix this? Hey Reddit! I’m an Instagram snooper so this is my first time here! I honestly never expected to post here because my husband (30m) and I (27f) have a great relationship. Of course I can’t say we haven’t had our occasional bumps but it’s honestly a dream come true all the way through. Our wedding was April 2021 and we both cried like babies that day, and since then the sailing has been smoother than soap. This afternoon, me and him came home after a little lunch outing with our newly-engaged friends Kai and Marie. It went great but was like just another outing, nothing special, though we got some bomb pasta back home which I’m currently shoveling into my gob since it’s too chilly for ice cream. We live in a super tiny apartment and so he showered first while I got the leftovers into the fridge and stuff. I went in after him, finished my shower and put some lotion on my palm. I accidentally squeezed too much and dabbed some of it away. After I rubbed it on my face I still had some of the leftover on my finger and I did exactly what any perfectly sane person would do: on my thumb, I whipped up a little smiley face and some spiky hair to create Lotion Man. I came out of the bathroom, giggling about it, and said something along the lines of “Hey, look, it’s Lotion Man.” He didn’t really react, he just looked at my hand and blinked at me. I honestly was just goofing around and started making a silly voice and saying some random shit sprinkled with some inside jokes. I was blabbing for about a minute before he just… up and left. I was of course completely oblivious as he grabbed some of his shit and I just was smiling and asking where he was going in kind of a playful way. He has a huge truck and we’d just returned from a trip so he has enough stuff to last him weeks, so it didn’t really dawn on me that he was LEAVING leaving until he drove away. I honestly feel like Booboo the Fool for making such a stupid joke and then letting him leave just like that. I texted him a few times and he’s just said that he’s “thinking about things” and that he’s at his brother Tyler’s place. I’ve been texting him nonstop but he hasn’t been responding or even reading any of it. He also sleeps really early so I doubt I can get in contact with him any time soon. His brother isn’t responsive either so I’m just leaving my phone on the nightstand and holding my breath. I don’t think it’s really dawned on me yet. I stared blankly at the door for like ten minutes before I got off my ass and actually tried contacting him. I’ve been with this man for YEARS and I’m always cracking cheesy jokes. I feel stupid and like shit for making Lotion Man and continuing after no response instead of just shutting up and accepting that I’m unfunny. At the same time I’m just confused. He’s never been at this point even in our rougher patches, the worst we’ve done is just take breaks from sex or just talk to one another a little less. (Wasn’t planning on getting into my sex life but honestly I’m just rambling at this point.) I’m all for giving him space but I can’t say I’m not hurt he’s just leaving. And the process of divorce is just so… ughh I don’t even want to think about this anymore. Was making Lotion Man as big of a mistake as I think it was? Any advice on getting him back home?? Thanks Reddit. Also any cute subreddit suggestions would be appreciated since it’s my first time on Reddit and I want to distract myself. Update 1 posted on November 25, 2022 [UPDATE] I (27f) made a stupid joke to my husband (30m) and he stormed off. How do I fix this? Hey Reddit, again. I posted here earlier about how my husband left after I told him a dumb joke. You can find it here. I followed the advice I got and kept my distance. You all had me really pondering about how much of my relationship was the butterflies and kittens I thought it was. I still firmly believe that everything was absolutely perfect before it happened, but oh well, I have my opinions. So you guys were right about some things and wrong about some things. For those of you saying that the lotion thing had nothing to do with it, you were… kinda wrong. But for the people who said something happened during the lunch outing, you were right on the money. My husband came back the other day. He apologized and said he was ready to talk to me. I obliged. I tried my best not to be all over him but quite frankly I missed this man so damn much, he’s my husband after all. He told me the following. I mentioned previously that we went out with our two newlywed friends Kai (30m) and Marie (29f). We did have some quality time with all four of us, but often one or more people were missing from the table, considering it was a fusion buffet and the food was amazing. Apparently, at some point, my husband and Marie grabbed some food together. Or maybe before we left, since I know I was talking to just Kai for a while before they appeared and we got to the car. Whatever it was, they were alone together. Marie, the fiancée, told my husband that when Kai proposed, she realized she was in love with him (my husband) though she accepted Kai’s proposal and tried to put her feelings to rest by organizing a lunch out. Though apparently she was “charmed” or some bullshit because she asked him to run away with her or something. I don’t know but she wanted him to leave me and be with her. Now, Marie is honestly gorgeous, which I hate to say because I’m so pissed off with her. She’s the typical blonde blue-eyed skinny pageant girl who looks kind of like Emma Watson. I’m not. My husband gently turned her down and wished her all the best. But he says he had her on her mind for a while (we were all college friends, so we know one another very well) and when I showed him Lotion Man, it all essentially exploded inside him. I had a hair towel and some shitty old clothes on and I was giggling over a stupid thing and apparently my “immaturity” ticked him off over however the hell Marie was. He got sudden cold feet about our relationship and left for his brother’s place. He eventually came back and said he “loved me all over again.” I was frozen in shock and asked some questions before asking him to sleep on the couch at least for that night. He did and it didn’t really help me sleep. I can’t believe it, honestly, that he was considering shitting away all of our relationship for a crush. The more I think about it the less I can look him in the eye. We went to Thanksgiving lunch together with some of his family + some close friends and we spent last night together so I think he thinks he’s in the clear. I can’t lie and say I’m not considering just forgiving and forgetting though. He comes home from work about six hours from now and I don’t know what to do next. I have off today (I’m a teacher) and so I’m considering either A) Contacting Kai and telling him about what his fiancée is up to (My husband begged me not to as Marie was apparently making a “spontaneous” mistake) B) Contacting Marie and chewing her out for trying to fuck up my relationship OR having a civil conversation (less tempting but it’s whatever) C) Contacting Tyler (his brother) and asking if he left the house at some point (Tyler’s house is very close to Marie’s place and I’m very worried about that) though I doubt I’ll get anything out of him D) All of the above. Any advice (or well wishes because I’m not in a great place right now) would be appreciated. If I do end up updating it’ll probably be on my profile since I understand this subreddit has a one update policy + I don’t want to update without a definite outlook on the future. I think I’ve mentioned before that legal stuff scares the shit out of me so divorce will be tough but it seems likely. I wish I could just forget it all. Thanks Reddit. TLDR: Husband abruptly left after I made a “Lotion Man” with my finger. Turns out a friend asked him out and he got cold feet about our relationship after seeing my “immaturity”. Not sure what to do next. Update 2 posted on November 27, 2022 [FINAL UPDATE] I (27f) made a stupid joke to my husband (30m) and he stormed off. How do I fix this? Hey Reddit! First of all I’d like to thank you SO much for the overwhelming support and sweet messages. I honestly was not expecting this, a lot of you guys also took the time to message me and I had a lot of great conversations with fellow Redditors. I’m honestly so flattered by how freaking sweet so many of you guys are. I wish I could have replied to every single one of your comments, I up-voted every one of them though! I think my post got deleted. Some of you asked for pictures of Lotion Man yet I can't quite find the feature to upload photos on here, but I will as soon as I can! A lot of you had some really interesting theories LOL. And surprisingly, most of them were somewhat right. Majority ruled that I should do all three (confront Kai, Marie, husband AND Tyler, not necessarily in that order) and so I had to get smart with it since a lot of you guys told me that any one of them could twist the story had they known there was outside influence. Before I begin, yes, the full story is wacky and honestly doesn't make that much sense. I'm honestly just piecing it together via context clues and I do have some questions left unanswered. Plus nobody who is relaying this story is in a good headspace and to you, it might just seem like a ton of garbled nonsense. I'm just hoping it gets across since I know a lot of people wanted closure on this. When my husband came home we had a conversation. He essentially said the same story and he told me he was open to my marriage counselling suggestion. I gave him a big hug and did the laundry (usually we split the laundry + I had been giving him a light cold shoulder) so I indirectly “forgave” him, in his eyes at least. We haven’t really set boundaries with our phones, like we know each other’s passwords and everything, but he would definitely get suspicious if I was just scrolling around on it. So instead I agreed to meet up with Kai first; a lot of you guys were concerned that he would tell Marie and everything would implode, but Kai is a big gym nut and I’ve been wanting to go recently so I set it as casually as possible using it as an excuse. He agreed. The next morning, I met with Kai. I sat down with him and told him all I know. Yes, I cried like a baby. Originally Kai was rigid and tried to (kindly) poke holes in what I was saying with a few “gotcha” questions before he, too, broke down. Marie didn’t tell him a word. That was a big red flag on its own. I then went to Marie with Kai. A few Redditors told me to be as discreet as possible and so, as a suggestion said, I just blurted to her that "I know everything." She played dumb at first and then eventually broke. You all were right. Marie "trying to settle her crush" was a bullshit story. My husband was the one who approached her. She told me that he asked her if before she "sealed" it with Kai if she wanted to have a night with him and another woman. Here's the kicker -- Marie said yes. But wait, I hate to say it, but that's not all. Apparently Marie has been cheating on Kai for a while, with men and women. And my husband has also been cheating frequently -- they covered for each other, and occasionally met up. At the last moment, she declined because she wanted to be "loyal" to Kai now that they were engaged, (as if she wasn't cheating for the majority of the relationship) and he (husband) got all pissed off for a while before saying he's just "locked in his apartment now." Cue me showing him Lotion Man. He snaps and gets out of there. Kai and Marie are both arguing, in tears, and red at the face. I told them sorry that I butted into their relationship, and that I'll handle my husband myself. I found Tyler before the sun set. He told me yes, his brother stopped by, but only around ~11pm. He left at around 8. So those three hours went fuck all. Tyler told me that he was angry and didn't tell him anything. I then tell him some context (just the Lotion Man) and he says that maybe he was driving around for a while. It doesn't sound like my husband to drive as relief, but I'm willing to look into it, since the future was already looking pretty fucking bleak. I went home. I "Googled" something on my husband's phone. Instead, I was just checking if any of them had contacted him. Nothing, thankfully. I would've gone into more depth but that would have to wait. Instead, I tried to keep him busy for the duration of the day. Remember how I said he sleeps really early? Well, that worked in my favor. Took his phone that night while he was snoring his ass off. Ran into a million dead ends. I knew I was missing something, but I just couldn’t find it. Finally, I opened his hidden photos. Kaboom! His story explodes to pieces. What did I find? Nudes. Nudes. More nudes. Even more nudes. All of one girl. Not me, shocker. But not Marie either. I don't recognize her. Let's call her Allison, considering Allison was my second-grade best friend who was actually a snake (They're not the same person! Just so I can call her something when I refer to her in the story because I don't actually know her name.) She's absolutely gorgeous. Red hair, hourglass figure, you name it. I'm obviously broken. I traced her back to a contact. I feel sick. There it is, an affair. He's been contacting her since February, days before I surprised him with a Valentines thing that I had been using up my paychecks for and thinking I was the luckiest woman alive. It fucking sucks. I can't even read more. But I tough through it. Then, I hit it. November 3rd, two days after the last nude. She's pissed off. She found out he was married all along. She was "in love with him". I would feel bad for her, but she didn’t even bother trying to contact me out of “love.” Ergo, hubby has a genius idea. He told Allison that he’ll bring his “wife” over in a hotel to show that his wife doesn’t care about the affair. Sound familiar? So I assume when Marie canceled, there was nothing he could do. He became whiny and begged her to come. He told Allison that there was an “inconvenience” and they’d meet up another day. Then the Lotion Man. He got pissed off at me and left. I don’t know what he did after that, but whatever it was, he wasn’t with either of them. Then he went to Tyler’s place, slept it off, and came back afterward. I’ll spare you the details. But I couldn’t even pretend to like him anymore after I found that out. I brought Kai and Marie over the next morning. He started fucking blubbering and tried to deny it all before eventually admitting he was into redheads (Marie is actually strawberry blonde, Allison is very ginger) and it was the one “desire” of his I couldn’t fulfill. Even I could see past his bullshit saying that he loved only me and that being with Allison/Marie only made him love me more. I just said fuck it and packed my stuff. He got more desperate but even I, the girl who was honestly infatuated with him, knew it was over. He technically owns the apartment so I had to leave. Now, I'm staying with Kai. He's as hurt as I am. I feel for him too, his wife was his world. We were hugging and crying for a while, ranting about God knows what, just trying to get ourselves together TBH. He tried to lighten the mood by making lunch and it was really nice, he's a wonderful cook. I showed him the other two posts and he got a kick out of some of your comments, haha. As far as I know, my soon-to-be-ex husband is with Marie for now. I don't care about either of them, and honestly, it's kind of therapeutic just having some kind of closure and not walking on eggshells like I have been for the past few days. Kai and I are going to the gym tomorrow to do some relaxing yoga and hopefully figure out what to do next -- we've both taken off from work. I'm sorting out my finances and hopefully I should get the ball rolling to finally (legally) split from my husband and be able to call him my ex. I'm still so, so frazzled. I have at least half a dozen pictures of him and me on my desk and our wedding picture is my lockscreen on pretty much all of my devices. I know my students will notice his sudden disappearance from my life, and I'll have to tell them that the guy I've been raving about for the past forever is divorcing me. I'll have to tell all my family and friends. Kai is my rock in this whole thing and we'll eventually have to part ways, which hurts me because he's honestly my #1 support system in all of this. Living arrangements, actual divorce costs, law stuff (yuck), therapy... sigh. I still have a lot to go through. I can't believe I thought the relationship was perfect, it's really therapeutic to just write this all down. But Reddit, thank you so much. I've already talked about how much support I received, but honestly, some of your guys' honesty and compliments have, for lack of better emphasis, honestly saved my life. I would have been with cheating scum and Kai would have been, too. This place is so awesome and there's so much to be seen here, so many nice people checking in on me and wanting to keep up with my story. I'll be coming back for more advice someday, though just know I've seen all (yes, all!) of your sweet words, and I'll continue lurking around for a long time. But this should be my final update for now. Thank you again Reddit, from me (and Kai)! TLDR: Husband left me alone after I told him a stupid joke. He blames it on needing to “think about things” after our mutual friend Marie asks him out. Turns out he was the one who asked Marie out… for a threesome. He has an affair partner, Allison, who fell in love with him and found out he’s married, and he wanted Marie to pose as me to show that “his wife is cool with it” so he can keep Allison. Marie accepts but then declines at the last moment, pissing him off. He has a redhead fetish he never bothered telling me about and therefore cheats to fulfill it. I’m looking into divorce and staying with Marie’s (ex) fiancé, Kai. Yes, I don't understand it much either, and I don't know how this all went on under my nose. Shorter TLDR: Lotion Man and Reddit saved me from a piece of shit husband. :-) OOP left a comment on the original BORU post: Whoa whoa whoa, holy shit! I wondered why my inbox was exploding with notifications!! Thank you all for the well wishes and hello Reddit again! I've been scrolling for a while now and wow I'm so grateful that so many people are resonating with everything I've said. There are a lot of things I have to clear up so here goes... About now -- Not much has changed, it's only been a little over a week since my final update. My (ex) husband and I have briefly spoken about our impending divorce but other than that nothing much. Still healing, still working, still hurting. Call me in a years' time and I might have something better for you, hahaAbout Allison (other affair girl) -- No success in contacting her, though some of your suggestions have motivated me to work harder. About Kai and me -- I know a lot of you are talking about this so I'd rather get it out now rather than skirt around it! Kai and I are healing together as friends, and I doubt we'd make an ideal match. Kai wants independent couple life and I'm hoping to have kids. He's expressed that he has a very very low libido (a big reason why he blames the whole situation on himself) while I have a high one. Besides we're basically brother and sister, but thank you for thinking about my options lol. Not quite ready to date yet and probably won't be for a while! "Is this story fake?" -- YEP! You caught me! Haha, kidding, I wish it was. No curses to you if you think it is though, it's not like you can trust everything on the internet, and I doubt I can change your mind. But unfortunately, yes, I am living in this reality and no amount of rude messages are going to stop that. Also big big apology on one note; Kai and Marie were engaged, NOT married! I must've slipped up quite a few times when writing that anyway, I didn't really have the time or energy to proofread any one of those. About my writing style -- For those of you complaining about my writing style, I've been teaching for years now and I'm just kind of automatically writing in this super peppy vibrant voice regardless of what I'm writing about. I've had to tell students grim truths about flunking the class and test score averages that make me look like I do nothing but sit around all day instead of teaching. So a lot of my statements kind of come off as tone-deaf like "Oh! He cheated on me, tee-hee!" even though I really am hurting. Hope that clears up some things. About family, friends, students, etc. -- My family is of course on my side and pretty much all of my friends are with me, too, even our mutual ones (the majority of them). Yes, I have broken the news to my students, and let me tell you that they've been helpful, too! I've scrubbed my desk of all memory of him, next up is my mind! About Lotion Man tax -- I tried to recreate him as best I could. I'll be posting him on my profile momentarily! I'll link it here when I post it. EDIT: HERE it is! Let me know if I missed anything! There are so many sweet comments here and I have yet to reach all my new message requests, I wish I could respond to you all but I'm finding myself super busy nowadays and I'll hopefully be able to spot some of you over the weekend. I'm loving all these jokes and stuff, thank you Reddit so much for lighting up some of my darkest days. :-) New update posted on January 25, 2025 A Complete And Utter Doozy -- Lotion Man, Years Later! Oh, yikes, that title is a trainwreck. Sorry, I'll come up with something better once I can get my brain working again. It's that time of year again, if you couldn't tell. Check in on your teacher pals, if you have any. LOL. Hello Reddit! It's been a while, and I finally hopped back onto this account, and wow. I honestly... don't even know where to start. Seeing so much support even today, well wishes into the new year, it's all really amazing stuff. I love the internet so much, especially you, Reddit. You guys were there for me during the dang hardest times in my life. I saw dozens of messages asking about updates, if I'm doing all right, even people sharing their own stories of nearly IDENTICAL things happening to them. One of their "boyfriend"s blamed the new puppy! Crazy stuff! She even sent me a picture of the little guy, who looked so blameless. I can't believe this heart-wrenching experience is so mutual, and yet, I can't lose hope in humanity yet. Just because of the waves of love I'm receiving all across the board from you guys. :-) And now it's been about two years! Feels like for-freaking-ever ago, and at the same time, it all feels like it happened yesterday. Okay, now ACTUALLY getting to it -- there's a lot to get through here LOL, buckle up! I ought to get the bad news out of the way first. Kai and I had a... pretty nasty fallout. I don't want to dive into the nitty gritty details (this'll be like, thirty pages long if I do that) but to sum it all up in a giftwrap; we were roommates, pretty involved in one another's business, yadda yadda. Basically, every time I went to the store, he knew. Every time he came home from work, I knew. All of our whereabouts were always mentally noted just because of our proximity, paired with the way we divvied up our house chores and whatnot. At some point Kai tells me he's going on a date with a girl. Yay, good for him! In my case, this was just a few months after D-Day and I was still in the middle of the messy divorce proceedings, plus I wasn't really in the headspace for another relationship, so I wasn't even considering dating just yet. Since Kai and Marie didn't have a ring on it yet they were able to break it off a little more cleanly, but not perfect, obviously! He went on the date, and then he went on another date, and then it stopped. Eventually after a week of no dates I asked what happened out of curiosity, and he told me simply that she'd "ghosted" him. It wasn't until a week later on a totally random evening that he drops the sparkly rainbow glitter bomb on me: he had tried to see Marie again. I know, pretty crazy behavior, right? Well, he was telling me this crying and blubbering like a baby on his couch, and I couldn't help but feel bad for him since the road to recovery from a blown-up relationship is rough. He told me that those dates had helped him realize it was over, like over over. He described it like -- and I'm probably mincing words here -- when he first met Marie, she had this sweet girl-next-door customer service facade. As he got to know her better he ended up revealing this fun-loving, wild-spirited girl underneath, the girl he says he fell in love with. But then when he met up with her again that month, she was right back to her factory settings, which hurt him deep down because it felt like he'd started at square one all over again. He not only "ghosted" her after two dates, but blocked her everywhere. It was a bit of a tough decision for me (hits quite close to home, you know?) but I decided to brush it off and console him instead of really caring. Things were clear for another few months after that! In that time Kai morphed me into a TOTAL gym girl, haha! Reading my last posts. it's so funny how iffy I was about the gym. Anyway, after those few halcyon months, Kai breaks the news to me again that he's going on another date, this time with a friend of a mutual friend we have. Again, I was like oh, go for it! At this time, again, I was all muddled up in divorce proceedings and still sulking over my crumpled marriage so dating still wasn't on the table for me. Now, as I'd mentioned before, we both kept tabs on each other just because of the way our arrangement was structured. So when Kai started leaving at 2pm and coming home at 8pm, and his other dates with this girl had these equally long time frames if not longer, I immediately noticed. Of course, I didn't really bring it up since I assumed he was just having a really great time with her or something along those lines, but his absence on "date days" were noticeable. He'd even request for me to run some of his smaller errands he knew he'd miss on those days just because of how long he was gone. Eventually I was able to meet this girl, Grace (20-somethingF) who was super super sweet and was also a teacher!! (She taught elementary school kids, but still, it was a great thing for us to bond over). At this point things seemed to be going great, Kai and Grace were adorbs, summer was passing, and everything was hunky-dory. I also (just about) officially divorced my ex-husband! But dang it, those dates were just so long! Even his "short meet-ups" were at least three to four hours of him just *gone*. And so finally I subtly bring it up. Kai then tells me that Grace mostly plans their date spots, and those spots are usually an hour or two away from here with traffic. When I asked him where Grace lived (maybe they were trying to meet in the middle?) Kai responded with a plain "not sure". At that point, maybe I'd read too many infidelity forums or something, but alarms were going off in my head. Grace probably didn't live too far off, considering she was friends with one of our friends, and after months of dating Kai didn't even know where she lived (whereas she'd eaten at our place multiple times!), and the date spots all purposefully super far away... to me, it sounded a little off. This was where I probably overstepped. I go on Instagram searching her name... and voila, I found Kai's girlfriend Grace in a wedding dress with this guy Mike, back in 2019. She's married! Yikes! I wake up Kai immediately (yes, cringe at my idiocy, I'm sorry) and spill it all with receipts. It's 12am, he's bleary-eyed with work at 7 tomorrow, I've barged into his room wide-eyed and gesturing at the phone screen like a crazy person, it's all a mess. Finally, after I shut up, Kai gets MAD. Like, FUMING! He interrogates me as to why I was getting all up in Grace's business, and then when I told him about the red flags he just got even more mad. The entire argument spiraled out of control, he told me I was way overstepping my boundaries (which I honestly was, but again, our proximity had us constantly keeping tabs on each other), I asked him why the hell he was mad at me for trying to look out for him, it turned into a giant screaming match. Eventually he went to the next level and rambled on about how this was all probably because I was secretly into him and that he's always thought our relationship had gotten closer than it needed to be, which is why I was "stalking" him. That's when I got really mad and said some awful things I wish I could take back, I dug at him for his situation with Marie, that I'd never date him for a million bucks, and then it devolved into him calling me some nasty names and I just had to walk out. It was nasty, we were both exhausted and aggravated, it all just blew into a thousand pieces in the span of one night. He woke me up early the next morning before he left. I thought the night had been time for our heads to cool and he'd come to apologize, but instead he decided to drop the news on me plainly, which he'd admitted he was bearing on his shoulders for a while. Kai knew. He knew Grace was married since close to day one, but he'd shrugged it off. Her husband was a nice man, but Grace told Kai that she just couldn't feel for him anymore. And that explained why the gas bill for all those far-off dates didn't faze him, I guess. I'll admit, I wasn't too happy to hear this! I asked him how he would feel if Marie's hookups had known she was married and still went for her, to which Kai got mad all over again and told me not to bring Marie into this. We argued again, definitely not as explosive as the night before but still pretty flaming, where Kai told me that he'd avoid telling me all this time because he knew I'd make a big deal out of it. I told him that infidelity was obviously personal to me and I honestly expected it was for him, too, to which he just straight up said it wasn't and that being roommates with me was as exhausting as a full-time relationship, that I had no control over who he dated. So I was like yeah, fine, date whoever you want, I just thought you needed to know that you were helping her cheat, I didn't mean for this to blow out of proportion. He said that was fine by him and just left for work. I wasn't Kai's mother or something where I needed to dictate his relationships. I just thought Kai wanted to know, you know, that he was being "the other man" here. I know if I was in a relationship with a man who was married already I'd want someone to tell me, and based off my standards, I'd break it off with said man. But if Kai had different morals regardless of our shared experiences, that was fine too. I just didn't want to associate with someone who perpetuated cheating. I didn't really have to move out of Kai's -- he was nice enough not to overtly kick me out and make me homeless, but things were definitely tough and distant between us for the next while, and I'd lost respect for him in all honesty. Him continuing to see Grace and also the idea he had that I was interested in him... it wasn't great. Finally I was able to get together all my stuff and move out, to which I moved in with a family friend and I was ultimately better off even though it was pretty dang far from where I worked. I guess I ought to provide an update on the man himself, my ex-husband. Well, pretty soon after we officially divorced he got engaged to another woman. Around this time, right after I moved out, I think I just about hit rock bottom. The whole AI panic with student work started happening in my district, I was beginning the process to move out properly into my own place, all while I was in a new community where I didn't really know anybody overall. I was pretty lonely and down all the time, I went on a couple dates, but they went quite mediocre and I gave it up in the end (which only cemented how lonely I was). Wouldn't go back to those days for the world. Ex-husband reaches out to me, and he tells me about his engagement and all the good news. He tells me he's on some "life improvement" path and that he wants to clean up his act, starting with giving me a good and well apology. He offers to meet me in person, locally, swearing up and down this wasn't a date nor was he expecting me to accept said apology. I should've been much more assertive but I was totally beat down from life and I felt like a totally different person, in a sucky, no-good way, so I agreed like an idiot. I thought maybe an apology rather than a loose end would help me feel better about things. It went... just as well as you'd expect it to. It started out okay, where we shared pleasantries and he actually did apologize about everything. But then he started pressing me about how my life was going. I tried not to tell him too many details, saying the kids are fine, I'm doing fine, whatever else was going on. But I guess I must've said one two many things because he quickly picked up on how miserable my life was. He then had this Cheshire Cat grin as he began to boast about his great new life, his hot girlfriend, her shiny engagement ring, and basically how everything was going great and amazing for him. He casually drops that his life has been leagues better than it's ever been, and that our separation was a blessing dressed as a curse. Can't lie and say it didn't hurt to hear the years I'd put in with him felt like burdens to him! At this point he's most definitely rubbing it in, and eventually I get fed up with hearing him talk and weasel my way out of there. In the end I never got invited to the wedding, so did we really make amends? Either way, I totally regretted doing all that. Total waste of my time and it only dug me deeper into that depression pit. :-( But, alas -- things eventually start looking up, when you least expect it! After a long, long while of dragging myself through each day by the hair, I *finally* went on one more date. I'd lost a lot of weight and looked pretty sunken and pale so I didn't think I'd make a great first impression, but what do you know, fate can make things happen like magic. That's where I met my current partner Chase (29M) who is the greatest thing that's ever happened to me. He's so patient, undeniably sweet, so, SO chatty and lively! Seriously! I'm used to being the loud and silly ones in relationships, and I used to think I'd like a guy who'd offset my energy, smirk and roll his eyes at my jokes, whatever. A lot of people seem to throw themselves in that cliche, but let me give you some sage advice: if you're a ray of sunshine, don't search for the aloof, tall, dark, and handsome Mr. Right, please search for for someone who matches your bright energy! It's SO refreshing, I've been missing this all my life thinking I wanted a straight-laced sucker. I've never felt so much more loved and so, so complete than I have with this big goofball. No more "biscuitsandbutters being biscuitsandbutters", no more one-sided conversations, no more of those half-hearted scoff-laughs dudes do to seem cool. We make the silliest jokes, the most legendary memories, and it feels so indescribably alive! Our conversations are so strangely deep about the most oddball of topics, and never have I felt bored around him. If I keep going on about him I think my fingers will break from how much I'll type. Jeez louise! But anyway, there's a little more I have to cover (told you it'd be a lot!) so I'm just gonna get straight to it. It's late 2024 and the year's started back up again, I'm head over heels for Chase, everything's going just fine. I moved properly into my own place a little while before that, back closer to my job and whatnot, but I didn't start going back to my old gym until then. That's when I saw Kai again. He didn't notice me for a few days but when he did, he immediately came up to me. He very cordially apologized, told me he'd been worried sick since I'd gone basically no contact with him. He told me he said a lot of stupid things that he regretted, and if I ever wanted to be friends again, he was always open to it. And that was it. It's 2025 now, I have no clue if Kai's still with Grace, Kai has no clue that I'm with Chase. But I still see him around in the gym. So I haven't yet properly connected him since his apology. Maybe I should, but honestly? This likely isn't the best way to describe it but to me, Kai feels like a recurring character from the first movie that's making an abrupt appearance in the second or third movie. It's a weird feeling I'm probably making up, but I feel like I'm on a totally different chapter of my life now what with Chase and my life happenings, so far beyond the events of my ex-husband and Marie and every other part of that time period. (Not Lotion Man, though. Lotion Man is simply timeless.) Speaking of the legend himself, I did actually get around to showing Chase a rendition of Lotion Man. I won't lie, I was shaking a little bit! But to top this all off with a nice little cherry for all you happy ending lovers, not only did he find Lotion Man absolutely hilarious with a full-on belly laugh, it's a bit of a running joke between us now: we've got Soap Man, Ketchup Man, Shaving Cream Man, Floor Dust Man(?) Basically anything we can create little smiley guys with, we make them real! And they all have silly accents too. Lotion Man, the world is your oyster! And with that... that's basically it. So much more has happened in my life that I've excluded here just because it's not really relevant to what I've typed here before (seriously, a lot happens in few years!), but my God vomiting all that info out into these verbose paragraphs has felt like therapy. Even if nobody reads this, I'll still feel the weight of the past lifted off my shoulders, even if it's just a bit. I guess the one lesson I've learned coming out of all of this and coming out of my twenties is that being unapologetically you will always do wonders, no matter what. Things change. Life moves. It'll always get better. If you shine too bright for the small box that is your life, then it's not your fault for being too radiant, you just need to get out of that damn box! I'll never apologize for being myself again. So you guys can take all my wordy, nerdy, nonsensical paragraphs in their full, unedited glory! LOL! Love you, Reddit! submitted by /u/Shelly_895 to r/BestofRedditorUpdates [link] [comments]
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Does anyone find under eye patches helpful? I was considering getting Topicals eye patches but then came across gel under eye masks from Abib and also CosRX. Want to know if anyone uses under eye patches and if it helped them! I have dark under eyes that get puffy and swollen in the mornings. submitted by /u/BB-Riley-00 to r/KoreanBeauty [link] [comments]
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The qinling panda is a subspecies of pandas that was only discovered in 1959, and only became fully recognised as a subspecies in 2005. Unlike giant pandas, qinling pandas are beige and brown, and have small spots under their eyes instead of the iconic panda patches.
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