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Guys... I see everyone having a crush on Aragorn, Sam, Frodo and more attractive characters from LOTR movies but... I ? Who's my crush ?... Really wanna know ?... ...well... Mine is Smeagol, SMEAGOL. And both before and after he got that one ring... Like... Is so hot, I love him so much and his story... Oh... Hit me in the heart like someone shooted me with a gun (because I relate more then aI should do) oh boy... I'm so deeply in love with him... Like, if I could marry him, I would... I mean in real life (But I don't know how...) I can't look at him without blushing and feeling my heart flutter... I know it's weird... But I'm so in love. I know he has done some crazy shit but I really don't care, I forgive him. submitted by /u/Immediate_Sense4251 to r/lotr [link] [comments]

Listen up you goddamn Lalafell mains, I fucking hate every single one of you. Fuck you if you play Lalafel Every time I zone into Limsa and see a horde of tiny potato people running around like it's the world's saddest daycare, I feel my will to live evaporate faster than in M11s arena split prog. You aren't "cute." You're a war crime in suspenders. Your entire existence is just short king cosplay for men who peaked in middle school and have been coping ever since. It's genuinely unhinged that a 40-year-old unemployed accountant from Ohio is logging in every day to roleplay as a 3'2" toddler named "Fala Fellatio" while giggling in voice chat with a voice changer that sounds like a helium balloon getting pegged. You have a mortgage. You have knee pain. Stop pretending you're a magical child and touch some grass that isn't pixelated. I want nothing but suffering for all of you. May your retainers only bring back Grade 1 Thanalan soil. May every roulette give you Crystal Tower 1000x over. May your FC house get demolished because the landlord finally realized it's just a glorified playpen for manchildren. Delete your character. Roll a Roe. Or better yet, log off forever. The Warrior of Light didn't save Eorzea just so some neckbeard could ERP as a lollipop with legs. I would rather farm Five Minutes with Diddy (Extreme) than group with another "uwu smol bean" ever again." submitted by /u/ItsHuntermark to r/ShitpostXIV [link] [comments]

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I’m actually lost for words right now. I hopped onto Live Chat a few days ago just to see if I could get my 1Gig broadband price down and check when my contract ends. I asked to speak to the cancellation/retentions team to see what deals were going. The agent offered me two "deals" that were literally 3x the price I pay now and came with O2 SIMs. I told them no thanks and asked to make a formal complaint about how bad the offers were. That was it. The next morning, I get an email saying my contract has been cancelled. I never asked to cancel. I never gave consent. I’ve been back on Live Chat today and it’s a total circus. They are claiming that because I have 18 months left, I owe an Early Disconnection Fee of £5167. How does that even make sense? Even at full price, 18 months shouldn't be anywhere near four and a half grand. Where I'm at: • I’ve demanded a transcript of the original chat for proof that I didn't authorize this. • I’ve requested a manager call me within 24 hours (not holding my breath). • I have screenshots of the £5167 balance they're claiming I owe. Has anyone else dealt with Virgin "accidentally" cancelling their account after they asked for a manager or made a complaint? Also, surely that fee is a system error—how can they justify £5167? I’m worried they’re going to try and pull this out of my bank via Direct Debit. Any advice on how to stop this madness before it ruins my credit or empties my account? submitted by /u/mgottschalk to r/VirginMedia [link] [comments]

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I just woke up to this pink patch in the sky, I’m shook. It’s beautiful but what is it 🤔🤔🤔 submitted by /u/Pachinko_20 to r/bangalore [link] [comments]

Tool: Openart Ai Prompt: anime style, elf girl with purple hair, blushing embarrassed expression, large breasts, sitting on lap of male character, detailed shading, vibrant colors, ecchi pose (Inserted Sketch) submitted by /u/Potat0_fries to r/TheEminenceInShadow [link] [comments]

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Not the most canon…but I wanted to share for my fellow Arwen appreciators💙 submitted by /u/vampiremare to r/lordoftherings [link] [comments]

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The last part?? heloooo??? submitted by /u/Apart_Replacement541 to r/CharacterAI [link] [comments]

Image(s) Source: MAKEUP BY MARIO Master-Mattes Long-Wearing Cream Eyeshadow page on Sephora website MAKEUP BY MARIO isn’t the only brand guilty of this, but I’ve been bombarded with ads for this product for the past few weeks, and each time I see it… I get angrier. Why the FUCK have we normalized photoshopping swatches and product images like this? I can almost always tell when swatch images are actually on the skin vs when they just slapped copy + paste and put the images onto the different models’ hands. Makeup is affected by the undertones and depth of your skin. The same eyeshadow won’t look the same on different skin tones. But what do you see in these images? All the eyeshadow looks exactly the same on every single skintone. Because they just copied and pasted it or drew it on. I think it’s misleading advertising because it doesn’t even show how it actually looks interacting with the models’ skin. Why even do swatches at this point? The individual images of eyeshadows are even worse. As you can see, the image for every single eyeshadow is the same. If you overlay them, not even a single lash is different. It’s the same image. They didn’t even bother to actually include images of the eyeshadow on the models. They just photoshopped the color on. This doesn’t give an accurate idea of what it’s actually going to look like on different skin tones at all. Because they just photoshopped it on. All this money as a big brand and you’re too cheap to spend a little extra time and care to actually put the makeup you’re trying to sell on the models that are supposed to show what the makeup looks like? It’s so demoralizing, both as a consumer and as an artist in the industry. These brands are so busy trying to push out new product that will be quickly forgotten that they don’t even care about accurately representing them in the photography. Again, it’s not just MAKEUP BY MARIO. It’s so many of these new releases from big brands. I’m sick of it!! Bring back real swatches. Bring back real images. Stop using AI in advertising (not this image but I’ve seen a lot more brands using it). What are your guys’ thoughts? submitted by /u/florietti to r/MakeupAddiction [link] [comments]

I am not The OOP, OOP is u/Expensive_Pangolin60 WIBTA for calling off a wedding because my fiancé is extremely frugal? Originally posted to r/AITAH r/abusiverelationships and OOP's own page BoRU 1 Posted by u/ParadoxicalState BoRU 2 Posted by u/Stephenallen1977 BoRU 3 TRIGGER WARNING: emotional abuse, trauma, financial struggles, neglect, psychological manipulation MOOD SPOILERS: sad - but generally positive overall Original Post June 06, 2023 I 31F struggle with my fiancé’s 32M frugalness and not sure if I want to marry him anymore after 3 year relationship. Throwaway as my Fiancé follows my regular account. I met my Fiancé 3 years ago. He came out of an abusive marriage just 2 years before we met. One of her absolute abuses was financial. She bled him dry. Made him buy expensive jewelry only to give it away or break it after an argument. Designer shoes, clothes, big house cars… Caribbean trips. you name it she made him pay for it. She also took him to the cleaners in the divorce. However. My Fiancé is very well off. He makes far over 6 figures almost 7. On top of that he inherited a few millions from his grandfather and his parents gifted him and his siblings also a few cool millions. So yes the financial abuse was bad but he does not suffer financially. He has more money than he will ever need. So last year I moved into his house. I do not pay rent but I split the bills and buy food. I pay for my own clothes and jewelry. I have a good job and I can take care of myself. However things have been taking a turn for the worse and I feel miserable. His house was empty when I moved in. He had hand me down furniture. Maybe 3 forks and 2 knives. He wouldn’t put on the heating so the house felt cold and moldy. He has no curtains, no decorations. His ex took everything not bolted down and he was too cheap to replace it. Just imagine a million dollar house like that! I am grateful that I can live in his house. It is something I could never afford myself. But I didn’t want to live in squalor! So I bought some kitchen supplies, some furniture… but at some point I realized I was dipping in my savings all the time and he did nothing. I looked into curtains but those things are expensive. His house has so many windows it is crazy. I didn’t want to pay for this anymore. I told him I needed a fund to furnish his house. He blew up at me that I was just with him for his money. I pointed out all the money I spend on his house. The gifts and the trips because he pays for nothing ever. Because he wants to be sure I am not here for the money. The fact is, if we break up I have nothing… the house is not mine. If I spend all my savings on his house I will be left with absolutely nothing! He wants a prenup and I am fine with that but I can’t help but feel used. Next to that I am jealous of his ex wife. I feel like she got treated and I am neglected. He proposed to his ex on a cruise with a 10.000 dollar white gold diamond ring. I got the rhodium plated Swarovski stuff that might cost like 100 bucks. The proposal was at a picnic in the park I organized, payed groceries for and slaved in the kitchen for. I almost said no out of pure disappointment . However I am afraid to bring it up and to be called a golddigger. I don’t want to be funding a millionaire’s lifestyle. He loves everything as long as I pay for it. As soon as he has to pay it is frivolous, unnecessary…. I can live like a poor person by myself. At least the fact there are literal millions lying around doesn’t hang over me to bum me out.and I would just be paying for my own lifestyle. WIBTA for calling of a wedding purely for financial reasons. Because I love this man, but I imagine our cheap wedding in contrast to his ex her extravaganza, will our future kids be able to have some luxuries? Or only if I pay for it? What if I ever become a stay at home mom? Will I have to beg to put the heating on? Edited to answer questions I see a lot: I know the abuse is not made up. His family and friends told me seperate stories of the abuse they witnessed. Not only did it confirm it, it showed me she was way more terrible than I thought. Like stealing heirloom jewelry of his grandma with alzheimer right after she was widowed. Pretending she was gifted these things even though every one knew grandma hated her guts. I did not realize or see he is doing the same to me as she was to him and he is (subconsciously) punishing me for what was done to him. I am not trying to force a lifestyle in him where he was previously happy in. He told me prior to moving in that he left his house like this because he was depressed after his wife took everything ( even the curtains) that it makes him sad and he wants a cozy home. He just didn’t know where to start. His house is paid off, thanks to grand dad. He isn’t actually spending much on utilities either, house is very well isolated and has solar panels. It is weird to see how cheap being rich really is. I am not asking for designer furniture. Ikea all the way and I have refurbished second hand furniture myself. I am actually pretty thrifty . I see where my jealousy over the ex her lifestyle might have triggered some people. Let me explain. A 10.000 dollar ring is insane and stupid to me. I do not want that because I would fear for losing it every day. I don’t need an over the top wedding … however, it almost feels like for her he did effort. Wanted to give her what made her happy. Put effort and thought in it. With me it almost feels like he wants to prove how little he can give me. He talked about how he would see the wedding and it is cheaper than my actually financially struggling cousin her wedding. I can’t help but feel he wants to demonstrate how cheap he can treat me! And I already feel embarrassed about the family that would have been to both and I will feel like the discount wife. I don’t like to say it but it feels like he gets of on it to some extend. We are almost talking washing paper plates at this moment. Yes I did discuss selling the mansion I really don’t need and move to a more modest house. Especially knowing this is the house his ex picked. He doesn’t want to do that. He loves this house… but I feel really intimidated living in a house I could never afford anyway. And so many large windows… tjeesh I havn’t talked to him yet but pauze on the marriage and counseling is a must . I already am looking for IC because I realized I might indeed be too much of a people pleaser allowing him to control me with the ghost of his ex. I also am going to seperate for a while. I am looking to rent something for a few months so I can get some space. Thank you all for your insights ! RELEVANT COMMENTS SeniorDay NTA. - “I understand you’ve had some trauma in your past and I’m sorry you went through that. But I can’t allow you to mistreat me because of it. It burns me up inside that you gave her everything, but I have to beg for the bare minimum. I deserve to feel cherished by my partner, as I have cherished you.”* OOP Oomph that hit me right in the feels. ~ moth_girl_7 “I am not with you because of the money you have, and if you can’t trust that then that’s something you need to work on. I cannot live without heat, furniture, curtains, and basic decency just to prove to you that I am not a financial abuser like your ex. It feels as if you are projecting that image onto me and that is unfair.” His way of coping is extremely unhealthy. What he should be doing is talking to a therapist about how he can communicate his needs to you, not shutting you out and behaving the complete opposite of how he did with this ex. He should set some healthy boundaries on how he spends his money, sure, but he also needs to acknowledge that you asking for some financial contribution to the house you live in isn’t the same as his ex demanding he take her on a cruise. He needs to find some ways he can feel appreciated when he does spend money on things you benefit from, and he needs to trust that he is in full control of his money, you have no desire to take that from him.* Update 1 June 10, 2023 (4 days later) Originally posted to r/AITAH, but was removed by the mods. Preserved on user's account. Okay I hope this update makes sense because I am very confused and not really doing that well at the moment. Well Reddit you changed my life. thank you so much for all your ideas and insights. Honestly I don’t think I would have had the courage to do what I did without you guys. I went to therapy Took the day off just to get my racing mind to calm down. Therapy has confirmed things you guys suspected. I am a people pleaser, I wanted to “save” him and I have internalized the idea that any effort and every penny I want him to spend on me makes me a gold digger. I will have weekly sessions to work on me. I realized I would have never taken this treatment from any of my exes. Even though I made more then them. The idea I had to proof myself “ worthy “ to be with a millionaire and not be in there for the money got in to my head pretty early. I called one of his siblings I am pretty close with and just told her everything. She was not surprised but just sad about how unhappy he was making me. She told me that from the day we started he had this idea that “ I was out of his league”. He struggled to understand why I wanted to be with him and he probably just thought : it must be my money. She told me she already talked to him in the past to treat me better. She was furious about the proposal. This information confused me a little. I was a little hurt she never discussed any of this before but she thought it was none of her business. She also explained how she and her husband organized their finances. He also doesn’t have as much as her. I took the opportunity to pack a bag. I haven’t n’t found a place yet but I am going to stay with my parents. I made up my mind that I will at least want 6 months apart to get myself in order. I made sure my stuff was in the car because honestly I had no idea how the conversation would go. so into the most difficult part. The talk. I waited for him to come home. He was pretty late but I didn’t want to sleep another night on this. Pretending I was fine while I was contemplating all this just ate me up. I had written down what I wanted to say. I have never been so scared before. I didn’t want to hurt him and I didn’t know how he would react. I took some advice from here. I opened that I was moving out and that I wanted to pauze our engagement. He was very quiet and just sat down. I told him he really hurt me by calling me a golddigger and that I am done walking on eggshells and feeling guilty for just wanting basic things. I told him I was unhappy and felt neglected. I also told him that after 3 years of me showing up for him he still doesn’t think I am here for him, it is not going to happen. He was just quiet. He didn’t say anything. I told him that the constant comparing to his ex was unhealthy and unfair.Punishing me for her sins was abusive. I told him comparing her to me all the time has triggered me comparing myself to her and starting to feel like she was worth more than me. One of the things about her was mostly ungratefulness. He would do nice things for her but it was never enough. The thing is, he doesn’t do nice things for me and I have to be grateful for the pleasure of picking up the bill. I told him he was not ready for marriage. That I dreaded having kids with him and live like this. That is didn’t trust he would take care of me if I would become a SAHM. And at that point I just called him abusive and a user. I was getting pretty angry saying all this out loud. Losing my composer and script a little bit. He remained quiet with almost no emotion on his face. I stayed quiet but nothing came out so I decided that I would just leave. Only when I got up to go he said please don’t go. He asked me if I was pausing the wedding or calling it of. He wanted to know if it was over or if he still had a shot. I told him I wanted out of this house. I honestly don’t want to live in his ex her palace of sadness anymore. I needed him to go to therapy and especially financial therapy. I needed a separation. I told him I was open to couples counseling if he went into IC. He begged me not to do the separation but honestly I really really wanted it. I just told him to think about it and I left him. He was finally showing some emotions. He was crying at this point. He sent me a very long text somewhere in the AM. Told me he was a wreck and couldn’t sleep. He made all kinds of promises. He would go into therapy, sell his house, buy a smaller one and make sure I am taken care of whatever happens. He said he would help me decorate and we will make a home. He again asked me to please come “home”. But to me it doesn’t feel like home there anyway. I feel very empty and tired. I have been sleeping most of the day. I feel guilty but also a little bit relieved if that makes sense.I don’t know if I actually want back if he does all that. Idk I am a little unsteady right now. I need some time to proces. I will go back for the kitchen supplies and my tv. I won’t take anything else of the furniture. This for the exact same reason I was unwilling to buy everything: his house is huge so the couch is huge … I can’t take it. Update2 Jul 04 2023 (1 month later) Hi everybody. Let me just say I am overwhelmed by the number of people really caring about me and asking for updates. Strangers who care about you is a feeling like no other thank you! So as I said I left. I am looking for an apartment I can afford. My parents are helping out. I am living with them and saving up. I am not closing all doors but as for now we are broken up. I have no contact. The first week he transferred a large amount to my account. It really rubbed me the wrong way. It just showed me that he still thought that money was what kept me here. I deducted the couch I left and transferred everything else back I asked for no contact after this. He has been respectful of it and I feel free at the moment. I felt guilty for my needs. For wanting to be taken out every once and a while. The longer I am out the harder I realize it was abuse. I have an autoimmunity problem and the cold house caused it to flare up. Even after that he kept turning the heat down. He rather have me miserable than pay what? 100 dollars extra in the end of the year? The last thing I heard is that he put the palace of sadness on the market. I have seen the adds so happy he is going through with that. I heard of his sister that he is in therapy. I am happy for that and I hope he keeps that up! He is keeping his promises so far but I need to see real change and even then I really don’t know. I am building my own life by myself. Thinking about getting a puppy. If I give him another shot. It has to start all from scratch. I want to start dating again and take it slow. Therapy is really a good idea. I now know I was just bringing this on myself as a people pleaser. Savior… wanting this man to be happy so bad I forgot about myself. Never again. So that is all there is to say really RELEVANT COMMENTS gurlwithdragontat2 Best of luck! Please never forget your worth again, because others will shortchange you if so.* OOP True! I allowed this from day one and let him play his fantasy revenge on me. The red flags were there so early. Loving ourselves is the key to a happy life ~ ​ SummerFlip My question is, did you previously communicate your feelings before just ending it? Did you wait until you stopped loving him?* OOP I did. Multiple times. I had a few break downs where I told him I was unhappy especially when my autoimmunity disease just kicked into high gear I told him I was done being cold. Then the discussions started about what is cold and I had to negotiate a temperature setting he was okay with , he would still turn it down behind my back. The curtains were just the last straw for me. He was giddy and happy about all other changes I made to his home with my money I thought it would not be so weird to ask him to pitch in right? I had done so much, sacrificed so much and he still blew up at me? What kind of golddigger pays for everything for 3 years? If I was one I was really bad at it So yes I communicated, over and over and nothing changed. I am pretty shocked he is actually doing something right now but honestly I think it is a little too late. I don’t want to shut the door completely but I will never ever be cold in my life ever again Financially abusive fiancé : It’s over for good, my final update Sep 21 2023 (3 months after OG post) Thank you for everyone reaching out to me. I have closed in on a little apartment for myself. I got a puppy. After being in a home where I was truly loved: my parents I realized how sad, cold and alone I had been. Over time I went blind for a lot of things. Blind to a comfortable home temperature. Comfortable with thinking about every penny spend. Feeling guilty for buying that dress I wanted for so long that was finally on sale. Feeling entitled for wanting date nights… being treated sometimes. I started to think about what makes me happy. I love to travel, dress up to go to a nice restaurant. Throw dinner parties, entertain people, think about Christmas gifts 6 months in advance. Have a cosy house…. And I realized just how much he had taken from me with that one little sentence: is that really necessary… Is anything ever? If you have a roof, food, bed and a TV you are there right? Is travel necessary? Is having nice clothes necessary? Is a shower necessary? A haircut? A party? A hobby? A wedding? No! I know now that abusers are not per definition bad people. He is broken and he has trauma I have no time or energy for. He got free from abuse and decided to become the abuser. I know he is in therapy and we initially agreed on 6 months no to low contact. But I felt I was certain it was not for me anymore and I didn’t want to keep him dangling. Breaking up with him was very hard. It made me very sad. I never wanted to hurt him and I loved this man very deeply. I wanted us to be each others happy ever after. We both came from dark places and I wanted us to thrive together. His family told me I was the one, I was everything he was looking for and I felt so lucky. But we only have 1 life and he has so much work to do before he even becomes the bear minimum of what I needed. I feel failed. Like my story has a bad ending. I feel very broken and sad. I will take my time to just be me. I hope he does the same. I truly hope he finds the one and becomes happy. Mostly I hope that for myself but for now I am enough by my self with the pupper! Thank you all for your time and support. I am going to have a little cry in some furbaby’s fluffy fur RELEVANT COMMENTS NolaCat94 This is so far from a bad ending. A bad ending would've been staying until nothing was left of you. A bad ending would've been him bleeding you dry and you being stuck. You put yourself first and that will always be good. And to add to the positivity, this is probably the kick he needed to get past his trauma.* OOP I think you are spot on. He has said these things himself. He didn’t know how bad he was until he came home to me leaving. He has told me he hates himself for letting me walk and letting me be this miserable. He is in therapy ( as far as I know because I am No contact ) and I hope he does well. I really felt once I was out how much of myself was lost. I went through quite a dark time realizing how far I went for this man. But I am getting better. ~ ZestyLemonAsparagus It does feel like a sad ending, I get the sadness of knowing the magical ending wasn’t going to happen, of the hope that he would see the light and make the changes he needed to in order to make you feel valued. But at the end of the day it’s a happy ending as well, you have a puppy who loves you and he demonstrated through his anger that he still holds his values of stinginess higher than he holds you, so you don’t have to wonder. This really, really feels like the ending of Inside Out, where a core memory comes in and it is a mix of Joy and Sadness. And sadness isn’t bad, sadness helps us remember what is important. You are important. I’m happy for you that you have been able to connect with the things that bring you joy, and surrounded yourself with them.* But… please stay open. I know you have joked that you are fine being single forever, and if that is the course of your life, then that’s all well and good. Being single doesn’t mean lonely as you truly know while you entertain in your apartment. Guard yourself against become a version of your ex in the same way he became a version of his ex, not that you would abuse others but that you would abuse yourself by closing yourself off from people to keep yourself safe. You deserve that joy, and all the happiness in the world.* OOP Thank you. I will be open to someone again but only when it comes out of a place of “ wow this person is something else” not interested in anything else. I know now I ran past several red flags just because this man could give me the life I dreamed of. Married, nice house, some kids. A life with no worries … but he was not that man. He has send me letters upon letters how sorry he is, taking accountability. But I can’t anymore. I just don’t want to try again. I hope he does well for himself. He is in therapy and doing his best. I hope he is happy one day. I just don’t want to be part of it anymore. So yes it is no Disney ending. But it is also not my ending. It is a real beginning ~ Ok-Act-8736 He’s now taking accountability? Last time he was angry at you for not respecting what je can do with his money* OOP Yep he is very sorry about that. He doesn’t know why reacted like that. He is ashamed about it. Money suddenly doesn’t matter to him anymore. These are all things in his texts letters and phone calls. But it has been a while since I have had contact with him. Even if he changes a lot now… my question is : why couldn’t he do that then. I got sick, when I got sad and told him I was unhappy… why can he only change when he is in pain because I left? That says it all. I really hope he finds himself and that he will be happy in the future but I don’t want to be part of it anymore Some things that kept me on my path during leaving my abusive relationship Dec 26, 2023 (4 months since last update) I was in a financially abusive relationship. With enough time passing now I am more comfortable with the word abuse. I fought it for a long time because he did not scream at me, hit me or called me names. He just used triangulation and the image of his abusive ex to use my own kindness against myself and to get me to fall in line. Spend my limited savings into furniture, luxuries and nights out for a goddamn multi millionaire just to have some comfort in life. Constantly trying to prove I was no gold digger by having 0 needs, living in a cold house and buy him everything he could ever want. I never lived a impoverished existence then when I was with a person who actually had loads of money. More than I could possibly comprehend. When I left I really struggled to keep at it. I was so scared to go at life by myself. To actually have to pinch Pennie’s. He kept telling me what I wanted to hear for so long. Went into therapy, begged me to come back. It digged into my resolve. Made me doubt if I was making a mistake. A few things made me go on: My colleagues who are more friends than coworkers who knew all my stories into details hugged me and told me they were so proud of me for leaving. Their feeling was so authentic it rubbed off on me. I was also proud I left and I couldn’t let them and me down by going back My boss once passed my office when I was working late and he said:” Never give men second chances! They never change. You deserve someone who gets it right from the start.” I don’t know what prompted him to say this to me but it stuck with me. My trainer who knows some stories said to me: you gave everything to get less then nothing back ! It is like me getting a 100 bucks from you and to repay you I’ll take another 100 bucks from your wallet! why would you want to take that deal again? He has a debt with you he can’t repay and I don’t mean cash. I mean emotional energy, love and kindness. I read somewhere: don’t wake up in the same miserable place 10 years from now because you feared the change you have to make today. That hit me very hard. I have bought my own apartment. I felt like a poor little mouse being surrounded by people who make my monthly wage in a few days! But the fact is I have a very good job. I earn far above average. I am able to have a nice place, nicely furnished. And I can even support a puppy. I live by myself but feel endlessly more warmth then in a relationship. I love myself way more. I am not riddled with guilt over wanting to have a cozy house. Go out for dinner sometimes. I am so happy I dragged myself out of this relationship. I kept at it and moved on. Keep going. One foot in front of the other. It is hard but you can do this! I am proud of you! OOP Updared in the comments Apr 9, 2024 (4 since last update) The money is gone. I am not going to get that back or fight for it. I even had to block him because at some point he got petty and wanted me to pay rent for the time I lived with him so no way I was opening that discussion. Whatever… lesson learned . I may look poor compared to millionaires but I am doing fine. The sister and I did get along for a while. We share a hobby and talked about that. But recently I have been official and out in the open with my new boyfriend and she struggles with this. Maybe she was hoping it would still work out or something I don’t know. But she has been one a lot colder. This man… wow! People say never settle because there is better out there for you… I never believed it. Honestly I was ready to be a crazy dog lady for the rest of my life. I was enjoying being single. My friends urged me to start dating just to get the hang of it… he was my 3rd date. I went against my will and was 100% not into it but when I saw him in real life…omg sparks flew like never before ! I am in my thirties so you would have thought experienced it all… but this??? Wow He is everything my ex was not. He is kind and caring. Cooks me dinner. Gets flustered but is grateful for gifts he gets. He treats me to dinners. Will not even allow me to go Dutch on it. He has planned and booked dates and trips months in advance even before we were well and good official. Buys me gifts! He is not as wealthy as my ex. But he makes a good living. His income is comparable to mine but he treats me like a queen. And between me and you ( and all redditors that dig this deep in the comments) the love making is INSANE ! I guess giving people give everywhere freely. So please take away to never settle! Ever ! Trust the process babe! RELEVANT COMMENTS ConditionBig6373 I hope you told him off! After the abuse you suffered he should shit his mouth and be grateful you didn't sue him for emotional distress! OOP Too much energy to waste on a man who wasted so much already. I just never want to see him again. I hope he finds the help he needs and I hope he becomes a happy person but I do not want to be anywhere near him. I am so happy with my current boyfriend. I don’t understand how I fought for so long to keep this man. NEW UPDATES * Update in the comments of the previous post July 15, 2025 (nearly 16 months later) He is so far in my rear view mirror I really don’t care. But you are spot on. Honestly looking back he kept getting worse and worse and I think at some point he got off on how I was running out of money and his pile of money got bigger and bigger. Giving him controle over me. He sold the house. That is what I know. He and his sister fell out. Her social media profile picture is one of us … which I think is pretty funny. He is still single. Meanwhile I am absolutely head over heels with my partner. We both had major promotions at work. We will never be multimillionaires as we don’t have generational wealth. But I live in a warm house, furnished. We go on trips, we go out on dates. Our money is pooled. I live a wealthy loving life… while he still hords his money living in squalor … I never told anyone this because I was afraid to be recognized… also afraid to be judged further because I saw their abuse and did too little. But he has kids with his ex. These kids are being abused. Sleeping on broken beds, getting cheap toys, cheap trips on holiday. He never does anything fun with them. They also sleep in the cold moldy house. I was also paying for toys for them. Trips for them. I fought so many times over those kids. I also stayed longer because of them. They were such grateful and sweet kids. It also makes me doubt some of the stories about his ex. She is a great mom, and I feel sad she has to leave her kids with that man ( he was just a weekend warrior) Now that I admit this. I feel again so weird about staying so long. I recognized the abuse in the kids, but not in myself. So I hope he did stay in therapy. I hope he is better for their sake. I hope they are okay. Final Update July 22, 2025 (Nearly 16 months after last update) Editors Note: OOP's posts were shared to a YouTube channel so OOP made an update to that channels Reddit page Fun fact Charlotte, I was a fan of yours, that is why I brought my relationship issues to Reddit, Reddit changed my life and now my story was featured on your show! Full circle First off , that was such a weird experience. I listen to you when I do the boring work things … and I was like” huh… wow so similar to my ssst… hold up! “ Also your team went like 12 comment layers deep to find my confession about how amazing the love making is with my partner. Omg blush Reddit saved my life, but I went to Reddit because of hearing you tell these stories. I never realized how my story resonated with others. I mean it when I say that I would have never found the bravery to break it up without having Reddit in my ear telling me “ this is not normal!!” It is weird to hear it all back. Hear how chaotic I was and how I still believed deep down he was not abusive. But also remembering just how unhappy, cold and alone I felt back then. It was confronting to see/hear that up close again. Once I took the jump a lot of friends and coworkers told me I was brave. That they were proud of me. I don’t see it as a failure anymore. I see it as one of my biggest triumphs! It looks easy from a post to leave. But it is not. I do urge everyone who finds themselves dreading to go home, sad and alone in a relationship where they are the only ones who are trying to change anything, begging for bear minimum treatment… to please do the hard thing. Easy choices, hard life. Hard choices, easy life! Me and my partner bought a house together. We are still extremely happy. After our first date I texted my best friend: I am marrying this guy, if he asks me tomorrow I’m running to the church. This relationship feels like a movie! And we are beyond the limerance phase, this is real. The puppy is no longer a little pupsy but a big boy. He is in love with my partner. That is his favorite person. So my dog and I fell in love with the same person. I never shared pics of him because I didn’t want to be identified. But my gosh that seems to be a crime! I will add some. RELEVANT COMMENTS RemarkableMousse6950 I remember your story and worrying about you and your big heart. I’m SO HAPPY to read this update! Congratulations and keep living your best life! OOP Thank you so much! I am wildly happy. My partner is my dream and I am his and we are both so grateful to have found each other. Thinking about still being in that place… oomph that would be a nightmare OOP made this comment to a post about receiving a letter from an ex AIO or is this letter my ex sent AI? Aug 9, 2025 Fun fact. I recently discovered I had an unread message from my ex in a mailbox I never use. It got lost in spam and I only found it because I was looking for a mail of his sister so I typed her last name. It was a longwinded apology and how our relationship broke down but he blamed me still and so far out I couldn’t fathom how I would fall I deleted it. I did not even read it completely. Silence is the best answer. He just wanted the last useless word. What does this thing even say? 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