Clothes

... we can take each others clothes off to feel exposed and...

... same bedrooms. Hand me down clothes. Laundry on the clothesline. And...

... came home with all clean clothes. I do not think 11...

... moving to pack up my clothes, food, and baby gifts and...

never heard of it, so I guess never When was the last time you wore formal clothes?

... hair, thin hips and baggy clothes a good 10 years younger...

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My ex-wife has our child every weekend and I have them during the week. I make more than my ex and I make it a point to have nice clothes for our child at our house. I have primary custody so no child support is paid to her I’ll call my ex Jenn and my kid, Alex. When I pick up Alex form Jenn apartment, I wash the clothes they were wearing and sent them back to Jenn when she sees Alex on the weekend. Usually put them in Alex’s backpack. They are not great clothes, kinda cheap or really worn. My issues started when Alex’s clothes that they are wearing when I drop them off a Jenn would disappear. I didn’t really notice it at the beginning but when the closet started to get empty I noticed. I asked Jenn where the clothes were going, and if she could sent them back. It caused so many problems. She went to her lawyer and claimed they were her clothes that she bought and I have no right to them. I had to pull out all my receipts of me buying them. It was a whole thing which cost wayyyy too much money because our lawyers were involved. In the end she was told to return the clothes. After that I have been dressing our child in the clothes she sent him to me in ( which don’t look the best) or in thrift clothes that I don’t care about disappearing. I got a text about how I am cruel for doing this and I should just let her keep Alex’s clothes I sent him in because I make more money. I told Jenn if she wants nicer clothes to go buy some ( she has the money, she makes decent money). I find it ridiculous that she tried to steal his whole closet when she makes choices to go on vacation instead of buying nice clothes for our kid I was ranting to my sister and she called me petty and to just give her some clothes. Should I? ———————- any common questions edit: Alex doenst care I have asked. (11, my kid told me when it’s time to head home the only clothes are the crappy ones. The ones he put to get washed just vanish). Example nice coat he wore everywhere, time to head back it wasn’t there and jenn rushed him out the door without a coat. Sometimes they show up again sometimes not at the house Alex just said that he won’t go to school in those types of clothes which is fine becuase Alex doenst. I get Alex back before Monday school. Jenn drops him off at 8 on Sunday. Also it’s not like Alex is going out on the weekend to see friends becuase Jenn refuses to drive alex that is why Alex couldn’t do the sport he wanted because Jenn refused to drive him to weekend practices or games ( completely different issue) yes I am trying to get full custody we wouldn’t be here if she was just normal and set back clothes what happens to the clothes, some stayed at the house, some were giving to family or sold online, others came back damaged ( don’t know if they were messed up before or after she was told to give them back) submitted by /u/Clothes_Care3181 to r/AmItheAsshole [link] [comments]

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These animals look Menacing, They could even eat us if they wanted to, And they would actually be justified, we hunted them to the verge of extinction, yet when they see us, they dont attack or swim away, they are curious and gentle. submitted by /u/AggravatingRow326 to r/TheDepthsBelow [link] [comments]

I am NOT the Original Poster. That is clothesindrawers. She posted in r/AmItheAsshole This was originally posted as a BORU here (in August 2020 by u/bestupdator) and here (June 2021 by u/almostselfrealised). As a side note- it's cool to see how BORU formatting has changed! Trigger Warnings: undiagnosed OCD; controlling behavior Mood Spoiler: hopeful ending Original Post: June 18, 2020 So I’ve always been kind of a neat freak mom the entire time my kids have been alive. I always expect their rooms to be clean, and I check their drawers/closets/storage bins to make sure they don’t just shove stuff in there to make the room appear clean. The kids (16, 13, 9, and 6) are all responsible for putting away their laundry, and my oldest two are responsible for folding their own clothes. Which bothers me because my 13 year old folds his clothes in a way that bothers me, he rolls them up instead of properly folding them. Ever since the kids have been home and have more free time, I am more strict about the way they put away their clothes. I expect their clothes to be folded a certain way and organized in a certain way in their drawers. I read from a mommy blogger a few years ago, that when her kid’s drawers weren’t organized she would make a mess for them to organize the right way. I considered it for a few years, but now that the kids are old enough, I think it’s the way to go for us. I havent had to do this until yesterday, I walked into my 16 year old’s room while she was Facetiming her boyfriend, and saw her basket of laundry that needed to be folded and out of curiosity, opened her drawers, and saw she has shoved her clothes in there. I started making a mess and she screamed “Mom why?” and I told her she knew why. After that I walked out of her room, she explained to her boyfriend what I did and he says “Your mom’s fucking crazy bruh” and I peek my head into her room, give her a look, and she ends the call with him and breaks down crying. I told my husband what happened, he told me “I knew said you were gonna do that but I didn’t know you would actually follow through.” This morning I woke up to a note on my daughter’s door saying “Until mom can get mental help, I’m staying with Aunt (my sister’s name)” I texted her, no response. I tried contacting my sister, who said she has no plans to return until I “get mental help and stop being such a controlling bitch” My husband, sister, and mom are all against me in this which hurts. I don’t think it harmed my daughter, it benefits her and helps her stay organized. Some of OOP's Comments: [Editor's note: all of OOP's comments are downvoted heavily] Deleted: YTA there’s better ways to teach your kids, maybe read up on techniques to properly do this. But also explain you want them to learn to be clean and organized versus being (and excuse me) b***chy, I feel this could have been approached better. Make amends ASAP and find better ways to get your point across. Otherwise your kids will learn to hate you and not want to talk to you. Again YTA OOP: However I don’t appreciate her telling her aunt I’m a bitch To a deleted commenter: Of course I want her to be independent but she needs to learn to follow directions no matter how silly she thinks they seem Jaycro123: [...] Second, do you really not see how embarrassing that is? I'm sure if your mom pulled that same shit in front of your friends or boyfriend at that age you'd be pissed [...] OOP: Well her boyfriend is like family to us and knows how I can be so she shouldn’t feel so embarrassed madman636: YTA take a look at yourself bc I doubt this is the only thing that made her leave. You most likely have a pattern of being controlling and This was just the last straw. The way you decided to act was more akin to a child than an adult. You made a mess bc you didn’t get your way. That’s moronic OOP: I didn’t make a mess because I didn’t get my way, I made a mess for her own benefit. And she’s normally very organized and clean and picks up after herself, so this was abnormal to see AppellofmyEye: YTA- your daughter’s bf is right. Get some therapy to figure out why it’s so important for you to control unimportant minutiae before it further damages your relationship with your family. OOP: I’ve never had any problems with my family other than this, me and my daughter usually have a great relationship Top Comment: Deleted: YTA You know who acts like this?? Marine Corps Drill Instructors. Why? To mentally f*** with recruits. This is not okay within the family unit. Its insane that you think it’s okay to control how your kids fold their clothes in their drawers. OOP is voted YTA almost unanimously Update Post: August 14, 2020 (almost 2 months later) Almost 2 months ago I made a post on here about me throwing my daughter’s clothes onto the drawer when they weren’t folded neatly. Well that post really blew up, people on Twitter also chimed in. Well the night I made the post, I was still in serious denial. I replied to some comments and my denial was perfectly clear for everyone to see. The day after I read some more comments and messages I received from everyone. I resorted to the guest room and cried for hours. I read some people tell me that their moms were similar to me and they no longer have relationships with them. That was truly my worst fear, I seriously love my kids more than anything on this planet even if my actions don’t always show it. I booked a virtual appointment with a phycologist, who diagnosed me with OCD and let me know she would help me. I have since had about 8 sessions with her and she has been a big help. Of course I still have a long way to go but I have been noticing some improvements already. As for my daughter, she stayed at my sister’s house and came home a few days later after I told her that there would be major improvements made in my behavior. I sat all the kids down and told them that I have the resources to not be such an overbearing asshole to them anymore. One thing I do want to address is the fact that I was usually controlling with my kids, but the incident I wrote about was the one that sent both me and my daughter over the edge. Me and her are on much better terms. I want to thank Reddit for waking me the hell up to become a better mom and wife. I also want to apologize to anyone who I brought back bad memories to. I want to have relationships with my children until we all grow old and I know so many of you guys don't have that, which breaks my heart but also hearing your stories gave me a big change of heart and are helping me fix my relationships and become a better person. submitted by /u/LucyAriaRose to r/BestofRedditorUpdates [link] [comments]