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Biggest commission of my career just got cancelled after I spent weeks working on it. Yogurt bowl and oil paints.
This massive canvas has been living on my dining table for weeks because I just moved and don’t have a better set up yet. So yeah. Coconut-based yogurt with a banana and dark chocolate, eaten directly on top of the painting. Got the cancellation this morning, mid-highlights, and just kind of… kept painting. I figure the upside is that I now get to make some footage for my socials, since the buyer wanted to keep this work private. This isn’t my first cancellation and it won’t be my last, but something about this one stings in a specific way I haven’t fully processed yet. Maybe because it’s the largest thing I’ve made in a while and I was really counting on the income. Maybe because the dogs are beautiful and I’ve spent weeks learning their faces. Anyway. The painting still exists. That’s the strange thing about making physical objects: they don’t care about intent or that they’ll never get to exist in the same room as the creatures they were based on. If anyone wants a borzoi, apparently I have two. EDIT: Ya’ll are amazing. So much kindness, good advice and even people reaching out to support me with their wallets..! Women-centric communities are truly the best ❤️ submitted by /u/ElleMontrose to r/GirlDinnerDiaries [link] [comments]
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r/GirlDinnerDiaries |
ElleMontrose |
Jun 2, 2026 |
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My fine dining restaurant I serve at is making us do table side martinis for EVERY martini. Please chime in. I hate it.
I work at a restaurant in Florida that’s relatively new at a member’s only golf resort. While the upper company executives were thinking of how service would look, one of the higher executives proposed table side martinis for every martini that’s just your basic vodka/gin plus vermouth (or no vermouth) martini. We’ve been open for about a year and we haven’t implemented it yet, much to his annoyance. He visits every couple weeks, and because the application of it is just so time consuming and lacks monetary incentive for servers to want to provide it (it’s like a 2 dollar up charge), we havent committed fully to it. Basically, whenever the guest orders a vodka or gin martini, we’re supposed to let the bartender (who already could be swamped with other things) fill up separate little containers for the spirit and the ice needed to shake it, and leave it on the service well for us to take and put on this big, cumbersome (yet beautiful, I admit) bar cart that we have to then stop whatever we’re doing in our own flow and slowly and awkwardly wheel it out to their table. Then we put the ice in the shaker, add olive juice or vermouth if they want, and shake in front of their table. If other people have ordered drinks that aren’t martinis - sorry pal, you’re outta luck, cuz I’ve had to take an extra few minutes to set up this freakin cart and make a show of shaking your liquor in front of you before I have an opportunity to check whether the bartender has made and dropped my drinks off at the service well — which they might even be dying at that moment. So even if it’s one person out of 8 that wants a martini, they have to wait while that one person gets singled out for an experience they didn’t ask for, for a drink that took way longer than necessary, just because some exec wants to feel validated for being part of the creative process by having us include his idea in his idea of a fine-dining experience. I love the attitude and passion for it — but the proposed implementation has so many holes that he doesn’t see because I don’t think he’s never managed a restaurant before, and he’s never there during our service anyway for longer than an hour (usually to dine) to see the natural rhythm of everything. I need your help with either: a) coming up with ideas for what to say to the upper execs in order for them to feel like we’re in a really rough position right now to commit to this — and the only people who would be benefitting is the odd guest who says “oh wow, neat!”, while everyone else (guests and service workers) suffer cuz it’s “mr. Executive’s baby” (let alone the fact that it’s just tacky the way we’re supposed to do it, in my opinion) Or b) helping me put some sort of plan together to make it as easy as possible to implement that would please both him and our servers/guests. A little extra info: I’ve already proposed the idea that we make it its own item on the menu, like “tableside martini service” that has a very specific price attached to it and would entice us to want to offer it as part of an upsell (while we’re slow, of course). We tried that for like a week but he didn’t let us know that it was now on our menus so by the end of the week when no one had still ordered a tableside martini, it just looked like we weren’t offering it. So now he’s decided to make us do them that way for ALL vodka/gin martinis — without upcharging. I can’t tell you how much I hate this idea. Plz help. Edit: I made a few grammatical changes submitted by /u/latentbeing to r/bartenders [link] [comments]
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r/bartenders |
latentbeing |
Feb 6, 2026 |
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Got the marketplace dining set in my place!
I think it’s even more beautiful than I had imagined after seeing it in my dining room. The only listing for the chairs I could find online was a set of 6 selling for $4.8k. We got 8, and I like the orange upholstery of ours much better than the ones listed online. And the table seems to be listed for upwards of $3k online without the custom glass top we got with our set. Altogether I paid $3k and that feels very reasonable to me. Now I need to decide what to make for dinner tonight so I can really enjoy it for the first time. I’m thinking risotto Milanese! submitted by /u/FloydtheBetta to r/Mid_Century [link] [comments]
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r/Mid_Century |
FloydtheBetta |
Jan 16, 2026 |
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1 bedroom apt. Got rid of my dining table, finally joined the PC sim racing club …
In May I bought a ps5, started GT7 on controller. Few weeks later got a cockpit and wheel setup in the middle of my living room. Here we are in June and I sold my dining table and got an g9 ultra wide on offer up for $500, bought stand, moved my desktop pc out of my room into here and I just can’t stop now. I really really want more upgrades already, next is pedals. I’m gonna chill for a little. Going to decorate this little area maybe a shelf w some small race cars & semi trucks because I drive for a living. Few little art pieces. Definitely definitely wish I just spent a little more on a better cockpit from the get go, but didn’t know I was gonna fully commit like this Ps. Gotta clean up the wires and such too, barely set it all up submitted by /u/rafaelvicario to r/simracing [link] [comments]
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r/simracing |
rafaelvicario |
Jun 23, 2025 |
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AITAH For kicking an autistic child out of my restaurant for misbehaving?
My Name is Gina, 55 F from upstate New York, and I run a family owned pizzeria. My husband and I have been in the service industry for decades and over the past few years, We've noticed a huge increase in rude customers, rude children and a crazy level of entitlement. One of the rules we have in our restaurant is that nobody is allowed to talk on speaker phone, play music out loud or have anything playing on speaker from a personal device. This is such a simple request and something that has always been the standard. This was not even an issue or something that needed to be said before the pandemic. But now it seems parents feel attacked if their children cannot watch Bluey on volume. We have signs up asking people not to do this and we actually do enforce this rule (politely but firmly) A few weeks ago, a woman was sitting with her 9 year old son who was watching cartoons on his tablet at full volume, while also scrolling tiktok on a phone. I nicely explained to the woman that we do not allow this, as it is disruptive to other customers and asked her to please turn off the volume. The woman rudely replied that her son has both ADHD and autism so he needs to do this in order to sit down without making a fuss. I asked if she could please use headphones and she snapped that her son does not like to use them. I told her that this is not acceptable and to please either use headphones or set his devices to silent. About 10 minutes later, I was in the kitchen and heard loud banging noises coming from the dining room. I came out to find the child furiously banging his fists on the table while the mom just sat there ignoring it. It was almost as if he was waiting for her to say something but she did nothing. I asked her to please stop him and she replied that he is on the spectrum and this is just his "normal behavior" if he doesn't have a device to calm him down. The boy then stood up and started running around my restaurant, punching and kicking the other tables and chairs, and knocking things over. Another customer yelled at the mom to "CONTROL YOUR KID OR I WILL!" She launched into a what sounded like a pre rehearsed monologue about how autistic children deserve to occupy the same spaces as everyone else. I agree with this, but everyone still needs to behave appropriately. I told the woman that if she could not get her son's behavior under control that she needs to leave. She was furious and stared yelling about how it is illegal to discriminate against people who are on the spectrum and that she would report me. My husband came out, put her food into a togo box and just said to her "get out right now!" She looked genuinely shocked and said that kids should not be expected to just sit quietly and that the world needs to be more accepting of those who are different. I love kids, my husband and I raised 5 of them, even one with special needs. But autism or not, nothing gives you the right to behave this way in any setting. If your child's issues are so severe that simply sitting in a restaurant without a device makes them freak out and throw a tantrum, then maybe reconsider taking them there in the first place. I'm tired of rude kids and lazy parents who embolden them to behave this way, refusing to discipline them or set any kind of rules or boundaries. This is not about ADHD, autism, or any other condition. This is about entitlement, bad parenting and bad behavior as a result. Am I the asshole? submitted by /u/Mammoth_Mission_818 to r/AITAH [link] [comments]
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r/AITAH |
Mammoth_Mission_818 |
May 14, 2025 |
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A set of three modified Hank chairs for my dining room table
I built one of Jory Brighams Hank chairs with the plans from the Wood Whisperer and my wife loved the design but wanted it narrower are less like a lounge chair for the table. So I thinned the dimensions and made a set of three. All were made with number two common black walnut and classic tobacco leather for the seats. I’m very happy with how they turned out and it was a fun challenge to modify a design and remove design elements to create a piece that functions differently while still keeping the signature elements of the original. submitted by /u/DannyFooteCreations to r/woodworking [link] [comments]
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r/woodworking |
DannyFooteCreations |
Feb 9, 2025 |
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Mother forces vegan me to eat steak & kidney pie. Projectile purging commenced over dining table
EDITED TO ADD for those questioning the projectile vomiting. I was not an ethical vegan at that age. I vomited as an infant when I was given meat. I was nauseated sitting down to eat. The nausea ramped up looking at the damned pie. You have no idea how dreadful it looks. It also had a strong smell. I was primed to vomit before anything hit my mouth Our family took a trip over the mountains, driving behind those terrifying logging trucks to visit my dad’s uncle and aunt (I mention mountains and logging trucks to set the scene for already being nauseated) My great aunt went out of her way to cook a special lunch. Problem was that as usual my mother refused to tell her that my brother and I were vegan The special lunch was steak & kidney pie. Americans are lucky that they have no idea of the horror I’m talking about. The kidneys were cut in half and had the most hideous look and texture When I insisted I would just eat the veg, my mother was all. “Nonsense. You love steak & kidney pie. Give her a double helping Aunt Anne”. I warned my mother that if she forced me to eat it I would vomit. She didn’t believe me I ate my vegetables and placed my knife and fork indicating I was done eating despite the double helping of the horror on my plate. My mother, in all her (not) gentle parenting ways started pinching me to force me to eat. I was so annoyed. I put one forkful into my mouth and that was enough to start a vomiting jag - all over my mother! When I told my great aunt that it wasn’t her cooking but that I had never eaten meat, she laid into my mother too. submitted by /u/DogLvrinVA to r/traumatizeThemBack [link] [comments]
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r/traumatizeThemBack |
DogLvrinVA |
Nov 13, 2024 |
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$650 for a $1600 9 piece dining set - thanks asterisk!
Went in to return some recalled meat and took a quick pass through the outer aisles. We were able to conclude our dining table hunt with no question once we saw the price. Looked it up on the app to see if shipping was available and saw that it was $1600 everywhere else! submitted by /u/makingausernameok to r/Costco [link] [comments]
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r/Costco |
makingausernameok |
Mar 3, 2024 |
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Were you taught to set a table as a child?
My husband and i had a clash of upbringing this evening. I was cooking and i asked my hubby to "set the table" i finished up and walked into the dining room to see him standing there looking confused, had no clue what i was talking about and tried to tell me what i did growing up was not normal and not common knowledge. submitted by /u/Guilty-Chemistry-404 to r/NoStupidQuestions [link] [comments]
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r/NoStupidQuestions |
Guilty-Chemistry-404 |
Jul 21, 2023 |
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What's happening with all these big wooden dining sets the boomers are leaving behind?
Just wondering y'all. You know the ones I'm talking about, big clunky wooden dining table with the removable leaf in the middle, tall brown wood chairs with sort of velvety fabric seat/back cushion and matching tall brown wood hutch with 4 glass doors holding the cherished collectibles or dishes/glassware no one was ever allowed to use. Mom had one, grandma had one, all the aunts had them back in the 70's/80's/90's. I've been offered the one from my grandmother (93), husband's grandmother, husband's mom and 2 aunts in the last year and now my mom (72) is downsizing and asking me if I want hers. First of all, I live in an apartment. There is absolutely no space for a giant 6 seater dining table & big chairs with a matching large hutch. 2nd I do not own extra fancy plates I never use or crystal glasses that come out once a year or little breakable chochskis that one would need to fill this wooden monstrosity. I've turned down so many of these sets lately, it got me thinking. These elderly women can't seem to find anyone in their 30's/40's who will take these sets and the ones who have tried to sell online haven't had any takers. The few cousins who have been lucky enough to get a house do not want this style of furniture. I feel bad for my mom and these women who love their stuff so dearly and don't understand why the younger generation doesn't want it. So what's going to happen to all this boomer & older furniture? Are any of you taking it or what are your parents/grandparents doing with theirs? Edit: Wow I can't believe how many comments this has! I'm learning so much from these responses. I guess I was thinking about my family, we're all immigrants so nothing is real handed down for generations type stuff, no antiques, it was all made in the 80's. Perhaps if my family had more history behind the stuff maybe it would have more value to my generation and someone would want to save it. It seems for us what happened is the older half of our generation bought houses and furnished them before the older generation was ready to give up their stuff and now that the olds are moving on and want to pass down the stuff the younger of our generation cannot afford homes with the space for it. Regardless of our situation, it's truly heartwarming to read some of these comments from people who genuinely want and appreciate their ancestors treasured possessions. submitted by /u/Jenergy77 to r/AskWomenOver30 [link] [comments]
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r/AskWomenOver30 |
Jenergy77 |
May 15, 2023 |
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I intentionally threw up all over my great aunt's dining table.
I'm a 17 year old girl and I am allergic to shellfish. My reactions are not life threatening but I do throw up almost immediately. My great aunt (dad's aunt) is one of those geniuses who think food allergies are not real and people who claim to have the are "just trying to get attention". I usually avoid her because she's a moron. But this weekend, my little brother and I had go to her place along with our parents. My dad dropped us off and then went off to pick up my mom from work. Many of our cousins, aunts, uncles were there too. GA (Great Aunt) had an entire table full of food laid out. Among them were fried mussels. My brother, cousins and I snacked on some other goodies as we chatted. I avoided the mussels, of course. GA approach me and asked me to try the mussels. I said no. She asked again. I said "no, I'm allergic". GA got mad. She told me I was a spoiled little brat. And that my parents needed to smack me to set me straight. My brother is 14 but even he understands how allergies work. He tried to intervene and tell the crazy bitch why I couldn't eat them. She yelled at him too for being "disrespectful". I decided to give her what she was asking for. I smiled sweetly and said "ok, I'll try some." Before having a few mouthfuls of the mussels I stuffed my face with some other foods. A few minutes after the mussels went down my gullet I began feeling funny. But I didn't say anything. I waited for the puke party to begin. And soon it did. I began to vomit but instead of running to the bathroom I threw up right there on the dining table and on all the food GA had made. I also turned around and threw up on her nice expensive carpet. We know its expensive because she keeps talking about how expensive her furniture is. GA screamed the whole time. My brother yelled at her, calling her an idiot for making me eat the mussels. As the Puke/Scream fest was going on my parents arrived. My mom knew immediately what had happened and after giving me my medication, she and my dad tore GA a new asshole. My bother told them how GA had pressured me and I confirmed it. I even did some fake crying for extra effect. My eyes were already red so it wasn't hard. We left immediately and now GA has been banned from our home or from coming near my brother and I. My mom made it clear to her that if she did hell would be raised. I actually got something out of this horrible allergy. Lol Edit : Thank you so much for all your comments. Someone asked what GA's reaction to me throwing up and my parents chewing her out was. She looked like she didn't know what yo say. Now she trying to play the victim by claiming that my parents wre overreacting. That dumb bitch! 🤣🤣🤣 submitted by /u/MyNewRedditAccount37 to r/confessions [link] [comments]
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r/confessions |
MyNewRedditAccount37 |
Nov 29, 2021 |
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So the dinner table in RE7 looks just like my granny’s dining room table, down to the pattern on the side
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r/residentevil |
cairowednesday |
Jun 5, 2021 |
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We just found this mid-century dining set and it really brings the room together (Lawrence KS)
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r/AmateurRoomPorn |
MannyDantyla |
Apr 1, 2021 |
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All it took was a pandemic and a ton of down time, but I finally finished my full custom dining set. What do you guys think?
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r/woodworking |
smitty_was_here |
Jan 22, 2021 |
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The dining room set I made for my daughter. I milled the walnut and sweet gum trees myself. Epoxy free.
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r/woodworking |
brichar62 |
Dec 15, 2020 |
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The Dining Room Table & Chairs That Everyone Seemed to Have
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r/nostalgia |
2ezyo |
Aug 26, 2020 |
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New apartment, new dining room set-up! (Brooklyn, NY)
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r/AmateurRoomPorn |
littledog90 |
Jul 19, 2020 |
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Dining Room set = smoll pp
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r/PewdiepieSubmissions |
mc395686 |
Apr 19, 2020 |
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Solid oak dining table base I made, ready for finishing!
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r/woodworking |
lunacyyy |
Mar 30, 2020 |
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Remember Carson’s $30K Dining Room Set? Looks Like It Was An Illegal Purchase
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r/politics |
wonderingsocrates |
May 17, 2019 |
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From a set of shelves to a table
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r/oddlysatisfying |
SamaelV |
Apr 4, 2019 |
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I refinished my extremely gross mid century dining room table set
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r/DIY |
meredithkachel |
Jul 16, 2018 |