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This could all be chalked up to paranoia on my end and if you feel that is what this is, please do tell me. I will be the first to admit that I am not in a good head space (diagnosed postpartum depression AND postpartum rage). So, here goes.. I gave birth 5 weeks ago. I did not have a support system outside of my husband during this time. My mom lives across the country and all of my (5) siblings are with her. Half way through my delivery, while I was roughly 6.5 centimeters dilated and all but begging for the epidural, my MIL comes in to our delivery room uninvited and the nurses ask her if she is here to "support mom", and she goes "oh no, I am here to make sure MY baby has someone to hold him up" and instantly tries getting him to sit on the couch with her, telling him I was fine and that he needed to relax a bit (he was holding my hand and rubbing my back). He just ignores her completely and she eventually left. She came by unannounced to our home 3 days later and went on a tirade about how I needed to let the baby self soothe and how me constantly holding the baby was going to make her sons life miserable because I was creating a monster. My husband was not home at the time. I told her to leave several times, as she was now standing between me and my baby (who was UNBUCKLED in her swing, with it ON because my MIL literally just turned it on and stepped between me and my child before I could buckle her). My husband comes home, sees me flipping out and crying, and kicks his mom out (tells her to "f*ck right off and leave). She leaves with no problem. For the first 3ish weeks after this happened, my husband was acting completely normal. He apologized for his moms behavior several times and acted very, very guilty for having not been here to stop it before it got to that point. But otherwise, life went on normally and we fell in to learning our baby and parenthood. But about a week and a half ago he just started acting a bit off. Stopped talking as much. Looked super depressed/exhausted all the time. I finally got him to open up long enough to tell me that he missed his mom and felt guilty that she wasnt around to experience his first child (she has 7 other grandchildren, all of which she is a normal grandmother too and super loving and involved). He says he wants to invite her over and give her a chance to apologize. I just dont say anything. Mind you at this point I had already been diagnosed with PPD and PPR and mentally was just very, very not okay. So, I wanted to snap at this request but instead, I bit my tongue and asked him to give me a week. He said okay. Well, he didnt give me a week. She was at my house 2 days later. He swears he didnt invite her. I have no proof whether he did or didnt. But in his defense, he at least had the decency to act panicked, guilty and ask her why she was here. She told him that she wanted to come over and speak to me directly. She did apologize, saying that she was "just concerned" and that she had raised 4 kids and knew what she was doing and was just trying to give advice and hadnt realized it was such a sore subject. That was it. She didnt wait for me to respond, she just turned to my husband and asked him to go outdoors with her to "chit chat". She left an hour later. I was admittedly absolutely livid and told my husband that I asked him for a week and he just decided that he was going to do whatever he wanted anyways. He said it was "his f*cking life too" and that I was being selfish for not understanding his position. After that, I checked out honestly. I viewed him as absolutely repulsive. And that was amplified significantly because his mother has been here several times since that point. She has never once held the baby. She has never once asked how I was. She has never once even looked in my child's direction - other than a singular moment when she decided to snap a photo of me nursing and send that photo to the entire family, before telling me that I "should really cover up". I ignore her, she has otherwise ignored me. Fast forward to 3 days ago. My mom planned a surprise trip with all my siblings to come visit me and the baby for a week (hotel room, not staying here). But one of my siblings slipped up and accidentally said "I cant wait to see you" (shes 14) when I was on the phone with mom. So, I found out and was super stoked. I went to tell my husband and he asked when they would be here and I told him their flight lands tomorrow morning. He just instantly says "that doesnt work. Moms birthday is tomorrow and I planned a dinner for her." Maybe its my PPD/PPR talking but I snapped and said I "don't give a f*ck about your mother" and stated that he disrespected me time and time again by allowing that woman anywhere near me and that he can enjoy a dinner with his mom without me and the baby because I am going with my family. He argued that "his baby" had to be there for his moms birthday and I stood firm and said no. That woman has never once even held our child or shown interest in our child so no, the baby will be going with me. And he really had the nerve to say that I was "constantly choosing my family over him". A family that I havent seen in over a year. And followed it up with "I will just tell my mom she isnt welcome here anymore so you can get your way, per usual". So I said "good" and walked away. In the past 3 days we have not spoken. He has not spoken to my family, even when they try to talk to him (they all love and get along with him well - or did, up until now I guess). My mom has even asked me if he is alright or if he is also suffering from some form of PPD. So, I told my husband last night that if he can't act civil than he can go stay with his mother until my family leaves, because I am not going to be made to feel guilty for wanting to spend time with my family over a woman who consistently disrespects me. He didnt respond and went to bed (complete silent treatment). I am considering leaving him over this (again, maybe PPD/PPR, I dont know). AITA here at all? Update: I just wanted to give a little update on the past 2 days for those that are following this post. My family left last night and no, I did not go with them. Main reason being that I truly did not want my newborn on a plane, as the idea brings me far too much anxiety. However, I did speak to my husband. I told him that all of this was unacceptable. His silent treatments, him walking all over my boundaries AND him allowing his mother near me after all she had done. I told him if we couldn't find a compromise than I would be forced to look in to other living arrangements because I cannot handle his toxicity when I am healing. He deflected quite a bit in the beginning, asking why my boundaries are important but his are not. I asked what he meant and he said he apparently didnt want my family here around the baby because they "could have gotten her sick but instead of thinking about that or how I felt, you just did whatever you wanted". He never once told me he didnt want my family here - so, I told him that if he expects me to crawl up his ass to read his mind than he is sorely mistaken and maybe he should try focusing on his communication skills. This obviously led to yet another fight, with him saying he can't stand me and accusing me of "finding reasons" to take our daughter from him. I did not respond to this. I admittedly just stared at him and he just kept talking and venting and finally, crying. He said he has never felt so empty before and that every time he tries to help, he fucks it up and every time he thinks everything will be okay, something goes wrong. He says he has been bottling everything up so he doesnt dump it on me because he doesnt want to make things worse but that he is drowning with this new weight of extreme responsibility and said he doesnt know how to keep me happy when he isnt happy. He said he fears that I now just have something to hold over his head and take from him, just like everyone else in his life has done. And so, so much more. I didnt say anything. I just let him speak, because he finally was. And when he was done, I held him, and he cried some more. When all was calmed down I told him that I wasnt trying to take the baby from him, and that I would truly never do that. But I was also firm in saying that while I completely empathize and love that he finally spoke, that I cannot let my own boundaries be trampled anymore and that his mother cannot come back here. If he wants to see her, he needs to go to her. He just nodded and said "okay". I cant say right now whether he will actually stick to that. And we didnt talk beyond that either. Instead, he made dinner. He served me my plate and he spoon fed me while I was nursing the baby. This will be a long road. And I cant see the end of the tunnel right now, but maybe I will soon. Thank you everyone for taking your time to go on this journey with me, and pray for me. Much love ❤️ submitted by /u/Low-Cattle-4988 to r/AITAH [link] [comments]

My wife reached out to a family friend of hers to have her do a newborn photo shoot for our first child we had not too long ago. The photographer showed up to my mother in laws house with my wife, took pictures for an hour of our daughter using a professional setup and left. She informed my wife that the turnaround time was 2 weeks and she would send us an online gallery where we can access and download our photos. Here is a sample of the pictures we received. Our daughter was not in any of these positions during the photo shoot and the setting was not at all the same either, not even the clothes. The photographer stated they offer " pro image editing" but I'm pretty sure these were edited or generated using AI, specifically Google Gemini based on the watermark from the second page. Also there is this uncanny valley look on our daughter's face that makes her look like a doll is the best way I can describe it. On top of the photo of our daughter smiling, who was only 2 weeks at the time of the shoot and still hasn't smiled yet Just posting on here because my in laws are doubting me :/ submitted by /u/lulzwin to r/isthisAI [link] [comments]

Hi all. I am about to become a dad, and surprisingly my wife seems even more privacy conscious about not having baby photos just out there, either on social media or just publicly on the internet. We have an immich server, but she's never been that interested in adopting it, but it really meets our needs. Immich will let you share either individual photos or albums publicly, but you can set a password or an expiration date to them. That means we don't have to make someone join immich as a user, just share a link and qr code, and tell them to use the password. The current way I've set this up access is: Browser → Cloudflare with proxy on → VPS with Pangolin → Newt tunnel → My home server running Immich. Is there any way for cloudflare to cache the images so multiple requests don't hit my home server? Will it be able to cache in spite of a password protection? We have family all over the world, so some sort of global caching might be useful. This is the first time I ever really set something like this up. submitted by /u/ottovonbizmarkie to r/selfhosted [link] [comments]

My husband (24m) and I (24f) had a baby toward the end of last year. A couple weeks after he was born, brought him over to my in laws house to meet my husband’s grandmother (94f). She gifted our newborn son a gold coin necklace, which is apparently a tradition that neither of us were aware of. She went to put the necklace on our son, which we both asked her not to and said we don’t think it is a good idea as he is too young to wear a necklace and we’re afraid of it getting caught in his neck folds. We took a picture of her holding him and the necklace, and one where she is laying the necklace on him. Months later, my MIL calls my husband and goes off on him about how both of them are upset because we did not put the necklace on our son for the picture and that it is disrespectful to the tradition. She also shamed my husband for not being aware of the tradition even though he’s never seen that be done before…. She also said that grandmother is upset by the reaction and that we weren’t excited enough. We were all very excited when she gifted that and told her thank you over and over again. We’re confused as to why this is coming up now, and what they want us to do to rectify the issue… After doing a google search I discovered that it is a popular tradition, so now I’m wondering if we’re the assholes. ETA: I understand that a lot of people feel we were being over cautious about putting the necklace on the baby to be a safety hazard. Totally agree, in retrospect it would have been fine. And I know that many people would say that this came off as rude. However, I feel that a lot of people are missing the fact that we still took photos of her with my grandson, HOLDING the necklace and laying the necklace on him. The pictures were very special and it was a very special moment all around. I’m not trying to change the minds of those who say we’re TA. But it’s starting to seem like some people aren’t even reading the post based off of the way we’re being told we “shat all over her” and “didn’t honor her”. My husband holds her in very high regard and would never do anything to disrespect her or their culture. She has not said a word to him about this being an issue. His mom has a history of starting issues with him over small things, especially ones where she is not in control. I also regret ever mentioning my husbands religion, as it seems that nowadays it’s frowned upon to not do certain things because it is believed in your faith to not be the right thing to do. If we don’t want our son to wear gold, I don’t personally see how that is anyone’s business or harmful to him. If he wants to wear gold when he gets older then he can and that is his decision to make. We’re both very open minded about freedom of religion and don’t shame others for what they believe in. My husband has faced this issue with his own family already, so we won’t be doing that to our son. If mot letting our son wear gold as an infant is the most problematic thing we do, then I personally would say we’re doing a pretty good job as parents. Go ahead and say i have a victim complex for saying this all you want. I just don’t agree with the response people are having to my husband’s faith and feel the need to stand up for him because I know he is a good man. Thank you to those who have taken the time to inform me about this tradition and how your family practices it. The only way to pass on traditions is by sharing the meaning behind them and informing the younger generations. It is very important to my husband to continue the practices of his heritage, and we do everything we can to make sure we will pass them on to our son. I guess he just missed the memo on this one, and we’re going to do better in the future at asking questions. submitted by /u/Aggravating-Mind1774 to r/AmItheAsshole [link] [comments]

We've got a newborn son and I (the Dad) want to post a few newborn photos on social media to get the word out there about our newborn since I'm so proud and excited and want to share with my friends and family. My wife however doesn't want us to post any baby photos or any photos of his life at all until he is old enough to give consent. She wants to protect our child's privacy basically. What do you recommend I do? I've had discussion with her but she seems ademate about not posting photos of our child. Thanks for your help in advance! submitted by /u/Aggravating_Roll7917 to r/Parenting [link] [comments]

So I have had boundary issues with this woman from day one. But she absolutely crossed a line this week. I gave birth to my beautiful baby girl on Sunday July 20th. She is absolutely perfect. But I did not want ANYONE besides my husband in the delivery room with me. She of course had a problem with this and bitched about it to my husband. (Luckily she was too scared/nervous to complain to me.) The induction date arrived and her and the rest of his family begin bitching again, but luckily my husband stood his ground. So 36 hours of labor later, my babygirl is here. And of course she’s so cute and perfect that we started taking photos and sending them to our family members. These photos were all sent in group texts, and we didn’t say anything about not sending/posting the photos because it seemed like common sense. Looking back, it’s clear we needed to let her know these were not public photos. Anyways, Monday morning I get a text from the supervisor from the job I just left. He congratulated us on the baby and let me know that MIL sent him photos of our daughter. WTF. For context, MIL has his phone number because I have epilepsy and she drove me to and from work for awhile. Occasionally he would call her if I had a seizure and needed a ride home. But anyways, what the actual fuck. She did not know this man besides occasional phone calls. And she’s sending a man she does not know photos of MY child. I let my husband know immediately and told him he needed to talk to her. Supposedly he did but I’m not sure what was said by either of them. All he said was she understands. I’m so appalled I don’t think she deserves any more photos. I mean, Who the fuck else is she sending photos to? I’m so over this woman. submitted by /u/Specialist_Yak2879 to r/JUSTNOMIL [link] [comments]