Nonbinary

taşlanmamak için şaka yollu bir şey yazacağımı söyleyeyim. bugün kadınlık hormonu diye bilinen östrojen 0 (yazıyla sıfır) çıktı. kadınlık hormonum yok, penisim de yok. o yüzden bugün ben sanırım bundanım. (bkz: anne ben nonbinary oldum)

The nonbinary thing is one of those conservative talking points that they think is going to be some epic gotcha moment but lands like a wet fart with someone like Talarico.

God is both masculine and feminine and everything in between,” “God is nonbinary.” Another progressive that will be future roadkill In the great state of Texas . The campaign ads just write themselves.

Brandon Gill @realBrandonGill · 28m “God is nonbinary” - The Democrat nominee for Texas Senate

... so. Sorry, guys, gals, and nonbinary pals, but I don't wanna ...

... make all the new characters nonbinary genderpiss.

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I had to make a burner account for this one since 1) I work in a queer space and 2) this might be a hot/divisive subject. Remove this post if it comes off as hateful, but I’m honestly so pissed. I’m mostly stealth except to those who are close to me. I’ve been on T for 8 years and top surgery for 5 years. I’m fully bearded, kinda tall, and muscular. I pass virtually 100% of the time to strangers. I rarely ever disclose my transness to my clients unless it’s appropriate for the conversation. Edit 4: I meant to mention this in the last edit but this is also a common assumption in the comments. The person was in fact enby which they disclosed to me. This encounter wasn’t brief. My work requires me to analyze my clients, make judgements based on physical appearance, personality, body language etc. I have to remain adaptable, analytical, and empathetic. I’m providing minimal detail about my engagement, but some of you are assuming that I’m slapping a label on this person in order to fulfill an agenda. I understand because I’m treading lightly about any identifiers on either me or the person, but this isn’t a hate campaign against enbies. The mental gymnastics in some of these comments are dizzying. I was respectful to this person, and they did not reciprocate that same respect. Without disclosing what I do, I provide a one-on-one services to all people. However the business that I work for is a locally well known safe space for queers. This was my last client of the day and my only new client of the day. I’ve never worked on them before, and they knew nothing about me except for my name. From the looks of them, they looked very androgynous and were definitely afab. I assumed they were enby, but I didn’t care to ask pronouns unless necessary. Right at the beginning of service, I’m making small talk and ask if they are from around, and then they reciprocate the question when I disclose that I’m from a red state. They joke around by laughingly saying, “sorry to hear that.” And I’m like, “yeah it totally sucked growing up there since I don’t swing to the right.” They straight up responded immediately without skipping a beat, “oh yeah, I was able to clock that T voice right away.” It was just a sentence- just a singular sentence that almost made me lose my shit in the middle of service. But this isn’t my first sour experience with an afab enby who had the audacity to clock me without provocation. Something like this has happened before with an afab client struggling with possible gender dysphoria they were experiencing. When I told that person, “I’m sorry you’re going through that.” They responded with a, “you must know what it’s like, I have a feeling you’re trans.” I’ve read other posts on this sub expressing similar narratives that it’s seems that enbies simply go out of their way to clock other trans people. It’s like they know this “secret” that they just want to be a part of as if it makes them that much closer to the community. It’s repulsive behavior and just straight up rude. Edit 1: some people in the comments are assuming my services are private just because they’re “one-on-one” as I stated. They’re not private. It’s in earshot of many people. And also to anyone talking about “mutual clocking” because I had a passing thought that they might be afab envy, the difference is that I didn’t say it to their face how obvious it is. It’s a weird thing to say. Funny how it’s okay for some to verbally clock someone in an open space, but it’s not okay for me to be offended and rant to an online community about it. This is a rant that some are taking very personal, this was approved by the mods so it didn’t seem to come off hateful to them. This post was intended for me to vent but also gather some insight. From what I gathered, this is a controversial subject. I’m not going to respond to comments because I don’t feel the need to expand on anything else. Upon self reflection, I handled the situation correctly, as I didn’t fully break down the details of my entire encounter with the client. Edit 2: like I said in my previous edit, I will not respond to comments. Now there are far too many and I don’t have the time but I have read them all. I’m not an transphobe sock puppet account trying to rage bait and cause civil war within the trans community. This is a sub for binary trans men so I posted this in a fit of frustration after my encounter. I have had several more encounters with enby people throughout my transition who have outed me- afab and amab. I shared my two most recent experiences with afab enbies trying to “flex” on me. By the looks of others’ experience through the comments, my experience resonates many. I understand that not all non-binary people lack social sense, I have personal experience with many who would not clock someone’s gender in the wild. Because of the title of my post, I can see how some would make the argument that I’m generalizing the entire enby community, specifically afabs. To that I say, fair I can see why you’d think that, but to say that my post was hateful is disingenuous. And to answer the bigger question that some have: how did I respond? Since I was caught off guard I was silent for maybe a couple seconds and said, “oh anyways are you born and raised here?” I didn’t stand up for myself and did not follow up with their comment because I didn’t want to give it the energy. That’s usually what I do when something like this happens, I redirect. With the thousands of people I see annually, a similar clicking has happened a handful of times. I feel hot when it happens but I must remain professional, and it’s always been an enby who clocks my voice. My job is not a bonding moment with a stranger I’ve just met, it’s my livelihood. Edit 3: this post has received more engagement than I anticipated. I know this topic is divisive, but I’m seeing much hate from tucute to truscum to many across the LGBTQIA community. I don’t condone any hate speech, and I feel confident that I did not demonstrate any hate speech in my original post. I will recognize that I did not speak perfectly on addressing my views on enbies as a group. I spoke in a way that generalized the entire group, which I know individuals are not all the same. My experience with the transphobia I’ve explained has only been with enby people. That has been my personal experience. It’s been overwhelming which is why I still maintain not responding to individual comments but responding general to common rhetoric. I’ve read pretentious quasi-annotations that tried to completely twist my narrative/reality. I’ve read people claiming that I’m “missing” a certain empathy that states trans people simply recognize trans people therefore I should just accept that’s going to happen. Some of you will do anything but hold someone within the community accountable. I’ve read some comments that simplify my experience into text book male fragility: insecurity. Hmm what do we call that in the trans community again? Oh yeah! GENDER DYSPHORIA. To anyone calling my insecurity of my voice connecting to my gender dysphoria is a misandrist and a transphobe. I don’t condone hate to binary trans men especially when all most of us want to do is just navigate this flying rock as just a ln average guy. I experienced gender dysphoria at my place of work, and some of you are trying to make excuses and justify that person’s behavior because I work in a queer safe space. What about my safety and comfortability? Doesn’t that matter in the place that I work? Cognitive dissonance is alive and well in these conversations down below if my gender dysphoria triggered by a stranger is being boiled to “insecurity” or that I somehow lack empathy. What about my client’s clear lack of connection and education to their “own community.” I’m protecting this person’s privacy as much as I’ve protected my own, but I can say that they are old enough to know better and work in an industry where they should definitely know better than to clock/out someone. This was not a moment for connection or bonding or teaching each other empathy. I was working which is irrelevant to my transness. They were not entitled to any of my experience. It takes more energy to clock someone than to just simply restrain yourself. 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Text from post: Hi, this is Cocona. 🐉 Today, I turned 20.☺︎ As I reach this new chapter in my life, I want to share something that’s been in my heart for a long time. I am AFAB transmasculine non-binary. Earlier this year, I had top surgery. I was born and perceived as female, but that label never represented who I truly am. I live in a way that feels more masculine and true to who I am. The hardest thing I’ve ever faced was accepting and embracing myself. But as I slowly began to do that, I was able to open a new door. That moment changed the way I see and understand the world, and it gave me the courage and strength to grow. Now, I can finally say, “There’s nothing wrong with who I am inside.” I was only able to come this far because of the people who listened and stood by me — my members, Simon-san, and my parents. 🫶 I’m truly grateful for this path, and for every miracle that brought us together. This message turned out a bit long, but I just want to say thank you — for walking beside me and for supporting me all this way. I’m so excited for the future we’ll continue to create together with XG and XGALX. 🌏🌎🌍👽♾️ May these words gently light a spark in someone’s heart. And to everyone who needs it — may my love reach all of them. With love, always. 🤍 submitted by /u/mishi_mishii to r/kpop_uncensored [link] [comments]

it feels like there is nothing i can do. i shave every day to the point of cutting my face and i still feel so horrible about my facial hair. i have debilitating dysphoria of my masculine features and i feel like it is only going to get worse as i age. i am almost 20 and already look manly. i cant imagine how i will fare at 30. what hurts me the most is there is next to nothing i can do to help myself. i don't want to start estrogen because i feel like boobs would just make me dysphoric on the other end of the spectrum. i cant do facial hair removal because it's so expensive and i would still have my man jaw. it feels like there is nothing i can do to be anything other than a man submitted by /u/7updawg to r/NonBinary [link] [comments]

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