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Has anyone here ever owned the Menace Shockwave Speed Net and/or the Srikel FlashCourt Pickleball Net (3.0 or any other version) and/or any other foldable/collapsible pickleball nets and have any advice on which I should buy or avoid? I saw some bad reviews on here about the Srikel one but no mention of post-purchase experience of the Menace net. Appreciate any feedback :) submitted by /u/Traditional_Wrap567 to r/Pickleball [link] [comments]

https://www.thegreenhead.com/2026/03/led-light-up-driveway-pickleball-net-set.php This fun LED-illuminated pickleball set lets you play it indoors, outdoors, or after dark with a 10-ft LED net, 2 LED paddles, 2 LED balls, and a carrying bag. submitted by /u/thegreenhead to r/thegreenhead [link] [comments]

The Trenton Memorial Hospital Foundation (TMHF) is closer to purchasing vital ECG equipment after a recent pickleball tournament raised more than $60,000 for the hospital in Quinte West. https://quinteist.com/proud-and-excited-belleville-pickleball-tournament-nets-more-than-60000-for-trenton-memorial-hospital/ submitted by /u/holliecamp to r/EasternON [link] [comments]

The Trenton Memorial Hospital Foundation (TMHF) is closer to purchasing vital ECG equipment after a recent pickleball tournament raised more than $60,000 for the hospital in Quinte West. https://quinteist.com/proud-and-excited-belleville-pickleball-tournament-nets-more-than-60000-for-trenton-memorial-hospital/ submitted by /u/holliecamp to r/QuinteOntario [link] [comments]

Playing against aggressive opponents at the net can be quite challenging. I've encountered a few players who love to volley and put pressure on me right at the kitchen line, which often forces me into defensive positions. I've been trying to develop effective strategies to counter this style of play. For instance, I've been working on my drop shots to keep them guessing and to create openings for my own attacks. I also practice positioning myself to anticipate their movements better. I'm curious to know what tactics you all use when facing aggressive net players. Do you prefer to play defensively, or do you try to match their aggression? Any specific drills or strategies you've found helpful? submitted by /u/Bestwebhost to r/Pickleball [link] [comments]

Positioning at the net can make or break your game in pickleball. I’ve been focusing on this aspect recently and have noticed that proper positioning allows for better shot selection and quicker reactions. However, I still struggle with knowing when to move in and how to maintain an effective stance. I’m curious to hear what strategies you all use to improve your net game. Do you have specific drills or tips that have helped you become more confident and effective at the net? Additionally, how do you communicate with your partner to ensure you're both on the same page during volleys? I believe sharing our experiences and insights can greatly benefit our community, especially for those newer to the sport. Looking forward to your thoughts! submitted by /u/Busternookiedude to r/Pickleball [link] [comments]

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We are looking in updating our community center pickleball nets. Would like suggestions for portable nets, strong, rolling or mobile, and smallest storage size available. Any recommendations appreciated. Thanks. submitted by /u/BoxEven3681 to r/PickleballEquip [link] [comments]

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Hey y'all, just saw the weather for tomorrow and it looks to be warm enough (50 degree high and sunny) to go outside. Wondering if there are any pickleball or tennis nets still up anywhere in there area at the parks (or schools for tennis). submitted by /u/Additional_Ad9169 to r/AnnArbor [link] [comments]

Is it just me, or are parks with these brands of portable nets seems shorter than official ones? As an avid player, I'm finding that parks with these ones installed are affecting my game due to its design and/or them seemingly being shorter than usual. I typically like to posture myself in a scorpion position to be eye-level with the net https://preview.redd.it/4ppuv6neor0g1.png?width=736&format=png&auto=webp&s=b5b9e40de575efc8903b5e1a745b6d573e7b01fb submitted by /u/Internal-Abies4380 to r/Pickleball [link] [comments]

My tennis club has designated one court to be shared between tennis and pickleball. They upgraded the portable pickleball nets they were using to the "PRO PORTABLE PICKLEBALL NET" from dominatorhoop dot com. The problem is that these nets are so heavy their wheels leave divots in the tennis court and we had to have the courts resurfaced. Are any other clubs seeing the same damage from these nets? Anyone find a solution? We've tried rubber furniture pads but these end up leaving indentations in the court surface as well. Just wondering if anyone else is dealing with this issue. submitted by /u/fereaux to r/Pickleball [link] [comments]

Hi, I’ve searched the threads here but can’t seem to find a similar situation to my own. Our HOA is painting new Pickleball lines on our tennis court and are looking for a decent net that withstand the weather in Southern California year round. Ideally, we would have a net that we can just leave outside year round that would at least last a few years. I’ve been seeing people talk about the Dominator net which seems like a good option but curious what others are using that can simply stay outside year round. We are looking for something that is somewhat budget friendly ideally < $1k. Thanks! submitted by /u/xelasfx to r/Pickleball [link] [comments]

For context, there is a metal bar from end to end across the bottom of our nets, it is only on one side of the net, not right below net. For reference (POV from side): court|net|bar|court Playing a point, the opponent hit the top of the net, the ball fell straight down and hit the metal pole, I managed to get it back over in one bounce, they couldn't get it and it bounced twice on their side. We decided to replay point. submitted by /u/MidiGong to r/Pickleball [link] [comments]

Looking to get the best pickleball net submitted by /u/T4RZ_ to r/Pickleball [link] [comments]

I have been on a quest to find the best pickleball net based on playability, ease of setup, cost value, and durability. I live in a part of California where there are not nearly enough pickleball courts, which started my research. I also know that I may have missed ones on this list as I've probably tried around 15 nets and then own about ~10, so if you can comment below your favorites, I'll add to my list to try out. Here are my favorites: 1) Best Overall Portable Net: Srikel Portable Pickleball Net - ~$175 This net blew me away, and in 2026, Srikel came out with the FlashCourt Pickleball Net 3.0, which is now only 24.8 Ibs. I’ve tried quite a few over the years, but this one just nails it. The setup time is wild and took ~ 2 minutes. I actually timed the take down: 1 minute and 24 seconds. You basically roll it out, click it together, and you're ready to play. Even teardown is a breeze. Build Quality: Top-tier. No droopy spots, no frustration. The net locks in tight and stays there. Durability: I've had this net for a long time now, and the durability seems great. Still plays like new. Playability: Amazing. The net doesn’t sag or shift, and the ball can roll under cleanly. Portability: Easy to move when a car comes down the driveway. Even better if you’re using this for pop-up courts. It’s not the cheapest option, but you may be able to find a $25 discount code, and this net becomes a no-brainer for serious rec players. 2) BAGAIL Portable Pickleball Net Set – $70-$80 This set shocked me, in a good way. You actually get TWO nets: a regulation 22ft and a half-court 11ft net. That’s perfect if you like mixing in drills like the 7/11 or just want a quick singles session in the driveway. Extra Perks: Ball carrier, 4 balls, a carrying bag (which is pretty standard), and even three color options. Red is unique. Amazon Rating: 4.6 stars with over 200 reviews. This set dips under $80 on sale. Two nets at this price? Steal. 3) A11N 22ft Portable Net System – ~$70 If you want bang for your buck, it’s hard to beat this. Playability: Super solid. Doesn’t wobble or sag, even when a shot hits center net. You can easily roll balls under too. Setup: Took about 5 steps. The instructions were clear, and I’ve now traveled with this thing more than I thought I would. Durability: Better than expected. The net and bag both feel higher quality than other nets I’ve tested around the $100 mark. Only downside? No wheels. But it’s light enough to lift by the center. 4) Best for Serious Players: A11N Professional Net – $220 This one feels like a club-level net, but it's not $2000 like the one below. Sturdy, heavy-duty frame, and it’s got a hand crank to adjust the tension. Setup Time: About 1 to 1.5 hours - not a quickie setup and take down. I actually kept up the main posts up in my garage during the winter because I didn't want to take it down. Fantastic playability: But once it's up? It's amazing. Smooth, pro feel, and super stable. Comes with quality wheels too. Honestly, I liked it so much I made room to store it on the side of my house. 5) Best Driveway Set: TYRSEN Portable Pickleball Net – $85–$95 This is more of a bundle deal, and it’s a fun one. What’s in the box? Net with wheels Carry bag 4 wooden paddles (not great, but hey) Balls Court markers (actually useful!) Setup was simple, and I like that I can break it down quickly and store it in just a few parts. The net’s fine. I wouldn't call it elite, but solid for backyard or driveway games. 6) SLK Portable Pickleball Net – ~$180 I use this net regularly with a friend. It’s built well and feels great. Wheels: Yes, please Playability: Decent. Price: Just under $200, so it's not cheap, but not outrageous either. Balls roll under easily, and the setup is pretty quick once you’ve done it once or twice. 7) SLK Prime Net – ~$175 I’ve put in some good hours on this net. Pros: Sturdy. Feels durable. Cons: Balls get caught at the base, which is kind of annoying. You end up crouching down to retrieve them way too often. Still, not a bad choice if it’s what’s available at your local club or tournament. 8) JOOLA Portable Net with Wheels – $2,000+ I'd say that the Joola portable net with wheels is the best option if money is no object, but it's way too expensive for me.Yeah… this one’s in a league of its own. I played with this recently at a hotel. It’s built like a tank. Beautiful, premium, stable. But it’s over $2,000. Unless you run a club or have a dedicated court at home, this one’s probably overkill. Still, if money doesn’t matter? This is the one. 9) I didn't love this net –Zeny Portable Pickleball Net - $50-60ish You know how some products look decent online, then fall apart in real life? Yeah, that’s this one, and I wish I could share pictures as it was bad. I bought it in 2024, so I am hoping that they have made improvements since then. Setup Instructions: A mess Frame: Fell apart during first practice with it Net: Saggy, and wouldn’t stay up even when I begged it Sides: Exposed, unstable This was one of the few Amazon returns I didn’t even think twice about. You’ll know it if you see it. it’s often the “too good to be true” cheap option. Final Thoughts If you want the absolute best combo of quality and ease, go with the Srikel. Want value? A11N has you covered. On a tighter budget? Bagail is a smart buy, but then again check the price difference between A11N and Bagail as the prices appear to change on Amazon. submitted by /u/Educational_Pea6268 to r/Pickleball [link] [comments]

I can't decide which way to go in my letters to Emily. I decided to write 3 different approaches: Coldly Logical, Raw Emotion, and Dismissive and Insulting. Coldly Logical: Emily, My lawyer has advised that I write to you explaining, in clear terms, why reconciliation is not possible. After considerable thought, I've decided to approach this from a logical perspective rather than an emotional one. Let's start with a definition. Love (noun): A complex set of emotions, behaviors, and beliefs associated with strong feelings of affection, protectiveness, warmth, and respect for another person. Love involves caring for another person's well-being, prioritizing their needs, maintaining their trust, and being honest with them even when it's difficult. Looking at the evidence objectively, I need to assess whether your actions over the past year demonstrate love as defined above. Consider the following: Trust and Honesty: You maintained a secret relationship with John for approximately 9 months You consistently lied about your whereabouts When directly questioned on New Year's Eve, you denied any infidelity Even after discovery, your account of events changed multiple times (coercion narrative, business mentorship narrative, etc.) You only disclosed information when faced with evidence Prioritizing Partner's Well being: You risked my sexual health by being intimate with both John and me You diverted resources from our marriage: time, energy, and attention. You shared intimate details of our marriage with Bev You damaged our shared property and put others in danger by burning your possessions. Respect for Partner: You came home after being with John and were intimate with me You allowed John to finance aspects of our marriage You portrayed a false version of our relationship to others When analyzed objectively, these behaviors demonstrate a fundamental incompatibility with the definition of love. This isn't about moral judgment or punishment. It's about recognizing a factual misalignment between your actions and the definition of love. Your recent actions such as therapy, church attendance, and your proposed postnuptial agreement suggest you're experiencing guilt, shame, and fear of loss. These are understandable human emotions, but they're distinct from love. The postnuptial agreement you proposed focuses on controlling future behavior rather than addressing the fundamental question of whether you genuinely love me as defined above. I believe you care about me and wish to maintain our relationship. But caring about someone, even deeply, isn't the same as loving them in the complete sense of the word. Your actions reveal a prioritization pattern where your desires, needs, and comfort consistently ranked higher than my well being, dignity, and trust. The logical conclusion is that you do not love me according to the definition of love. You may believe you do, but the empirical evidence contradicts this belief. This isn't your fault. We can't control who we love. It would be unreasonable of me to expect you to manufacture love where it doesn't naturally exist. The rational solution is for both of us to move forward separately: You deserve to find someone you truly love. Someone whose well being, trust, and dignity you naturally prioritize without requiring contractual obligations or monitoring. I deserve to find someone who loves me in the complete sense of the word. Someone whose actions align with their professed feelings. We both deserve relationships built on genuine love rather than obligation, guilt, or fear. I'm proceeding with the divorce for these reasons. It's not a punishment or an act of revenge. It's the logical outcome of the situation we find ourselves in. The terms I've communicated through my lawyer remain my position. I wish you well in your journey forward. I hope you find happiness and growth, and that you discover what genuine love means for you. We had good years together that I'll always remember, but we need to acknowledge reality and make decisions based on facts rather than wishful thinking. Sincerely, OP P.S. After reviewing this letter, I realize it comes across as cold and clinical. That's not entirely unintentional. It's easier for me to process things logically right now than to dive back into the emotional tornado. But please know that I don't hate you. I just can't pretend that what happened doesn't fundamentally change who we are to each other. ---------------------------------------- Here is what I'm feeling: Emily, I don’t even know how to do this. I don’t know how to say goodbye to you. I keep starting this letter and stopping, because every time I try to write the words, it feels like I'm stabbing myself in the heart all over again. I loved you so god damn much. I loved you with a kind of blind faith that I didn’t even know existed. And you knew that. You knew it. And you still chose to hurt me. You didn't just cheat on me, Emily. You ended me. You shattered something in me that I don’t know if I can ever fix. You made me feel small and worthless in a way I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. I can’t even look in the mirror without seeing the fucking asshole you made out of me. I was proud to love you. Proud to be your husband. Proud of the life we were building. And now when I think of our life together, it feels like rotting wood under my hands. Like something hollowed out and dead that I still try to lean on out of instinct. I hate that part of me still wants to believe this nightmare isn't real. But it is. It’s so real it feels like it’s crushing my chest every time I breathe. I’m not the man you married anymore. And I’m not the man you want to reconcile with, either. He’s gone, Emily. You killed him the second you decided someone else's attention, someone else's money, someone else's arms were worth more than my heart. I can't come back from this. I can’t pretend that it didn’t happen. I can’t lie to myself just to make you feel better. You’re not my home anymore. You’re not my safe place. You are not a person to me anymore. You are a shitty traumatic event that I have to survive. God, Emily, I would have given you anything. I would have burned the whole world down if you asked me to. And you threw me away like it meant nothing. Maybe someday you’ll understand what you did. Maybe someday it’ll hit you like a truck when you're standing in an empty house or staring at yourself in the mirror. Maybe someday you’ll realize that you didn’t just lose a husband. You lost someone who loved you so deeply that he never once doubted you until you forced him to. I can't do this anymore. I have to let you go, even if it kills me. Even if I feel like I'm ripping out my own heart. Even if I never really heal from it. Because you didn’t just kill the man you married. You killed the future we were supposed to have. Goodbye, Emily. I will love you for the rest of my life. But I can’t be with you anymore. The woman I loved is gone. OP ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- This following is the first letter I wrote, included last. After I wrote it, I felt I had to write a logical analysis of the situation which became the first letter I put here. Then, writing the logical letter got me into a dark place and I wrote the second letter. So here's the first letter I wrote when I was still giddy and happy: Emily, Congratulations. You managed to kill a marriage that could’ve survived a zombie apocalypse, two hurricanes, and my cooking. Seriously. I would’ve walked through fire for you. Hell, I would've walked through a Bed Bath & Beyond on a Saturday afternoon for you and I DID. Remember that?? Would John have done that??. Remember when I paid retail for a fucking air fryer from Bed Bath and Beyond? But you know what even I can’t survive? Being downgraded from husband to set decoration while you played the lead role in a shitty Netflix rom com. I know you’re sorry. I know you’re desperate. And I know you’d love to rewind the clock and stop yourself at whatever moment you decided that our marriage needed a supporting cast. But here’s the truth. You didn’t just make a mistake. You made a lifestyle. You didn't trip and fall into a boutique with no price tags. You chose it. Again and again. And while you were busy sipping champagne and pretending you were a pop diva, you didn’t notice the man back home trying to figure out why he wasn’t enough anymore. I’m not angry. You have to care to be angry. I’m just fucking done with this bullshit. With YOUR bullshit. I know you want to reconcile with the guy you married. But he’s not here anymore. You buried him under a pile of hotel receipts, fake orgasms, and Nordstrom bags. You don’t love me. You love the way I make you feel. The safety. The loyalty. The guy who never left, no matter what. Except, surprise: He finally left. You loved what that guy did but you didn't give a shit about him personally. Never at one moment did you love this guy. Do not bullshit yourself into thinking that. You're saying that to yourself now out of guilt and not out of love. You're thinking, "why couldn't I love this guy?". The fact is that you've always only had one soulmate, Emily. Yourself. Certainly not ME. You’ll be okay. You’re smart, you're beautiful, you're resourceful, and you can spot a delicious brunch menu from 500 yards away. You'll land on your feet. But not with me. Take care, Emily. And when you tell people about us years from now, feel free to lie a little. Make it a good story. Lord knows, you’re good at making up bullshit. Goodbye. P.S. The air fryer is non-negotiable. Seriously. I'll fight you. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- I'm leaning towards coldly logical. -------------------------------------------------------------- UPDATE EDIT: Looks like you are favoring a combination of coldly logical and emotional to drive it home. Here's what I have: Emily, My lawyer suggested I write to you explaining why reconciliation is impossible. After thinking it over, I realized I owe it to myself to be clear both logically and emotionally. First, the facts: "Love" means protecting, respecting, and prioritizing someone else even when it’s difficult. Your actions, namely the lying, the infidelity, and the humiliation, are the opposite of that. You hid an affair for nearly a year, lied straight to my face on New Year’s Eve, risked my health, shared our marriage with strangers, and only confessed pieces of the truth when you had no choice. You chose yourself every single time it mattered. That's not love. It's selfishness cosplaying as love. I don’t doubt you feel guilt now. I don’t doubt you wish you could rewind the clock. But you’re not mourning me. You’re mourning the man you could always count on. The man who forgave everything. The man who’s gone now because you killed him. I don't exist anymore the way you remember. You didn't just end a marriage. You burned down the man who believed in it. I was proud to be your husband once. Now, when I think of us, it feels like standing in the wreckage of a house that used to feel like home. You are not my partner anymore. You’re a traumatic event that I must survive. I have to let you go, because there’s nothing left for me to hold on to. We are divorcing. That is final. You need to wrap your head around this fact. Please direct all future communication through our attorneys. --OP ----------------------------------------- I'm pretty sure I'm sending this one: Emily, My attorney advised me to write down why reconciliation isn’t possible. I’ve put it off not because I’m unsure, but because it’s difficult to describe what you’ve done to me in a way that might actually register with you. But I’ll try now, with as much clarity and control as I can manage. Let’s begin with something simple: a definition. Love (noun): A commitment to another person’s well-being, trust, and dignity above your own convenience, indulgence, and self-gratification. It includes honesty, protection, loyalty, and the refusal to willfully inflict harm, especially on someone who loves you. Now let’s examine the evidence. For nearly a year, you conducted a sexual relationship behind my back. You didn’t confess because you were overwhelmed by guilt. You confessed because you got caught. Even then, your story changed over and over until the facts cornered you. First it was an emotional affair. Then a mentorship. Then coercion. Then "he wouldn’t let me go." You were never honest. You were just reactive. When I confronted you on New Year's Eve, you couldn't even tell me the truth THEN. I knew the truth and you still tried to make me feel guilty and paranoid. And here’s something I need to say directly, because you've danced around it in every version you’ve given: You performed oral sex on another man and then came home and kissed me right afterwards Do you understand what that did to me? Because I think you need to. That wasn't just betrayal. That was defilement. That was degrading. That was a level of violation I didn’t know was possible inside a marriage. You brought the taste of another man’s body into our home and into my fucking mouth. You let him into my bed by proxy and into my mouth, without my knowledge or consent. There is no therapy, no contract, no prayer that can erase that. I don't think my words can adequately communicate to you how disgusted and sickened I am by this. Remember how you noticed I was losing weight towards the end of our time together? Remember how you were admiring how defined my muscles were? That wasn't working out, that was starvation and dehydration. That was not being able to keep food or water down because I thought about it all the time and it made me throw up. And then you want to tell me you love me. You want to reconcile. You want to go back to what we were. Here’s the problem, Emily: That man no longer exists. The man who loved you, trusted you, and thought you were incapable of something like this is just fucking gone. You killed him. Slowly. Repeatedly. And with a smile on your face. And the person asking for reconciliation now? You’re not talking to the same husband. You’re talking to someone else. You're talking to someone who will never again see you the way he once did. Someone who wakes up sick when he remembers how deep the lies went. Someone who has to remind himself to breathe when he thinks about where your mouth was before you kissed him. You say you want to earn back my trust. That’s not something you can earn back from a ghost. So I’ll give you the only thing that’s left: truth. You are not owed reconciliation. You are not owed negotiation. You are not even owed the benefit of the doubt. You are owed fairness, and I’ve already extended more of that than your actions warrant. If you have any respect left for me. It you have any genuine remorse, you’ll stop prolonging this shitshow. I am going to send you my best offer. Do you want to convince me of your remorse? Then tack on some more terms that are favorable to me and have no possible benefit to you. Put your money where your mouth is. Own what you did. Accept the consequences without twisting this into something mutual or negotiable. You didn’t just cheat. You desecrated something sacred. You dismantled a man and burned the wreckage. And now you want to bargain with the ashes. Don’t. Let this end with whatever grace is still possible. Go and find someone you love and respect and I will do the same. ----------------------------------------------------- Update 5/2/2025 I got my lawyer to look over the letter. She approved it. I hand wrote it on paper and then had a courier deliver it to Emily's parents' house yesterday with delivery confirmation. She's got it and it's been radio silent except for MIL texting me that Emily got my letter and is "crying her eyes out". ------------------------------------------------------- Update 5/5/2025 We have sent our divorce terms to Emily and her lawyer. They are pretty much the same thing we said before: No spousal support. We keep our respective retirement funds. Other joint accounts are split 50/50 (this one hurts. We have investment accounts but my lawyer and I conceded this to expedite matters). It's an at fault adultery divorce. $10,000 reimbursement of our emergency fund. $15,000 half of the credit card charges for fraud (or whatever the lawyer said. I have to go back and re-read the technical stuff). I give up all claims to half of her business. Even though it's an LLC we consistently used marital funds and of course the stolen emergency fund (which was joint funds) to fund her business. She gives up all claims to my dad's home. There's some other stuff regarding joint marital property in our home. Throw pillows, people! Who's gonna get the throw pillows?? Won't someone think about the throw pillows? The trash can with my watery puke in it is off the table. She missed that opportunity. You snooze, you lose. So a bunch of people are saying that this is fake because a lawyer would never let you write a breakup letter to the person you're divorcing. First, Emily has delayed all negotiations consistently by refusing to acknowledge divorce. She consistently rebutted our attempts to settle this by replying with some kind of reconciliation plan. I have had no meaningful conversations with Emily since I served her divorce papers. I talk a lot of shit about her on here behind her back because it's a release valve for me. But I have said nothing of substance to her other than what I said when I confronted her when she was making a burnt offering to the fashion gods. I'm no lawyer. Maybe my lawyer sucks. But this is how it was explained to me: TL;DR: My lawyer said the letter stops Emily’s reconciliation BS and speeds up the divorce by showing I’m fucking DONE. After having a bunch of people tell me that a lawyer would never advise me to write a letter to my STBXW, I was concerned myself like why would she want me to break no contact? I'm basically summing up what my lawyer sent back, with some edits to keep me from doxxing myself. In the state I live in, clear communication of intent, such as no reconciliation, can streamline negotiations by setting boundaries. A formal letter, sent via courier, serves as evidence of my position, reducing ambiguity in court or mediation. Divorce lawyers, at least in my state, often recommend written statements to clarify a client’s stance, especially when the other spouse’s actions; such as Emily’s workplace visits, constant texts, offers of reconciliation all the time, suggest denial or manipulation. The letter acts as a legal marker, showing my consistent refusal to reconcile, which courts respect in fault based cases. This also preempts Emily’s attempts to further delay by offering reconciliation terms, forcing her to focus on settlement. Emily’s adultery gives me leverage in equitable distribution. The letter reinforces her fault by detailing her betrayal, and pressuring her to concede terms to avoid a public trial where her actions would be scrutinized. Also, Emily's lawyer is collaborating with her therapist to address emotional barriers to settlement and has been vocal about it with my lawyer. My lawyer saw the letter as a way to satisfy Emily’s therapy driven need for closure while advancing my legal goals. While not standard in every divorce, letters outlining non reconciliation are used in cases with persistent reconciliation attempts or emotional volatility. You know, like burning all your shit in your backyard! Family law attorneys in the state I live in advise clients to document their stance to avoid he said she said disputes in court. Lawyers tailor strategies to the case’s dynamics, and a letter fits Emily’s persistent reconciliation pushes. Non lawyer types may assume divorce communication are purely formal, not realizing lawyers use creative tools such as letters and emails to manage negotiations, especially in fault based cases with emotional stakes. The bottom line is that my lawyer thought it was a good idea and it would save us both lawyer fees in the long run if I made everything crystal clear. Otherwise, it's just legal pickleball with her serving reconciliation attempts over the net and me shouting "FUCK NO" and grand slamming them out of the court into orbit. Over and over. Lawyers fees racking up and up. --------------- update 5/8/2025 Sorry I've been radio silent mostly. I'm in the throes of some kind of food poisoning I think. Basically my internal organs are saying "EVERYONE OUT! TWO EXITS!" My MIL has informed me that Emily is getting help in an intensive outpatient program for her anxiety and depression. So basically she works during the day and goes there afterwards for a few hours. It was arranged by her parents working together with her attorney. I just want to welcome all of the new folks who've decided my little corner of reddit needs a good "talking to". Honestly, if I were writing a revenge fantasy, I'd post all of her affair evidence to social media and tell her her something cool like "it was just my turn, you slut!" and then slap on some nice expensive aviators and swagger off into the sunset with my harem of open minded supermodel girlfriends. I mean, at the very least, she'd be the one throwing up in public and not me FFS. Anyway, back to the toilet. In my revenge fantasy, I'm the one with food poisoning. LOL. submitted by /u/Any-Assault to u/Any-Assault [link] [comments]

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