Self Care

My husband books me a service + lunch every year. I never know what it’s going to be but it’s always something self care related… nails, facial, massage, hair, etc. Funny story one year he booked me a laser hair appointment because I had been talking about wanting to try it and he didn’t comprehend what it was apparently and thought that would be relaxing lmao.

Here’s an honest question, why do you care about what other people are doing? Is it insecurity, lack of self confidence, miserable with your own life? Have never understood why so many people worry about others when they should just worry about themselves.

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sleep, a quick self care thing(pedi,eyebrows and massage)

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Come_Hither1 said: https://i.pinimg.com/736x/02/68/69/026869f7310776fdf3185c24eb3a6023.jpg Reminds me of when we first got together. We were self conscious about PDA, “my gosh, she just touched my hand!” as I pull away. Now we don’t fucking care! It’s nice to feel like any other couple in public.

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I don't care. Trump did it in exchange for American dominance and not bc of self loathing environmental bs

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Ive been playing with this build that roughly brings back old self care. If my math is right , it brings it down pretty close to the old 16 second heal. At peak conditions atleast. submitted by /u/ZeroZandoval to r/deadbydaylight [link] [comments]

When you're struggling to motivate and most importantly when showering feels like a huge chore you can kinda just skip without a lot of consequences, it can be easy to get in a habit of just not, or skipping too many in a row, you don't wanna lose the comfort and no one really enjoys your efforts, I know how it can be because I've been there and some of my friends have too, some still are even, you're not alone. Well what if there was a way to make showers fun, enjoyable, and still not take extra time trying to make a game out of it (which can become exhausting)? There is, and I've found it, and it can be for friends you enjoy the company of not just your relationship partner, you take a initiation synchronized shower, you shower together, just without all the messy downsides like being in the way or seeing each other naked without the choice not to, no hair in your face no worrying about elbowing someone, it's great. All you have to do is send a message asking if they want to, established this as a norm; shower every two days, three days, then once it's all confirmed, you confirm a time if there's any question, and you each say you're ready as you are, once all ready, you can reconfirm by asking if everyone is/they are, in case there was a delay between you both being ready, then you say you're getting in or some other indication message, and leave some "response necessary" message, I love my friends and partners so I would always just say that, then the response is either that they are also hopping in, or for the more rushed/laid back, simply responding, in my case saying they love me too, once everyone has confirmed, the last one to confirm gets right in and the ones who were earlier and waited get in on the same confirmation, it's typically within seconds of each other and you wanna be as ready as you can be by time you say it so there's no delay, then it's business as usual and a "Done" or otherwise denoting that you've finished message, that's it, the rest is also just normal conversation and a normal shower event set, so that's about it, you can talk about or ask about the shower or how it went or how they feel if you choose submitted by /u/Syreeta5036 to r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians [link] [comments]

Hi girlies, I (25F) wanted to know how do you all take care of yourselves? Do you all follow all those self care videos we see on insta and youtube? Or other things you follow? I am working and barely have any energy left on the weekends to do anything.. Especially working women what do you do for yourselves? Please give me tips.. it could be anything like skincare, music, books anything.. Thankss❤️ submitted by /u/MammothGrand8022 to r/selfcare [link] [comments]

I couldn’t do this without her. 😻 Sadly my husband cannot go near her for quite awhile after he is released from the hospital. submitted by /u/nocomment076 to r/standardissuecat [link] [comments]

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imho one of the best parts of living alone is doing absolutely out-of-pocket things for self care and coping without being judged. One of my favorites is screaming, like once in a while just taking in a lungful and letting it all out a whole bellow. It's a great release when I've got built up tension (though not recommended if you share walls with neighbors). What weird stuff do you guys do in the name of self care? submitted by /u/lesbiianarchist to r/LivingAlone [link] [comments]

I realise my mother has been the catalyst for a hell of a lot of trauma in my life. And although I am working on myself, my mother’s attempt at self reflection doesn’t go beyond looking in the mirror. How do you cope with the responsibility of aiding and assisting them when realistically, you find it hard just being in their company? How do you reconcile the guilt you feel and the anger at their lack of effort to help themselves? It’s like my needs were unimportant for a great deal of my childhood and now I’m supposed to be the carer to someone that I find to be the most hurtful and inconsiderate person I know. I know people who are in their twenties that are practically walking away from parents and cutting them out of their life. “Go no contact” is a phrase that I see bandied about often online. “Just because they are your parents, doesn’t mean you have to…” but I can’t just do that. I’m sure there must be other Gen X dealing with Boomer parents who are going through the same issues. How do you deal with it? submitted by /u/Wilful_Fox to r/GenX [link] [comments]

"I ate without a table :(" Dude, there are like 3 luxurious dining rooms with marble floors and granite statues. You chose yourself to eat in the dirt "I have to ware the clothes from dead people" My man, you decided to wear it and every time I force you to take it off, you run back to it to wear it again! "Oh. ratty apparell, boo-hoo" There are like 15 different sets of clothes in the warehouse, freshly made, go get some! Here, I'll force you to wear this excellent hyperweave t-shirt... Wh... Why are you taking off your new pants and putting on some ratty ones? "I'm soaking wet, it's dark here, I'm tired and hungry D:" My brother on christ! It's nighttime and raining, according to you schedule you should be sleeping now. Why the hell are you travelling to the mine on the other side of the map? While being hungry and tired? "I'm in terrible pain!" I oredered you to rest until healed and administered some smokeleaf! Why the joint is on the pillow of med bed and you are in the mines again?! Here, go to the bed again and doctor will bring you some fine meal... "I'm not hungry, I ate some kibble already..." Ffs submitted by /u/MrWideside to r/RimWorld [link] [comments]

For a long time, I thought self-care was just about relaxation and treating myself. But over time, I realized that the most impactful self-care habits weren’t always the easiest or most enjoyable in the moment. Getting enough sleep, drinking more water, setting boundaries, and allowing myself to rest without feeling guilty have all made a huge difference in my life. It’s not always about doing what feels good right away, but about taking care of myself in ways that truly matter. What self-care habits have helped you the most? submitted by /u/Moist_Suggestion_163 to r/selfcare [link] [comments]

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When you postpone, cancel, or ghost a friend last minute because you're "too tired," you 1) disrespect their time and 2) send a clear, hurtful message: "I wasn't looking forward to spending this time together." "But I only slept four hours last night." "But I had a long week at work." "But I'm burnt out." Then. Stop. Making. Plans. EDIT: Thank you to everyone who's commented! Even the assholes. Many of your criticisms are fair -- even enlightening -- and some I still disagree with. Where the assholes and I agree My original post was poorly written. I halfway expected it to drown in the torrent of new posts, plus the topic riles me, so I didn't choose my words carefully. Surprise, surprise: they didn't hold up well under the microscope of /unpopularopinion's front page. This is how I would reword its crux: "not feeling like it" is a shitty excuse to flake on friends. “Not feeling like it" due to something foreseeable (you stayed up late the night before watching a football game, you had an important project due at work this week, you never liked the plans you agreed to) doesn’t make the excuse any better. If you're unsure if you'll make it, tell your friend that. Otherwise, flaking isn't self-care. It’s immature and rude. Shit happens to everyone, and especially to parents and people with chronic medical conditions. How someone flakes is relevant. A sincere apology can communicate what a casual cancellation doesn't: the friend who is cancelling still values the friendship. Where the assholes and I disagree One said, "We don't own our friends' time." No, but we do owe our friends the time we tell them we'll set aside for them, unforeseen conflicts excepted. Canceling because you don't feel like it right now can be shortsighted because how you feel can often change after you arrive. To be angry at a friend who flakes isn't selfish. It's a reasonable response to someone whose poor planning affects you. I’d rather my friends stay home if they're too tired to enjoy themselves. But if they're tired due to poor planning, being “too tired” is a shitty excuse to flake. Alright, I think I've spent enough time on this post. Thanks again to everyone who commented. As one of my professors used to say: "a lively and thought-provoking discussion!" submitted by /u/goodluckanddont_itup to r/unpopularopinion [link] [comments]

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How do you fellas take care of yourself? It can be a daily thing, a treat at the end of the week, or one thing once in a while. Anything big or small On my end: - mind: video games to fully immerse myself in a world/character. Singing to my favorite tunes when I have to clean stuff up - body: I just started a beard routine. It adds 5/10 min to the shower, but worth it - spirit: daily meditation submitted by /u/Maralitabambolo to r/AskMenOver30 [link] [comments]

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I was researching how to self care, and got the usual "do you struggle with caring for yourself? Well, don't! Do these things and you'll stop struggling with them!" which is. Obviously not useful. HOWEVER. I found out a phrasing that gave me something ACTUALLY useful: how to stop self neglect, instead of how to self care. We all know HOW to care for ourselves, but the problems come up between knowing it and knowing how to get started in a way that works for our ADHD brains. Instead of telling us that we need to be doing what we know we must be doing, it fills in that crucial step of not knowing where to start. It's really amazing how a simple change of phrasing can bring about much different results in the Google search bar. also, edit: i wrote this at like 10 am, when i was v tired and about to go to bed submitted by /u/sushi-screams to r/ADHD [link] [comments]

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