Studio Apartment Ideas

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Hi all, I have been living in my studio apartment for about 2,5 years now and planning to stay here another 1-1,5 years, hoping I can buy a house at some point. Im happy with where I live, but my place can feel cluttered easily and its difficult to play around with the layout of the space. The area Im very happy with is my mini bedroom I created. I would love to hear any ideas on how to change this space. I am open to buying a new tabel or closet. A rug is not really an option because I think it will make the space look smaller. Thank you! submitted by /u/Fit_Permit to r/femalelivingspace [link] [comments]

When I first moved in, the apartment smelt like nothing. I’ve lived here for a year now. The windows don’t open at all. When I come in from outside, there’s now a smell always. It’s not moldy or musty, it’s almost like the ghost of food and everything past? I can’t describe it, but it’s not good. I walk into some peoples homes and they always just smell so good. I clean often, but may be missing something. I have tried warming wax melts. That only helps temporarily and I don’t love covering the smell only. I think the lack of open windows may be the big issue. Also my laundry machine is an all-in-one that somehow neutralizes any smell from laundry detergent and makes my clothes smell reminiscent of a dishwasher, which isn’t helping anything! Ive cleaned that thing multiple times too, I assume it’s just the drying mechanism. I would love ideas or things I may be missing. Thank you for any help submitted by /u/thecatgulliver to r/CleaningTips [link] [comments]

Hi all! My husband and I moved into a studio apartment over a year ago. I had never lived in a studio apartment before and haven’t been able to come up with any solutions on ways to get this place functional and comfortable for both of us. My biggest issue is storage. We both do a lot of cooking but have zero space in our small kitchen. I also don’t have enough space to properly store all of our small kitchen appliances. I also feel like I don’t have enough counter space to actually cook. I’ve really tried to be mindful of not over buying things because I simply don’t have anywhere to store them. Our closet is another big issue. It’s the two of us and their isn’t enough space to properly store our clothes. I’m hoping you guys can give me ideas to make the space more functional and actually seem like a home. I feel like I’m living in a crowded hotel room. Our space is 622sq.ft we currently only have a queen bed, a table with two stools, a Costco standing desk, and a dresser. And I already don’t see where I can fit anymore furniture. I would really like a couch so I can have another place to lounge that is not my bedroom. I’m very overwhelmed and would greatly appreciate any ideas you have so every part of the apartment has storage. Edit: for those suggesting to move to a bigger space, that was also our idea. Unfortunately rent is very expensive in our area and a bigger space would be at least $300-500 dollars more a month. Even with both of us working we would be on an extremely tight budget. That’s why we decided to try and make this space work for at least another year. Edit: I get the layout debate, but my complex labels it as a studio. Call it what you want, I’m just trying to make the most of the layout—any actual suggestions are welcome. submitted by /u/Sure-Detective-16 to r/StudioApartments [link] [comments]

Hey everyone, I’ll be moving into this small (but I think pretty nice!) studio soon. I’m looking for ideas on how to organize the space, especially considering that I’ll definitely need: - a desk/work area - a digital piano I’d love to make it feel both functional and cozy without overcrowding it. Any suggestions, layout ideas, or similar setups would be super helpful! Also, ideas on what to do for that oblique area next to the bed are much appreciated. Thanks in advance submitted by /u/fililando to r/StudioApartments [link] [comments]

I’m attaching a picture of the floor plan from my apartment buildings website, I currently have my apartment arranged like they show in the layout but I really need a change. The only thing different than what the layout shows is I don’t have a dining table because I work remotely so I have my desk there. Any help would be greatly appreciated! The biggest thing I don’t like is that my bed is in direct line with my kitchen sink, I don’t know why but that little detail drives me insane. submitted by /u/laylock8713 to r/DesignMyRoom [link] [comments]

Hi, so I have a studio apartment I need to get furniture for. I drew some layouts and need help choosing the best option. Also does anyone have any experience with sofa beds? Are they comfortable for 2 years? I have all the pictures with dimensions too. submitted by /u/Miguel_Santos8 to r/HomeDecorating [link] [comments]

“I once lived in a Black mecca. But by the summer of 2022, my toddler son and I were often the only Black folks on the playground in Bedford-Stuyvesant, a fact that felt both alienating and surreal,” the novelist Naomi Jackson writes. Jackson was born in Crown Heights to parents from the Caribbean — part of a tidal wave of late-20th-century West Indian and African emigration that changed the face of Black New York. “My formative years were in Flatbush, which is called ‘Little Caribbean’ even though it becomes less and less Caribbean,” she writes. Over two decades, from 2000 to 2020, New York City lost nearly 200,000 Black folks, or about 9 percent of its Black residents. These losses have been particularly notable in historically Black strongholds like Bedford-Stuyvesant and Harlem. Data shows that in 2000, Black residents made up approximately 75 percent of Bed-Stuy’s population, and that number dropped to about 40 percent between 2019 and 2023, with the white population increasing more than tenfold. In 2006, Jackson convinced her dad that buying property in Prospect–Lefferts Gardens was a smart idea. “At the time, I was 25 years old and scraping together a down payment on a modest studio apartment through a combination of savings and first-time-homebuyer grants. The neighborhood was already transforming; there was a new coffee shop and more white residents. Back then, the abbreviation PLG felt like a harbinger of gentrification that would protect my property value. Now, it feels more like a death knell for the childhood I remember.” Read Jackson on how gentrification has reshaped her sense of belonging in the city: nymag.visitlink.me/wlkg7h submitted by /u/kazizine1 to r/BedStuy [link] [comments]

Hi all. First time poster here. I grew up with mainly just my mom and me. Im now 24. I was always her emotional punching bag and jumped through all her hoops at a young age. At 13, I was the in between contact with my parents divorce. She would constantly make me ask my dad for money, scream and belittle me. She was also physically abusive. She was very mentally unwell, but she has got help in the recent years so she has been better. Her narcissistic tendencies are still there, but better. I recently started graduate school and am going to be a doctor. I’ve done pretty well for myself. I live in a cute little studio apartment, it’s just me and my dog. I love my home, I finally feel like I have a safe space that is just for me. Today is my birthday. My mom called me to wish me a happy birthday, then said she had something to talk to me about. Her and her boyfriend have broke up. She sold her house, and used that money to get a car. Her boyfriend has been paying for the apartment so they are now moving out. She is not financially stable at all. I live off student loans, but I manage to budget my money well. She asked to move in with me for a couple of weeks until she can figure something out. I am currently spiraling and don’t know what to do. On one hand, I would feel like a complete asshole for not letting my mom move in. On the other, I just can’t have her in this small of a space while I am actively healing from the trauma she caused me. Any advice is welcome Edited for updates and clarification: thank you so much for the great support and advice in this fellow internet strangers. Having outside perspective on this helps immensely. She did not fully own her house, hence why she only had the money to get a car. She works full time and he pays the bills, so I have no idea why she doesn’t have a safety net. I had a conversation with her before she moved in, she said she would save money just in case and never did. I have attached some texts from her. She knew this was coming for about a month from what my grandma said, but chose to tell me on my birthday. It ruined my brunch plans, but I will say my sweet boyfriend did take me out for a nice dinner and I was able to take my mind of things. I have two big exams this week, had to take yesterday off so I’ll be studying a lot but I’ll try to respond to comments when I can. Some texts I’ve received from her “I didn’t expect you to say something like you did it really hurt sweetheart. It really hurt. It seemed very cold that you were saying you got yourself into this mess now you get yourself out it doesn’t seem very compassionate. Yes I did need a temporary spot to stay and I understand that you feel like you can’t do that. It’s fine. I am hurt because I feel like when (name removed, friend) comes to stay this summer, she’s gonna stay with you for an extended time and I’m wondering what the difference was. What also made me really sad is that I was hoping I could stay at your place when you went on spring break so I can take care of your dog, but I guess that’s not allowed either. I was thinking that I could come down here every once in a while and stay with you for a little bit, but I guess that’s not an option anymore so I guess that’s why I got even more upset. I won’t be able to see you as much because in order to do so I’d have to pay for a hotel.” Also another text I received this morning, “I wasn’t asking you to take on responsibility for anything or fix it. I was asking if it would be OK if I could stay with you. It was for a short time. I am sorry that I had to talk to about it on your birthday, but I didn’t expect the timing. I honestly didn’t think it would be too big of a deal. It’s not even a month. I’m sorry that I frustrate you so much and that I am such a disappointment too, and having to deal with your mom makes you unstable and makes your mental health be worse. I’m far from perfect and yes, I made choices without a backup plan and I shouldn’t have done that. I just honestly thought I had something real and then something to actually look forward to. I know you think I’m a failure and a loser and I’m sorry. I love you.” submitted by /u/AnastasiaSalv to r/TwoHotTakes [link] [comments]

So yeah, good opportunity to save and live the good life! Still in need of lots of stuff, plants and decor most of all, and a good rug. And I desperately need a new desk but this was already here and I can't get rid of it for now lmao Trying to go cozy boho and keeping a bit of a theme where the furniture is dark wood/light oak and then the accents and lighting are warm yellows and oranges. Most of the decor so far means a lot to me, from my favourite albums to family memories to some of my drawings. As I don't (plan to) see myself ending up with a lady in my life anytime soon I'm trying to make this a space just for me. I love cooking, I love music so those things take priority, hence the smaller bed and no massive TV. The couch is just there because it was already there, I hate it but it does hide the unpacked stuff nicely lmao It's taking some time getting used to the goat sounds, and there's also 2 airports relatively close, so it's pretty chaotic a lot of times, but also it's free and I can do what I want so 🤷 Next up is making it more cozy and decorated, expanding the studio and getting a new desk and sitting area. The sleeping area also desperately needs some love! Since it's on the top floor of the barn (there's 2 floors) I've named it "Penthouse Golden Goat" (but in old Dutch) Any more ideas? I'm open to anything! For those wondering about the smell I'll copy my comment from below: "Sometimes, unfortunately. The goats themselves smell okay (funnily enough they smell like how goats cheese tastes. I hope I didn't ruin it for you) But they clear out the gutters that collect their manure once a week so when the time comes there's a decently strong ammonia smell. But the owner has been working on making everything more smell proof. I also burn tons of incense and smoke loads of weed so I usually don't even notice because the room already smells very strong lmao" As for how I ended up here (record scratch): "Long story short, my parents are freelance farmers. Meaning, they run someone elses farm, but get to live there as well as get a salary. No living expenses etc. When a farmer wants to retire, doesn't have someone to take over the business and selling isn't worth it, they'll usually do an arrangement like this. Usually you'll get a house, but this time it was a little apartment building attached to the barns. I'd just moved back home after a breakup and was planning to move out again when they applied for this place. And with how fucked the housing market here is, this is an opportunity that's too good not to take. Unless I'd find a roommate (quite hard here) or get into another relationship (no thanks) renting a place would cost me half my income and buying isn't even an option. So yeah, I share a building with my parents, they live downstairs lmao. But we all have our own utilities and kitchen and bathrooms etc. So I technically live at home with mom and dad, but not really" submitted by /u/GinkgoForest420 to r/malelivingspace [link] [comments]

Our neighbors (a couple with a toddler) moved in a few months ago and have been super loud and annoying since day one, but we put up with it because we obviously had no choice and didn't want to start any arguments with them. The old lady underneath us apparently confronted them about the noise a while ago and got cussed out by the boyfriend/husband, so I'm sure they were aware people were bothered by them. WELL a few weeks ago they got a dog. A German shepherd, in a studio loft-style apartment (one single small room) and decided to leave it alone all day and night while they're gone which it was clearly unhappy about. Idk if it was separation anxiety or what but it barked constantly, all night sometimes, and we were getting fed up with not being able to sleep. My boyfriend went to the office and complained yesterday, and I think it might have been a bad idea. I'm pretty sure the office didn't know about the dog. We think they hadn't paid the pet deposit or rent for it and the office must not have been thrilled with them, because only a few hours after the complaint the family ran into us at the stairs and "apologized" (which seemed a lot more like guilt tripping since their very upset toddler was with them) and told us they got rid of it. I'm worried about retaliation to be honest, after the guy cussed that old lady out. My boyfriend and I are very quiet and don't cause issues but the fact that they seemed to know who complained worries me. I want to emphasize that we didn't know they were going to have to get rid of the dog over a single noise complaint, we just wanted them to do something about the barking. EDIT: Guys, thank you for the overwhelmingly positive replies. It's definitely helped with the anxiety of the whole situation. submitted by /u/Objective-Garbage-41 to r/Apartmentliving [link] [comments]

Just moved into r this studio. I definitely think it’s spacious enough for dining table or maybe a small island. I’m unsure on the couch position. Any ideas? submitted by /u/Fit-Wrongdoer-2889 to r/FengShui [link] [comments]

What in the hell just happened to me? submitted by /u/Cvnt-Force-Drama to r/NoMansSkyTheGame [link] [comments]

I am not the OOP. That would be u/throwrathefinances. OOP messaged me to ask if I could make her original post for her because the spam filter was giving her trouble (or her account was too new to post in r/aerials) after recalling how I helped another Redditor similarly on my page. I helped her post her original and first update, and she received advice from fellow aerialists in r/aerials in hopes of helping her daughter. Upon trying to share her second update, her account was removed for perhaps too many failed attempts. She has since made a new account called u/throwrathefinances2 and received assistance from the mods of r/aerials who approved her posts for the community Trigger Warning: Degrading of a minor online, sexual body shaming of a minor Mood Spoiler: hopeful for the daughter who has a lot of support in her corner Original Post: (November 11th, 2024) "I hope this is okay to share here. The reason I'm posting is because of my daughter who's been hurting in the aftermath of a recent performance. I'm sorry in advance for how long this turned out, but any advice from fellow aerialists would be greatly appreciated. My cousin Dana (not real name) had her wedding two weeks ago, and she asked if my daughter could perform at her reception. My daughter (Jane, also fake name) has practiced silks/lyra for the past few years at a nearby circus studio, and she's also performed with/through the studio at small gigs. She hopes to continue into adulthood and become a professional teacher, but this recent incident has shaken her confidence. She has a private Instagram to document her progress/performances, and I only post certain performances on my Facebook (her first gig with the studio and her first recital to name a few we're proud of). Some of our relatives saw her performances through my socials, and they watched her perform at her studio's Christmas recital when we hosted Christmas at our home a few years back; something that surprised her when they visited early to see her. I love how they coordinated that, and Jane said it was her loudest cheering section to date. Dana was one of the relatives who came up early to see her Christmas recital, and she's always been super supportive. She asked me if Jane would be willing to perform at the reception, and I asked on her behalf. Jane was honored and excited when I did, and we already had a portable rig for her too (though we ended up renting a taller one from her studio. Dana got the idea from a YouTube video featuring an aerialist who performed at a wedding reception, and she showed us while requesting white silks and a white outfit. We scoped out the venue and purchased white silks along with a white costume that Dana approved of, and Jane was really excited throughout. Jane even worked on choreography to a song that Dana requested, and she put a lot of time into it (even asking one of her coaches to help her with it). Dana insisted on paying her for the gig despite Jane not expecting to be paid, and she paid her a few hundred. However, Dana's had a change of heart. Jane received a standing ovation after her performance that surprised her, but we didn't know anything was wrong until Dana went on Facebook a few days later. Dana said she didn't approve of the outfit Jane wore and that she specifically told her to not wear white. She also said my husband and I pressured her to have Jane perform and that the performance gave off am "unclassy" vibe, lies that my husband and I couldn't believe. We sent Dana numerous costume links, and we purchased the one she liked. There was also nothing wrong with Jane's performance; Dana was one of the people cheering afterward. Jane received nothing but compliments afterward, but I'm disgusted that she had to see that post after all the work she put into it. The post also had comments disabled for what it's worth. I called Dana to confront her about the lies, but she didn’t pick up numerous calls. I then called her parents who, like us, had received messages about her post, and they said that Dana was wrong. They apologized on her behalf and said they were also disgusted. Dana's mom also said that Dana vented to her before making her post a few days after the reception. Dana told her she regretted asking Jane to perform given the attention (compliments and cheers) she received for it. Her mom also said that she felt upstaged with Jane wearing white and having to hear how good she was. Dana's parents tried to call her after she made her post, but she didn't answer after their previous conversation ended with her parents telling her she shouldn't be bitter because she specifically asked Jane to perform. Dana's parents reported the post along with us/others, and we've told the truth to those who reached out along with a post to explain our side/stand up for Jane (we have text proof of sending costume links that Dana chose from). Dana's parents also requested to talk to Jane on the phone to apologize for Dana's behavior, and my husband and I told Jane that Dana was wrong (and that we'll be distancing ourselves from Dana permanently). Dana's parents were surprised at her behavior, and we were too having seen her grow up. Granted, we only see extended family for Thanksgiving and Christmas because we live far, but other relatives were surprised too as it seemed to come from left field. Maybe there's a side of Dana we'll never know from our limited holiday/milestone interactions, but our focus is Jane. We've tried to cheer Jane up by offering to take her to dinner among other activities, but she's been hurting which is why I'm here. Jane hasn't practiced (at home or the studio) since the reception, and I don't want to invade her space at her studio by asking/telling anyone there (in case she doesn't want anyone to know). She asked me to return the white silks and costume after being so excited to receive them. She also said she's going to take an extended break from aerial to reconsider if she wants to continue. Aside from aerial, she's taken a break from seeing non-aerial friends too, choosing to pretty much keep to herself. We would appreciate any advice from fellow aerialists on how to lift her spirits. We reminder her of how we're proud of her (along with the many compliments she received), but she's asked for space and to not talk about it. We're going to respect that and let time do it's thing, but we'll consider any advice from other aerialists who can relate to the time and work she put in. Sorry for this being so long, but we appreciate anyone who read and takes the time to reply." This is the video that Dana sent to us via text that initially inspired her to have an aerialist performance at her wedding wearing white and using white silks (NOT OOP PERFORMING): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jY1ZTVc51bI ____________________ First Update: (November 24th, 2024) "Before I get into what's happened since my last post, I wanna thank everyone who took the time to comment. Two pieces of advice really stood out, and I'll get to them shortly. Since my original post, Dana's Facebook post is gone. I don't know if she deleted it or enough people reported it for Facebook to remove it, but we're glad it's gone. She never apologized to us (or Jane) or even bothered to call, so our position on being permanently done with Dana stands. My husband and I made a post on my Facebook addressing the lies she spewed about our daughter, and we shared photo proof of Dana's texts where she approved of Jane's white costume from links we sent, not to mention the song choice she sent us too. Better yet, Dana's mother reposted it on her account which really surprised me. Dana's mother wrote that they loved Jane's act and that they disapproved of Dana's actions. My husband and I also made sure that Jane was okay with us addressing it on Facebook, and she said it was fine. Normally, I wouldn't use Facebook to address drama if aimed at me. But since this involves a grown adult attacking a minor, we felt the need to address it publicly because she disparaged her publicly, and Jane will remember whether we stood up for her or not years from now. I had a chance to speak with Dana's mother since my original post on the phone, and she spoke to Dana again since our last call. Dana reiterated how she regretted asking Jane to perform, but she harped on the standing ovation that bothered her the most. Dana told her that she expected Jane to get some polite applause, but that the overwhelming response really set her over the edge because she expected the loudest cheers to be when she and her husband entered the reception, but that went to Jane instead. Dana and her husband also received a great reception when they entered the reception, but Jane's performance did too, and Dana didn't expect it. Heck, even Jane was surprised by it too; she never received a standing ovation from a solo act before. But Dana's mother believes that if Dana had asked someone to sing who received a similar reception, Dana's jealousy would've been all the same. Someone suggested seeing if Jane would be interested in speaking to a therapist given how hurtful Dana's comments could be for a teen, and Jane said she's open to it so long as it isn't a counselor at school because, as of now, she doesn't want anyone at school or her studio to know about the incident, and she vaguely told the coach who helped her choreograph that it went fine. We will respect her privacy request as it's her right to control the narrative. But in the same vein, I suggested therapy for Dana to Dana's mother since her reaction might be a bigger insecurity, and she said she'd ask. The other thing someone suggested was the possibility of Dana's husband (or anyone) making an inappropriate comment to Jane during the reception that made her shut down and not want to see friends or practice days before Dana's post. My husband decided to ask her, and Jane said no when he did. If something happened, perhaps she'd be more comfortable telling a therapist with time. But on the bright side, she said she might want to try a different aerial studio because she doesn't want to answer questions about how it went (or share a video) at her home studio, so we will help her find somewhere new as she asked. We hope she doesn't permanently leave her current studio because she has friends and coaches who are supportive (and she performs with that studio's troupe at festivals/gigs), but I personally understand the need to sometimes go somewhere where nobody knows you for a break, and we hope that that will help her. She hasn't said definitely yet. But if we does, we'll take her. She still wants an extended break from aerial in the meantime. But even if/when she goes back, she said she may never want to perform again and would rather do it leisurely, one of the reasons she doesn't want to return to her home studio where she's a part of their troupe. She asked if we'd tell her troupe coach that she won't perform with them anymore if it comes to it. And if that's what she wants down the road, then we will. Hopefully time heals this wound and helps her at least keep the friends she has there, but we can only hope." __________________________ Second Update: (December 24th, 2024) "When I tried to make each past post, they were immediately removed for some reason; thus why I asked Madison Brave to post on my behalf after a few failed attempts on my original and update posts. I was able to make a post to my own profile stating that I gave Madison permission to post on my behalf. But when I tried to add this final update, my account was supended as soon as I hit post, and I'm guessing I tried too many times to repost it along with the many attempts on my original and update too. I have since made a new account and reached out to the mods for assistance posting my last update after Madison suggested that I reach out to them instead of constantly reposting it previously, and they were gracious enough to help me This is going to be the last time I update, and I want to thank everyone who gave advice. In my last post, I mentioned that Jane said she'd be open to talking to a professional so long as it wasn't anyone from her school, and we agreed to accommodate her. However, she changed her mind shortly after and said she wanted to talk to her coach instead whom she had been brushing off since the reception and being vague about how it went. She and her coach put a lot of time into choregraphing the act for Dana, and she didn't even charge her for the sessions to do so. Her coach is also part of her circus studio's performing troupe, and she has always been supportive and understanding. We supported her decision to talk with her coach, and they did in-person. It was after they spoke that Jane spoke to me following her coach's suggestion to do so, and I'm going to be somewhat vague about certain details of our discussion. She also asked to speak to me first before we'd talk to my husband afterward, and that's what we did. Jane opened up about how Dana sent a private message to her Instagram the day after the reception, but to her personal Instagram and not the private circus one. Dana's private message was just as bitter as her Facebook posts, but much more hurtful. Dana called Jane derogatory sexual terms in her message, and I can't express how angry my husband and I still are. Jane said she was surprised upon receiving the message. Dana was always supportive of her craft, and she gave her a standing ovation along with her husband. Looking back, Dana probably did because everyone else was doing so. But Dana also wrote that she only received the ovation because they were family who were "biased" and "couldn't tell the difference between a good and bad aerialist". Jane blocked Dana long before we spoke, and she said she was hurt because Dana was one of the relatives who came up for Christmas early when he hosted some years back to attend her studio's Christmas recital which surprised her, and we all went out to dinner afterwards too. My husband and I tried our best to remind her that Dana's reaction was a reflection of her insecurities rather than anything Jane did. If the best man gave a speech that garnered the same reaction, Dana would've directed her vitriol at him. Jane said she understood that it wasn't her fault, but there was more in Dana's message that hurt her confidence such as bodily comments that were disgusting. She said she may return to aerial at some point, but that she still needs time and is unsure about performing again compared to doing it leisurely. We told her, among other things, that we commended her decision to speak with her coach and that we'll respect her ultimate decision. Jane also said that she didn't tell us immediately because she wasn't sure if she wanted further drama with Dana if we told her parents about her message. However, after some time, she said she actually wanted us to tell them because she felt that Dana deserved repercussions for it. She said she was surprised that Dana's parents called her out publicly (on Facebook) without knowing about the message, so that made her feel comfortable with us telling them. Jane also saved a screenshot of Dana's message. And while we agreed to tell her parents, we suggested that she'd delete it afterwards because it's not good to carry around hurtful things. She's also still open to speaking to a professional about the other stuff in Dana's message that's more hurtful so long as it's no one from her school. We are in the process of trying to find a therapist who can help with some of the infidelities that led to her shutdown in the weeks after the performance I honestly cannot thank her coach enough, but I just want to touch on a few more things that were suggested in comments. I received a few DMs saying we were just as bad as Dana for addressing Dana's lies on Facebook, so I wanna be clear. My husband and I rarely use Facebook. And if someone had started drama with me on a Facebook post, I wouldn't use Facebook to address it personally. I'd opt for a call instead. But since she disparaged a minor publicly with lies regarding costumes that we had text proof of her approving, we felt the need to post those messages proving that she signed off on them, and we asked Jane if she was okay with it first. The other thing a few people asked was whether her costume was potentially inappropriate. The costume we purchased came from a website that many professional circus performers use (including some who used to be in Cirque Du Soleil and tag the shop while wearing it on their socials), and we purchased other costumes from there in the past. Heck, some of their costumes have been used in wedding gigs by hired circus performers too. Jane's costume also received many compliments, but we're glad Jane realizes that she isn't responsible for Dana's insecurities. This was also Jane's first negative experience in her young performing career. Despite knowing Dana is entirely at fault, her words still hurt as they were close before this. Jane has kept in contact with her coach since, and she's even considering a different apparatus to take her mind off of silks that is temporarily tainted. We hope that time and therapy will help her with whatever she chooses, but her coach has also floated the idea of organizing a hangout with her troupe completely outside of aerial like a zipline/rope course day to get her mind off of it while seeing her friends, and she said she'd be open to it. Dana's parents also sent Shari's Berries for Jane which was really sweet, and Jane sent them a text to thank them too. Regarding Dana's parents, I discussed the private message with Dana's mother, and she was even more disgusted than before. She said that she and her husband would deal with it and that there'd be permanent changes to their relationship with Dana until she apologies and then some. She also apologized to us on her behalf and said she didn't raise her to be like that. But for what it's worth, even before we mentioned Dana's message, she told me that Dana's husband wasn't thrilled with her Facebook post among other things Dana complained about regarding the wedding, things that I had no clue about. She also said she's not sure if they'll be together much longer due to other things going on too, but I'll keep this to Jane only and hope that she comes back to aerial someday (or even a different apparatus if she chooses). ______________________________ Third Update: (January 26th, 2025) I didn't plan on making another post, but something incredible happened after my last post, and I couldn't resist. Some time after making Dana's mother aware of Dana's private Instagram message to Jane, Dana's husband reached out to us on Facebook asking if we could have a call, and it was the first I'd heard from him since the reception. After arranging a call, he said he heard about the effect Dana's Facebook post and Instagram message had on Jane and that he felt terrible about her considering quitting. He said he disapproved of Dana's behavior regarding Jane among other things post-wedding that led to him pursuing a divorce. However, upon talking to his father about how Dana's behavior potentially ruined her passion, his parents were equally disgusted and wanted to do something, and that led to him reaching out. He said he felt bad about Jane alienating herself from her studio/performing troupe friends as a result of Dana's behavior, and that gave way to an idea. He wanted to ask if Jane would be comfortable performing at a fundraising dinner alongside her troupe if he hired them through the studio so that something good could come from Dana's mess, and he figured that performing alongside her friends would make her more comfortable. He also said that Dana's original Facebook post had become a talking point among many of his friends/relatives who attended the reception and felt bad about Dana disparaging her. My husband and I even received a few Facebook messages expressing support for Jane after Dana's post, but he wanted to do something more. He talked to his father about booking a restaurant/catering space for a fundraiser banquet that would support her circus studio and performers, and the money would go to the studio and a local charity. However, he also wants to give a college donation to the performers and allow attendees to donate to the performers' college funds as many of them are Jane's age. He said he partly got the idea from relatives who wanted to express support for Jane outside of a Facebook message to us, and some even asked if Jane's performance would be uploaded which wasn't for various reasons (Dana's bitterness and him not wanting to post a bad memory for Jane). He said that the event would only happen if Jane was comfortable because he wanted to encourage her to perform again with her aerial friends, and it wouldn't happen immediately as he's trying to work on a divorce. She and her troupe would have time to choreograph, and the banquet would support the local youth in the community along with a charity for a good cause. I told him I would ask and get back to him. And when I relayed everything to Jane, she was excited about the idea of performing with her friends which made me happy to see her open to it. When I told him her reply, he was happy that something good would come from Dana's mess. He also reckoned that members of his extended family/friends would come because many were upset on Jane's behalf, and we're going to invite our family as well. He asked for our help in booking the studio's troupe, and we told Jane's coach who has been helpful and in touch with him too. I'll try to make no more than one more update after the event, but I wanted to share this because it came out of nowhere and seems to have reignited Jane's passion. I can't thank him and his father enough! His vision is to allow someone from the charity his father knows to speak early at the banquet. And after that person does, members of the troupe will perform acts as part of a 30-40 minute show, giving each performer a chance to shine before he and his father end the program with monetary donations to the charity, studio, and performers' college funds before a plate or something is passed so that attendees can donate to the college funds too. It may be a few months until it happens, but I'll try my best to update when it does. I apologize for how long this update was, but I also appreciate everyone who gave advice on my other posts too Fourth Update: (May 18th, 2025) "This will be the last time I update as we received some questions about what happened. Dana's ex-husband and his father originally wanted to involve a local charity in the event, but those plans fell apart for various reasons (including financial) which led to a pivot. With the charity no longer involved, they decided to make the circus studio the sole charity with all banquet proceedings going to the studio/performers scholarships instead. The cost of the venue they had in mind was a little expensive coming off of the wedding expenses, so they pivoted to using the studio's space instead which was free and often used for student recitals The difference from recitals was that they'd use the money for the original venue to promote the event in the community as a way to support local artists, and the event would be an open house with giveaways and free trial class sign-ups predicated around a performance showcase. They've been able to promote on sites like Eventbrite and even the library, and they figured that Jane would feel at home in her home studio where she's done recitals many times. All sales will go through (and be organized by) the studio as they've done various events before (like the troupe that Jane performs with at festivals). Members of both of our families have commited to attending, and a few who live further have opted to donate online and watching the recording afterwards As we are months removed from the wedding incident from November, Jane has still not received an apology from Dana. However, there was a comment someone said that we relayed, and that was that sometimes you won't get an apology in life. Jane has come around a lot since November, but hasn't performed since then. The fundraiser will be her first performance since, and it will take place in July. Dana's mother has stated that she will not attend, but will make a donation online as well as a personal donation to Jane through us. She also stated that Dana will not be allowed at any family junctions (Thanksgiving and Christmas among others) until she apologizes, and she has already been informed I also want to add a final nugget that Dana's mother told me about. As Dana continued to not apologize and vent to her, she disclosed another reason that made her upset. When the emcee announced the wedding party's entrance into the reception one by one (similar to an NBA starting lineup during pregame introductions for those who don't know), Dana and her husband entered last. However, the emcee told everyone to "stand and welcome the new Mr. & Mrs." as he announced their entrance into the reception, and that later made her upset. When Jane received the standing ovation following her performance, Dana said that no one told the audience to stand and applaud. They did it on their own volition, and Dana said she didn’t think they would've done the same for her and her husband if the emcee didn't tell them to stand. Her mother tried to explain that she was comparing apples to oranges; that the entrance and a performance are two vastly different things. But she still hasn't apologized, and I hope she comes around someday. I previously mentioned that I suggested if Dana would be open to talking to a counselor, but her mother said that Dana wasn't and was simply being immature. She also said there were similar behaviors we hadn't seen inside of their family of similar overreactions, but time has helped Jane start to move forward although she's still torn on performing as a career. Before the wedding, she wanted to perform/teach after high school on the side of a day job (with the hopes of it one day becoming a day job), but she said she's reconsidering long term. She'll continue to perform with her troupe through graduation and see what happens then, and that's better than her quitting The very last thing I'll add is personal. Dana's parents are Christians, and they raised her Christian too. I'm not sure whether Dana is or not, but I was raised Christian before I later walked away, but there was a verse that came to mind that I shared with Jane. Not to push religion because we don't attend church, but because it's good advice that I thought she could use. Romans 12:15 (NLT) says: "Be happy with those who are happy, and weep with those who weep". Building each other up is a good way to live, but she saw how hurtful the opposite can be. On the day it happened, we all thought Dana's wedding was beautiful. Jane was so surprised with the standing ovation as we talked about it on the way home along with the many compliments she received. 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Hey everyone! After months of slowly putting it together, I finally feel like my little studio in Montreal is starting to reflect my personality. I went for a cozy, earthy vibe with some Indian-inspired art, layered curtains around the bed for privacy, and a mix of textures to break up the space. I wanted to make sure it doesn’t feel too stuffy but my mother is visiting soon and I have guest over very often too so I put the curtains around bed for some privacy and the sofabed. I’ve order an Indian art print arriving next week and it will go above my bed. I’m still playing around with the layout (especially the wall art and reading nook), so any suggestions are welcome, especially if you have ideas to make it feel more spacious or cohesive! Would love to know what you think! submitted by /u/Funny-Dust8670 to r/malelivingspace [link] [comments]

Hello all! I moved into this studio apartment 6 months ago now and have slowly accumulated some things, it’s smaller but I just want it to feel cozy and “me” if that makes sense. Kind of going for the mid-century aesthetic a tad, any feedback or suggestions would be greatly appreciated!!! Especially any ideas on the wall above my desk (soon to have a pc on it) and the corner wall above my bed that has some tape. I also want to get some plants, any suggestions there? submitted by /u/Typical_Ordinary5996 to r/malelivingspace [link] [comments]

I've been struggling to decorate my studio apartment for years because of its unusual shape. I just can't seem to find a layout that works well. I'm open to any layout or decoration ideas. How would you arrange the furniture and design the space? Any suggestions or inspiration would be greatly appreciated! (I made this model myself in Sketchup free, so it's not really professional.) submitted by /u/No_Lack_4195 to r/homedesign [link] [comments]

Hi all! I see the beautiful spaces you guys have created and I would love (and need) your opinions on how to layout this apartment I’m moving into soon. It’s a small studio (attaching a plan), and I need to fit my work area, a full size bed and a living area (couch + TV). Any and all ideas appreciated! I also love cutesy girly whimsical vibes, so any tips regarding that are welcome too! submitted by /u/SleepyLurker961127 to r/femalelivingspace [link] [comments]

I found out that my husband cheated on me when I was pregnant. Both times. I only found out 3 months ago and until then we were a very happy family and my husband is a great dad. Our daughters are 14 and 16. They know the reason we are getting a divorce and that he had two affairs with two women but not all the details. They are opposed to the idea of divorce anyway and they threatened to never see me again if I went through with it because the offense happened so long ago. I understand that they don’t want change and their lives in upheaval. I know all that but I just can’t be with him anymore. I can’t even look at him. Nothing is working. Therapy is not working and they are adamant about never seeing me again. I haven’t seen them in two months. We rent a small studio apartment now and we live every other week in the house with the girls and the other lives in the studio apartment. The girls refuse to stay with me at the house during my weeks but they stay in the studio with my husband (therapist said not to change the arrangement anyway because I thought maybe I should stay in the studio permanently so they have more room to live). We bought our house 2003 and it has quadrupled in value so we are going to be able to have two decent homes even if not as big and beautiful as this one but it is not like they will be living in bad conditions. Before all this, they were close to both of us and loved us equally. Now they only love him. Last week they made it clear that if I filed for divorce, they will never see me again. I said I was never going back to him and they said I made my choice and they will never see me again. submitted by /u/Ok_Ostrich5154 to r/AITAH [link] [comments]

hello there, this is my first apartment and i’ve been here for a bit over three months. it’s still quite empty (especially near my couch) but i’m trying to figure out the decor of it all. i’m not sure what to do with the walls, they are boring and empty and i need color; maybe art or plants? i have no idea where to start. does anyone have any ideas? submitted by /u/kourtlove17 to r/femalelivingspace [link] [comments]

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I live in Teton county, Wyoming, widely known as Jackson Hole. It is one of the wealthiest counties in America. The uber rich own houses here, so they can visit once a year and go skiing for a week. Housing here is so bad that a studio apartment can go for $2000 a month, and it isn’t that good of an apartment. One of my supervisors makes almost twice as much as I do, and she lives with three roommates. I know people with college degrees that illegally live on public land here (National Parks/Forests) and take showers in rivers because their three jobs can’t pay their rent. If you’re lucky, your employer will offer housing. In this situation grown adults share rooms that can be worst than college dorms. I’ve heard conversations with rich people that come here for the scenery and low Wyoming taxes and they are completely delusional. They have no idea why we have a worker shortage, they just complain that their favorite restaurant had to shorten their hours. And their response to increasing pay when I ask? “People don’t need higher wages, they are just being selfish” Do they really believe that their barista is going to happily serve them for literal shit? Is the cashier going to commute 2 and a half hours each way so they can live in an apartment instead of their car while being berated by spoiled assholes? No! Eventually something is going to drastically change, the bubble will pop. Either our wages are going to be increased so that we can actually survive, or the working class is going to leave because the tips aren’t going to cut it anymore. submitted by /u/Possible-Nature2248 to r/antiwork [link] [comments]

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