Wedding Guest Dress

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I just ordered a couple of wedding guest dresses from Lulus. It’s very reasonably priced and she can filter reviews based on height of the wearer/weights size dress to get a good idea about the fit. I think she’s probably an XS in their sizing.

I’ve had great luck browsing summer wedding guest dresses there because the mix of silk slips, lace pieces, and bold cuts makes it easy to match different dress codes without overthinking it. I also grabbed a pair of their evening heels to pull everything together, so it turned into a one-stop fix for outfits that don’t feel cookie‑cutter.

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Quick (but very important) edit: PLEASE do not harass anyone you think may be the person I am talking about. I’ve had a girl reach out to me that is in no way involved who included this dress in a haul because she is being attacked. Apparently this dress is pretty popular and people are managing to reverse image search and find it in peoples videos. This was posted (to my knowledge) only to an Instagram story and I don’t believe anywhere else. Even if you do find this girl, I don’t want her being harassed. She’s, in my opinion, not a great person, but that doesn’t make it okay for people to attack her. It was heavily requested that I update my post from yesterday and truly who am I to disappoint. I got tons of feedback from people giving me ideas of how to spite her to people calling me a raging control freak for wanting people to follow a dress code for a wedding my fiancé and I am spending… a lot.. of money on for it to be a good experience for us AND all of our adorned guests. I know I don’t have to, but I do want to defend myself to a point. Skip ahead if you don’t care of course! While I can see the side of people having autonomy over their dress, I standby my thought that it is reasonable to have a standard of dress for your guests. Should a guest be unable to afford something suitable for the dress code, a majority of our guests know that they can contact me and we can work something out and/or help them get something they’re comfortable in that fits the vibe. Additionally, we were advised by our venue to enforce a dress code, which they said protects their reputation. Take that how you will. I’ve never been referred to as a control freak, but if not wanting a guest to wear a white-ish dress to my wedding makes me one, so be it. My upset comes more from a place of lack of respect for myself AND our event than the concern of being “upstaged”. Intentionally wearing something revealing and white to a wedding is a show of disrespect in my opinion. I have absolutely zero concerns about being upstaged regardless of what anyone wears. There was someone that said I needed a better designer if that was a concern, but I love my dress and that’s all that matters. I showed my fiancé the original post and he said “it’s like if someone wears muddy sneakers into your brand new Ferrari. You’re not worried about them getting more attention because they’re wearing muddy sneakers, you’re upset because they don’t respect your Ferrari AND are taking away from what makes it “nice”. In regard to me seeing her post in the first place, I follow the entire friend group on Instagram and followed her the day I met her and never unfollowed. Honestly, even though I don’t like HER, I do enjoy her shopping content. Obviously this ended that, but I did enjoy watching some of her content. I definitely do not go out of my way to “stalk” her as some have claimed. It showed up on my feed and I watched casually, I just got lucky to have the post that she mentioned our wedding in on my feed I guess, but we were told by someone else in the friend group that is friends with her that they planned to tell us what she was going to wear since it, again, showed up very white on camera. We would’ve found out about this eventually because she was pretty obvious about it. A complete stranger even commented on the post and said “You’re wearing a white gown to a wedding? That’s… a choice”. Lastly, A lot of people attacked me for not immediately alerting my fiance about the situation. For context, my fiancé works night shift and this began while he was at work. He came home from work at 6 AM and went straight to sleep. I didn’t want to interrupt him working (what he does is important and him being distracted can be dangerous for others and I didn’t want that) and I definitely didn’t want to prevent him from getting his sleep once he was home. I thought that this wasn’t a big enough deal to affect his job/health and that it could wait until tonight and honestly stand by that. Now for the real update: Friday night I showed him the messages and explained what happened. He said “absolutely not” and agreed that it was 1) not following the dress code expressed on our invitation and 2) way too white for comfort. He was beyond pissed at the way that she talked to me and said he’d handle it. I wanted to be involved, but as many of you pointed out, it could very easily be spun that I’m some crazy Bridezilla should I be the one to pull the plug on her coming. He called her on speaker, and she immediately asked if it was about me “making a big deal about a dress”. He said “no, it’s about ME making a big deal about the dress, you’re not wearing that to our wedding.” You could tell she was already escalated and went off about how she won’t allow anyone to say what she can and can’t put on her body. He stayed quiet while she ranted for at least a couple of minutes (took all I had in me to not chime in “calm downnn”) and waited for her to go silent. As soon as she did, he said something to the effect of “You are no longer invited.” And hung up. It only took about 10 minutes before we had someone reaching out to us asking for the full story. She told one of my fiancé’s friends that I freaked out about her “dressing like a whore” (mind you, I said NOTHING about the style to her and I haven’t said anything about her “looking like a whore” ANYWHERE, including here on Reddit, the post blew up and she may have seen it at some point, but I know I never said anything like that. A lot of commenters did though.) We explained our stance and that her behavior surrounding everything was unacceptable and we did not want problems on our big day and everyone seemed to just let it go. People that know her are still reaching out and probably will continue to as she makes her rounds freaking out to people. I wanted to see if she was going to blast us on social media, but we both have been blocked, which is fine honestly. All in all, I stand by the fact that having a dress code at a wedding is fine. She is no longer coming. No word on if her boyfriend is coming but I suspect not. I plan to just move on and alert security that she is not to be let in. Thankfully we will have security AND a day of coordinator to hide behind should she try to pull anything crazy since she does know the venue and date. If anything crazy happens, I’ll update in June lol. If you come across an Instagram Reel or TikTok of a girl upset that she was unvited to a wedding because of her dress choice, just know that it could be my wedding and the dress was only part of it lol. Thanks to everyone for the helpful advicelink to original submitted by /u/dumpsterfire_x to r/TwoHotTakes [link] [comments]

I have a few weddings coming up this year that I need dresses for. I’ve looked EVERYWHERE online. Ordered several dresses and nothing was the quality I was looking for. I have health issues, so going to department stores in person and trying things on isn’t an option. I’m weary to try sights like Azazie and other bridesmaid sites. I’m26 and looking for something sexy, but not slutty, comfortable and under $350. submitted by /u/EconomistSecret253 to r/Weddingattireapproval [link] [comments]

My husband is European and I’m Moroccan. We will get married in a month and we decided to have a small western wedding. I love my culture but Moroccan weddings stress me out. Anyways, the dress code is “casual” because it’s a small thing and the decoration is very cottage core if that makes sense. We are also having a henna party for me so we can have a small Moroccan celebration. But I only invited my side of the family, friends and my husbands immediate family and close friends. So from his side the mother and grandmothers are coming. And the wife’s and girlfriend of his 3 closest friends. In this henna party there is no dress code. My Moroccan friends will wear traditional dresses. But for my European guests they will dress however they want to. Anyways, there’s this cousin from my husband side who has converted to Islam. Which, good for her I guess. She isn’t invited to the henna party because she’s doesn’t enter the category of close family or friends. She is invited to the wedding and she insists on wearing a takchita. They are a specific type of Moroccan dress that’s very over the top. You can look them up. They are in no way casual. You can’t make it casual. I kindly asked her to just wear a western dress. Or any dress that’s not so over the top. She, as a Muslim woman, believes that I’m not respecting her religion. But (and that’s my opinion) religion is not the same as culture. That would be like me converting to Buddhism and showing up to places dressed in a kimono in situations that are not appropriate. And I know Japan has no official religion and therefore you can’t connect Japanese culture to any religion. But the same can be said about these Moroccan dresses. They are not religious. They are cultural. Anyways, my justification for finally telling her she can’t show up dressed like this is because I feel like it’s too over the top, won’t fit and she basically will stand out too much. Once again, look them up. These dresses are really extra. In Moroccan weddings it makes sense because everyone wears their best outfits. But not on a western wedding. She said that she can’t express her freely she isn’t coming, and I told her that she’s free to not come. And once again, she’s not Moroccan. If an elder lady from Morocco (or any other country) wanted to show up with their culture attire I wouldn’t say anything. But she’s a young European woman, so I don’t think I’m being disrespectful to anyone’s culture. TL;DR An European woman wants to wear a Moroccan dress (very over the top) in my western and casual wedding. I told her she has to stick to the dress code (casual) but she refuses. She isn’t coming to the wedding if we don’t allow her to wear this dress. We don’t really care if she comes or not. But she’s very hurt with this submitted by /u/purpleyellou to r/AITAH [link] [comments]

I’m going to a wedding in late March/April! The wedding theme is Wildflower/Formal spring attire. These are some of the options I found online and wanted your suggestions/opinions on which one I should get or that matches the attire and theme for this wedding! Which ones fit the theme! submitted by /u/WhatJerry to r/Weddingattireapproval [link] [comments]

I’m looking for a wedding guest dress that’s comfortable, flattering, and won’t feel like a one-time outfit. I want something that works for different venues and is easy to wear all day without overheating. Ideally, a style I could wear again for other events. Ive tried a few trendy options, but, they either felt uncomfortable. which wedding guest dresses have actually been worth it for you on your experience, and what features made them better compared to others? Follow-up: after reading everyone’s comments and doing a bit of research I ended up going with the Margovil Midi Dress and I’m planning to style it in a way that feels comfortable and reusable for other events too. Thanks for all the thoughtful tips on fabrics and silhouettes that actually work all day long and don’t feel like a one-off outfit. submitted by /u/Elabd_Birhane to r/Weddingattireapproval [link] [comments]

Hi everyone, I’m trying to figure out if I’m overreacting or if this was actually rude/something i should bring up at some point. I (25F) went to my really good friend’s wedding. She didn’t have any official bridesmaids but I was her only unofficial bridesmaid. I wore the dress in the photos and the only “skin” was my arms and i guess my back as the dress had an X cutout which was covered by my hair. The groom is religious and from a country near the Middle East with more conservative cultural expectations around modesty and clothing. During the wedding, my friend told me, “John (fake husband name) leaned over and said, ‘It looks like (me) left half of her dress at home.’” She said it completely seriously, and she didn’t defend me or say he was kidding (I know he was not joking because I know how he is and his standards for my friend) nor did she say anything about my dress like it’s pretty or it’s good or fine. Other guests that attended were wearing long dresses without sleeves, short tight dresses, long tight dresses etc. It wasn’t a super conservative reception at all, very informal and fun- drinking partying etc. I felt really insecure and sad after and i’m just wondering why she would even say this to me. There have been other times where she has said that he told her I only got my job (a really good job) because someone in the interview thought i was attractive. Soooo it’s not just this one thing it’s plenty. It feels like I can’t do anything right? So AIO? What do I do? Bring it up? Brush it off? Is the dress not okay for a wedding? submitted by /u/Human-Acanthaceae128 to r/AmIOverreacting [link] [comments]

I am NOT the Original Poster. That is theimperishableroach. She posted in r/bridezillas Thanks to u/BakingGiraffeBakes for the rec! Do NOT comment on Original Posts. Latest update is 7 days old. Mood Spoiler: yikes on multiple bikes but OOP and boyfriend are fine Original Post: July 15, 2024 I apologize if this isn’t formatted the best, but I tried my best to break it up so it can be readable. :’) So to start this off, my boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now, and I’d say me and his family have been on decent terms. They are traditional, and I am alternative, but they accept their son’s decision, and are generally very polite with me. Issues began to arise, however, after his sister got engaged last fall. I had met her and interacted with her a few times at that point, and she had been generally nice to me. She told me that I was invited to the wedding, which I thought was very sweet, but little did I know what would entail. Her fiancé approached my boyfriend out of the blue, and asked him to be a groomsmen, to which he didn’t give much of an answer. My boyfriend expressed to me later that he wanted to attend as a guest, and really did not want to participate in the wedding itself. He has pretty bad anxiety, so that’s understandable, and he ended up declining the offer. His sister was immediately not taking no for an answer, and went as far as to send him the tux that he was “going to need” despite him declining the offer. What was even more shocking was that the tux was going to be hundreds of dollars, and she wanted him to purchase it, not rent it. He once again stood his ground, and she went to their parents and had them attempt to confront him. They immediately brought me up and began blaming me for his decision, despite me obviously having no say, and he defended me while once again giving a firm no. Things were quiet on that subject for awhile until a few weeks later when she informed him that she would not be able to provide a dinner plate for me. They are still planning the wedding, and at that point it was over 8 months away, so there is no reason why I could not be accommodated for considering that I was invited. She claimed that I was still invited, but that she just couldn’t accommodate an extra person. It was pretty obvious that I now wasn’t welcome, so I was debating even putting the date on my calendar to go, but now there is a new installment to this saga. She sent my boyfriend a message out of the blue, telling him that I will need to dye my hair, and that there is now a dress code for guests. Everyone in attendance is expected to wear certain colors (burnt orange or green) and I am supposed to dye my hair black. If you have ever dyed your hair, you know how hard black is to remove, so that request is insanely unreasonable. My hair is usually a dark red, and is rarely vibrant, but that’s beyond the point. I am not ruining my hair to accommodate to her guest rules, and the best that I could do is a wig, but I am honestly done at this point. My boyfriend respects my decision either way and has got my back no matter what, but I am still just in awe, because I have never experienced this. I feel like it’s 100% targeted, and I don’t know how this will affect my relationship with his family going forward. I just needed to talk about this, and I’m wondering if anyone else has had this happen. tl:dr- my boyfriend’s sister is seemingly angry at him for not wanting to be a groomsmen, so she is singling me out by not providing food for me, and asking that I dye my hair black. updates will be in the comments for now until I can better format them to be shorter and fit well into this post ! I can tag people in them if they get lost among the other comments ! Some of OOP's Comments: EtonRd: What on earth does it mean that you are still invited but they can’t give you dinner? You would sit at a table at the reception and everybody else would be served food and they wouldn’t serve you food? That’s insane. [...] OOP: Right? That was the most confusing part to me! I may have a trip that conflicts with her wedding anyway, so I can just casually miss it. I luckily have a very supportive partner who will defend me no matter what and doesn’t put up with his family’s bs so no matter what it should be fine. greenswizzlewooster: Sis is insane, and she hates you. Don't go to the wedding. There is no sane reason a guest wouldn't be served dinner like any other guest. And it's bad enough when brides presume to ask their attendents to dye their hair, but guests? She can go f herself. OOP: FR! I have heard of brides asking bridesmaids to dye their hair, which is already a big commitment, but guests? the dress code also threw me off so heavily bc why would she want everyone in attendance matching a certain aesthetic and not just bridesmaids/groomsmen? I hope people don’t show up because of it honestly. mammabearlovestea: First, she’s crazy. I hope you don’t end up going, these demands and changes are enough to give me whiplash and I’m not even going through this. The lack of a meal is so strange and it sounds like she keeps coming up with weird things to make you want to stay away. Second, with dark red hair and green clothes, I reckon you’d look stunning! So why on earth would you need to dye your hair? OOP: I’ll be going on a trip around the time of her wedding, so I’ll likely be off having the time of my life while she has her boring little wedding. I would’ve been down to wear green 100% bc I think it would look nice, but she just had to ruin it with the hair request. Imo she’s delivering her own karma by making people wear two very conflicting colors that only look good on their own, and I don’t even think she realizes it. jethrine: Oh, she realizes it all right. She wants to look good by comparison. OOP: apparently the aesthetic is supposed to be “fall colors” but I cannot see emerald green and burnt orange together fitting that vibe well. I would’ve chosen a mahogany color that closer matches the orange, and stuck to warm fall tones, but she either has no coordination skills or you’re exactly right. OOP adds: I have some extra things that I didn’t include here about how she’s treated her brother, so I might as well include them here. She did in fact just expect him to buy the tux, and told him that she wanted him to have it tailored to fit him EXACTLY so that it would look perfect. It was expected that he would buy it early as well, despite him currently saving money for his own place to live because his last living situation did not work out. This woman has also casually asked him for money for christmas (upwards of $500) which was supposedly to go toward the wedding, when her fiancé’s parents were already paying for most of it. He of course was shocked, and obviously can’t be handing out $500, so he got her some personal gifts that aligned with her interests. She seemed less than happy, despite her having only gotten him the same shirt she bought him 2 years in a row. Not joking. They grew up the exact same way (in a small and modest home with not much money) and she still chooses to overspend on lavish items like louis vuitton purses despite living in an apartment currently. Her fiancé was also in fact just a puppet for her to deliver her message to my bf, and wasn’t going to ask him to be best man. Boyfriend's parents: His mother is one of those little submissive trad wife types, so she doesn’t speak up much at all, but his father actually threatened his living situation (he is at home temporarily and is house hunting actively) if he didn’t comply, which he still did not. Seems to me like this is all one big petty bluff, and we have both outwardly called it. I’m considering sending her a personal message letting her know that I am offended at the request of dyeing my hair for her wedding and letting her know I won’t be attending unless I’m there as myself and being fed. To another commenter speculating if bf's anxiety is due to parents: Oh 100% it is. When I met him he was basically a servant for his family because no one had ever told him what a normal relationship a family should be. He’s told me that I saved him, because I’m the only person who he feels like he can talk to about his trauma, and I help him be a more strong person. He originally had trouble standing up to them, and now he sets very clear boundaries and lives a more carefree life. I think the turning point was our second date when his mom actually called and demand that he come home and pick her up to go somewhere. He told her to find another ride, and by the way she reacted, it was obvious that it wasn’t a common occurrence for her to hear a solid no. I won’t get into every issue she’s caused, but she’s a mess, and her husband does nothing but enable her insanity. GlutenFreeNoodleArms: buy the cheapest black wig you can and then pack yourself a whole picnic dinner! 😂 OOP: I have a black wig from a cosplay I did recently that’s been worn quite a bit and is now pretty raggedy so I may show up in that 💀 my goth ass with that wig is gonna be looking like a cheap spirit halloween animatronic OOP's hair: my hair is dyed red, not natural ! that’s why I’m especially concerned about trying to dye it a color that I don’t want to keep, bc it would be insanely damaging after all the bleaching that my hair has sustained :’) Update Comment: 1 hour later update: I have sent her a personal message detailing my boundaries and stating my requirements. This is what I said to her. Hi! I just wanted to shoot you a message and let you know that I heard from (bf’s name) about your request for me to dye my hair for your wedding, and I find that to be too big of a commitment for just being a guest at a wedding. If I don’t fit the intended aesthetic for your special day, then feel free to uninvite me. I was set to attend as his date, but I refuse to make an alteration to my hair that could leave it damaged and unable to be dyed back to my desired color. I would be happy to wear a green or burnt orange dress, and I can be formal, but asking guests to dye their hair is an unreasonable and frankly disrespectful request. As I said before, you may uninvite me if you please, because I am not honoring that request. Update Comment 2: 6 hour later UPDATE ABOUT THE MESSAGE I SENT: Of course, instead of responding, she brought her entire family into it. My boyfriend is absolutely livid that she spread my message around and is making a big deal about it, and isn’t speaking to her right now. His parents tried to get aggressive with him about it, and he told them that if they want to come to our wedding in the future, that they have to shave their eyebrows off and dye their hair green so they can see how it feels to be asked to alter their appearance like that. His sister is still being petty about it, so who knows what will happen going forward, but nonetheless I have been firm with my boundaries. She apparently sorted out the dinner plate situation, but just didn’t tell us for months, so I do in fact have food if I go, but I doubt that I will. Update Post: November 16, 2025 (16 months later) So over a year ago now, I made a post that got some attention, and then completely forgot about it. There was a popular demand for an update/resolution, so if anyone remembers this saga, here it is ! If you didn’t read the previous post or don’t want to, my bf’s sister expected me to dye my hair black and wear specific colors (burnt orange or green) to her wedding. She also attempted to exclude me by saying that she could not provide me a seat or food, after giving me an invitation and saying that she would love to have me. I attended the wedding, against what everyone advised, and I am SO glad that I was there to witness the absolute mess that it was. To properly start this off, I first need to talk about the rehearsal, which was also a mess. Everyone was disjointed and disorganized, the planner was yelling at people, someone stepped on a snake, and everyone kept forgetting what was rehearsed. It was a very hot day, and the rehearsal was outdoors, so everyone was sweaty and fed up. After the rehearsal, there was a dinner, where I apparently “embarrassed” everyone by pulling out a bottle of advil to give to my boyfriend because he had a migraine, and walked with him to the bathroom when he felt sick. Additionally, on the morning of the wedding, his parents sent a message (on his sister’s behalf) saying that my piercings weren’t going to be allowed either, which led to my boyfriend calling and confronting them. Despite all of this, I had now seen how bad the rehearsal was, so I had to be there for this wedding. I of course did not remove my piercings or dye my hair, I went as me, in a tight emerald green dress. When I arrived, I noticed multiple people with piercings and tattoos, as well as dyed hair. I immediately noticed that no one was wearing green or burnt orange, and the main wedding colors were beige and pink. As many people speculated, her improvised “rules” were definitely targeted toward me, possibly to try and make me look bad or embarrass me. Now onto the wedding. The speakers they used to play music sounded like they were waterlogged, and whoever was playing the music somehow paused it twice. Rather than having a flower girl, the groom had his grown male friend tossing flowers, and a guest nearly walked out because he threw flowers directly in his face. The groom walked out to X Gon’ Give it To Ya (very classy) while all of his buddies yelled and whistled. The bride’s grandma decided she didn’t want to walk out as rehearsed, and loudly argued with the event coordinator who was trying to lead her back over to where she was supposed to walk. Everyone was looking at each other, cracking jokes and whispering, and it might’ve been one of the least serious weddings I’ve ever attended. When it was time for photos, she asked me to get in the photo, only to purposely place me in the back. My boyfriend noticed this, and picked me up bridal style so I’d be in full view in every photo. They ended up giving everyone a plate to go up and get some food, and everyone was allowed one plate per person. I ended up waiting until the person serving the food switched out, and got two plates of food. The bride vanished for hours to take pictures, and everyone was left bored and waiting for cake. I had a great time partying with my boyfriend at the reception, and it turns out the bride was having fun partying too. We were watching back footage of the reception on the wedding photographer’s facebook page to try and find us dancing, and saw her in the background dancing on another guy. When I say on, I mean on, because her body was fully pressed against this random man. I went, I saw, I looked good, and I got to laugh at a failure of a wedding. That wraps up the saga ! Some of OOP's Comments: cashmerered: Are they still married? OOP: somehow, but my bf and I have always believed that he may swing the other way and that he married her for appearances. my bf showed up to their apartment one day to pick up something from his sister, and heard two hushed male voices, and footsteps running away before her husband cracked the door and asked what he needed. it’s comical how not into each other they seem, and how performative everything they do is. Granadafan: "someone stepped on a snake," Whoa whoa whoa, you can’t just gloss over this gem. Where did the snake come from, what was the reaction, was the snake ok? OOP: it was a fairly small snake that was just stunned, and someone picked it up and carried it away 😭 the chaos that ensued over such a harmless looking snake was hilarious though To another commenter: it wasn’t a baby snake, it was just a smaller sized snake ! there are a lot of small and harmless garden snakes where I live, and I pick them up all the time. they’re usually just scared and not trying to bite. lucyfussbudget1: Yeah, I am not scared of snakes, I find them rather fascinating. Nevertheless, this was a wedding? Or the reception? And someone just randomly steps on a snake and then the narrative just moves on? I have questions!!!! 🤷‍♀️ OOP: the rehearsal was where the snake got stepped on ! the bride wanted everyone to come to the venue to “rehearse” how they would walk and where they would stand or sit at the wedding. her wedding was outdoors, so everyone was walking through the grass, and that’s when someone screamed and we saw the snake. someone’s husband picked it up and carried it off 😭 Hope_Wally: Follow up questions how is their marriage going? How is your relationship with your bf (he sounds great especially in comparison to his sister)? How is your relationship with the sister now? OOP: seems to be going fine, but as I mentioned in another comment, I’m still not convinced that they are actually attracted to each other. my bf went to pick up a chair from his sister’s recently not knowing she was out, and when he knocked, he heard two frantic hushed male voices. we’ve been convinced for awhile that her husband swings the other way, and that definitely made it more likely in my mind. my bf and I’s relationship is great! at this point he has distanced himself from his family a lot due to this incident and many other events that have followed, such as them trying to force him into buying a property that he didn’t want, and locking him out of the house over it. they’ve always treated him like shit, so it’s not surprising, but we currently live together and are doing great ! I don’t see his sister much, and didn’t really like her in the first place, so pretty much the same as it’s always been. she’s the kind of person to try and live above her means and make her life look lavish while going into debt, and that’s a kind of person I can’t tolerate being around. there were also some extremely offensive messages that she sent to my boyfriend about me that caused him to cut off contact with her for months, so that was a nail in the coffin. submitted by /u/LucyAriaRose to r/BestofRedditorUpdates [link] [comments]

So this is absolutely crazy and just happened to me this past weekend. I just need some outside perspective to see if I’m in the wrong and should apologize or if I should stand my ground and “tear the family apart”. This will be a long one, and yes this actually happened. Okay, so last weekend was my (F23) cousins (F25) wedding. She has been with her fiancé (M30’s) now husband, for about 2 1/2-3ish years. We got the wedding invitation in the mail during the summer and had noticed that there was a dress code. She wanted everyone to wear fall colors and had a link to a website that had approved colors on it as well as her wedding registry and venue address. Fast forward to a week before the wedding, I look on Amazon and find this burgundy floor length dress and some black heels. The colors were approved on her dress code so I thought all was well and tried them on for my husband (M23) and he said I looked great. (I’ll attach the pictures) So, this past weekend was the wedding. We go and watch as they exchange vows and clap as they walk down the aisle and then we all meet back up at the reception. I thought all was well and once we get to the dining hall I notice that it’s like a buffet style for people to get their food and drinks. I notice the line is way too long for me, so I send my husband to give our 2 kids to my parents so him and I could go congratulate my cousin and her new husband. When we walk up to my cousin she does a double take at me and after we congratulate them, she asks if she could speak to me privately. My husband was chatting with her husband so I just said, “yeah sure.” And we went out the side door to talk outside in private. Once the door shuts it’s like all the fake smiles and warmth disappeared and she starts berating me about how I wore “red” to her wedding to try and signify that I wanted to sleep with her husband!!! To preface, I have been with my husband for 9 years! We have been together since we were 15 years old and we are both about to be 24. We have 2 kids together, (M5 & F6 months). I have also never met her husband, we lived 2 hours away from them and the last time I saw her in person, my son was a year old and she didn’t even have a boyfriend at that point in time. She went on to say that I was a slut and that I should be ashamed of myself for wearing something so revealing and that my husband was probably so embarrassed by me. Now, at this point I was getting very mad. I had wore a color that she approved of on her list and in my opinion, I thought I looked great and modest and so did my husband. I’m 5ft even, I’m currently breast feeding my daughter so my breasts are a little over a DD and since I work out regularly my waist is slim and I have a decent size bottom. My hair goes down to my butt and it’s brown with blonde and purple highlights. She is also very beautiful, but her body is a complete 180 from mine. She is 5’5 has maybe an A cup, she’s got a small waist and almost no booty. But she could still pass as a model, her skin is perfect and her hair is to her shoulders and she’s blond. In my opinion we are both pretty in our own way. I told her that couldn’t be far from the case, I had never met her husband and was very happy in my own relationship. I had been with my husband for a very long time and I loved my little family. She was not having it tho and kept yelling at me saying I was nothing and that she was embarrassed that I came to her wedding in such a distasteful dress and that she was going to tell her daddy on me for ruining her big day by trying to look better than her. At this point I had started to cry. She made me feel gross about my body and embarrassed because I just was standing there and she refused to listen to me. I know she was getting loud too because it didn’t take long for my husband and my mom to find us. My mom had my daughter in her hands and said that she was looking for me because my baby was getting hungry and fussy. Once she looked at me she immediately knew something was off because I rarely ever cry. My husband took my daughter from my mom and walked over to me and grabbed my hand and asked if I was okay. My mom looked around and asked my cousin what the heck was going on and why I was crying. My cousin threw her hands up and said that I was acting like the “victim” bc she “exposed” me for dressing like a tramp and trying to seduce her husband and that I was so obsessed with him I had to name my son after him. My son and her husband do have very similar names. Let’s say my sons name was Samuel, her husbands name would be Sam. It’s not the same name, but it’s a longer version of her husband’s name. My husband then laughed at this and told her that our son was named in 2020, 2 year before she even met her husband and that there was no relation to the name. At this point it probably been about 20 minutes, and I know guests start to wonder where the bride is and that’s when her dad, my uncle, comes outside with her husband to see us. So picture this, I’m standing there next to my husband, I have mascara running down my face. My mom and my cousin both have their arms crossed glaring at each other and my husband is standing there feeling uncomfortable holding our fussy daughter. My uncle immediately goes to me and hands me his handkerchief from his pocket while my cousins husband goes to her and starts to whisper in her ear. I have no idea what he said but I wipe my eyes and tell my uncle that my husband and I are leaving and that he can ask my mom (his sister) what happened. We get back inside and grab son from my oblivious dad and say our goodbyes and go to the car where I feed my daughter and then change both of the kids into pjs for the 2 hour drive home. The next morning, my cousin sends me a barrage of text messages, facebook messages, and snapchats demanding that I publicly apologize on Facebook for dressing so scandalous to get her husbands attention at her wedding and for trying to make it all about me by leaving early embarrassing her when my mom and uncle told a few people about what she did and because her “daddy” didn’t take her side when she tried to yell over my mom about what happened. So far, I haven’t answered her messages, but she keeps sending more and more everyday. My husband is completely on my side and is very baffled about this whole thing. My husband and I have been together like I said for 9 years, but this was his first meeting of this side of my family. I am adopted and I only have my uncle on my mom’s side. Her parents have already passed away and my aunt is literally a crazy Karen, but that’s another story and we are NC with her. So would I be the ah if I just decided to go NC with my cousin and refuse to apologize for the dress I wore to her wedding? Or should I just say sorry and save face because of holidays with my uncle? Idk what to do. But I’m definitely leaning to NC bc I don’t want this behavior in my kids lives. I don’t want them to think it’s ok to act like this. But if I’m wrong, I’ll apologize. submitted by /u/just-curiou1 to r/CharlotteDobreYouTube [link] [comments]

Help! I have a wedding this weekend. There is no dress code on the invitation, but my husband is a groomsman and will be wearing a suit. The setting is more rustic. The reception is indoors. It will be around 80 degrees. The pink dress does zip, but it is a struggle and requires two people. submitted by /u/Still_Implement9345 to r/OUTFITS [link] [comments]

Edit: typos galore This is petty and stupid. I would have liked to think I'm a bigger person than this, but it seems it's not the case. Guess I'm in the right place to share my little confession! I (early 30s F) am marrying my fiance this week (early 30s M). He's the most wonderful and amazing person in the universe, but he's also extremely oblivious, socially awkward, probably on the autism spectrum. Boy just cannot pick a hint. He works with a relatively small group of people, and they get along great. They usually go for after-office drinks one Friday a month. Since we moved across the country a couple years ago, we haven't made a lot of new friends, so basically these coworkers are currently my fiance's closest group of friends. There's one girl in this group, let's call her Daisy (late 30s) who has an evident massive crush on my fiance. I must say, I don't blame her. My fiance is in tech and makes good money, wicked smart, tall, hot, nice, funny, interesting, and sweet. She has great taste in men! I've been part of a few of their get-togethers, and this woman acts like a teen girl with him. She giggles and literally twirls her hair, whenever she laughs she puts her hand on his arm (once even his knee!), always tries to sit right next to him, etc. When I pointed it out, he said he hadn't realized, then made a face like "gross" and said "I'll make sure to sit away from her". Before anyone does the Reddit thing: no, he's not cheating on me, or into her, or secretly encouraging it. We both work from home, we spend all day together, every day, I have full access to his phone, accounts, am friends with some of the other people who join those monthly after office drinks, they've never met without several other people joining, etc. My fiance is also extremely loyal, he doesn't do the typical things of following random women on ig, he's always talking about me, he's not a fuckboy, he doesn't like attention, doesn't like strangers touching him, I actually saw him lean away when she sat next to him, and straight up jerk away when she touched his knee. Additionally, he adores me. I even feel silly having to justify his loyalty, but I know how Reddit is. This man bakes me cookies and brushes my hair when I'm sad. He's a saint. Anyways! Our wedding is very soon. It'll be a small, intimate thing, only 35 people or so. We have a few gluten-intolerant guests, including Daisy, so we're doing cake for everyone, and special gluten-free cupcakes for these guests. We found a very nice boutique bakery that makes super tasty and safe gluten-free cupcakes. "Literally the best in the province", one of my gluten-intolerant friends said. One of our guests has proper celiac's, and she needs it to be like one-molecule-and-I-end-up-in-the-hospital levels of safe, so we're getting all cupcakes for our gluten-free guests there. This place, however, only has 2 cupcake flavors: chocolate or caramel. We asked each guest which flavor they'd prefer, and they all said chocolate, except for Daisy, who asked for caramel. She doesn't like chocolate, and never eats it. I know she's not allergic/intolerant, I checked and got a list of all her allergies when we confirmed her meal for our joint bachelor/bachelorette party. I was about to place the order, when I received a text. Long story short, I found out that Daisy was planning on wearing white to the wedding, and her +1 friend (another girl) was gonna wear beige. Of course, I went to tell my fiance, and he said "what a fucking asshat", and nipped that in the bud immediately. He straight up told them it was super rude, and that if they showed up wearing white/beige/cream/ivory/bone/super light pastels/very light gray/any other overly complicated way of saying "white", they would not be let in. Daisy complained that it was "just a white blouse, I'll wear peach pants!" and he told her "no white at all, of any shade, anywhere. You're being rude to even consider it. The dress code is "wear whatever you want except white", you can show up in flip flops if you want. Why would you want to wear the one thing that's not allowed?". She pouted, said her +1 was "sad, because she only looks good in light beige, but alright". He considered uninviting her, but I told him not to do it, or it could cause drama with the rest of the friend group, that we'll make sure the guard at the gate won't let her in if she's wearing anything too light, and my friends all volunteered to shower her in red wine if she dares. I'm also overall a very chill person, if she actually showed up wearing white, I'd laugh my ass off, she'd be shaming herself in public. Anyways, I went back to placing the cupcake order... and just asked for all chocolate cupcakes. I guess it just slipped my mind to order a caramel one. Oops. Ah, well. Who doesn't love chocolate, anyway? Edit: there's now an update post. Warning: it's boring. https://www.reddit.com/r/pettyrevenge/comments/1nz4e6c/update_mildly_inconveniencing_wedding_guest_who/ submitted by /u/MySecretDumpsterfire to r/pettyrevenge [link] [comments]

A lot of my friends are having weddings this year and next year, and I get a lot of anxiety over dress codes and whether I’m dressed appropriately. I’d love some help getting ahead of this by figuring out if any of my current dresses I own would fit different dress codes: mostly casual, semi-formal, and cocktail. I really prefer more natural fabrics rather than shiny, synthetic fabrics, and don’t want to have to purchase more dresses if I can help it. (‘: I feel like some of my cotton dresses are going to read too casual, and not wedding appropriate, but it’s really helpful for me to get a second opinion on things so I’m not second guessing myself. The next wedding I’m attending in a few weeks has a semi-formal dress code, but again, I’d also just love some input on which dresses would also fit a casual dress code and cocktail dress code for some of the other upcoming weddings I’m attending. Thanks so much for your help, everyone! (I also apologize for not steaming some of the dresses and for the dirty mirror I’m using) submitted by /u/Useful_Lingonberry to r/Weddingattireapproval [link] [comments]

I have a wedding up north in the beginning of October and I’ve checked Lulus & Vici. Any other suggestions? I’d like to spend less than $200ish. Thanks! submitted by /u/nosidamyllek to r/millenials [link] [comments]

Hello reddit! First time writer long time listener. i am writing this because I am needing some advice for my situation. My fiance (now husband) and I got engaged in June of 2024. During this time I tried on a few dresses and eventually a local-ish boutique reached out via facebook noting they had dresses within my price range. Reviews looked great and I set up an appointment. My mom, sister, and I found my dress (December 2024) It was a ballgown (not something I would normally go for) with some textured flowers on the fabric. The gal took my measurements and took notes of the changes i wanted to the dress- a sleeveless dress, buttons down the train, and pockets. She got my information such as the wedding date (August 2025) and what my budget was. I was told that it would be plenty of time (January when dress was ordered) and should be ready for pick up in April. She checked me out for $1000 and emailed the receipt. Mid March my family received unfortunate health news and my fiance and I decided to have a wedding closer ( location and moved the wedding date to July) for my family so this guest could attend our wedding. At the end of March I followed up with her over the phone to see when my pick up date would be. At this time she told me she did not have a date yet but would reach out when it was ready to be picked up. I waited all of April, nothing was heard from her. As a just in case, I went online and ordered a dress from StillWhite, dress number 2. Dress number 2 came within the week and almost fit like a glove. It needed some hemming and some adjustments with the straps. Still no word from the bridal shop. May came and still no word from the shop. I went to call and the shop listing online stated it was permanently closed. After freaking out a bit, I reached out to my bank to dispute the charge to my card. After reaching out to the owner the bank stated due to at the bottom of the receipt it says no refunds or returns my dispute was denied. The shop owner then stated it would take up to 26 weeks, making the dress ready on June 8th, 2025. I reached out again to her and the manufacturer and was met with no answers of when the dress would be ready. She later stated that maybe it would be done by August and would not be giving me a refund on the dress. After reaching out for a consultation with a lawyer, it was recommended to write a letter to the seller stating if the dress was not done by a specific date, legal action would be taken. I wrote the letter and had the date set for August 1st. Turns out my second dress was perfect for me and I love it more than the first. My wedding was beautiful. On July 31st I received a text that the dress was ready and I could pick it up or have it mailed. I asked her to mail it, and even now I do not have the dress or a tracking number. At this point I am wondering if taking her to small claims court is something I should do? The dress was not done in a timely manner, service was terrible, and I still do not have the dress. What should I do? submitted by /u/ScubaSteveSauce to r/TwoHotTakes [link] [comments]

She seems so sweet and looks stunning but wearing this to a wedding is crazy😭 submitted by /u/bailseykay to r/weddingshaming [link] [comments]

Additional photos in comments; including her shame posting… submitted by /u/Bitter-Major-5595 to r/ImTheMainCharacter [link] [comments]

Reupload to blur out the faces. She double down and made a FB post about how women shouldn't tear each other down..... submitted by /u/Over-Clue-8469 to r/weddingshaming [link] [comments]

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BWT community! Where are we finding wedding guest dresses? I am 35 and struggle with every wedding (and somehow still have multiple every year with enough overlapping community that I can’t wear the same dresses). I’m a Tibi/cos/Toteme girl in my heart but don’t want to spend $1k on a wedding guest dress. I hunt on the real real and for sales but always have a hard time and am feeling very uninspired. Does anyone have any suggestions? Also any LA BWT have recs for stores? I’m on the east side but happy to drive! submitted by /u/ComprehensiveTravel7 to r/bitcheswithtaste [link] [comments]

hey everyone! i’m new here & this might come off as a silly question but as the title asks, where do you shop for your wedding guest attire? i have only been to one wedding in my adult life.. i think i ordered a dress online for that wedding. however, my boyfriends sister is getting married in 11 days so i don’t think online ordering is an option. i have a maroon colored dress with perfectly matching shoes i was thinking about wearing but i know the bridal party is wearing a “merlot-wine” which i can only assume would be v similar to my maroon. i don’t want it to seem as if i’m trying to be a part of the bridal party. although, i do think it would look cute to kind of “match” my boyfriend but there’s not really a way to match, unless i wear a similar color to the party, i guess. i talked to my boyfriends sister and showed her pictures of my dress, and she said she thinks it’s fine.. it’s above the knee length whereas her bridesmaids will be wearing full floor length gowns. i think she may have mentioned it being a few shades apart, as well. she also hyped up how cute the matching shoes are. tehe despite the brides “approval”, i told her i would make an effort to shop around and look for other options. part of me too, also wants to buy a new dress for the fun of it rather than wear an older dress that’s been collecting dust in my closet. so in the next 11 days, where should i go shopping?! budget is like $200 total. shoes, dress, accessories, etc. dress code per the wedding invite is semi-formal or cocktail attire thanks in advance everyone! submitted by /u/redditrang to r/Weddingattireapproval [link] [comments]

This is just a quick PSA/rant as you start planning for what to put on your invitations as the wedding guest attire. I have gone to TWO weddings this year where I was overdressed because the bride put “formal” on the invitation and everyone showed up cocktail, at best. In one of the situations, I asked the bride about it, and she said she went with formal to avoid her family showing up in jeans. Okay well now I’m sitting here WAY overdressed. Please start considering your audience when you make wedding guest attire specifications!!!! submitted by /u/HSinclair6 to r/weddingplanning [link] [comments]