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I am not The OOP, OOP is u/ThrowRAbfthief26 My (26f) friend (26f) has accused me of stealing her boyfriend. Boyfriend (25m) had no idea they were dating Originally posted to r/relationship_advice Original Post March 23, 2024 Names changed to respect privacy and throwaway account. Honestly no idea where to start with this and sorry if it's long. I (26f) have been friends with "Carly" (also 26f) since middle school. We lost touch after I moved out of state for law school but our parents are still friends. I moved back to our home state last year when I graduated and met "Matt" (25m). We bonded instantly as we're both studying to be lawyers. Matt should graduate this year if all goes well. Because of studying and work, we've taken things really slowly and only just recently became official. As we'd gone official, I decided to invite him to my sister's 21st birthday party. It was a huge party at my parent's house back in my home town. Both Matt and I work and live (separately) about an hour away. Wed been at the party for about an hour when Carly arrived with her parents. I was excited to see her as I'd been meaning to get back in touch since I'd moved back. The timing had never been right. Well, Carly spotted us and hurried on over. I was surprised when she gave Matt a huge hug and asked him what he was doing at the party. Turns out they work in the same building and Matt is friends with a few of Carly's friends. They've been out on group nights together a few times. I did the whole "Oh, Carly this is my boyfriend Matt" thing and her face instantly fell. She looked furious with me and ignored me for the rest of the party. I sent her a message the next morning asking if I had done anything wrong. Carly blew up at me and accused me of stealing her boyfriend and I soon got several rude messages from mutual friends sat Ng something similar. I met up with Matt and asked him what the hell was going on. I had assumed that once we'd made it official, we were exclusive. Matt had no idea what I was talking about. I relayed Carly's message and he was even more confused. He said that he got on with Carly when they saw each other but it had never been anything more than a friendship. He didn't think anything of them spending time together outside of work with friends so that's why I didn't know he and Carly worked in the same building. It's been a week since the party and I'm still getting messages from people 's how I could do that to Carly. I've tried saying over again that Matt and Carly weren't dating but it's falling on deaf ears. Even my parents have heard about from Carly's parents. I have zero idea the hell to do. Where do I go from here? I trust Matt completely but what do I do about Carly? Edit: People have asked about the friends who have sent me messages. These are all mutual friends of myself and Carly who we've known since high school. None of them, as far as I know, have ever met Matt. None of his work friends who also know Carly have sent me messages. Also I have spoken to Carly and we are meeting up tomorrow to talk. RELEVANT COMMENTS Not-nuts It seems you unintentionally busted up Carly's fantasy. Not your fault, not your problem. She's immature and full of drama. OOP She's never acted like this before and that's why it really rattled me. Sure, I haven't seen her much over the past few years but she was never like this in high school as far as I can remember. ApexCurve Why can’t you sit down with her and find out what the hell is going on? You’re studying law and 26, not 15. You of all people should know that but Matt said means absolutely squat. The truth is going to lay somewhere in the middle. Granted, you’re not in the wrong either way, as that girl needs to realize that there is no such thing as stole. He clearly wasn’t into her. And for crying out loud, she’s 26 and running to her mummy and daddy. Like so many, God have her parents failed her big time. OOP I'm meeting her tomorrow. It would have been sooner but I'm studying, working or with Matt so I don't have a lot of free time. Billowing_Flags If she can't produce "evidence" of her actually DATING Matt IRL (not just in her head), then I'd blow off her claims of GF status. There should easily be all kinds of social media pix, stories, check-ins, whatever evidencing a BF/GF relationship (not just a whole GROUP of people hanging out). Your generation is HUGE on social media presence. See what she can actually present! ETA: If she can't produce a sizeable number of pictures/posts of just the 2 of them dating, then I'd drop this friendship like a rock and BLOCK her because Carly would be a bunny-boiler! ~ DivinitySousVide Well this is a shit show created by Carly. I think you should just ignore her. So you know what your parents heard? Did they hear you broke up Carly and her BF? OOP "So you know what your parents heard? Did they hear you broke up Carly and her BF?" My mom called me the day after the party and told me that Carly's mom had been on the phone complaining about me. Carly had told her that I had stolen her boyfriend and then she called my mom. I told mom that wasn't the case but apparently Carly and her mom are still telling that story. OOP Updated the post March 24, 2024 (Same Post/Next Day) UPDATE: Well, I met up with Carly. They're not dating and never were so Matt isn't a cheater. I met up with Carly this morning at a coffee shop in our home town. She wasn't happy to be there but I'm over her feelings after the past week I've had. I sat her down and asked her to give me her side of the story. I told her exactly what Matt had said to me and asked for her to explain everything. Carly met Matt last year, not long before I moved back to the state. A mutual friend in the building they both work in invited Matt to after work drinks and that's when they met. Carly thought he was cute and started flirting with him. Side bar: Matt is awful at picking up flirting cues. It took weeks of me flirting with him until he realised and asked me out. This is something I always find amusing because Matt himself is really outgoing with a lot of charisma. No, they never spent any time alone together apart from the odd run to a coffee shop near their building to grab lunch. I went through Carly's phone and there are no messages from Matt apart from ones in their group chat. They haven't kissed or slept together. Carly has never been to Matt's apartment and Matt has never been to Carly's apartment. I asked her why she thought he was her boyfriend. This is a direct quote: "Ok so we're not officially boyfriend and girlfriend yet but I was sure he was going to ask me really soon. He's always smiling at me and making jokes. I know he was going to ask me out, just the two of us." I basically said "Carly, that's not him flirting with you. That's just Matt. He's a friendly guy! I'm sorry but he and I have been seeing each other for a while now so it's not going to happen." I explained how we'd been taking it slow because of us both being so busy with studying and work so we've only just made it official. As I said all this I could see Carly's elaborate fantasy crumble. I asked her to please set the record straight with her parents (for my parents sake) and with our mutual friends. Carly looked flustered but mumbled something that sounded like "Yeah, fine." I said I was sorry for this misunderstanding and hopefully we could all put this behind us. On my drive to Matt's apartment I called him to relay everything. He was baffled by the whole thing but said he would message Carly. Once I got there he showed me the text: "Hey Carly. Look, I'm sorry if I mislead you in any way with my actions, please know they have only ever been from a friendly place. I see us as friends but that's all. I hope we can be friends in the future once this has all blown over but if you're not comfortable with that then I respect it. All the best, Matt" Carly hasn't responded yet and I don't know if she will. Hopefully she will set the record straight with everyone, I'm washing my hands of this mess and focusing on my relationship with Matt and my studies! THIS IS A REPOST SUB - I AM NOT THE OOP DO NOT CONTACT THE OOP's OR COMMENT ON LINKED POSTS, REMEMBER - RULE 7 submitted by /u/Direct-Caterpillar77 to r/BestofRedditorUpdates [link] [comments]

I am not The OOP, OOP is u/weddingwhistleblower Me [30F] wondering whether I should tell a close friend [30M] that he shouldn't marry his fiancee [27F] Original Post Aug 11, 2014 Apologies in advance for the wall of text. I have known my friend, we'll call him Mark, since college. We're very close and hang out together pretty regularly. Mark has been with his fiancee, let's call her Laura, since grad school (about 6-7 years). Mark and Laura have been engaged for two years, and will be married in a month (I know, I know, not much time here). For the first few years of the relationship, I had zero problems with Laura. She seemed a bit shy and reserved, which is unusual for our group of friends, but otherwise seemed like a fine partner for Mark. Indeed, my only reservation was actually that Mark, having a strong personality and being an overly rational/intellectual/argumentative person, sometimes seemed to run roughshod over Laura. Over the last two or three years, Laura has opened up a bit more, and initially that was really great. My girlfriend, Julie, and Laura became closer and started hanging out, and the four of us would go out regularly (either just us, or with other friends). It was actually pretty great. Recently, however, we started noticing that there are some key issues with their relationship that make us (and other friends, actually) wonder whether they should be together at all. Now that we know Laura better, we've realized she's insanely insecure and anxious. She is constantly complaining about minor things about the wedding, including his parents' small requests, and even the nice things they do for her. We've watched them argue about pretty personal stuff, and she is pretty happy to air their dirty laundry and complain incessantly about things that it's clear he'd rather discuss in private. She also has been somewhat cruel and unfair to him in our presence. Finally, and here's the key thing, they seem to have a pretty fundamental disagreement about a key issue in their relationship (think something as fundamental as whether or not to have kids), with him being in the firm "yes, I want to do this, and I need a partner who will at least consider it" camp, and her being in the "I am saying I'll consider it, but I'm pretty sure I'm ultimately going to not want to do this, and that you're kind of an asshole for asking me to do it in the first place." (The argument issue is fairly specific, and so I don't want to give more details for fear of identifying them.) In addition, they've been arguing, seemingly non-stop, for what seems like over a year, with Laura regularly complaining to my girlfriend that she's miserable, anxious, stressed, etc., because of various relationship issues (Mark is not a complainer, but we know he is similarly not happy). These are issues that, in our mind, are part of Mark's personality that won't change, and Laura knows they will not change -- for instance, Mark has long-term close female friends whose friendship he prioritizes highly. Laura thinks their interactions are inappropriate, and that he puts their needs above hers, but Mark has been clear that his interactions with them will not change. Mark also has a difficult, time-consuming career, and doesn't have much time to do household chores or spend time alone with Laura. Again, this is not something that will not change any time soon. Another big issue is Laura believes some of Mark's fundamental values have changed over the course of their relationship, things she admired and found attractive about him initially, and that now she doesn't like very much. As I said, my girlfriend and I have been seeing these issues for some time, and they came to a head recently, when we both sort of told them that they should think about postponing the wedding. They acknowledged that they had thought about it, and said they had a good long talk and decided they wanted to go ahead with it. They said they'd discussed all their issues and talked them through and come to a consensus. We trusted that they had, and sort of shrugged our shoulders. (It may be worth noting that although Mark was able to discuss this in a levelheaded way, Laura's response was to sort of withdraw for a few weeks and stop talking to us/hanging out with us, and to make it clear to our other friends that she was doing this because we didn't support their marriage. She later acknowledged that the reason she did this was because she felt there was some truth to what we were saying, and hanging out with us upset her because it brought those feelings up again when she was trying to get over them.) Just this weekend, we saw them argue again, including about that fundamental question I noted above, and it was clear that they are still in very different places, still unhappy, and still arguing constantly. It was also clear (and upsetting) that Laura was basically including us in the argument so she could badmouth Mark and try to get us on her side -- not only was it not working (because we think he's more in the right than she is), but it was also incredibly callous and hurtful to Mark, and she didn't seem to care. We've gotten to the point where it's actually hard to spend time with Laura. My girlfriend doesn't like her at all. I'm fine spending time with her, but really feel that they are not a good match and that they're going to make each other unhappy. At the very least, I feel they need to postpone this wedding until they actually HAVE come to a place where they derive happiness from the relationship, as opposed to this constant fighting about things large and small. The question is, should I talk to Mark about this? I've already shared some of what I'm thinking and been told everything is fine, but this time I might be a little more open and also tell him that I'm happy to handle some of the logistical post-wedding cancelling stuff (calling people, whatever) if that's something that's weighting on him. tl;dr: I don't think my friend should marry his fiancee. Should I tell him? UPDATE: See Julie's comment below, also. Julie u/somynameisjulienow Julie I am the "Julie" in question. I would add this to what my love, the OP said: While we have "sort of told them they should think about postponing the wedding", that was in a very light-handed way, hoping to spark a conversation, and took place almost a year ago, long before lots of new and troubling information arose. If we were to have the conversation now, it would be far clearer, far more detailed, and include a lot of things that we didn't know at that time. In other words, the first conversation was "have you guys talked about postponing the wedding?" and this one would be "do not marry this woman: she is awful, she doesn't even like you, you're unhappy, and it's only going to get worse." Perhaps this is a rationalization, but I truly believe that he does not know that we think this wedding is a bad idea and he definitely does not know that we actively dislike his fiancee. I frankly struggle to see how we will be able to have the kind of friendship we used to have with Mark if they go through with it. That's not a threat ("It's her or us!") it's just reality. As OP said, I cannot stand Laura for more than a few minutes at a time, I cannot help but take everything she says in the most negative possible light, seeing every comment as confirmation of my bad opinion of her, and I hate the way she treats him. I don't know if I'll be able to treat her with the kind of respect and kindness that is required of even having a decent relationship with her husband. I can already see myself avoiding spending time with them as a result. Even conversations that have nothing to do with this are tinged by awkwardness, not just on our end, but on theirs, because they know we see the problems (even if they don't know how upset we are by them). Ultimately, I'm leaning away from saying something. I think that there is such a small likelihood of a good result (him calling off the wedding) and such a high likelihood of a bad result (she comes to hate us and it dooms our relationship with him, and/or causes her to badmouth us to mutual friends) that I think it's a bad idea. As a side note, I don't put any weight on the "let them make their own decisions" responses here because that's so obvious it's not worth worrying about. Of course they get to make their own decision: we're not going to actively try and stop the marriage if they go through with it. The question is whether what we have to say should be involved in that decision or not, because we love him and have perspective on it that he doesn't. Update Jan 18, 2015 (5 months later) So, Julie and I took the advice of most people here and kept our mouths shut about our feelings about Laura. We were enthusiastic at the wedding, and went out of our way to be gracious and kind to her in the run up to it and after. The wedding went off without a hitch, and we thought maybe they'd turned over a new leaf and after the stress of the wedding was removed, she'd be a better partner to him. Sadly, the opposite happened. I guess I should start by explaining that the key disagreement they had prior to marriage was about having an open relationship. He was very much in the "I want to at least explore this" camp, and she seemed very reluctant, and kind of pissed that he was asking her to consider this in the first place. Shortly before the wedding, however, she started to develop an interest in another man, and all of a sudden her doubts were all but gone. Mark was happy and excited for her, and things appeared to be going better. Unfortunately, that didn't last. Over the last few months, Mark and Laura have had increasingly bad fights, and pretty much every time we asked how things were going he'd respond with "not good." Whenever we hung out, she did increasingly annoying things (sulking if we weren't doing an activity she liked, leaving events without even saying goodbye, complaining that we were excluding her from things because we failed to somehow read her mind and determine that she wanted to do something other than what we were doing, etc.) We had a talk with Mark about this, and he sort of agreed that she was being ridiculous in several ways, that we had a right to be upset with her attitude, and said that maybe we should take a break from hanging out with her. We were fine with this, but it was pretty annoying that she was basically making him choose between spending time with us and with her. A few weeks after that conversation, he called us to tell us they're getting a divorce. We were pretty shocked - but here's the skinny: Shortly after they returned from their honeymoon, Laura went to see her, let's call him "boyfriend." She came back sad and upset, and told Mark that the guy had broken things off, presumably because he felt differently about the relationship now that she was married. He empathized and comforted her. A few days later, he noticed she was acting a little weird, checked her email, and realized that the "break-up" was a LIE. Essentially, boyfriend had told her they could only keep seeing each other if no one else, including Mark, knew about it. Instead of breaking it off, having a conversation with Mark about it, or anything else sensible, she decided to LIE to her husband so she could have an affair (and I call it an affair because, even in an open relationship, lying under these circumstances definitely makes it cheating in my book). He, of course, felt incredibly hurt and betrayed, but instead of kicking her to the curb (like I would have), he talked to her, and to the guy, to explain that this was unacceptable and uncool, but told them that he was fine allowing the relationship to continue. The only thing he asked was that, going forward, she refrain from sharing certain details of their relationship (Mark and Laura's) with the boyfriend. Reasonable request, no? Apparently not to her. A few months later, he finds out she's set up a separate email account and was using it to communicate with the boyfriend about precisely the kinds of things Mark had asked her not to share with him (she had left the account open, and had previously told him he was free to check her email and phone, as a way to regain trust after the first fuck up). She was also telling the boyfriend that she was thinking about a divorce because things were so terrible with Mark. Now, again, this is where I would've kicked her the fuck out. Instead, Mark takes a few days to cool off away from her, comes back, and tells her that she needs to break up with the boyfriend, and focus on fixing their relationship through therapy and closing off any other potential romantic partners. She is initially very apologetic and seems to want to work on things. But, of course, after a few days she starts throwing hissy fits because "she didn't know it was that big a deal to him," and he won't sleep in the same room as her, which to her means he's not really "trying" to fix it. (Keep in mind it's been less than two weeks since he found out she had betrayed him for the second time in less than four months.) He tells her he needs time - at this point he's seriously thinking about divorce, but doesn't want to give up on the marriage, considering it's been less than 6 months. And then. AND THEN. He comes home from hanging out with us for the evening, she comes home a bit later, and just basically tells him she just made out with some guy from her gym she'd been hanging out with. Essentially, she decided that things weren't going to work anyway, and she chose the most childish and hurtful way she could to end it. So, now they're getting divorced. I'm not even sure why I'm posting this - mostly because I wanted to vent to strangers about how horrible this woman is, and I can't do it in real life. He's handling this extremely well and being super gracious and mature about it, and (to his credit) he isn't really into shit talking her, though she deserves it (and everyone he's told essentially reacts with some variation of "well, I guess now I can tell you all the things I never liked about her"). I, on the other hand, want to cunt punt her into next week. So, there that is. Thanks again for all the original comments - the helpful ones and the not so helpful ones. It's always kind of cathartic to put this out into the ether and get it out of my head. TLDR; Laura "cheated" on Mark multiple times in the last four months, because she is a garbage person. They're getting divorced. Friends who know her are uniformly relieved, though sad for him. RELEVANT COMMENTS [deleted] Look, both were hoping that the other would compromise. Hoping that the other would budge, and neither did. So why does she get shit for not opting out of the relationship? Mark could've done the same and called the wedding off. But he told you they were still going through with it. OOP She gets shit because she lied and cheated. Simple as that. MormonsAreBrainwashd "Cheated" in an relationship that Mark himself made into an open one. Mmmk. ~ smacksaw Well that explains a lot. You probably ought to have mentioned that before. I'm probably on the other side of this issue, but Mark reaps what he sows. She is insecure. She is having anxiety constantly and is in a state of perpetual panic. He suggests having an open relationship and he has female friends he won't give up? Come on. You can't be that naive. What a scumbag. He loaded the gun and put it in her hand and dared her to use it. She gave him a taste of his own medicine: What he put her through. I have to wonder about people like this and why you're friends with either of them. I don't have a problem with open relationships, I had them when I was younger and it was fine. You don't suggest it to people who are insecure and feel threatened by them. Oh, and you're surprised she found a guy right away? I'm not. How could you be? I don't care if my post makes you feel bad, it gets downvoted, whatever. She did something shitty, I'm not excusing it, I'm explaining it. I'm giving you the reason. Stupid is as stupid does. Mark is toxic. He brought out the worst in Laura, cultivated it and then crushed her with it. She is cruel because she learned from the best: Mark. And if you want to associate with him, I think you need to look at yourselves. You and Julie. Because I sure as hell wouldn't. OOP I think, given my last post and this one, this is not an unreasonable conclusion if you fill in some blanks. I won't ask you to trust me when I say that, over the last few months, it has become clear to me (because I've caught Laura in multiple lies/omissions/truth manipulations) that her previous complaints about Mark and her seeming anxiety/stress were, at best, wildly exaggerated, and at worst clear attempts to make herself look like a victim to get sympathy from others. She has lost friends over this (her best friend/maid of honor almost dropped out of the wedding) in ways wholly unrelated to her relationship. Also, I don't think Mark forced her into anything. He was clear that he wanted a relationship where this was at least a possibility, and she said it was. I agree that her clear reluctance should have been a huge red flag and, in my opinion, enough to call it off, but he chose to take her word for it, particularly because she was so eager/enthusiastic about the enterprise after she found someone she liked. (Also, not that it's particularly necessary to the story, she has had at least three separate partners that I know about, and he had none. He was happy for her and supportive of her relationships, as long as they weren't outright betrayals of his trust. He is also treating her very kindly even now, in terms of logistics and splitting assets, and doesn't want his friends to bad mouth her or be rude to her.) I understand you think he is toxic and cruel, and nothing I say over the internet is likely to convince you otherwise, but I will just have to disagree. ~ dammit_need_account I dunno man. You're painting him to be the good guy here, but he asks his monogamous fiancee to have an open relationship? That's hurtful shit and a recipee for retaliation. If it were me and my bf/fiance did that I'd dump him asap, but I guess she went for the slow burn. jsingh0928 I'm glad I wasn't the only one thinking this. He had a monogamous relationship with her. Even got engaged to her, then sort of back peddled on his commitment with the request of an open relationship. That is the kind of request you bring wayyyyy early in a relationship. Like second or third date early. You don't ask that right when you are about to do an act that is the symbol of monogamy like marriage. It also sounds like that she was at least somewhat of a decent person until he asked her about the open relationship. Then shit hit the fan. At that point she looked obnoxious and angry to everyone by misplacing her anger from the request of the open relationship (and general issues stemming from her relationship.) She clearly didn't want an open relationship, but did it for him. Then that tension of doing something she did not want to do caused waves and ultimately ended the relationship. You need to be a 100% on the same page with open relationships. Not 95% or 75%. Otherwise it simply will not work. It wasn't just her. Mark is equally at fault here. OOP I wasn't clear about this - this wasn't something he knew he wanted walking into the relationship. His views on this evolved over time, and she was aware of this and participated in conversations about it. When he finally decided it was what he actually wanted (before they got engaged), he told her, and she eventually agreed. He wasn't trying to hide the ball. fuk_dapolice "she eventually agreed" yeah that means she INITIALLY wasn't into it. which means he begged and pleaded and whined until he got his way. Doesn't sound like she was ever too into it and got pressured. He should have either dropped it, or dumped her. 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