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Jun 16, 2026 |
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Jun 15, 2026 |
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Jun 11, 2026 |
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Jun 10, 2026 |
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Citizen Men Analogue Eco-Drive Watch @ Amazon EU
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Jun 10, 2026 |
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Jun 10, 2026 |
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JustAnotherHachimanFan |
Jun 9, 2026 |
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georgefitt |
Jun 8, 2026 |
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Jun 8, 2026 |
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georgefitt |
Jun 7, 2026 |
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12 Birds in a Trenchcoat |
Jun 4, 2026 |
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MLH |
Jun 4, 2026 |
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RE:To Live is to Dream (Sinnoh Pokemon Trainer Quest)
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Ambit |
Jun 3, 2026 |
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tetburyben |
Jun 3, 2026 |
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pokedude4 |
Jun 2, 2026 |
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DukeBeetle24 |
Jun 2, 2026 |
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Men’s Casual Long Sleeve Draped Top & High-Waist Pants Set - Effortless StyleGet ready to level up your everyday look with this ridiculously comfortable two-piece outfit. Whether you're running errands, grabbing coffee, or just lounging around, this set is the ultimate solution for anyone who wants
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Primary_Concert_1045 |
Jun 19, 2026 |
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Jun 13, 2026 |
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Beat the heat and look put-together in minutes with this lightweight two-piece summer set—short-sleeve tee plus breathable shorts for effortless beach, gym, or streetwear comfort. #ADV 📢 Generic Men's 2-Piece Summer Outfit - Casual Summer Beach Tracksuit Sets Gym Suits Short Sleeve T-Shirt + ...
Beat the heat and look put-together in minutes with this lightweight two-piece summer set—short-sleeve tee plus breathable shorts for effortless beach, gym, or streetwear comfort. #ADV 📢 Generic Men's 2-Piece Summer Outfit - Casual Summer Beach Tracksuit Sets Gym Suits Short Sleeve T-Shirt + Pants Set Lightweight Sports Outfits Men's Short Round Neck T-Shirts (orig.: Generico Completo Estivo Uomo 2 Pezzi - Tuta Estiva Casual Per Spiaggia Completi Tute Da Ginnastica T Shirt Manica Corta + Pantaloni Set Leggera Completi Sportivi Magliette Uomo Corta Scollo Tondo) #Mens #Generic #2Piece 🛒🔽 https://amzn.to/4fC57nI submitted by /u/AndreaNewsHub to r/ItaliaBox [link] [comments]
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AndreaNewsHub |
Jun 10, 2026 |
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Keep cool and look put-together this summer with a lightweight two-piece set that pairs a short-sleeve tee and breathable pants for effortless beach-to-street style. #ADV 📢 Generic Men's 2-Piece Summer Outfit - Casual Summer Beach Tracksuit Sets Gym Suits Short Sleeve T-Shirt + Pants Set Lightweight Sports Outfits Men's Short Round Neck T-Shirts (orig.: Generico Completo Estivo Uomo 2 Pezzi - Tuta Estiva Casual Per Spiaggia Completi Tute Da Ginnastica T Shirt Manica Corta + Pantaloni Set Leggera Completi Sportivi Magliette Uomo Corta Scollo Tondo) #Mens #Generic #2Piece 🛒🔽 https://amzn.to/4fC57nI submitted by /u/AndreaNewsHub to r/ItaliaBox [link] [comments]
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AndreaNewsHub |
Jun 10, 2026 |
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Very SFW: what are college-aged NYC gay men wearing for business casual interviews?
At someone's advice in r/AskGayMen, posting here: Take pity and help out a gay mom (ie, mom to a gay son). I know the standard answer is "khakis and a button down." But read on, intrepid reader. Where are young gay guys doing their business casual shopping, first for an interview and then possibly a summer job? The guy in question simply. will. not. wear. slim pants, ie, standard khakis/chinos from places like J Crew or Bonobos. He says I'm allowed to say "he's a twink"--but only ironically--re style. He's super cute (I say objectively) in his wide jeans and slim t-shirts. But that's not going to cut it for an interview for a tech job he really really wants. Oh, and did I mention he has to have this interview outfit by Monday? And he's working a different job tomorrow through Sunday so will have shop after work? Good times. Specific styles/brands much appreciated. Many thanks, men of r/nycgaybros! submitted by /u/F13nd1sh to r/nycgaybros [link] [comments]
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F13nd1sh |
Jun 5, 2026 |
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A conversation with my brother yesterday genuinely got me thinking.
A couple of weeks ago, I’m 27F, and my friends and I had gone to a bachelorette trip to Pondicherry. We were dressed in western outfits, clicking pictures around the streets at night, and naturally we did get a lot of stares here and there. Some casual, some a little too long. Yesterday I casually brought this up while talking to my brother, saying how uncomfortable it felt at times. He just looked at me and said, “Hypocrite.” I was obviously annoyed and asked him what he meant. He said, “Look, no offence, but that’s literally how the world works. Men are attracted to women. That’s not some voluntary evil action every single time. If someone attractive walks past me, do you really think I won’t look at least once? Come on.” Then he added: “You can ask your future husband, me, or even dad. At times, people notice attractive people. That’s reality.” And then he said something that honestly stayed with me: “If you wear clothes that naturally attract attention, while also expecting zero attention at all, ask yourself if that expectation is realistic.” He clarified he wasn’t defending creepy behavior or harassment, but that attraction and attention are natural human responses. And now I’m sitting here wondering where exactly the line is. Because honestly, there IS a difference between: someone briefly noticing you, and someone staring in a way that makes you uncomfortable. At the same time, I also can’t completely deny what he said either appearance does draw attention. That’s just reality. I don’t know. The conversation genuinely left me thinking about how differently men and women often see the same situation😀 submitted by /u/Prestigious-Rip-7512 to r/TwentiesIndia [link] [comments]
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Prestigious-Rip-7512 |
May 19, 2026 |
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"i cAn'T aFfOrD aLt fAsHiOn"? yes you can, here's advice from a broke student
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thewallispretty |
May 14, 2026 |
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Where should I shop for affordable men’s outfits for multiple formal-ish events? (SD/TJ)
Hey all, SD local here here just not into the ' fashion scene' I’ve got a few upcoming events and realized my current wardrobe (cargo pants + whatever clean-ish t-shirt I can find) is… not gonna cut it 😅 I’m trying to put together 3 outfits on a budget (~$400 total if possible): Beach formal vow renewal Wedding (more traditionally formal) Yacht party tied to the wedding I’m a 33M, 5’7”, ~150 lbs and not super fashion-forward, just trying to look put together and not feel out of place around my partner’s friends. Looking for: Stores in San Diego or TJ Affordable options (sales, outlets, hidden gems, thrift, etc.) Ideally pieces I can mix and match across all 3 events I’ve seen places like Nordstrom Rack, Macy’s, and Men’s Fashion Depot mentioned, but would love any specific locations, recent finds, or go-to spots you’ve had luck with. Current game plan (open to feedback): Thinking of doing a simple mix-and-match setup like: 1 lightweight blazer (linen or similar) 1–2 pairs of chinos (khaki + maybe navy/black) 2 button-down shirts (one white/light blue, one more casual) 1 pair of loafers Then styling it like: Beach formal: blazer + open collar shirt + khakis + loafers Wedding: blazer + buttoned shirt (maybe tie) + darker pants Yacht party: no blazer or more casual shirt + chinos + loafers From what I’m seeing, this could land somewhere around $200–$350 total at places like Old Navy/H&M/Nordstrom Rack, which seems doable—but not sure if I’m missing anything obvious. Also open to: “Buy this once, style it 3 ways” advice Tailor recs that won’t cost more than the clothes Appreciate any help 🙏 submitted by /u/ummmlife to r/sandiego [link] [comments]
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ummmlife |
Apr 21, 2026 |
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Love and Deepspace's art director explained at GDC exactly how they design characters we fall in love with.
https://preview.redd.it/n3rwf8uqqlog1.png?width=774&format=png&auto=webp&s=63d2ee38d4aae3ba906189d1ae263cd0ea8ef2c3 So Love and Deepspace's art director Xianzi Feng did a talk at GDC this week called "Designing Crush-Worthy Characters" and our team was in the room. I need to share this because the level of intentionality behind everything in this game is even more intense than I thought. She laid out an actual psychological framework for how the team designs characters. Here's what stood out. They reverse-engineered falling in love. https://preview.redd.it/d2up8qjerlog1.png?width=774&format=png&auto=webp&s=81dd3cdd848c93c8c94b2b7a2b81bf43f4678aa1 Feng broke "love at first sight" into three designable components: Biological trigger — what you see and sense Cognitive resonance — the "he gets me" feeling Narrative projection — your brain filling in the gaps All three are supporting elements of a character’s total energetic impression — the thing you sense before you can articulate why. Feng’s slides used the term “Vibe,” though the Chinese term she actually said out loud, 气质, is closer to the full bearing of a person: posture, presence, the way they hold a room. These components support the impression, but it emanates from something deeper: Temperament, the core psychological traits that drive a character’s emotions, behaviors, and choices. “Contrast feeling” is the whole game. https://preview.redd.it/lprw7t3hrlog1.png?width=776&format=png&auto=webp&s=0d2c6a3e38bc219b701529ca67b840c22b9a9a98 Feng’s most important principle (and the one I think has the widest application) is that a character people fall in love with is full of contradictions. Not just “layered” or “complex” in the way every character brief claims. Specifically, contradictory. Cold and warm at the same time. Constrained and rebellious in the same outfit. She kept coming back to this Chinese term: 反差感 (fǎnchā gǎn), "contrast feeling." It's the jolt when a character breaks their own pattern. When the controlled one loses composure. When power goes gentle. She said they design for this on purpose in every character. Feng’s argument is essentially: contrast gives you novelty, and novelty begets attraction. The familiarity of a recognizable archetype draws you in (”I know this type”). The unexpected contradiction within it holds you (”but I’ve never seen them do that“). The gap between what you expect and what you get is where the emotional charge lives. The Spring Collection: Every detail is temperament. This is the part I want to spend time on, because the process itself is the craft lesson. For the Spring and Flowers seasonal update, Feng walked through her team’s six-step workflow: Theme → Impression Fragments → Core Temperaments → Enhance Temperament → Implement and Test → Improve from Implementation. https://preview.redd.it/x8bscdgkrlog1.png?width=752&format=png&auto=webp&s=805dbf50fa73d510f98e8495daa7f6b75ed6e6fc https://preview.redd.it/3rj9fc7mrlog1.png?width=940&format=png&auto=webp&s=e267801e91f17c2061a01dc8d8b0df04e7a5814e For the Spring and Flowers update, the first round of designs all looked the same. Five men, same fabric, same palette. The fix: stop designing theme-first. Start designing from WHO THEY ARE. Same chiffon and pearls, completely different energy per character. Xavier — pearl necklace worn loosely. That looseness reads as casual rebellion against his own royal constraint. They put character development in how tight a necklace sits. Rafayel — the spacing between his pearls is intentionally irregular. Designed to express a more lively, dynamic temperament. THE DISTANCE BETWEEN HIS PEARLS HAS LORE. Zayne — so you know how he wears a black shirt every day? For spring they gave him a delicate lace choker with layered pearl weaving. Elements he'd NEVER worn. I remember losing it when this dropped. At GDC the art director basically confirmed they designed it to break us. The slightly seductive charge has no business being on him. SHE KNOWS. But here's the detail that kills me. Even in this softer outfit, he still ties his shirt neatly and layers his necklaces methodically. Constraint and rule-breaking at the same time. This man!! Sylus — the design note for how he appears soft was basically "he wears it openly with full confidence." The art director said it like it was obvious. Because it is. Caleb — a two-tone metal and woven belt designed to express his dual nature. The warmth everyone sees and the strategic depth underneath. His entire character in a belt buckle. The wedding proposals. (I need a minute) Each proposal has its own entire world. Xavier under stars at Starfall Sanctuary. Rafayel at the sea god temple. Zayne in the Foreseer's library. Sylus in the ruined church. Caleb in a childhood wonderland. Even the rings are different. Each with motifs from that character's story. I go into further detail on the proposals and what they reveal about the design philosophy on our Substack: Read the full deep-dive here → --- Takeaway I keep thinking about what it takes to make a character feel like they could be in the room with you. The thing that stays with me: this team thinks about these characters the way we think about them. A trembling eyelid matters. The relief on a face matters. The distance between pearls matters. They care the way we care. And that's why we trust them. If you work in character design, romance games, voice AI, or fandom — I’d love to compare notes! (All image credits go to the amazing Love and Deepspace team. Bad angles are our problem entirely.) EDIT: Thank you all so much for the incredible discussion (and the gifts?! you guys are too kind 😭) Two things: Zayne girlies, I hear you! I've updated his section in the essay on Substack. Thanks for calling it out. (Got too excited and hit publish before doing him justice, oops.) I attended another session and have more to break down. If you're interested in a follow-up post here or on Substack, let me know and I'll write it up! EDITEDIT: Here it is! https://ihearamurmur.substack.com/p/what-love-and-deepspaces-creative https://preview.redd.it/gwqjvm6nlqog1.jpg?width=1280&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=958dcdf729ca837d57d5bd27d31a03c14131371e submitted by /u/ihearamurmur to r/LoveAndDeepspace [link] [comments]
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ihearamurmur |
Mar 12, 2026 |
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Question for the men: what outfits do you like or dislike for dates to wear?
I'm going on a date tonight and I was wondering what sort of clothes/hairstyles you gentlemen prefer for us ladies to wear, such as a skirt vs jeans or the glam look vs more natural? I don’t like showing too much skin but I like body-conscious clothing. Thanks! The date is at a casual pub/restaurant. submitted by /u/BeeDangerous190 to r/DatingOverSixty [link] [comments]
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BeeDangerous190 |
Jan 19, 2026 |
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Reading one piece as a girl sucks (everything here has been said before)
im gonna start this off by saying this post isnt all that srs tbh i just wanted to ramble abt smth. what im about to say isnt anything new or revolutionar, so sont keep reading this expecting a new perspective, im going to be separating pre ts and post ts for the time being, since female rep between those two are night and fucking day, for the first half its gonna be post ts. first off, their designs, im definitely not the first or last person to say this but fucking hell, why is every woman either a blowup doll or putty shaped? even the *unique* girls like sandersonia or perona have this body shape, and all the women shaped like putty are either old, fat, or comically ugly. as a girl, i've seen many shapes and sizes, not all girls with a big chest have an attractive body, and not all chubby girls are exaggeratedly disproportionate, this might just be a thing with japanese media, but fuck, even other shonens have various bust and waist sizes, different proportions and faces. secondly, their emotions, i am sick and fucking tired of seeing so many women have that stupid angry nami face, after punching a male character in the head, genuinely khalas im so fucking sick of it, and they all look the same when theyre crying, and they all look the same when theyre smiling, its like hearing "im sorry" so many fucking times the phrase just means nothing to you anymore, it gets to a point i swear to god it just gets to a point, i could play bingo with all these character traits and win every time. - we have the shy and nervous girl : hibari, shirahoshi, pudding (although shes admittedly uniqe). - the sinister dominatrix : black maria, kujaku, sadie. - the kind and loving mother that dies at the end of a flashback : ida, sora, scarlet, toki, bellmere, banchina (had to google her name shes so forgettable), kawamatsus mom. - wild but sweet (keeps smacking men on the head with the grr face) : nami, osturu (wano), young ida. and you'll notice that I've mentioned two unimportant side characters from pre ts, thats because women pre ts actually felt like real people and not living caricature, real people with real clothes and personalities and interests and stories, the women post timeskip feel so predictable.. theres no one like perona, no one like camie, no one like vivi (except rebecca but she feels like a vivi ripoff), no one like robin, i feel like ive lost my sisters to time, like my sisters have been forgotten, they meant so much to me and this isnt nostalgia talking btw, ive only been into one piece for approximately two years, i can tell clear as day theres a bigass difference between pre and post. also, oda no longer believes in pants or casual attire for his women, current day nami wouldn't wear what prets nami wore, and vice versa, i own lots pf clothes that resemble namis and robins prets style but i think i'd get arrest for indecent exposure if i even thought about wearing a post timeskip outfit of theirs.. it feels less genuine.. i just cant connect to them like i used to and for the love of god dont come up in these comments like "why even complain this much if youre still gonna watch, drop the show, omg we've heard these before, what else is new, this is a shonen" maybe dont bother typing it out, i've heard before too yk submitted by /u/Spirited-Height-9533 to r/Piratefolk [link] [comments]
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Spirited-Height-9533 |
Dec 15, 2025 |
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I (35F) went on a date with M23.
Quick disclaimer: I did not know the age gap was going to be so big. I thought he was late 20's, like 27-29. If I had known his actual age, I likely wouldn't have proposed the date. So, here's the setup. We met at an event for a shared hobby at the beginning of October, spent a little time at the event, chatting and getting pictures. We exchanged socials and had a little group chat going on Discord. He messages me privately, we start to chat, and it becomes obvious he likes me because he's flirting a bit and calling me all kind of pet names. I didn't think I'd spent enough time to get to know him and form an opinion if I liked him back so I propose a date at an Asian restaurant a little out of our way but I had been there before and liked the food. First red flag, he showed up looking like he came from the gym, basketball shorts and a plain sleeveless t-shirt. I let this go because it was a casual meetup but damn, is it too much to expect a collared shirt or button up? Next, he didn't compliment my look at all. I wasn't wearing a dress and heels but I at least tried to look cute with a nice outfit and makeup. Before you call me arrogant and self centered: the reason I was surprised was because almost every other message from him to me included a compliment like beautiful, sexy, cute, etc and when I got none of that face to face, it was a little strange in my mind. Next, he had no conversation skills. We were able to chat about our shared hobby but outside of that, there was nothing. I asked him about his job, his commute, his family, he did not return the gesture. I'm on Tiktok a lot and see a lot of women talking about awkward dates and a main complaint is that men only talk about themselves and never ask their dates any questions to get to know them. This guy was on that but he didn't even talk about himself. When we weren't talking about our hobby, it was just silent at the table unless I posed another question. This was mind blowing to me and at one point, I went quiet just to see if he'd pick up the conversational slack and we ended up sitting in silence for about five minutes until I started talking again. He was also in his phone a lot, texting and scrolling. My phone was out but it was face down on the table and I only ever picked it up to know the time. In fact, he took two phone calls at the table without even a courtesy of, "oh hey, I'm sorry, I have to take this, it's important." Got none of that! He just answered it without warning, I was looking at my plate so when he stared talking, I thought it was to me but alas. Neither of the conversations seemed important, at least from what I could hear from his end and I was just blown by the lack of manners. Obviously, I knew early that this was a wash but I stuck it out. I was grateful he just seemed awkward and unsocialized and wasn't spouting redpill rhetoric. We ended up on the same train for part of the way back and again, he didn't engage with me and was only on his phone so I did the same. When we parted, I gave him a hug goodbye, on which he lingered and I was lowkey terrified he'd try to push a kiss but luckily, that didn't happen. As far as bad dates go, it wasn’t horrible, just painfully awkward and a waste of time, effort, and money. I def should have asked his age beforehand. There's a lot of jokes about Gen Z and how they lack social skills and the like and this was a prime example. I know this is going to come off ageist but I seriously have no desire to be around or hear the opinions of anyone under 25. submitted by /u/ThrowawayFaye818 to r/Millennials [link] [comments]
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ThrowawayFaye818 |
Nov 26, 2025 |
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Feeling so 1960s 💼 Wearing the typical casual outfit Asian men used to wear back in the 1960s
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unbelieveableboy |
Oct 9, 2025 |
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Smart casual work outfits
Building a capsule wardrobe! I’m well aware these are plain and basic, but I like having a working formula and “uniform” - it’s one less decision to make in the morning. I like that w these looks I’m able to transition from day to night w/o looking out of place on a date or out with my buddies. submitted by /u/qswriting to r/mensfashion [link] [comments]
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r/mensfashion |
qswriting |
Jul 17, 2025 |
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Caught some flack for a business casual outfit and wondering if I misstepped
I was at a work event labeled business casual and got a surprising amount of comments on my outfit being "out of place" or something similar. I wore a fitted black button down polo (not athletic material or golf shirt) tucked in, light beige dress pants, a nice watch, nice brown belt, and matching brown dress shoes. It was a Friday afternoon event outdoors in Europe and 85 degrees as well if that matters. Almost all the women wore sleeveless stuff but 90% of the men wore jackets, and a handful of them made comments about if I knew what the dress code was. Nothing serious since it was just passing comments from coworkers but I found it a bit strange since I was always under the impression that a high quality collared shirt with pants and nice shoes meant business casual. Almost everyone at the event was American as well so it's not some European thing. Obviously next time I'll wear a jacket to fit in, but was my sense for what was acceptable off? Edit to add that this is pretty much the exact outfit https://i.pinimg.com/564x/9f/f2/91/9ff291c8ea41afc62c24f411f0ca9c58.jpg submitted by /u/rraddii to r/mensfashion [link] [comments]
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r/mensfashion |
rraddii |
Jun 13, 2025 |
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Why do western tourists dress so weird?
I live in downtown Tokyo which sees a lot of tourists from all over the world, and when it comes to fashion I always see western (mainly white) tourists stand out. Africans, Asians and Middle Easterners will often wear clothes that are casual, but do not stand out, like long buttoned shirts, jeans etc. The women, especially those from Asia will look very fashionable with floral shirts, dresses, small practical bags etc. Then you look at the western tourists. They either wear outfits that look like they are going hiking in a tropical jungle, complete with oversized survival gear backpacks while doing city sightseeing, or they look like oversized toddlers in shorts, flip-flops and baseball caps. The elderly men usually spice things up by wearing a polo shirt. I have been to enough countries in Europe to know that this is not the normal casual wear, so why are they making themselves look so comical when they travel abroad? submitted by /u/Kawadane to r/TooAfraidToAsk [link] [comments]
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r/TooAfraidToAsk |
Kawadane |
Jun 4, 2025 |
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Why is it broadly accepted that women can wear tank tops or sleeveless crop tops as a part of a casual outfit, but it isn't the same for men?
I've always wondered why women are allowed to show more skin than us, and what's the difference. What do you think, guys? submitted by /u/marcoespinosax to r/AskMen [link] [comments]
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r/AskMen |
marcoespinosax |
May 26, 2025 |
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Would it be disrespectful as a non-Chinese women to make clothing based/inspired off of dynasty period men and women clothing (casual and warrior style)?
I have seen really cool clothing in dramas and animated shows clothing based off of Dynasty clothing from China. I would love to experiment and sew myself clothing based of off these shows and Dynasty clothing, both casual and what warriors would wear. My question is, I don't want to accidentally be disrespectful to Chinese people. As a non-Chinese women, would it be offensive or inappropriate for me to make clothing based off of what men and women would wear in Dynasty times? Some examples include Hanfus (hopefully I'm spelling that right), and outfits based of off warrior outfits. Thank you for your time, submitted by /u/NinjaGamerGirl2023 to r/AskAChinese [link] [comments]
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r/AskAChinese |
NinjaGamerGirl2023 |
Mar 4, 2025 |
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What is a “casual” outfit for white men at a sales event?
Sorry for the dumb question, but I will be attending a dinner in a couple weeks for an auction and the attire is casual. Not business casual, it just says casual. How as a black man, my take on casual is a lot different. Normally don’t care about this at all, it I want to just blend in in regards to my attire. That being said, what are some examples of this. It will be indoor. submitted by /u/Thementalistt to r/sales [link] [comments]
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r/sales |
Thementalistt |
Jul 15, 2024 |
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After an intricate analysis I can confirm that the men's SEKAI Casual Style outfit does in fact make the guys' hips and thighs look bigger for some reason
submitted by /u/o0Emochi0o to r/ProjectSekai [link] [comments]
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r/ProjectSekai |
o0Emochi0o |
Apr 11, 2024 |
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Where did we go wrong with Men’s ‘business casual’?
Walking around the city is a sad state of affairs at times. It feels like as low as 5% of men dressing ‘business casual’ are wearing coherent outfits that fit them well. Otherwise the things I see from day to day in Midtown/on the subway are appalling. Sneakers with dress pants has been beaten to death, but these guys aren’t even trying to make it look good - just a shitty pair of Asics with oversized dress pants draping over them like a tarp. I just now saw a man wearing brown shoes with a black belt, many of these men are wearing dress shirts that have been tumble dried so many times they are barely holding their form. Rolling the sleeves of a long sleeve shirt all the way above the elbow. What is happening? Is this a result of forced dress codes and complacency from people who don’t want to conform? A lot of men also seem to default to the baby blue shirt w/ black pants but 100% of the time it’s ill-fitting. Edit - I’m learning more about rolling up sleeves. Still doesn’t look great to me but I guess it gets a pass submitted by /u/dontevenrlyknow to r/redscarepod [link] [comments]
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r/redscarepod |
dontevenrlyknow |
Jul 19, 2023 |
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Ethan, dresses and skirts for men are actually very trendy. Even in a casual outfits! 💖
submitted by /u/ValerHimiko to r/h3h3productions [link] [comments]
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r/h3h3productions |
ValerHimiko |
Oct 15, 2021 |