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Concert Outfit Ideas
What is Concert Outfit Ideas?

Concert outfit ideas refer to the various styles and clothing choices that concert-goers select to wear when attending live music events. These outfits often reflect personal style, comfort, and the vibe of the concert.

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How much search volume does it get?
Google searches
14.8K/mo
Amazon searches
88/mo
Who is interested in this?
Gender
Female
91%
Unspecified
8%
Male
4%
Age
18-24
42%
25-34
34%
35-44
16%
45-49
4%
50-54
4%
55-64
4%
65+
4%

Is Concert Outfit Ideas trending?

Yes. Concert Outfit Ideas growing with a month-over-month change of 1.32% over the past 5 years, with approximately 14,800 monthly searches.

This is a seasonal trend that peaks every July. The seasonal demand is forecasted to decline over the next year.


Why is Concert Outfit Ideas trending?

1
Self-Expression
Concert outfits allow individuals to express their personal style and identity, showcasing their favorite bands, genres, or fashion trends.
2
Comfort and Practicality
Concerts often involve standing for long periods, dancing, and moving around, making comfortable clothing and footwear essential for an enjoyable experience.
3
Social Media Influence
With the rise of social media platforms, concert-goers are increasingly sharing their outfits online, inspiring others and creating trends around concert fashion.
4
Themed Events
Many concerts have specific themes or dress codes, encouraging attendees to get creative with their outfits to match the event's atmosphere.
5
Community and Connection
Wearing similar styles or band merchandise fosters a sense of community among concert-goers, allowing fans to connect over shared interests and experiences.

Where is this trending?

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Demographics
Gender
Female
91%
Unspecified
8%
Male
4%
Age
18-24
42%
25-34
34%
35-44
16%
45-49
4%
50-54
4%
55-64
4%
65+
4%

What are people saying?

36 threads
AI Insights Mixed sentiment
People are sharing ideas and seeking advice on what to wear to concerts, with a focus on different styles and considerations for various body types. There is a mix of excitement and frustration regarding outfit choices for upcoming events.
Outfit Suggestions
Users are exchanging creative ideas for concert outfits, considering factors like comfort and style.
Body Positivity
Discussions emphasize the need for plus-size friendly outfits and inclusivity in fashion choices.
Event-Specific Considerations
Many users are tailoring their outfit ideas based on the type of concert (e.g., country, formal) they are attending.
Budget Concerns
Some participants express frustration over the high costs associated with trendy concert outfits.
Personal Experiences
Users share anecdotes about past concerts and how their outfit choices impacted their experience.
Common questions
  • What are some good plus-size outfit ideas for concerts?
  • How can I make a comfortable outfit look stylish?
  • What should I wear to a country concert?
  • Are there budget-friendly options for concert outfits?
  • What accessories should I consider for my concert outfit?
Pain points
  • Lack of options for plus-size concert outfits.
  • Difficulty in balancing comfort and style.
  • High costs of trendy outfits.
  • Uncertainty about what is appropriate for different concert types.
  • Frustration with finding outfits that fit well.
forums.spacebattles.com
RE:Ashen Legacy (Trails of Cold Steel, next-gen quest)
... was making use of. In concert with Eileen, she was manipulating ... match it? She already had ideas. If she could advance vampiric ... amusement that Kasia noted the outfit hadn't changed overmuch, the sleeves ...
Vesran · May 8, 2026
forums.spacebattles.com
RE:Torch in the Darkness [RWBY/RESIDENT EVIL 2]
..., and opened part of his outfit. He unbuttoned his trench coat... mess started, there was a concert near the city center,—Marvin ... of smoke and said: —Any ideas on how to open that ...
Silen117 · May 5, 2026
forums.spacebattles.com
RE:K-Pop Demon Hunters: Fan Sequel
.... Her "best of both worlds" outfit gleaming under the spotlights. THE... rules. 1. Don't get any ideas. 2. No Tricks. 3. No...quickly hushes down as the concert promo trailer begins playing. The ... the girls, microphone in hand. CONCERT EMCEE Ladies and gentlemen, boys ...THUNDEROUSLY. Shaking the entire arena. CONCERT EMCEE On behalf of Los ...damaged of soldiers to tears. CONCERT EMCEE (CONT'D) You know her! ...
NateKnowsMovies · Apr 26, 2026
tattle.life
RE:Rebecca Lamb Hobson #197 Just an arse
I don't think her outfit ideas for Akon and Neyo are that bad tbh, except the boots deffo don't go! Cowboy boots to a R&B/Rap concert and she's not that thin, she's massively sucking in and edited herself slimmer at the same time! I do wonder who "all" her friends are, though? Pretty sure she's only got 2.
yellowmellow · Apr 22, 2026
forums.spacebattles.com
RE:Gryphon El'Jonson & Friends :) (WH30K/40K)
... and crafting an appropriate Gryphon outfit for Roboute's charity gala to... Angels' legion serfs to obtain ideas and designs for clothing that... leave them to their business. Outfit design sketches are turned in... to wrestle her into an outfit she hates?" the Lion responds... is better entertainment than the concert," Corswain shares, after a ping...
WerdeSpinner · Apr 21, 2026
forums.spacebattles.com
RE:Deadpool!Lisa [Crack]
... would've been suspicious. Plus, Taylor's outfit got melted during the whole... stressed girl in a matching outfit. The Undersiders should get matching... gayer than a Kristin Key concert, I'll make sure it happens... said eventually. Lisa shrugged. "Good ideas are boring, anyway. Half the... what I said about good ideas, yesterday? Besides, worst case scenario...
camo30209 · Apr 11, 2026
r/harrystyles
Concert outfit ideas please
hi im going to see harry at the end of next month with my best friend in london and im still stuck on what i should wear, it is difficult because i want to buy clothes that i will end up wearing again and something that i wont sweat it because im just prone to sweating on my back a lot, i’ll leave some images just to give an idea of what i usually wear submitted by /u/luvmffy to r/harrystyles [link] [comments]
luvmffy · May 4, 2026
r/KESHA
Kesha Concert OutFit Ideas?
Going to a Kesha concert this summer, and looking for ideas. I’m a man and looking to kind of have this same vibe. I’m bi and wear women’s clothing regularly so open to any ideas! submitted by /u/Unusual_Row_3213 to r/KESHA [link] [comments]
Unusual_Row_3213 · May 2, 2026
r/artcommissions
[Hiring] Fashion Illustrator for 2 Concert outfits
hello! i am looking for someone to help me put my ideas onto paper. preferably in a similar style seen as the one in the photo above^ it would be two FULL concert outfits for a plus sized woman that i hope to DIY most of but the part where you have to sketch it out i’m bad at and need it to show my makeup artist, hair stylist, and nail tech. BONUS POINTS IF YOU ARE ARMY OR KNOW THINGS ABOUT KPOP! because i want 2 layered outfits both with everything put together and taken apart (also in color, no shading needed) and i probably would like to brainstorm; to respect your time, im hoping to pay $75-100 maybe even $125 if i am really confident based on your portfolio and happy with the work. submitted by /u/PurpleYamYummy to r/artcommissions [link] [comments]
PurpleYamYummy · Apr 26, 2026
r/btsthoughts
BTS Concert Outfit
Hello fellow ARMY! I have a question for K-Army. My best friend and I are going to one of the BTS concerts in the US and are trying to brainstorm what to wear. We both were thinking of finding a sewing pattern and making/wearing hanbok style shirts. Neither my friend nor I are Korean. K-army, would this be offensive to you? We really just want to celebrate and show our appreciation for the BTS members and your beautiful culture. But foremost we want to be respectful. submitted by /u/Major_Hailstorm to r/btsthoughts [link] [comments]
Major_Hailstorm · Apr 25, 2026
r/btsthoughts
concert fits??
to the people who are going to see BTS on tour what are you guys wearing to the concert 😭😭 i have no idea what to wear at all (i already ruled out wearing a wedding dress 😔💔) edit: i’m going to the concert at the beginning of august so i’m assuming it’s gonna be hot lol submitted by /u/ruffruffrawr to r/btsthoughts [link] [comments]
ruffruffrawr · Apr 23, 2026
r/btsthoughts
Concert outfits
What is everyone wearing to the BTS concerts? I’ve been to several kpop concerts (stray kids, twice, Ateez..) but really haven’t dressed up. Would it be weird to wear purple since that’s what I affiliate with BTS when most people will probably be wearing red white and black? submitted by /u/Hwaiting1982 to r/btsthoughts [link] [comments]
Hwaiting1982 · Apr 19, 2026
All threads (36)
Thread Source Author Date
RE:Ashen Legacy (Trails of Cold Steel, next-gen quest)
... was making use of. In concert with Eileen, she was manipulating ... match it? She already had ideas. If she could advance vampiric ... amusement that Kasia noted the outfit hadn't changed overmuch, the sleeves ...
forums.spacebattles.com Vesran May 8, 2026
RE:Torch in the Darkness [RWBY/RESIDENT EVIL 2]
..., and opened part of his outfit. He unbuttoned his trench coat... mess started, there was a concert near the city center,—Marvin ... of smoke and said: —Any ideas on how to open that ...
forums.spacebattles.com Silen117 May 5, 2026
RE:K-Pop Demon Hunters: Fan Sequel
.... Her "best of both worlds" outfit gleaming under the spotlights. THE... rules. 1. Don't get any ideas. 2. No Tricks. 3. No...quickly hushes down as the concert promo trailer begins playing. The ... the girls, microphone in hand. CONCERT EMCEE Ladies and gentlemen, boys ...THUNDEROUSLY. Shaking the entire arena. CONCERT EMCEE On behalf of Los ...damaged of soldiers to tears. CONCERT EMCEE (CONT'D) You know her! ...
forums.spacebattles.com NateKnowsMovies Apr 26, 2026
RE:Rebecca Lamb Hobson #197 Just an arse
I don't think her outfit ideas for Akon and Neyo are that bad tbh, except the boots deffo don't go! Cowboy boots to a R&B/Rap concert and she's not that thin, she's massively sucking in and edited herself slimmer at the same time! I do wonder who "all" her friends are, though? Pretty sure she's only got 2.
tattle.life yellowmellow Apr 22, 2026
RE:Gryphon El'Jonson & Friends :) (WH30K/40K)
... and crafting an appropriate Gryphon outfit for Roboute's charity gala to... Angels' legion serfs to obtain ideas and designs for clothing that... leave them to their business. Outfit design sketches are turned in... to wrestle her into an outfit she hates?" the Lion responds... is better entertainment than the concert," Corswain shares, after a ping...
forums.spacebattles.com WerdeSpinner Apr 21, 2026
RE:Deadpool!Lisa [Crack]
... would've been suspicious. Plus, Taylor's outfit got melted during the whole... stressed girl in a matching outfit. The Undersiders should get matching... gayer than a Kristin Key concert, I'll make sure it happens... said eventually. Lisa shrugged. "Good ideas are boring, anyway. Half the... what I said about good ideas, yesterday? Besides, worst case scenario...
forums.spacebattles.com camo30209 Apr 11, 2026
RE:Deadpool!Lisa [Crack]
... would've been suspicious. Plus, Taylor's outfit got melted during the whole... stressed girl in a matching outfit. The Undersiders should get matching... gayer than a Kristin Key concert, I'll make sure it happens... said eventually. Lisa shrugged. "Good ideas are boring, anyway. Half the... what I said about good ideas, yesterday? Besides, worst case scenario...
forums.spacebattles.com camo30209 Apr 11, 2026
RE:A Young Woman's Defense of the Inner Sphere
... joined up with a rival outfit." Richard didn't like surprises. "Well... any bells for Richard. His outfit had killed many people when... to invite me to a concert to play a song they ... the others afterwards, and the concert would also be doable. The ... if Katherine had already had ideas for what Timur should pilot. "...
forums.spacebattles.com Failninja Apr 8, 2026
RE:A Ghost in the Machine (Raildex SI)
...the ribbons on the girl's outfit, or the speakers booming ... late to her own concert? Our bad! Here, have this ... the night after the concert. The doors slammed shut and ...I stop this torrent of ideas flowing through my mind? Me, ... communicate forever. This next concert is your chance. You better ... time. Before the next concert, I saw more than I ...they had brought to this concert, had brought it back to ...
forums.spacebattles.com diarama Apr 1, 2026
RE:To Burn at Both Ends (Project Moon AGG)
... My Shoulders (Music Ideas Blossom) Family Outing: First Concert (Your parents manage... Women Duet! (+15x4) Alternative Idol Outfit (+15x4) Idol Su (+15x4) For...) - Post Chargen Turn 2 Concert Ticket Theft (Your music will...
forums.spacebattles.com Hikari Mar 20, 2026
RE:Jolin Tsai's Chinese stage undergoes major overhaul giant snake becomes boat leaving fans stun
the original concert staging very weird observers say ... they completely run out of ideas so they combine, underground 18... those oversized boy boy suuperman outfit, especially the briefs/shorts part...
forums.hardwarezone.com.sg blues7 Mar 10, 2026
Date night! Outfit help
... we're doing dinner and country concert next weekend. I have no... help with plus size friendly outfit ideas! I have time to do...
community.whattoexpect.com CaOh1821 Mar 3, 2026
RE:2026 Weekly Jumpchain Challenge
... of and work in perfect concert with. Only those with truly... – you have an aesthetically pleasing outfit that matches your own aspect... multiverse. You may import an outfit you already own into this... metaphysical plane where concepts and ideas take root under the shine...
forums.spacebattles.com Flynt&Silver Feb 28, 2026
RE:Rediscovered Frontiers (Archie/IDW Sonic Crossover)
... who could be in that concert. They never expected to hear ... capture the Mongoose during the concert tomorrow. But if we take ... was for the Undeground 23 Concert tomorrow. "Is this what you ..., that would be it. The concert itself will be in the ... eyes, sleek hair, and formal-looking outfit with accessories that were quite ... now seem to have better ideas on the other. Mina went ...
forums.spacebattles.com Kira27 Feb 27, 2026
Concert outfit ideas please
hi im going to see harry at the end of next month with my best friend in london and im still stuck on what i should wear, it is difficult because i want to buy clothes that i will end up wearing again and something that i wont sweat it because im just prone to sweating on my back a lot, i’ll leave some images just to give an idea of what i usually wear submitted by /u/luvmffy to r/harrystyles [link] [comments]
reddit.com luvmffy May 4, 2026
Kesha Concert OutFit Ideas?
Going to a Kesha concert this summer, and looking for ideas. I’m a man and looking to kind of have this same vibe. I’m bi and wear women’s clothing regularly so open to any ideas! submitted by /u/Unusual_Row_3213 to r/KESHA [link] [comments]
reddit.com Unusual_Row_3213 May 2, 2026
[Hiring] Fashion Illustrator for 2 Concert outfits
hello! i am looking for someone to help me put my ideas onto paper. preferably in a similar style seen as the one in the photo above^ it would be two FULL concert outfits for a plus sized woman that i hope to DIY most of but the part where you have to sketch it out i’m bad at and need it to show my makeup artist, hair stylist, and nail tech. BONUS POINTS IF YOU ARE ARMY OR KNOW THINGS ABOUT KPOP! because i want 2 layered outfits both with everything put together and taken apart (also in color, no shading needed) and i probably would like to brainstorm; to respect your time, im hoping to pay $75-100 maybe even $125 if i am really confident based on your portfolio and happy with the work. submitted by /u/PurpleYamYummy to r/artcommissions [link] [comments]
reddit.com PurpleYamYummy Apr 26, 2026
BTS Concert Outfit
Hello fellow ARMY! I have a question for K-Army. My best friend and I are going to one of the BTS concerts in the US and are trying to brainstorm what to wear. We both were thinking of finding a sewing pattern and making/wearing hanbok style shirts. Neither my friend nor I are Korean. K-army, would this be offensive to you? We really just want to celebrate and show our appreciation for the BTS members and your beautiful culture. But foremost we want to be respectful. submitted by /u/Major_Hailstorm to r/btsthoughts [link] [comments]
reddit.com Major_Hailstorm Apr 25, 2026
concert fits??
to the people who are going to see BTS on tour what are you guys wearing to the concert 😭😭 i have no idea what to wear at all (i already ruled out wearing a wedding dress 😔💔) edit: i’m going to the concert at the beginning of august so i’m assuming it’s gonna be hot lol submitted by /u/ruffruffrawr to r/btsthoughts [link] [comments]
reddit.com ruffruffrawr Apr 23, 2026
Concert outfits
What is everyone wearing to the BTS concerts? I’ve been to several kpop concerts (stray kids, twice, Ateez..) but really haven’t dressed up. Would it be weird to wear purple since that’s what I affiliate with BTS when most people will probably be wearing red white and black? submitted by /u/Hwaiting1982 to r/btsthoughts [link] [comments]
reddit.com Hwaiting1982 Apr 19, 2026
Concert outfit
Hey! I'm a pretty new fan, approaching three years, and I'm going to one of his Amsterdam shows in June! I'm really excited for it, but I was wondering what to wear? I've never been one of his concerts (or any concert for that matter where it's more normal to dress up for the concert), so I'm open to anything. I know the venue's roof can be open and closed, and the average temperature is, like, 18° Celsius (~64°F). I'd prefer a more appropiate outfit (not showing too much skin, but a crop top should be fine). What should I wear? Thanks! :) submitted by /u/random_redditor2818 to r/harrystyles [link] [comments]
reddit.com random_redditor2818 Apr 11, 2026
Let me see everyone’s tour fits
Currently been hyper focused on building this years tour outfit and it’s been challenging to say the least (not that I can’t find anything I wanna style… but more so I can’t afford the style and look I’m trying to curate) so I’m trying too narrow down something nice (that’s also not super fast fashion forward and something I can rewear again!) I wanted to go super witchy alt goth vibes but most of the corsets styles I want are way out of my budget and then I’d still need to source bottoms and a top underneath 😂💀😅 Anyway then I thought instead of going off this theme I vision for everybody scream— (for me that’s corsets, lace, bloody red, swords, chunky heavy accessories, tights, chokers, flowy pants/skirt, I have a vision with a red Viel, or cape like thing) BUUUUUTTT I’m gonna try and be more practical and order less and maybe steer away from the theme I was going for and opt for a more everyday practical fit that won’t require me buying multiple different things for to save some money, therefore I’m going to go boho but try and make it me~I found a gorgeous vendor on Etsy that has my kind of vibe and they’re sets so I only would need to worry about the accessories andddd that I already got picked out- which I’ll share below what I was thinking of wearing! I’d love to see everyone’s visions/ideas for your outfits for the tour! Are you all going to dress to a theme to a particular song or vibe? Are you going plain Jane? Are you going fairy core vibes or witchy?! I’d love to know! Seeing everybody’s tour fits and personal style is like one of my favorite parts of a flo show! Dance fever, everyone really nailed the vampiric goth theme! This album sort of seems similar in terms of style or themes go in my opinion, but of course everyone interprets things differently ❤️ My concert is coming up in May, so I don’t have alot of time to make my orders and everything I want is located overseas on Etsy which is kinda 😱 submitted by /u/intergalacticpimpinn to r/FlorenceAndTheMachine [link] [comments]
reddit.com intergalacticpimpinn Mar 28, 2026
Outfit ideas for the concert
Anyone has suggestion of what to wear going to the Romantic Tour? I saw Bruno reposting a story of adding a red rose in our hair or like a headband but for outfit what are you wearing? submitted by /u/Nahla_Elmasry to r/BrunoMars [link] [comments]
reddit.com Nahla_Elmasry Mar 23, 2026
Current Smoochies tour outfit. Any Ideas/additions I should look into?
Have her concert coming up on the 30th, and I've been slowly piecing a concert outfit for it. Was wanting to know your guys' thoughts and ideas! submitted by /u/Ryn_is_existing to r/Ashnikko [link] [comments]
reddit.com Ryn_is_existing Mar 19, 2026
Outfit inspo for concert
Here are some ideas, ordered by comeback Feel free to ask any questions about the photos submitted by /u/Prestigious_Knee9255 to r/NMIXX [link] [comments]
reddit.com Prestigious_Knee9255 Mar 16, 2026
Slay or nay? Concert outfit idea
submitted by /u/Ill-Aspect-4196 to r/femboy [link] [comments]
reddit.com Ill-Aspect-4196 Feb 25, 2026
Concert Outfits
Sorry if this sounds “silly and dumb” but are you guys dressing up for the concert? After I bought my tickets last week, I started looking for outfit inspo and saw that some dressed up as Lizzie/Isabella or had Lizzie McGuire t-shirts. One outfit idea I pinned was dressing similar to Lizzie’s cartoon, but I don't want to buy orange shoes, only to wear them once 😩 I then got targetted with “Lizzie McGuire bracelets” and now I want to buy a bunch to hand out at the Toronto shows. So, if you're going to the Toronto shows, I may be giving out some goodies (if permissible) submitted by /u/dontyaknowimaceo to r/HilaryDuffStans [link] [comments]
reddit.com dontyaknowimaceo Feb 24, 2026
Outfit ideas
Outfit ideas for concert submitted by /u/Haunting-Lab9539 to r/NoahKahan [link] [comments]
reddit.com Haunting-Lab9539 Feb 15, 2026
Concert Outfit Ideas Needed! :)
Hi! I’m going to NMIXX’s Brooklyn concert, and I’m SO EXCITED! They’ve been my ult group for about a year now, so I literally can’t wait. This is also my first kpop concert! However, I’m having trouble finding ideas for outfits to wear. I want something that relates to NMIXX, but doesn’t have a short skirt or show my stomach so I can comfortably walk around. I’m also really weird with different textures on clothes, so that’s also an issue (I’m getting tested for autism, that might be the reason behind that issue lol). I’d really love some advice, whether general or maybe even a specific outfit idea! Either way, I hope you all have a great time if you’re also going to see NMIXX live! submitted by /u/tansyalyssum to r/NMIXX [link] [comments]
reddit.com tansyalyssum Jan 31, 2026
World tour outfits/essentials
I figured it might be a good idea to have a thread to discuss outfit ideas and concert essentials. submitted by /u/GoblinRaeyn to r/btsthoughts [link] [comments]
reddit.com GoblinRaeyn Jan 24, 2026
Is my concert outfit idea too niche?
So I know it’s way too soon to be brainstorming outfit ideas for the tour. However, to pass the time I’ve decided to go ahead and start planning. My plan was to bedazzle an athletic like the one pictured below inspired by her met gala performance look. BUT I didn’t know if this is way too niche of an outfit idea. So thoughts? Opinions? submitted by /u/Nobody-important1989 to r/ariheads [link] [comments]
reddit.com Nobody-important1989 Dec 26, 2025
Would this make a cool outfit for a NIN concert?
FUTURE OUTFIT IDEA WHEN I ATTEND A NIN CONCERT~ yea i know im fat but hey ive lost like 100lbs so far (wahh NIN shirt is baggy, AYO soon I'll get a size XL or L so it can not be so baggy) so you should see how i used to look like :D? I LOVE NINE INCH NAILS !! My favorite song is: Only and The Great Destroyer. ..First song I heard from them was: Closer.. so I will always love that song too ~ . submitted by /u/fevure to r/nin [link] [comments]
reddit.com fevure Aug 15, 2025
AITAH - My best friend and husband suddenly stopped talking to each other
I am NOT OOP, OOP is u/t-friendhusband Originally posted to r/AITAH AITAH - My best friend and husband suddenly stopped talking to each other Thanks to u/queenlegolas + u/Direct-Caterpillar77 for suggesting this BoRU Trigger Warnings: betrayal Original Post: July 18, 2024 Something weird is happening between my husband and my best friend Dana, and I don't know if my head is just making up stories or their actions are really suspicious. My husband Phil and I are married for 4 years and are both in our early 30s. We are very happy together. He loves me a lot and but sometimes I have caught him lying to protect my feelings, which I do not really like. Dana is my best friend since college, and we were roommates. Just to give some background about Dana, she was in a long-term relationship with her boyfriend for 3 years, but they broke up last year. He was also very insecure about Dana and was very controlling about who Dana hangs out with. Dana's boyfriend was really jealous of Phil for some reason, and they would avoid hanging out with us. However, since the breakup, Dana and I have gotten closer and spend a lot of time shopping, going out to restaurants, etc. Phil also loves to tag along with us occasionally, but not always. Phil and Dana also get along well, and Dana has told me that if I find another "Phil", I need to set up a blind date between them asap. One month ago, Phil, Dana and I had planned to go to a concert in our town. Phil was really excited as it was one of his favorite bands. I started feeling unwell the morning of the concert and just wanted to rest. Phil was disappointed but told me that we can offer our tickets to our friends, and we can see the band some other time. I didn't really want to spoil it for him, so I called few of my friends and my friend Jess (mutual friend with Dana) was happy to go to the concert in my place. Phil still wanted to cancel, but I insisted he went as I would have felt bad if he missed the concert. They all went together and enjoyed the concert. Phil kept on sending me photos all through the night. The concert ended at 11pm, but I slept before that due to my medication. When I woke up in the morning, I was alone in the bed. I quickly checked my messages and Phil's last message was at 11pm, saying they are leaving the concert, and he should be home soon after dropping Dana. I went to the living room, and Phil was sleeping on the sofa in the same clothes he wore to the concert. I waited for him to get up. I asked him about the night and when he returned home. He said that he came back home between 2 to 3 am. He said that there were multiple accidents outside the concert venue, and the traffic was horrible. He said he dropped Dana at her place and came home directly. I asked him why he was sleeping on sofa, and he told me that he did not want to disturb me, and also was too tired to change out of his clothes. Phil had some glitter on his clothes, but that was from dancing in the crowd at the concert. So, he just crashed on the sofa and slept immediately. It seemed plausible, and Dana also confirmed the story. However, the weird behavior started after this night. Firstly, Phil stopped tagging along with me when I was hanging out with Dana. He would come up with the most unbelievable reasons to avoid going out with me when Dana was there. Phil has also been a bit aloof with me since that night, and I have noticed him spending a lot more time in his home office playing video games at night, instead of coming to bed. Two weeks ago, I invited Dana to our house for drinks after we went out for shopping, and she also started giving reasons to avoid coming to our place. Dana has not visited our place since that day. The only time Phil and Dana saw each other was during a house party at my friend's place last weekend. I was observing their behavior, and they both were avoiding each other. I asked Phil about why he is avoiding Dana, and he said that it's just in my imagination. Dana also said the same, but then starts giving me bullshit reasons for not coming over to our apartment. I feel in my gut that their behavior is suspicious, but I am not sure if it's just my insecurity. How do I know what is going on? I have gone through Phil's phone multiple times, but the only messages between him and Dana are very sparse, and there are no messages since that night. I feel something happened between them that night, and both are just avoiding answering even the basic questions about why they are avoiding each other. Am I the AH for assuming the worst? I really do not want to come off as insecure, but it is killing me from inside. AITAH has no consensus bot, OOP was NTA Relevant Comments Notiq666: NTA. Something for sure happened. Only question is exactly what. From what you said about her ex never liking him and her asking you to set up a date with another version of him that she may have always had a thing for him. Maybe she was drunk and she went for it. If you cannot find out on your own due to lack of evidence, you need to sit them both down together and confront them both and demand the truth. OOP: I also want to do that. But I feel that if I am wrong, not only would I lose a friend, but Phil is also going to be upset that I am accusing him of something horrible. I just feel in my gut that thinks smell funky, but I am too scared to open the pandora's box. Lopsided-Aioli9476; Have you asked your other friend about that night and see if she knows anything about their strange behavior towards each other? You should confront them either way. Maybe not accuse them of cheating but state that their behavior is not making you feel comfortable and you rather not be kept in the dark if their is an issue or something helped to warrant their distance. OOP: I talked to Jess but didn't directly ask her about any suspicious behaviors. She told me that they all had a fun time, she took the train home, while Phil and Dana went to the parking lot after the concert. Few_Safe_3700: Something happened. Only question is what. It could be what you fear and they did something together or one of them tried and the other one said no ... or might be something else but definitly something that made their relation weird OOP: One of the reasons I am also very concerned is because Phil came home really late. He never sleeps on the sofa, but it was probably the first time he did that in years. Plus, he had glitter all over his body, and I found glitter all over the passenger seat in his car the next day, where Dana was presumably sitting. It could all be nothing, but my mind is just going in overdrive. I just don't know how to bring up the topic without sounding accusatory or crazy. IndividualNarwhal834: Was the glitter on his clothes or on his body under the clothes? OOP: It was on his clothes and arms. My suspicion is they might have hugged, which is fine. He went for a shower afterwards, so I am not sure if it was anywhere else on his body.   Update: July 22, 2024 I had posted last week regarding my husband and my best friend avoiding each other after they went to a concert together last month. I really wanted to thank you all for helping me in my time of need and helping me with my tech questions. Sorry for the long post, but I confronted Phil and fucking Dana and was able to know what happened. AITAH - My best friend and husband suddenly stopped talking to each other: I was briefly able to get access to Phil's phone last Friday night. I did not have time to retrieve any deleted messages. However, thanks to someone's idea, I opened his camera gallery and went through the photos he took that night. One important thing that jumped out was Dana's outfit. Dana was wearing white shirt and denim shorts to the concert. As it was an outdoor concert, she took off her shirt and was only wearing a blue bikini top. She had some glittering fake tattoos on her shoulder and back. By the end of night, she was again wearing her shirt. So, for the glitter to be on Phil's car seat and his clothes, Dana had to have taken her shirt off in the car. I was so angry and could not keep my cool anymore. I went and confronted Phil. He immediately broke down and started apologizing to me. He said that it was his fault that he took it too far and was feeling very guilty all month. He said that he did not want to tell me because I would have been very upset, and he just wanted to forget it. I told him to tell me what happened in detail, and he did. He told me that Dana and Jess both got drunk during the concert. Phil had to hold Dana while taking her to the car. Dana slept in the car for an hour, while Phil was driving. When she got up, she started playing music and singing loudly. At one point, she told Phil that it is hot in the car, and before he could lower the AC temperature, she took off her shirt. Phil said he was very uncomfortable at this point and asked Dana if it's ok he drives to our house and she could sleep in the guest room, as her apartment would have added another 30 minutes to the drive. She insisted that she wanted to go home, so Phil took her home. As she got out, she asked Phil if he could walk her back to her apartment as she still felt tipsy. After she opened the apartment door, she hugged Phil and said thank you. Phil said that he was sorry that the hug lingered too long, and they had a moment. I had tears rolling down my eyes and asked him if they kissed. Phil told me of course not, but he cannot describe it, but there was definitely a moment between them. He told me that Dana invited him in, but he immediately told Dana that he had to leave and made a run to the car. I kept on asking what happened, and he just said they had a moment that he felt could not control and just got out of there. After he came home, Dana messaged Phil that he should have come inside the apartment. Phil kept on telling Dana that it was an accident, and to forget about it. But Dana kept on asking Phil if he is attracted to her and if he had a good time. Phil told Dana that he is not attracted to her and never will be and told her to not tell me about it. She agreed, and he deleted all the messages. He said that he sat on the sofa because they were messaging each other for a long time, and he did not want to hear it. I asked him if he could retrieve the messages, and he told me he deleted them and also cleaned all his archive and sent messages. He just wanted to forget the incident ever happened. I showed him my post and thanks to a comment, we went to find the messages on the SD card. Phil was right and the messages were the same as what Phil described. I am still very mad at Phil for not telling me about it in first place. This is where it got super weird. I invited Dana for brunch yesterday and met her. I told her that I talked to Phil, and he confessed to everything that happened night during the concert. I asked her I wanted to give her a chance to tell her side of the story. Dana immediately became defensive. The story was the same until they got to her apartment building. Dana said that she opened her apartment door, she gave Phil a long hug for a great evening. She said that could feel Phil wanted more but nothing happened beyond that. I asked her why she invited him inside the apartment. She told me that she wanted to offer him some water and snack as he was driving for a long time. I said that it's a really bitch move to invite my husband in her apartment at 1 am at night, when she felt he wanted more from her than a hug. She said that I was just being jealous and crazy. We started arguing and she blurted out that she was not the one popping boners during the hug. I told her she is never going to see Phil again in her life, and our friendship is done. She started shouting that she knows Phil loves her and he does not act on it because of me. She went on about how I am always complaining about Phil and do not deserve him. She said that Phil has been so nice to her after the breakup, and she feels he would leave me for her if he had a chance. She finally said that she could make Phil way happier than I ever could and he has started to realize it now. At this point, I just wanted to avoid a blowout and walked away. I talked to Phil at night and what Dana said. He confirmed to me that he did become aroused when he hugged Dana that night, and he does not know why. Dana held his hand and invited him in after the hug, and he just ran towards his car. He said he feels guilty about it, but it does not mean he has feelings for Dana. He said he is very happy being married to me and would like to keep it that way for the rest of his life. Although I am relieved that nothing happened between them, it has been hard for me to process my thoughts. I feel mad at Phil for hugging Dana in the middle of night when she is barely wearing anything. He should know better. On the other hand, I feel like an AH myself that my best friend had a thing for my husband, that I had no clue about and pushed both of them to go to the concert together. Relevant Comments WinterFront1431: Make sure you blast Dana to everyone, I'd also go as far as to change both your numbers. I still wouldn't let this go with Phil, he hid it from you, let you hang around this woman, had a ' moment' what ever the fuck that means.. and then proceeded to text her and lie to you more. I'd ask him to set up marriage counciling and to earn your trust back. OOP: Yes. I have made it clear to him how upset it makes me feel. He should have seen that Dana taking off her shirt in car was a big red flag and told me about everything, instead of playing cat and mouse game with Dana. writing_mm_romance: Based on his initial unwillingness to go to the concert, I wonder if this wasn't the first time she'd put him in an awkward position? OOP: We talked about this. He said she never said or did anything like this before. But, he also pointed out that the only time he has hung out with her before when I was with them. writing_mm_romance: I'm glad you got to the bottom of it. I have to admit, for some reason this story had my hackles up. Usually I can read these and be objective, but my gut was telling me your friend was being schiestery. OOP: Dana was a sister to me for all these years. It's always the people you suspect the least. I don't know why she would do it to me. It feels so horrible. l3ex_G: Don’t let Phil off the hook, he made multiple bad calls that night and you and him should work on the relationship. Dana wasn’t your friend because friends wouldn’t hurt you like that OOP: I won't and am really upset with him. This is not the first time he has hidden stuff from me to protect my feelings. He always tries to make everyone's problem his own and solve them to protect everyone around him. It's going to hurt him someday. Thanks to the comments who showed how to find deleted messages. Without them, I would have never trusted his story.   DO NOT COMMENT IN LINKED POSTS OR MESSAGE OOPs – BoRU Rule #7 THIS IS A REPOST SUB - I AM NOT OOP submitted by /u/Choice_Evidence1983 to r/BestofRedditorUpdates [link] [comments]
reddit.com Choice_Evidence1983 Jul 29, 2024
Ethel Cain concert outfit ideas?
I’m going to her concert in ny over the summer :) I’m not sure what to wear, any ideas? Also any tips and advice for properly enjoying the concert? submitted by /u/Thathouseinebraska to r/Ethelcain [link] [comments]
reddit.com Thathouseinebraska May 11, 2024
Help pick an outfit for a concert!
What shoes? With fishnets or without? For context & weather: it’s supposed to be low 50s all day. Planning on doing some shopping in the daytime before. The concert is at night but it’s inside a small venue so it’ll probably be warm as heck. I’ll be outside a very small portion of the day so I don’t mind being cold. submitted by /u/psychdarling to r/OUTFITS [link] [comments]
reddit.com psychdarling Apr 4, 2024
What are you wearing to the BTS 2025/2026 WORLD TOUR?
Are you dressing up? Going comfortable? What are you bringing with you in your purse? I have never been to a BTS concert or even a K-Pop concert. I like to pass time by imagining what I would wear and different scenarios for when the day is finally here. I would love to hear your opinions/ideas/must have items, all the things. submitted by /u/Zuhey88 to r/bangtan [link] [comments]
reddit.com Zuhey88 Feb 27, 2024