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I’ve become weirdly obsessed with a very specific look that usually belongs to 45-year-old men. The thing is, I’m a girl and I like being feminine, but I want to give off this specific energy. I don't want to just dress like a man. I want to know how to keep it girly but still look like I belong at the table with the guys at the deli or the cops at the donut shop. Are there feminine versions of this? Or any fashion tips? edit: i didn’t expect this to blow up. thank you guys so much for being so helpful 🩷🩷 submitted by /u/Decent-Task-4537 to r/AestheticWiki [link] [comments]

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Game Information Game Title: Pragmata Platforms: PlayStation 5 (Apr 17, 2026) Xbox Series X/S (Apr 17, 2026) PC (Apr 17, 2026) Nintendo Switch 2 (Apr 17, 2026) Trailers: Pragmata - Official 90-Second Overview Trailer PRAGMATA - Main Trailer Pragmata - Pre-Order Trailer | PS5 Games Publisher: Capcom Review Aggregator: OpenCritic - 87 average - 94% recommended - 79 reviews Critic Reviews AltChar - Semir Omerovic - 95 / 100 Pragmata is a triumph of incredible video game design that nails almost every aspect of what makes games such a fun and engaging experience. AnaitGames - Víctor Manuel Martínez García - Spanish - 9 / 10 A moving and surprising story about humanity and AI envelops this excellent action game, always interesting and expansive. Analog Stick Gaming - Jeff M Young - 9 / 10 Pragmata pleasantly surprised me, and if Capcom does intend to return to this in a few years, I’d love to see the hacking systems become even deeper and more personalized. Hugh and Diana are a wonderful pair, and each nearly steals the show from one another. Their journey to stop IDUS may play it a bit too safe, but the journey nonetheless had me over the moon. BaziCenter - Bahram Bigharaz - Persian - 8.5 / 10 Capcom’s newest franchise, Pragmata, is a bold gamble that largely pays off, thanks in no small part to the power of the RE Engine and the studio’s proven talent. Set in a cold, dark sci-fi world, the game clearly draws inspiration from Dead Space while still striving to carve out its own identity through a memorable story, epic boss encounters, and strong character relationships. If you’re looking for a high-quality sci-fi action-adventure with an engaging narrative and top-tier visuals, Pragmata is well worth your time and money. But Why Tho? - Abdul Saad - 8.5 / 10 Pragmata is a great sci-fi action adventure game that doesn’t demand much from its players and provides an entertaining experience throughout. COGconnected - Jaz Sagoo - 90 / 100 Quote not yet available Cerealkillerz - Stefan Meidl - German - 9 / 10 For me, this game is definitely a recommendation to buy. The gameplay is quick to learn, and the story leaves you wanting more. The player is constantly wondering what will happen next with Hugh and Diana. There’s also something to enjoy for collectors and outfit enthusiasts, as there are items to gather for Diana and various outfits to unlock. Generally, I’m not a fan of enemies respawning in areas. However, in this game it doesn’t bother me, as the number of enemies is quite manageable. I do have one small criticism regarding the standard weapon: after reloading, you have to wait a short moment for the weapon to “cool down” in order to use the full magazine effectively. Otherwise, you often fire only a single shot before being forced to reload again. This can be quite frustrating, especially in situations where the enemy only needs two or three more hits. Console Creatures - Bobby Pashalidis - 9 / 10 As far as I'm concerned, Capcom's developers hit a stride so few achieve. Pragmata clicks from beginning, delivering an incredible campaign with stellar mechanics, held together by Hugh and Diana's relationship. Console-Tribe - Marco Licandro - Italian - 89 / 100 Pragmata is a joy to play. Capcom hits the mark, delivering a video game in the purest sense of the term—one that offers both challenge and fun, driven by constant variety and a fluid narrative that carries the player throughout the entire adventure. Don’t miss it. Daily Mirror - Aaron Potter - 4 / 5 Hugh and Diana’s journey may admittedly rely heavily on sci-fi tropes and the broader story suffers and ends up feeling quite small stakes as a result, yet the pair’s relationship never failed to make me care about the wider universe it hints at. A good thing, too, as it’s one I hope we get to see more of in the not too distant future. DayOne - Jesse Norris - 9 / 10 PRAGMATA is a fantastic video game. Solid gunplay, excellent variety in its hacking, incredible visuals, and an enjoyable story work together to create what I hope is a new IP that we’ll see a lot more of in the future. Digital Spy - Joe Draper - 4 / 5 This charming action-adventure deserves to be a massive hit and you should take a chance on one of this year's best games. Digitally Downloaded - Matt Sainsbury - 5 / 5 Pragmata is Capcom at its best. As good as this company can be with its established franchises, it’s when it tries to do something different that we get the real gold. As far as “big budget” games go, Pragmata is the most different and thought-provoking game I’ve played since Death Stranding, and I love it almost as much as Kojima’s masterpiece. If only Capcom did this more often. Like they used to. Digitec Magazine - Rainer Etzweiler - German - 4 / 5 After hacking my first robot, I briefly wondered whether the concept could carry me all the way through. The game quickly puts that concern to rest. Pragmata strikes a confident balance between accessibility and challenge without ever losing its footing. The hacking system evolves alongside you, the combat stays fresh until the very end, and the hideout ensures progression never feels like a chore. As Hugh and Diana grow closer on screen, the thin story hardly matters. Capcom’s moon landing is a success. ElderPlayers - Mohammed Ahmed Alsharif - Arabic - 9 / 10 Pragmata is a stunning masterpiece, and its true soul is Daiana. A character designed with captivating beauty and details overflowing with life and innocence, making her the beating heart of the game and its unforgettable icon. This aesthetic beauty extends to the world's excellent world design, which, despite its clear linearity and the occasional disturbance in combat due to the crowded nature of the combat areas, it still offers an experience rare to see these days. Enternity.gr - Konstantinos Kalkanis - Greek - 8 / 10 "Pragmata" isn't the kind of title that makes waves, but it is a remarkable production that breathes new life into a genre that has been stagnant for years. Everyeye.it - Italian - 8.5 / 10 Quote not yet available Final Weapon - Noah Hunter - 4.5 / 5 Pragmata dreams big with inventive hacking-shooting gameplay, and Capcom has hit a home run. Hugh and Diana's journey across the moon is one to remember, with an excellent gameplay system that never fails to be exciting. While I wish Pragmata spent more time developing its central relationship, that shortcoming never comes close to dulling what is otherwise one of Capcom’s most inventive and exciting new releases in years. Forbes - Ollie Barder - 9 / 10 Overall, Pragmata is a very fresh take on a modern third-person shooter, with a unique combat setup that is equal parts tactics and brute force skill. It also looks wonderful throughout, and the interactions between Hugh, Diana, and Cabin are a lot of fun and genuinely sweet. It may be a bit too early to call, but thus far, this is easily my game of the year. Forever Classic Games - Danreb Victorio - 9.8 / 10 Enjoyable chaos is exactly what PRAGMATA is. Everything about this version of the world is terrifying, but I just loved being there, especially when it came to taking a breather at the shelter with Diana. I couldn’t stop thinking about how fun most aspects of this game were, so much so that I immediately jumped back in after rolling credits. GRYOnline.pl - Michał Grygorcewicz - Polish - 8.5 / 10 I enjoyed Pragmata very much. Its unique and satisfying combat system, solid execution of the other gameplay elements, and likeable main characters all combine to make this another hit from Capcom. It’s just a shame that the boss battles are rather disappointing. GameOnly - Michał Marasek - Polish - 7 / 10 Video Review - Quote not available GamePro - Eleen Reinke - German - 77 / 100 Quote not yet available GameRant - Dalton Cooper - 7 / 10 Capcom's new sci-fi game features thrilling action and exploration, but drops the ball with its story and characters. GameSpew - Richard Seagrave - 10 / 10 Capcom has taken a gamble with Pragmata, blending together multiple genres to create something that feels fresh and unique. At the heart of it is hacking-infused third-person shooter combat, which remains engaging and exciting throughout. And when paired with a story that tugs on the heartstrings, the result is something rather special. Ultimately, Pragmata is not only game of the year material, but also one of the most exciting new IPs in recent years. GameSpot - Steve Watts - 9 / 10 This all led to a thrilling conclusion that tested my skills, stirred my heart, and left me wanting more. Pragmata offers a robust post-game with plenty to do, but I hope that's not the last I see of Hugh and Diana. This combination of sharp combat mechanics, rich strategic depth, and lovely storytelling doesn't come along often. Pragmata shouldn't be missed. GameWatcher - Michael Murphy - 9.5 / 10 It goes without saying that Pragmata is a terrific game and one of 2026's must-play titles. It fires on all cylinders and doesn't let you go, even after the credits roll. The frenetic action, charming characters, and striking visuals help bolster a creativity rarely seen in AAA titles. While it can play it safe in the story and settings, it is one of Capcom's best games this decade and a sure-fire Game of the Year contender in my book. Gameblog - French - 8 / 10 After years of anticipation and numerous previews, we can finally confirm it: Pragmata is indeed the surprise we've been waiting for. With refreshing gameplay and a pair of highly endearing protagonists, Capcom's new franchise plunges us into the heart of a fabulous world that we enjoy roaming from start to finish, despite a few minor flaws here and there. And while these flaws may prevent the game from having as significant impact as we originally hoped for, it remains a resounding success for the studio, which continues to deliver new, original games that are a breath of fresh air. Gameliner - Simon Verbeke - Dutch - 4.5 / 5 I've got a lot of respect for Capcom and Pragmata: releasing a brand-new game that isn't tied to any existing universe is quite a gamble. Fortunately, that risk paid off for Pragmata. Gamer Guides - Echo Apsey - 79 / 100 Pragmata doesn’t feel like anything else in the AAA action game market. While it isn’t a home run, the majority of its parts are strong and memorable, marking another excellent release from Capcom in 2026. Gamers Heroes - Johnny Hurricane - 85 / 100 A moonshot six years in the making, Capcom's bold new IP PRAGMATA sends Hugh and Diana to new heights with a successful landing. Gamersky - 心灵奇兵 - Chinese - 8.6 / 10 As an experimental title, Pragmata won't be for everyone, but once it clicks with you, it delivers a superb and truly irreplaceable experience. Despite a lengthy development cycle, this game-spearheaded by Capcom's new generation of developers-successfully establishes a brand-new IP. It showcases the team's design prowess and unique vision for gameplay, distinctly setting it apart from Capcom's traditional offerings. It leaves me eagerly anticipating what this team will bring us next. GamingBolt - Shubhankar Parijat - 9 / 10 Pragmata combines a host of immaculately executed well-worn ideas with a handful of unique and fascinating ones of its own to deliver a thrilling, high-octane sci-fi shooter experience. Giant Bomb - Mike Minotti - 4.5 / 5 It’s rare we get a new IP from a big publisher like Capcom these days, especially one with production values like this. It’s a risk when you could just keep pumping out Resident Evil remakes and sequels while making guaranteed money. Well, this risk pays off. Glitched Africa - Marco Cocomello - 9 / 10 Pragmata is an enjoyable and exhilarating blockbuster action that delivers frantic combat encounters and an engaging story. It is exactly the “new” we have been asking for from Capcom. HCL.hr - Dominik Vadas - Unknown - 86 / 100 A charming and surprisingly emotional sci-fi adventure, Pragmata stands out with its unique hacking combat and strong character dynamics, even if its story plays it a bit safe. Its tense, multitasking combat loop keeps you constantly engaged, while the bond between its protagonists adds genuine heart. Though not without flaws, it’s a memorable experience that lingers long after the credits roll. IGN - Michael Higham - 8 / 10 Punchy shooting action and a creative hacking-puzzle gameplay mechanic make combat the true highlight of Pragmata. The story may seem like an afterthought, but its sci-fi drama gives enough to see it all the way through and experience this satisfying third-person shooter. IGN Spain - Mario Seijas - Spanish - 9 / 10 Pragmata goes all-in with a unique gameplay approach-and it pays off. At first, it's challenging to balance the two major systems it introduces, but over time, this hybrid combat system has really won me over. That, combined with the character portrayals and the story of its two protagonists, makes Pragmata one of the must-play games of the year so far. Just Play it - Ousadi Mohamed Seif Eddine - Arabic - 9 / 10 PRAGMATA delivered a moving artistic experience set on the surface of the moon, brought to life by artificial intelligence in a world filled with mystery and secrets that gradually unfold. This journey is shared by the duo “Diana” and “Hugh,” who experience it together in an adventure defined by an innovative gameplay style that blends hacking and shooting… in a way we’ve never seen before. KonsoliFIN - Tero Lepistö - Finnish - 4 / 5 Pragmata spices up the traditional shooter genre with unique hacking mechanics and displays some extremely cool visuals as icing on the cake. The end result works better than expected. LevelUp - Spanish - 9 / 10 PRAGMATA has the potential to be the new star franchise of Capcom; it has a frenetic style of combat, excellent level design, a lot of items to find, a deep variety of personalization and two protagonists that work perfectly together. It is a marvelous action and adventure game that always maintains itself interesting and exciting. Loot Level Chill - Mick Fraser - 9.5 / 10 Despite a few very minor complaints, Pragmata is one of Capcom's most interesting and enjoyable adventures to date. MeuPlayStation - Vinícus Paráboa - Portuguese - 85 / 100 Pragmata blends third-person shooting with a real-time hacking system that runs alongside combat, creating a solid and engaging gameplay loop. Enemy variety and boss fights stand out, while visuals are strong in Quality mode but less consistent in Performance. The story has an interesting premise but suffers from rushed pacing. In the end, the gameplay is the clear highlight. MondoXbox - Matteo Merlano - Italian - 8.5 / 10 Well-conceived and beautifully crafted, Pragmata is a remarkable and enjoyable game. It might lack that extra gear needed to enter the pantheon of masterpieces, but if the goal is to offer a solid and thrilling experience, it completely hits the mark. MonsterVine - James Carr - 5 / 5 I think Pragmata has the most engaging third-person shooting I've experienced in the last twenty years. The balancing act of hacking, dodging, and shooting, all while managing finite resources, creates a satisfying loop that builds in complexity throughout. Hugh and Diana have a tender and well-rendered relationship, one that isn't undercut by Hugh's insecurities or unnecessary conflict, but instead is elevated by its focus on what it means to show the world to someone experiencing the beauty of life for the first time. Nintendo Life - Ken Talbot - 9 / 10 With a strong relationship at its core, a striking sci-fi aesthetic, and an addictive puzzle combat loop, Pragmata is the full package. The adventures of Hugh and Diana stands as another excellent Switch 2 port from Capcom, and hopefully marks the beginning of a new blockbuster franchise. NintendoWorldReport - Willem Hilhorst - 9 / 10 While they have been going back to the well and redefining a lot of their long-running series, it makes sense that Pragmata stands on its own. It is a fresh idea honed to near perfection and I would love to see what else this team can do. Whether you're playing on Switch 2 or any other system, Pragmata is a great time. One More Game - Chris Garcia - 9 / 10 Pragmata aims for the moon and definitely sticks the landing, blending emotional storytelling with intuitive and technical gameplay, proving that the industry is still very much open to original ideas that can excel when executed to perfection. The bond between Hugh and Diana is the heart of the experience, turning what could have been a cold sci‑fi shooter into a touching story about humanity. Amazing is an understatement with Pragmata, and it is a definite must-play. While the “hack‑and‑shoot” loop and repetitive puzzle design may test some players’ patience, along with some minor nitpicks here and there, Pragmata succeeds in its main goal of delivering something different with AAA quality and polish, making it feel like it is laying the foundation for what the future of third-person shooters can expand into. Oyungezer Online - Çağdaş Erdem Nemlioğlu - Turkish - 8.5 / 10 With its eye-catching graphics and heartwarming story, Pragmata offers a truly delightful experience. The tension that the hacking mechanic brings to the combat, in particular, has a very unique feel to it... I’m really happy with where Capcom is at right now. PC Gamer - Justin Wagner - 87 / 100 Pragmata's confidence in its punchy shootouts and old-school cool pays off, and the two leads roved their way into my heart despite a predictable plot. PPE.pl - Wojciech Gruszczyk - Polish - 8.5 / 10 Emotional, intense, and fast-paced—these three words best describe my experience with Pragmata. The credits roll a few hours early, but ultimately, I was pleasantly surprised by the character relationships and the excellent combat system. Capcom has another great IP on its hands, but will it want to develop it further? A lot probably depends on sales. PSX Brasil - Ivan Nikolai Barkow Castilho - Portuguese - 85 / 100 Pragmata is a great Capcom game with a good story and unusual, yet very functional gameplay. The length is ideal in some ways, and there are many extras to enjoy. In the end, the only criticism is that the game as a whole becomes repetitive in combat after you get the hang of it. PlayStation Universe - Joe Richards - 9.5 / 10 Pragmata marks something truly special for Capcom; an experience that manages to marry action, conflict, and story into a cohesive whole that more than justifies the long wait for expectant fans. It juggles a variety of mechanics and miraculously blends them together. Every facet of this game is explored to its fullest, with still more room to grow. For all I can say in this review, Pragmata is very special. Prima Games - Ali Hashmi - 9 / 10 Pragmata is a confidently designed action game that elegantly blends shooting and hacking into a fast, reactive puzzle-style combat system that turns every encounter into something far more engaging than a standard firefight. You constantly shift between aiming, hacking, dodging, and repositioning, creating a seamless loop that never feels cumbersome or disconnected. Backed by two genuinely likeable leads in Hugh and Diana, whose relationship gives the experience its emotional core without unnecessary melodrama. Push Square - Stephen Tailby - 8 / 10 Pragmata knows its strengths and leans into those hard, and the result is a cracking action game that just feels brilliant to play. One could argue it could do with a little more variety throughout its campaign, but the game's unique hack-and-shoot combat is so fun and so satisfying to pull off that you won't mind doing it over and over again. A refreshingly straightforward structure and charming dual leads round things out, but it's the inventive and tactile action where it truly sings. RPGamer - Jordan McClain - 4.5 / 5 Pragmata is boosted significantly by its sublime, crisp visuals, delightfully unusual combat system, tight level design, oppressively lonely and sterile atmosphere, and an enjoyable dynamic between its two main characters, making for an outstanding experience. ReGame It - Mustafa Zayni - Arabic - 9 / 10 The duo of Hugh and Diana brought back many memories of games built around two characters, and it was presented excellently. it really impacted us and made it a very unique experience Region Free - Joonatan Itkonen - 5 / 5 An innovative and bold genre cocktail that is packed with incredible set pieces and gameplay-first joy, Pragmata is Capcom at its finest. República DG - Ruancarlo Silva - Portuguese - 9.4 / 10 Capcom has done it again! Pragmata is a masterclass in how to introduce a new IP and occasionally delivers highly innovative and addictive gameplay, accompanied by a great story filled with emotional moments. SECTOR.sk - tomass - Slovak - 8.5 / 10 A memorable and visually striking adventure filled with emotional twists and standout moments. While its unique style and pacing won't appeal to everyone, fans of story-driven experiences will find plenty to enjoy. A focused, narrative-heavy journey that rewards those willing to embrace its distinct approach. Saudi Gamer - Arabic - 8 / 10 Was the wait worth it? Mostly yes, as the aesthetics and mechanics are solid and refreshing enough. The game only falters towards the end, feeling rushed, while the story which was never strong, ends up even more cliched. SavePoint Gaming - Jake Su - 9 / 10 Pragmata is at its best when everything clicks together at once. The bond between Hugh and Diana gives the journey real emotional weight, while the hacking and shooting combat remains sharp, demanding, and constantly rewarding. With a strong variety in weapons, mods, and hacks, Capcom has delivered a sci-fi adventure that feels both heartfelt and thrilling from start to finish. Smash Jump - Chris Melnyk - 10 / 10 While at its center, it’s a third-person action game, it’s more than that. It’s a journey of bonding for two characters from opposite walks of life. Mostly, it’s just a fun game, something that can be replayed over and over again, while only getting better. SmashPad - 5 / 5 I think Pragmata is the crowning jewel of all their amassed talent and good decisions, ideas, and creativity so far in the 2020s. It's really that good. Stevivor - Matt Gosper - 9 / 10 I was really impressed with what Capcom has achieved with an all-new title, building a unique and vibrant world, even on the barren surface of the moon. TechRaptor - Luis Joshua Gutierrez - 9.5 / 10 Pragmata is an emotional journey that'll stay with you long after you've completed the game, all while making you appreciate the little things we may take for granted. The Beta Network - Anthony Culinas - 8 / 10 Being a rather odd sci-fi shooter, Pragmata thrives on its inventive tag-team combat, where hacking and gunplay collide in fast, chaotic and genuinely satisfying ways. While clunky backtracking, low difficulty and a predictable story hold it back, its unique mechanics and stylish action still make it well worth experiencing. The Nerd Stash - Julio La Pine - 9.5 / 10 Pragmata is a bold and beautiful experience that shows Capcom is just as great at making new entries to its franchises as it is at creating brand-new, exciting IPs. The Outerhaven Productions - Andrew Agress - 4 / 5 Pragmata blends the strategy of puzzle-solving and the thrill of shooting into a winning combination. It’s a simple gameplay loop set against a simple sci-fi story, but it gets a lot of thruster mileage out of its unique systems and two endearing main characters. TheSixthAxis - Steve C - 9 / 10 Pragmata is another stunning game from Capcom. The game world is beautifully conceived and the interplay between our lead character genuinely heartwarming, but it's the combat with its dynamic blend of shooting and hacking that is the main draw here and it makes other third person games feel pedestrian by comparison. ThreeTwoPlay - Michael Seifert - German - 4.5 / 5 With its perfectly thought-out gameplay-focused approach and unconventional combinations of ideas, Pragmata delivers a completely unique action experience which I'm glad can exist in the current AAA gaming space. While the combination of gun combat, hacking and dodging can be a bit intimidating at first and certainly isn't for everyone, it was done flawless for me and I had an incredibly good time with the game. The optional challenges provide additional motivation, the interactions between Hugh and Diana are always enjoyable and the game kept me completely entertained right up to the brilliantly staged finale. VGC - Jordan Middler - 4 / 5 Pragmata feels like a game from a simpler time. There's no live service fluff, no needless bloat, and no sense that Capcom is hopping on a trend. It's a rock solid action game that isn't great on length, but delivers little filler, fast combat, and some charming story moments. Video Chums - Mary Billington - 8.8 / 10 PRAGMATA is a visceral and rewarding action game set within an intriguing world that will make you want to keep coming back for more. 👧 Worth Playing - Adam Pavlacka - 9 / 10 When Capcom first announced Pragmata six years ago, they couldn't have known the game would be launching a week after the Artemis II mission set a new record for human space travel. Just as NASA's moonshot was a success, so is Capcom's latest game. If you want a polished experience that brings something new to the table, you can't go wrong with Pragmata. Xbox Achievements - Josh Wise - 70% The new game from Capcom, Pragmata, begins in freaky fashion. 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Hi, I really don’t feel obligated to update but I felt it was a little important due to the amount of attention my post got. Before doing so though I wanted to address everything systematically, so scroll down a bit if you only want the update. My lack of desire does not come from the fact that his body has changed. It comes specifically from the type of ultra-fit his body has changed into. Upon reflection, I kind of just find the bulging muscles, super veiny, dehydrated and shrink-wrapped look gross. I still think I speak for a lot of woman when I say this. That’s all to say it’s a preference! I don’t care what you think is good looking. I’m talking about myself and my relationship, which should only consists of two people’s opinions. Speaking of opinions, I tried my best to read all the comments and wow people got passionate lol. Breaking up was never on the table and the insistence we do so was profoundly unhelpful. I’ll acknowledge that, upon reflection, I have a bias towards certain body types. But so do almost everyone else, mine partially stems from being in the dance world but the sentiment I have towards a super chiseled look is shared by a lot of women! I would even go so far as to say most. One of the things I did take away from my previous post is that I was doing nothing good by keeping myself from talking to him. Between our schedules and other complications (getting sick, last minute travel) we finally got the chance and I got the courage to talk about two weeks ago. We were in the house joking around and chatting about various plans as well as reflecting on our past. Some good advice I took from here was to phrase it along the lines of “I miss your old body”, to which he didn’t react to the revelation positively or negatively. He just gave me some affection and we continued doing our own thing. This last weekend we had an event to go to that was somewhat affiliated with fitness, there I asked if he was doing it for himself or if there was something underlying. So we finally had a more productive conversation where we were able to lay down that: yes he’s noticed I’ve pulled away sexually, but he attributed it to general life changes and stress. He now knows I’m not into his body the way it is currently, feelings were bruised a bit on both sides but nothing we can’t/haven’t already gotten over. He has a desire to spend more quality time together, this might mean cooking together again or manifest as going to the gym with him as I primarily attend my work provided one. Any other suggestions about how to increase time together without expending too much energy? Lastly, he’s been working out so hard in his own self interest, but we were able to uncover that it’s more of a stress response and a way of obtaining control than a desire to look a certain way. I should’ve prefaced but didn’t at the time because I felt that it was too much information to divulge online, but he’s in his final semester of a graduate degree in epidemiology, which you can imagine is extremely important and stressful. On top of that, as well as actively searching for post-graduate employment, his father is in hospice. Which is actually where I got the tip off that he might potentially propose soon, as he would want his father to see him engaged before he passes. Also to add: as for why I couldn’t just open up and talk to him, with our current schedules we only see each other for a few hours in the evening if lucky and it was much more important to me that we have a pleasant evening and unwind than bring up something potentially uncomfortable. So all in all: he’s aware, we had a mature conversation about it, we uncovered where the actual tension originates, we might try to start cooking together/going out again, and we still love each other but it would probably be a good idea for him to see a therapist for a second after all this. Overall it’s a small bump in our relationship, not the devastating crash and burn Reddit likes for it to be. I’m looking at it through the lens of “this too shall pass”. There’s being fit for health, which we both already were, and there’s jacked for aesthetics. I do not think pushing to achieve such a physique is an upgrade in any way. I do not find it healthy, nor do I think it’s sustainable. Jealously and insecurity have nothing to do with the fact that I think dieting for an ultra-low body fat percentage should not and cannot be construed as bettering yourself. Having so much muscle mass doesn’t, in fact, correlate directly to strength and the cardiovascular and hormonal risks are not worth it. The discipline is admirable but I think we’re in a strange place in history where some people find that such proportions are the peak of human performance and are most desirable, and that it is something that is realistic and attainable that everyone should strive towards. At a certain point putting so much focus on body composition and having such a tight grip on your food restrictions borders on orthorexia. I was a dancer I know what eating disorders look like. I can say with confidence that I feel like, along with being more attractive, my boyfriend was healthier before all this. I’m not showing him this post partially because of the proposal thing but also because you guys can kind of be assholes lol. TLDR: We spoke. The real villain is stress. Better communication is better. 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Ok so we know about pretty privilege but can we talk about Ugly Privilege? 😅 I’ve been solo travelling for the last 3 months and while I’m travelling I’m in comfy clothes, have my hair tied back in a messy bun (usually hasn’t been washed in daaaaays) and I don’t wear make up. I very much go unnoticed. And omg is it amazing when you’re a solo female traveller! I don’t get hassled as much/don’t get stared at (except in India but classic lol) and generally get left alone which is a privilege in itself. Now that’s not to say I think of myself as ugly but I haven’t been attracting the male gaze while I’m in my traveller aesthetic and it’s felt FREEING. Anyone else relate? 😂 Edit: This post is not intended to perpetuate victim blaming at all - harassment is the fault of the harasser and not what those on the receiving end are doing/wearing etc. This is a personal experience I’ve noticed about day to day interactions while travelling. submitted by /u/Free_Wonder_3743 to r/solofemaletravellers [link] [comments]

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