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[S&S] $18.88: Secret Antiperspirant and Deodorant for Women, Invisible Solid, Powder Fresh Scent, 0.5 oz (Pack of 24)
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Secret Whole Body Aluminum Free Deodorant for Women Body Spray Peach & Vanilla 99g $12.97 (lowest)
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$19 Secret Antiperspirant & Deodorant for Women (24-Pack)
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thedealsguy_ |
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Secret Fresh Clear Gel Antiperspirant and Deodorant for Women, Coconut, 73 g $6.97
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flipzone |
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What is the best antiperspirant/deodorant for super sweaty women??
Idk what to use anymore I've been using old spice/secret clinical but it seems to have completely stopped working for sweat control submitted by /u/Loud_Stay_528 to r/TheGirlSurvivalGuide [link] [comments]
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Loud_Stay_528 |
May 1, 2026 |
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My zero bag sabbatical
Slide Descriptions: Slide #1- Garments (From left to right) Leather Sandal (Reformation Eden Platform Flip Flop) Linen pant (Eileen Fisher Organic Linen Drawstring Wide Leg Pants) Linen blouse (Eileen Fisher Short Sleeve Organic Linen Button-Up Shirt) Bandana (Free people cotton scarf) Cardigan (Vince Cashmere & Silk Rib Cardigan) Silk skirt (Reformation Carolina Lace Trim Silk Midi Skirt) Satin dress (Free People In The Dark Mini) Camisole (Skin Pima Cotton) Slide #2- Stuff (From left to right) Binoculars Tech pouch Toiletries pouch Water bottle Sun glasses Wallet Jewelry pouch AirTag bag charm Journal Slide #3- Toiletry Bag Contents (From left to right) Tooth brush & paste Deodorant & perfume Multi purpose balm & face oil Soap Kabuki brush Bracelet Cream bronzer Mascara Eye liner & sharpener Slide #4- Tech pouch contents From left to right Binoculars Power bank Power bank charger Wire head phone Phone charger **Need to add** plug converter Slide #5- Storage -Shows where I will store my passport, journal, & sunglasses. Inside pocket of bag. -Where I will clip the AirTag bag charm, and pen keychain. Slide #6 My traveling outfit & packed bag. On travel days, when I don't have a place to off load some of my clothes I will wear the ultimate layering outfit. Travel day outfit includes- linen pants, cami, linen blouse, cardigan, banana as scarf or head band, French hair pin, bracelet & anklet. these are my bulkiest items, so if they are on my person it will lighten the load of my purse. Even though all items can technically fit in my bag even while wearing the skimpiest of outfits I have packed. I don't like my bags to be full to the brim. It's just not good feng shui to me. Slide #7 Inside look at the packed bag Packing List: Garments: - [x] Silk skirt (Reformation Carolina Lace Trim Silk Midi Skirt) - [x] Cashmere cardigan (Vince Cashmere & Silk Rib Cardigan) - [x] Camisole (Skin Pima Cotton) - [x] Satin dress (Free People In The Dark Mini) - [x] Panties (Hanky Panky Breathe Assorted 3-Pack G-String Thongs —pink, tan, black) - [x] Scarf (Free people cotton scarf) - [x] Tiny Bikini - [x] Linen pant (Eileen Fisher Organic Linen Drawstring Wide Leg Pants) - [x] Leather Sandal (Reformation Eden Platform Flip Flop) - [x] Linen blouse (Eileen Fisher Short Sleeve Organic Linen Button-Up Shirt) Attaché: - [x] Lingerie Drawstring garment bag (Victoria's Secret) - [x] Tech bag (Aloha Collection mini pouch) - [x] Makeup bag (MAISON de SABRE Small Leather Flaire Pouch) - [x] Tiffany Jewelry Pouch - [x] Chained Wallet —doubles as wristlet (COACH Refined Leather Card Case) - [x] Bag (AllSaints Luna Suede Shoulder Bag) Accoutrements: - [x] Elastic anklet that can double as a hair band - [x] Bracelet (Return to Tiffany® Heart Tag Bracelet in Silver with a Diamond) - [x] Airtag charm (MAISON de SABRÉ The SABREMOJI Fruit Charm) I Toiletries: - [x] Comb (The Potion Studio Mini Comb) - [x] Tooth Brush & Paste - [x] Deodorant cream—*decanted* (Booda Organics Booda Butter cream deodorant) - [x] Perfume (Jo Malone London English Pear & Sweet Pea Cologne 0.3oz) - [x] Face oil—decanted (Summer Solace Tallow Emanations Deeply Nourishing Profound Face Oil) - [x] Hair Oil (RōZ Santa Lucia Styling Oil 0.17oz) - [x] French Hair Pin (MACHETE Wavy French Hair Pin) - [x] Eye Liner & Sharpener (RMS Beauty Straight Line Kohl Eye Pencil in Plum Definition) - [x] Multi Purpose Balm (Summer Solace Tallow Cacao Rose Cuticle, Lip, and Brow Tallow Balm -Regenerative Tallow 0.25oz) - [x] Bronzer (RMS Beauty Buriti Bronzer) - [x] Mini Mascara - [x] Kabuki Brush (Hermès Le Voyageur - Brush) Gadgets: - [ ] Electrical plug converter? - [x] Air tag - [x] Power cords (iPhone charger, power bank charger - [x] Power bank - [x] Wired Headphones (one less thing to charge, and less EMF's to the brain) - [x] Phone— used for audio books, kindle app, research, guide, accommodations, etc. NO SOCIAL MEDIA Sundries: - [x] Soap—used to hand launder clothes, body wash, shampoo, etc. (Dr. Bronner's UNSCENTED PURE-CASTILE MAGIC SOAP 2oz) - [x] Mini pen (souvenir from my travels) - [x] Pocket binoculars - [x] Sunglasses (Ray-Ban Small Original 55mm Aviator Sunglasses) - [x] Water bottle (Memobottle A7 memobottle - Stainless Steel 8oz) - [x] Pocket Journal (Bluebonnet The Companion Pocket Notebook) - [x] Passport Wishlist Extras: - [ ] Book Bag Charm (COACH Sense And Sensibility By Jane Austen) - [ ] Ear plugs? - [ ] Makeup (Make Up For Ever HD Skin Face Essentials Longwear Full Face Cream Palette) - [ ] Lipgloss (GLOSS BOMB UNIVERSAL LIP LUMINIZER mini 5.5mL) - [ ] Crochet project - [x] Pocket Journal (Bluebonnet The Companion Pocket Notebook) Itinerary: Museum art tours Art classes Day at the winery Scenic train ride to next destination Coffee shops Private boat tour Cooking class Bike ride through wine country & shopping Convertible car rental, coastal cruise Confirmed locations: Napa Valley, California & Italy Outfit combination: Base outfits— Linen pant + Camisole Silk skirt + Camisole Linen pant + Linen blouse Silk skirt + Linen blouse Linen pant + Bandana top Silk skirt + Bandana top Dress Bikini (pool/beach) Layering— Linen pant + Camisole + Cardigan Silk skirt + Camisole + Cardigan Linen pant + Linen blouse + Cardigan Silk skirt + Linen blouse + Cardigan Linen pant + Cami + Linen blouse Silk skirt + Camisole + Linen blouse Linen pant + Bandana top + Cardigan Silk skirt + Bandana top + Cardigan Linen pant + Bandana top + Linen blouse Silk skirt + Bandana top + Linen blouse Dress + Cardigan Dress + Linen blouse Bikini + Linen blouse or Bandana sarong Ultimate layering outfit: Linen pant + Cami + Linen blouse + Cardigan over shoulders + Bandana (Traveling Outfit) **Bandana can be worn with every outfit/look combo as a shawl, scarf, ascot, headband, hat, bag charm or belt) for extra looks** Commentary: My why— FREEDOM. Less stuff to me equals less noise, and more living. I feel so alive and capable when I am hands free and not weighed down by a heavy bag. I also have a wild imagination, and I like to pretend things.. maybe some of you can relate. The Lowly Bandana— just a square piece of fabric right? Wrong!! so much more than a piece of fabric. The options for this garment are expansive. This item may be my favorite of all. The versatility is admirable. It can be worn as a top (multiple ways I may add, shirt, bralette, halter, etc.) as a head covering, pirates bandana, 50's woman in a convertible, religious head covering for conservative countries, headband, farm girl, hair ornament in a braid or pony tail. It can be fashioned into a bag or knapsack of sorts, it can be used to wrap gifts or food. It can be used as an accessory on your bag by either tied hanging lose, or wrapped around the handle for more low profile looks, ties into a belt, worn as a scarf, shawl, sarong, ascot. You can use it to protect your hair style while you sleep. It can be used as a blind fold for sexy activities or a blind fold for nefarious activities. It can be fashioned into an arm sling, or a bandage for first aid. The bandana is a must have for any traveler, minimalist or not. I'm sure there are many more uses for the scarf. What can you think of? Addressing the LIST— Planning is so much of the fantasy for me, I really enjoy this part. Hand selecting each and every item for a purpose, and not "just because frivolous" is so symbolic to me. What people bring along with them on their journey's has always fascinated me, from real life, to the stories I read or the movies I watch, it leaves a lasting impression on me and inspires me all the time. So while this list and subsequent commentary on the topic seems unnecessarily thorough, it is my passion project... That said, I must admit the irony of how long this post is for how small the packing is. Medication— I recognize that some people cannot travel so light due to needing meds, glasses/contacts, etc. I am sympathetic to this fact. Luxury items— and no I don't mean "designer" items. Don't care about that. Only care about quality, and health. By luxury I mean the things I don't NEED. Ex: makeup, headphones, journal, binos. All of these are not necessary but they make my journey feel like me, and allow me to escape into my fantasy. Side tangent on journalling— this is deep escape for me. There have been many times in my life where my body is not free to roam, but my mind is and a journal helps to set my mind free. Of course I could journal on my phone, but I am yearning for a more analog life and an escape from the digital realm. Multipurpose Advantage— Many things are multiple purpose, I have the ability to go ultra skimpy in the clothes department, or completely covered and modest to include a head scarf (which we've already discussed its versatility) The tallow balm can be used as lip balm, eye brow and hair pomade, skin wound ointment, leather moisturizer, etc. Castle soap is so multi purpose, I can wash my body, hair, clothes & water bottle with it. My hair pin works extremely well at holding up my hair and can be filled into many different styles, it also doubles as self defense. My anklet can be worn as a bracelet or a hair band if for some reason I'm not feeling the French hair pin. My bag charm, not only totally adorable but also a means to carry my tracking device in case I were to lose my bag. My wallet has a chain on it which is nice for security, I can clip it to the inside of my bag, but it also can attach to itself and become a wristlet for times I want to go out to dinner and leave my purse in the hotel room. Traveling with expensive jewelry— An easy way to carry money in a compact way on your person, should you require it. This, and a credit card make feel safe, and like I have options for getting out of a bind. That said: I'm considering making some large purchases before I go.. tennis bracelet, watch, montblanc travel pen. Nothing too flashy, just quality. I am WOMAN— For once, women are at the advantage! We can carry a purse and not look out of place or suspicious. Whereas a man with a backpack or a purse cannot always do the same. Then there's the silk garments, they pack down so unbelievably tiny and are extremely light weight, not only that they are gorgeous and make me feel like a goddess. In fact, all the clothes I packed I am extremely comfortable in. I feel free in them, and I feel like I have many options and combinations with only 7 pieces of fabric (not counting undergarments or swimwear) Free the nip! I will be going braless, another expression of freedom, and a rejection of social constructs. Bonus: I feel more luxurious and high end without one. I can always use my bandana or bikini top as a "bra" to tie them down and do more activities, like bike/horse riding, etc. The water bottle—cures my anxious attachment with water, even though it's small 8oz, it's comforting to have & I can refill it regularly The Adventure— Starting the journey with at least 6 days in Napa Valley, California as a test run. I want to field test my items. 6 days is a lot for a test run, but the reason I chose this is because 3 days is no problem, I have enough clothing for 3 days, my hair will last for 3 days, etc. what I really want to test is how things feel after having to wash my hair and hand launder my garments, and hang dry them. 6 days also allows me to test out multiple outfit combinations and if I feel like the capsule is working IRL and not just in the mirror of my closet. Once my 6 days is up, I will have a reset to be able to make any necessary adjustments before taking off for Italy, with no return flight booked as of yet! The reason I chose Napa, is because it has a similar feel to me as Italy in regards to the social class, climate and activities as the places I'll be visiting in Italy. If I'm still comfortable in Napa by day 6 I think I will weather just fine in Italy. While traveling between destinations, when I won't be able to leave some of my clothes at a hotel or lodging accommodation then I will wear my ultimate layering outfit, Notes: Feminine hygiene products: My thoughts for now are to purchase what I need where I am. Or I'm considering brining my menstrual cup although I've recently been getting away from it, as I'm unsure the consequences it will have on my cervix. Souvenirs: I will allow myself to purchase 1 key chain/bag charm if I see something that appeals, as for larger pieces of art or good wine, I may ship back home if they really appeal Pajamas: sleeping nude Satin Dress: I am on a journey of natural fibers ONLY, but I haven't found the perfect silk dress yet. So this will have to do for now. submitted by /u/PuzzleheadedFrame439 to r/zerobags [link] [comments]
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Secret Whole Body Deodorant Spray for Women, Travel Size, Peach & Vanilla Blossom Scent, Aluminum Free Deodorant, 72 HR Odor Protection, 1.0 oz #Secret #Whole
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AndreaNewsHub |
Feb 11, 2026 |
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WIBTA if I left my secret Santa gift that I received at the front desk with a note that says free?
I am NOT OOP. OOP is u/WideGuest433 Originally posted to r/wouldibetheahole WIBTA if I left my secret Santa gift that I received at the front desk with a note that says free? Editor’s note: made small edits for ease of readability Original Post: December 21, 2025 I (26 f) signed up for secret Santa at work. This meaning it was voluntary. I work at a daycare with all women. I'm a float at work which means I go to which ever classroom I’m needed in, so I've worked with every teacher and as far as I know, don't have any issues with anyone. The secret Santa had a 20$ limit and we all filled out sheets of our interests, things like our favorite scents and snacks and hobbies etc. I gifted my person a 6 pack of her favorite soda and all 3 of her favorite snacks. I received a bottle of shampoo and unscented deodorant. I looked up the products to see if there was something special about them, I guess the deodorant is decent, but the shampoo is no longer in production or sold. From what I’ve deducted, it was items she had sitting in her cabinet that she no longer wanted. I could understand if it weren't voluntary, but she knew what she signed up for and put no effort into it. I'm not even sure which coworker it was because we never revealed our people. Nor do I want to know. I don’t want the items, I can't use them because I have allergies and dandruff and have to use specific products. So wibta if I left them at the front desk at work with a not that says "free to take"? Relevant Comments Commenter 1: You do not know this coworkers situation. She may have given you the best she had and couldn’t afford more. I had wonderful Christmas presents planned this year for family. Hot water heater went out. I needed a new one plus insurance deductible, and no presents are being bought except for the 4 children. Small inexpensive things. Be grateful someone took effort to gift you. I’m sure the soda and snacks was appreciated by your co-worker. Commenter 2: If you can't afford to give a thoughtful gift, don't participate. It's not fair to the people who put actual thought into a gift. Commenter 1: So let’s say there’s 10 employees in this daycare; only 1 person struggling financially and they didn’t sign up. It requires empathy to be able to see that it would extremely embarrassing to have all your colleagues judge you and let them into your personal struggles. I don’t know about you, but I think that sounds like a really shitty position to be in, especially during the holidays when you’re likely already beating yourself up for feeling inadequate. OOP: Yeah and I could be empathetic if that were the case, but we have 25 employees and 9 signed up and you can see who signed up. Commenter 3: I would contact the exchange moderator and show them my gifts. I may actually send out an email with the items in the garbage. Because that’s rude and uncalled for. OOP: I did, its our boss, I let my boss I want expecting her to do anything about it and that I brought it up because I was confused by the gifts, especially one being expired (deodorant doesn't have a marked expired date) and my bosses agreed that it was inadequate and confusing because deodorant at bare minimum is weird. I asked if she could go into more detail next year about expectations and to come to her if they can't afford a gift like they thought they might at sign up. She also said shed make it up to me cause she appreciates my hard work. I went out and bought her a gift as well since her daughter is in one of my classes and they bought me a gift together as one of her teachers. I put thought into it, she's health conscious but her daughters 4, got them a charcuterie board gingerbread house kit Commenter 4: What kind of stuff did you list on your sheet as interests? OOP: My interests included art, crochet, coloring, clay, scrapbooks, foot ball, video games, then asks about our favorites like scents, snacks, drinks, movies etc. Commenter 5: Don't be petty. YATAH That's what happens with mandatory secret Santa gifts at work. Sometimes you get shitty gifts, Sometimes you get a well thought out gift, sometimes you don't get any gift at all. Just be the bigger person and donate to a women's shelter, unless if the products are out of date/expired, just toss in the garbage. Don't BTAH OOP: It wasn’t mandatory Commenter 6: If you keep it all totally anonymous, so only the original AH would even know, it might serve as deterrence for future AH Secret Santas, but you of risk adding to the AHry also OOP: As far as I know, none of us know who our gifters were, nor do any of my coworkers know what my gift even was since we didn't open them in front of each other, however. The shampoo is expired and that is my deterrent for setting it out for anyone else to take. I threw it away. Commenter 7: Yes you would be. And you already are one for insinuating that you're better than this person who "put no effort in" when you literally got your person an effortless and thoughtless gift, too. Commenter 8: It’s a $25 limit. She bought her person their favorite snacks. She got her secret Santa a thoughtful present specific to her person within the cost limit. The person that got her, gave her shampoo that is no longer in production and deodorant. They are not the same. Commenter 9: They are to me. It's giving, "I spent my EBT on this" OOP: So giving my person what they asked for? And not just what they asked for but upgraded versions of it? For example, she put fruit snacks, I bought her 2 kinds of the juice filled fruit snacks. I looked for other things, but her interests were things like unpopular specific anime that doesn’t have merch. There were no candles at 2 stores I went to looking for stuff for her that were specific to her favorite scents. But go off on my effort. Editor's note: OOP made the next two updates onto the same post with the original Update #1: December 22, 2025 (same post, next day) Update: I didn’t put up at the front desk, mainly because the shampoo was expired, didn’t want anyone to grab it and use it so I tossed it. Which I am glad I didn’t go that route because today I found out who the gifter was because she came into my classroom with a replacement gift. We did our gift exchanges at work on Friday, my boss passed out the gifts, so we individually opened them in our classrooms, not in front of each other and didn't discuss or reveal who had gotten what and from who. The gift was not aimed at my hygiene or at me at all, there was a misunderstanding because my gifter is from another country, as are about a third of my coworkers, some from Venezuela, a few from Algeria, and one from Iran. She didn't understand what secret Santa was but she wanted to participate, she said she had looked it up, but what ever had popped up in google explained what kind of gift you’d get for white elephant from how she explained what shed read from google, not secret Santa, She doesn’t speak much English so something got mixed up in translation. She realized it though when she had opened her gift, and saw the teacher in her room that day who had also participated, that their gifts were new, so she asked that teacher who then explained secret Santa, and my gifter felt embarrassed, she hadn't even filled out a sheet either guess so more to not understanding to look at my interest sheet. I have worked with her before and she’s a pretty sweet lady. She got me a candle, a cute hair bow and a matching mug. I definitely appreciate it much more knowing the circumstances. She was extremely apologetic of the whole thing and I assured her I wasn’t upset at all and that I appreciated the make up gift. My boss also gave me a 20$ gift card because that was her making it up to me, I let my boss know that the gifter had made up for it and she was still fine giving me the gift card as well. (I also gifted my boss a charcuterie ginger bread house today to do with her kiddo) although I’m glad things turned out the way they did, I think the only thing I learned was being patient and confirming circumstances before being petty, because had the other circumstances been confirmed (thoughtless gift/ a gift directed at my hygiene) I still think leaving it at the front desk would have been well warranted, especially since no one else had seen what shed gotten me, or knew she was my gifter. So had I done that, only her and I would have known what was going on. Update #2: December 22, 2025 (same post, same day, hours later) Update 2: the gifter just messaged me asking for the expired product back... im not sure what for and I dont really want to ask, but I threw it away already. Now I feel bad for tossing it, do I compensate her for it? How do I calculate the depreciation value of the expired product from its original price point from 2021 when it was taken out of production and sale?? I haven't messaged her back as I do want to let her know I threw it away, but feel like I need to make up for it somehow because it was all just a misunderstanding. (If it wasnt clear, the depreciation was a joke) DO NOT COMMENT IN LINKED POSTS OR MESSAGE OOPs – BoRU Rule #7 THIS IS A REPOST SUB - I AM NOT OOP submitted by /u/Choice_Evidence1983 to r/BestofRedditorUpdates [link] [comments]
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Walgreens: 2x Secret whole body deo for women free after coupon
Walgreens has Secret Whole Body Aluminum Free Cooling Deodorant Spray for Women Peach & Vanilla for $3.99. This week's ad has a Buy 1, get 1 50% off offer on it, and it also has a $7 off 2 mfr coupon. Total before coupon will be $5.98, which will become $0 after coupon. Tax varies based on state. Use double window trick for overcoming $10 minimum pickup requirement. https://www.walgreens.com/store/c/secret-whole-body-aluminum-free-cooling-deodorant-spray-for-women-peach-&-vanilla/ID=300457546-product submitted by /u/absolutedesi to r/AwesomeFreebies [link] [comments]
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absolutedesi |
Jan 11, 2026 |
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Wibta if I left my secret Santa gift that I recieved at the front desk with a note that says free?
I (26 f) signed up for secret Santa at work. This meaning it was voluntary. I work at a daycare with all women. Im a float at work whoch means I go to which ever class room im needed in, so ive worked with every teacher and as far as I know, dont have any issues with anyone. The secret Santa had a 20$ limit and we all filled out sheets of our interests, things like our favorite scents and snacks and hobbies etc. I gifted my person a 6 pack of her favorite soda and all 3 of her favorite snacks. I recieved a bottle of shampoo and unscented deodorant. I looked up the products to see if there was something special about them, I guess the deodorant is decent, but the shampoo is no longer in production or sold. From what ive deducted, it was items she had sitting in her cabinet that she no longer wanted. I could understand if it weren't voluntary, but sje knew what she signed up for and put no effort into it. Im not even sure which coworker it was because we never revealed our people. Nor do I want to know. I dont want the items, I cant use them because I have allergies and dandruff and have to use specific products. So wibta if I left them at the front desk at work with a not that says "free to take"? Update: I didnt put up at the front desk, mainly because the shampoo was expired, didnt want anyone to grab it and use it so I tossed it. Which I am glad I didnt go that route because today I found out who the gifter was because she came into my classroom with a replacement gift. We did our gift exchanges at work on friday, my boss passed out the gifts so we individually opened them in our class rooms, not infront of eachother and didnt discuss or reveal who had gotten what and from who. The gift was not aimed at my hygine or at me at all, there was a misunderstanding because my gifter is from another country, as are about a third of my coworkers, some from Venezuela, a few from Algeria, and one from Iran. She didnt understand what secret Santa was but she wanted to participate, she said she had looked it up, but what ever had popped up in google explained what kind of gift youd get for white elephant from how she explained what shed read from google, not secret Santa, She doesnt speak much English so something got mixed up in translation. She realized it though when she had opened her gift, and saw the teacher in her room that day who had also participated, that their gifts were new, so she asked that teacher who then explained secret Santa, and my gifter felt embarrassed, she hadn't even filled out a sheet either guess so more to not understanding to look at my interest sheet. I have worked with her before and shes a pretty sweet lady. She got me a candle, a cute hair bow and a matching mug. I definitely appreciate it much more knowing the circumstances. She was extremely apologetic of the whole thing and I assured her I wasnt upset at all and that I appreciated the make up gift. My boss also gave me a 20$ gift card because that was her making it up to me, I let my boss know that the gifter had made up for it and she was still fine giving me the gift card as well. (I also gifted my boss a charcuterie ginger bread house today to do with her kiddo) although im glad things turned out the way theu did, I think the only thing I learned was being patient and confirming circumstances before being petty, because had the other circumstances been confirmed (thoughtless gift/ a gift directed at my hygine) I still think leaving it at the front desk would have been well warranted, especially since no one else had seen what shed gotten me, or knew she was my gifter. So had I done that, only her and I would have known what was going on. Update 2: the gifter just messaged me asking for the expired product back... im not sure what for and I dont really want to ask, but I threw it away already. Now I feel bad for tossing it, do I compensate her for it? How do I calculate the depreciation value of the expired product from its original price point from 2021 when it was taken out of production and sale?? I haven't messaged her back as I do want to let her know I threw it away, but feel like I need to make up for it somehow because it was all just a misunderstanding. (If it wasnt clear, the depreciation was a joke) submitted by /u/WideGuest433 to r/WouldIBeTheAhole [link] [comments]
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WideGuest433 |
Dec 21, 2025 |
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$14.68 (Reg. $32.44) 3-Pack Secret Dry Spray Antiperspirant Deodorant for Women, 48hr Weightless Sweat & Odor Protection, Gentle on Skin, Powder Fresh Scent, 4.1 oz
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Nov 20, 2025 |
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Looking for Women’s No Aluminum deodorant that smells like Secret Powder Fresh Antiperspirant.
I can’t seem to find any No Aluminum deodorant that smells similar to Secret Powder Fresh. Everything is either Lavender or Cherry Blossom or some other strange scents. submitted by /u/ZeroDudeMan to r/deodorant [link] [comments]
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Sep 30, 2025 |
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Secret Whole Body Aluminum Free Deodorant for Women Body Spray Lilac & Waterlily, 99g $13.97 (lowest)
Amazon.ca submitted by /u/flipzone to r/dapsCA [link] [comments]
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Best Degree Deodorant Spray for Women [2025 Review]
[Check Latest Arrivals degree deodorant spray for women on Amazon.] Best Degree Deodorant Spray for women [2025 Review] Degree deodorant spray for women is a popular choice for those seeking reliable and long-lasting protection against sweat and odor. With a variety of formulations tailored to different needs and preferences, its vital to understand which Degree spray offers the best performance and value. This comprehensive review will delve into the key features, benefits, and drawbacks of various Degree deodorant sprays for women, helping you make an informed decision in 2025. [Explore Top Rated degree deodorant spray for women on amazon.] Key Features analysis The Degree deodorant spray lineup for women boasts several features designed to provide effective and convenient protection throughout the day. 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This feature is beneficial for individuals with sensitive skin, as alcohol can sometimes cause irritation or dryness. Alcohol-free formulas are gentler on the skin and less likely to cause stinging or discomfort after shaving. These formulas often incorporate moisturizing ingredients to further soothe and protect the underarm area. Quick-Drying Application: Degree sprays are designed to dry quickly. This prevents a sticky or uncomfortable feeling after application, allowing you to get dressed quickly and easily. The quick-drying formula helps to minimize residue transfer to clothing. Fine mists and precisely formulated ingredients ensure rapid evaporation of the product. [Explore Top Rated degree deodorant spray for women on Amazon.] Core Benefits Degree deodorant sprays provide several core benefits that make them a popular choice for women seeking reliable and effective odor and wetness protection. 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Some formulas also include moisturizing ingredients to further protect and nourish the delicate underarm skin. [Explore Top Rated degree deodorant spray for women on Amazon.] FAQs Section Are Degree deodorant sprays tested on animals? While Degree is committed to developing and marketing products that are safe, they also state that some of their products are subject to animal testing where legally required. Unilever, Degree's parent company, states that they are working towards alternatives and advocate for the acceptance of non-animal testing methods worldwide. Do Degree deodorant sprays contain parabens or phthalates? Many Degree deodorant sprays are formulated without parabens or phthalates to cater to consumers seeking products with cleaner formulations. Always check the product packaging for the most up-to-date ingredient list. The absence of these chemicals can be a significant benefit for those concerned about potential endocrine-disrupting effects. Can Degree deodorant sprays be used after shaving? It is generally recommended to wait a few minutes after shaving before applying Degree deodorant spray to avoid potential irritation. Shaving can create micro-cuts on the skin, making it more sensitive to deodorant ingredients. Applying an alcohol-free formula can further minimize the risk of stinging or discomfort. How do I avoid white marks on clothing when using Degree deodorant spray? To avoid white marks, hold the can about six inches away from your underarm when spraying and allow the product to dry entirely before getting dressed. Choose an invisible solid formula for added protection against white marks. Wearing loose-fitting clothing for a few minutes after application can also help prevent residue transfer. [Explore Top Rated degree deodorant spray for women on Amazon.] Competitor Comparison Product Comparison Overview Degree Women UltraClear Black+White Pure Clean Antiperspirant Dry Spray Protection: 48-hour protection against sweat and odor. Formula: Specifically designed to prevent white marks on black clothes and yellow stains on white clothes. Scent: Light and clean scent. Secret Outlast Completely Clean Invisible Dry Spray Protection: 48-hour protection, advertises superior scent technology. Formula: Designed to go on dry and stay dry, invisible on skin. scent: Clean and slightly powdery scent. Dove 0% Aluminum deodorant Spray Protection: 48-hour odor protection (but no sweat control due to 0% aluminum). Formula: 0% aluminum, formulated with moisturizers for sensitive skin. Scent: Variety of mild and pleasant scents. Key Differences Summary The Degree Women UltraClear excels in stain prevention compared to the other two, making it ideal for those who frequently wear dark or light clothing. The Secret Outlast prioritizes scent longevity and may suit those who prefer a more noticeable fragrance.The Dove 0% Aluminum Deodorant spray is the best option for individuals seeking an aluminum-free deodorant, although it won't provide any wetness protection. For users seeking comprehensive protection for both sweat and odor with minimum staining on clothing, the Degree UltraClear provides the best all-around approach. [Explore Top Rated degree deodorant spray for women on Amazon.] Ideal User Profile Active Women: Degree deodorant spray is perfect for women who lead active lifestyles and need reliable protection against sweat and odor during workouts, sports, or other physical activities. The Motionsense technology and long-lasting protection ensure they stay feeling fresh and confident, even during intense activity. Professionals: women in professional settings who need to maintain a polished and confident appearance throughout the day will appreciate the protection and invisible formula of Degree deodorant spray. Its ability to prevent white marks and yellow stains makes it ideal for wearing with professional attire. Individuals with Sensitivity to Fragrances: Degree offers some spray deodorants with lighter, less overpowering fragrances which can be preferential for women who are sensitive to intense scents. It is important these users look for products that list "lightly scented" on the packaging. [Explore Top Rated degree deodorant spray for women on Amazon.] Buying Recommendations & conclusion When choosing a Degree deodorant spray, consider your primary needs: odor control, wetness protection, stain prevention, or skin sensitivity. If you prioritize stain prevention,Degree UltraClear is an excellent choice. For those with sensitive skin, the alcohol-free or 0% aluminum options from Degree or Dove brands in this review are better. Active individuals will benefit from the motionsense technology. Degree deodorant spray represents a solid choice for women seeking reliable protection against sweat and odor,offering a variety of formulas and scents to meet diverse needs and preferences. While not perfect for all situations, its strengths in long-lasting protection, convenient application, and stain prevention make it a worthwhile consideration for women seeking a dependable deodorant spray. [Shop Budget-Friendly degree deodorant spray for women on Amazon.] submitted by /u/MonroeOdorREYI to r/ArtfulLivingCircleS [link] [comments]
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Secret Temptation Play Deodorant for Women,@237
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🔥 Secret Invisible Solid Antiperspirant Deodorant for Women, Shower Fresh, 2.6 only $ 5.78 👟 AD
SAVE 28% with Price Drop Product prices and availability are accurate as of the date/time indicated and are subject to change. #WalmartPartner submitted by /u/Davryanna to r/Deals_and_Promo_Codes [link] [comments]
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Deodorants for women who just can’t stop sweating!
I constantly have this issue, even when not working out. Backstory on deodorants tried already: Currently suffering from eczema under my pits from Lume. It took over three months of use for me to even have a reaction. I sweat through Lume too. I’d have to wipe my pits they’d be so damp, even during daily activities and not working out. However, there was no odor. TMI. Also used to use Clinical Strength Secret. Stopped working for me last year. Thinking about going back to men’s deodorant, but that usually doesn’t do a darn thing either. I have never tried Old Spice though. SOS please help a girl out!!! Edit: No aerosol sprays work either. What’s even left for me at this point. submitted by /u/mysterygirl133 to r/orangetheory [link] [comments]
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Jul 10, 2025 |
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AIW for accusing girlfriend of cheating on me? (Found pregnancy test)
I am NOT OOP, OOP is u/OC_Original Originally posted to r/amiwrong AIW for accusing girlfriend of cheating on me? (Found pregnancy test) Trigger Warnings: possible infidelity, manipulation Mood Spoilers: frustrating Editor's note: Added an unrelated post to add more context for the post I initially met my current girlfriend when she was a child, AMA: December 9, 2024 So I have an older friend who was 30 and I was 24 at the time and I met her whole family including her kids which included her then 10 year old daughter. 15 years later and I’m still friends with her but am also now living and dating her currently 25 year old daughter. We only started dating about 9 months ago. Original Post: March 29, 2025 (three months later) So my girlfriend and I have been together for just under a year. We don’t live together and both work full time and we are exclusive, as far as I’m aware. About a 3 months ago, I notice my girlfriend spending a lot of time on the phone with her “friend” Jesse. She says that Jesse is a good friend and that’s it. However she often spends anytime she can on the phone with him, even when her and I are out. Their conversations don’t lead me to think anything but about 1.5 months ago, my girlfriend says she’s going to visit Jesse who lives two states over. I can’t go cause I have to work. Of course I tell her that I’m not comfortable with her visiting a male friend out of state but she says that Jesse is just a friend. She will be staying at his place but Jesse is also a single father of 2 young boys so my girlfriend assures me nothing will happen. Despite me voicing my opinion, my gf takes the trip and shares her location to put my mind at ease. She returns a week later and we move on with life. However, about two weeks ago, my girlfriend asks me to go to our local Target to pick up an online order she had placed. She tells me she ordered shampoo and a few hygiene items. I agree and go to pick up her order. When I get to the customer service counter and give them her name, they bring out a bag with a pregnancy test in it. Shocked and confused, I tell them that this what she ordered. I check the name and phone number attached to the bag and find it matches my girlfriend’s number so it couldn’t have been another girl with the same name. They bring out the bag with the items she told me to get and I leave without asking more questions about the pregnancy test. Shocked and confused by this cause there was no real way that I could have potentially impregnated her (we use protection) I later ask her why there was a pregnancy test at target in her name. At first she says she has no idea and she did not order a pregnancy test. I asked her to show me her target app to prove it and she says that it was probably her sister since her sister uses her target account to order things sometimes. She also claims that women sometimes use pregnancy test to regulate their PMS or for other things other than to determine if they’re pregnant. I don’t know shit about how this works but she assures me that she’s not pregnant and that test wasn’t a sign of her cheating when she was on a trip. The other night we go out to dinner and she makes it a point to prove that she isn’t pregnant by ordering a few cocktails. Am I wrong for accusing my girlfriend for cheating on me while she was away? I’m so paranoid but also don’t have real proof that she did. Edit: needed to clarify the part about the pregnancy test .The pregnancy test was part of a separate online order. She asked me to pick up her online order at target which she said consisted of shampoo, deodorant and some lotion. When I went to the counter and told them her name, they brought out the bag with the pregnancy test. I said this isn’t what she told me was her order so they checked again and brought out the second bag with the right stuff as previously mentioned. After checking the info off both bags, I confirmed that both orders were under her name/account so I believe she secretly placed an online order for a pregnancy test and planned to get that later while asking me to get her shampoo. The pregnancy test was NOT in the same bag as the stuff she asked me to get. Update: I never saw the pregnancy test after that so I don’t know if that truly was an order she made by mistake or if her sister used her target account to order that got herself. However I did bring up the fact that her sister lives about 20 minutes from her and has a target much closer to her so why would she place an order for a pregnancy test and have the pickup location further from her house? Even if her local target was all out, I find it hard to believe that her sister would order a pregnancy test under her account and pick it up near her house. Update: so I went into a panic last night after reading all the comments so while she was out at work last night, I went to her apartment (she gave me a key) and found her iPad. I tried putting her birthday as a password and to my amazement, it worked. Yes I know what I did was dishonest but I had to know if she cheated on me. I looked at her messages and confirmed that she INDEED had sex with Jesse while on this trip. I’m so devastated and was a nervous wreck last night. My next move is to figure out how to break up with her and tell her how I found out. Thank you all. Relevant / Top Comments Commenter 1: If she had said: “I’m buying it because no protection is 100% and sometimes I feel the need to test myself to make sure we are not going to have to deal with a kid rn” then sure maybe you could believe her but she gave you a nonsense reason OOP: To be honest she did say that during our argument as well but the messages between her and Jesse still confirmed that she slept with him while on that trip. Commenter 2: Not that it matters was it one or multiple time during the weekend? I thought the kids was there lol OOP: I don’t know. She told me that Jesse’s sons were gonna be there, I guess to make me believe that she wouldn’t try and have sex with him while they were there. But then again there was no way for me to confirm this. Nor does it matter now. Commenter 3: Sure, the pregnancy test could have been placed in her order by error, but then she'd have just shown you the app to prove she didn't order it and wouldn't have blamed her sister. She also wouldn't have lied about women using pregnancy tests to regulate PMS - this is absolutely not the truth and you should be insulted by this lie. The only thing pregnancy tests are used for is to determine if women are pregnant. That's it. She has changed the story like 5 times, and you want to believe her so much that you are starting to believe her. Her having cocktails proves nothing except that the pregnancy test was negative. She went to stay with Jesse despite your reservations about it, lied about the pregnancy test, and is making you think you are paranoid for thinking she cheated - without protection, probably. Commenter 4: The pregnancy test isn’t a sign of her cheating but her reasoning is. Pregnancy tests don’t regulate anything. Her changing stories and excuses are all you need to hear to know she is hiding something from you. Update #1: March 30, 2025 (next day) Thank you all for those that commented on my post yesterday concerning my girlfriend and my belief that she cheated on me. TLDR: gf went to visit a male friend in a different state despite my protest. About a month later, I find out she secretly bought a pregnancy test. She claims she doesn’t know where it came from. I let it go and we move on. So as an update, I realize that although my gf and i have protested sex, the chances of me getting her pregnant is possible. However, I strongly believe that despite our intimacy, I couldn’t have possibly impregnated my gf. Not to be disgusting and personal, but I NEVER “finish” inside of her because I want to reduce our chances of having kids until we’re both ready. That’s why when I saw the pregnancy test, I immediately thought she cheated on me. Anyways I went into a panic last night after hearing all the comments and freaked out so I went to her apartment while she was at work (she gave me a key) and I found her iPad. I tried using her birthday as the password and to my amazement it worked. I immediately go through her messages and find evidence that she in fact had sex with her friend Jesse. I’m honestly so devastated by this and I’ve been such a nervous wreck since last night. I haven’t ate and I’ve barely slept. Yes I know what I did, secretly going through her iPad and messages was wrong, but I had to know if she was cheating on me and if that pregnancy test she secretly order was cause Jesse may have knocked her up. Now I’m waiting to confront her but I honestly don’t know how. How do I tell my gf that I know she cheated? Am I wrong for going through her iPad and messages? Part of me feels wrong for this but you have no idea how much it hurts to know she did this. She was my first real gf in a long time and now I feel like an after thought. Edit: as far as I know, she is NOT pregnant. She wanted to prove this by having a few cocktails when we went to to dinner last week. There’s no baby involved, thank god. Top Comments Commenter 1: Just text her that you left the key near the door and that you 2 are over. That you read the messages and no coming back from that. Then go live a wonderful life. Commenter 2: Not wrong. The pregnancy test, and her preposterous answers to your questions about it, caused enough concern to do some digging. Just say to her “I know,” leave, and block. Commenter 3: Take screenshots as proof in case she tries to paint you as the villain. Save them for the nuclear option. Leave the iPad out where she can see it and open to the messages. Leave your key behind and anything of hers at your place. No need to leave a note. Block her ass on everything. Tell a few trusted friends in case she tries to lie and spin it. Commenter 4: Why do you have to confront her? You don't need a reason to break off a relationship with anyone. I do like the commenters idea of leaving her iPad open to the messages, leave the key on the IPad and then block her everywhere. I would screenshot the messages just to protect yourself in the future. Final Update: April 2, 2025 (three days later) Hope the mods will give me some slack as I just wanted to post an update to my previous two post as quite of few people were asking for an update. TLDR version: gf took trip to see male friend but I later find out that she secretly bought a pregnancy test. Later found out through text messages that she has sex with him while on the trip. So last night, I told my gf that I needed to talk to her. At first she kept saying she was busy but I insisted on seeing her in person so she finally said to go to her place around 8 pm. I go over and I reiterated how eversince she got back from her trip, things have felt weird. She claims I’m the one who’s making things weird by believing that she cheated on me. She continues to claim that the pregnancy test was not hers and that her friend Jesse was just a friend and they just hung out. I then proceed to tell her how I know she cheated because I saw the thread in her messages. “You came here without me knowing and went through my personal messages? That’s so messed up and creepy to be honest.” She says. We got into a slight argument as I told her that my suspicions were correct and she was trying to deflect the conversation. I asked her to give me her phone and I’ll show her all the messages I saw which were very clear and explicit. Of course she refuses and says “we are not married. We don’t live together. You don’t own or control me.” While I agreed with her on that part, I decide to end things quickly and simply put her copy of her keys on her coffee table and tell her “you cheated. Plain and simple. Goodbye and good luck.” I walk out and she makes no attempt to stop me. Later, she tries to text me and says that she’s sorry for what she did. At first, she claimed that Jesse was an old boyfriend that she never told me about and that they dated years ago before she met me and that he moved away several years ago. She claims that the messages I saw were old conversations they had but I quickly told her that was obviously not true. She swears that she didn’t mean to cheat and that Jesse must’ve gotten her drunk and it lead to sex. She assures me that she is NOT pregnant with anyone’s baby. I told her “that’s good cause I don’t want anything else tying me to you.” I wished her good luck again and I haven’t heard from her since. Personally, I’m relieved but I’m so upset and devastated by all this. I spoke with my friend Eric who told me that he had an ex that cheated on him too but she later tried to contact him years later when the dude she cheated on him with turned out to be a bum. Hoping I can move forward from this. Thank you all for your input. Am I wrong for anything I did or the way I acted in this? Top Comments Commenter 1: Quick & clean. Good job. No need to hash it all out or look for an apology. Just end it bc she cheated. Done! Commenter 2: Nope. Not wrong. You did everything right. There's no more arguing and lying. You'll find that person that's for you and no one else. It hurts but it won't last. Don't let her steal more of your time. Heal and love line you've never been hurt. Always trust your gut. Commenter 3: Only on Reddit are people shamed for looking at their partners phone. You did nothing wrong. When you’re in a relationship, looking through someone’s phone is not nearly as bad as lying and cheating and exposing a partner to disease. Don’t listen to Reddit. Commenter 4: It sounds like you did what you had to, and the result is painful but necessary. In the long run, you're much better off without her. DO NOT COMMENT IN LINKED POSTS OR MESSAGE OOPs – BoRU Rule #7 THIS IS A REPOST SUB - I AM NOT OOP submitted by /u/Choice_Evidence1983 to r/BestofRedditorUpdates [link] [comments]
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AIW for accusing girlfriend of cheating on me? (Found pregnancy test)
I am not the OOP. The OOP is u/OC_Original posting in r/amiwrong Concluded as per OOP 2 updates - Long Original - 29th March 2025 Update1 - 30th March 2025 Update2 - 2nd April 2025 AIW for accusing girlfriend of cheating on me? (Found pregnancy test) So my girlfriend and I have been together for just under a year. We don’t live together and both work full time and we are exclusive, as far as I’m aware. About a 3 months ago, I notice my girlfriend spending a lot of time on the phone with her “friend” Jesse. She says that Jesse is a good friend and that’s it. However she often spends anytime she can on the phone with him, even when her and I are out. Their conversations don’t lead me to think anything but about 1.5 months ago, my girlfriend says she’s going to visit Jesse who lives two states over. I can’t go cause I have to work. Of course I tell her that I’m not comfortable with her visiting a male friend out of state but she says that Jesse is just a friend. She will be staying at his place but Jesse is also a single father of 2 young boys so my girlfriend assures me nothing will happen. Despite me voicing my opinion, my gf takes the trip and shares her location to put my mind at ease. She returns a week later and we move on with life. However, about two weeks ago, my girlfriend asks me to go to our local Target to pick up an online order she had placed. She tells me she ordered shampoo and a few hygiene items. I agree and go to pick up her order. When I get to the customer service counter and give them her name, they bring out a bag with a pregnancy test in it. Shocked and confused, I tell them that this what she ordered. I check the name and phone number attached to the bag and find it matches my girlfriend’s number so it couldn’t have been another girl with the same name. They bring out the bag with the items she told me to get and I leave without asking more questions about the pregnancy test. Shocked and confused by this cause there was no real way that I could have potentially impregnated her (we use protection) I later ask her why there was a pregnancy test at target in her name. At first she says she has no idea and she did not order a pregnancy test. I asked her to show me her target app to prove it and she says that it was probably her sister since her sister uses her target account to order things sometimes. She also claims that women sometimes use pregnancy test to regulate their PMS or for other things other than to determine if they’re pregnant. I don’t know shit about how this works but she assures me that she’s not pregnant and that test wasn’t a sign of her cheating when she was on a trip. The other night we go out to dinner and she makes it a point to prove that she isn’t pregnant by ordering a few cocktails. Am I wrong for accusing my girlfriend for cheating on me while she was away? I’m so paranoid but also don’t have real proof that she did. Edit: needed to clarify the part about the pregnancy test .The pregnancy test was part of a separate online order. She asked me to pick up her online order at target which she said consisted of shampoo, deodorant and some lotion. When I went to the counter and told them her name, they brought out the bag with the pregnancy test. I said this isn’t what she told me was her order so they checked again and brought out the second bag with the right stuff as previously mentioned. After checking the info off both bags, I confirmed that both orders were under her name/account so I believe she secretly placed an online order for a pregnancy test and planned to get that later while asking me to get her shampoo. The pregnancy test was NOT in the same bag as the stuff she asked me to get. Update: I never saw the pregnancy test after that so I don’t know if that truly was an order she made by mistake or if her sister used her target account to order that got herself. However I did bring up the fact that her sister lives about 20 minutes from her and has a target much closer to her so why would she place an order for a pregnancy test and have the pickup location further from her house? Even if her local target was all out, I find it hard to believe that her sister would order a pregnancy test under her account and pick it up near her house. Comments GenoFlower Sure, the pregnancy test could have been placed in her order by error, but then she'd have just shown you the app to prove she didn't order it and wouldn't have blamed her sister. She also wouldn't have lied about women using pregnancy tests to regulate PMS - this is absolutely not the truth and you should be insulted by this lie. The only thing pregnancy tests are used for is to determine if women are pregnant. That's it. She has changed the story like 5 times, and you want to believe her so much that you are starting to believe her. Her having cocktails proves nothing except that the pregnancy test was negative. She went to stay with Jesse despite your reservations about it, lied about the pregnancy test, and is making you think you are paranoid for thinking she cheated - without protection, probably. ohmyyespls women use birth control to regulate periods, not pregnancy tests. No_Coffee_4339 The pregnancy test isn’t a sign of her cheating but her reasoning is. Pregnancy tests don’t regulate anything. Her changing stories and excuses are all you need to hear to know she is hiding something from you. Update - 1 day later Thank you all for those that commented on my post yesterday concerning my girlfriend and my belief that she cheated on me. TLDR: gf went to visit a male friend in a different state despite my protest. About a month later, I find out she secretly bought a pregnancy test. She claims she doesn’t know where it came from. I let it go and we move on. So as an update, I realize that although my gf and i have protected sex, the chances of me getting her pregnant is possible. However, I strongly believe that despite our intimacy, I couldn’t have possibly impregnated my gf. Not to be disgusting and personal, but I NEVER “finish” inside of her because I want to reduce our chances of having kids until we’re both ready. That’s why when I saw the pregnancy test, I immediately thought she cheated on me. Anyways I went into a panic last night after hearing all the comments and freaked out so I went to her apartment while she was at work (she gave me a key) and I found her iPad. I tried using her birthday as the password and to my amazement it worked. I immediately go through her messages and find evidence that she in fact had sex with her friend Jesse. I’m honestly so devastated by this and I’ve been such a nervous wreck since last night. I haven’t ate and I’ve barely slept. Yes I know what I did, secretly going through her iPad and messages was wrong, but I had to know if she was cheating on me and if that pregnancy test she secretly order was cause Jesse may have knocked her up. Now I’m waiting to confront her but I honestly don’t know how. How do I tell my gf that I know she cheated? Am I wrong for going through her iPad and messages? Part of me feels wrong for this but you have no idea how much it hurts to know she did this. She was my first real gf in a long time and now I feel like an after thought. Edit: as far as I know, she is NOT pregnant. She wanted to prove this by having a few cocktails when we went to to dinner last week. There’s no baby involved, thank god. Comments seidinove Not wrong. The pregnancy test, and her preposterous answers to your questions about it, caused enough concern to do some digging. Just say to her “I know,” leave, and block. Update - 3 days later TLDR version: gf took trip to see male friend but I later find out that she secretly bought a pregnancy test. Later found out through text messages that she has sex with him while on the trip. So last night, I told my gf that I needed to talk to her. At first she kept saying she was busy but I insisted on seeing her in person so she finally said to go to her place around 8 pm. I go over and I reiterated how eversince she got back from her trip, things have felt weird. She claims I’m the one who’s making things weird by believing that she cheated on me. She continues to claim that the pregnancy test was not hers and that her friend Jesse was just a friend and they just hung out. I then proceed to tell her how I know she cheated because I saw the thread in her messages. “You came here without me knowing and went through my personal messages? That’s so messed up and creepy to be honest.” She says. We got into a slight argument as I told her that my suspicions were correct and she was trying to deflect the conversation. I asked her to give me her phone and I’ll show her all the messages I saw which were very clear and explicit. Of course she refuses and says “we are not married. We don’t live together. You don’t own or control me.” While I agreed with her on that part, I decide to end things quickly and simply put her copy of her keys on her coffee table and tell her “you cheated. Plain and simple. Goodbye and good luck.” I walk out and she makes no attempt to stop me. Later, she tries to text me and says that she’s sorry for what she did. At first, she claimed that Jesse was an old boyfriend that she never told me about and that they dated years ago before she met me and that he moved away several years ago. She claims that the messages I saw were old conversations they had but I quickly told her that was obviously not true. She swears that she didn’t mean to cheat and that Jesse must’ve gotten her drunk and it lead to sex. She assures me that she is NOT pregnant with anyone’s baby. I told her “that’s good cause I don’t want anything else tying me to you.” I wished her good luck again and I haven’t heard from her since. Personally, I’m relieved but I’m so upset and devastated by all this. I spoke with my friend Eric who told me that he had an ex that cheated on him too but she later tried to contact him years later when the dude she cheated on him with turned out to be a bum. Hoping I can move forward from this. Thank you all for your input. Am I wrong for anything I did or the way I acted in this? Comments just1here Quick & clean. Good job. No need to hash it all out or look for an apology. Just end it bc she cheated. Done! I am not the OOP. Please do not harass the OOP. Please remember the No Brigading Rule and to be civil in the comments submitted by /u/SharkEva to r/BORUpdates [link] [comments]
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Apr 3, 2025 |
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AIW for accusing girlfriend of cheating on me? (Found pregnancy test)
So my girlfriend and I have been together for just under a year. We don’t live together and both work full time and we are exclusive, as far as I’m aware. About a 3 months ago, I notice my girlfriend spending a lot of time on the phone with her “friend” Jesse. She says that Jesse is a good friend and that’s it. However she often spends anytime she can on the phone with him, even when her and I are out. Their conversations don’t lead me to think anything but about 1.5 months ago, my girlfriend says she’s going to visit Jesse who lives two states over. I can’t go cause I have to work. Of course I tell her that I’m not comfortable with her visiting a male friend out of state but she says that Jesse is just a friend. She will be staying at his place but Jesse is also a single father of 2 young boys so my girlfriend assures me nothing will happen. Despite me voicing my opinion, my gf takes the trip and shares her location to put my mind at ease. She returns a week later and we move on with life. However, about two weeks ago, my girlfriend asks me to go to our local Target to pick up an online order she had placed. She tells me she ordered shampoo and a few hygiene items. I agree and go to pick up her order. When I get to the customer service counter and give them her name, they bring out a bag with a pregnancy test in it. Shocked and confused, I tell them that this what she ordered. I check the name and phone number attached to the bag and find it matches my girlfriend’s number so it couldn’t have been another girl with the same name. They bring out the bag with the items she told me to get and I leave without asking more questions about the pregnancy test. Shocked and confused by this cause there was no real way that I could have potentially impregnated her (we use protection) I later ask her why there was a pregnancy test at target in her name. At first she says she has no idea and she did not order a pregnancy test. I asked her to show me her target app to prove it and she says that it was probably her sister since her sister uses her target account to order things sometimes. She also claims that women sometimes use pregnancy test to regulate their PMS or for other things other than to determine if they’re pregnant. I don’t know shit about how this works but she assures me that she’s not pregnant and that test wasn’t a sign of her cheating when she was on a trip. The other night we go out to dinner and she makes it a point to prove that she isn’t pregnant by ordering a few cocktails. Am I wrong for accusing my girlfriend for cheating on me while she was away? I’m so paranoid but also don’t have real proof that she did. Edit: needed to clarify the part about the pregnancy test .The pregnancy test was part of a separate online order. She asked me to pick up her online order at target which she said consisted of shampoo, deodorant and some lotion. When I went to the counter and told them her name, they brought out the bag with the pregnancy test. I said this isn’t what she told me was her order so they checked again and brought out the second bag with the right stuff as previously mentioned. After checking the info off both bags, I confirmed that both orders were under her name/account so I believe she secretly placed an online order for a pregnancy test and planned to get that later while asking me to get her shampoo. The pregnancy test was NOT in the same bag as the stuff she asked me to get. Update: I never saw the pregnancy test after that so I don’t know if that truly was an order she made by mistake or if her sister used her target account to order that got herself. However I did bring up the fact that her sister lives about 20 minutes from her and has a target much closer to her so why would she place an order for a pregnancy test and have the pickup location further from her house? Even if her local target was all out, I find it hard to believe that her sister would order a pregnancy test under her account and pick it up near her house. Updateme: so I went into a panic last night after reading all the comments so while she was out at work last night, I went to her apartment (she gave me a key) and found her iPad. I tried putting her birthday as a password and to my amazement, it worked. Yes I know what I did was dishonest but I had to know if she cheated on me. I looked at her messages and confirmed that she INDEED had sex with Jesse while on this trip. I’m so devastated and was a nervous wreck last night. My next move is to figure out how to break up with her and tell her how I found out. Thank you all. submitted by /u/OC_Original to r/amiwrong [link] [comments]
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Mar 29, 2025 |
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Best Antiperspirant Deodorant for Women? Finally retiring Old Spice Fiji
Any deodorant recommendations from those who struggle with sweating? Old Spice Fiji is not cutting it anymore and I don't want anything that's aluminum free lol somehow that made me smell awful. I've used Dove, Secret Clinical Strength, and Old Spice. Any recs would be great! submitted by /u/Potential-Gap-540 to r/hygiene [link] [comments]
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Potential-Gap-540 |
Jan 30, 2025 |
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Men with a female SO: You’re out of deodorant…what do you do?
Do you go without or do you use your woman’s deodorant? I’ve been using my wife’s Secret for three days because I’m too lazy to make a Target run. ETA: You know, I love (/s) how any innocuous post on Reddit can always bring out some judgmental trolls who like telling other people what they should do. Was it really important for those folks to tell everyone there's no difference between men's/women's products? Or that it's sexist to differentiate? Or that applying it is unnecessary/unhealthy/unethical/whatever? JFC - get a life and stop criticizing what other people do so much! submitted by /u/nightstalker30 to r/AskMen [link] [comments]
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nightstalker30 |
Aug 17, 2023 |
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Best anti-perspirant deodorant for women
Preferably aluminum-free that keeps you dry all day. Any recommendations?? submitted by /u/bloom2701 to r/beauty [link] [comments]
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r/beauty |
bloom2701 |
Dec 4, 2021 |