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New bed frame was purchased 2 days ago. Bed was purchased 4yrs ago from Ashley Furniture. 🫠 The first bed frame was purchased with the bed and did the same exact thing. UPDATE Ppl said to look at the tag.I could not find one so either my son ripped it off or it did not have one. It was a bed in a box. I measured it and it's coming out as a full. I double checked my receipt and it says queen and the delivery/drop off photo shows queen on the box so I am unsure how or what happened. Son is getting a new bed now since his was going on 5yrs anyways. submitted by /u/Choice_Scar9035 to r/mildlyinfuriating [link] [comments]

I am NOT OOP, OOP is u/CuriousButNotJewish Originally posted to r/relationship_advice How do I [F28], a widow, tell my in-laws[M58][F59] about my new partner? I am very, VERY close to them (for all intents and purposes they treat me as their daughter, events, sleepovers, trips etc.) and I am afraid that this will destroy everything Thanks to u/withlovetara & u/soayherder for suggesting this BoRU Trigger Warnings: death of a spouse, mentions trauma Original Post: May 3, 2026 I married my soulmate, the love of my life and the light of my eyes 3.5 years ago. Unfortunately, he died shortly after our wedding due to an illness, in my arms and while holding his parents' hands. Suffice to say this was traumatic for everyone involved, everyone in his family tattooed his name on their wrist (I have a marriage tattoo, so not a name but a date tied to him, which is why I didn't do it), and the whole after-death, mourning, etc. period we bonded very deeply over his memory. For context (this is relevant), I am from country A. My late husband was from country B. I lived with him in country C, and since then I've moved and now live in country D. As my husband was dying, we both moved from C to B, so that burial and everything else would be easier. I then stayed with my in-laws for a while, moved back to C, sold the apartment I owned there shortly after and moved to D. I am thus now stranded, in a way, between my family (all in A) and my in laws family (all in B). I travel ~2 times a year to spend time with in-laws in B, maybe once a year to spend time with my own fam in A, and maybe once a year my entire blood family comes to D to spend time with me. It's an expensive and exhausting arrangement but it works in maintaining both bonds. It also means that when I am in B, I am now for all intents and purposes treated by in-laws, and the entire rest of my late husband's family, like I am their child: I live with them, travel with them around the country, eat with them, play video games together with my "siblings" in law, I am on the walls of their house in holiday photos and spend time with my late husband's cousins and now, these are basically my family too, my mom dad grandparents cousins etc. They're just as mom and dad as my own mom and dad are. And here comes the hard question: I'm in my late 20s. After my hubby died, I did date now and then, with eventually hoping for marriage and kids, but nothing seemed to work, fellow widows know what that's like. And then... I met this guy. And he has been, well, not like my late husband, but you know how sometimes you meet someone and they are YOUR person? And you just know? In a different way, this man is as much a soulmate now as my husband was. And he is very chill with me going to in-laws, mentioning a memory of something I did with my late husband on occasion, having a picture of him in my bedroom, etc. He is caring, loving, understanding and patient, everything a young widow could ask for... and things are moving fast. Which is the problem. Thus far, I never mentioned any relationships to my in-laws. They are aware, I am certain, that I do date, have sex, etc. but they don't ask, and I don't talk, about anything or anyone other than my late husband while in country B. I don't feel like that's respectful to change that, buuuuuut - well, I want to move in with this guy. And I want to stop saying I'm going on 'solo trips' when I'm actually going on trips with this guy. And I love him, a lot, and we are already talking marriage, and children. And I have to tell them that this man now exists in my life, and here I am, in my in-laws' toilet, writing this out at 2am to ask Reddit for advice. With 2 days left before I go back to country D and don't come back here to B until... God knows. Maybe Christmas? I have to tell them, and I want to do it in person while I am here, but I don't know how. I don't want it to seem ostentatious - there is pictures of me and late husband, together, hugging, on holidays, EVERYWHERE in the house, and announcing a new man in my life out of the blue might seem like I'm bragging or something. I'm not. I also don't want it to seem like I'm leaving them aside - I'm not. They are MY mom and dad in law, my gran gran and gram gram in law, my little brother and sister in law, and this will change nothing. Even after I get married. Even if I have children. They remain family to me and kin. But how do I even start this conversation? Because they won't ask. And I don't know how to mention it, in a way that we never speak about it again, in a way that respects and shows that my late husband is STILL my soulmate, still the light of my eyes - he's just not the only one, anymore. I'm scared out of my mind that this will make me lose them. Relevant Comments OOP responds to a comment about overthinking everything and how her late husband’s family might react to the new relationship OOP: Oh I know it's not betrayal. I am fully ok with this, I'm not feeling guilty over it or anything. Part of what made my soulmate well, my soulmate, is his emotional intelligence, his wisdom way beyond his years, his foresight and his empathy. He was dying and yet he took a few hours, sat me down, and made sure he understood and I understood what will happen once he dies. He told me in no uncertain terms that he wants me to date again. Like a petulant child, I told him I'll kill myself instead to not have to suffer a life without him - and I almost did. The lucidity that came after the suicide attempt made me realise he was right, and I don't carry any guilt in my heart, because in my head, it's a bit like polygamy if that makes sense? I still love my husband, deeply, profoundly and every second, but also, he is ok with this. He wanted me to find another good man (or woman). He wanted me to have children, if I wanted them. What do I have to be guilty for? He ain't mad at this, he's cheering me onwards and is probably proud of me for finding such a good catch. His parents are not as open minded. That's what I'm afraid of - their reaction, and the family's reaction as a whole. He comes from a very tightly knit family, and I really enjoy this, how close and personal everyone is with everyone. But they also might find it painful to picture me as OP, Woman Married to Unknown Man, as opposed to OP, Widow of our Dear Departed And Beloved Relative. The thing is, I am both. I will ALWAYS be both. I am wearing my wedding band proudly, continuously, and likely will keep it on a chain after I marry my current partner (and start wearing our wedding bands instead). Even now I have a promise ring of sorts on my middle finger, right next to my wedding band. For me these things are not a contradiction. I contain multitudes. I just don't know how to help my family of kinship also see this and not reject me. OOP on the reasons for wanting children with a partner OOP: Unfortunately, the line is tick tocking on my biological clock. I have a health condition that is degenerative - it might cause me to become infertile later in life. As you can imagine, in our day and age, this put off many men, who don't see why we shouldn't just wait till I'm 35+, but my late husband and I shared what we knew we always wanted out of life: at least two children (amongst other things). I'm only rushing because I'm afraid that if I don't have all the kids I want by 32-33, I may never have them :(. I wish women didn't have a biological clock, so I didn't have to do that. But life forces cruel choices on us. Had my late husband not died, we were considering starting children at 26 or so, so in a way (and I know this may sound silly) I feel a bit like I'm already "behind" on my planned timeline. House ownership? Check. Good job and being the breadwinner? Check. Finding a good partner to settle down and have kids with? Well, it was a check, and then life told me not only do I not get to have that check anymore, I have to keep staying alive and suffer through what's left. And I'm doing just that, I went to grief counselling, I made my peace with it, life sucks, so I'm just trying to make the best of a bad situation... but I know it's perhaps harder to understand for someone without a degenerative disease. Trust me, I wouldn't rush, if only I felt like I could afford to. (And before anyone asks, no, it's not inheritable.) OOP on if she has her relationships with her biological family as she only mentions much more about her in-laws than her own OOP: I don't, I'm much more close to my biological mom and my bio family over in-laws, but my father is an alcoholic and a bit of a gambling addict and growing up I have fought with him, shouted at him, and even physically assaulted him twice out of sheer anger (I definitely had anger issues as a teenager, and broke my dear mother's heart countless times over my inability to contain them). Now as an adult I have learned to love and appreciate him from a distance. I also love and have always loved children, and my parents are single children, so I have no cousins, and two of my four grandparents were dead by the time I married, so my grandparent exposure has been fantastic, but sadly limited. Comparatively, my late husband has 4 living grandparents (who are now great grandparents), 12 uncles and aunts, and... 18 cousins? I am close with around 9 of them. Of which some are children. And I love being here, playing with them, playing in general. It feels like family. It feels like what I want MY family to be when I have children. When I grew up we didn't really celebrate Christmas, we were too poor. When I grew up I had a chronic illness so everyone was constantly worried that the only child in the entire family will die if they don't take care of me, so we didn't travel much. When I grew up... people loved me, I was a very loved and wanted child, but I was also a difficult, angry, depressed child who felt the weight of the world on her shoulders and I know I didn't make my family's lives easy, the opposite. Which is why I moved to C by myself, took student loans, did a very good university on scholarships and debt, and am now making enough money to give my parents the life they never had growing up themselves (I send them money every month so they can do whatever they want and be happy with them). I feel like I'm allowed this small, vicarious, selfish luxury, to be in this family that's not my blood and pretend I belong. Play with the Legos I never had as a baby. Coo at all the toddlers I never played with, play football with the aunts and uncles I never had. It's not mom and dad's fault that they are who they are. They sacrificed everything to raise me. Sometimes they starved so that I never lacked anything. But at the same time, what do I have back in the home country to visit? Dying grandparents? Sad memories? I love my country, but I don't want to go back. I want mom and dad and my grandparents, as much as they can, to keep coming to country C to spend time with me. I want to make so much money that I can bring my mom and dad here to live with me permanently, even, once they retire and my grandparents die. I just don't see the point in visiting my country of origin, not because it's a bad country (I won't say what it is, but it is objectively an amazing country y'all have heard of), but because I have such a small family that I can just bring them all to me instead. We can go to cute cafes and buy stupid adult Legos and visit overpriced zoos and do all the silly stuff we haven't done before now. I'm killing myself working overtime with a chronic illness to make it happen. I don't think it means I'm more distant from my parents and grandparents of blood. It's just different. Commenter 2: Out of curiosity what are the timelines here? How long were you with your late husband and how long have you been with your current partner? What cultures and continents are we dealing with? My white Western anglophone POV might be out of line, you know? OOP: We're all Europeans, countries A B C D are a mix of Eastern, Southern and Western Europe. I was with my husband 4 years in total, this new guy I've dated for... we're coming up on 8 months? We're not getting married soon or anything, just talking about moving in together. OOP on the timeline of her dating, marriage, and her husband's passing OOP: I first came to country B to visit maybe 1.5 years before he died? We started to bond and do things together all of us already, for sure, but it definitely kicked up a notch after he died. I had a lot of cousins and aunts and uncles at my wedding I barely even knew the names of, but now I would trust them all with my life as if they were blood relatives. They also started visiting me in D after I bought my house there, so by definition after he died. He's been gone 3.5 years, we were married half a year, and we were both 24 at the time. New guy is 29. In-laws are from a very Catholic culture, I don't want to say the country specifically, but nobody in the family is religious. Does this help?   Editor's note: OOP updated into the original post Update: May 4, 2026 (same post, next day) EDIT: I DID IT I talked only to my mother in law, because I was a bit afraid to talk to them both, and I kept putting it off until literally the last second before we went to bed but, I did it. I told her that this guy is the first serious relationship I've had since hubby passed away, that it's quite a new thing (I was afraid to tell her it's been a long time - I can come clean about this small lie later on, if he becomes more than boyfriend) but that I've known him for a longer while because we're in the same friend group, and to my surprise, she asked me to tell her more about him! She cut me off at some point then and told me she is very happy for me, but she only wants one thing from me: to stay in touch with them, and to not push them aside, and to that I told her I had been freaking out the whole time while in country B about how to tell her, and she said it’s silly, even seemed to get a bit cross at me that I could ever be afraid to tell her because we are family, and I told her to me she is mom as much as my own mom is mom, so I was afraid to lose her and lose that, and anyway we hugged and she is very happy for me and we bonded over how we were both afraid that this moment would distance me from them, but I reassured her that literally nothing will change between us, and I am as much her daughter now as I will always be. So yeah: turns out, y'all were right, I freaked out over nothing much, and while I am uncertain as to when, or if, rest of family will find out, since she is the one I am closest with and she also knows her children and husband best, I trust that she'll mention it to them when she thinks that the time is right. At the same time I told my boyfriend, and he is very happy that it all went well, and congratulated me for it : D I did chicken out on telling her the full truth, how long we've been together, and stuff like that, as well as to have a full "we need to sit down" talk with father in law, but all in all, I think this is as ok as it will get, and I am reassured that even if he doesn't take it as well, mom (in law?) is in my corner and she is happy for me. Extra detail that entirely blew me away: the guys who said to mention to her that husband did tell me to remarry were more spot on the money than they thought. Turns out, not only did he have this conversation with me, he ALSO had this conversation with them, so she said she is ok with it especially because late hubby told her that this is what he wants. I do feel a bit uneasy at the thought of how this might have went had he not, but once again from beyond the grave and 3 years ago he protected his wife and made sure I am safe and accepted by his family, which. Guys. At 24, while dying. I cannot put into words how much I love this man. I would die for him to get even another hour of life. Until his last day he thought of me and loved me. How blessed are we that we get to have experienced a man such as him into our lives. I dunno how all of the guys who wanted an update will get it but uh... here you go? lol   Editor's note: below are two posts that are tangentially to the original and update posts WIBTAH to go ahead with buying a bunk bed despite my partner's hesitation?: May 17, 2026 (nearly two weeks later) Long story short, both my partner (30M) and I (28F) currently live in apartments with roommates. I have finally managed to save enough money and buy an apartment that I absolutely love, and since I wanted to move in with my partner eventually, this turned out to be a great moment for us to do so. We talked about it and, the conclusion we reached is that as I bought the apartment by myself, he will pay me half of the mortgage as rent after he moves in until (if) we get married. Anyway, one of the biggest reasons why I wanted to buy instead of continuing to rent is that I ADORE loft beds. They are my favourite beds in the world, I love the "living upstairs, couch beanbag with PS5 and projector and RGB lighting downstairs behind princess curtains" aesthetic, it's literally my dream. This is something I told my partner for a long time even before buying this apartment, that this is my dream bed, I want to buy one day, and it was a big motivator to buying (in our country almost all apartments for rent are furnished already so low chances to have a loft bed unless I buy the place instead of renting). Never has anything been said by him against this. I even showed him my Pinterest board with how I want it to look, 0 complaints. Now that the place is ready and I am starting to prepare for ordering furniture, ending my rent contract, and moving in, I am showing him again all of the inspo pics and he seems... less than thrilled? He asked a few times if I am sure this is the best choice for a bed, what if him or I fall off of the ladder at night, etc. I told him that the living room will also have a very comfortable guest bed AND a sofa with an extendable bed, so we don't have to sleep together if he doesn't like the bed, but he's all "hmm" and "maybe" and non-committal noises and it's a bit stressful tbh. Feels like he's raining on my parade. I even told him that there's no pressure with the move, I am fortunate enough to be able to pay the mortgage by myself if he isn't certain about moving together anymore, and he got a bit upset at me for implying we'd be giving up our shared dream of living together and sleeping together in the same bed just because he isn't sure about the loft bed idea. I don't know how to tell him this gently, but the loft bed isn't negotiable. It's absolutely happening. He knew about it for such a long time. At the same time, I asked my best friend (who is a man) what he thinks I should do and he said that I should be more open to compromise with this because compromise is the heart of a good relationship. But I don't want to compromise. I want my loft bed. WIBTAH to go ahead with buying it even though my partner isn't super thrilled with the idea? Sorry if my English is bad or the text sounds badly worded, English isn't my native language. Edit: I see some people are confused and think I am talking about those loft beds children have, I am talking about the double-bed sized loft beds that IKEA has for adults, specifically this one: https://www.ikea.com/us/en/p/stora-loft-bed-frame-black-80160867/ Edit 2: fair enough, I take people's points about the weight limit, I'll inquire with a carpenter to have a custom bed built in the same style, but with a sturdier frame. I hear your safety concerns. Edit 3: a kind redditor suggested a bed and the company just happens to deliver to where I live, so it looks like I'll be buying this beauty, with a very much 2-adults'-weight maximum weight to it: https://abc-meubles.com/fr/lit-mezzanine-bois/1452-1270341-lit-mezzanine-sylvia-escalier-cube.html#/67-couleur-brut_sans_vernis Cheers to all the other suspended (apparently bunk is not the word, loft bed is correct) bed owners out there pouring in their stories and helpful advice Tonight I have a date and guess what topic we'll discuss over some nice dinner - will update later! Edit 4: This sub won't let me post comments anymore cause y'all have downvoted my comments answering your questions so much that it fell under some threshold. So no updates or INFO answers anymore. Too bad. Also please stop mentioning "guest rooms". This is not the US. It is a 1 bedroom apartment in a European capital city where the average 2 bedroom apartment is at least 1 million EUR. It doesn't have the immense amount of space that American houses have. We all wish we had those houses. Those houses here, in bumfuck nowhere in the countryside, would be between 1 and 2 million EUR. Edit 5: we didn't break up. We talked about it, and I posted an update on it: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1tg76o0/update_wibtah_to_go_ahead_with_buying_a_bunk_bed/ To everyone cursing me out and wishing for the death of my relationship, sorry babes, it ain't happening. AITAH has no consensus bot, OOP received mixed reactions, splitting between NTAs and YTAs Editor's note: OOP made numerous responses in this post, the majority of her responses have been downvoted. I am listing significant details not covered Relevant Comments Commenter 1: .... all loft beds are literally under "kids' loft beds & bunk beds" category in Ikea. It's definitely 100% NOT for adults. There's only 1 double mattress loft bed in the states and They even say: "Please note that our loft bed frames are designed for one person at a time even if 2 or more persons total weight is less than 220lb per bed limit." You're mistaken OOP: We don't live in the states. In my country's IKEA website, bunk beds are not aged like they seem to be in the US. Commenter 2: What are your ceiling heights though? Are you going to be bumping your head all the time? OOP: If I remember correctly, they're a bit under 4 meters (editor's note: a bit over 13 feet). It's an old apartment and has blessedly freakishly tall ceilings. OOP on the cost of a place in her country OOP: In my country an apartment with more than 2 rooms is a million EUR (editor's note: $1,160,400.00 USD). I'm being realistic here. Already being able to own my place before I'm 30 is massively ahead of my generation. + Rent is generally higher than mortgage, because housing market sucks ass. 2. a 2 bedroom apartment is around a million EUR, because housing market sucks ass. 3. Being able to afford any real estate in this nightmare of a country is already huge, the average first time house buyer is over 40 years old. Buying my own place before 30 is immense in itself. Commenter 3: it’s your house, not his. if he wants an option on furnishing, he should be paying half the mortgage and half the price of the furnishings. OOP: Technically he's prying half of the mortgage amount per month, but I put my foot down and this will be in the form of a rent contract. It is my property and it will remain my property. OOP on who is paying for the bed OOP: And I'm paying for the bed lol. Like he ain't paying 50%, another commenter made me realise how stupid I am to consider someone else's vision for a bed when I'm buying the furniture, for an apartment I bought... OOP on the weight limit of the loft bed that might not hold her and her partner OOP: We both weigh, together, 130kg. If the bed breaks under us I'll file a customer complaint because wtf lol. Commenter 4: INFO: Do you like having sex with your partner? Do they make loft beds big enough for 2 people? Would you consider a loft that's more of a couch on top? I'm not gonna shit on you for your dream even if I don't get it but I'm just gonna tell you right now you are describing a single person's lifestyle not something that is practical for a couple. So decide which one you want more. OOP: The loft bed frame is 200x200, I've already had a ton of sex in this exact type of loft bed when I had a very short FWB stint in college with another girl who had this bed, trust me, it's 100% sturdy enough lol. Like you can do all kinds of bondage in it even because of how big the frame is and how many board nooks it has available - it makes for some INSANE shibari if your partner knows how to make it! The loft bed love I have is unrelated to this lol, I loved loft beds even before discovering their BDSM potential, but the adult, queen sized loft beds are definitely made with sex in mind, take my word on this ;) OOP on considering hers and her partner's heights OOP: We're both short people and the place has high ceilings, so we shouldn't have problems hitting our heads. Our sex life is, let's say, potentially adventurous: given that we both have housemates, we haven't had the chance to try lots of crazy stuff, but this apartment will be a bit of a chance to explore some kinks and fetishes we both have in common. The bunk bed will help with that also, since there are lots of posts and polls to wrap rope around on it ;) + We're both about the same height, 168-170cm, idk what that is in American units. (editor's note: approximately 5'5") Commenter 5: I mean if the bed is more important to you than the partner is, which it sounds like is the case, then I think that says a lot about your relationship. OOP: It's not about the bed itself, same as it wasn't about the Iranian yoghurt. This is something I communicated as a non-negotiable to him forever ago, it is a dream I actively sank tens of thousands of euros to achieve. The fact that he's only now, when we're 95% there, saying he doesn't like it or is a dealbreaker, feels to me like if I was dating some guy for 10 years with the clear understanding that we both want children, only for him to change his mind up and say he needs to think last moment. You know what I mean? This is a dream of mine he was aware of for pretty much years and only now when it's about to happen he reveals he doesn't like it. If he hated the concept why not tell me sooner? Like when I showed him my inspo Pinterest boards? OOP on the deed of the apartment OOP: I'm sorry, is his name on the deed to this house? Is he buying the furniture? Are we going 50/50 on it? No? Ah, well. Equals isn't just a vibe, equals is a thing counted in cold hard cash. + I have only my name on the deed, he will have a rental contract with no equity claim to my property if he does move in with me. Commenter 6: YTA. You want him to move in, but he doesn’t even get a say in any furniture and he's paying half of the bills. Then you told him the bed is non-negotiable and he can sleep elsewhere or LIVE elsewhere. If this is your dying hill and something to strain your relationship over you have growing to do. OOP: He's paying rent. I paid the down deposit, I pay and am responsible for this house. As far as I am concerned he can have the certainty and joy of us living together, but unless he coughs up some down deposit and we buy a property together, the same way my landlords certainly don't ask me how I want my rental apartment furnished, he also doesn't get a say. We are both adults and I won't be a doormat and let him act as if he bought this house. OOP on whose idea was to move in together OOP:He's the one who keeps pushing for us to move in together as a great opportunity. I won't lie, having to not pay half of the mortgage would be easier on my wallet, and he only works part time, so he could do household chores (he already said he'd want to cook for us and clean the place so that I don't have to hire cleaning help)... I'm ok with him moving in but if he doesn't I won't die.   [Update] WIBTAH to go ahead with buying a bunk bed despite my partner's hesitation?: May 17, 2026 (same day, hours later) Short update to all the lovers of loft beds (I have now learned it's called loft and not bunk) and all of those fervently calling me a thousand names and acting like I'm torturing my gem and babe of a partner by having him move in with me. We just had a date night. It was lovely, if a bit cold (why is it so cold so close to summer, anyway?), and with my mind heavy from all the commenters absolutely losing their shit at the concept of shorter-than-average adults sleeping in anything other than the most insanely massive beds known to man, I gently prodded the topic of the loft bed back into conversation. I put all my cards on table and was fully honest, told him that I am hurt that he seems to not have taken me seriously before, that I want to find a compromise that makes him happy as well, but at the same time, that this bed is very important to me and I am not sure where to go from here, but I want to discuss it seriously, because his dismissive attitude made me unsure about the future. To my surprise, he was himself surprised that I took his grumpiness about the bed so seriously. He said he's still not thrilled at the idea, that he was hoping I had reconsidered a bit in light of the negatives he raised, but that if that's what I really want, he'll be there for me for it. And then we got to planning. I won't bore the good folks with too many details; I showed him the French bed someone suggested from the last post (I linked it in the previous post), he liked that the stairs look way less slippery than the IKEA ladder, suggested we put some anti-slip surface carpets on them for extra safety and also that we bolt the contraption to the walls to reduce shaking during, ahem, adult activities, and then he asked me if I think we could fit a bed underneath that bed, and if I'd be ok with that. I said probably yes, but that it wouldn't be a massive bed. He said that's fine. So that's what's happening. The gaming console and beanbag combo will have to relocate somewhere else (the office, most likely - its existence seems to have confused a lot of people, just to help clarify, it's a 1 bedroom apartment with a small office room which is too small to be a bedroom by itself), the downstairs curtains don't really fit into the picture anymore, but we'll put a bed underneath the loft bed, so he can choose whether he wants to sleep in his bachelor-style pad under the stairs (Harry Potter jokes were had) or climb up with me in the upper area. He also said that he hopes I'll grow tired of the "heights" sooner rather than later, to which I jokingly said he'll have to ground me down a lot for that to happen (does this joke make sense in English? it's like when you direct electricity into the ground by reaching up to the sky with a metal antenna), and in response he gave me a tight hug and kiss. The world didn't explode. We didn't break up. We'll just have an even funkier bed situation than before: a double bed underneath the loft bed. It will probably look something like this (replace the table and single bed with a full bed underneath the loft bed): https://pin.it/4SG9BidJt But it's not that bad. We might even put the curtains on the upper side of the bed (the ceiling? a rail? not sure yet) to keep the whimsy aspect and then it might look like something like this: https://pin.it/16BNKDu2e We also, to the annoyance of that person complaining about who makes Pinterest boards anymore, agreed to make a shared pins board to be more in touch with this project and how we see it. Uh... the end? I know some people wanted an update once the bed came home, but realistically, that will be one month from now or so, I thought I'd give this small update until then. The drama my little princess whimsy bed truly was crazy so hopefully this calms some folks down. Editor's note: again, OOP made numerous responses in this post, the majority of her responses have been downvoted Some Comments Has OOP slept in a loft bed before? OOP: I did have it in one of the previous rentals I had, and an ex-girlfriend of mine also had it. It's very much a love it or hate it thing I'm starting to learn - some people absolutely despise them and some really like them, one thing is for certain though, they're not for houses with low ceilings. Saw someone say they had less than 1m between the bed and ceiling in their one as a child, which sounds like a casket with extra steps. Commenter 1: You should show him your other post and comments so he can see exactly how uncaring and dismissively you spoke about him. He has a right to know how you actually view him. It would probably be an eye opener for him. OOP: I think he's happier enough not seeing my angrier side. Some of the stuff people said there... phew. I have a temper, it's in my people's blood, we can light up from nothing, fiery blood. I did say some bullshit I didn't actually mean, when redditors call me entitled retarded a child a bitch a psychopath and every other name under the sun, of course it gets under my skin and makes me aggressive. But with him I'm feeling the kind of calm I've never felt before. As long as we find compromise and respect each other, there is no reason to become upset. He hasn't harmed before, ever, has never raised his voice or called me names. I have no reason for anger with my love. If anything, he seemed more happy that we'll get a cat than anything. And now we have to figure out how to make a cat staircase that's safe for it to climb up in bed and back... I still don't see the joy in it, but that's his lifelong dream, so everyone is moving forward with their plans it seems 😉 Commenter 2: He said he didn’t want the bed, but you are going to it anyhow. You aren’t a great partner. You are prioritizing a “fun idea” over his comfort. OOP: We made a compromise, that's how compromises work. I am happy, he is happy. A compromise did not mean tossing the bed out or breaking up with him or whatever people kept saying I should do.   THIS IS A REPOST SUB - I AM NOT THE OOP DO NOT CONTACT THE OOP's OR COMMENT ON LINKED POSTS, REMEMBER - RULE 7 submitted by /u/Choice_Evidence1983 to r/BestofRedditorUpdates [link] [comments]

You ever have a clumsy moment SO bad all you can do is freeze and stare at the absolute destruction you just left in your path? PLEASE. I was fully ready to just move out of my apartment and let the bolognese have it. But thankfully I’m the clumsiest person on the entire planet, so I’ve mastered the art of removing stains. I did panic a bit on this one though because there are a lot of different “solutions” and most people don’t spill bolognese all over their entire FABRIC bed frame and carpet. Here’s what I did (this took 3 days, but I probably could’ve skipped a few steps & contrary to what this story might suggest, I am actually a fully grown adult with a full time job and couldn’t dedicate an entire day of cleaning this in one go): Oh and side note: if you’re wondering whether this was hard and smelled disgusting. The answer is yes and I am now traumatized by pasta. Day 1: - Picked up as much as I could (noodles, ground beef… devastating truly) - Used OxiClean stain remover spray IMMEDIATELY and absolutely drenched everything - Let it for for about 30 minutes while I ordered delivery because my bed ate my dinner - Mixed dish soap + baking soda and scrubbed more - Used my Hoover wet vac (handheld attachment) with the Bissell Pro MAX Clean & Protect solution and cringed the entire time because it was 9pm, the vacuum is ridiculously loud, and I live in an apartment building (so so sorry neighbors) - Went to bed hoping I’d wake up and this would all be a nightmare Day 2: - Second round of the Hoover - Applied OxiClean gel everywhere, I ran out of the original spray (unfortunately have to thank Amazon and capitalism for next day delivery) - Let that sit overnight Day 3: - One last Hoover round - Vowed to never bring pasta near upholstery or carpet again After a lot of trauma, sweat, and tears, I’d say you can’t tell I basically threw an entire bowl of bolognese at my bed. TLDR: Don’t even THINK about eating pasta anywhere near a bed or carpet. submitted by /u/Physical_Frosting295 to r/CleaningTips [link] [comments]

I posted a pillow guide here recently and the response was really positive. Thank you to everyone who found it helpful! I wanted to follow up with this bed frame guide as a companion piece, since not everyone needs new bedding when they’ve got bad furniture or whatever. If you want me to give you a personal recommendation, don't hesitate to comment below with your mattress size, mattress type (foam, hybrid, etc.), weight range (combined if it’s for two people), sleeping disturbances, style preferences, and budget. I know a lot about bed frames and can suggest something from this list and beyond. Reddit is people’s go-to place for honest opinions on tons of products, and that also includes mattress toppers. Sometimes you don't need a new mattress, you just need to fix the one you've got (as long as it’s only too firm or too hot). A good topper can solve a lot of problems without blowing your wallet. We've all been there… lying on a mattress that's almost right but not quite. Redditors are known for being honest with their opinions, so when you see a discussion thread about something like the "best mattress topper on Reddit" or "best mattress pad Reddit users recommend," you can trust it's worth checking out. After reviewing many Reddit threads, it becomes pretty obvious that people looking for bed frame advice aren't just redecorating. They're dealing with real issues, like a frame that won't stop squeaking, something that wobbles every time they move, or just wanting something that actually looks good for cheap. I scraped comments from 50+ threads where people asked for bed frame advice and such across multiple subreddits ( r/Furniture, r/HomeDecorating, and r/BuyItForLife ). Then ran the whole dataset through an LLM pipeline to identify which bed frames consistently get recommended. Scraped 50+ bed frame advice threads from this year Used Claude and GPT-5 to extract bed frame mentions + context, (Was it to stop squeaking? Was it to get more storage? Was it to find something durable?, etc.), as well as for scoring (~60% direct recommendation within context + ~40% positive sentiment.) Merged brand/model variants and filtered out obvious shilling (Because there’s a lot of it!) Best Bed Frames Reddit Users Recommend for 2026 Helix Ludlow Bed Frame – Best Bed Frame for 2026 Bear Palisades Bed Frame – Best Platform Bed Frame Nolah Smart Adjustable Base – Best Adjustable Bed Frame Brooklyn Bedding Foundation – Best Affordable Bed Frame Sleeping Duck Indestruct Bed – Best Durable Bed Frame Bed Frame Comparison Table Bed Frame Features Helix Ludlow Bed Frame Solid Pine Slat System, Metal-on-Metal Connections, Sturdy and Stable Build, Low-VOC GREENGUARD Gold Finish, Under-Bed Storage Clearance Bear Palisades Bed Frame Solid New Zealand Pine Construction, Integrated Headboard and Footboard, Whisper-Quiet Platform, Enhanced Mattress Ventilation, Elegant Silhouette Nolah Smart Adjustable Base Wall-Glide Technology, Zero-G and Anti-Snore Presets, Head and Foot Massage Motors, Voice Control and Wireless Remote, USB Charging and Under-Bed Lighting Brooklyn Bedding Foundation Neutral Upholstered Finish, Tool-Free Click-In Assembly, Firm Center Rail Support, Universal Frame Compatibility, Optional Leg Height Adjustment Sleeping Duck Indestruct Bed S235 Structural Steel Chassis, Dual C-Spine Center Beams, M39 UltraSecure Leg System, 5,000 lb Weight Capacity, Lifetime Warranty on Steel Core Why Is a Good Bed Frame the Foundation of Any Aesthetic Bedroom? Let's be real, you could have the best mattress and the nicest sheets in the world, but if your bed frame looks like it belongs in a college dorm, your bedroom is never going to feel put together. A good frame is what ties the whole room together and sets the tone for everything else. After reviewing many Reddit threads, I've identified the key factors that make a bed frame worth buying in 2026. It's not just about looks, the right frame keeps things stable, eliminates noise, and can completely change how your bedroom feels. So pick one that actually does the job and looks good doing it. How to Choose a Quality Bed Frame That Actually Works for You? When choosing the best bed frame for 2026, there are a few factors you’ll want to think about: price, comfort, materials, temperature regulation, support, and durability. These factors should all be part of your decision-making process, especially when you're trying to find a topper that can actually fix your setup. Price: A bed frame is one of those things where going too cheap almost always backfires. Find something that balances quality and affordability. A good frame can last you a decade or more, so spending a little extra upfront saves you from replacing it in two years. Design: Your bed frame is the centerpiece of your bedroom, so it should actually match the vibe you're going for. Whether you're into minimalist platform styles, classic headboard setups, or something more modern, make sure it fits your space and doesn't look out of place. Materials and Build Quality: What the frame is made of matters more than most people think. Solid wood, steel, or engineered wood all have trade-offs in weight, look, and longevity. Reddit users tend to lean toward solid wood or metal for anything that needs to hold up long-term. Stability: Nobody wants a bed that sounds like a construction site every time they move. Check how the frame is assembled, as bolted connections tend to hold up way better than ones that just snap together. If noise and wobbling bother you, this is the factor to pay the most attention to. Durability: A quality bed frame should last you well beyond a decade. Look into what other buyers are saying about how it holds up over time, check the warranty, and pay attention to weight capacity. Cheap hardware and thin slats are usually the first things to go. TL;DR – According to a bunch of Reddit discussions, if you care about how your bedroom looks and want something that won't fall apart or drive you crazy with squeaking, invest in a good bed frame. Lots of Reddit users have shared their top picks, so here's a list of the best bed frames for 2026. Best Bed Frames Reddit Users Recommend for 2026 Helix Ludlow Bed Frame – Best Bed Frame for 2026 Reddit users recommend the Helix Ludlow Bed Frame as the Best Bed Frame for 2026 due to its sturdy, warranty-compliant support that keeps a mattress stable and longer-lasting. The wood slats and secure build remove guesswork and skips the box spring. Users love this bed frame because it looks clean and modern while staying quiet at night. The low-profile headboard and neutral finish fit most bedrooms, and the metal-on-metal connections cut squeaks. I also appreciate the sustainably sourced pine and GREENGUARD Gold, low-VOC finish. Specifications: Brand: Helix Type: Wood Platform Bed Frame Height: 46.25 Inches (Includes Headboard) Under-bed Clearance: 11.42 Inches Sizes: Full, Queen, and King Colors: White, Blonde, Pecan, and Walnut Compatibility: Works with All Mattress Types Including Foam, Latex, and Hybrid Assembly: Tool-Free and Easy Setup Box Spring/Bunkie Board: Not Needed Max. Weight: Up to 750 lbs. Trial Period: 30 Nights Warranty: 1 Year Limited Warranty Shipping: Free Shipping Returns: Free Financing: Shop Pay, PayPal, and Affirm Score: 94.6% Pos. Sentiment Neutral Neg. Sentiment Overall Score 79% 15% 6% 94.6% Features: Hand-selected New Zealand pine is inspected to remove knots and weak points, so the frame stays square and steady, and you don’t get that side-to-side wiggle when you climb in. The slat spacing and support distribution are built for Helix foam and coils, helping prevent early sagging and warranty issues, and you can skip a box spring since the mattress sits on slats. Metal-on-metal connections keep things tight and quiet, and the frame supports up to 750 lb without wobble, so couples, combo sleepers, and heavier mattresses won’t feel creaks. The low-profile headboard adds a finished look for reading or scrolling in bed, while 11.42" of under-bed clearance gives room for storage bins and makes cleaning under the bed much easier. It uses a clean, low-VOC finish that’s GREENGUARD Gold Certified, which can mean less off-gassing smell and a cleaner bedroom air feel. Great if you’re sensitive to strong odors. It ships free via FedEx in one box with tools and hardware included, was designed in the USA, and you get a 30-night trial plus a 1-year limited warranty if anything shows up off later on for you. Check their bed frame page for their best prices: Helix Ludlow Bed Frame Bear Palisades Bed Frame – Best Platform Bed Frame Reddit users recommend the Bear Palisades Bed Frame as the best platform bed frame due to its sturdy wood construction, clean design, and strong mattress support. It offers a reliable base that improves mattress longevity while giving bedrooms a modern, low-profile look that feels both simple and durable. Users love this platform bed frame because it combines solid craftsmanship with a quiet, stable sleep experience. The slatted base supports airflow and prevents sagging, while the minimalist frame fits many room styles, making it a practical choice for long-term comfort and everyday use. Specifications: Brand: Bear Type: New Zealand Pine Platform Bed Frame Height: 47.75 Inches (Includes Headboard) Under-Bed Clearance: 7 Inches Sizes: Full, Queen, and King Colors: Fieldstone and Weathered Oak Compatibility: Works with All Mattress Types Including Foam, Latex, and Hybrid Assembly: Tool-Free and Easy Setup Box Spring/Bunkie Board: Not Needed Max. Weight: Up to 500 lbs. Trial Period: 30 Nights Warranty: 1 Year Limited Warranty Shipping: Free Shipping Returns: Free Financing: Shop Pay, PayPal, and Affirm Score: 93.1% Pos. Sentiment Neutral Neg. Sentiment Overall Score 75% 18% 7% 93.1% Features: The solid wood frame provides strong, long-lasting durability that holds weight evenly, helping prevent mattress sagging while giving users a stable and supportive foundation for better sleep quality every night. A slatted base design improves airflow under the mattress, helping regulate temperature and reduce moisture buildup, which can extend mattress life and keep the sleeping surface feeling fresh over time. The low-profile platform style offers easy access in and out of bed, making it ideal for modern spaces while also creating a clean, minimalist bedroom look that works with different décor styles. Noise-free construction helps reduce creaks and movement sounds, which is great for light sleepers or couples, allowing for a more peaceful and uninterrupted sleep experience throughout the night. Strong center support and reinforced structure add extra stability, especially for heavier mattresses, ensuring consistent comfort and reducing the risk of dips or uneven support across the surface. Easy assembly design makes setup simple and fast, so users can get their bed ready quickly without hassle, while the sturdy build ensures it stays secure and reliable with daily use. Check their bed frame page for their best prices: Bear Palisades Bed Frame Nolah Smart Adjustable Base – Best Adjustable Bed Frame Reddit users recommend the Nolah Smart Adjustable Base as the Best Adjustable Bed Frame due to its wall-glide design, Zero-G and anti-snore presets, and smooth head/foot lift that makes TV time, reading, reflux-friendly sleep, and sore-back recovery feel simple. Users love this adjustable bed frame because voice control with a built-in mic and a ready-to-use wireless remote let you save favorite angles fast, while head-and-foot massage, under-bed lighting, and USB charging add real convenience for winding down, scrolling, and charging devices. Specifications: Brand: Nolah Type: Adjustable Bed Base Height: 9 to 18 Inches Under-Bed Clearance: 6 to 15 Inches Sizes: Twin XL, Full, Queen, and King Colors: Upholstered Black Compatibility: Works with All Mattress Types Including Foam, Latex, and Hybrid Assembly: Tool-Free and Easy Setup Box Spring/Bunkie Board: Not Needed Max. Weight: Up to 750 lbs. Trial Period: No Trial Period Warranty: 10 Year Limited Warranty Shipping: Free Shipping Returns: Restocking Fee for Return Financing: Shop Pay, PayPal, and Affirm Score: 91.0% Pos. Sentiment Neutral Neg. Sentiment Overall Score 72% 19% 9% 91.0% Features: Wall-Glide tech slides the frame back as you raise the head, keeping your pillow and torso lined up with the nightstand, so water, meds, and your phone stay within reach. Zero-G preset targets a neutral, weightless feel that can spread your weight more evenly, ease pressure points, and support circulation when you’re dealing with back or hip aches. Head and foot elevation plus programmable memory lets you save your best angles for TV, reading, reflux, or snore help, then hit one button to repeat the same comfy setup without guesswork. Full-body massage uses separate head and foot motors, letting you pick a gentle vibration after workouts or long workdays; it’s a low-effort, quiet way to relax before sleep without extra devices. Built-in mic voice commands and the included wireless remote come ready to use. Is tool-free and can be assembled in about 15 minutes, making it friendly quick bedroom upgrades. Rated to support up to 750 lb total and includes adjustable legs for multiple heights, plus free shipping and a 10-year limited warranty, which adds long-term peace of mind. Check their bed frame page for their best prices: Nolah Smart Adjustable Base Brooklyn Bedding Foundation – Best Affordable Bed Frame Reddit users recommend the Brooklyn Bedding Foundation as the Best Affordable Bed Frame due to its sturdy center support and tool-free click-in assembly. It gives a traditional box-spring look while shipping compact, so it’s easier to move, set up, and support your mattress without overpaying. Users love this foundation because it stays smooth and squeak-free, even when two people shift around at night. The gray upholstery looks clean, optional legs can turn it into a simple standalone frame, and you get free shipping plus a solid warranty and return window. Specifications: Brand: Brooklyn Bedding Type: Foundation Height: 7.5 to 13.5 Inches Under-Bed Clearance: 0 to 6 Inches Sizes: Twin, Twin XL, Full, Queen, King, and California King Colors: Upholstered Gray Compatibility: Works with All Mattress Types Including Foam, Latex, and Hybrid Assembly: Tool-Free Fast-Loc System Box Spring/Bunkie Board: Not Needed Max. Weight: Up to 750 lbs. Trial Period: 30 Nights Warranty: 3 Year Limited Warranty Shipping: Free Shipping Returns: Free Financing: Shop Pay, PayPal, and Affirm Score: 89.5% Pos. Sentiment Neutral Neg. Sentiment Overall Score 70% 20% 10% 89.5% Features: Click-in, 3-step build means you’ll have it standing fast, with no tools at all. That’s huge for renters and busy folks, and it ships flat so it’s easier to get upstairs than a bulky box spring. That firm center rail adds the “no-sag” middle support many cheap frames skip, so your mattress stays level and your spine stays happier, especially for couples, plus-size, or heavier sleepers. Upholstered in neutral gray, it hides scuffs and looks cleaner than bare metal rails. It also gives a classic box-spring height without the squeaks and rattles that come with old wood slats. Universal fit works with most standard bed frames, so you can upgrade support without replacing your whole setup. Note it won’t attach to a headboard by itself, so plan on using a frame set. Optional 6-inch legs turn the foundation into a simple modern bed frame, great for guest rooms or small spaces. The flexibility to stay low now and add legs later if needed is noteworthy. It comes with free shipping, a 30-day return window, and warranty coverage add peace of mind at this price. It’s a straightforward, budget-friendly base that does the job quietly. Check their bed frame page for their best prices: Brooklyn Bedding Foundation Sleeping Duck Indestruct Bed – Best Durable Bed Frame Reddit users recommend the Sleeping Duck Indestruct Bed as the Best Durable Bed Frame due to its heavy S235 steel chassis and dual C-Spine beams that keep the mattress flat. It’s rated highly for build quality and stability, plus it comes with a 100-night trial. Users love this bed frame because it feels rock solid and stays quiet. The M39 bolt leg system is built to never squeak, and the six adjustable legs help level it on uneven floors. Optional taller legs add under-bed storage without losing support. Specifications: Brand: Sleeping Duck Type: Structural Steel Platform Bed Frame Height: 41.7 Inches (Includes Headboard) Under-Bed Clearance: 5.9 to 7.9 Inches Sizes: Twin, Twin XL, Full, Queen, King, and California King Colors: Timber (Oak, Ash, Walnut) or Fabric (Stone, Ivory, Charcoal) Compatibility: Works with All Mattress Types Including Foam, Latex, and Hybrid Assembly: Tool-Free and Easy Setup Box Spring/Bunkie Board: Not Needed Max. Weight: Up to 5,000 lbs. Trial Period: 100 Nights Warranty: Lifetime Warranty on Steel Core Shipping: Free Shipping Returns: Free Financing: Afterpay and Klarna Score: 87.0% Pos. Sentiment Neutral Neg. Sentiment Overall Score 66% 22% 12% 87.0% Features: Steel Core Support System uses 105–110 lb of structural-grade S235 steel with built-in Dual C-Spine beams, so your back gets targeted support and the frame resists sagging. Load bearing capacity is rated up to 5,000 lb, making it a true heavy-duty platform bed for larger bodies, couples, and kids who jump around, without the wobbles most metal frames get over time. M39 UltraSecure leg assemblies fasten with 39 mm bolts and are precision-engineered at tension points, so it’s guaranteed not to squeak, nice even with shifting weight. Uniform Distribution Air Support Panels use 18 mm birch veneer with a eucalyptus core to spread weight evenly and boost airflow, helping your mattress stay supported, drier, and a bit cooler. Pick standard 15 cm legs or tall 20 cm legs for under-bed storage; all six steel legs are adjustable for perfect leveling on uneven floors, keeping the mattress centered and the feel stable. Buying direct gets free delivery, dispatch in about 2 business days, and a 100-night satisfaction guarantee with full refund/return if it’s not for you. Check their bed frame page for their best prices: Sleeping Duck Indestruct Bed If you’ve made it this far down, let me know if you'd like me to scrape a similar category subreddit for bedroom things to make another post like this. I’m not an expert in home decor, but there’s not much to say about a rug or a lamp anyways… submitted by /u/CryptoJackson to r/AtHome_Soul [link] [comments]

Throw away because I think my friends know my account I, 17F, have a brother, 15M, who is autistic. He has a routine where he comes downstairs at night, watches TV when no one else is down, and falls asleep on the couch. Lately, my bed has become uncomfortable to the point of pain. For context, I have hyper flexibility/a connective tissue disorder and scoliosis, and as a result of my scoliosis, my shoulders are wonky and my left shoulder blade grinds against my ribs, but also causes generic pain and means that too much pressure on my back for an extended period of time causes quite severe pain, such as laying on my mattress. My mattress is very old, it came from my older sister who had it for 10+ years in somewhat mild-moderate use and I've now had it for 5+ years. The foam on top of the metal frame has worn down, and now I can feel the frame no matter where or how I lie, and I wake up in quite severe pain. I also spend a couple hours winding down before I sleep, and so, as of late, I have been coming down stairs to watch the tv to wind down myself so I spare myself from a couple of hours in the bed on the mattress, and it does actually help. However, my brother has now decided to find it a problem, and this has caused arguments and issues. He has also brought our parents into this, who naturally take his side because 'it's his routine, don't break it' even when my issues are brought up. He just decided to go up and yell at my parents when I told him preemptively that I was going to come downstairs, and clearly my parents for once took my side, as he came down and gave me a bunch of verbal abuse. I don't do this every night, just the nights I have the worst pain from several nights of no break, and I don't tell him he can't be down, I tell him he is more than welcome to sit on the love chair we also have in the living room with the only request that he either uses headphones or has low/no volume on his phone without headphones so I can actually focus and enjoy what I'm watching. However, he has decided that clearly that is the worst condition ever, and has his volume up full, which I know my parents will be able to hear. I feel bad, but I also know I need to put my health first because no one else in this house will. My parents disregard my bountiful issues and tell me I'm overdramatic even when they themselves have it and experienced it as they passed it down to me. AITA? Should I just suck it up? I do have a TV in my own room, but it's only accessible to watch on my bed, and he also has a computer in his room with access to everything the TV has mad the passwords, so it's not like he also doesn't have options. If I need to add more context or information, please do tell me what. Thanks in advance Things I think I should add -I'm in the UK, specifically Scotland. You Americans are very helpful, but Walmart doesn't exist here (unfortunately) -I don't have a job, no one wants to hire a 17 year old because most will quit to focus on uni. -the NHS is shockingly unhelpful. It can take years for a referral. It took them 2 months before I had to phone them to email my teachers a note for accommodations for exams (I get rest breaks and have to have a heated and warm room because my joints freeze up otherwise which affects writing) -my brother is definitely high functioning. He will live a relatively normal life with minimal limitations. Obviously he has symptoms and it does affect his day to day life, but he is 100% verbal and goes through school perfectly fine (my school has an autism unit specifically to assist people with a diagnosis, it has dimmed lights, no noise, is completely seperate, supplies to listen to music to self soothe that be was offered and declined) -something I forgot to mention, the reason he had this routine is that he is too tall for his bed, and can't sleep in it without pain (sound familiar?) However my parents in this case are trying to rectify it (here's where it diverts) and are searching for a new bed with a longer mattress actively submitted by /u/throwaway1847329 to r/AmItheAsshole [link] [comments]

Hello! My boyfriend and I are finally moving out and into our first apartment! We are looking for bed frames currently and I am in need of some assistance. We want king size, medium to dark brown wood, and drawers (ideally 2 on each side). We don’t really like the ones with the lights built into the headboard, but are not opposed to storage in the headboard. We are also on the second floor, so ideally material that isn’t noisy. We really liked this Tonstad bed frame at IKEA, but it is $899.99 starting off…. And I just feel like that is a lot for ikea. Like I feel like it is not going to be great quality. I would like to ideally spend under $700 if possible, but if the quality is better, I would pay the same. I just don’t know if this IKEA bed frame is built to last. Seen mixed reviews. Does anyone have any reviews on this particular bed from IKEA or IKEA bed frames in general? And/Or, do you have any recommendations on where to look at for bed frames that hits all our marks? I am apprehensive about WayFair and Amazon… Here’s the pictures of the Tonstad at IKEA that we really liked! submitted by /u/nnicoleex to r/BuyItForLife [link] [comments]