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RE:Shopping for New Clothes Can be Pure Torture
... dedicating half of one closet with a double rod for my clothes...
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Teacher Terry |
Apr 4, 2026 |
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RE:Project510's Work Space upgrades
... it. I also printed these closet rod dowl holder things. There for...
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project510 |
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RE:Best advice for moving/packing scrap room?
... condo had it in every closet. Our new house doesnt have.... Just a single shelf and rod. I went online to price...
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scrappyrabbit |
Mar 26, 2026 |
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Re: In The Mindset To Purge A Lot Of Clothes
... my mental health, and my closet is so soothing now. From ... from the back of the rod -- when you wear something, ... the hanger back on the rod the right way. This is ...
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Zoe |
Mar 26, 2026 |
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Fuji touring bike size 58ctt
... of your hangers in your closet backwards, so you have to... put it back on your closet rod normal. At the end of...
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Robvolz |
Mar 25, 2026 |
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RE:Schism [Worm/OC, Canon Divergence]
... the wall met the curtain rod. On a web so fine... once. She looked at the closet then, finally noticing where my... curiosity. We moved to the closet. I pulled the hoodie out ...
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Gromitgary109 |
Mar 24, 2026 |
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RE:Schism [Worm/OC, Canon Divergence]
... the wall met the curtain rod. On a web so fine... once. She looked at the closet then, finally noticing where my... curiosity. We moved to the closet. I pulled the hoodie out ...
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Gromitgary109 |
Mar 24, 2026 |
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RE:Just Spent Half An Hour Tearing Apart Every Closet In The House
Wife set ammo cans on top of my fly rod roll in my side of the spare closet one day because she didn’t like how it was organized. When I took $1300 out of joint savings to replace my Winston fly rod that got destroyed she got the point to not mess with my stuff.
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The_Like_Button |
Mar 21, 2026 |
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RE:Ranma 1/2 Fanfic Ideas, Recommendations and Discussion thread
... speculated that she is a closet lesbian or at least bi ... bad to Ranma. During the Rod Of Love Storyline all Akane ...
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Pinklestia101 |
Mar 20, 2026 |
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RE:First time doing a B2B cruise - Luggage tags for Cruise 2?
... the hanging clothes in the closet……so check on that. Enjoy! ... in the closet. The trolley the stateroom attendants use to move clothes has a rod for clothes...
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Northern Aurora |
Mar 18, 2026 |
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RE:Roth's Outlaw..... Too small to fit in???
I went to a Rod & Custom show in Rock ... think its buried in a closet here, someplace...
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gene-koning |
Mar 17, 2026 |
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RE:First Look at the Norwegian Luna – 13-night Transatlantic March 10-23, 2026 ***LIVE***
... complained about hangers in the closet making noise and having to ... to one side of the closet rod and no noise. The Luna ...
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BirdTravels |
Mar 16, 2026 |
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RE:1960 Pontiac Bonneville
... kit I have in the closet that I bought on a ... steering linkage to the tie rod as it was supposed to ...
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modelcarjr |
Mar 12, 2026 |
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Re: WELCOME TO THE MARCH EXERCISE THREAD AND MORE
... have to get a tension rod up and shower curtain in... night after they leave. My closet is in the master bath, ...
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Dazlin |
Mar 12, 2026 |
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RE:Robert Christgau's A+ albums list - discussion, new finds, etc.
... Dan: Pretzel Logic [1974, ABC] Rod Stewart: Every Picture Tells a... have the discs in a closet but haven't heard them yet. ...
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Uncle Miles |
Mar 12, 2026 |
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Re: The U.S. just experienced 300 tornadoes in April, second-most on record
... laughed and turned opening a closet. he reached in and handed... their superiors. they stood ram rod straight on the side. at... tunics. i felt my own rod rising at the sight before ...
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r.w.s. |
Mar 10, 2026 |
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RE:Silver Muse post refit and Medallion Suite tour video
Very similar to Medallion on the Nova. Except we had one long sink with 2 faucets and I think the shower was larger. Yes, we did have more furniture on the balcony. And the closet had more hanging space across the back. The drawers only came up half way leaving room for a rod on top.
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alithecat |
Mar 9, 2026 |
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RE:Drug induced erotic dreams
... young woman with a steel rod entering under her chin and... were pushing a pointy steel rod about two inches in diameter... in pain as the big rod entered but soon passed out... take an end of the rod and lift the lifeless body ... support an end of the rod on their shoulders and take ... my bed or in a closet and she was never caught. ...
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Denis VanDick |
Mar 8, 2026 |
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RE:FINANCIALLY FIT HOTTIES WEEKEND EDITION
.... Cleaned at Mom's again yesterday. Closet and dresser in the spare... of stuff and fix a closet rod while I work the desk...
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melissahupp |
Mar 8, 2026 |
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Re: March 2026 Bird's Nest
... heavy enough to rip the rod out of the drywall so... in the mirrored entrance hall closet doors (he doesn't mind the...
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Bird mama |
Mar 7, 2026 |
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Wood Closet خزانة خشبية
...: * Right Side: Two-door closet featuring a hanging rod for clothes and multiple...
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ymakdah |
Mar 6, 2026 |
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RE:Yard Sale Prices - What do you Charge
Quote: Originally Posted by 911 Rod No Goodwill stores in your ..., why not clean out my closet" Rather than spend all day...
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Tidybuoy |
Mar 5, 2026 |
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RE:How Come I Didn't Have Mayors Like This in High School?
Rod Porkmore said... (original post) She's not really doing it for me. Very brave of you to come out of the closet. Best wishes on your journey.
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Sports Mechanic |
Mar 5, 2026 |
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RE:From Valor to Laughter - multiple F/F
... wood panel, revealing a secret closet. Three perfectly hung suits awaited... placed her hand on the rod and guided it directly between ...
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lois333 |
Mar 4, 2026 |
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RE:Upgrading to Dual Vatrer Batteries and Victron Quattro in 27FB: Wiring, Mounts, and Lessons
... on the 'floor' of the closet. Here's a mockup of the ... the bottom of the clothes rod support down, drawn exactly to ... keep air moving through the closet: Thoughts? Anyone see any problems ...
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Geotrash |
Mar 4, 2026 |
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Over-engineering a closet rod support
Hey everyone, sharing the saga of over-engineering a closet rod support with you. Before I had a 3D printer, I made one out of PVC pipe—it was pretty ugly, but it got the job done. Now that I have the printer, I decided to create Version 2. First, I designed a geometry to cover the holes with a more rounded look. Then, I moved on to validation by calculating potential stresses, along with a topological analysis to see where I could reduce mass. This led me to the final model, which maintains the aesthetics while reducing the mass by 1 g. For comparison, here is the weight of the supports in order: ~ 4 g -> 1.5 g -> 3 g I'll appreciate it if you have any feedback on this project. submitted by /u/FernandoAMC to r/functionalprint [link] [comments]
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FernandoAMC |
Mar 29, 2026 |
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Installing 80” closet rod, no shelf to install center support bracket. What to do?
Rental closet left like this. I want to install one rod up high, higher than the cleat. The other rod lower down. Drill both rods directly into wood stud in the wall. However there are no shelves to attach a support bracket for the middle. I think without a support bracket the rods will definitely give out. Any advice from the experienced folks here? submitted by /u/LetsMettaWorldPeace to r/handyman [link] [comments]
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LetsMettaWorldPeace |
Mar 21, 2026 |
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Closet design/er recommendation? My elderly parents (between Concord-Lebanon) have a 6'x8' walk-in closet with those builder-grade wire shelves (no rods, bursting at the seams). Finally ready to upgrade. California Closets offers free consultation but seem aggressive/exorbitant. Not looking for DIY.
They need help with actual design because they don't know what they need. They have a handyman but he's a wonderful combination or slow, expensive, mid quality work, and doesn't have ideas. I contacted California Closets for them and immediately a woman is saying she'll drive nearly 2 hours from Boston for the "free consult." It seemed a little aggressive. We're going to do a virtual consult this weekend, but CC is probably out of their league. If absolutely necessary--if 6x8 feet is too small to design--they may consider extending the closet 1-2 feet into the overly large BR. They don't want to do that. But if so, this could potentially be more than closet design, but that's the critical part. They want nice but it's a small project and not interested in ultra-deluxe. Thanks in advance. submitted by /u/swisssf to r/newhampshire [link] [comments]
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swisssf |
Mar 20, 2026 |
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Closet clothing rod and shelf coming off wall. Recommendations?
Closet clothing rod and shelf in master bedroom started sagging and detached. I ordered some shelf brackets and wanted to see if this would help. Only thing that goes on shelf above is some of my wives handbags and shoes, nothing super heavy. Will these brackets help support the shelf or is there something else I should do? submitted by /u/Reanimated_Remnants to r/handyman [link] [comments]
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Reanimated_Remnants |
Mar 10, 2026 |
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What to do with unfinished wood closet rods?
Bought a new home recently and realized that the rods in the closets are made of unfinished wood. Heard I could stain and seal them, but I’m a complete noob and unsure if that’s the right move. Just want to protect the wood for now, any recommendations? submitted by /u/Deathfromwere to r/woodworking [link] [comments]
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Deathfromwere |
Mar 9, 2026 |
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Coaxed into mascot horror setting
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NekkidZilla |
Feb 4, 2026 |
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What is this wooden rack with three sections in my friend's closet? The floor and wall parts line up and are fixed and not adjustable, though the rod is removable.
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chuckwallaAVL |
Nov 26, 2025 |
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Is the closet the new rod?
It's not because sadly it's not permanent but it did help me level up my witch up to level 3 in just one day. As you can see the wolves and cultist cannot detect you. I have no fire as well if you guys noticed. The deer, owl or ram never attacked me inside. So I would suggest using this stragegy to level up your class before they fixed this like they did to the lighting rod. submitted by /u/Heahell to r/99nightsintheforest [link] [comments]
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Heahell |
Oct 28, 2025 |
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FINAL UPDATE: Living in a hotel storage room for free!
Oh boy oh boy, it's been a minute! In the past two weeks or so, I've made some decent progress on the room. The changes are as follows: MINI FRIDGEEEEEE (stocked, I swear I'm not 5 years old 💀) Posters! TEXAS FLAG RAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH Some drawings I hung up on the wall Whiteboard (I wrote one of my favorite quotes on there, guess whose quote it is!) Wall Shelves Mini Plant Some adhesive wall hooks which I used for my hats, a jacket, and a bag My figurine collection (which I brought from my old apartment in Mexico) Alexa device (also from my old apartment) Wall outlet extender/shelf/night light Shoe Rack Tension Rod for hanging clothes in my "closet" area Various other small decor pieces Cleaned up my AC unit Oop! Can't forget the plushie my girlfriend gave when I visited! :D SORRY for taking a while to update on my situation, I got caught up with my life and things of that sort. I had been doing lots of thinking and contemplating. I've managed to come to some conclusions. I have decided to stop smoking entirely. I knew I couldn't smoke forever, so why not stop now? I have already started to feel the effects, so I want to take care of it while I still can. To top that off, I am also stopping alcohol and watching adult content. I also realized I have been doing jack crap exercise wise, which is why I started going back to Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. There is a school real close by and the price was not bad, so I joined up recently and have been attending classes. It had been about 3 years since I trained (basically), but I'm so glad I am getting back into it. Basically, I just want to be a better man. Someone I can be proud of. I also want to make something of myself. But at times I get so lost in the whirlpool of this world, I just don't know which way to go. But there is this one thing that keeps calling me back... don't I had messed around with the idea of making video games for a while, ever since I was in high school. I even attended college for a short period of time for video game programming. But school just never sat right in my stomach, and I always seemed to just give up on the idea. What I was doing for a short lived amount of time was YouTube vlogs and stuff, but I've come to find I dont really like it. I would much rather write a book of my life (which I will do at some point), or talk on my own blog style podcast (currently doing this), than record every second of my life. But what if I combined the two ideas into the best of both worlds? I could start recording my journey to becoming a video game programmer/developer and upload the videos to YouTube. Then, when my games get released I already have a fanbase ready to play them. This way, things are less intrusive into my life, I would just let my reddit profile, podcast, and future book take care of all my personal life story details. Anywho, GIANORMOUS THANK YOU TO EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU!!! I really appreciate all the love, support, and advice you guys have been giving, it goes to a special place in my heart. To have built a community of sorts is astonishing, and I still can't believe what has happened. I truly do hope my journey has served as something others can use as hope for themselves. I have been through hell and back so many times, and I just want to say, It does get better. There is always a light at the end of the tunnel. Use that light to guide your next step and then the next. Never stop moving, I don't care if you are moving just a little, JUST DON'T STOP. Imagine the worst thing you have ever experienced. Now tell me, did you get through it? Did you die? Did the world explode? Now, give me one reason as to why you can't keep pushing forward, given the fact that the worst thing to ever happen to you hasn't stopped you yet... This is my last post on this subreddit. I think the room has come along very nicely and I don't see much more that it really needs or requires. HOWEVER, I will still be posting to reddit to update about my life and whatnot. Thanks for tuning in! submitted by /u/johndoeisahumanbeing to r/malelivingspace [link] [comments]
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johndoeisahumanbeing |
Aug 17, 2025 |
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Printed a new closet rod bracket instead of buying one
I measured the undamaged part with a caliper and 3D printed a replacement. submitted by /u/C4SC4DO to r/functionalprint [link] [comments]
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C4SC4DO |
Jul 13, 2025 |
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I wanted to shout out a small company called Groover enterprises, they make hardware to hang a closet rod on a 45° ceiling. My wife and I added two rods to this useless space in our bedroom and it was totally worth it
It's a simple piece of hardware but we couldn't find anything else that worked for this. I'm not connected to the company in any way, just thought this was neat and could help some others submitted by /u/HDePriest to r/centuryhomes [link] [comments]
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HDePriest |
Jun 23, 2025 |
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What is this small nook in my closet? About 1.5 feet wide and 3 feet tall. As deep as the studs. Metal enclosure with metal rods. House was built in 1938.
There is a random nook in my closet wall. About 1.5 feet wide and 3 feet tall. As deep as the studs. Metal enclosure with metal rods. House was built in 1938, but I have only owned since 2020 and have no idea if this is original. Thanks in advance! submitted by /u/cheeky_nugget to r/whatisthisthing [link] [comments]
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cheeky_nugget |
Dec 31, 2024 |
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I made a ceiling-mounted closet rod holder for drying clothes
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Dec 9, 2024 |
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Planning to ghost him after finding out he’s cheating on me (Final Update)
I am NOT The OOP is u/RAkindoflosthere Planning to ghost him after finding out he’s cheating on me Originally posted to r/Infidelity r/confessions r/rant r/self Previous BoRU TRIGGER WARNING: infidelity, property damage, emotional manipulation, mentions of sexual assault, stalking, harassment Planning to ghost him after finding out he’s cheating on me March 4, 2022 Found out my boyfriend was cheating a few weeks ago. Been spiraling since. Literally only running off of vengeance and pure disgust. I got this weird gut feeling and checked his phone while he was asleep. Those 20 minutes locked in the bathroom felt like years, and the shame keeps me from talking to anyone about it. I moved across the country to be with him, so I’m all alone. No friends or family here. He woke me up the next morning with kisses and breakfast and has been doing so a lot, lately. Probably the guilt. He even bought me flowers for the first time ever. After me hinting at wanting them for years. He thought my quiet crying was out of happiness. He even brought up buying a house for us, something with enough space for potential future children. I’m still going through the motions. Making his breakfast and protein shake everyday, packing his lunch, making sure dinner is almost ready when he comes home from the gym. What makes me the angriest is that I really, genuinely thought he wouldn’t do something like this. He watched his father cheat on his mother and father children out of their marriage, all while she struggled with infertility her entire life (my partner isn’t her biological son) and never had her own. She dedicated her life to the two of them and passed away of ovarian cancer shortly before we met. Sometimes I think about whether she regretted staying with her husband or not. We have a small shrine in her honor and something makes me look at and expect guidance. I love the man she raised and hate the one her husband did. But they’re both him, and he’s a grown ass man more than capable of self control, so I decided to walk away. Next week my car will be picked up and shipped back home, and I got first class tickets for me and my dog on his dime. He’ll come back home from work and everything I brought will be gone, along with me. The only thing I think I might regret is not somehow being able to see his reaction when he walks through the door and realizes what’s going, lol. RELEVANT COMMENTS Future_Ad8467 I'm sorry you're going through this. It's the hardest thing to let go. As hopeless as it can feel sometimes, it does get better. Take your time in the beginning, but I think it's therapeutic to confront him, eventually. Ghosting doesn't provide closure for you. In my experience, confronting the problem, head on, gave me a sense of closure. I try to take everything that happens as a life lesson. Good luck with everything OOP I personally don’t believe in closure. I got all that I needed when I realized he was untrustworthy ~ Odd_One_9972 Do you have access to his phone/computer? Install a keylogger, then you can not only see what he's saying to you, but to the other APs as well. I put a keylogger on my ex's phone/computer when I caught him cheating. He was such a dumbass, and seeing the shit he was saying, the lies he was spewing, made me grateful I dropped his ass. OOP I do, but I don’t think it would make a difference for me. His entire “relationships” with the APs was lies. Everything from his name, age, college degree, occupation, city, height, and dick size. He even told one he was married and his wife was pregnant with twins. I almost had a heart attack thinking I was an AP too and he had a family out there somewhere. ~ Suspicious_Bear_6634 If he can go after you, you should probably leave a note or a sign that you're leaving him because of his cheating. Seeing that you up and left without a known reason (from his pov) might push him to follow you home. If he knows the reason and knows that he has no chance in hell in getting you back, it might delay a possible confrontation. OOP you’re right. I’ve been considering just leaving a sticky note with a list of all the different girls names and the apartment key beside it. Simple and effective Suspicious_Bear_6634 Fuck, multiple girls?? Draw a little middle finger beside them while you're at it. And make sure there are little to no supplies (food, toiletries, cleaning stuff) left and leave the house dirty so that he can appreciate how much you did for the asshole. OOP 7 of them to be precise. I’ll have to rush and get out within a certain time frame but I might just settle for shrimp in the curtain rods. He’s really sensitive to smells lol I lied to my boyfriend everyday and saved the money he gave me March 4, 2022 Almost every day my boyfriend sends me money for lunch, gas, something. I thought he was just really kind. Turns out he was cheating and giving me $$ made him feel less guilty, as though he didn’t beg me to move across the country with him where I know no one. Once I found out I wanted to immediately confront him but was scared of the outcome since the apartment was only in his name and again, I know no one here. Now I just save every dime of what he sends to be able to pay for the $3000 moving fees to go back home without hurting my own pocket too much. Breaking my heart, destroying my ability to trust & scaring me off from men I can handle, but messing with my finances? Nah. never. The transport company is coming next wednesday to take my car, and my plane tickets for me and my dog have been bought. Gonna keep up my happy act and do the usual cooking of dinner and scrubbing his back and poof on Wednesday like I never knew him. Its the only form of revenge I could do that wouldnt haunt me. Good riddance! Edit: A few asked for details. There’s 7+ other women, everything he told them was a lie. Name, age, height, city, occupation. All of it. The only common denominator was that he bought us all the exact same lingerie set for his birthday in January. 🙃 And specifically requested I hang it up in our closet where it’s viewable. Forgiveness is not on the table. He’ll be surprised, but I doubt he’ll be hurt. RELEVANT COMMENTS purejones I look forward to it, how did you find out if it’s not too personal? OOP Woke up randomly in the middle of the night and “he’s up to no good” was all I could think about. I sleep like a literal baby and never, ever wake up like that. Took his phone and locked myself in the bathroom while he was asleep and found it all. Friendship break ups are so much worse than relationship breakups March 5, 2022 I’ll be single again pretty soon and I’m looking forward to it but also not. Like yay! I finally can cook when/how I want to and don’t have to split chores and can do everything on my own my way. But thats the only good part. I’ve been on my own since I was 16 and I’ve turned out (mostly) fine, I have a paid off house and car, cute dog, debt free, and I’m finishing up my masters degree at 25. It could be worse. But I’m lonely. I’m not on speaking terms with my family and had a huge fall out with my lifelong friends a couple years ago. I haven’t tried making friends since bc part of me hopes one day I can find a way to fix that friendship. Plus I’m moving around so much that making friends is pointless. I’m not good at long distance anything. I never prided myself on romantic relationships- sure, they’re cool, but a loving group of women was always where I found the most peace and understanding and that’s what I want the most. I guess I’m just going through things right now and I really wish I had people I trust to talk to. Friend breakups hurt the most. RELEVANT COMMENTS OOP when asked how she had a house at a young age OOP Neither. I lived with my friends and their parents until college started. Already had a scholarship. Just worked 3 jobs until I was 22 and lived frugally. ~ Dufusbroth The maths for time and money aren’t working out on this end but there is also a lot of variable/info that is missing. It took my 7 years to payoff my house and I was contributing to it like it was an emergency. Qualifying for a home and paying it off in that amount of time without help seems nearly impossible. I’m so curious about the formula here! I need a lesson in finance from OP. When I broke it down on it just doesn’t seem possible except from a financial windfall counting even a frugal cost of living along with an accounting for taxes paid, etc… and that did not include the cost for transportation, medical, groceries, blah blah blah OOP The house was a 70k foreclosure and is 4bed/4bath. I was a golf caddy, gentlemen’s club bartender and occasional hostess, and notary signing agent. Along with selling stationary items on etsy. Also my scholarships paid for quite a bit of my home in general- they never specified what kind of housing for them, just housing. I lived in 1 room and rented out the other 3. Dufusbroth That’s the info I was looking for- thanks you! That is very smart. Good going! Good luck with your situation- so interested how he reacts to your departure My current relationship has made me realize the thin line between love and hate. March 9, 2022 I found out my boyfriend of almost 4 years was cheating. We’ve lived together for 2 years and I’m leaving him tomorrow. He just doesn’t know yet. And won’t until after I’m gone. As mad as I am, as betrayed as I feel, I still love him. All I really want is to wake up tomorrow and this all be a nightmare. I don’t enjoy this slice of reality.. that the person I loved the most has looked me in my eye and lied to me for who knows how long. and every time I do it I’m left wondering how many times he did it. How many times did he wine, dine, and fuck other women and come home to me? How many times have I been the stupid girlfriend who trusted her boyfriend blindly? How many times have I been some woman’s laughing stock? Did he fuck us back to back? Did his friends know? Did they look me in my fucking eye and really not say anything? Did he love them? How many times did he tell me he loved me and meant it? When did he stop meaning it? Did he ever even mean it the first time? I’m not a master manipulator. Unlike him. I’m just composed because I’ve never had any other choice. Emotions got you beat or worse when it came to my parents and I’m more than aware I have a shitload of trauma to unpack but I can’t. Not in the self pity, woe is me, its too hard, but no. I probably just can’t. Therapists here are wildly westernized and once I start with the short list they’ll probably just charge me double. Maybe triple. And the last time I tried he kept trying to convince me I enjoyed my own assault. Maybe I got cheated on because I’m emotionally inept. My intimacy levels are quite limited. The few times he asked about my childhood I either a) brushed him off or b) told him one thing I thought wasn’t that bad and he was so shocked I held out on the actually bad parts. And that’s where the hate comes in. He knows what it’s like to grow up feeling unwanted. He knows what it’s like to lose your parents young. He knows what it’s like to feel like your entire life has been horrible event after horrible event. But he still did this to me and I don’t get how he could. I could never cheat on anyone, let alone someone who’s shared such personal things with me. I haven’t so much as made eye contact with another man since we met… other people were just other people and we were us. I don’t know. I just don’t see being able to date again. I had deep seeded trust issues long before this and growing old by myself with 30 cats genuinely sounds nice. Hell, great even. At least I won’t always be wondering when the betrayal will come. (Update) Leaving partner of 4 yrs after finding out he was cheating March 10, 2022 Transport company came and picked up my car. Sold whatever big furniture I brought for low prices. Took his dog to the park and played with him a bit, got him a dog cupcake and took him back to the apartment. Movers started coming for the rest of my stuff and I hadn’t prepared for our property manager thinking we were both moving out and we hadn’t given them the required vacancy notice. She came to talk to me right as my uber was coming and I told her what was going. Unfortunately they had already called him bc only his name on the lease. He’s called and texted me a few times but I haven’t replied. His work day won’t be over for a couple of more hours. I left my apartment keys, and anything he’s ever bought for me that I hadn’t sold already. Didn’t feel like taking that stuff with me. While packing I remembered we bought a pet camera that shoots treats on the entertainment center and turned it back on. I promised myself I’ll disconnect from it by midnight tomorrow but I have my own predictions about how he’ll react and I just gotta know for sure. Yeah, it’s fucked up. Sue me lol I actually forgot to leave a note and was running out of time before my uber came and just left the lingerie set he was so obsessed with on the bed. He’ll figure it out eventually. Or not. I’m at the airport now with my dog and just waiting on my flight. I wish I could say that I feel free but I don’t. Just tired. Thank you all for the well wishes and thank you more to all of the other women who reached out with similar stories. I think I might’ve caved and stayed if you all hadn’t. RELEVANT COMMENTS Suspicious_Bear_6634 What did he say on the text when they informed him that things were being moved out? *OOP Just that he got a call from property management and asked if I ordered something big and if anything was going on. Pet Cam Update March 14, 2022 Update: I turned it on for about ten minutes after I got back to my home and unpacked. He wasn’t there, but everything was a mess. There was a hole in the wall, furniture flipped over, papers everywhere, the kitchen looked like a tornado went through it. I deleted all of my other social media accounts but didn’t block his number. The first two days he called me over 200 times. Lots of novel ass text messages and him admitting to some shit I didn’t even know about yet. Quite a few calls from his dad and friends too. I didn’t reply to any of them LAST UPDATE FOUND Thanks to u/karmacatcry for finding this update Last Update Oct 17, 2022 Even though I have seen messages asking about an update I didnt think anyone actually wanted one. Life just came full circle and I saw my posts on my tiktok “for you (literally) page”. Just a few things- I mentioned in a comment that I think his dad was the reason his mom passed: Not in the straight up k!ller way, but the “I cheated so much and gave my wife an STD that lead to her getting HPV, and since I didnt allow her to get medical treatment she ended up infertile with cervical cancer** (I misspoke and said ovarian) and died” way. Of course no one will ever know that for sure but I doubt it helped any. My ex had always claimed he did not respect his father (he is their bio nephew, not son) as a man due to it. When I found out he was cheating forgiving him was never an option because I have no interest in following in his moms footsteps. I did not have any signs, besides that a few months in he locked down his social media bc he didnt want to get passed up on a promotion due to politics. I did ghost everyone we mutually knew for a month or two until I figured out who I could and couldn’t trust to not just tell him my new socials/phone number/address. I never blocked his number, but I never replied to any texts or calls. They eventually died out 2 or so months later. He ended up finding out anyway and I moved again, out of state this time. At the last place he showed up at 7am and I saw him on my ring door bell looking around and showing my photo to people. One of my dumbass neighbors confirmed I lived there, down to my dogs name, and he kept coming every day after that. I kept finder letters addressed to me that were obviously from him. They said a lot of things I didn’t know, but nothing that could ever make me move past what he did. I moved before I ever saw him face to face. A few of his friends reached out after my second move telling me about some erratic behavior of his going on but I ignored them too. Not my man not my problem. I’ve been asked on some dates but no thanks. I’m too fragile and trusting for the fucked up morals some of these men have. There’s nothing about being in a relationship I miss. I know I’m probably supposed to say that I hope he gets the help he needs and finds happiness but I don’t. I’ll have life long trauma from what he did so at the least he can have life long regrets. Most importantly, I found a great group of women that feel like family, and always are there for me. I’m happier than I’ve been in years! I’m just thankful I got out before I got pregnant or married and was tied to him forever. I forget he exists most days now, and I didnt even think it was possible. I hope this suffices! Thank you Redditors 💗 Edit: I did get tested again and did test positive for Trich, which I did not know existed beforehand. All cleared up now though. I never did reach out to the other women, mostly because they used our relationship to bond. They all knew he had a girlfriend and some he lied and said we were married. Three of the other women were in committed relationships as well, so whoever social media I could find I did message their boyfriends/husbands. THIS IS A REPOST SUB - I AM NOT THE OOP DO NOT CONTACT THE OOP's OR COMMENT ON LINKED POSTS, REMEMBER - RULE 7 submitted by /u/Direct-Caterpillar77 to r/BestofRedditorUpdates [link] [comments]
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Metal rods holding together closet shelves broke how do i fix it
I rent my apartment and I didn’t fully check my apartment (stupid I know) but as I was hanging up my clothes I noticed the bars connecting to the clothing shelf were broken and it’s like 4 days past when I moved in so I know they’ll try and blame me for it. How do I fix this? submitted by /u/UkuleleJo2173 to r/HomeMaintenance [link] [comments]
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How to fix this sagging shelf closet/rod?
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Closet rod mount for angled wall
My closet is under stairs so I needed a good way to mount the closet rod to the angled wall. submitted by /u/HipsterOptimized to r/functionalprint [link] [comments]
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Swinging rods on inside of closet door. House built in mid-40s, possibly original door
I just bought this house, which was likely a fix-and-flip job. The door may be original to the house, it had a nice crystal knob. Also kind of looks like these were installed upside down. submitted by /u/Higuxish to r/whatisthisthing [link] [comments]
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Designed this closet rod/shelf support that allows clothes hangers to slide over
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Building a small custom closet. Was thinking double closet rods like the picture attached to maximize space. Curious if the average person would prefer this or would be annoyed they cannot hang longer garments.
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I'm going to be a dad! Still needs a finish and some closet rods in the chimney, but I hope my daughter is as proud of it as I am.
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“Designed the new closet rod bracket, boss”
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