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I live in a small apartment complex with those ground floor patios that are technically private but very visible from the courtyard. Mine is tiny, just two chairs, a plant shelf, and one storage bench where I keep gardening stuff, a blanket, and my shoes if they are muddy. Since spring started, my next door neighbor has been having people over a lot more. Fine. Not my business. What became my business was that her guests kept ending up on my patio because "there was more room," and specifically on my storage bench. At first I thought maybe it was a one time thing, but it kept happening. I would come home and find half empty cans on my little table, my bench scooted three feet over, and once my cushion on the ground because somebody had apparently decided it looked better there. I asked her twice to stop using my patio furniture. She laughed and said I was being kind of intense because it is "all basically one shared outdoor area visually." Last weekend I came home and there were three people sitting on my bench while she was inside grabbing drinks. One of them actually apologized and said she told them it was fine. So the next morning I bought a simple outdoor lock for the bench lid and looped it through the frame so it cannot be moved without undoing it. It looks a little ridiculous, I know. Now she is offended because she says I made the courtyard look "hostile" and embarrassed her in front of company. A couple neighbors think I could have handled it less pettily, but I honestly got tired of my patio turning into overflow seating for peolpe I do not know. AITJ? submitted by /u/Arrakis_Jellybean to r/AmITheJerk [link] [comments]

Of course, you can have both, but if there was one I prefer it is the walk a mile in other shoes, since it makes the omnitrix feel more like a product of fun scientific wonder and something i could realistic see and scientist making that could be twisted to be a weapon but wasn't intended to be one, rather than the DNA Storage reason where it feels weird, since i think it is a bit gross to have someone have to go do "that" for a species submitted by /u/Important-Extension6 to r/Ben10 [link] [comments]

Easy cheap storage that fits most of your pedals (sorry wahs and multi fx), also great for accessories like cables and manuals submitted by /u/keefka to r/guitarpedals [link] [comments]

These have been in my storage for years and have moved 6 cities. Haven't worn these in years and need to wear them tomorrow. Didn't know leather shoes could disintegrate like that! 🤣 submitted by /u/Environmental_Bus507 to r/mildlyinfuriating [link] [comments]

I am not The OOP, OOP is u/Appropriate_Elk_2603 AITAH for telling my brother he cannot stay with me over Christmas if he brings his prosthetic leg? Originally posted to r/AITAH Thanks to u/Lynavi u/stealmymemesitsOk u/soayherder u/queenlegolas & u/Choice-Evidence1983 for letting me know this updated BoRU 1 TRIGGER WARNING: theft, manipulation, ableism Original Post Dec 24, 2023 My younger brother has a prosthetic leg. I think it is creepy AF and I have no idea where he got it. I'm reasonably certain that it is something I would rather not know. To be clear here my brother has two perfectly healthy legs still attached to his body. He just has this thing he takes with him everywhere. I don't know why, I don't want to know. Before you ask yeah it is probably a mental health thing. He wanted to stay with me rather than our parents while he is home for the holidays. I said he was welcome to stay so long as he doesn't bring that thing into my house. He said it wasn't a big deal and that he would leave it in his luggage. I agreed on the condition that if I saw it outside of his luggage in my home then I had the right to destroy it. He backtracked on staying with me and is at our parents house. Where he is miserable. They still treat him like a little boy instead of a guy who is almost 30. He called me again after supper and asked to please stay with me. I said he could so long as we, together, took his thing and put it into a storage unit until he leaves. I get the key. He won't do it. He says that I'm being a bitch for not letting him stay with me. I think he needs to get therapy or medication. Or both. Or a girlfriend. Boyfriend. Dog. Cat. Hamster. Something. Just not a GD prosthetic leg. RELEVANT COMMENTS/TOP COMMENTS danuhorus I'm a prosthetist and I have to ask: What does this leg even look like? Below knee or above knee? Does it just have the pylon bare, or is there a foam covering so that it sorta looks like a leg? Is there a foot shell on it, or is the foot component just sorta... hanging out? The reason I'm asking is because A) prosthetic anything is mindboggingly expensive, and B) you can't just 'have' a prosthetic leg if you have two perfectly healthy legs. You literally need a stump to make one that's specifically yours. Did your brother receive it from someone? Did he steal it????? And just to be sure, it's an actual prosthesis and not a leg brace of some kind? I've had patients and their families make that mistake before. OOP It looks like a carbon fiber cup with a steel knee and lower leg and foot. danuhorus Oh jesus. AK prostheses are NOT cheap, that's an entire car right there. I would actually grill your bro on where he got it, because it is 100% NOT his. If he stole it, he's looking at felony/grand theft charges. If he bought it, check his and your parents financials because again: these things are insanely expensive and he doesn't sound like the brightest bulb. MAKE SURE HE DOES NOT TRY TO SELL THE PROSTHESIS OR ANY OF ITS COMPONENTS. I get that they can be hard to get for the people who need them the most, but if the components are damaged in any way, they can lead to gnarly injuries for when they inevitably fail. If you truly do want to get rid of it, there are organizations out there that will take old prostheses and refurbish them. ~ ApollymisDIL An emotional support prosthetic leg, that's a new one Fantastic_Warning389 Her brother won it in a raffle, and it came all the way from France in a crate marked "fragile." The leg is actually a lamp, and it wears a black fishnet stocking, a black high heel shoe, and a fringed lamp shade. ~ Kris1986 I know this is extremely distressing for you but I’m laughing so hard. At first I was like is this A H serious? She won’t let her brother bring his leg? Like his whole ass leg he needs to walk because he literally lost a leg in some horrible accident but then you clarified both his healthy legs are still attached and I lost it. NTA but you and I are NOT the same. I would NEED to know. All of it. Where did you get it? Why do you have it? What do you do with it? Did you steal it off a bum or something? Then I would stare at him uncomfortably until he broke and told it all to me. I may later regret my decision but I don’t often think that far into the future when something catches my attention AdventurousRevolt You and I are the same! Follow up questions- Does the person who it belonged to know you have it? Did they die? have you named the leg yet?! What’s their name? What’s their pronouns???! Do you sleep and cuddle with it? Does it bruise you since it’s not soft or cuddly. Are you in a relationship with a leg? Do you take the leg on dates? Do you buy them Xmas presents? DO THEY HAVE A FAVORITE TYPE OF SOCK I NEED TO KNOW So many many manyyyyyy questions. mecha_face What is the leg's LIFE STORY ~ 4me2knowit You’re pulling my leg? Right? Razzmatazz-88 No, it's the left one. ~ TwistedElegance69 Does the leg have aspirations of being a sexy lamp when it grows up? UPDATE on my brother and "his" prosthetic leg. Jan 4, 2024 I didn't realize how much attention this was going to get. Enough that someone informed the woman my brother stole it from, and she was able to figure out what happened. She called the cops and he got arrested. I guess he was sort of trying to do the thing where he could be the hero that tracked down her leg. Please don't ask me what the fuck was going through his head. The leg was expensive enough that he is facing real criminal charges. That's all. Sorry there is not more to tell. TOP COMMENTS gold-magikarp I remember reading this originally and wondering why the hell he needed to take that leg around everywhere with him. I feel like he would have returned it way sooner if he wanted to "play the hero"... Viperbunny He quite literally wanted her to come crawling to him. He wanted her to feel as vulnerable as possible so that she would need him. I was medically abused by my mom. Sadly, this kind of behavior isn't new to me. As I have gone no contact and been through therapy, it all becomes more clear. My mom has an untreated personality disorder. They want you to believe that they are the only ones who care and the only ones to be able to take care of said person. They want them to be as helpless as possible. Sounds like he picked the wrong lady to try that crap on! ~ Potential_Speech_703 That's wild.. I wonder why he wanted to bring it with him though. Is he obsessed with the woman and has to carry the leg with him all the time? I mean stealing it is one thing but why carry it around all the time?! If he tried to be a hero he could have hid it. Sounds more like a weird obsession..? I don't think he wanted to give it back to be the hero. I've so many questions. But I'm glad the woman will get her leg back. This is something I never thought I would ever say.. ~ SassyPieHole03 This is the most bizarre update I ever read. And I'm totally here for it! glasswindbreaker I didn't think it could get more bizarre than the original post but here we are ~ OriginalDogeStar At least with all that evidence, he doesn't have a leg to stand on...... I am going to show myself out Hat, coat, door... curlytoesgoblin Sounds like he really stepped in it NEW UPDATE Update 2: On why I didn't let my brother stay with me if he brought his prosthetic leg. Nov 25, 2025 So it's finally over. My brother had to go to court after being charged with several crimes the most serious being felony theft. I will just put the bullet points of results. Found guilty because he was too stupid to take a plea deal. Had to serve some time incarcerated and now has parole. Managed to avoid being charged with a seggs crime. My parents paid to have the leg reconditioned or whatever it's called. A professional prosthetic devices mechanic got it back in working condition. The woman got her leg back as well as some money in restitution. He is not welcome at my home with or without any prosthetics for the foreseeable future. The woman has a restraining order against him indefinitely. That's all there is to tell. Hope this answers everyone's questions. Thanks for still caring about this weird experience in my life. BEST COMMENT dawgpoundma Ok yall this is going to sound crazy but a buddy of mine was playing in the surf about waist deep at the beach. All of a sudden he screams like a little girl. Turns out a leg hit him in the chest. He freaked thinking it was a body nope just a prosthetic leg. He realizes what is it when his brain turns back on and pulls it out of the surf to the beach. Of course his son thought it was cool as heck and wanted to keep it! Now thankfully for him he used his brain and sent his son down to grab a lifeguard and the deputy that was on beach patrol. He did ask the deputy if they found the owner if they would let him know and he gave them his number. Couple of days later he got a call a young lady had been surfing a couple of miles further up the beach. She had a bad wipe out and clip that held the leg broke and she lost the leg. Apparently this wasn’t a normal prosthetic it was designed for heavy athletic and water use. She thought it was gone for good and was very expensive as this wasn’t something insurance paid for. She was thrilled to have it back and it was being refurbished after being submerged in salt water for almost 48 hours. She and her family took my friend and his family out to dinner as a reward for finding it. They have continued to stay in touch and she is amazing young lady. She lost the leg due to cancerous tumor. Now nothing slows her down, she does everything an able bodied person can do only thing is they added another clip that ties with 10ft bungee cord to her surfboard in case it was to come off again it would remain attached to surfboard. THIS IS A REPOST SUB - I AM NOT THE OOP DO NOT CONTACT THE OOP's OR COMMENT ON LINKED POSTS, REMEMBER - RULE 7 submitted by /u/Direct-Caterpillar77 to r/BestofRedditorUpdates [link] [comments]

I am so sick of this wall in my house. We have no coat closet or mudroom or garage. Our main living area is open concept. Im thinking some kind of bench seating with hooks above it but im not sure. Any ideas?! submitted by /u/anonuser278 to r/interiordecorating [link] [comments]

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I bought these boots new in 2015 and only really wore them maybe a dozen times over the years (they are high tops). I recently moved to Europe and my shipment arrived today unscathed. However, when I pulled these boots out of the box, I noticed the backs had crumbled. $140 new and I guess they assumed they would have worn through their lifespan by now. submitted by /u/Degoro to r/Wellthatsucks [link] [comments]

Welcome to my new apartment! I have been living with roommates the past 7 years and finally have moved into a studio apartment on my own. I’ve spent the 2 weeks since move-in day on a total organizing and rearranging bender; not to mention assembling hundreds of little pieces together for my cabinets and dressers. I definitely had to be smart with storage solutions and use this opportunity to de-clutter and purge unnecessary belongings. One thing I could not give up was my beloved queen-size mattress—my most prized possession! The space still feels quite open and there was a perfect spot for this modular loveseat to squeeze in. Next step will be hanging some art on the walls and setting up some kind of console area/hall tree in the entry way to toss my keys, shoes, and jacket when I walk in the door. I’m very happy with my little space and especially with how the color schemes played together—coordinated but not too matchy-matchy to the point of boredom. submitted by /u/messykatie to r/femalelivingspace [link] [comments]

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I am NOT OOP, OOP is u/amethystpeony Originally posted to r/JustNoSO & r/relationship_advice My husband won't speak to me after finding out I'm pregnant. Trigger Warnings: neglect, mental health issues, emotional abuse/manipulation, suicidal ideation, mentions of abortion, severe depression Mood Spoilers: dark, sad, and frustrating Original Post: February 28, 2024 This was a very much planned pregnancy after dealing with infertility for a long time. However, despite dealing with "unexplained" infertility for so long, he always refused to get tested. He remained optimistic that we would get pregnant eventually. The thought of doing a semen analysis repulsed him so much it sent him into a downward spiral of self hatred and insecurity. Then, surprise! I got pregnant unassisted. This should be a really exciting time for us, but all of a sudden he doesn't want to be a dad. He says he wants a divorce so I can start over with someone else. He's already found a new place to live and is in the process of moving out. He won't speak to me. He won't answer any of my questions. I'm completely and utterly confused and heartbroken. Now, I know a lot of you will say he never wanted to be a dad. It sure seems that way. But he desperately wanted us to get pregnant when we were struggling. It was just the thought that something might be wrong with him that sent him into a spiral. I love my husband but he very clearly has some undiagnosed mental issues. He is not thinking/seeing clearly and some of the things he's been saying seem genuinely delusional. But he won't get help. He's stubborn as hell. You'd think he would know better because he's a doctor, but nope. He says he knows something is wrong with him but he doesn't care. He wants to disappear. I really, really want this baby. We're in our 30s and have been trying for so long. I'm afraid the stress of this will cause me to miscarry. That's probably what he wants. I don't understand why this is happening. How can you force someone to get help when he doesn't want to get better? How am I supposed to raise a child without him? I'm financially dependent on him because that was what we planned for. tl;dr My husband has gone off the deep end after finding out I'm pregnant and I don't know how to bring him back to reality and make him sane again. EDIT: After talking this through in the comments, it's becoming increasingly obvious to me that my husband is not mentally well. I didn't include his entire history in this post because I thought it best to keep it relevant to this specific situation. But he has had "episodes" like this before. I'm shocked it wasn't so obvious to me that something was wrong with him. I've suggested therapy in the past but he has had bad experiences and refuses to try again. Relevant Comments Commenter 1: Is there any one is his family or maybe a friend that he listens to? OOP: Maybe his mom? He talks to his dad the most but I don't think they ever touch on anything deep or emotional... I don't think he'll talk to anyone about this. When I asked how he will explain our divorce to his family and friends, he simply said that he just won't tell them because it is none of their business and they don't need to know. ??? He genuinely seems borderline delusional if he believes he can just quietly divorce me without anyone knowing. Commenter 2: Is it possible he thinks you cheated? I’m absolutely, 100% not saying you did, but I have seen it happen to couples who fall pregnant after having long term fertility trouble that don’t go the IVF route. OOP: I honestly don't even think the thought crossed his mind. He definitely would have accused me/asked me if he thought I cheated. Now that you bring it up, I'm actually surprised he doesn't think this. It would fit perfectly with the thought patterns he does share with me. Was OOP's husband diagnosed as sterile? Counseling might be helpful for him to deal with his health issues OOP: No he was never diagnosed as anything because he refused to get a semen analysis. We've had a chemical pregnancy before, so he knows he can get me pregnant. Throughout our entire infertility process, he was always extremely confident and optimistic that it would happen eventually. He thought it was unnecessary that we do any testing. I would love for him to go to counseling. He needs it. But he's been mistreated by the mental health industry before so he no longer trusts therapists.   My husband won't speak to me after finding out I'm pregnant.: March 3, 2024 (three days later) Most of the comments on my last post were so helpful. They helped me see things about my husband and marriage that I didn't see before but were so obvious. Some people suggested that his behavior was abusive. It's not. I now know that he's severely mentally ill. After that post, a few days later he came to me and told me he wanted to kill himself. He made sure I knew that he had no plans to actually kill himself, just that he really wanted to die. The next day I reported his behavior to his employer. I really wish I had done it anonymously because I felt that they didn't take me seriously at all. I got the impression that they thought I was a scorned ex trying to enact revenge? Anyway, I have no idea what came of it, but at least I did my duty in reporting it. Now that my eyes have been opened, I've noticed a lot more erratic behavior coming from him, and it's true that he should not be treating patients in his state of mind. Some of you suggested that he never truly wanted a baby. This couldn't be further from the truth. The majority of the time, he is such a normal, kind, husband and he would speak so fondly of our future family. I truly believe that that is the real and true him, and that the man spiraling out in front of me is not who my husband really is. Anyway, not much has changed. He's actually still living with me but sleeping on the couch. Actually, I don't think he's doing much sleeping. I hear him up at all hours of the night. One night he came into bed with me and just held me. But the next morning it was like it had never happened. He's still adamant about the divorce but somehow thinks we can do it without telling anyone or involving lawyers. He also wants to create a dating profile for me and set me up with someone else so that I "can see that I'd be much better off with someone other than him." I of course told him no. He will not listen to me when I tell him I want to be with him. He brushes me off and says I'm not thinking clearly. He refuses therapy or medication. He says he doesn't want to feel better. He doesn't care that he's irrational and depressed. He simply doesn't care. He just doesn't want to get better. I'm still pregnant, and he still wants nothing to do with it. I'm so afraid I'm going to lose this pregnancy due to stress. I'm currently 5w2d. The chances that I will miscarry are still high and I'm dreading the day I find out that I've lost everything, my husband and my baby. I don't know what I would do. EDIT: I am getting so god damn frustrated with people in the comments who are telling me I'm not doing enough because I'm unable to get my husband involuntarily committed to a hospital. I HAVE ZERO CONTROL OVER THIS. I have spoken to a police officer as well as someone from the suicide hotline. A person can not be committed unless they are an immediate threat to themselves or others. And it does not matter what I tell them. He has only told me that he wants to kill himself, not that he plans on doing it. And I will not lie to the police. Additionally, even if I did lie, they will still speak to him and take his statement into account. And if they do not believe he is an immediate threat, they cannot do anything. If you're just going to chastise me for "not doing enough" aka not involuntarily committing my husband to a hospital, then please don't comment because, and I cannot stress this enough: There aren't any scenarios where a wife has the authority to commit their spouse involuntarily to the hospital. I fucking checked. Relevant Comments Commenter 1: I think he is past the point of being able to make healthy decisions for himself, and needs to be seen by a doctor even if it is against his will. OOP: Unfortunately no one can be forced to see a doctor against their will unless they are actively a danger to themselves or others. He's allowed to have thoughts of wanting to kill himself. Intervention can only happen if he has given any indication that he will hurt himself. This is information given to me per the suicide hotline I chatted with the night he told me he wanted to kill himself. Commenter 2: OP, he really sounds like someone who is experiencing mania or psychosis. While these folks are generally not a danger to others, the fact that he wants to be dead and is erratic in his behavior tells me that it is possible he may attempt to harm himself in a moment of impulsivity. If his work won’t do anything, you may be able to call in a wellness check. Write down a list of the things you have heard him say and do. OOP: I spoke to the suicide hotline the night he told me he wanted to kill himself. I was told that technically anyone can call in a wellness check, but nothing can really be done unless he's an active threat to himself or others. If someone were to come do a wellness check on him, he knows exactly what to say to get them to back off. Commenter 3: Surely, there is a licensing board in your state you can report his behavior to? OOP: I guess I could do that. I'm not sure what I'd say. When I told his employer, they didn't really see the issue. They kind of made it seem like I shouldn't be airing out his dirty laundry, and told me that many doctors suffer from depression and that it's not a reason to keep them from practicing. When I tried to describe the unusual behavior, I think they interpreted it more as "marriage troubles." Commenter 4: Is it possible he had convinced himself he's infertile and thinks you cheated? Because this all spiraled with the pregnancy news. He is in a really bad place. OOP: No he's been spiraling somewhat prior to this. But not as severe and not for as long. This is just the worst episode. It was always short-lived and mild enough that I just wrote it off. He definitely doesn't think I cheated or else he would be talking about. Commenter 5: Any possibility of help from his family or friends? I know you told me his mom can be dismissive but he’s not sleeping and having suicidal thoughts. You can’t reason with him and doubt you can have him committed. I hope you are seeking outside support for yourself. OOP: I ended up calling his mom and telling her. (Not about the pregnancy though) She called him to see how he was doing and then texted me to tell me that "he seems fine."   Update on my husband who is in a mental health crisis: March 11, 2024 (eight days later) I hope it's okay for me to keep posting here. I don't really like any of the other relationship subreddits. I posted a couple weeks ago about my husband not speaking to me after finding out we were pregnant. This is very much a wanted, planned pregnancy. But the positive test results sent him into a mental health spiral of sorts. I wish I could say I have good updates, but I don't. Also, not much has changed. We're still living together in the same house. However, he has converted his office to his new bedroom. He mostly doesn't speak to me, but he has had moments of clarity where he acts normal and excited about the baby. However, it never lasts long because when I try to talk to him about getting help he just shuts down and goes back to his weird delusions. Sometimes he talks to me about how he wants me to move out. He wants me to go on dates and find someone else to be the father of our baby. He also suggested I get an abortion. He continues to tell me he wants to die, and thinks daily about killing himself. I've spoken to someone at the suicide hotline twice now, and have been told there's nothing I can do to force him to get help. The hospital/police will not commit him involuntarily just because he says he wants to kill himself. He has to have an actual plan to kill himself. I've seen glimpses of him in a normal state, so I know my husband is still in there. But he absolutely refuses to get help. He says he'd rather die than talk to a therapist. Says he doesn't deserve to feel better and that he just wants to fade away and disappear. My MIL won't help. I think she thinks I'm overreacting. I already contacted his employer and the medical board. No one seems to think there's an issue, and I'm starting to question whether I'm the insane one. I've looked into places I can stay and there's really no options other than staying in my home. If I leave, I may potentially forfeit the right to the house in the event of a divorce. I had my first prenatal appointment and everything looks fine. But it's still so early and with all the stress I'm under there's still a chance I'll miscarry. I really don't want to but I'm bracing for the worst. Relevant Comments Commenter 1: Have you seen a divorce attorney? I really think you should so you understand the process and what you can and cannot expect to get once divorced. I'm a facts based person, and I believe you can't go wrong knowing more about any situation. OOP: No, but I guess that might be my next step. Commenter 2: At this point, you need to put yourself first. This doesn't sound like a good or stable situation. I wouldn't even keep the baby if I were in your shoes. Good luck. OOP: This was a very wanted, and planned pregnancy. I am very pro-choice, but I can't justify myself getting an abortion for a baby that we tried for for literally years. Commenter 3: Any chance that your husband is faking it? It sounds like he’s not exhibiting this behavior at work, or with other people—just with you. Now, I have no idea his reason. Maybe he’s got a girlfriend and wants to drive you out? Of course I could be wrong, but my spider senses are tingling with this one. In any event, see a lawyer ASAP to make sure you know your rights and what you’re legally entitled to. Don’t believe anything your husband says in this (or any) regard. OOP: He's not. He admitted to me that he wishes he would get fired so he wouldn't have to quit. And apparently he has cut off contact with his family and friends. I was not aware of that before. Any chance that OOP's husband is in psychosis? OOP: I've never referred to him as being in a psychosis. I've called him delusional because the things he says about himself are delusional. He talks about how everyone hates him, he doesn't deserve to live, he's a worthless human being, etc. He wants to set me up with other men so that I can "see" how terrible and awful he is and how I can apparently do so much better. This kind of talk is delusional. He's also been recalling memories incorrectly. We had a happy marriage up until this point. He knows I love him and that I think he's more than good enough for me. But he's adamant that he's a piece of garbage and deserves to suffer. He says all of this as if it were fact, not his opinion. And when I try to say anything to counter it, he shuts it down. He cannot comprehend the fact that he is worth something. He is so sure that he is the worst human being on the planet. In reality, he has a loving wife, a fantastic fulfilling job, a supportive family, friends, hobbies, etc. We have no major life concerns such as illness, (unless you count this mental illness), debt, etc. He has every reason to believe that he is worth something and is very much loved, but he fully cannot even comprehend it. And something is different in his eyes when he speaks like this. I can't explain it, but it's not my husband.   Update on husband who became suicidal when I got pregnant: June 2, 2024 (almost three months later) Check my post history for the whole story. A lot has changed but at the same time, I feel like I'm in the same position as I was two months ago. I was never able to get my husband involuntarily committed for a psych evaluation. However, he eventually hit rock bottom and decided he needed help on his own. It happened shortly after the last time I posted, because he has been on medication for about two months now. We even found a therapist that he really likes, however, his schedule makes it literally impossible to go therapy on a regular basis. So he's only seen this therapist twice. I was literally so proud of him. He was proactive and committed. However, things really haven't gotten much better. He continues to be suicidal. In fact, he mentions killing himself a lot more frequently. The psychiatrist recently took him off the first medication and now he's trying a new one. I know it's a process to get the right combination/dose of medication before it really starts to work. I am exhausted. And not because of the pregnancy. But because I've become his caretaker and punching bag. Not literally. He's never been physically abusive and he has never really called me names. But sometimes when he is spiraling, he will push me away (figuratively) by saying things that he knows hurt me. He'll tell me to go be with someone else, to find a new dad for the baby. He'll accuse me of never loving him, and only using him so I could have a baby. He tries so hard to convince me to leave him, and I'm just so tired of it. It sounds selfish, but I can't take it. He has not stopped threatening to kill himself. I don't know what to do anymore. I know the baby feels everything that I feel, and that kills me. I am giving this poor child the worst start to its life. I should be experiencing joy and relaxation. Instead I am constantly in fight or flight mode. Anyway, I've made a plan in case I need it. I need him to be better before the baby comes. I have already met with a lawyer in case I decide I've had enough. I was able to get legal advice and now I have a lawyer on standby who already has all the information. But I feel like we're racing against the clock. I told him if he's not significantly better by the time the baby comes, I'm going to go visit my family and give birth there. Does that seem fair? I feel guilty about it because technically he is trying to get better and it could take awhile. He's doing everything he should be doing I guess. But I have to protect myself and I have to protect my baby, and having the baby in another state (and staying there, getting a job, etc) will make it much more difficult for him to get custody if it comes to that. Relevant Comments Commenter 1: Go to your family now. Tell him it’s not permanent, but he needs space to get better and you need to be off the emotional roller coaster because it isn’t good for the pregnancy. If he gets himself help, sees the therapist regularly, gets the meds dosed right, etc, you can always return to him once the baby is here. OOP: I can't. Going to my family in another state is like a very last last resort. I have pets here and I can't leave them. And I also can't bring them. I wouldn't have a room at my family's house. OOP's husband needs to seek inpatient treatment OOP: Inpatient treatment wouldn't work with his work schedule, and he can't take time off. I wish he would, because I agree it would probably be the best thing for him and could help get him stabilized. But he would have to completely redo a year of residency if he took that much time off of work. If he takes FMLA, he'll have to completely redo a year of his residency. He found a therapist he wants to work with so he's trying to figure out a way to make it work with his schedule but it's not going well. And yes his job is indeed that inflexible. And no, it is not good for his mental health. Medical residency is kinda infamous for that.   [AZ] I'm 8 months pregnant. What is the best/safest way to separate from my mentally ill husband?: September 16, 2024 (3.5 months later) Feel free to comb through my post history, but the gist of it is that my happy, stable, marriage fell apart when I got pregnant. Even though it was a very planned pregnancy, my husband had a complete personality change and has been struggling with his mental health. My ideal situation does not involve leaving him. I would much rather he get the help he needs. I have spent the past 8 months dedicating everything I have to helping him get better. He does see a psychiatrist on a semi-regular basis and has been prescribed anti-depressants. To my knowledge, he does take them. However, he remains passively suicidal and is adamant that I should leave him because he will be a bad father. He has never been physically violent other than one time where he cornered me in a room and wouldn't let me out while he screamed at me. I don't have proof of that, but I do have many, many texts of his emotional abuse and mental instability. Like I said, ideally I would like for him to get better but unless there is a legal way to force him to get help, I don't see that happening. He refuses therapy and repeatedly says he does not want to get better. So it seems my only option is to separate for the sake of my child. I need to raise my baby in a stable environment and I can't do that with him. He has stated that if I choose to leave him, he will still provide financially for the baby. BUT... I'm concerned that once he sees how much he will owe in child support and alimony, he will try to get 50/50 custody to avoid paying CS. And if he has custody, then it kind of defeats the whole purpose of me leaving him. My state defaults to 50/50 custody, and I have heard too many stories of women having to share custody with their abusive exes despite having proof of abuse, and sometimes even when their ex has been convicted of DV. I am extremely fearful that he will be able to convince the courts that he is stable. He has a good job (pediatrician) and a fantastic reputation in the community. People adore him. *I* adored him. But he isn't the same man I married and I'm scared. Legally, what would you recommend to a women in my situation? I have no local family or friends. I'd prefer not to move out of our home due to the fact that I'm 8 months pregnant, I have pets, and the nursery is already set up. I think I may be able to convince him to move out but after that, I'm not sure what my next step is. Relevant Comments OOP needs to consider the divorce and get full custody of her child OOP: I don't even want to divorce my husband, let alone take his child from him. What I want is for him to be mentally well enough to parent so that we can be a happy family. Separating him from the baby is a last resort and it has nothing to do with being "my side" of the story. His "side" of the story is him pretty much saying the same thing, and if you read my post thoroughly you'd see that. He has stated over and over (in text, so I have proof) that he is an unfit father, doesn't want the baby, and also doesn't want to get better mentally. My concern is that since he is not fully stable, he will suddenly change his mind (about wanting the baby) but still refuse to get treated for his mental illness. OOP responds to a comment regarding her husband putting the controls on their marriage OOP: You hesitate and have the child where you are, you are putting all the power in your unstable wealthy and from the sounds of it, emotionally abusive selfish and vindictive husbands hands. You have to rely on asking him to pretty please move out, pay child support, have no custody and get help. If he hasn't been willing to do that to save your marriage, he probably won't be doing it to ease your divorce. Ugh. You're so completely right. I hate this. But you worded this to be the exact wake up call I needed. Yes, my family lives in a good state for supporting mothers. But I'm too pregnant to fly there and it's on the other coast so road tripping would take probably over a week. I guess that's my only option though.   Update: July 13, 2025 (nearly 10 months later from the last update) 1 year update on husband 32M who became suicidal when I 31F got pregnant. What's next? I started using this account over 2 years ago to post about infertility. Eventually, my husband and I got pregnant after 2 years of trying. Unfortunately, immediately upon getting pregnant, he fell into a deep mental health spiral. Check my post history for details and context. There's a lot. Anyway, it's been many months since my baby was born and I've been doing a lot of reflecting. Towards the end of my pregnancy, I was planning on leaving my husband. It was clear he was severely mentally ill and dangerous to himself. I was trying to figure out a way to get out of the state so I could give birth far away. Unfortunately, I gave birth almost a month early unexpectedly. After my baby was born, my husband appeared to do a 180. It was like the bad stuff never even happened, and he hasn't had a single mental health episode since. It's like he just snapped out of it. He's been (mostly) the perfect dad ever since. And even though that was the best outcome I could have hoped for, this isn't a happy update. Being a mother, I now know what unconditional love is, and my husband never deserved mine. Even though he's "better" now, and that's all I thought I wanted, I cannot let go of my resentment. Every day I feel like I hate him more and more. What he put me through was abuse, plain and simple. And at the end, he got rewarded with the most perfect baby in the world. And now I'm just here, expected to be a perfect wife and mother like nothing ever happened. But it did happen. Even though I sometimes question whether the whole thing was some weird pregnancy-induced fever dream. (It wasn't. There's no plot twist here.) He's aware of my resentment towards him but he thinks it will go away in time. However, I've only found that it's gotten worse over time. Of course, he still refuses therapy. Couples therapy included. So I see no resolution here. I feel like I'm stuck. And yes, I know I only have myself to blame for not getting out in time, but alas, here we are. The way I see it, I have several options. I can divorce him. And most days, this is what I feel like I want. But then I really think about what divorce would mean, and it would mean my husband gets automatic 50/50 custody of our child. And that thought truly makes me sick to my stomach. I've met with a lawyer. Despite everything my husband put me through while I was pregnant, none of it is "enough" to take custody from him. In the state that I live in, even domestic abusers get automatic 50/50 custody unless there was abuse done to their children. Or I could stay. And try to stick it out for my son by trying to let go of my anger and resentment. But I don't know how to do that. How can I forgive a man who doesn't think he's done anything that needs to be forgiven? I've been doing therapy for myself, but my therapist keeps pushing my husband and I to do couples counseling which he refuses. I guess I just need help talking through my options with some neutral third party POVs. Thank you in advance for any advice you can give. tl;dr my husband became mentally ill and suicidal when I got pregnant. After I gave birth, he "snapped out of it" but I cannot let go of the resentment I feel towards him, and he doesn't seem to care about making amends. Relevant Comments OOP responds to a longer comment regarding the 50/50 custody in her state and marriage counseling OOP: My lawyer says we're in a very father friendly custody state. It's not just a starting point. He was trying to prepare me for what the eventual outcome would likely be. I did mention marriage counseling. I'm open to it but my husband refuses. Commenter 1: I wouldn’t leave my kid alone with a guy who is mentally ill and suicidal. Also he refuses therapy. OOP: Right. I don't want to. But the general consensus seems to be that I need to divorce him. I can't divorce him without conceding some amount of custody of my child to him. Commenter 2: I find it hard to believe that Dad would get 50-50 for a newborn. OOP: We're out of the newborn stage. We're closer to his first birthday. OOP on having another child with her husband OOP: I'm one and done. No more. Commenter 3: Is there any documentation of your husband's mental health struggles? Doctor's visits? Hospitalizations? Maybe even your dated reddit posts could serve as evidence. It's worth asking your lawyer. I'm not saying this because I think it would get you full custody, but it could maybe get you a custody evaluation, where a professional would take a closer look (my husband and his ex has an eval, and they both got full psych screenings) and maybe make therapy a requirement for 50-50 custody. Anyone who would refuse therapy after that kind of struggle is a selfish prick OOP: Just text messages and some voice memos I took of him while he was suicidal. My lawyer went through everything. He said it was damning evidence that my husband is a POS but not the kind of POS that a court would deny access to his child. Commenter 4: So, this shady (and not sure it will work), but can you visit family in a state you want to live and have support, and get a Driver’s license there with their address and maybe put a utility (internet bill) into your name to establish “residency”. Maybe even get a WFH job while there. Go back to your current residence, and get an exit plan in place. You purge stuff you don’t need, if possible get a storage unit and start putting stuff you don’t need currently in there, family treasures, etc. Just doing some decluttering and “Spring” cleaning, if questions are asked. Don’t forget your important personal documents (marriage certificate, birth certificates, SS cards). And when the opportunity presents itself, you haul ass out of there. Just an idea. Good luck. OOP: Per my lawyer, I can't do this as it would be considered kidnapping. I was advised to do it before the baby came, which was my plan but I was thwarted by his premature arrival.   DO NOT COMMENT IN LINKED POSTS OR MESSAGE OOPs – BoRU Rule #7 THIS IS A REPOST SUB - I AM NOT OOP submitted by /u/Choice_Evidence1983 to r/BestofRedditorUpdates [link] [comments]

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